Disturbances During Shmone Esrei - Rabbi Yakov Zev Smith

is many years which was the service of our time center sponsoring us yesterday we just yesterday answered this question and he heard that that the person that was next to him was having a regular shabbosh my nestor he was not having the update and if he would and he wanted to know i guess afterwards was he supposed to tell the person walk over to him in other words you have a disturbance in schweinster from someone else what are you allowed to do then we had a shiloh where a child was crying and will of governing and the person just ignored it to his own child that he disturbed others and the ruff told them afterwards that what he should have done is picked up the child and walked out carried the child out and walked in milo joshua and carry out the child and he couldn't believe it walking militia and of course the third child which should never happen but someone's cell phone starts to ring in the middle of governing what should he do if he left it on the side should he walk in willis right now that close it just in case it rings and uh two dozen other shylus which really happen all the time in various situations when what to do when a person has a disturbance and worse yet it disturbs others as well so as a therapist we have to try to clarify what is the precise definition of have sick regarding dabbing in other words when it comes to other allah because we know that even one a deeper of one word we pass in a deeper as a hepstick but basically anything else just motioning even though in christian you're not supposed to do any type of movement but movement with a non-verbal communication is usually not a half second so the question is what is the definition of have sick regarding schweinster we would like to say well krishna is a director so maybe that's why you're so careful any non-verbal communication but maybe schweinster like many reshams only throughout borrowing maybe it's a little easier you got to do anything or maybe if i care has one quality that even christopher doesn't have and that is when esther is a person is talking to their vanishing like themselves described there's a dialogue going on and where's the derek harris to do something else so maybe schweines is worse than even chris with their eyes and the embassy is that we could take it a step further when it comes to a broker even one word is a hefsik is based on a gemara says it the fairish even between brah and eating a person could talk something that's very much the toilet you allowed to say bring me salt after hamaiti before you ate you let us say feed the animals when necessary so even talking is much of can we say the same replies talking in the middle of davening with sarah to tell your child you see your child is dabbing and he's dabbing shabbos dabbing and it's not even shabbos can you point out him can you tell them or maybe again the factor of the flayer melech impacts in a big way and nothing goes even though a half stick with syrup is much by brushes but not forgotten now once we accept this premise that when esther is more humble then really basically we should have to we have to reevaluate what does hefsek mean which is really our aim for this morning but this afternoon so i'd like to learn through a mishna that gives us a lot of guidance the missions and broadcasts of lamar made ain't no spower element of it right the first unlock of the distribution after davin with an awareness of what you're doing you know a certain package a certain coverage a certain hachna you're talking to biryani a person starts having hashem so the the yavids rides a person should be overtaken with such facade and fear he's talking to him by the shalom he just can't open his mouth and hashem give me the ability to open my mouth i believe i can use to illustrate this story that he says you remember when he was growing up there was a very simple person that designed a brilliant bridge that benefited the czar and russia in a very big way and he was granted a private audience with desire which was considered the greatest honor and he needed weeks to prepare for this honor and he finally came to the tsar and he was so overtaken with fear that he had a mini stroke he was unable to talk the rest of his life just the past out of talking to the zod so they said that's shaq when we say and that's the first in this mission then the mystic continues [Music] also something that really highlights i remember i once saw the zombie starting to save her right he once had he was given time to talk to him and he had a bunch of showers to discuss so someone that was there looked at the watch and saw it was 15 minutes till mikha and the walk from his alma's house to the best marriages took no longer than two minutes so he said told us the receiver you know there's still time is this 15 minutes so looked at him and says i don't understand if you would have an appointment to speak to the president and this tells you what year the story was if you have an appointment to talk to president nixon if i remember him still he says would you just run in the last minute you have to be a few minutes early i'm going to talk to their british friend i don't just run in the last minute no that's the second allah we should have cycles to them but then the mr continues i feel the melody even if a king inquires about your welfare ignore him something very strange we know this if someone greets you allowed to respond and there's zamela you have to ignore even if a snake is wrapped around your your heel ignore the snake now that's a big hit i know today if a person sees a snake he gets nervous but wrapped around his heel he would be thinking about veto you may be a dynamic and we should just ignore the snake and continue down imagine dappening schweinster there's a snake wrapped around your foot what's the chat question that's