Hataras Nedarim - A Practical Guide - Rabbi Zev Smith

is practical guide i have to give a very big to mr mrs israel newberger for exclusively sponsoring tereshire as a schools for a good commercial for claudius you retire at his 718-851-8651 for years was the first airbus hashanah half a day like this recommends does he have to imagine before he eats he once had a child of someone that for years did not eat before the kias and that year he happened to be weak right before the break he felt he needed to eat does he have to imagine that it's hard to get the thirsty dorm at this few minutes break people have a macbook to drink even water only in the sukkah and one year they find themselves in a mats if they want to change their mini so basically as we'll see this is a timely and a timeless subject we'll go through evidence and shabbos and weekdays and the fact that we say at our saddam tomorrow and once again on airbn kipper makes it a davide will try to basically give a practical guide to hattaras adam when it's needed and if it is needed how was it done so one thing i think we all know and that is the chroma of the isa of nadorum you know there are absolutely torah there's a homosexual about nadarum yerudeya hilco dharma spans from simon rage gimmel i don't remind you of the initiative it affects one's wife and one's children no doubt about it is a very severe type of issue i guess suffice to say what the mahabharata begins hilf is the dorm rage gimmel olive altea ruggle benidorm don't make nadorum someone makes a nerd even if he keeps it nico russia venice he gets a double smither like he's a russian russia is based on the amount of dharmachav bays hoyta is based on the term einstein in the even if one keeps his nether he's a fighter and a russia and that's why we don't make the durham period but one thing we have to realize that if a person makes another he has to keep it and it's not coincidental that we start the two holiest days of the year we start rosh hashanah with a tarzadaram air rush hashanah we start yam kippah with connie dre as a beginning of yemen because we know the shakodoshima what comes out of our mouths highlights this and and save dalit even by tsudaka when a person wants to pledge money for tadaka wonderful mitzvah but say belinada because when a person has anedder he gets involved with the serious islam the darwin taubasha laity them to i heard from a wonderful munich someone whenever he knows he might have made a pledge whether it's a pledge that said for an appeal he bought aliyah we made him when any he knows he might have had a pledge to give he will not make abdullah until he writes out the check or makes his commitment because you know you forget you'll do it later you'll do it later you know especially in this month uh we eden become uh always giving but we give so much and we pledge so much it's a wonderful idea make sure that you pledge make it you fulfill all of your pledges i should mention even if you say bully neder it doesn't mean there's no obligation a person that pledges money with the daca must give it blindeda only helps it takes away the reima the sting of another rav wasn't the truth it was asked by someone who wants to make macabre tiniest bolinada but maybe it has no meaning because there's been ada so he says that's true plinada means there's no neda but a cabal is certainly very powerful and he quotes abayashiv that says and they think if you say bulinda there's no obligation to keep it a yeast void is available the additional of nether you could withhold by saying belined so basically we know that we don't make nadarum and because of the claim of it but now the question is that it's all very nice what does that us this person fasted ever sushana for a few years he didn't make an edder he didn't say a word he just did a minik type a person that doesn't drink even water out of the circle he didn't make a neda who said if i do something it becomes an adam where do you see that so indeed the the suggy of the dharam is with a lotion of another and we don't have a lost in the venetta so our sugi today is not a real nether where did we get it from so what might be a source is the dharam dashes a person is inspired by the siam ashas or by eseem or by his friend whatever it is and he was oh i'm gonna join i would like to learn the next maserta beautiful but you just locked yourself in that is a neder ne de godo nodole que isro and this is quoted in sukhana regislam but has in our high end seed base he has a set amount to learn every day and one day he was very very busy he was almost an anus says don't wait till tomorrow right now as soon as you you have a moment even at night make sure you make up your videos eat them i i'll do it tomorrow it's up to you mr bruno tomorrow is not today you haven't here to learn today you couldn't do it maybe your child want to patriot but you have another and the mr bureau and steve cotton hey quotes our gemara ned god another okay israel so you have another to learn on tuesday it's not gonna help to learn wednesday morning you have to make up for tuesday say mr bureau cautions once you made that cabal you have to keep it you should have said glen edda in the beginning but if you didn't even a caballo to learn is a nether and this is something that we must mention a person that makes a cabal a verbal acceptance even if he doesn't use larson of another nether goddamn not the lady israel now this is all true but the question is our sugiya doesn't seem to be from that gemara because allah suggests a person for three years had an amino toy wonderful he didn't he didn't say it he didn't say i will fast for forward the gemara that says that ned the god another israel because he said ask him the action the pair exam at least there was some verbal commitment where do we see just actions alone [Music] and some people have a minute not to do it you can't permit them to do it unless you're martined why because of the iss of ayachal devari he's profaning his nether kumar does say right before that that this is what that means but basically we see from this gemara it's a perfectly mutha action but if you didn't do it it becomes for you and adam and this is highlighted by the rosh in the durham peric bay's sim and dalit and more barriches ruttenberg in the chubus