Changing One's Tzedakah Pledge - Rabbi yakov Zev Smith

foreign recently he pledged a sizeable amount of money to help build a Mikvah and then he had a change of mind he wanted to use the money to build the base matches it was a growing Community he wanted to reinvest the money different part of that tool is he let us change his mind change from a pledge to a mikfa to obese we once had a shout out with someone pledged a big amount of money to and on E and then he realized that he added a relative that needed the money as well so he wanted to change me on ilani he's gonna give the same amount but give it to a different Auntie but then again he pledged to the first Donny we'll soon talk about a shot of someone wrote out of check and change his wants to change his mind or someone put cash into an envelope to send back and wants to change his mind when I pledge to give a hundred dollars to an ani right what is what is my pledge don't forget a pledge is a very harmonica concept and they're there even another but a commitment that is of Art what is my fear of actually so if audio say what I mean I pledged a hundred dollars to give to Nani is that true there are two parts of my pledge I have to give a hundred dollars to give to that honey or maybe he'll say there's no mits to give to this any more than this honey the mid to give to anani so I made a pledge to give 100 if I decided to give it to someone else I'm doing the same mitzvah who said the Ani was kind of some type of right because I said his name or maybe your your commitment was give a hundred dollars to a Nani the same is true if I pledge to give to to a a Mitzvah I want to build a Mikvah so wonderful but uh but once I'm giving the same amount of money to build the base magic maybe I'm keep my commitment or wait a minute you said Mikvah not base magician you want to give face magic so give both so that's the Shia that sounds deceivingly simple now really what what really complicates this question as I said I mean Claude Israel said this from from even the word says a person should not be nether we should not be ruggled to make the doraem and if he is he's called the macabus is even regarding sadaka a person should not make a lotion of another that's why we say never so there's no doubt about it this sugya is frightening because it involves another I'm going to use the word Ned even though I'm not sure when you pledge money you have to have a lot we'll use the colloquial term as if it's another nether means commitment but also makes the sugya intimidating if I pledge to give to an ani maybe it becomes a his money maybe like we said that and then you talk about we always speak about you know of someone else's money so we have really two groups of questions changing from mitzviz from Mexico so we'll soon see other examples or changing from Ani to Ani so listen please and we'll find out this is the only source in chess to get any type of lead in our question again it's only about a line and a half can you tell me what you think towards the bottom someone pledged money for to talk and again it's not a nether this is but I'm gonna say the word that's really what we're talking about he made a pledge actually until the Gabe actually was kind of the money he's allowed to change it Misha Bosley Agape wants the Gabby was killing it for the intended purpose okay so we'll soon talk about the body Agave part of it but let me ask you what is the Tie to the word is that what we're looking for did we find the the answer you'll add a change you'll have to give it instead of giving it to the microphone you'll give it to the building fund not so fast because Rashi on this kimara said early actually but on the same plot you'll have to change it for your own purposes I'm sorry after he will pay back the mount now Rashi earlier explains when a person gives sadaka a manasuke and it's unspoken tonight Rashi is learning English Neisha did not mean to change its address where it's heading changing means like we say in English I need change I want to change that quarter I'm collecting coins and they're both this coin is worth the same like I have a cool quota but I like this vehicle coin it's new it's shiny either you want to borrow the money and you'll pay back I'm always late so now you'll put back different money but of course you make sure to put back the money don't forget that's the worst thing to do to take money from stuck and not repay it but while she's learning this now you say is the physical money either taking change or you like that particular quarter or you're actually taking the money using it because you need small change and you'll pay back right away you allowed to change the money but not change direction of the money now the only question is if it's only just that changing it so why would you bully agabai why can you change it then I'm just taking a quote I'm putting a different quarter I'm taking it there I'm taking four quarters putting I'm putting in a dollar bill there's a pushing if I need change of a dollar can I tell you look up and you look up I put my hand in your pocket and take out four quarters and put a dollar in that that's called Ava right so once it's bowling it's Sudoku money period even no loss so according to Rashi we have no even remiss however toysfus and this is that government base is printed there that really belongs to our studio quotes now I have to be very careful is not talking about changing me on ilani he's talking about changing me Mitzvah Mitzvah you pledge to a Mikvah you allowed to change it for a basement foreign you can't play games it's too late foreign that the pledge was