lifted unless it's a dangerous snake ignore the snake this is based in a certain center under possible the murray humor that the testament based variations responding to someone's greeting the loya but filler you're not allowed to do anything during the happening davening is muhammad and krishna so our kakira what's the status of davening is really the first apostle like tyson but the bharata bomb krishna is even easier than estrogen now someone asked me when you learned this what's the hamster we start off with two allah's about hakhonovatvila and now we see these is there any hampshire i tell them absolutely it's a beautiful hampshire it's all one understanding first the mr tells you the importance of preparing covered rice realize what it is then they are then giving time to be ready and then the mission illustrates dramatically what it means talking to the british soil even a snake wrapped around your foot ignore it so it's one mishna highlighting the great skulls and the great acharyas of davening properly now that the mishnah continues pointing out this mystery continues [Music] greets you you but even that is not so personal because the mars the castle may say i'm the spouse let's see a person is dabbing and a dangerous ganeth is coming in his way which presumably is never situation talk to gemara you don't just end run away or do whatever you have to do finish my nester and then you could leave now what does it mean the cuts of the oil so rashi says it happened quickly says just the beginning and the end of the broker and some say david having a when possible but the but the question is here we see that even in a dangerous situation you don't just you know fence for yourself first finish my answer frank di gemara i the mishna said that if you see a melancholy even talk emphatic mario there it is you could hurry up schweinster and then run away so you finished my nestra and then you could run that's what kamar is talking about but the mission is talking that the grayish king greets you what are you going to do you can't just wait till you finish my nestra you can't be makatsu then the lesbrare are you allowed to even respond so this is also a tremendous insight a sensitivity in the flame allah we're talking here that it's a piccolo situation and and we think never run for your life do what you have to do and even if it's never situation approach with caution try to do the best you can even because try to be makatsu the richard and beginning of brachus also is bothered by this kasha and says a similar terrorist but basically the terrorist is if you could if you could run away when you see the anas the garment without talking that's better in other words the best way to approach it is try to minimize the have sick so we see two important usages first of all moving running is better than talking and number two if there is no need for anything even happy situation what's really striking the gemara then tells a story that was davening and asar came and greeted him and ignored him and for some reason the tsar decided to wait and here the person's excuse instead of just beheading him he wait until he finished and then he says you know breaker you empty person it says in your torah and this matter more than actually say we have to watch your health and i greeted you you didn't respond you jeopardized your life that was suicidal how did you do that and what's interesting is he called them reika empty ben yayada what's up because if a person commits suicide he has english and you come out committed suicide you hear himself along a second there it says that even if you're my son you could have a lot of schools that will save you but the house can empty all your schools you're gonna have to give all your schools to be saved so here this costed effort i mean [Music] moisture nephesh not to interrupt ishmael and the question is so the story has a happy ending so he said wait and he finished wait give me a chance and the tsar acquiesced and he said listen if you would be talking to a king and someone gives you greets you and you would respond to your friend what would happen the king would kill you so myself i was talking about him and you greeted me you're a nice person at all but how could i leave malachi mulch and something surprising happened and the tsar accepted that he was appeased and he left powerful story powerful message what it means the family but the question all the place can ask is how did he know that what gave him the right to be so reckless and and rely on some type of a nest that did sarah won't kill him so the times in the beginning of our sim and kuf dalit and sorry this is that he was confident that he would give him a chance and once he's given a chance to defend himself he could wiggle out of it ram says he was but except his answer that slack adds don't forget this was not a typical sound because he greeted him first obviously he was a better person but at the end of the day we have to figure out what was the hecta for this custody to just do something that was almost suicidal and the poise kim explained come together of slimer kluger in his periods on the surface now with simon cook dalit he quotes the tasman of ram and he says this is the wrong terrace because how could you rely on the bus if it don't matter how nice he was but how do you jeopardize your life by hoping for the best that this guy is the king will allow you to get away with it it can't be and he says that even though we have given us that a person has to give up his life but other other mitzvahs unless it's a horrible hashem like the mura is which you which you're allowed to and perhaps says when a person a is if he responds to anybody else that's a horrible hashem that perhaps falls into the category of yahara valiable at least if it's something like this he had a suck that that mama a sufficient person will kill him