prague decay that goes quotes it that someone had a minute and again the word is minik is important not to eat meat or not to drink wine in certain days or someone fasted during a serious suva or bahab and now he brought and now he's getting old that he can't fast bahab any longer he has to be martined and then there are his miami heirs which is important when he decided to first behave when he was a young man he wanted to do it forever and after pam ahas so here we see the second type of neder besides the the rice and edda of divorum besides verbally this gemara is saying if he was had a minute to do something and he did it it becomes another and he says if someone did something even once it's another and he has the martinez don't forget when you want to start a new minig toys say ballinada otherwise you have a nether on your hand so here we see na tugemarus one gemara about a person that makes a verbal commitment and then even if you didn't do it at all but you made a commitment you have to keep it and then we have based on the gemaran daftazv he thinks of doing it and he did it once he has to keep it now this new type of neder is not at the riser because he didn't use the hillchrist nadarim and that's probably why the murderer calls it by jachel durabonnen if someone thought of doing something and did it once means it's not the real thing so we're comfortable to say and i saw this in many place kim that this new type of neder would you call a minik toy that he was either a kabul or he decided to do it is an issa de rabana not a nether derisive there's some he says even if it's but if if you eat them from a kabul to do it and you make able to do it it becomes a minig and a meaning is neither the right sir because you did it so i'm saying the sheet seems to be that a minik toy becomes an editoriser and of course the later ukrainian wonder is that connected to kimura it is no doubt now what you're probably wondering i was also when i started learning the sugia i saw so far i see a few possibilities a person that makes another ice which we don't do so we're not going to mention that a person that makes a verbal commitment i will learn this new maser and someone that thought of doing it and did it once where do we see doing something three times it's not in the meshing it's not on shukhan he thought of doing it and he did it once but what is three times where did that come in so the embassy it's taking that in the later and i saw the wonderful safety call ninja has a whole collection but amongst them the premier got them the rabb the kitsara khashoggi all assumed for the other party that there's a new category if you thought of doing something i did it once that's another drop on them but let's say you didn't think of anything you decide oh you know it's a good idea i heard someone else's like how fast air versus airbus hashana and you did it for three years in a row without any commitment even a mental decision if you did something three times it becomes your minute where's the number three come from so that we know there's a kazakh three times muay allah three times three times make something clear and that's what all the pies can seem to assume so regarding the net that there are born on like we just said either a verbal commitment that itself is mahayana a mental decision with doing it once that's the sugar that's the residue and doing something three times is an automatic meaning type that becomes your nether therapon now one thing we could say there are many nafkaminers between the net of their eyes and as they're aborted i'll tell you one for now let's say a person has a suffix he's not sure if he did it three times or only twice and he wants to change the minute so we'll and possibly think oh now the is the rice's make the rice legume true but in this context it's only a minictoid so sophic minictoid at moses suffolk the rabonan and swaka drabon on he develops this idea that it's only a drabonam swaka or the cooler so now we have berkeley a pretty good idea let us apply this to myself so let me tell you two shells both of them amazing a clearly younger man was very inspired and he decided he didn't say anything but he decided to dive in the second after a few days he realized the seeking is precious but it's staring his star because he's not well rested he's tied he can't go to sleep at night and until late then wakes up early so it's it's it's tiring him out for the rest of the day of learning or someone had a was metabolic and it disturbs his soul and bias his wife is not happy with him and in other words it's a neda durabonan a real kabbalah but interferes with either the var mitzvah or shaolin bias so i'm going to share with you a fascinating chuva the amalu blind with the rev of leblind and crooker in similar medal has the following shiloh a few people made what i call a tillam club i know a better word for it but they decided they have to get up early and come to schule and say tell them but zebra and whether missus has to pay a canas this went on for a few weeks and no one missed then when the during the winter one person started missing and they asked them where you got to pay canas he said i can't come to the did they tell him anymore why because he had an old minig which graduate is brought in cafe he was mad but to come to wearing talos and children now he always was able to come to seoul and say tell him with thousand film when he came to winter so then this man of talis and fill in when he when he went to the tillums it was too early to put on thousands villain so now he realized that the meaning of saying tell him with the seabourn he's giving up the the precious meaning of the zoya of coming to 2000 villain and they wanted to make the canas and he said what should i do i can't give up my minute so the ram lublin quotes a gemara it's a mishna the dharmdav days that a person asked his wife to have her nob because she stole his money okay i sound like an interesting show and buy his issue but anyhow and it was a false assumption it wasn't her someone else did it so even though he made a nether derisa but that's called an advertise it was it was in a false pretense and this quote in such like a day seafood if he was makable to do something thinking it's an issa goddale and then he found that only an