Asking For Guidance / Begging For Help: Potential, Power and Parameters of our Tefilos - R' Viener

like to welcome everyone to tonight's cheer all the men here in the shore all the woman knows there's no shame everyone joining in on the phone and watching through the stream broken my boy to the supporters of tonight's survey them shame as a sister for slamming bakara for Peril esta bus drivers 718-851-8651 or email IST Toshiba net.com tonight we have the cover time with us once again obviously Hills and asking for guidance to bring hell potential power and parameters of our trilis we're covered the corner by vinyl if it's a nice dresser thank you good to see everyone about Hashem with a member every year coming at the last minute because trying to organize and evolved in the everybody who puts months and months of work into this I know because we start making us four months ago so it's very appreciated by the claw and Suddenly by me tonight's topic is going to be covering a lot of various things about something we do three times a day and always needs physic and what we fit into an hour if you know from the past years and decades usually I try to take the sugya that I've already given for about six months a year a year and a half I could dance it into one hour somebody reminded me just last night he's calling to ask when the share was so he asked me if I'm bringing the safer which I didn't actually Jay did but he did the schlepping wherever he is there you are so if you recall here about five six years ago I gave a hazardous that was over 80 or 90 each year and people give her Courage the time asked me uh it's a very important topic all the topics are important when are we gonna have a safer on it so Dan Corona and everything else back and forth the last number of years I worked on it and it's over there but it's due to the ilum that kept asking about it and I promised that last year and the year before so now it is about Hashem done the Sookie is not done because for good or for better in America and Godless it's getting more exciting as we go along as I worn in the safer just make sure you go to the first 290 Pages first of the sogia before you get to the short Childers otherwise you're not going to understand anything so that as hero is repeated a number of times in the sheer and if you need the audio to help you you could find it on terroristream.org like everything else this sugier that I'm going to try to condense to an hour at least touch upon some of the things that daily and dafka for the three weeks nine days in Tisch above is no gay at the various aspects of trilog where six months into this suggest they're already on the system about 50 or 60 share them of these so if I speak too fast if you didn't understand what I said please raise your hand if it's gonna get to this right now and if you're wondering why I didn't elaborate on it is because we're going to try to touch upon 40 different points and I would say do justice to hopefully all of them but really to none of them because everything requires physic further has bear and you came last shot this afternoon for sure so you now have to come back because you came in the boulevard but uh Hashem at least I don't have to wait a year for many of you so let's begin some of this will hopefully be in Missouri and to remind us a lot of this as I learned the suggest and prepare for this year and you would think trila how much can you be mahadish in trilo it does not to be we have to point out what we're already doing three times a day but often glossing over and you don't have to be such a big mama draga to take some of these things and just apply them like in an hour from now for my roof and tomorrow for Saturday it's easier said than done some of the material I'm going to repeat this when we get there hopefully in 20 minutes some of them sound like somewhat lofty madriguez you start bringing down enough basically came and other very famous macaris so people right away say we're not in the madragon so you probably heard this to me before but there is a particular issue if we keep repeating every day right after maidani and before we will not be on Rodrigo for anything so every time you mention anything that has to do with kadusha and raising the kavana they say well I went out in my Drago we're not on the McGregor but we can't keep drilling that in because we have it a strive for five percent of the madrigger and that's an important message for cavanus and Fila the share is not going to be about the name of kavana shemashemista it's hopefully going to be very practical not that that's not but for much of that with talking about trying to strive not every time not all the time to actually recognize what all 18 19 are really about and what they're speaking to us and why they're just as no Gaya as we will hopefully get to before Midway of the sheer will actually take a brief glance at something you all know by heart but like myself and everybody else who damage all the time it's a challenge to figure out what we're supposed to be having in mind put in all the cavanas you could ever need so if you had push-up shot and Pierce ramireless you'd be fine we don't even do that often because as we will describe hopefully starts off with a bang in a positive way because you really have to have come on by the first Brach office it's Mark cave and if you messed it up you can't really go forward but you can't stop and what makes it we go forward but that's the difference moves not for tonight and then uh after some of the highlights a lot of it becomes a blurb so let's begin with the ramban because I first want to point out it's not such everything at least once a day and he brings it from the Posse about Avada and the ramam halls of the possum is push-up shop referring to Tila besides General but it's Hashem is on to describe the minion of two is three a day or the additional certainly for men hopefully we'll get to some of the years later and the ramban all that is uh even once a day but there is a clear there is a base sorrow how to define HR we're gonna try it's not an exact science it's really what it means to you and people have different needs and different desires and different Panic buttons of what