doesn't make him kill it this could be a potential yoga yap and he explains with this another mysterious gemara earlier that buffalo base where the gemara says that this person was happening which is a violation of he saw him and killed him so if someone violated him yes to talk to someone else when you're talking to bahrain it's a marie de vermouth and it's an it's it's sort of an israeli of of of all yahweh now he spells out him it's mutter to give your life not to interrupt happening even though for other mitzvahs you're not going to be your her valiable so he's not giving a muslims he's saying this that my necessary has almost the identification of your at least you're allowed to be moistened and i should have the same see the monitor pay zion quotes this gamer that we mentioned about this and he says tak a person is allowed to be mahmir for davening to give up his life and he brings araya beside our gemara by the way possibly moisture he also quotes the story about daniel that the mellow told not to darwin but it happened anyhow so we see what the family is all about so certainly we could understand that that is more humble than krishna but now we come to the last piece of this puzzle and that is the gemara the gemara based on the mishnah where it says not allowed to be massive islam with gimbal that's only when there's a scorpion wrapped around your your leg then you have to stop rashi says because the acrobat is more sakana than an achosh you noticed this colossians is more sakura than another the rambam the beginning of hurricane imperson also said that regular suffolk but this this acrobat is almost like a vader suffrage base that since la maison most times nahash is not dangerous and you're doing this precious midfield of davoni you could rely on against and there's no hetero to interrupt your diabetes now the myself i was thinking could be that has like we said earlier since you're talking about a suffix in in in so that's why there's no head to interrupt your dabbing you're you're being your we could understand that we davin and we have to give our full concentration if an acquisition at least to be fully involved give david our undivided attention i should mention ravozman say like you had separation in vase yes that typically gets caused will have dampening of course he stops what he's doing he runs out in the call but let's say he gets a call he's a militia and it's told explicitly it's not life-threatening he has a call they need some help it's not life-threatening it's aimed by sakona should he stop swedes to go on a call so he says it's a very submission it's a because you can't stop so how can you stop someone else to run to someone else's non-life-threatening situation because the mishna is giving an indication of our attitude to adapting is all about so now that we have i guess a better appreciation for that let's try to apply this to the various shyness so let's start with a simple shiloh but i think we approach it a little more caution that we know that governing in theory up upon him might be a stickler or at least certainly give up whatever we can to keep the dabbing the way it's supposed to be la myself what do we do when a child or grandchild is disturbing is there what are the options so obviously if you say quiet he help he'll get so frightened he'll probably won't open his mouth again but that's a deeper and deeper no one the question is if you could walk away and it won't bother you you walk away from disturbance is that an aids in other words without deeper is that a half second health race children we seem to remember typically if you make a brook and you walk around unless you go along too far unless it's not a habit it's it's not verbal the question is which is the better of the options make a motion just like you know wave your hand and wag your finger like you're going to get it but you're not moving or move without but without a non-verbal communication sir benion in the beginning of our period the fifth perican bronchus if you have the snake on your foot you can't call for help help that's people but you could walk around and hopefully shake your foot pretty violently and the snake falls off and i quote his lostin this is the punchline shall i messin while leave us in the cross have success so we see a tremendous caller the bar is unacceptable walking without talking is okay and this is what we're looking for but the emphasis is hard to accept you're strolling with covered at film more so freck the rush he doesn't quote iran but the reigning but the russian in bronchus perique simon gimel has a different castle the well-known gemara in brachis about the incredible dabbling of the hilly rebecca kiva he would start marissa on one side of his menus they would find the other side of the basement because of the rebuilding of historical voice and creatures he was a very into his diabetes fragrance very nice and impressive but it was the head that moved around militia the terrorists postured he didn't know he was moving he didn't know he's moving he was flying you know but the russians are more practical terrorists he says that all was only in the supplement of the kind that started the end of my nestor militia didn't move an inch afterwards he was very uh you know into that that part of the diving and then he moved and because the rush says that stama litha inaudible turkish man esther so the rush is obviously arguable the ester shield which grab that we have every year for the right has to make the kriyas uh during machado music how do you fall down and get up if you're supposed to have your military now your feet together so the soil felt that some even moving is a problem like we learn from the mishna that the snake's on you you can't move obviously he assumed and fully endorses that suggestion and he says you're right you now let him move from your place because even