to give money for a Mitzvah whether it's a Mitzvah or an ani who said this my this who said this versus that mitzvah now however there is of course a big finish in this chat up here what are you doing you promised to give to a Mikvah and then you're giving a best magic so so you didn't fulfill your pledge isn't that part of the Pledge and Taco Time and he says McCain now this is probably a technicality the simple reading you know little dick is going on the money not on the pledge so Rashi like Rashi so hold it's changing the money I've been a boroughhold it's changing the actual pledge from mitsula mitsu and therefore he rejects he brings another life in the Gamora and he says basically you're not allowed to change the direction of the Mitzvah you pledge for Mikvah keep it for a mixer so our Kira that we began with Isis it's a pledge to give the chunk of money but you could change hold there's a pledge Khal on the particular Oni or the particular moisted now again the simple husband that's what it means nether net is how on amount of money we could also explain that benubarak like Rashi even though they have a different mascara but hold it's an unspoken tonight it's an umduna that I'm you know I'm gonna decisive person I'm pledging to give to this Mitzvah I might change my mind right she learns you allowed to take change because aldas came a lot of change Direction aldas came maybe a little more to it and that's because I'm sorry for rights and two tubers and you're a day yeah Zion if as we'll soon see even if you'll add a change from Sudoku to tadaka don't forget the old cloud of malabari Meriden you have to change to a bigger Mitzvah now it's hard to quantify misses but you have to check if you want to change you can change this from a small image to a bigger mixes so once it's a bigger Mitzvah yes I'm doing the same it's a plus so that's because I'm safe is understanding in the shot but I want to add a little heads but because we have to apply this the let's assume I made Allah nether I realize nether to give to a mic for fund so I saw the same with my uncle Applause he says if you use Allah then everybody agrees you can't change why I always love this territory Neda has a specific connotation if you made a nether to play any explaining you made an edit to make fun it's Mikvah so what's available talking about when it was a pledge a pledge doesn't have the details of which particular tadaka great great so our group of questions for today is only quotes you'll have to borrow the money Payback now it's the two of us give us pinteras points out the mahabad that makes no mention of the extraordinary health he doesn't agree to it changing quarters for dollars is fine changing direction is no good and he also points out there are more racial and basic valve that speaks about changing even for Pidgeot when it's mother is matched on a regular basis we don't change the marsh Dam difference of a dollar but it's a few hundred years earlier that also say emphatically we pass again not like Robin I must mention because it's a great generation but I will say take the following approach let's say I have a I know I pledge money I'm simply not sure how much I pledged was it 100 was it a good day 200 I'm not sure but I definitely pledge money what do I do now rapid you're in trouble because you can't just give a hundred and hope for the best that's the basic cloud of swagger there is give until you're convinced you gave enough so if you're a real generous person but um you're in trouble you have to give a lot of stuff what's the point sadaka is in Raceland test hey the Mahaba has a question you have money in your pocket this happens all the time you have to put them people wake up the next morning this money is it stock of money is it my money is it uh money or not together he says the same approach applies to our group of questions good luck said you pledge from you want to change it to a base mattress in the best scenario it's showing him if you'll add a change according to remain emulation you know according to Rashi if you give to a to the base of address you gotta admit simple you have to give to the uh Mikvah doesn't help so it's a software and he quotes a strong lotion from the marsh Dam because I think that's what the vice can assume that basically when you have a suffix if you allowed to change the direction of the Sedaka take the safe approach but with Lamesa if a person finds it difficult let's say this person had called me he's he pledged the size will Mount the money for the mcvum and he wanted a gift of his magic and he couldn't do both so here we have based on a Russian the two of us youth base base Zion says if a person made another taka even a real nether and for some reason he can't fulfill his nether there's always the safety hatch that's called matanada as the rush says when you make a regular nether with of course when you have the right excuse so the docker is not different and that's obvious that you have to have a good reason you have to have a passage but basically in our case it's probably even more motor to rely on a mataurus the Durham because don't forget he's not changing he's not taken from nether to Oyster not giving a penny he wants to redirect the money from the to the base of address so that will her be posted that you're allowed to be matanada now I must make a point with the magaba when the Mahaba says that collaboration Vega sends us to a chuvas dalid race foreign because the person pledged money for sadaka he decides to change his mind you go through have a nice day so take all the money you know buy pizza you channeled money to