Chesed While Driving - Rabbi Yaakov Zev Smith

[Music] ready [Music] on the very important topic of oz of tarza of imo by driving harassment consider the following shiloh you're what you're driving along and you see someone who's stuck either he's got a flat or he's his car is stalling or he's getting on the ice is there a kiev to stop and help him is it just the mitzvah which of course is uh tremendous is there more to it and let's say you do help him and he wants to pay you he wants to give you a little of a token appreciation you got to take the money consider you see someone walking in the street carrying a package and he's struggling it's heavy is there any special obligation besides that to help this person so this touches upon a fascinating sugiya and that is really is there the of the let me explain the pasta says in paris if you see someone's whose animal of course loved africa even the enemy but you see someone's animal that is laying on the ground because it collapsed from the heavy load the khadal are you going to refrain from helping him this is what we know as the mitzvah the assay the arisa of helping a yid who is in distress and actually the animals in distress the animals collapse but the person is also in trouble because he can't move on his animal is immobile and this is not a simple you know the more the mr darshan's above himself let's say you tried and the animal fell again i feel downloaded to do it together the mystery uses this is like many other mitzvahs like veda that you have to do it until you do it right and this key of the rise of azav is quoted by all the money amidst the ram and safe amidst i say and now we'll soon see actually there's even alive besides the assay now you're wondering cool hi like why is such a big here you know i don't cause pain to animals because that's presumably the issa the rise of tsar bale but here i didn't do anything to the animal the animal was overloaded the animal collapsed i didn't cause the animal to collapse why is it on me to alleviate the suffering of the animal so if you look at the mitzvah pay which is such an important medium and of course to teach us to be kind to people and he says if you don't if you just walk by an animal that's in distress that's me the safzarius which is amid the mercures in other words the torah demands perfection and meet this and there's an assay and perhaps alive if someone is thoughtless even when an animal is suffering we could assume that if you see a driver that's in distress he got a flat or his car stalled and he can't move maybe there's a key of their issue to help him besides crested maybe this limits of their eyes of others i the passage says hamar who said who had been a car so that's not such a concept because the truth is the mishna in babakam and dalid says so why the terrorist says more debra caused the behavior because the common mode of transportation in those days was because left the packages but islam or any animal now it's logical to say in our times that our lexus is our fair you know the cars is the is today's hamaran shock so if hamar is laughed after any animal why can we assume hua din if someone's car is having trouble there might be an uh free of their eyes of aussie tas of imbed to assist him and get him out of his problem but and here's the big bot if the tsuru-sa mitzvah is ruined which means the animal is laying on the ground because it collapsed from the heavy load who said that if a car stole that's where it's taken now khalil if the cough fell on the person okay he needs more than the help he needs that solo but we're talking about the person standing in a highway he's his car is not going there's no road it's takasma now of course it's a great hasset to stop and help him but could you call it the mitzvah prika you know when someone is freezing you give him a hot drink it's a wonderful husset but you can't say it's a mitsubrica precast and a lache connotation for prickly enough to take money for it there's an assay in a love just because someone needs help does that mean it's a mitzaprika if someone's marrying with his eighth child and he needs money so he calls him it's paprika i mean he's more in distress than someone who's car old but you can't say it's a mitzvah pre-kotina i the positive says maybe any type of helping ayde is included in prika it's not logical every hassan is pre-cantina and also rashi quotes the vegetal to us the foreign means helping unload the animal that has fallen because of the heavy load but there's a stronger taina and perhaps the entire mitzvah aprica is because the animal is in pain so there's also an element of tsar and we'll soon see the gemara says the so maybe the is the mitzvah of prika is two factors first of all the animal collapsed it's literally relevates and there's also an element of tsa who said when a car stole then a person is in distress that's that's prica merco but you might say other album even when an animal is in distress as a sabbath in their eyes and when a human being you say whatever kim is in distress maybe it's our autumn and the emma says that there's more to this sugiya because besides the pasta that we just mentioned in paris as we spot them there's a second possibility and that is in kisete para [Applause] now this sounds very similar to parasimi spotting why do you have to have a second possible free and kisey zoo mitzvah here the terrorists saying elisa saying don't just walk by when you see the scene in paris mishpot him it says the passage of preeca that's an assay is an assay to help someone whose animal collapsed in kisete it's going back to the mitsuprika and airing besides and i say it is also a love and that's the way the rambam and safa mitzvahs i say raise bays and and and lisa say i and he says if a person leaves an animal that collapsed he's mavato and assay and ivana also in mitzvah tough that when your person sees an animal that collapsed and just walks by he's mavato now i want to tell you when you learn the sugar you'll see that some find it hard to understand because we'll soon