issa caught on i don't know how to quantify you know mitzvah daily what does that mean which mitzvah big or small but he realized that it's not as big as he thought that's also a toys so there's a concept of me of neda but toys even nether there isa is them the nether is null and void so the imam rambo blin applies that to this case as well he was the kabul dominican saying tell him because he felt it's a wonderful you know harmless minigun but if interferes with the different allah so it's considered another betrayers and there's no canaan there's no nether that's what he says now the truth is this is an interesting application because this it's not a sphero to say till him and to come in thousands of villains just sometimes the year can't do it so why he calls it a ned the toy that's that's going too far because it's not a toyota itself it's just his particular you know interest that he had of coming to school like thousands villain it's so made an ed did not to get his wife could happen to hunt off the custom and it was based on a false assumption that's a dominic toys that's an advertise but we definitely see that this is something to be martinez he's a lot of imaginative because he didn't know that this would interfere with the different mitzvah then i saw a really beautiful chuva and it's something i always wondered about we had there are stories galore of gadaily israel that had a certain meaning but when interfered with someone else when it was they abandoned their munich and which child doesn't know if so salaam this story he came to eat by his talmud's house and he came to wash the infant bread he washed with a minimal amount of water so the thomas is ready we're supposed to wash a lot of water it's a school of fashions it's a gemaras because of course in my own house but here who's slapping the water the poor maid so agutaviano's husband i'm going to wash her and she has to slap the water no way i see he gave up his minik but once he had a crush of a guest and he felt he had to give him the rocks and he ate along with the with the ira out beautiful titkis question is you're giving up your meaning and gimbal based on a prehadash in tough times he says a minute that has a sir that might have repercussions is not a minute because it mean like a minute twice so the felt and there's lanta felt in this case their minig backfired now i don't think he means to say and the minute was bottle me karaki illy hoya there's no reason to say that it's probably an allowance that the midnight remains but when it interferes with someone you're allowed to temporarily suspend dominic but it's it's it's hard to believe that that the minig is totally bottle i mean even when it interferes with the mitzvah you have to imagine so probably they were understanding that in this case because it's only once you know the mountain headlight will soon see but what was really interesting and to me was music tower is the morning brock is that vulva bay is a very frightening gemara color ruggiel please note that word color raw girl lover of the base of knesset volleyball you're he always comes and one day he's not there the branch term asks where is he and if he didn't come because of advan mitzvah he's okay if hassan there's no excuse me i don't attach that but it's not good so something that civ in this parish on broadcast other what's the initiative he doesn't come i mean they should have he he was doing good every day and today he was a he's slacking off why is he punished so the native says it's beautiful khala ragil is the same word like in in the recitament about arrogance allah this fellow came every day so he did it three times so he has the nether to come to show and if he didn't come he's been with his nether that's no good but such a ned there is only that button and therefore makkah mitzvah it's not a violation of them so therefore if advai mitzvah is a good excuse no problem and then he spells out that to us his mom is massive of course by annette the riser you can't say i'm doing a mitzvah so my nether i'm just ignoring it nevertheless you can't do that but since his only minik type is only another bond on mitzvah you're okay so we see a second after meeting between another derisa and a nether there a bonus we also see this important precious concept of an advertise a person that who's minik type or stares someone else that minik is not a minute or is a lot of violated at least in that time i'll give you a martial as sabares or aizen if someone faints in shul on shabbos so you want to call that solo do you have to first be mata neda because you'd be mahalo shabbos i mean i've been keeping shabbos so all these years so we can say you have to come on to that you know you have to do what you have to do this is this is built into the system and when when it causes anguish to someone else well in the case we mentioned his wife does not like the neda or he's ruining his whole learning because of the seeking minion so according to muhammadu blin he wouldn't need a thirsted arm the magnum would say but certainly we understand that that's a wonderful person you know just to put a closure to this part of the suggest used to come to this year by the old square but he was once diving there was a yum div and it was a day that in that in square they don't sink cocaine but the baltimore was unaware of that and they started singing hayley and they were sure the rebel would protest because square mini square is kurdish with kurdish guitar and he didn't protest so someone asked the rebel muslim minisquare he said mini square is this fashion naid well guess what that's mini cla israel not just minix square you know a person has to have sexual a medic that hurts someone or disturbs someone embarrasses someone is not mini gistra so that's basically one clause of our suggest if it's makhable either in verado or a mitzvah and we'll soon see if it's only doing it this once then there's a definitely a different heter not to make it there's a dharmakula alma what is included in minig is a very good question you know someone there's always macbook to have a slice of halle after pesach and this year it's friday the face is over he couldn't do it does he have to martinez you know we call something miniktaiv so how do you know really give a right definition so