heavy money but what's very positive that if you redirect if you're not martinette you should go and use the money for David Hulen he's using it for a different mindset or a different Ani as we'll soon see the money is staying hegdish it's just Direction says that the red Vaz will have no objection I wouldn't say it's here so we have one answer to any of our stylist today if the mice you have a valid passive you have to have a rub that knows you know also there's the door give him after another now La Mesa that was Mitzvah Mitzvah now let's focus on only then we'll apply it more specifically so in a certain sense we could believe Anila Ani is a little more calmer because it's not just moisted an abstract more you said it's people if you promised ruvane and you give to shim and maybe it's gizzle from moving so maybe it's worse than to douglas.com maybe anilani is worse but then again in a certain sense and I sack a sword someplace can say this that only learning in a certain sense is better than mitsula mitsa because Mitch limits the mean you're making a dramatic change make for fun building fund foreign explains that there's no halois Pledge on this honey it's money you give it him or him the hurricane says it's even easier than cheating I think the husband is because you're keeping the same commitment you're giving to an army but most poisonous it's worse because you're changing from human being to human being that's a big outflow s and that meant two that I mentioned very strong glossing that he says and taking out of his giving that giving this different Oni is is he says hold it's awesome foreign it doesn't work he could be Michael his money but you pledge to give Ruben and now you're giving shiman you didn't keep your pledge or he takes the money and gives it back to you fine but you pledge to give Ruben Michaela won't help that's how much the commitment to give ruvane is binding because says the same thing so the point is it definitely seems that there's more regarding giving changing but again in this case would work and they told you I made a mistake that says in such a case we are giving it to Dhaka to a different Ani there's no harm on the roof okay now let's apply this time I said let's see how much we could use this lamise the original question someone pledged to give to an ani and now he has a relative that needs money so the emissions but then again you pledge to play any a why could you give the plain EB so the MS is about this should not be done you want to give to someone else give someone else I did see in a safer to DACA because you pledge to give to a stranger your relatives who needed the money and you forgot about him could be that could be another pretorius in race says that if you make an ad the betois so too and that is the attacker points out it has to be just like I said to give to ruvane you forgot about shim and your Ani you're you're a relative but if vishassi made the nether to give ruvane Shima was fine after the nether he became needy well soon to other examples now one thing I wondered is let's say you have a hectare to change whether you rely on Uber you rely on the mccilum so there's no it's the net there is there a problem as we know Aid has to keep vote even though even you thought about a price in your heart you have to keep it but once you make a pledge and then we have a concept mishapara very so how do you override that so the previous he says that even if you're muted to change they're still in and we could Wonder first of all if you didn't tell the only directly giving him it was just a pledge that you did by yourself there was no deeper also it's very possible that if you hold the Hester is Al Das Kane you gave made the pledge so it's like an unspoken tonight if you say I might give you I'm not sure and then you decide to get someone else is there is you made it but tonight more so if you are actually matineada in the first place so I'm not sure about that factor again but it could be definitely I think Mustafa if it's an edible toys the nether was no concern of someone asked me true story he put money in a pushka with the wrong pussca he wanted a gift to playing so we'll soon discuss the status of a pushka but assuming the pushka is kind of for the one that owns the pushka can you take back the money you're not putting anything in his place that's another choice or he wanted to take out a ten dollar bill he put in a hundred dollar bill so on the 90 thousands a common question a person approached them and decided to give him a nice amount just give me a minute turns around looks to somebody turns back to give him he's gone the problem of the disappearing honey the collect the ensure they they're very you know quick they gotta move on so the question is if you could find him look try to chase him a little bit oh Father should I do that but let's say he's gone and you don't even know how it looks really so chasing won't help you know he got mixed into the crowd so here we come to an interesting thing the whole question doesn't really start I didn't make a pledge I thought of giving this on me with another I'll say believe D he quotes two days but he's not eaten to the makilam that Ned has to be before you have to verbalize it just thinking about giving is not a commitment foreign he says even there are more that's mahmir has to be a firm commitment some people think they might have pledged that's that doesn't have to worry it means a firm decision to give our case minimally is a firm decision so here we come to an interesting is briefly says this in very important new site in the direction is a story Abrahim was