see the possibility is talking about to ena loading a a donkey so how could it be the first day was talked about prika and then tina and that's where they're going in beer grove seems to learn but as i told you many of china learned that if you leave an animal that has collapsed under its heavy load besides the assad is also a love but let's focus on this the end of the passage that's base what does that mean this is a different scenario the animal is on the ground and the load is on the ground but not the animal with the load what happened is the person is helpless he cannot get the load onto the animal he's not strong enough to lift it up so the second effort of pasik is when you see the load on the ground and the person cannot get it onto the animal don't walk by hawk game tuck him email help the owner pick up the load and put it on to the animal this is a different theraisa and we know it as tina in other words preeca means unloading an animal that collapsed that's parish we spotted him ki say is talking about tiena loading the donkey the anna the bala boss can't do it and he's helpless there's a mitzvah to enum so we have two mitzvahs preeka and describes it that even in preeca which we see the animal in distress but then again the person is also in terrible anguish he's helpless he can't move he's a he's he's stuck in another highway and they don't have a phone they don't have hawaiian those days and he can't move and the rambam says if you don't help him he might come to sacramento fascists because he's helpless so here we see two mitzvahs but you realize there's one big difference preeca the animal is in terrible distress because it collapsed with a heavy load on its back to ena the animal is fine the animal is a paid vacation the lows are on the ground the animals comfortably resting who's of gahak the taurus the owner so this is explains the kiddish of the second passage that even though the animal is not in distress but this is the mitzvah of tina to help him load his donkey so obviously which is more important if you're allowed to say that prica needs help and the animal is in saarbal and this explains what we'll soon see in halal based on a bearish gemara which is really a mishna actually the gemara says and you can't take money even if the great grateful owner wants to give you a tip you know how to take money but to ena to load the donkey you're allowed to ask for money and certainly how to take money what's the helicopter there it says preeca involves sabbath as well you have to do a mitzvah and not take money like i service evade you can't take money so preeco also to ena you're helping a person okay but you allowed to take money for that it's not as serious as tina as preeca and this is quoted in ishmael there are two mitzvahs preeca prica antena now rabbi say i rest my case where do we go from here we have two mitzvahs we know a little bit about the mixes when you driving on a street or a highway and you see a car in distress either the car is overheated it needs a boost it has a flat are you to stop to help the car besides the mitsubishi is it precup is it tina both or none so the embassies this we know that a very big part of parikh is saba the gemara in the end of the basement says is learned from the khiev of pricka you see an animal that collapsed helped the animal mr burns shin hey see regarding a special cool up on shabbos to alleviate the suffering of an animal look miss world why that's the three of that because so if we understand that that precup is because of saba lechayam when someone's car stalled i mean he's not happy but there's no takara is not in distress there's no tsar bale and therefore we could say maybe there's no here preeca regarding a car and the emma says if you said that you're having to be fair that although we find certain halaquahs regarding animals all the have the guardian people la muscle uh shabbos and his animals have to be shiva sanchabas we don't compare people to animals except for shabbos what is the alluding to you now let it take two different animals and group them together and plow with a a horse and a donkey that's the isla can you take an animal and have a person and work them together yes you're allowed to there's no issue of mixing an animal with a person why because even though it says animals it's animals not people so oi we could assume maybe the mitzvah prika is only animals not regarding humans however we might suggest if the soil of preeca is sabbah for an animal isn't it reasonable that if there's a top of the kind of an animal called a human being and the truth is you see this i once pointed out there are 16 places in the torah that speaks about we have to have sensitivity to animals and others what's this is the torah the aspca no as the tough meme explains regarding the myths of khan it's not so much rahmanus on the animals it's to train us to become better people if you have to be sensitive to the feelings of an animal call skin you'll be more sensitive to your neighbor to your spouse because even with an animal you have to be thoughtful and you see this before is in a different seneca amidst the tough nun tackle with the the past success you know that put two different animals together to work them together and that's an important lesson if you have two workers that are very different don't put them in the same job because they're not going to get along and you can't put two animals together that are different animals don't put two people in the same position it's too there's too much friction so you see that the concept is being it the terrorist being all the behemoth it's not been adamant bahama per se it's to make us better being so maybe if there's the rise of prica because it's for an animal so when a person is stuck on the highway it's not saba the heim of the car it's sar by the heim of the autumn so so also maybe take it is that way we'll get there maybe take this of the rice the pre-k outside of the person and the embassies we could have i'm a fairy shigimorum that pre-container maybe applies