they're going to hold and asara is and a lot of that is culture and legal but on bad holes what triggers the Cave the rice is eight Sarah that could happen once in a while that could happen many times a day I would say new but we're going to discuss a lot about the rookness Decay Sarah and it's not necessarily A Bad Thing to recognize that you can't be so easy going about not reaching benchmarks so madriguez that you're supposed to be working on and that surrealists are the fact that you dive in and learned a little bit is not nearly enough if you could be doing a lot more and that my DNA star itself I'm going to get to that in a few minutes but whoever you define a Sarah a Sarah is the trigger for the race around Maisha says clearly in the truth that many agree with this that the rambam lochaira would agree to the ramban that aids Sarah triggers at the racer so my mom is simply saying that putting a sorrow aside every day this is the racer once a day and three times a day ramesha and a different juver talks about prayer and public schools almost like a different era prayer and public schools have a far bigger issues that they're not doing and denying and uh it's never been say every generation says never been worse I'm not old enough to say this with authority but it's never been worse um that's out of the best magic if you keep this wonderful massive that we have where everybody here and preaches the converted spends the whole day in Avengers Hashem and they work a little bit to pay the bills they do they don't but their home is the best measure their home is the study at home or they're they're places Three Laws then that's the only uh reliable way to cut out all the Michigan going in the outside world so no matter how crazy it gets three law is the first thing to recognize certainly if we agree with them on Bond and stop really means that it's very very important and desperate to raise the bar in your avoida and if you feel you're not doing that you need to cry out to our coach borrow and beg for help that itself is an a sorry to say well everybody has an ace of them I don't disagree with that I do agree that it can't be a coin drop Bond every minute of every day you say Sarah moskin but there are certain takufas or certain sinus in every generation and people are wired differently and you have to know what for you is more drastic in the need to protect yourself and where you need more help and for that individual those practical applications could be labeled as an Asura especially if they go into a certain incentives and they're not passing they're not passing as much as they should be no one can pass all the time so I'm introducing that because that's important the rambam holds once a day anyway is the race it doesn't make a difference we keep the races through our bonds and it's a scripture three times a day we have to make the most of it with that said if everybody agrees them on bond there's another component it does not to be a hoshman esri it could be a few seconds during the day at various times where you think there's an assign facing you and unfortunately sometimes the last thing people think of if they even recognize in any science is maybe I need help and that helps should be besides staying away from the design and running away is I should cry out to our closure so believe it or not I've had some good people tell me well I can't do that it's not time for dominant yet that's not true say the least now it's a nice summer the dominating perform I might have been through our bottom coins are on bond coins and then it's an hour later and all of a sudden you were in eight Sarah maybe it's not an Asura for society but you have to recognize when it's a potentially silent danger for you and then even if diving withdrawal still this course and a tremendous source of help the only source of help besides the Estados of getting out of the massive and if it's not racer even more so probation and the second true of a comments that in his prayer and public school the backdrop of what he was talking about many years ago and he said of course if you have a problem and you're a maimon and you believe in a burial then who else is going to help you he says this is never Pusher he has rias but he doesn't need riots any human being who's a minion if you're keeping Zion mitzvahsar unless you're doing a physical bar who said so so well this guy he's got to be a moment so of course he's gonna Dive In of course that's a regular dentist a function of the relationship of the culture so let's begin with a very fascinating stickle in the high elements from the stipler and uh I remember as a young bucker I had discuss of somebody Brockman Shabbos and somebody had real protection and he said I I got you the first slot mat the Shabbos so um I was uh old enough to appreciate getting to see the stipler not old enough to probably fully understand at the time but I did ask him for his farm that was always an art because the stipler was signing bets that he wouldn't sell this Farm anywhere and you'd have to ask him he said what are you learning can't just buy the whole setup can't buy the whole set so what are you going this month next month this one next month and Ohio mostly you have to learn so I have the original copy what are we doing here so you see this type of wants your uh gonna take that for a long long time so he talks about tulips if you want to look it up later we're just going to bring down parts of it right see later than Africa says referring to working years but there is a push-up shot we have broadcast that talk about panosa and rafua kame vehicles because you have to know what to ask for and that's the trick in life which a lot of people haven't figured out yet unfortunately is that how would you know what the diamond for if you don't have a hierarchy and a pecking order of what's important and what's the next important thing you wouldn't know so I'll get to in a moment uh last years I didn't get to camp this year yet and it's coming soon but one of the first sessions I opened up the councils are with their younger charges but the first session which the shorter one is to the whole camp and usually the councils have to get them to volunteer and be