i'll tell you something i'm afraid to say but it's important he says people that are demanding only to eat matzah that shmura that is a milcia sarsa that's an unnecessary minig that's an indian and you could change the meaning without a thirst the dorm you know we don't can't even find matsupsuta at least in in in in home in handmade matzah today and he calls that milcia sarasa doesn't he go into a minik toy so this lotion is interesting there's something called the says so like just an extra credit inion you don't need thirstadar but of course this is not applicable to us but what's the secret so like it's possible this lived in betrayal in egypt we have to come as the posix says the parish is achieved it doesn't rain certainly when this matter cuts there in in egypt if there was no rain so there's no concern of kasira it didn't rain anyhow but it's dr marshall in our countries that it does rain throughout the year so smoother is a milder daylight it's definitely a minik type if not more but definitely what we see from this preheat is this lotion amil seo is something it's not even a minute in other words there's a issa there's a minik toy like we said to to say tell him and these type of things and then there's something it's not even mclaren it's an indian what else is a milciosarism so it's hard to find but i did look to i found the arch and i want to mention is a wonderful contribution to dharam but it's not printed in the standard prince of you look for it you won't find it it was printed just about probably around 40 years ago it's writing but it wasn't printed in the regular set it was printed in in the early tough shin lamids so it's a separate volume a very pretty big volume it's the hill but it's there and raised to dallas gimmel he says there are certain things don't have the status even of a minute for example certain foods like he says you know la marshal the person that always ate potato cocoa every every shabbos it's not his muscle it's and one shop is he didn't have a chance to make it better cookies no but then he gives another example besides foods he says standing by parts of davening then you have to stand only by shimanesuru he says that if you want to change the mig you don't have thirsted because standing versus sitting is like not even a mini tight anita thurstodor now we'll soon see that's a big hit because well i'll show you their placement whole standing verse sitting is at least the menik type but although he doesn't use this loss and milsi is but he does have this category foods and standing like is not even minig and you had to change it without a torah whatsoever now if you ask me how do i what's the exact definition of milcia serissa so i'll tell you the stipula in kreiner the igor sir al of kuflam hey he says gamala d delay brealy what does that mean how do you differentiate between a naga typo or a minik type so if this typo doesn't know i could say i don't know but i think we have a little bit cycle certain things that are basically just inyonim especially in food you know seasonal foods hashanah roundhouse and i'm minimizing khalil any of these manhattan torah but it doesn't have the status of a minik type that could turn to be turned into another that seems to be comfortable with and probably the the should also agree to that so basically we have mini toy there's a certain clause to something that's a little lower than that that's an indian toy but the big question which really we have to really address seriously especially this time of the year is why are we working so hard figuring out about a thirst of durham we made last year airbus shanna we are moist to my daughter annie minnick if you remember the last time i mean mavato me canelo had bought and we said it in no uncertain terms but tail move with tallinn likes river like kyomi like holland clown i say anything i do in the coming year nether minute extremely mom is all inclusive as can be is the tale of the movie talent we did it ever susana we did it again in a different nusar by carl nidre and now we're wondering in srata you have a manic toy i have an editor what's your problem you pre-empted the problem by vim avatar before it came about so what's your problem so to make the question even more pressing the mysterious maidah is not a modern invention it's a gemara the dharmhav gimbal amid days with igmar obviously is focused and concerned about the terrible haima of the darim maharaja and please note the door of here means a real nether he's worried that he might make another what should he do yeah might be rush hashanah now of course your son and this country does not mean daft rosh hashanah it means the beginning of the year we do it every single airbnb but he should get up at the beginning of the year leader yeah bottle so the gemara already recommends making this mysterious maidan so if it works for a full-fledged nether daraisa it certainly works for what we said at part of the tarsadarium that whatever i did three times last night a nugget but if you ask that question it's a good question but you probably stopped the middle of the gemara because the next words in the gemara ub this works this works in other words like this let's let's try to figure out this person he seems to be a little incoherent he got up beginning of the year and he made a mysterious maid excellent then he made another so rabbit where you holding what's you know what do you want make up your mind so that's been more concerned about if you made a mysterious my dog in the beginning of the year it's great but when you made another later on in the year obviously you want the neda to override the mysterious madone if you forgot the mysterious my dog but you really really don't want to make a darn but you're an impulsive person and you just do things without thinking then you could fall back to mysterious made-up but if you didn't forget so then you made a mysterious maidah very good but now aside from the battle diva i'll say but you you're overriding you're mysterious maidub zakhtaran so your myself today it uproots what you did beginning of the year in other words like we say i know all about it but i'm making another so then when he knows about the mysterious maidah then the ned is hell comes again marie vale in chuba simmon bays and that's why i