even to a human because in brahma see that base and that's the beauty of the sugar we learned this all the yeshiva this is but we don't realize that it's a story about rabies smile that was once walking in the street and he saw someone that needed help loading up the animal to mitsubtina and bismillah felt he was talking but the person needed help so he he says how much does it is that package worth you and he bought it off him so zak diraj manitoba the californian base what's the problem the person was not loading the animal with a load the person had a load to put on himself why did that be small assumed there would be a midst of tina there was no animal there's only a person if there's a mitsub pre-cantina by an animal human being every small hell that a person needs help with his own package not an animal there's a key of the right supreme container when applicable and that's what the raj says that he in this two variation and base and again in registering the rajma proves conclusively that if pre-katina applied to an animal called a human being i the gemara that we mentioned that doesn't mean everything else is excluded most things but preeca and tahina apply to a human being as well and reza pelle the rambam in safe amidst assay rage gimbal analysis spells it out you have to help animals or you are them the kenner of mem and the smargan essay also say this methorish that these pre-katina by animals and coast game by autumn and the te safte bomba see a parrot base or is your aleph he says it's very mustafrum because the end of the day even the mitzvah preeca is because the ad the way the ram explains because the person it might get sick from all the soros and he pros that says the fairish as if the rabbi is massive even a human being there's a mitzvah of pre-kotina and i saw them at sid and his peers in mcdover in the spot in kiseitsay iketam of precantina is the person's anguish and he said therefore the mitsubikatina applies even if they're just a human being in distress so we have a rajva rambam and that the mitzvah pre-kantaina is not only animals maybe kosh gang human beings but and here's the big bot the radhvas little lady of course then the raj but one of the early sacraments was does the mitzvah pre-kathine apply to human beings and he says absolutely not he says because the more he says adam drives it's not convincing because an adam has sehgal to protect himself if he don't help he'll take care of himself an animal is helpless so he's saying it's love that it's is to leave a person stranded and he points out above an nipple where did the rambam put the halakhas of pre-kantina which is allah is regarding animals in the very end of hilhary sayakushmira why there because it's dangerous you leave a person helpless it's dangerous so the advantage it says it's an offering goddaughter to leave a person stranded and it's obvious but you can't say the mitzvah pre-canteen applies a human being and this from a different context is the opinion of the harvest yard and semen kuffsa the javascript is talking about a different island about a cayenne that that's that's an oil of a mace but if he runs out it's going to compromise on his he's going to have a lot of tsar running into the cold leaving the building so he discusses how much of a hat is a tsar of a human being and then he throws it at the very end that even though this is the that only applies to an animal not a human being the havdill because he has a he has a das and nephesh and he could he could deal with his own tsar humans but the problem is as the kid in berkeley are there in base points out it's very nice to capacio says but we have a rajva we have a rambam and we have the under the the also we create that says there is a human being and i saw a very thorough truth but who proves conclusively there is an isa by the chain by human and there is a mitsubitina by human being so as we see our quote simple question is not so simple after all but we could definitely say that that according to many rashainum and many poiskim their mitzvah of pre-kantaina and saba lechayam all apply to human beings as well as the bahamas now let's apply this le meister to the number of shirtless let's start with the simple xylem you're walking in the street and you see a person that just went shopping and he has a very heavy load and he's struggling it's very possible that you have a key of the rights that to help that person also this could be frequent don't forget he's he's collapsing under his load now i who said a human being this precup so i can't say all agree i mean again we saw the rabbis does not hold like this but definitely we saw a rajba arambam that applies even to a human being a person that's struggling with a heavy package according to most we shine and we have to treat it at least like a smake of the ricer that you would be the icer to help and and to carry the blows with him if he wants to give you a token appreciation after you finish i wouldn't take the money because if it's precur you can't take money for that now you see someone sometimes you see a person struggling to carry a stroller up the steps especially women that is something they're about to fall so of course with sneers you have to try to help out because that's the mitzvah paprika they're crushing under a heavy load the big question is when you see a car that has stalled or got a flat and i'm talking about when it's safe you're not gonna just make a short stop in our street certainly on the highway is probably illegal i'm talking about when it's safe to stop and help a car that's in distress what is the extent of this so the truth is plus it will say we said that earlier loved after animal who had been a car and lobbed after animal who had been a person so why don't we add up the two you say this and we'll say that it's here the rice alcreca to help a car that's stranded but again it's hard to say that so simply because don't forget helping a year that has javascript marino of eight children he's in more distress than any car that's stalling but to help him is not