the maturgaman so I open to questions it's a classic but it speaks to all of us whether you're 10 years old 15 years old 20 years old or older you'll understand a moment why it took place in Camp what's on your mind in Camp so the hush of the people here would say well I must meet the program I should strike that's all good and if you're 10 or 12 there might be some other things on your mind as well so one Brave Young Man actually raised his hand and asked the following Shiloh I was asking for shyla's on and yandere trilo or whatever's on their mind I don't know if he got the heads up or not and he wanted to know is there anything wrong with darwining to a gosh who that you should win a baseball game is that a good camp Shayla you like that one certainly age-appropriate and so the council had to repeat it because he was always in the back end but he was mohana Clay as well with that childhood it's got to be very very careful how you answer that child of all ages especially this age because we have to do for ourselves our children and o'clock everything else we meet is that davening is about understanding first and foremost that we have a very close relationship wants to help us in every way where it's really a help to us when the answer is no means it wouldn't be a help to us it would be a hindrance and whatever helps your and that includes gashmi is to an extent so Hashem as the Ava Rahman wants to help us so you can ask for whatever you want that's a very important message we'll discuss in a moment is it true all the time but it's certainly true that if it's legitimate requests then you have to be taught you have to have it ingrained that the only place to turn to is because the only person the only being that can help and everybody else is the people you're talking to were just the status on the ground but it's all up to this so I didn't ask the question yet you notice and I gave this whole Preamble and he's looking at me I'm I told the council he's gonna have to explain this in an hour or two afterwards but what I did mention was as follows why does a 10 or 12 or 15 or 18 year old want to dive into a coach Roberto they should win leagues color War baseball game so you're all looking at me what's the answer so again depending on the age I don't expect a 10 12 15 year old maybe even older to be thinking that deeply why does he want to win because if I don't win I'm gonna lose a good answer it's going to be embarrassing okay so let me just work on that a little bit you'll say we're not in the madriga but I already performed that before so everybody's afraid to say that but what has to be taught slowly over time is that you can ask for kashmi is winning a game is all about in Camp all about covered because I don't think there's any cash payment if you win from what I remember so let me say it's about covered so covet's a bad thing well defensive covered can be a big stair to your rochnius but as a child growing up it's important to have self-esteem and if in camps even in a very formative office not the only way but that means you're trying to play the game well you're trying to win at least be part of the winning massive so then call me a Michael I don't think it's so out of line if it's important to you I was just trying to use it as a teaching moment to try to examine or think about putting in the back of your head for when you're older to really break down well why is it important everybody knows the game is not important nobody's gonna remember if you won or lost and they're not giving any money so you can't take it to the bank so what do you need it for the answer is you want to have a cover on this is the cover that's playing okay not everybody plays ball the other however might be spending more time at the base managers we're not discussing good or bad we're discussing the unique question of this young man so you don't want to say no don't dominate because if it's something you want the only place is you also want to put in the kernel of a makshava that there are many things to be asking for at 10 15 20 and then adults just wear longer pants and have different retainers that you also can't really cash in on but it's also about covered okay so whether Hashem please I want to do card do I need a new car I want a new car what's this in that winning leagues nothing much so I want more money you could do a lot of Misses of money so why do you want more money and what are you really going to do with it and have you been a gizber that has proven themselves it's a lot of things you can ask for in gosh Miss we're talking out in Madre at a young age to do with the Shema and maybe none of us run by Drake get to do it 100 small we're here to raise the ideas we're talking about you have an audience what can you ask for the answer is anything and everything should you be asking for anything and everything not necessarily as you get older and get more scuffically honed on what's at stake over here we have to try without funding ourselves to really concentrate on asking for things we could be a little magusham dick a little extra change to be relaxed a little extra food to what limit to what goal and what are we using it for and then you could justify asking for it five percent ten percent twenty percent that is all in the first two lines of disciples that was says yes there are three little fagashmias and you need to hold Body and Soul together and you need health and you need panosam but construction which is Hashem and after a while as we continue to do our very sashem which the average of every day is all tired Mitzvahs the main two things every day faced but Taylor shared by all of humanity according to formation all of clay Israel notium and anoshim I hope we have some time for the notion because in share we spent three and a half months just on the Nationals because there's always a lot of questions and fair questions what are the real he even what's a cooler what's the humor I found out even though I have five daughters but apparently they graduated already they don't serve breakfast and most of the desiagas and you have to eat before davening and the child is well when's davening so if we don't get to that remind me for next year or you'll go and