Havdalah - Rabbi Yakov Zev Smith 5781

that's a logistical question but Lamesa that's a problem but the America continues my rather they said [Applause] they said that good now this of course sounds like but Rashi says but don't forget to make Abdullahi sit still adds ravasi heavy oil um he said now it's interesting it's the same concept with a different name like wise man to say two of the same stories so you notice there's a difference in the Lawson the first statement is omrena and we all said it the second statement is very possible is telling us not only does help but if I say it I can invite you all of you like a regular half dollar and indeed the rav and race says if not Shem don't know how to make tone of dollar there I want to make them dollar they don't have a marriage they don't know the news let a man say it and be Mighty to women this that learns a different shot and that basically is that la maisa you can't do until you make half dollars period and that's where the Riff says it you can't do any malach without I watched the second murder talking about it is so the way the Iran explains the question is what is it you have to say three Abdullah tomorrow says no one's enough that's all you need in only the long Abdullah why not dollars enough but like the Riff it's Clark with a tug it's awesome to do malacha before Abdullah now I was very tempted to say what's the old heck is enough and the Riff holds Yap Abdullah coys I was thinking it's masukash it the rift would hold that before you make half dollar there's some part of Shabbos remaining will soon see what but Shabbos remains Shabbos is completely over your life is over so why can't you do malacha when you get around to it that is theorem and the embassies I know you're wondering what I mean Shabbos remains is over that's what I would have said also but Isla Shabbos and seat cotton Verve the leverse in the end of race all seem to say that some part of Shabbos remains until you make Abdullah Allah it's awesome [Applause] foreign [Applause] [Music] and he learns later that the Riff holds that Shabbos is over but there's a special is you have to have Abdullah foreign this a little trace of Shabbos That Remains for that a heck is enough what I was thinking is and that's really what I but the point as we go Vita to apply it Lamesa the Mississippi brings that part of Shabbos remains and the little lady brings the lotion of Rashi there's a heck of Allah could be it's not really a stereo Shabbos is really over but for some reason khazal said don't do malacha before so the rib says that's so much of a reason that you need Rashi and many names say oh Shabbos is over you decide to end Shabbos okay that's your decision something you need as a hacker why hacker I'll tell you either Shabbos the first is after some Abdullah or it's like we said earlier before happening before because so for that a heck of album is enough but at the end of the day let's not forget this is like the rift no like Rashi yes how do we pass in this and the end of race Sadiq test is very clear that he passes like Rashi twice the bear a gorilla points out that is like Rashi you could do Malachi after Barham Abdul even without Shem um so basically this is Dominic Israel we have three have dollar alternatives of course but don't forget either is so indeed believe it or not it's the midst of Abdullah that's one Mitzvah this is which is not because the Shabbos and for that heck of helps before we apply this specifically La Mesa I must mentioned today is the base Joseph says before Abdullah that's true but only and he gives very interesting examples like we like Eric sewing or writing but I'd like his nails or carrying you're allowed to do without tabdola like an in between you can't do malacha before Abdullah but certain luck like Allah and I saw you allowed to foreign it's a question of before Abdullah for that the definition of Allah is different at that also asked this see he's first quotes to Zoya that's an oines not to do foreign about this until at least people don't know this but they gather the Zoya says and the boys can quote this try after mullah until they have to evolved let's see and it was the end of my Earth but then he says before Abdullah how do you have an air half dollar but if the first person maybe practically now I was thinking it had more abstract to it if we understand the whole is because of Abdullah so it's very logical you'll add a light and there have dollar before it's all the choice had it been hello Shabbos before Abdullah so you can't make acrylic but since the is because of Abdullah is definitely not a violation of this Allah okay so somebody showing him say it's like it's a very Stark collection but the embassy is if you understand that it's not Shabbos the is because of Abdullah then I could understand that if you're talking about there's no problem but Lamesa at the end of the day there are more in the end of racist says he quotes to Benny roach him and that's why La maisa we are careful not to do malacha until after some type of Abdullah and when I'm between various malaches but what's interesting is say that there is a cooler after barjoada foreign that's the beginning of a new day no if it's a new day that means it's no longer Friday it's Shabbos so let's use the same logic if you saying you're obviously changing location so that's enough of a heck of bomb that you are now changing location so now to return to original hakira it comes