the mitzaprika even though he's in fees and terrible anguish said prika has a certain connotation either the animals collapsing or the person is collapsing but let's look at this situation a person is driving on a street or a highway and he got a flat it's let's talk a very distressing but he's not collapsing he's comfortable the car is uh khan needs the yeshua so how do you say that that is the mitsubisha prieka if the person is carrying a heavy load that's pre-cum or if the person is driving the horse and buggy and the horse is stuck in the mud and the bilem is whipping the the horse so then there's stopped by the crime of the horse or peek of the horse but here like why is it preeca why preeclam the person is stuck okay help him but where did it come to paprika but you know what it might be and reasonable to say this it might be the thieve of tina if some what does tina mean the animal is comfortable but the person is helpless he can't get the package on the animal so what's the difference to ina the package or helping him fix his flat you know hook him talk him i'm saying but there are tacos you have to give the fella a boost or you know jack up the car let's hook him talking help him up he needs help so maybe helping with a flat or giving us a boost would be the says that the mitzvah to stop the helper card that needs help in any form is not preeca but is the actual the kiev of tina this is what he says and again it's because you're helping someone that's stuck now the truth is it's possible to argue that if we understand that bahamas loved afgha so why don't we say the following the helping a car in this that that's that needs help could have both features slightly different first of all if the animal collapsed so that's preaker right and if the car is not going like what's the hell like maori car my league of many animals and the person is very much in distress because he's stuck especially if he has children or all the people in the car and they have to get and they need help and and they're stranded and they sabotage human being so why don't we say there's a little of both the fact that the car is helpless is like the animal that fell down and the fact that these people in distress is and the emma says when you look in the center and tough mem when he speaks about the mitzvot or any other reason i don't know what he's alluding to but maybe he's alluding to this you site when a person's car the the the high ticker the ferret is a car so when the car stopped help him and if you if you look at the araka in he says in our country that we go with a horse and buggy and if you come across a horse and buggy that's stuck in the mud to help to take out the load to get the donkey out of the where it's stuck and that's the mitzvah of preeclamp that's what he says now is saying helping and donkey that stock is prica loading up the donkey after you took off the package is tina but then he adds the most important to us if the wheel of the wagon the person b of the buggy broke or the something is it doesn't work any longer you have to help him and that's the mitsubrico now think about this assume you have a horse in buggy and the wheel of the of the wagon broke the animals out of distress and yet helping this horse and buggy go vita is the mitzvah apricot apparently understood that if someone's mode of transportation is not working and the person is helpless or hopeless or both so that's the mitzvah preecum maybe he felt like we explained you're adding up these two factors number one the horse buggy is not moving and number two the person is in terrible anguish then i saw actually i saw this earlier the imba yakov who quotes his arch says that calls it he was not so medullique because it's not prica it's to ena so we see i guess we could say of our skin if helping a horse and buggy that stuck is it preeco or tina but there's something either pre-coating now the emma says that he says is lloyd duck i find it hard to accept that khashoggi was a pasik is so precise it's hard to believe that a plastic writes preeca when it's really to ena because there's a world of a difference preeca there's a lavana say tina's only you can't take money for tinier take money it just doesn't make sense to use the word that's inaccurate it's more probable to say that they are like we explained that if someone's mode of transportation collapse is not working a flat or it's stalled and the the human being is in a hopeless situation that might be preeca because he cannot move on he's stuck and then i saw they have a dog simmons whose mamas discusses our not about horse and buggy but a car that's that stuck what's the obligation to help him so he comes from a different angle but he says if the rambam the end of describes the mitzvah because a person that's stuck could come to danger no when a car is stuck and the people are stranded especially they have older people young children and they they they they don't know what to do that would qualify to be the preecum nothing and he mentioned that we mentioned that because when a person is stranded and helpless it could lead to a certain sakhana and then he says that according to this helping a car that stalled or status a flat would be the of preeclampsia not just to enum and therefore one should not take money for that and he points out and then i said that i saw the ah that's a right to what i said in other words he understood like we explained that when a person's mode of transportation is functionless and the person is stranded so you have a little bit of the knife limb but there are a little bit of the roivista it's not moving there's definitely anguish to saba and that's enough to say that it's the thief of preeca not just to enum so we have mamesh our sheila that again i did see an achiva from the in the in the the conscious soya zions on the chin hey from the the mahabhava of the mishnah suleiman who discusses this child as well but his mascana is helping a car in distress that needs help either flat or or a stalling is tina not prica but it's definitely one of