find the audios because I'm not working on that safer yet but these are important every day and we depend on the trailers of glycol especially the nationalists right now we're discussing with the stipler wants to focus on and that is let's talk about why we're really diving at least why we're trying to dive in and the gosh means is supposed to be the same thing at least that we should think about the concept to put it in there whatever percentage we could put it in there he continues he says you look at the extra Fearless put and all the kind of soil which we do now from the Zion most of them are in Yani Rook name foreign that could be many times a day it could be certain koofers so that's why I began was put verse Ray as the leader of broccoli we call that America top billing why because you can't possibly dive in if you don't know what you're diving for that takes a lot of pictures and therefore yes please give me the pictures to live my life with your avoided in mind how to navigate these Stormy Waters and I'm about to die on the message give me the dice to understand what I should dive in for that's step number one sniper continues ome why if you have systems but we're not always holding there and now Elise we're trying to bring the concept more into the picture he says La Mesa at the end of the day with money you say breakfast gets a lot of press foreign it's important question is is it more important the Elder Brock's one that's right they're all important the staple is saying that if yes is something you don't get in kashmias we're hoping the exclusive are dictating that it's not good for you and therefore the answer is no sometimes the answer is yes and you can ask for it for a long time and it takes a long time for the trilo to we would say in a bad expression kick in but isn't and the stipul speaks about that in the next line he says the din which is brought down below a lot of this as I mentioned is three weeks material s they were locked so he points out very quickly nearer it's harder to dive in it's not Nina Lu because davening is the only way we get anything and it's still like that it's just more challenging in goalless conditions again and again and again and he says that you can either have a longest Monastery or you could Dive In Minutes throughout the day which might be triggered by the eight soromatsuf what's the formula this is the number one Shiloh that I get in Thriller somebody come over to me they're diving for something which they feel is important for them however bigashmi is a straight broken he is but they're being honest and the dominating adopting a diving and it hasn't come yet so what's the child is when can I stop it's important so stipler and the next line addresses that He suggests keep going why stop he brings the majors a certain Fields after three days certainly everything in between but the image just jumps to 30 years and other examples from Tana decades is a long time this type of stress is that every tree law helps you and others there's no tool that's wasted and if the answer you're no longer here when you get the shemaim you'll see clearly why oh that one wasn't answered at all because it wasn't well to Ellis for me or for the people around me and therefore didn't allow it to go through can a person stop so this is delicate and it really depends on the individual there are many things people diving for and the stipler says clearly you can continue and perhaps show the full things are equal and just keep diving and maybe in shamayam there's a clock Hashem is a time and maybe the sheer is two years maybe it's 20 years maybe it's 40 years maybe you're getting closer to your goal you're diving for weekly as you don't feel like you made it yet but you're inching closer you just don't realize I'd like to just temper that the sniper wouldn't disagree with this that often I detect when people ask me this they're kind of like worn out and it's bringing them down it's affecting their mood it's affecting their brothers Hashem if that is the case has Nisha lose to this in terms of the calvonus in general you always have to have basic havanas but he once told the talmud face that pick watch Monastery a day we're gonna have the extra cavana the other ones you have to have come on because if you do every single essay to the pitch of uh nilo and your Kipper it's not going to be sustainable so if a person feels a void and they really think they can use it and they're asking and asking asking and it's a month a year two years five years ten years type of clothing sales don't give up you don't have to give up there's no reason to give up you're not wasting your time with that said for many people the balance would be it doesn't you have to mention it in each three love because sometimes the problems are feel Larger than Life and every time they mention it they get down depending on how jarring the monster is that would be Maita which I think the everybody would agree with so getting back to this young man before we start going through samusman essay so what did I tell them I said I told them to come see me after Marv and I asked them how bad they were losing and how many days are we into the leagues so he saw I was trying to make an impression that I was taking it seriously and if you if it's important to you you want to talk to a college Borough about it we're not going to convince you otherwise certainly if it's age-appropriate of course I was there for a couple of days and this one child got a lot of mileage and I had people significantly older coming over to me and one was brave enough he's probably sorry he did but I don't try to at least affordably club or anybody who has a good Shiloh so he said well I don't know how to ask this but I'm sort of like a staff member here so I said you probably want to know if your captain should your team win he said no I'm not so into that my Camp days you know I'm trying to get that pumped but uh size I had I think suspicion I was about to hear what I was about to hear so I said so what do you asking about I said well it's sports related so I said if you're asking me whether you should ever put into your trilo that a local team should win in professional sports I said I'll tell