never saw rabonim that reliant on the the call nigeria mysterious maidan i wanted to tell you historically called nidre was way before we do er called idris mccarran zoya and the the what we do have hashanah the nusrah is based on ashlar carthage but it was much later in history so in the early achievement he was focusing on the call nigeria why don't we rely on condition and today we could also just want to rely on er sushanna he says they don't rely on it because the gemara says that um we can't rely on it now he doesn't explain exactly why he says only be the evident you could but there's no doubt about it that is concerned about this clause because if you made them serious and you made another you might override the mysterious maidon but what i did see more mafurish and there's a later true with marit in the end of simon nun gimmel he says i'm very hesitant to be makel based on a tourist on the right afterwards says even though mysterious my dough works but don't publicize don't make it into a thing everybody knows about why is off the gemara because it's like spinadorium in other words what you're doing is you're making dharma the one big joke neda talking about even though there are nether up on them so we say just get up and say here you hear me dharma nullivoid and you make the dharm left and right so the gemara says even though it works don't publicize it dr marit maybe that's the reason why gaddafi didn't rely on it because you're making the dharm into a joke and then he says and maybe that's the mini gestural after we go through the whole process of saying call nidre which is a form of a serious maidah you know what pastor we aired then because we need machila because we made a pub publicized a terrorist nadar the the concept of mysterious maidah so now we see two reasons why we don't rely on the serious maidah number one more often than not we remember the mysterious maidah so now the nether that we make overrides the mysterious maidah and number two the maritz edition which is very logical this might be a form of colors right we're making a a relying on a mysterious my daughter the mother says not to and that's probably why there are more in reissued aleph seed base where the mahaba speaks about the serious maidah but the rama says that on call nidrae really works but says the meaning israel is not to rely on the mysterious maid of air vm kipper accepted sarah goddard i would imagine he's going with both reasons first we might remember the mysterious maidah and number two of this carlos race now again the ramos talking about call nidre but the same applies to airbrushes comes again raised should aleph and he says a very powerful usaid and this has in your day also is pre recently recently printed in the standard semesters that now is printed on yeredaya and they both say the same usaid basically the rama does give allowance is washing is sorry of god that's rely on the mysterious maidah in our times even the toyota of godot you can't rely on call nidre very emotionally which yid forgets call nidre says the whole night is called kandidre knight there's a special negan for it and he says this is something that's done the call towards his israel he later adds that from the earlier prize game we see khalniger was a minute some had but today it's a universal meaning and the whole avira of yamkippa is the call nidre which yid forgets call nitrate so today since no yid forgets kal nidrein it's like no he had forgot the mysterious maidua and therefore the fact that he made an edda he wants to uproot the cone they call nijre and therefore there's not even a smear called who to rely on the call nidre that we say every er vm kipple the sasemas had comes from a different angle and he says perhaps different canadians but the same conclusion if someone gets up on a random tools like the gemara and says i'm oyster my dog so then we could say at least we we see he wants the moisture he wants to make him a serious my dog because he on his own initially made him serious my dog but he doesn't have an option i should i say call nigeria it's not optional you're embarrassed or not to call me drink so you don't even see any movement that he wants him moist to my dog so as long as here's my dog so why are we saying it so he says it's it's phil alpisoid can you do it as much say this in the call nidre but nothing to do with the personal mysterious maidah so both the fascemas and the the there is one way that we could salvage at least some of this and here i'm going to tell you a golden average abstract almond writes in a chuva but many good israel will come to the same year let's rethink this let's say i on a on a regular uh i started doing a munich type okay then i decided i can't do it anymore i go to my friend he goes oh you have to have to have martinez i didn't make another you don't know you did three times it's another really i never heard of that sorry it's another gotta go to rabbi martinez sutherland zalman what's takadip shot why taka do we say that you can't rely on the mysterious maidua because you went ahead and you made another so we see you made a commitment to do something are you a moisture my dog my diva was my boss my mysterious my dog here i did nothing of the sort i'm an innocent person that from my minute you created another and you gave me this course of having an ed i never heard of this before so my mysterious my door is unchallenged nothing changed sort of salmon when you make a commitment so you want to override the mysterious my dog when i did nothing of the sword i had a minik toy where do you see him overriding my mysterious my dog even if you make him another out of it but i i preempt that mysteriously he says this argument and basically in the little more developed in my adam aleph test he said he present this to baron kotler who wholeheartedly agreed to it the samba simulation aleph as the marsham and the rationale of base and other poison i saw the styplum the khazanesh all say that this is a very logical argument the mysterious maidah is uprooted by some type of commitment not by a created from action so if the person made a verbal commitment that overrides them serious may doubt but in many times we could rely on the original mysterious marriage that we did iterate twice in the in the beginning of