out beautiful it's hard to believe that malacha is because of Abdullah because really once it's this man and you decided to leave Shabbos it's no longer Shabbos so then we probably could say that the Abdullah Isis and therefore Abdullah is whether it's so now to apply this more specifically question that we began with someone Dave and Marvin sure instead of all the Sian he wants to drive home is that look at Hillary to drive home after a full package Myers the answer is it's the holidays light the Riff and the charity and see if cotton and Olive says foreign that's a real Abdullah and my NASA is just uh add it to the brother but even like Rashi Lam Isa burkham Abdul is a distinct form of hacker maybe more than Actor Antonio but what's interesting we spoke once about this question because I'm sorry for the tubus aleph says you should not have him you should have a mind not to be yoitza with kiddish or have Dollar in davening with a case of wine so we once asked we learned this the first time so now with the Kasha is not so sure because we could say you don't want to be yours in the Mitzvah of dollars but you do want it to be enough of a hacker so you could say it's but it's certainly enough of a hacker if it's enough of a hacker it can be a hecatement next question also obviously a very common question the husband comes home from school he ready he tells his wife no let's go get Abdullah ready so each of Sarah goes and once the light in there have dollar is that right the answer is that's wrong typically doesn't have a married there's no Abdullah batrilla and she didn't say she's violating Adin agamara the Kula Alma as before let's not forget you know the question is why that's that was here today but everybody agrees it's a gamara two place so the Issa generally has a problem they don't have a marriage even though it's interesting the Rob says that women should be careful just to get a dollar but that's not Dominic and I mean because we see this at the minute but an Easter that wants the life in there have dollar should not do it before half dollar or at least now of course we could defend the minig that maybe the Easter relies on I don't think you ever heard of any but there is but this is why the magana of ram in the end of race says you have to be dirish that women that didn't have a marriage before they do in fact the some have a minute I should mention that the always MacBook they have an error burning by the khazan's Ahmed and Shabbos you put bears but it burnt out they were light neighbors familiar after barjo a man now that's interesting because he's doing malacha so how can we justify that minute one or two reasons either they rely on the Benedict that narrus before anything or they rely on the bar who being the heck of armor like we saw in our but there's enough of a differentiation maybe that's at least like a burger and that would allow them to do Hadlock is before they abdullahs consider a question the person needs in middle of this already so the embassies can he says later if it won't work but the problem is now he's going to bench because he didn't bench yet can he say if he says so the Rob and Mr Brewer at the end of race time by gimbal has a suffix foreign now we wonder what's the Suffolk where it says what's the safik isn't it so maybe like we explained maybe Taka the fact that this is only a heck of an alma but you're not really making a full Abdullah maybe there's still a trace of Shabbos Abdul [Music] before he bets you lose everything I mean but say okay but certainly if someone could avoid saying that's better but if he did save it say he did say then he cannot say it would say in benching next question also a common question okay especially in yeshivas and camps they typically bench by solicitors with a coys no one drinks the Christ by salsudas they bring it to base marriages and they make up the Olympus Majors with that same case can you bring the choice from this right off the benching why not you're not carrying the problem is it's so if you look at the earlier Abbas if Cotton Club base he says that you can't do malacha before this knows he doesn't like the the the love is awesome but he says is Mother without anything and Mr Bruce Lawson is the day is over without anything now the guy talking about yomtive but the swara seems to be once the day is over here but once the day is over this man is over foreign the elephant Morgan see if he has an interesting aura that he is talking about on my sorry the women prepare the the suda for the say the night or for whatever whatever you want this Shabbos it's wrong without Baruch but the fee what we were saying it's not true it's not wrong as long as you're not doing well it's like Bissell or or afia is when this man already came we had a silencing style of those that don't dance on Shabbos is a dancing right before benching right after benching but if he has to this man already it's way you have to be with Thomas man so this side could be the same your sorry that we said earlier did not answer these swissim after this man and the biggest Raya as we'll soon see there's an Issa of over the Royal that's when this man comes Israel if you look in the rap and tough race half gimbal see if you're alive blowing shifer Ahmed on yamkeeper we do even though Kia Schaefer is a very serious system and yet the rap says the meaning is to do it and will soon see without Baruch why so the rap says these type of once this man came so this