without talking is a hefstek i of akiva moved around that was the end the shrine has turned after my nester and therefore he says they move around richmond it's you are because [Music] what we see is that mostly shining i should mention the going points out that you shall be that says you let him move when you see that dangerous person coming to you if it's not dangerous you know so although the ingredients seem to say halith is not a hepsik but most we shine him don't accept that kula the morgan avraham on this rebellion when there are more close to mania that no problem with moving but that's only the torah that's why it is also to move and that's when you'll that's why when you learn you'll see that the shaking seems to hold that halita is a hex not as bad as talking but it is a a somewhat of a hefty if there's no choice and you need immediate help either you could call for help or run away alit is better than talking but not that i'll leave his mother because this makes sense when you're going for a walk in the mud of shamanism and let's see the nerf and then we'll apply it further and cough down that aleph quotes that where it's dangerous try to be mccarthy my nasty and again to me was starting this because it's run for your life well you say it you love me i'm out if you could trim this my nestor and finish that's better if not then go away then see and again he says that that you could either hurry up or go away if that will help again we see and mr points this out that even though it is a communist default situation don't lose yourself think can i finish my nestra and then respond and then run we would think run for your life and ask questions later but davening is that in says you're allowed to walk around a rock and hopefully the snake will fall off and this is based on your being so drama is the only one that quotes eventually and i told you the magnet rum says even the beni is only talking the lesser of two evils in other words alisha is a problem but if you need some immediate hat solo better than calling asalas to walk away and that's the way that will say so let's be clear alicha is a problem during schweinsteiger rebecca's sak was not accepted or even is only talking about the other choice so at least is a problem but deeper is even worse now the question is and what about a non-verbal communication you're not talking you're not leaving your place you see your son is davoring shimanastra and in the opening a weakness when esther and it's young so you'll just stay in your place your mr says say the sitter you're pointing this man you didn't talk and you didn't move so we're tempted to say well krishna we find that nothing is mother like yerma is even even the non-verbal communication i may be crisp with their eyes but feel their body can be makel now we realize that's not true and that's why we see from a number of sources that basically even any movement even not even non-verbal is a problem the characteristic has a question where a child is disturbing and he says that the only hectare is when it's disturbing that you can't davin then it's a remisa in other words had it not been lesser of trilla even remission any type of movement is awesome the second allah which he discussed we'll soon see in detail if a rav is dabbing and awaiting him and he feels he wants to have a long and he can't concentrate because he they're waiting he's a lot of motion with his hand like you know just thought i like jeremiah's favoritism but if he has he has no cavanaugh he has no cup on it there's no other choice so we see biddy aved you're allowed to make remisses with sorry and the emma says if you're not going to mirror him if you're not going to have kavanaugh it's even worse but as we'll soon see on that he but the point is motioning bader cloud is awesome so we have to be careful and realize that point the point is used to always say he was once summoned to the kgb office and basically that might have been a one-way trip he was worried posted for his life they were out to actually kill him and he remembers when he stood in front of these officers he was trembling he wouldn't he couldn't move from pakha and baksha he was of course saved as we know and he can he learned a new appreciation for the mahabharata and ko yama when he would dive in he would try to reenact that pacha that he had no you have to be a moisture to take it to that extent but certainly the standard why are you emotional why are you moving it might not be a half second and krishna but the fear mella is more demanding now someone asked an interesting question there are more hoskins and simon kuffalif that this man has there in his time what you say today we have no cabana by davening we we we struggled with kavanaugh so maybe things have changed because let's be honest that you know we're not diving where we're supposed to be i told them you're making the fundamental mistake if we don't have to have one it's a albertson but they have chutzpah it's the same same with naramela if we can't stealth suit to the screener that's our problem but now we can do things that are wrong because we don't have kavanaugh and the bizarre is still the same so we have three levels the worst is deeper the second i guess if there's no choice then halifa is an option and it's also the option of ramisa and we'll soon see which is preferable or miso or but definitely we could say that try to prevent any type of interruption question when a child is disturbing making noise he asks me what to say so the emma says the first response is if the child doesn't belong in school don't bring him to school you know people like to be a good husband that let his wife sleep late so he makes the shoe into a babysitting service that's lacking in void have basically nessus and quite at seabourn children always disturb islam it's a very sharp lotion some people bring children