the year now the truth is after all of this upside-down is quoted as saying la maison dominica is imaginary even that why so i think it's because we also have the element of callous rice we don't play around with the dharm and takaravasana says even though it's a good svara he said he says but we don't rely on the mysterious medulla it shouldn't be a callous race so basically we could say the following if someone made him a serious my dog and it's only a minik toy as if almost stressed me ikkit din he doesn't need a thirst arm because you could rely on me serious my dog but the minute is to make a tar saddam now to combine that with yet one more smaller before we apply this more specifically and this fire gives us a lot more leeway so to speak here's the next question muhammad says if i made a minik type i was going to couple something and i want to change i'm good because he's not healthy the person's not healthy he asked him that's raised you down let's see if aleph yet has the following some of my cable to fast bahab or seriously another is a self-imposed highness and now he has a bris mila on bahab so the rama says mitzva if someone's sick he wants to change the mirror if someone wants to eat by a brisk not the original minig was too fast when i don't have a mitzvah when i have a a pigeon a band a bris or see him there's no such meaning so therefore i'm a violin ramenic but some of them made a mimic whatever the minute was dominic is a minik type just now he's either sick or he's getting old and he can't do it oh you want to change your minik is it built into the minig allowance or not which of course is a bikram because generally we're going to say you want to change a minute because the person's not healthy yes who disappears on the page he says the shah is a big deutsche and i think i know why because if a person is thinking in the future and leaving out the maca mitzvah so why is he leaving album highly the person knows he's not going to be healthy you know you're not going to hopefully he'll be healthy forever but he gets older the critical difference is do you want to change your meaning or temporarily suspend it and i'll explain you the fellow that may has a minute to face behave wants to continue first in the hub but this monday as a bris he's not changing his he's overlooking it for today oh you're not changing a minute so you're not doing anything wrong there's nothing wrong with once overlooking a minute if you have a reason for it but in the shine and he got old and sick and he wants to change his mind no more bahab or no more fasting ever hashanah that's permanently changing a minute oh that's that's it so changing once is okay changing forever is the problem now the shock obviously held what do you mean changing once i mean being violating once is bad enough that's changing it but then i be who the hell that's not permanently changing many playskim i have a whole list but you could trust in many places accepted the yehuda's premise that only once is not a is because you're not changing it says they're both true he says if you can't be when you want to change it only once you could definitely rely on the noit so now we see two major factors before we approach number one we have absolutely almonds that essentially is true minik toive does not need hatarsadharm because you didn't verbalize yaminic and we have the second hetero missing only once according to the doughnut does not need a tar saddam now hopefully the rest should be simple our person that has a brisk tomorrow he's been fasting fears therefore so we could tell him to hate the holiday is light the darkness only once if you have a bris during your self-imposed hyenas that drama says and no one argues so this person or any person loved africa he happened to be the aviation but any person that has a brisk tomorrow and he wants to eat could eat without a thousand dollars i mean your mice you're losing the schools of faith hashanah but the mriburu says this loved africa is if you have a bris on a self-imposed tightness as opposed to uh same guitar or the like it's muthu without hattara someone has admitted not to eat before takiyas and punk dad this yeah he felt swag so late tonight he's okay like if she's almost itching to din if he didn't make a he didn't verbalize that minute he could eat without a torah but we told him if you could be mataned to get together best in right before the kid is fine if he can't we have the shahrazian's additional swara that if you can't be mataneda it's only this once and next you'll be healthy and you can keep dominic a person there's always macbeth yom kippah he doesn't wear sneakers or cracks with oshitas from safer like that only to wear thin slippers that you feel the ground and one he's having a different shoe and it's a half hour walk and it can be very difficult to walk you know slapping his galactus or his thin slippers same thing it's a minik type that he did three times you have islam as almonds ichidaden you also have the the this side of the revolver if he knows before him kepler he's going to have to go down that shoulder and it could be martinez about that's better but we have these suddenly mako a person always stood the muscle the entire muslim rosh hashanah or kippa davening as his brother and we shine him and this year he feels a little weak so there's no problem with that that's the messiah seriously but i want to mention the marijuana about standing on yem kippum it's a minute that really is based on a piriko double ezra like we're like malachim and he says if you want to change your minig or change it even partially with this according to the would have to be mataneda so again i see a little bit of friction regarding is it cross the board standing verse sitting is mutter hard to say the khaladelas if someone always stood by laning in khazar and one year he wants to change or change the medic permanently probably but i think we could say that light marie val this is not a syrian not so simple could be talking about like he says and azir that since there is shining whole the only key to stand is for shamanism so that's not a din but and laning which in serious but a minute like that a person wants to change permanently i certainly would advise him to be martinetta a person had a minute always to