getting on a bus and money so he decided to give the Ani but just then the door closed and you know some people say oh say by the Bell right crying was distraught he couldn't give the honey the bus drove off so he went to the the yesterday what should I do said give it to a different Army so I understood from the khazanesh's words and this is a beautiful londis that when which is not even holidays to give to which I need to give there's no dinner but if you thought of giving up the give but loved after that on me so here is the case all agree a lot of change if you wanted to give money to this Michelle looked very nice but he he disappeared so if you pledge verbally I'm going to give you a hundred dollars wait a minute so then you have a problem that's anilani but if you just like typically decided to give then you could change now this I would say in the middle of fire Sim because it could relieve a lot of tension and sometimes problems we have a lot of problems when the either the the disappears sometimes you give a check to um and a year later never cast if you have no idea where he is you send money into in to duck up they don't cash it sometimes it's the the mice that closed all these things that you get you're left with uh Sedaka money you don't know how to do what's right upstairs and briefly regarding a different context but how are the same spell Works approach to make a statement once you could do it after this year today for the rest of your life it has a lifetime guarantee warranty guarantee that whenever I pledge DACA in any situation pledge you gave writing a check anything it's only how when the Ani gets it then if he drops it you know at least not my problem but I can have sending in the mail pledging it's only Hal Sedaka when the Ani gets it in his hand and then you are safe of all these problems I wonder about one thing rather because a person has a push in the house and still the the sheikhail before you keep putting money in the pushka so the same thing works because let's say by time you you want to send the money in the the the the the the the why is it closed gets the money but the problem is that there's a wonderful therapy a workman's therapy in giving Sedaka as the rambam says that whenever you give money it makes you a better person you break your the selfishness and you become a giver there happens if you have a thousand dollars to give us a doctor don't give you know 500 to each Johnny break it up in small amounts because every time you give it has an impact on your nashama now if you're telling me putting your money in the and giving giving giving giving it's not how until you actually give it does that reduce at all to one mice it's a DACA I hope not then we're losing a very beneficial uh therapy I'm hoping that made what I'm saying is correct that La Mesa the therapy of living room is giving imagine taking money putting the postcode and it will get to Taco one day so maybe it's not the Kia mitzvah hopefully it's the my sim it's okay question they collected money foreign and unfortunately when the money was raised the that was broken this is a very logical thing he said okay this that was broken but we hope to get a different sugar okay he's an incentive now she has a disadvantage so keep the money until she makes a as opposed to obviously neighborhood the color died you have to give back the money because there's no eventual use for the money but the point is it's logical they gave it that for the hassano that's going to be next week foreign collected money for a family that needs money and the rice Miss Baja was nifta he will not benefit from the money but again it's logical that a person gave money for the family also I've added rice was why they gave because they knew him but the family now needs more money because they lost their breadwinner so it makes sense then Advance it should go for the family that still needs the money probably more than ever tricky question they collected for whose son was sick and needed treatment and they had no insurance so a few keviron got together and they put together the money to pay for the medical expenses right before they actually went to the treatment on insurance so they don't need the money so you have a lot of money and there's no need so I'm gonna say foreign ask one of them make an interview would you have only wanted it just for the operation needs the money without the operation this just you know you know exasperated his problem if one Ani says if one kavir says I meant for the time regardless you don't have to go further you could assume it was given to help us you know of course honesty to figure out what to do a tricky question which is they collected money for a certain purpose and they did a good job and now they have leftover money typically that's not the case unfortunately it's always you know a shortage but there's leftover money for this purpose so the Mahaba in Raceland gimbal see verb is clear you collected money for someone and is left over the money goes to the honey the question is why he doesn't need it explains that people give Al Das they know sometimes it's extra money and I guess that's why it's Anna advertise because it's an omdana they you need the money a few extra dollars don't need it down the line La Mesa some also say once the Gabby got it he was kind of for the honey so even though when he started using it this leftover money but the honey was kind of there's an interesting but it's really another sadaka that really when you collected the money it all became like one chunk of money and the Maisie needed this money so the the actual seductive became