would explain why any Swiss like dancing and other type of system like that would be muttered to do after this man even without boroughham Abdul now I will say so why'd you just be a flummer and say so why is that from Imagine About the Cake The Voice is so I looked around and I I will soon see it seems Glory you should not say if someone knows a different meaning I'd like to hear it but what's interesting is that this one problem I had with this concept one issue their abundant that we are Mark bid even though this man came the magana of ramen in race in the beginning quote to you xiaomi that the reason why we stick in atano in the very first before we have anybody because you have to make Abdullah what's the problem and I had to do at that bottom before half dollar as long as after this man he says could be based on the rajban alephities that the Issa is because you might come to do malacha so that's Muhammad but your boy said that's the exception that's not the norm it seems that the basic is when this man came it's much to do those type of Israel based on a Maria and then hug him to fold a Talus ambatoya Shabbos the Morgan of ramen is quotes this minute questions when do you fold the talus before married after my after Abdullah so it makes sense that since folding a Talus if it's us is awesome I'll stick and Mona so that's very Malachi so you should really wait until after half dollar okay some have a minute to do it before half dollar I guess they relying that's also a good timate but I want to mention it's I guess it's the midst of the phariseism I saw I heard this and if time is at the same thing that today you know we know that you fold the Thousand School of Michelle and bias but today it doesn't seem to work because you have to have part two of the school after folding a Talus you fold up your shirt sleeves and you wash the dishes so then that's the complete school and that works guaranteed next question someone had a headache by City doesn't want to take pain relief because I'm Isis you know it's awesome can you take it after this man the answer is yes the answer is no you want to still say with Sam Benji you want to keep sadness I what's the helic once this man came the only yes someone told me he's in a hotel and they they ran out of hot water on Shabbos they had a very long late show this and also the serving hot water so yes the way they come from so he says well there was a waiter grab a fry another fight he knew that he knew this manner so right after this man he cooked hot water is there is some Isis Shabbos when a fry it cooked water after this man so the answer is even though he didn't say presumably but myself is if since a yet could do Melaka then this is over so without the rap sheeta it would not be awesome so at least nothing it could have handle question someone sitting by Charlotte through this relishing every moment of my in what says but another person already may have dollar he's Maranda can the person that's in full Sabbath gear ask someone that already made of dollar to mulaka for him so this sounds familiar isn't it the same like some of them made early Shabbos could ask someone could could someone did not make early Shabbos some of the main early Shabbos could ask someone who didn't and that as you know is a Big Mac lake is we pass in this motor so the same thing by the guy we have Master Shabbos the answer is no if you look at the lotion in the end of race is [Music] better than air Sabbath is beautiful because if I made early Shabbos for me it's Sabbath I can't ever like you know exit Shabbos but my sorry sham is even though I'm keeping extra shamvis I could say magical words so it's more posture that I could ask someone what's interesting is the leverse is one of those that I that I'm keeping exercises cannot ask my neighbor already made half dollar for me and his reason is because it's Phil Shabbos gimbal I don't know where the bush is coming from once this man came it's Shabbos is over it's like we said earlier because it seems that once this man came Shabbos is over you want to keep extra that's your personal Myla but that doesn't mean you can't ask someone else for you someone asked me a beautiful question he heard about we once mentioned this that somehow that is always kadai to push you off Shabbos as long as you can last night there was a mini Israel that first three Lightner Hanukkah and then you make half dollar why keep kadusha Shabbos ah you already said Abdullah inch Maestra but it's still a caduceus said he wants to he's in Yeshiva he wants to dive a merev and then he will learn for two hours and then I make half dollar I said what do you do why do that wanna be able to do Islam I want to keep Shabbos to extra hours so I said wait a minute we're gonna get the wine from if you have to break into the kitchen to steal the wine then it's not good he said no I have wine no problem see wants to keep Shabbos to extra hours so it's a beautiful art the question is if he's going to if he's going to write notes he's going to sit and learn he's gonna write so according to the Riff and how to resign him that's awesome so now it's a question of priorities light Rashi it's cool hey there if it's awesome so you have to know is it today you know it's a shame like the Riff and hybrid saying if it's wrong so the embassy is you'll say well maybe like you'll be rocking your ladder write notes because writing is but it's not true when you're welcome gives an example