even drink water in the sukkah and he finds off in a difficult situation so again we have replayed the salmon decide if he didn't verbalize that kabbalah it's only once and if he's stuck somebody's uh out of town or at work and he can be mataneda you also have the dogma revolvers you said to be saying it the famous you say for the entire family even katanam and noshim very good versailles ah that's very beautiful because that's a mini toy that you have to taka keep if you want to do it do it but say bolinada pesach is a yomtiva minhagem avada most of the minhoge pesach are considered real men hugging if you want to change it you have to martinez it's a mini toys and i mean the knobble has plenty of tambouria but not dominic he felt the munich toys but others defend dominic it is a mini but basically manhattan israel pesach are kadooshim and you want to change it there should be a terrorist adorn someone always stayed up through his night and one year he's weak he can't stay up so it's the same thing it's a minik type if you didn't verbalize it you have both suddenly makel if you can't be martined a tricky question someone was always makbit to go to mikveh let's say shabbos morning surf is kadusa could be patriots are different but hey this is the shout out they asked for bosnia and he found himself in a situation the only way he could do a child this morning if he has a guy do a certain malach of him and he wants to rely on amir al-aqm who was of course very sensitive to mikvah he said but i think your husband is wrong because like douglas revolver you don't need you don't need to go to bigfoot this morning because it's only once so now that it's not even even not even a minute for you in this case what's the justification to be over on amir al-aqm even it's only the abundant so you have to take the big picture that if something that is takamuto only wants it doesn't justify or legitimize a person always dive into the seeking and he went out of town he can't find dominion so the poison says so sam explained what what's the shot give it to the pace parrot says the second is in a certain by some party kim is equal to philippa zebra but this person has another reason compelling him to decree this because since life is another and if it's a nether he has to die from the second so the fact that the seeking is powerful and another that outweighs the govaldigam myla of trilobitsibur a person has the martial other things either he always governs with the garter dart guard there's at least a minute tied by statins and and one day there's no gareth led's his last minion does he have to run through martinez and he finally gets him out the net that he's going to miss his minecraft so again you have douglas that one time is not violating this he's mocked but it's a beautiful minute not to talk which filling and one day his father comes to him where'd you put the keys to the car uh so then he said he's his father will probably you know faint from from paca you know i got to go to work with the keys so that's a wonderful minute not to talk with children but here we have both forests it's it's one time and it's baka mitzvah and you also have the swara of aminotype so bobby could talk with a tourist nadar the last group of questions are hopefully i should be easier and that is what are the practical do's and don'ts of mater so to reduce it all into one simple question is a thirsted dorm is it a real din that has to have been you have to have three people to know what they're doing and you can't do it at night and and we'll see other so this is easy this is a gemara in the dark in in the morning they're abusive thought that hatarasador was a regular din but it's not true because i feel um um you're allowed to say it standing i feel the cry of him even relatives i feel the balayala you're allowed to do i thought the daughter because it's not a real thin toy room so in amazon a line the gemara dispels all of our concerns you're allowed to do it at night you're allowed to use crave him you allowed to be standing din has to be sitting and taking because it's not a real actual dintaro now therefore people could do it at night and basically you could use crave him in other words our father could get three of his sons and others so even though the best did not crave him and the craving to the person that's me them it's all fine now we many people are mocked but have called me that's not so much because of the lila but that's because we tried to do it before you humped it because you only met the nether on shabbos if it's ef so some schools make the condition still before skia many shows don't because the once it's part of the trilla it's considered but there's no problem making a thursday arm actually at night but what's more important is you can't just be mataneda you know you you know press the button there has to be a reason that's been excused excuse either the pesach or kharat to make a long story short the mahabharata says zayn i told someone if you do this again you can't have any hanover miner and he did it again so that's a pesa because i thought he's bigger than that i don't want to ask him i want to give him a deterrent but it didn't work had i known that he couldn't keep what i asked i would have made another that's a valid pessah in fact it's so much a valid passage that the police can wonder why is it why isn't it another toys i thought he'd listen to me and he's in a he he blew it right away so the terror says it's a quasi-min advertise but it's enough of another maternity but it runs along the lines of taka nether batteries he made a certain nedo cabala and then he said he can't do it he's physically too weak had you known that you couldn't do it you would make an edda you're not out to hurt yourself so pesach means there was a problem with the original neda kharata is less powerful karate means i feel now i have karate why did it why i don't want to do it anymore you could do it but he doesn't want to do it if he said i won't do it from now on then that's worth nothing a has to be me kara had i know that now i don't want to do it i never would have made the nether so it has to be a valid pesach or karate it's not just go to the rav and press the button and you get a hectare the ramos says because we're so worried that if he doesn't