the two because when a person is stranded there's definitely this concern that you have to help him now someone once asked me you know maybe today there's no pre-cortina because the old days the person was stuck he was helpless today people have cell phones you call have air so why do i have to do it so i said you know what let me let's hear are you let's say you'll be electrician and someone calls you he wants you to rewire the entire building he can give you a job to take you eight months or you say eight months i'm going to work get someone else you'll grab it with both hands right panos of eight months no someone's giving you an offer to help another yid why are you giving way much with it grab it yourself if you could do it do it if you understand that when you see a car that's stranded you have a mitzvah der isome whether it's pre-cortina or even i mean so why should you grab the opportunity now if you're going to learn or you're going to give a share and if you stop you're going to miss your learning and it's f shady because raven will be there in a jiffy no then you could say i'm going to learn so it's a general cloud that you're not you don't miss learning if they're saying but why shouldn't the person grab the opportunity of hesit so this time you have to look at that this is an opportunity of preco or tina or minimalistic it's during the winter and you see it's someone that's stuck either he's stuck in the snow or he's getting on the ice and he needs someone to push him out so this is my michelle wish is reasonable to say that that might be freaker again it's a lot of distress he even especially when they have people in the car you have to ask me to go out because you have to push the car out there's too much weight you have a bunch of people standing in a freezing cold and you're pushing and doesn't go the more people push the quicker gets out so it's very logical to say that according to the we mentioned pushing the car out would be a mitzvah of preeca now minimally it's tina because again someone needs help and especially in this context we have people especially if you have to uh people have to be standing out in the cold so it's definitely prequel tina now either i would mention someone once told me that he was stuck he he parked on a street and there was a big snow and his muzzle the snow plow pushed all the snow front of his car and his mama's his car was buried in six feet of snow see he told people you have to help me because the mitsubi cantina now that's not pre-cortina that's a nice vested but that's not pre-continue it's not like a person driving and he's talking you need help okay so say but that's abusing pre-katina but when someone is on the road and he breaks down he needs help he has family it's it's tina and perhaps preak as well one thing that to me is push it if someone double parks or he blocks someone's driveway or any other avlab in adam besides according to the raj but that's the issue of the era because if by a behemoth calls came by an autumn and if you know how people get aggravated by this you'll know that that's why it's not it's possible that doing any atrocity on the road according to the raj with sabah the chair that applies to all them as well we once had a shia la a child was driving his bike a child a young child and the chain fell off and the child was helpless and getting all nervous so i was thinking helping the child put the chain on for adults it's no big deal it's probably preeca because don't forget the child doesn't know what to do and he's stuck and for him he's a little more nervous and i must add which i saw a number of poison say this even like the harvest your ear that there's no issa derived by an autumn because like to have your explained because the person could fend for himself but says the pillar it's an erect that even if he holds his notes abraham by an adult but by a child that's helpless and that's why he writes in that sometimes mothers let the children cry because they want to finish something it's not important they should know they're playing house it's about their eyes them because in this context a child like like ibrahim it's totally helpless the oyster oyemets goes back a few hundred years ago and seemed a tough racial and above it's almost amusing the way he describes it but sometimes for shabbos they have to david people go for a stroll they leave their children home and the children are starving he says no doubt about it they're evan that type of scenario so when you're dealing with a young child that can't fend for himself all the greed is so it's a it's a precious opportunity to have the mitzvah now a situation of prica or tina can you ask for money it took time especially if you're using a little of an expertise if they want to offer you a tip can you take the money so this is mamesh our suggest where the gemara says and this is where the mahabharata passing the race is for paprika you know i'll take money and as the smart points out and see if cotton you see the government says you've gotten you're zion and the priesthood got you zion even if the biolum offers you on his own you can't take it because prica is behind which is a i guess a less lesser level because then you're allowed to take money and certainly if your office you allow to take the money if someone as i said early is on his way to learning so it's basically the same cloud if it's if they are harim then let someone else do it not that is unimportant but thomas turkey cooler and you want to see this clearly in in in paragal right in the beginning in the haggar he says we're about to go learn and someone shows up and iraq needs help so about you have to not go learn and be but if there are people at home that could take care of the area respectfully then let them do it and you go learn ah you didn't yet start learning so you're not all you seek a mitzvah yet but you're going to learn so talmud terry can i get coulomb you go to learn and let the family take care of the guest he does caution if it's a hush of a guest and it's inappropriate that