you a secret I actually dive in especially that every local team should lose and quickly because they always managed to fall out around it distracts everybody so he said rebe please don't I said I I admire your faith in my kayakatrilla that just my trila is going to push him over the edge on the ninth inning but Lamesa I'm talking to somebody significantly older I said I I'm accusing you of not being normal it's a good question but I think that you are to your point I think that that might ingrain something that you're trying to let go of sooner rather than later even though it's not the most uh try for thing you could be holding on to well myself and they should win it's not going to make you any money she tells me it's a Jewish owner I said they're not local she's looking at me okay I don't follow the stuff that was just an educated guess uh there are some Jewish owners out there uh if the Jewish owner is giving Hamish to yeshivas and kailan then maybe there's about to discuss if they're not uh I'm not convinced again the most important thing is you should want to dive and you want it so of course the question in which we're going to discuss further as we go along is what are the parameters what should you be asking for that example not negative to a lot of people in the room but it's a very telling example we got to be careful especially of the next door not to ever insinuate that because not listening because your request is frivolous there's nothing too big or too small on the other hand as we'll see soon from the madit and the other macaris there's definitely a hierarchy and most people have a saturation point to how long they could dive in so we still have to put it in some sort of pecking order and that has to be first so we know what the diamond for and we know how to live and what we should be striving for the key is Hashem is having proper and the more you learn and the more you internalize that the more you'll be asking for the right things is for the things that went wrong people sometimes want to know you know daviding chakras okay I just got up it's been a while since I dive in starting off a new day I have Saddam coming up I have meetings a lot going on so I need an hour later some people less than an hour so this is not any madrega on my part but I always find that there's plenty of things to discuss that I didn't get to yet and I'm not pushing to have some sort of humor of more than three we don't do three list of Dove is because otherwise we should have kavana by the three we have to Daven but hopefully just what we're discussing tonight will spur everybody on to take a second look and understand that you gotta finish mod X-ray and you have to go but there's a lot to Daven for and you almost should be in a massive you can't get enough that's really what we're striving for anything that happened in between I had a number of people told me they try to put that into use and they can't find any others in between I thought that was a kiddish no lotion horror they said well not like the famous unsolicited just the type where you just added to the conversation wherever you're dealing with people all the time no Lush on her says there are certain others that happen all the time La Elena but they happen if you know something particular like any of the shorter Brokers doesn't get to that Brokers before you you can list the Avera it's an addition of 10 seconds you don't have to add anything to Monastery as I said actually as they'll put everything in but I have found and you will find if you haven't done this if you add again if it's urgent to the middle of these Brokers my sergeant schmuckleenu even less you can add more after Julie Watson it makes it more of a conversation to us and it it will add meaning to the trilo I think we need that in real madraga even though put in all these calvanos already try it and you'll see it it pays dividends before we even get out of the broadcast that have everybody's Focus there's one in between that whenever I bring it up people say taka what is that doing there between which I think people still focus on people are focused on everybody knows somebody needs some Yeshua Reyna balanu what is this so this is labeled I have I just took this off the tables an official art scroll and they give a title which is very nice first one is one before that was being up now up to Gula which is interesting Gula we're gonna have a lot to discuss and a few Brussels from now what's Google doing over here this is more personal about custom we say everything blush and Robin but what's this doing here in the middle of my slash Lana when refrainu so one mile that's the exclusion of all the possibilities is the McPherson say that this is not only referring to Google for clay so it's really referring to a personal Google a lot of people most people all of us that's a progression both of us walk around with a lot of baggage everybody has the pickle and we if you think about it we spend a lot of time just stuck in what we were still worried about yesterday and the day before the day before that and some of it will be tomorrow the next day uh I'll be as gold said with that said this bracha is to address for help to have less daegers Weighing on us so we can actually concentrate on our way to sashem and if you think about this this is a key and that's why it's so early honors Montessori we ask Hashem for das to figure out what we're doing here in our Vegas Hashem which we do with our talents our time and our assets are how we must be on others help us to choose and then all of a sudden even though for National Gula is coming later the answer is we need a personal Google laws you gotta get off the shackle so to speak and be able to let go of things deep therapy over here despite public opinion of all the glories or lack thereof it's all lack thereof or multitasking we very much don't believe in multitasking yes we can walk and maybe chew gum whether that's correct at the same time we're all to multitasking how many things can you do at once uh-ray and you can try to feel some things coming in on a message in your phone and then you can look around to make sure everybody else is diving and then think about your next car payment that's