do it right it's not how the shogunate says if someone goes to rav and he says an inaccurate story and rob says muthullah and it wasn't accurate then it's not a valid herota and he's living with a neda called so because of this concern the rama says let's make both first say your pesach then you say karate had you known that you have this pastor would you aren't you yes so we have a double safety feature we have a pesach and a karate that basically we allow to imagine but definitely it has to be a good excuse i saw in the muslia if someone made another this they raised your gimbal but another that has to learn at least a half hour every day and you can't do it and it came through behind conventions i'm not thinking about the nether field you could learn a half hour learn on the phone as you're walking take a a recording a half hour you can't learn every day no there's not a valid passive karate so it's not just a pushover it has to be valid an interesting point is you have to have three people on the best in making it in one's call comes enough but three people that will mimic the but who has to know the story only one of the three so typically you you find the best in a three one person should be a day of safer who knows and once you tell him you have don't tell the other two and together they say ideally we sit there the best sits down the person stands and he says women have very much cycles the dharma i need not tell you it's took him in the torah anisha them has another either a husband or father could be could be made for it but women are definitely saddam no doubt about it so the question has been asked so why don't women make her santa turns the door like men do so the answer and takasam have the minute that their wives make their husbands and their husband says can you make from my why saddam and the bed and says but in many circles is not done and the reason seems to be on a simple level really if anisha has another of course a hundred percent you need to thirst a daughter that's a sukim what is this air versus shauna ervium kip a safety feature so rav zalman said that if she can't make it every shauna but at least she's there vm kipper but they're called nidri so she has that you don't need both i let's say she doesn't have air vm kipper so there is if she has a neda then she has the martinez but the concern maybe maybe it seems that the the feature of sneeze is more important for a niche that have to make us a rule a mini castro all women flock to surely rosh hashanah and they lay in line for beside him it's just lacking in sneeze so some have found an aidsa that the husband do it does it for his wife and some say we could rely on evian kipper and if the women don't go to shul and she knows he has another maternity but the question why it's not done on a communal level it's basically lacking its knees and we don't make uh um honor women to make us divana and we don't according to himself but there's no mitzvah because it's outdoors the importance of tsunayas overrides this hum and one last question i want to mention i think it's a mitsubishi i was once by a tourist nadar and there was a young mitsuba that joined the president and someone says no you know good out he felt like two cents if not less he's falling by mitzvah he's not good so where is this um coming from it's not he's not off track that is a god oil but mr i say he's not a god and it turns the armies of their eyes of ki vega says and therefore you shouldn't use mitsuba unless you know cyrus that's vegas so this mahmear throughout the book because he's no good but he didn't learn the whole two of them and he didn't think a little bit also and for a few reasons vega says in that same chuva usama needed a mitzvah because he only trusted him to tell his pastor kharata but he didn't he can't count it for the best quebec you know you do you tell that mitzvah your story then get three kadailam to be the best and put them all together like vega midday so this by mitsuba is good for drabona the three besden is good for the rice so you add it up and you have a perfect idea that's right so this mahmes should have taken the chance to sit down gazante and get another person i want to have more more of my money but there's another side why they could use this by mitsubo and that is our taurus the dorm of today is not being mated it's basically only a minute type if you need it but there's a mini type at most minik ties only throughout bonham so this is so the main thing is although says foreign try to get three good dollars in a torah good but to embarrass a young boy is not advisable i wish i have to leave now i want to quickly make the cecum when the dharam are very homer and avoid making the durian always say blina don't forget we avoid the dharm and always say blinada but keep it anyhow if a person has a neda there are born on which means either he's metabolite or did it three times then he has to be martined it's only a therabanon and suffolk lahoca but he does need a thirst of darum we could say is a stickle of a minik toys and a lot of violated at least once milsi is serious to some food some and hug him are not even on the status of a minig i'm a serious madonna or call me the din we could use today for a minute time but try to avoid this cooler we also saw reps almonds of a minute if you could rely on the mysterious maidan the the hattara that we said the the heter is when you have a beside that does what they know it's doing if it's a bristol airbrush hashana or something like that you don't have to mount the net even because it wasn't built into the nether eating before tequilas et cetera et cetera we have two starting to be mako and basically you should have three people one should know the story peso hirota croybim shabbos yamtiv knight is good noshim should be martinette if they have an editor and a mitzvah could be used if you improvise a good convention to your teamworld you have to go [Music] shane should you turn like your biggest character smith for the inspiring and informative cheer but your biggest require to mr mrs cheryl newberger for exclusively sponsoring today's year the school's figured you've been sheriff of claudia's show to have the great source of sponsoring your share calling your terrorist 718-851-8651 i'm [Music] oh [Music]