you walk out and let your wife and children take care of a hush of a guest so then it's and stay home but if they have to have priorities and certainly when there's a tamithar to rob him there's different internal third rabbit when you see someone struggling with a heavy package we said earlier about this to help him the question is if you're driving along is there to stop to help him i'm driving maybe it is not here or let's say you see some money he's not struggling with heavy package it's a cold day it's a hot day it's an icy a rainy day what is the extent of what we refer to as hasset while driving to give someone a ride to offer someone a ride so of course sometimes a person has a full car he can't stop for someone or somebody a person is talking private with someone else and he can't take a someone else i'm talking about when it's when it's not hey him when is there a fear perhaps of helping aid by picking him up and giving him a ride so the embassy is that if the person is carrying a package as we said there's a cliff but i'm talking about just the kasich boy so there's no doubt about it that it's acid i mean once said that today we really have agnostics or because people have homes but what could be a real even today when someone's walking in the street either exposed to the cold or the heat or the rain or it's an ice and you take him into your car that's ah because he's homeless for those moments that he's walking the street so it's definitely him but here we come to an extremely important part of our suggested while driving i don't like to be mairich but i saw six good early israel hindi all said that really in a certain sense driving shouldn't be so mutha because of the sakana involved the stipela and if somebody's almost said this had they had the cause and times of the khazal they would have asked them again i don't want to scare anybody but statistically there are more fatalities in driving than flying now we fly we make bench glimmer and when you drive i know the question grabber said it would be up to him whenever you walk out of a car alive bench grimo but the maester who the south kataka said we have about driving rahman al-islam and again godeli israel has said that they had they had cause they would have asked them out to smart them so why taka do we drive the shave he quotes a barrel of elsa who said that he would he would taka never gave bracha that people should drive because he felt as dangerous but with two preconditions he would justify driving number one and i quote that when you drive you have to keep the laws of driving like they would be as serious herdibras you have to realize the barrel of belzer was someone who lived so likely i once said the story he once went to a doctor he had a heart problem taxes you must take medicine reps i don't take medicine my gabby will take it from me so that's a horrified both are going to die because don't worry so i said the story here attacker and he came over he says his cousin was the rebels gabbay and he was married he took his heart medicine so he was summoned to like when it came to driving you have to keep the rules like the asterisk is nothing less a big lesson rather that's a short air of shabbos keep driving rules like a sarasota's but the second precondition is when you see someone walking in the street give them a ride and this has said you'll be safe and the same thing i saw in the shape of a lady in zion you all they asked him why there's so many fatalities in driving accidents he says well obviously the real reason is because when i'm a possessor and we're rushing now we're going and we're not safe and if you don't know what he means just look at our streets on a short area of shabbos and people are driving going you know you wonder like one goddess said it's a suffolk either it's the retailer i mean the driving that we have for the air of shabbos is but then he says the main reason for all of these accidents is because people don't don't do enough hustle when they're driving so this is what i you know i refer to as a auto insurance you know auto insurance is really a very shallow protection it doesn't protect you from an accident there's an accident it will compensate but this insurance protects from accidents i call it b and w insurance bells and ravozna bozeman spelled with a w so b and w want to give it a catchy name but it's incredible that besides of course the mitzvah you're driving to help another yid you're looking after another eat you have a chassette then you have a beers but there's probably more to this besides the fact that if you have an empty car it's then it says this time there's another mishpot aspect as well i saw this printed in a number of sparring and bahamas now it's thrilled in the 50s they gave him a car that's just a drive and a car at his disposal whenever he has to go it's waiting for him he said i'll take it at one condition if i'm driving and i see someone that needs a ride i'm going to pick them up so he told baron this is eric israel either it's terrorists maybe or slam hippies you know in those days uh people on who who's tuesday you know the people that taking hitches it's not appropriate for the rasheed is covered because boson is he says you can't have something that you that did not offer someone else i'm going with an empty car i shouldn't pick up another yid now this is you know this your side is a kufsa magal of sea bays and the tas says this that a person that has something he doesn't need but he doesn't give to someone else this malcus because that's so again sometimes a person can't whatever reason it might be but push it it's an opportunity of push it driving and turning driving into a have to sell mitzvah and when a person does a chassette of course he does it right i heard the samay that was was witness to this they were he once they once were driving along here in in brooklyn ibrahimovic was in america at the time was walking grad the rap god said that he preferred to walk rather than to drive because he felt that driving is dangerous he also had this but