all the money even though he'd end up using it but use a little bit of each dollar so he said basically you did use the money not all of it you use the money but the mice at the end of the day a value can collect all that's to make extra money that's Geneva but if you collect honestly and happen to be extra money the only guy to keep the money question about changing mitzvahs can I if I pledge from mcfuck and I redirect it to a basement of isavers Etc so this we saw Isis says as we said the Ramo also does does not seem to hold you let a change direction of tadaka and as we explain this is the suffix the question is our pledge this person had a sizeable mount that he wanted to change it he wanted to change it for the base Magic so the truth is I must mention even if you're old you want to be Simon Ramen don't forget but there's another fact that I see my limbicitis you want to change the difference a DACA it has to be a bigger now that's very very hard on possible to rate mitches you know but the police can do discuss this type of question a quote Allah with someone pledge money for Mikvah and they wanted to use the and wanted we've got they have money for for Learning and they wanted to use it for Mikvah because I'm safer expresses his amazement technically makes such a mistake how could you take money earmark for Torah and use it for a mixful that's an emergency it's probably like today you know every school has to have their um you know their olympic size Mikvah that's attraction and this show wanted itself they wanted to make a nice mix for an additional mix that you can do but La Mesa in theory from toyra to Mikvah is again if the mic was needed desperately the dad has top priority that's delicious Israel so our case change from to base Madrid at least we're convinced that's Marlin bakaidish but I told this person myself you're talking about a suffix like DACA so the eights would be martinella itaka made a mistake you want to you never really wanted this whatever it is fine now it becomes sticky if let's say he wants to change in that like in our case the same kill is building they need money for the Mikvah fund and for the basement he wants to give it to a different base Magic so that I saw the it's but he says that's also besides changing the the Mitzvah it's also changing the uh by loss a different voice is a different moisten it's almost like anilani so that you have to really careful before you change your mind I saw a Sri Lanka fish and Evan Israel is almost amusing but someone pledged to help Yeshiva build their oita's Farm it's gonna give all the Salam I need he got into a fight with one of the uh man Island whatever and he decides to change to a different Sedaka both different so he goes with the sugar it's the same mitsui changing she says if you want to best live in Montana but at the end he is but by the way what about the Issa of Niki manitira you're changing you're worrying about stucco what about right maybe it is soaking about that so be careful someone gave money gave it to a safe return to a soul anybody else is weirdly used when there are three or maybe and he's very unhappy he wants his uh safe to be used can he change it to a different kahila so this sounds intimidating a different Killers like anilani but it's mice it's not a shadow for three good reasons first of all whoever does donate a safe return to shul it's not donating it it's on loan if you give the safety to shul you lost the mitzvah it's clearly stipulated in fact some people write it on the mantle but no doubt about it you only gave it you loaned it to the soul you let it change your uh your decision to let alone it to this to differential also the fact that they used it already so you'll become your alone didn't say you have to use 100 years and also the fact is not being used is really a violation of your your agreement in a different context in will soon be put into a into a garage is to be kept so that's why it's posted you're allowed to take a turn to a different show the Tila dominant is a thin volume on your a day a racial and test he says gave swarm to Yeshiva to a shul that's not being used no one learns it you gotta take it out and give it to a different place that will use it more now he doesn't talk about the fact that it's a different moisten I don't know why but definitely it's Malin bakaidish from not being used to being used but moisture was just an historical question they raise money during the beginning of the second world war to send clothing to aniam in Poland in Poland the war broke out and they couldn't ship the clothing so he had a good Israel had a lot of clothing what do you do with it so everybody went through it beautiful to hold on to it it's going to go might go down to Value it might get old he says give it to Annie they need the money and neither clothing but make sure when this and it will be again an ability to Center the the play them in into the anime in Poland you have to give back that money but at this point he relied that Michelle because the clothing would go down in value someone pledge to a Yeshiva the change of different Shiva again says besides the fact that it's taka the same type of Mitzvah we talk about a different buyers and that's more complicating someone pledged to a one base Magic can he change to a different base matches again it's the same kadusha but the problem is the bias are different How about if he wanted to build a base akinesis and then he decides to build the base time address now we we think they're the same but a basic classes today is pretty rare it's only with dabbing goes on there's no eating there's