all very human well my sir used to say just you have one blot in front of you just concentrate on the next line the next line it takes this now you're in schwannesse rice is about how to let go of things we shouldn't be thinking about we should waste a tremendous amount of time with and it gets us down it takes away the haishek and there's reasons and asking Hashem to have that personal Google everything's washing Robbins without any questions but that's pretty important it would explain why it's early on in schmann esri and people suggest no I can multitask I still want to remain worried about all the things I'm worried about the back of my head but I'm still going to do this there is no such thing you have 100 of the brain power I know all the studies we only use four percent I'm not sure the person who said that I'm not sure how much he's using because if all the humanity only uses four percent and that's 100 of what we have available but whatever the number is everything takes away and in our head we have many different things competing for our attention and every Mission we do the success the Mitzvah is how much attention did you pay something is better than nothing says you tried but it's all about raising the kavana raising the focus on learning whatever missing you're doing or paying attention to somebody when you're talking to them it's all about concentrating and the good news is the sounds very simple it's not as simple to apply but it's doable whatever you have in your mind that's bothering you and distracting you if you push it out with positive things as much as positive thoughts but practical thing is that I don't have time for this right now I'm a designated five minutes a day to worry about all the things I'm worried about right now I'm dominating I'm learning that's very doable and you can force it out and I will guarantee you many people report back and they say you know what it was amazing I pushed it off a lot of the time wasn't always successful I said but you pushed it to the five minutes he said yeah the incredible thing was I finally sat down for the Firebase my pen and paper and I couldn't think of anything that's great if I said well how important could it be this must be very important because it only comes up instrument when I'm learning so we all know that's a very Human Condition who among other things is speaking to that referendo is self-explanatory Brett Lane with panosa and that we're naturally as human beings focused on and then before we get to the next a lot of people complain they don't know how in the world they got to move them so quickly because all these blockers sound like it's talking about cholesterol and Gula and people start proving on either it's mani and miani it's important for the three weeks of Corbin is to highlight what we're missing so we could dive in more for the Gula and all it represents and to realize how much we're missing without the Gula so most people again even during the three weeks this kind of boggles the Mind people say well we're not in madragos are they suggesting we cancel beneman's arm so one kid I don't know age appropriate this was kind of wondering why Bandit's arm always comes the middle of camp he said that tongue-in-cheek but that was out of line so I gave him almost a patch like it's not American like we have uh where would you put it he said I don't know come to think of it I have so many plans for the rest of the year I'm not sure where we would put it that's exactly the point Neville it's cramping on lifestyle because if you can't think like a zebra person which is hard for any individual think of all the Milos of what it's going to bring for you as an individual and all the things you're missing and in this realm a lot of it is working years for a couple thousand years there's a lot of goshmias there also because it was just dangerous if we get to this year or next year oh boy she talks about the aside to say it outside he said people always want to know how they can walk up on it he said you know people who are in a massive where they need to desperately dive and have no problem with cavana and he gives examples at home somebody is he's in a ship at Sea and he's stuck in the middle of nowhere and we can't imagine these things I told you we were discussing this and one of the Nicholas said how can you be stuck at Sea what happened they ran out of gas I said actually you could be on a Clipper ship they said what's a Clipper ship so we'll have sales what's a sale so uh okay so I said it's something catches wind and if there's no wind you don't move he said that's terrible what if you get stuck in the middle of nowhere I said you're beginning to understand and that's without a storm so traveling was dangerous so we don't think of these things today until never somebody goes down on the revolution deep under the sea in a tin can and we realize it's dangerous officer I'll put in to put yourself in Sakana needless to say and I didn't am I here to attack them it's a tragedy but we don't look for such Adventure it wasn't Adventure if they had to go on a business trip they bench Glenn with a lot of carvana because between the desert and the kind of him there and the gangsters and the things that happen at Sea so all this we look at today today Godless is we're going to talk about it on Tish above in three weeks what are we missing well we're missing a lot of Rockne is the ability to bring Cup on us and that's what these following broadcasts are about and they only know a lot of tragedies still happen because we're missing these components of brooklynus so point out just a few takaba Schaefer talks about bringing Lysol back to hsrol hashivo Shayna I just spent the weekend at Israel I bought Hashem got through the airport when it wasn't surrounded by Hayes Rose and I'm not talking about the Wilders that run around in different places we in America we also have a lot of people who don't know Benjamin they should all have Yeshua and ashua and the davishman is very tricky most the cholesterol is not yet with the program this is a very sweeping statement but important for your smartassra you got a Davin that you didn't do true actively doing care of if you are with a partner