anyhow they offered to take him and said fine first he did one then and then he said okay the shiva's house is down the block no no you have to take me home door-to-door so they were surprised first he doesn't want to go and everyone's door-to-door to explain i don't need a door-to-door daffodil but if you do you have to do it right slimes i once thought maybe the macaroon is that immoral says the midst of la voya of escorting the guest is bigger than the mitzvah of giving food to the guest and i think the morale explains why how could it be bigger than giving giving food because when you make lavoia you show that how much you enjoy the mitzvah you can't part with it that makes the whole midst of more slammers but be that as it may said driving is a wonderful opportunity i'll never forget this i once tucked up i was approached by an elohim an oldie he says you know you speak to people i'm going to ask you a question i go every day from neighborhood a to neighborhood i'm not going to say the names i stand by a bus stop and i wait for someone to stop to pick me up because it's much more quicker walking me by everybody by a drop by a ride and how many people drive by me and they don't they don't offer me a ride how can you understand that as you don't understand of course they don't see you i mean they see you person but they don't see your needs they don't put two and two together he says yeah i understand but let me ask you a question he says he says today we live in a world heightened awareness of you know worms bugs and vegetables how do people see those tiny minuscule worms and they don't see me and they say you know what he says when i started having a nude filler and i wait by the bus stop wait hoping for a ride i dive they would see me and how about if i'm a human being and later i saw it in the power of this yes in the past of the show and the possibility has a similar type the of it says people are worried about the bugs and food but they're not worried about me but it's a tremendous insight it's a message that you know we have to drive with our eyes and hearts open to see opportunities of herself two more questions i want to talk about driving and and custody of driving someone was driving along this let's say to lakewood to muncie and he stopped to pick up a passenger and he said okay but i'm going to charge you know you know i have to offset the cost of gas and tolls and the land the driver the the passenger was either a landing or a machotif he says no i'm not paying zeno base spells it out that it's only after the fact you can't go and live in someone's house and and not may and say i'm not paying that's not that's not true but more so the way the gemara says also in bhava khan mahatma bay's if it's in purely you might have a claim but once there's a hustler and twister says even then once there's a call you have to pay the full price and that's where the makhaba passes and shin san marc gimbal zion okay some questions problems have approved my shaw has a suffolk but definitely if there's a hustler then you pay the full price no if you picked up someone you have to stop and you have to take him to his destination so then it's very mustafa that this would be a case of even if it's but and then i saw marshall the gimbal of dalit biggest side where someone hired a one car of a train to transport his goods one compartment of a train and part of it was empty so someone else said let me put my stuff in any of you you're paying for the whole thing and then he said i want to charge you he said no has a smaller if i have to pay for this service is i have a house that i bought years ago but if i have to pay for this for this part of the train so it's custom and i did it hope also hoping to get a certified so obvious that would apply to our case as well and especially the truth is where many places it's accepted it's almost the uh the spoken rule that if someone picks you up from a hitching spot especially avada that he's expecting to use it to offset the cost so what we tell people is if someone offers you a ride take it and definitely offer to pay if he refuses fine if he takes the money he has a legitimate right i can't say your mojo you have to pay but it makes sense that it's done al dasca especially people sometimes make a judgment i'll go and i'll pick up a few passengers so it won't cost me that much you're always safe to be heirlook and offer to pay if you don't want to take it that's fine what's might be more of a shield is someone that wants tucker to go long distance and he wants to get a passenger and he wants to charge so where do you get the most passes you drive by a bus stop leadership bus stop there waiting for a bus to take them to a face monkey lakewood drive by the bus area and you have plenty of customers but that is wrong and this is based on yin in the bays says that when someone's fishing in a hefke area you can't come along and put your nets and catch the same fish i the fish don't belong to mexico so twice in conducion that's an intestinal base quoting contest i'm sorry quoting abandoned tom's father a mayor rabino maya who said the slaughter is that what this person this first fisherman that got to this location taka's all hafka but he invested time and money he put down bait in that area and that attracted all the fish if he invested time and money to attract those fish you can't come along and scoop them out even though the fish are as as of yet they're still hefca but if he invested to attract those fish it's his and you can't take it so the hindi capacity say if a bus company is of course i'm talking about that invest money to have a bus route and they advertise and especially they put up a bus shelter that attracts a customer even at the bus shelter but especially when there's a bus shelter but they put money in to make it work that they always have customers and you can come along and take all their work and make money out of it that's wrong and that's why the truth is a lot of price kim said that based on this place this to drive by a bus stop and