no learning there's no mezuzah it's exclusively the base Hashem for Thriller so even though Chile is halik but the mahab in the beginning of gimbal says based emerges a higher level so you're allowed to change and basic nessus the base and Magic but not vice versa obviously be careful if it's a different buy list you got a problem now a tough question is let's say you've originally pledged to build a shivaktana younger boys you want to build change and donate to Apex measures to a coil so the embassy is it's not push it says that learning of younger children that's tonight it's the Purity and don't forget when mashiach comes we'll hopefully run to be able to visit the touch bar to stay learning so he convinced that going give changing from a a younger grades to a basis from a safety-based magic is not as convinced he says if the older coil or even producing a dirty Israel that are desperately needed that takes priority but there's no doubt about it we shouldn't ever underestimate the value of giving even to ishivaktana because that's really the purest story that we have but again if it's a different moisted then you have the problem besides besides of the fact that it might be the same learning it's a different Bible is and that attack is a problem was he asked the question someone earmarked money for Toyota learning for Yeshiva and now there was a crucial critical so he says everything and definitely in kovitz foreign and Lamesa they couldn't raise the money this is a play back then that was pretty poor someone else pledged to give to his school cloth for the for that Taurus and the mice it didn't work out he kept commissioning decipher didn't work out plus he said the whole he lost his case because the show was they weren't going to use the cloth so someone said you know what your money's sitting do nothing pledge for Tara then he found out that Letterman's soul and this type would have in there they need claf she wanted to give the money to Letterman show is the same class but then again he pledged to Teresa so replying writes that my father the staple doesn't want to get him doesn't want to pass again please pass him this but he basically says is that first of all could be the third wasn't so push it changing from one to talk with another one maybe he's a stickler tires but here it's basically a wonderful way of fulfilling your commitment you wanted to give he says also you didn't say it Allah to give to the shul he they wanted to devote it to having Clough so maybe it's not even a Shino if I'm oyster Meister because the wording was a pretty powerful loss and he wanted this to be class that's used but again more than you know the sockets the way it goes with the sugar and it touches every detail the show the majority saw Ray saw the cast test someone donated port a clock for the shoe but they didn't need it they didn't want to Return to Sender he says that I've Had The observed of your commitment he doesn't say the word but that's what it is they don't want it so give it to a different voice that will appreciate it is where they collected money thinking they needed a thousand dollars they only needed 500 and a person gave a thousand he said that's another toy so you could take back the 500 he gave it for this particular need and it wasn't necessary we have five cones I should say where a person wrote a Tavo and he gave a certain amount of money to differences Dockers now years go by are you still healthy Burger he wants to change his his server pledge it's got a very common child now he has no commitments he has any questions whatever he wants changed mom is what he wrote down a real lotion of Nether it's a precondition he says mistavra even in even if it's not written that's the meaning so it's what about Das Kane and he's a lot of change if someone pledge money and is not sure to which my city pledged he knows it was a thousand dollars but he has not the witch moisted so here the eights is matinee and then start again but I was thinking there's another relief in this Shyla because even if you end up giving to a different basid in the worst scenario what is it from okay if it's the same bios a pledge where the and it's a DACA or the moist it closed sometimes you have a pushka or even the Yeshiva sometimes you know if they wow the closes and you didn't know so it's posit that lamais you can't give it to that why is it so you have to give it to a comparable more instead of doing the same type of work the best if someone wrote a Savoy to give to him I said and it closed down so if it closed so yes whatsoever today so we're back to this island and give it to the closest moisture available unfortunately the true story someone told me you must have raised a lot of money so he made up the most tragic story available Hospital you know we're talking about mashana how we sit there for changing money but to make up a story that's not true you know if your story is would say the right story hope that you'll get money but you know it doesn't justify doing any type of Innovator I heard this from an Aiden they once printed a uh like a duck a letter for base magic of volume and they had a picture of the Yeshiva then and they added a tree or two that wasn't there to make it look nicer and baron looks in it says where's this tree and he insisted that we can't use it yeah now a tree is not Checker in the in the in the best magical volume but definitely you know shaker whatever you want to call it I saw too many two was to mention to you but no doubt about it it has to be with the greatest Integrity you know if someone is to Shiloh could he collect money for uh but