terrorism like that but there's a lot of people out there unfortunately and nowadays you can't just be not from with every liberal agenda and every time out there it's going in a very negative Direction and people are brainwashed they not only don't know the positive they're just hearing everything that's Checkers for them we took care of that at the beginning to have in mind yourself your family your friends and the rest of clay Israel especially those who don't even know how to start then you might be surprised I read the words it's very jarring you remember somebody who said in hazar sashats you can almost faint and somebody in their Gouda uh Africa he's uh he he would say this out loud and people knew he would uh wake you up they didn't hear us whoa what in the world do you remember them it brings in your ear the answer is that's what the words mean we don't have to get rid of anybody that's why we dive in for the message they should do truva we should have Shalom we shouldn't have to argue we don't want to be combative in the second part is if they're is destroying the Messiah and destroying clay Israel the malshinim still plays a role we hope nobody falls into that category everybody hears that say well I know about my flake is the only seven thousand but the sum total is malsheem is still in schwannessre so the better way is Hashem let them do chuva this way is let them be marginalized whatever these words mean neutralize neutralize doesn't have to mean they're not alive if they're not alive they can't do truva just not causing people to go off and not misrepresenting Terror I'm not going to explain all the things I'm alluding to this list is too long but uh once you realize what these two brothers so I mentioned the writing and it Israel because then I'm going to change the system there's nothing on the agenda that can I said that's changing it to dayanim or shashiva is we're not there yet they just want to make it that it's a little bit less left-leaning a little bit more drop more conservative so we could have some normalcy and for that 49 I hope not not 50. is uh has been taking to the streets like the world's coming to an end so what are we gonna do about it we don't live there but I can do about it over here Hashem call them what you want the last Administration the least they had discuss of putting in some sadik and they aren't but at least they're calling what's supposed to be called the proper names and doing something that is normal for a civilized country that's a big brocon that was not pushed and with that everything's falling apart should be said we need even in golf conditions people around the country that can at least prevent it from getting worse that quickly and La malshinim is the people trying to make it worse shouldn't have their say and they should be marginalized and for our own safety of drinking this poison if it's in the atmosphere it's getting worse and it affects everybody for those who are doing the right thing so I didn't answer my question from before I'm gonna affect Klystron on who are the judges and who's running the government and I'm going to prove gold conditions the answer is yes every single person here and anybody listening and anybody can tell every person has the Davenport s-ray like their life depends on it because every three law creates a little more protection for you and those who want the protection for those who don't know who might have her Retriever and come back at every three World counts that's what the three weeks is all about they recognize that this is not normal it's Godless conditions and the best way to solve it is to go back and have the base I make dish and um Asylum whoever survives will be interested in keeping his eye misses and helping out and then my main level this will be solved cleft time says that a number of Michelle famous Marshalls the prince every martial has a prince who was thrown out and the king is still watching him but and he's managed out of money and he wants to ask the king for 10 removals just to get by and the advisor tell them why don't you ask the king to come home and to fix up the massive instead of asking for handouts as we go along so the answer is you have to do both and that's why shimono esre reflects both the here and now and what we are asking for for tomorrow the natural sequence after that is I'm trying to motivate myself and everybody listening is that dafka during benefits but the rest of the year and yamnaram is about this also Roshana is a pretty International young even though the game doesn't really know about it but for the world how normal is this place going to be how many people doing the right thing of the wrong thing and all that affects cholesterol but also affects them we do discuss that we even bring some couponers but if you can't think so internationally in halawai we should think about ourselves it affects us in a very negative way and if there were less pollution it would affect us in a positive way so all of a sudden now you're at schmacolino people are more focused they can add their own trilas here to an extent and it's sort of like the sum total we're asking Hashem to accept our thrillers and then we sort of get lost again because all those competing things that we're going to write down in five minutes later on in the day and my dim I'll remind everybody we really passed in the first boss just push-up shot in the words you really can't go forward and you can't go backwards it's one of those suggests I have to stop making and there's a lot of raid on it but we go forward and we hope it doesn't happen again is a close very close second and that's even more problematic it's easier to start x-ray you just finished all your thrill you're getting up and you're gonna try to concentrate for just like 29 seconds or so and that's doable you have tomato variety hopefully after this moves you got there a little slower and you're already thinking of Claudia thrill and and the Godless and the gula my dim is second to the first bracha in terms of it is because you need three components and we just finished the bakashus for the clown the prop and you gotta know how to say thank you the purpose of Hashem is the maker that everything