leaping or initially in the va so we don't want to talk about such people we're talking about the child is supposed to be uh you know the right age but well but the other what are you doing the child's disturbing so this is our mach like is that we saw the sharachuba says rather hint of the movements to the child either warning or show him what the davin and their finds are unacceptable so he says so what should you do if the child is disturbing continue dabbing like you say you know everything's healthy now here the child is pulling you he's biting you he's kicking you there's little thing i love that attitude because you can't do anything nourishment what should you do it gets but you can't give zara felt it was totally unthinkable to turn your attention to a child when that when their bystander again the mr bureau pastors like the sharachuba so basically when the child is disturbing you're allowed to make a non-verbal communication show what he wants or give him his lollipop whatever it is and hopefully learn a lesson in the future make sure he's the right age one thing i will say if the child does not stop to carry on so i swear by yashi this is an ashrae ish and the child's disturbing others so pick the child up and walk out during schweinster because you're he's a child the barbershop you know a lot of disturbance even now i now walk around nurse my nasty will rely on the on the sheet that i leave to feel especially to feel a bit of a sea bird but again the question is why is he in the first place but if it's legal about to carry him out otherwise you're disturbing many others now a woman at home has just her and the child and the child is crying so she can finish vanessa that's the better but it's sible or how do you have a right to to cause it see but to be disturbed in a terrible way the most objective the most important objective is so if a person could ignore the child fine but if you can't or the siba can't then you have to take get rid of these disturbances a common question a child is daviding beautifully but he's darkening the wrong trainer now how did the father knows i guess he has a certain uh intuition but he sees the diabetes when answered now the child is not doing saying anything the child will find it happening and then the father could tell me that in the room or should the child the father say at least point to the righteous so to us what's the shaiva but in the same place ashley ish says if the child is diving the rocks my nasty is not bothering you just continue that once you had that to interrupt you're the female for your child's feeling he'd have been wrong okay so it's a it it might be the wrong answer we can't do it but i saw the early and then and others say if he's not bothering you ignore because again not that we're we're in any way underestimating what it means abraham of a child but this is [Music] now if the child is pulling on the father's jacket what should i die if he doesn't know father didn't tell him before she answered or the father is so disturbed by the child's wrongs right now that he can't have cup honor which is not the ideal attitude but if that's the case so you know lack of kavanaugh is the worst situation to be but basically is believe it or not that in this case where the child is going to finish let him finish and don't interrupt your traineester even what he has to say i'll just give you another illustration of allah based on the thesis sometimes it happens the person is dafting and his power slips off or siddha pulls out of his hand so to us what's the shadow you could have him without a palace you could dive with a sitter on the floor but twice is in bronchus that's falls off so if it's still on he has to just re-straighten it out fine but if it fell off entirely look the second this is a half it enough for the gamrey and you have to leave it and continue that imagine we know and the importance of diverting with the talis but la mesa you're doing perhaps now what's the heck he's not talking i guess he's bending down he says like just like you can't push the snake off because you have to bend down to move the snake off so too you can't bend down to pick up the talus plus of course when you do pick up the towels you have to make a living i mean you're not going to make it but i guess the combination of bending down and putting on the talus better continue dabbing and the shochonara paskins inside exactly in dalit that if it's partially on so you could just straighten it out but if it fell off entirely continue dabbing without the talus to the point to us unthinkable that without a talent but then again if maya mella is more unthinkable now the myself there's no doubt about it the person bent down and picked up the thousand put it on it's not a half sig bit the ebbet like like talking that you have to start the brock again but even that is unacceptable does add but if the person is he can't stop it he's a great grandfather and he's having experience without a towel it's like look at him he feels so self-conscious so doctor out if you can't have cavanaugh so you can't have him like that so you had a no-win situation so better pick up the towels and dive like a bench in other words the worst option is no kavon but the enemy's terror of quotes doesn't see is better than bending down and picking up the tower and you're not doing any debuff because the thread miller and the primage beginning of c and c sim and points out even though the vicious is not a hefstek but by filler it's enough of a hefty the when the person's hat fell down they heard the same idea even though we're marked with the doubling with the hat but in this case if if with maramela you can't go on and then can bend down and pick up the hat now again typically a person say but i push it can't dominate if he can't regain his havana then you have the round center but indefinitely in halal