scoop up a customer and charge him is wrong okay some are mako there's some fundamentals but i could definitely say most players can feel that if it's a initial company that invested you can't take their customers so to take a customer and charge him is a big surgery in gotham what i declared i would love to hear from the islam a more common sheila let's say i'm i'd like to invest it could i drive by a bus stop and pick up a passer and not charge him what's the shielder because on my side i'm still causing a loss to the bus company they had this customer i'm taking them away i'll say i can't do herself i can't feed a poor person because he's gonna have to otherwise you have to go to the grocery and i'm making the grocery lose money i what can i do i said so i'll tell you my suffolk we once spoke about this here a famous shia la meiser you know someone that made up his mind he's gonna buy a set of mishnais and a certain swarm store for 200 which is a fair price but you happen to know that this is another store that's running a very uh special sale the same is nice for 160 dollars so he once said it's based on him and vegeta's per cloud test see if you're in hago that if the store that he wants to buy is over pricing is is doing something in avila even if it's less than estus but if the store is overpricing so maybe allowed to say go somebody's else but the mash moist let's say the store is charging a fair price 200 fair price you happen to know there's a special a sale so why are you trying to favor the customer and saving money you're causing that spur store keep a loss he's doing business in other words if the first stool keeper is doing an avalanche you got to help him but he's not doing an avalanche and this is what many poison say so my child is does that the same thing why shouldn't i apply and hit this case as well the bus company invested money to attract customers and they have a fair customer you want to do a headset at their expense is that necessarily the right thing a good viennese has been but then again it doesn't sound right because what am i doing wrong i'm not gaining from this i'm just helping a person giving him a ride but then again in the other days also i'm advising him am i gaining but again it doesn't seem right and i'll tell you why imagine someone says you know solo i have to put out a business because they're taking away money from their funeral chapel saving people's lives as an avila i mean you you can't do hesed it doesn't make sense you can't give someone food for free because otherwise they have to go to the grocery and pay for it but then the question is what about it what about the khafiz khaim story so maybe that's only because of the deeper hamazik it's washed and hard because what you say probably and that's what it is to do it you have to just know what's the code in the other case and perhaps last but not least let me leave with a thought i guess about driving there's an alarm is written over 400 years ago approximately years ago in aleph rajkov gimmel he has a very interesting question why wasn't a person born with wings this is this question lamborghini wrote in the fighting law adam in fact the gemara says lost it lovely inside hypnotic basement base a person will have wings and my question is that well he's asking but i would add a little bit the burster ain't saying why did brunson make us with wings can you imagine how life would be so much more pleasant a few flaps to get the shoe no parking no gas and no no no red lights no tickets from so terrorists the second terrorist says bill isean if you would have just one two flaps to go to school where's your skarpassia and it's not a credit card i'm not gonna have romance says if you have two shoes to go to go the one that's further because you get more precise so it's not a clinic kite what he's saying when i saw this it was very inspiring but it was very troublesome to me because today we have something called a car either bursting wants us to have skarpy so libya is a tremendous muslim high school in that that the bhairsalam believed in us and this is a tremendous vote of confidence because with wings you can't do hesed but with a car you could do so much rested besides of course the kid is hashem when you drive like it like a banter like a yield is supposed to you know people have on the bumper stickers this driver makes a kit of hashem you know you can't do that with wings but with the car you can make this hashem you could give people hussed you could pick up drivers you could help people passengers so maybe we could supplement and replace the scharpc as something even bigger than so basically that's just what we learned today there's no doubt about it there's a toyota in this sugar of how to live to help others with an open eyes an open heart but basically preeca is when the animal fulfill and this then there's the mitzvah apricot even to take money is awesome ta'ina is not sabal the rajva says that pre-k and tina applies to all them as does saba lechayam others argue but definitely according to the raj if a person is struggling with a heavy package there's a free of their eyes of preeca to help him to help a person with a flat with a stalled car or any other truck engine trouble is minimally to ena and perhaps preak as well grab this cost like you would a job because this is we're making a living high nets when a car is getting on ice or snow it's helping him is definitely preeco atena digging out a car from a mound of snow with hesed blocking a driveway double parking or any other you know abdos on the road is saba desi and darius helping a bike with a young young child with a bike is definitely preeca or the auto insurance of school smeara is picking up passengers you can't not charge for preaker but to charge and as we said the opportunity of has said is when a car turns into the mitsubishi is coming in two weeks we need your support to arrange the tariffs on sparkle sharing worldwide please call ign share if you don't have a share in your community set up yet 718-851-8651 foreign um