of a locker that's awesome writing so here you have to know a sense of priorities you know to do what's also like the Riff and other resigning a very intriguing question and something to really think about the because they get every single material Shabbos we learned and that's can I eat after Barham Abdul the answer is no I can't eat until I make up dollar proper my question is foreign so I'll answer the question with a different question also an intriguing question you now that I eat before a Mitzvah certainly but Tema is Mother a classic example many places they eat before hopefully they keep it down to taima but team but before there is motto so why can't I have a coffee before my Rev on Shabbos which is the four kiddish team is mostly foreign ever think of that question so the only answer is because there's a different issue eating before kids you look in the market of Roman Reigns he's cutting down it I've stand back explains it very nicely is not just before mitzvah part of covert service is the first achilla is only if the kidish part of kovitz Abbas is the first is only after half dollar I guess I can use the Los Angeles that Shabbos starts everything Shabbos ends everything so there's a special din don't eat before kiddish and don't eat before Abdullah foreign will not work for eating before half dollar and that the diet is the only has but why you know before Abdullah since Shabbos is over ready just you need a certain type of haircut enough is don't eat anything before kid is even water and don't do anything before have dollar and the heck of Alma will not help the this is basically will answer that big question someone had a long shot okay and it went beyond this man can he still say it would say in benching it's way after benue Thomas man already so for us we have two reasons why he could number one who cares if this man is over I want to keep Shabbos I could say it would say but the interesting thing is the police came in the end of course have a different reason basically even though this man is over but you ate on Shabbos they would say even though it's much later the fact is that that since you keeping Shabbos longer it still sharpness okay some have a minute that that that nothing nothing do not do Shabbos now there's nothing to do with Shabbos quotes this minute again but the embassies that there is such a minute that women don't okay if your wife has that minute fine but it's nothing to do with Travis because once you make up doll about the Shabbos is over grab that if you know if you need laundry done but some people you could do is tell the women to get the law and get the washroom ready everything is ready to go and you'll press the button like by like by um other times when there's a meaning of malacha the ick is depressing the button that's not part of this the most common question is when the nation are home then at davening and Yom tip goes into from Shabbos into Sunday pastor of the Shabbos and Sunday so we're in shul with but the women preparing for the say tonight so here we have a problem because again women typically don't have a marriage how could they start doing this and that's why the Mr Bruce [Music] but the end of the day the women have to be told um a challenging question I saw this Anisha forgot made the candle and half I didn't say this so let's freeze that scene she didn't make any Abdullah she made a broken holding an air okay she didn't like to know someone gave the name where do you go from here well you can't text you can't call a Rob half sick so it is a fascinating silent because quickly this is to light it might be Hill but then again you could rely on the Benny Russian that is not a hill because so questions like you know you'll say wait a minute maybe it's a Toyota like we make Goffin and we make everything else in between though half sick but the acne has is the text this is not the text to make this and then light maybe it's like feed the animals but have you ever been here that you're not alive without anything so why are you making a half sick so I found the seven acasi involved gimbals as a happy medium and then like the neighbors I was thinking after maybe the mere facts that um that means it's a new day so it's a hacker no less than barucho so maybe then with the fact that she's mahara believe would be enough but one thing I will say if she did say quickly this we can't say it's a half stick with the Abbott because it could be it's a soil before you lie to say Now setting the table um but the problem is cooking or lighting is a problem question they've never thought of but it's a good question is Tuesday on Wednesday let's say so you can't prepare on Tuesday for Wednesday what happens what do you have to do to start cooking on Tuesday night because it's Wednesday how do you shift gears from so the answer is you don't it automatically ends whatever this man is I is do you have to do something maybe better do nothing we don't miss Outland jump to say Nikita it's a different uh level yeah that's like a second class citizen we don't make enough though and I looked into this I said if it has to be somebody speak about it the buchacha mentions it an hour say a minute at the end you'll look at them and the Kenyan children someone wrote to them we should start making episodes and he says it was never done and we're not the first to do it but it could be the husband is out to zilzer moving on I told you earlier that Brahm says you're allowed