continue dabbing and continue with your awareness of nehemiah if a yamaka fell down then you have a problem because you know because then you can't doubt it then you have to pick it up if a guard still slides off so first of all it's not as noticeable as without a tallis so it's not embarrassing and also if it tells you have to leave a garter also i would just point out if the garage was wrapped around your feet are in the garage and start backing up three steps the person might trip and get hurt so you got to be careful about that but cole shane from towers got to leave as it is now khalid were not being minimizing the importance of a garage door but then again we are trying to maximize what the fan mail is all about what to me was a kid maybe i'm learning the wrong shot but writes this and see above and now this simmons having zion i don't know what the story is but yeah the other dress fell down don't stop smashing to pick them up keep on dabbing i mean you're leaving film on the floor which you're gonna have to you know postures fast forward again i don't know the story how it happened his only good news is that let's say this film you feel not supposed to be feelings but that's the military has to be filled but you feel it's off place so you gotta move it back to your place it has very nice lumbes just like a palace that's partially off you'll have to straighten it out so it's filling australian guys okay but seems to say that just that you're dabbing and this filler on the floor keep on dampening again no one's minimizing the whole bit of children on the floor but we're trying to emphasize what it means with their mother so that's why when it's the higher posit that when a person is davening and a safer falls on the floor that you're holding and then pick up the safe but that's only a video that a person can't control himself but in this powder if you listen to me and continue he's giving you a man's car but see they'll let the city stay on the floor let the savior stay on the floor you have a bigger scar in other words if your person is out of control so you can't die so pick it up okay we can't help you but the ideal person would leave the city on the floor and gain oil now we think safer on the floor but then again it's almost quotes this briefly as mr brewer does and they both stress because she is whenever you have to do anything during astra tend to a child uh powers whatever it is whenever you ever have to do you have to do try to do it being broke or lebron but again this highlights in a tremendous way what lafayette mello is now the citadel fell down basically the same allah should apply leave the siddha and dab if you can't dabble without a siddha or it's disturbing to you no siam we have no choice but you do so then you got to pick it up like the anaya but push it if anything else falls down a person has a tissue that falls down so it's not nice to leave the tissue off on the floor generally but during training no one sees it leave it there and pick it up is that says it inside the base gimbal before you touch my nestra you blow your nose clear yourself get ready for dampening because during spinach is not it's not proper person that's blowing the nose in front of a male not the right thing to do now if a person can't so the mercies are which is something for us is hard to understand and we don't do that but the point is the heat guy in the crossover is very crucial before schweinster and middle schweinster is a person sees a mosquito and he's he's terrified so we have to try to tell him listen and if a snake is wrapped around your foot what's gallacher a mosquito is less intimidating don't forget you know practice the best you know the banished finkel said well he's one witness just and a mosquito landed on khazanesh's nose and bitten and he was bleeding a little bit this mosquito was sent to rubbish for lunch today he saw that is exquisite ash grasshopper practice that the mosquito was sent to his nose to get lunch so if you have that let's go practice you don't have to worry about a mosquito it's not you know you're bigger than the mosquito but again you tell me someone he's mom machine candy you can't david so like anything else but the other you have to make a non-verbal communication shoe mosquito but remember that basically enough to work now someone is a has a he has an allergy he has a bad reaction to him a b bite and he sees a b by know so that's like a dangerous situation either in makatsu violet or or walk away it's like you said earlier it's better to walk away than me makatsu but basically is you have to realize you're not alone you know i told this person somebody asked me these how about if no one's in my house no one sees what i'm doing i said you know you're making steak you're not alone you're standing under the bunishing later and that's that's the feeling it's not yet it's it's the british so a person sees a mosquito first don't see it but ignore it now if it comes that person is terrified so then either either walk away or be my cuts but all agree and this is positive and i wonder why people don't realize this why do we see that people come running into davening that's mistake number one and number two they want to have filled with sible as quick as possible so they first touch my nester then they start closing the jacket or putting on the gato or straightening out the hat looking for a siddha all of that is the force venus i mean you don't need a halal to say that but you can't even look you shouldn't pick up a siddha on the floor costume to look around for a sitter so if you're late it'll be another few seconds late makayam didn't and then of course do what you have to do what is a bazillion for this siba to mention but i think it needs mentioning for others the the the cell phone during astra schweinster i wish i wouldn't have seen it but i i saw the person once