it's not going to work says so all these things are you know doesn't work you have to be honest now I'd like to leave the other with my version of the fear conscious Force childless we always try before you emptive to give something to talk about this is definitely for the Department a person put money in the pushka didn't say a word and wants to change his mind the question is can he do it so you're wondering if I take out the money and give it to a better Sudoku maybe I'm fine but wait a second the question is what is the status of a pushka if we hold a pushka is like the odd to Dhaka it's like you can't even borrow the money you can't even change the money anymore so forget about you know chain taking it out you can't even take four quarters for a dollar now maybe you'll say but wait a minute it's in my house how's it become the the the tadaka money but we find the concept of Kayla versus becomes the one that owns the khatsa maybe the the pushka is a mini Kayla shelves don't forget I allow it and I I Safeguard it so the fact that it's me and my house doesn't really affect this child so the embassies a lot was written about this in a beautiful part of our history one second and that is goes back probably over 200 years ago at least but basically it's not the way we understand it today as a tadaka people in Poland Poland wanted Israel but they couldn't afford to move their throat so they collected money Faithfully send it to the to their landslide that moved to Eric Israel so by supporting uh to surround the Heritage row they felt the connection there it Israel but as you can understand living in Poland or any part of Europe for that matter there was terrible needs people are just pushka with lots of money to go to Heritage row now this pressing in the year so the question were asked can we take the money from my baby on S pushka and give it any Erica so this is my Memorial writes that a pushka becomes the bias of the tadak of the Ani it becomes I mean he's not a bad person but that's a doctor was killing it foreign so definitely to take it out and say I didn't you know say anything is wrong you Morgan said you gave it to the to duck question you got it to duck a letter and you got an envelope and you put in a money cash we'll talk about cash makes it easier is an envelope considered bowling so we the obvious acrylic between pushka and envelope is it needs no explanation envelope is just a maybe a covering so raise a Pella yeah Olive brisk a person gave a get in an envelope and put it down and the issue took the envelope off the table is Adam mcgregious maybe it's like the gemara if you put it if you put that again Isha takes it because it has to be even us on the other but if you put it in maybe the same is the get in the envelope but he says that it's because what what the giving of the get is through but here the envelope is just a covering over the uh of the get or you mark to the envelope that'll become like a khatsa but he says maybe taka will call the envelope of the Isha so by putting it down it would be like an account pretty disappointing not very decisive our case of putting in an envelope might be the same like abrahim's get case maybe the envelope Isa of the tadaka but I saw in a wonderful safer Shari tedek on the toughkeeps and he said that an envelope doesn't seem to be a Hudson it's more of a like a it's TOEFL towards what someone's holding it's not like a pushka also and this is very likely the the Messiah says I don't think they the tadaka keeps the bias of the envelope maybe the pushka they want to be theirs but the envelope is like the letter and he Kaka quotes he says I don't think even the envelope is the is the Bible in an envelope but my boys say make make sure one thing you realize that putting money in an envelope is minimally you made a very firm decision the fact you put money in the envelope so even if even though it's not bully agabai but mentally mentally it would be like a um and you'd have to give it to that Mason now the only question is about the Agape oh so here I have a cop here also because he said earlier when there's nether but changing we saw is okay so maybe the fact if you didn't verbalize a commitment just put money in the envelope which was a mashava so Takis but you could change me only so for that reason why to change question number three a person wrote out a check for tadaka now he didn't put it in a push screen envelope but he was so distraught because he decided to change his mind he tore it up quickly then he has Silas there's a torn check written to maisette Pliny it wants to change the question is did he do a good thing now if he originally pledges one thing he didn't pledge he just wrote out a check and decided he wants to change so the question is is the attacker a pledge with sadaka so this is part of a big Surya of Ned de bixav if I write a legitimate full-fledged genetic Sav is it is but the point is that regarding a check there's probably less of a Shyla because amount your name and the date Maybe with another the tadaku mishbergdale and rmma says even more than that than I'm saying I think when I say it's push it he says even if you write pay to the order of maiser Pliny is that another or it's your basic giving instructions pay to the order so I will I won't you didn't obligate yourself so it seems that a check would not be another big save but something is but minimally it's a machava because if you wrote out a check obviously you had a machov it wasn't a fitting moment so it comes out writing a check and you change your mind would be if you're an Ashkenazi you can't change your mind if you're