to eat by the needless if it says to this man again it's not advisable it's not good for your uh you know your whole image people looking like a I got my sugar nap but the problem you do have besides the image is as Mr Brewer points out in the beginning of tough sardic Olive if you do eat hamets and you don't get bench then you can't say y'all of the oven I so I benched already so once you bench then can eat on a practical level writes in tough pay tests that Dominic is that we ensure where they still make Abdullah they have such Dominic Dominic is that have done which goes first half dollar or svira svira is 49 days a year half dollar is 52 plus so today says that Abdul should go first but then again if we say sphere first we are delaying Shabbos no longer and talking about says that if we first say srira and then Abdullah as much as we can now here can I bend soil what do you mean you ready but the answer is before there's still a trace of Shabbos and that's kadai another fascinating question so here we have a funny problem because you can't come to Sue with big day availas but then again you start admiring what when's the changeover so there is some community that they have a later says changing into this and you come to sue but there are more in tofu of noon gimbals Steve Bays records the meaning that you come to show with big day after butthole change into take off the shoes and you change into big day tissue buff ah like we said earlier the boy who is some type of a signal for a new day now basically those that don't do the mimic that most have of just making it like later Mario they hold how you had to push off availas if it's demand they have to keep this above but the minute that people have is they consider Shabbos place as a matter it goes and they is above clothing and you come to sue listen to a fascinating kippa Scandal say lamasive madurai the shots was davening a very long nail and some was getting very thirsty so he asked can I take a drink says no problem take a drink also drank water maybe it'd make the other fella feel good someone saw this kid but what's going on here foreign ah why can he eat obviously there is a four half dollar but he was the right but he said listen yet he didn't know better he thought it's wrong but he's wrong so please but there's a plan you allowed a drink Yom kippa before any form of Abdullah because this man is over foreign take a drink and that's the pastors of the POI scheme of this is foreign but I will say one thing if a person wants to drink before hearing Abdullah water with mutton and this could be negative for the women that are waiting for the husband to come home from sure but say I'm kept to make Abdullah they won't make their own Abdullah but they're very very thirsty we have a shalomashiv and other Paris came it's mutta without because once this man came the Tinus is over I eating it is this explains the minute Israel atominology it's Dominica many places that when the baltica blows the sheifa um if it's after this man he does not say we have the Rob and tough race and I could not find anybody says it seems that is the fact that it's not an Issa it's a Swiss and once this man is over you allowed to do vishwasen today is what goes first near Hanukkah or havdola and some pie skin is as long as you can Dominic Israel I think is first we make Abdullah and then the question is what's shot and those we showing him delaying Shadows foreign and then we light Daenerys what's the mile of that at least we push up push the Abdullah to keep up to keep the Shabbos a few extra minutes preparing and then that's what we do so I'm an essay but what about amits this how could you leave the chronicle if you have it already so that's not such a problem because if you have to make Abdullah first so it's going to be I'll miss this but I want to keep Shabbos as long as I can pour him as Dominic is and for those that make up Abdullah Ferris and tough very sad the gimmel you may have dollar after Magilla to keep Shabbos as long as you can again the same you saw it one more question I must mention someone asked me this recently and it's Heritage Throne he called the car service to take him from place to place I'm a toy Shabbos and he's certain that the car driver did not say did not say Abdullah has he know because he didn't yet make kids so he's being martial the driver and an isotherm of malacha before havdala what's the happen we spoke with mamas last week There's an isila so this could be a whole share for itself it's not going to be but I want to say one point if we understand that you can't do malaka before Abdullah because it's in Issa then it's takenable you can't call someone didn't make Abdullah but the way we explained it's not an Issa is since you didn't do half dollar the Abdullah makes the Issa so lie the light a thousand times on his Horizon there is no half dollar he's not making Abdullah so he's not going to delay the Allah Because of You Lie that is not have done now we're not sanctioning his lack of Abdullah but he's not making Abdullah so there's no Islam so someone says you know we should do at least like why does that work like good job but doesn't seem to sound right good work is a greeting so I told you know you really should do either a lion I care about I don't know like Rashi maybe or better yet tell the driver what about game with that you have a Camaro if you told him and he heard it and that's the last piece of art that works