moshe russell looks into his is he's his cell phone i mean if he's expecting aliano to call him i don't think i'll ever call him i think he'll come without you know a call to him you know it it could be heard by other i mean the bazillion of a cell phone and once i heard it i hope i was wrong it's a military no oh you know you know what that means and then also you know it got so frustrated he said something like that so you know i'm afraid to say what the murray says well you did to someone they're violated but but again the whole cell phone will shrink estra it doesn't belong to doesn't belong someplace it's so healing but but the disturbances that it causes imagine they're announcing who did this that they're not just ticketing the cars that are wrongly their their towing cars and someone's emotional his car is going to be towed so he starts making a quick husband and have sinned aruba and he's out of a very rich fellow maybe it's nothing doing the magana rum in the beginning of cordala it says [Music] so even hashtag is the problem certainly for something less than that again the cell phone should be by rabbi yamatsa in shul during the opening surgery i'll just give you another dogma it just brings out how places can look that happening it's a common question a person is still happening and he hears kedusha so that he knows we showing him some say you can't listen to the malicious to have sick but we passed again that is not a half cigarette listen to kadusa the shia has been having a longish my nestor he came a little later and they're laning when he's a militia my master what should he do so the london will say my net fish could do as much like you should be showing him because you have to come on to shimaka aina and it might be a hefster but korea's return is no dinner of jamaica it's just plain old shimaya not a hefsik so maybe even the rear venus to lay during spine astra and that is what many players can say it's not a chapstick why not but there are many poison that haul version but a different myth during schweinster like i remember yesterday this he told me even if you hold that prison and you won't get another minion so you're a knight but how do you do a mitzvah english by nestor it's the appreciation of with neha bella what that means the flayer bella are you talking to berry either i remember i once added to this writes what he heard me percochi of the guy in the grand once told me hironi means what it means davening and the guy told him the story and the right wrote of courcha he wants much of the great ones much and he spent 12 weeks of his life figuring it out and he couldn't figure it out one day vishwadesh in the middle of chakras seven shots and fell into his head so the guy turned to me and said what would you do so i was quite what you do so he says i was masada in my mind i took me 15 seconds i made simon maybe something like that but he made simone to members haven't shot them as soon as i finished my nestor i want to write them down i forgot every one of the children so but this is my my muscle the guy and said but he couldn't say hollow because he was depressed so he waited a half hour until he regained this he said and then he died muslim and the shot them came back to his mind during muslim and you know what i did i ignored it and when i finished i had the 12 shot him this is like the seventh shot him waiting for me now that's with me hamela you know 12 weeks of your life you're willing just let go down the drain because there's something more important that that's the thing miller so whether you listen against there or not is not my point the point is to highlight what it means mr guru writes inside exactly you see quoting a person has glasses in those days it wasn't as tight fit as today so you should tie it up before trying nestor because maybe it might fall down you have to pick it up in other words we have to get the attitude that we have to give schweinster the undivided attention that we have to now i would mention if someone's not doubting and he sees someone having a problem of any sort someone's child is bothering and someone's uh how this fell down sydney fell down and you're not dabbing it's a great question pick up the towels and put it on his shoulder you got a mitzvah because i expressed it because you're a life saver if you can move his car without you know him disturbing him it's a great idea but the point is the sensitivity that when the person is darkening nothing really goes now we had a shia la maisonia a person came late which always causes more problems and if he dived into monastery and they were saying hallelu and then his dave started muslims he wanted to start not muslim with them he really is wearing children muslim the thief is mostly without tillman of course and he's wearing twilight and phil from so it's taka unfortunate but you can't think of its film during muslim there's no islam it's only a minute and then in the beginning seems to say this at the end he seems to say maybe it's not but believe it as it is the beginning of sarah donald discusses someone started tremendous and it really is facing the wrong way should he just turn to the right way so the task is in that case don't move rely on the sheet is in any way is good which is a big fitness i saw that my mordechai in southern dallas have a kind or let's see an old skin not like that what do you mean this is already you don't have to take a walk just turn yourself turn in the right direction now probably the task held if you could just turn your face that's enough but the point is when you have a legitimate sorry filler no that might justify what you're doing a mother who's happening in their house or any person diving the house and they realize there's a dirty diaper part of me would you not want to dive into that presence there's no one around that's going to take it away so the