a spouting maybe you could but one thing I would add like I said earlier if it's only alternative maybe you have they had to change me only and last but not least there's supposed to be a true story I hope not but it's supposed to be a true story someone they made appeal and it was going very slowly so someone who was not a big bowel moment but he wanted to you know get together I'm excited and he called out the five thousand dollar pledge and all the oohs and wolves you know wasn't spoiled and they started giving because if the if the if this uh you know this only could give we have to give said okay where's the five thousand dollars because I never meant the giving it I want to get to oil I'm excited I had I've had in mind I'm just giving it just to get everybody excited question does he have to give the money so this glad I made it to be fair shikamara says a horrifying prediction for four things a person loses his money goes to the malchus one of them is them he pledges and doesn't fulfill his pledge now apparently that my cell was bothered which he doesn't keep his pledge so Marshall but he says what it means is that one of the balabhatim that wanted to give encourage others to give makes an exorbitant pledge and even that if he doesn't give it he'll lose his money something something it's a gamara with the Marsha even though you mean well but you didn't keep your pledge now you can't get better than agamara martial however someone tying it to me but it wasn't pivily by shaven he didn't really wasn't intending on giving from from the first moment he started you said very clearly if you that you you're gonna give this money now if you said a thousand instead of 100 by mistake no we could talk but this is a real nether that you made clearly it has very much sense if you go over to the garbage before and say I'm just doing it I'm telling right now I don't mean it so that could be that withholds and Adam but that even that what about second what about Geneva's Das it's an Instagram he calls it I know if it's also a little more maker but he said the end of the day it's gonna have us Das the device like I told you earlier collecting foreign do you want to end with this that to duck is a halogen Mitzvah but has to be with the Zelda kite with the same yashwas I couldn't talk on a fairly well shame making sure to like your biggest record of Smith should I share also the show has a collection for maternity uh emotions [Music] thank you very much [Music] good subscribe okay everybody should remember but whatever you collect the money for or you sending yourself money for make it tonight that it could also be for egg and shareit okay just because what we learned today a pledge and certainly another is very calmer yeah but according to many poiskim a pledge is not just to give foreign the gamara that says the aim that the Shanice means taking change you'll have to take change or even borrow small money as long as you make sure to pay back but to change direction of a Mitzvah according to many we're showing him is awesome but as we said we have to treat it like because changing the direction of the tadaka is like changing the pledge you're not doing the pledge so we came out that even though there might kill them on both and then as if the pledge whatever was made if it's an ad the Victorious we wonder if changing is you didn't keep your word so presumably we will say that if you have a head to the chain maybe it's a bit is concerned about a person put the wrong money in the wrong person or put the wrong amount of money and the right pussca that would be legitimate a case of netheris the only disappeared so give it to a similar Oni the best thing is make it tonight with a lifetime warranty guarantee it's only how when the Oni actually gets it if a person has a machava to give to Dhaka so when they asking us if it's a firm commitment it's like a mashaba to give to Dhaka and you have to give it but is not is not Dominican is not clear but definitely for them I've been asking us you could you have to give the commitment but in that case you're allowed to change if a that was broken give it for the next if the color died then the money should be given to a different needy color you gave the collective of a sick child let him keep if you want to keep looking the money about it that's good enough leftover money goes to the Ani you can collect extra money even those that are Michael to change but stuccoli stock is only if it's a Marlin is invalid vice versa is valid savitar is not used you could change it to a different shoe for obvious reasons swarms are not used you could change it hopefully you're not violating the bias of it but definitely a moisted to a different moisture it's like if an onion there's more care yes foreign pledge that was refused by the by the moyset so you could say it's an advertised but try to give it to someone somewhere else it's avoid is an unspoken condition you're allowed to change it but of course a moisture that clothes give it to a comparable moisted so Geneva is certainly unacceptable ever definitely by the Taylor limits of tadaka and the four questions we discussed the pushka is but you'll have to change it because if it is taking change from the pushka is an unspoken tonight is envelope is not considered bully at Gabby but it is a firm mental decision so that would be mashava Rhoda check if the question is is it is it another probably not but it's definitely a makshava and to pledge just to give uh make others give is wrong you want to give the money give yourself or plead with them but you know how to use any less than perfect with me