only eights would be going to a different room i willish my nester but you can't dive in this way and never rely on hallelujah that's why you're up that's mutton if a person's pardon me has a child in shul with a dirty diaper one that us is dabbling in its presence again you're wondering what's he thinking not thinking but the mighty island was dabbing violation so please by all means pick up the baby and carry them out this is a mitchell of a rabbit no doubt about it if you look at the mr guru and see if cotton david he has a shiloh which is preferable be makatsur or walking being and he brings two days if you notice he's not to the day of that is probably better and the swarovski makatsu means you're compromising this foreign does not even mention the sheep that hold that makatsu is better so apparently the best option would be to be mahalak and then finish my nestor properly we had a shout out to a person after the story was he was learning before mahariv and he left his cell phone on a table in the back of this magician and then the militia nestra admired he realized that he didn't close his phone which was an apple but anyhow and he had a good chance that someone would call him derek schweinster should he walk to the back and close the phone or hope for the best and if something happens he's going to feel pretty bad about it so i saw the mishnah the testimony believement says if there's even a possibility to disturb the sieber it's your obligation to walk to the back and close the phone suffix of disturbing at sieber is an awful that can't be forgiven i will say i i said the best iii is close the thumb don't bring in the shoe but how could you possibly and you know people are very agitated especially when it's in the back and no one's there especially without having a whole message you know it's just a bizarre footfeeler and for the misfollow the point is to highlight really what the right action is before we start happening the other question that i mentioned the person's military and esther and they see someone stopping the wrong train astra how should he respond to that should he do something maybe the person is an ionist says that if you attack and know that the person is happening wrongly so if you could be miranda stan without moving or not talking that's the best answer but if you can't if he's too far away leave him as it is and whenever he happens but again to bring out the point of what it means neha and last but not least but certainly highlights the whole sugiya as we told you earlier the shara chuva in the beginning of al simmon kuf dalit says that if a child is disturbing you're allowed to motion to him then he says if the rav feels that they're waiting for him and he wants to dive into the slower he's a lot of motion to the sibling to go ahead and continue dabbling wave your hand and always continue in tess goes a step further let's say a person's a military now so i had this someone told me this afterwards he's diving instead of saying he said um as if his invention and after he finished he stopped what should i do now emily what did he do for hashem rabban did not take text during swan astra so he couldn't text the robe what should he do what should he do if you can't ask someone next to you so walk to the back and look up in a safe if you don't know how to look up a safer narrowly you're allowed to stop and ask the rub during schweinster what should i do hopefully the rub won't you know be too surprised and he'll answer by motioning and go and he says that basically same idea it's like you're disturbed you can't go on now he has two values to this one writer you're allowed to make you have to make him itchy and your nose is no sword you're allowed to say bring saul so why do you talk military and ask that they ask what to do there's another beautiful raya the person said to hashem and then he said now this time of the year you have to go back and go back but then again what's the better option the other option now he doesn't say you have to hop with your feet together i know that's so important main thing is to go to the back quickly look it up and go back together and he knows they're waiting and he feels disturbed and the person said that his concentration and he writes khashoggi's king then he says you told me he says because la maison you see even like but you can't be massive and he says even if a tallest falls down you can't pick it up so how could you motion to someone then you told me that right even move during so i say his option is now let me ask you a question so what does he recommend i'm doing i'm always fine i said um what should i do wait till shia comes please be your turrets but you can't move during my answer you can't do anything and this is that it's almost interrupted but what to me was more beautiful where he discusses about a rub that feels at the waiting field and is disturbing his monastery and he goes to but the shadow to be allowed to motion to the creativity to move on even during krishna and out of motion how can you emotion during schweinster so what does he recommend you should do be makatsu that's filler how about if the child is disturbed serving you promotion what should you do listen to his lashes about the health the child is pulling you biting you just dabbing this is also where you see it's filling on the floor you'll leave them on the floor but you don't move during schweinster now la mais said the mysterious makeover by the rug and by the disturbances of schneider once came to us as a young child and he noticed away from him by nasa so we can be making like mr brewer but but the bottom line the end of the day we see the incredible incredible understanding of even though we are more makel in this regard but to appreciate this course with me at the oil it i wouldn't talk to you all thank you for watching [Music] foreign hello [Music] [Applause]