comes from a closer nowhere else and you have to thank our coach bar who to ingrain that whole relationship so my dim is very important and again I have I'm happy people are always honest but I've had conversation with people and they say I say made them but it's hard to really feel because yes I got up in the morning and I can walk and I could talk and I can learn I could think and I have a palace but people really have to say a big thank you as opposed to all the affirmation things that Pete just mentioned obviously now that we hear that in the out of the context that he was trying to make that argument that's kind of ridiculous if you have any of those things you have to say millions and certainly if you have most of those things even if you're struggling if you're alive you have something that you could do something with and that triggers a very strong by them we're spoiled because we all live in a spoiled Dar and the old syndrome what is Hashem done for me lately and I have this but everybody has this so I have to say amazing everybody has this I'm looking for something that's Layla something bigger or better but that tashkoffer is obviously not very kosher the Cleveland needs a lot of kavana Also it talks about cholesterol so again it's always nice to think on the national level but I don't think we know anybody who couldn't use the help with their boss their colleagues their spouses the children the parents who doesn't need help and they're at the end this already says yeah we always like Shalom this is a very personal brokerage what it's doing here because I'll try and answer you need the wrap up the cleanest broker but Lamesa whether it fits into the haldolia completely Hashem and we can have all the broadcasts in the world if we're not at peace with ourselves with others nothing's gonna work and it's going to affect their very sashem and the myths is the introduction we did start a few minutes late so I'm going to try to touch upon two other things the my bit they sell the Kim says the biggest side and this will bring us back to our baseball player or a baseball player want to be he doesn't want to be a professional baseball player I told them I think that's what brought it up in the first place we were discussing how much time should be spent in these things and that was an actual child from one of the bathrooms for all our camps today there's a lot of learning a lot of Brooklyn is and so summer they want to stretch the limbs they play a little ball and uh relax so that's fine for mano's modern the question is to what degree how seriously you take it and how much time so to his specific request let me read to you obesity Kim and I know you're all going to say we're not in madriga but I already spoke about that twice Shayna Ryland aldover my bit says that one should not doesn't create an isser but one should preferably not ask for something else now I started off saying that the message over here certainly for a young man is that you're not sure there's no difference and no effort whatsoever by definition to help you and that's all true my said he shouldn't ask for anything that's not necessary foreign to that to my says okay and that's what Sheila's for but that's basic sustenance and clothing and Shalom and success and what you're doing but it should be so what's my half Amina that maybe age-appropriate there's how many you can ask to win the game so the answer is if winning the game will help with self-esteem and he's with the right cover on it just doesn't want to be the odd man out and it'll help us for where he's holding you just got to be honest with yourself what's the problem the problem is at any tree law that succeeds is a change in the program sometimes the original program was such but you got to bring it down that's not necessarily A change but often you can change things with trilo we firmly believe that and that's why we haven't so much so it has to be tempered should somebody a common example somebody's making upon USA he's paying the bills can he ask for a lot more where that came from many more zeros plans which once you have it that's what you should be doing and to do and help the Amanda should you be asking for that it's not Usher is it so I pointed out this my bit to somebody he said of course we gotta supports okay if you really feel um and you feel that's your topless again it's not Usher I had a similar conversation years before with a bachelor who was in fourth year based mejush and he was trying to convince me based on his parents trying to convince him that he should be doing his childless first panosa because somebody's got to help the yeshivas and if he goes as Mana too early Hill graduate or he'll become EX in the company by this time as opposed to a year later and I'll be helping to help claw Israel so much earlier I admire hashifus better that than say no I just want to buy fancy cars and make everybody jealous that's a lot better than maybe that's what he meant but he suddenly said that um I think I can help out to you is if and when you get there and you have extra income you should talk remember that and help out and his sign is not so easy at the time famous myself you're learning now when you're capable of learning a lot more now and that is a very individual question has to be answered based on knowledge of the talmud and based on the massive but my big just say that it's not Roy doesn't say ulcer to ask us something that's not CH goes further and he says it's a Pella somebody is in a mat serve and he has yes sir and he's diving to Hashem to please stop that Tsar he said if you go to a doctor and the doctor has to do a procedure which hurts not only did you ask the doctor to do it you're paying him for it so you turn around to the doctors I know you I know I booked you four months ago and I'm paying you a lot of money just do me one favor doc don't do it that'd be a very strange conversation right why is it convinced the doctor has you in mind so why are we dominant canceling exire it's either a couple so it's a complicated speaks to the McGregor we should at least think about even though McGregor to put it into the system that the main shifa should be for lack of clay chamayam the perception that uh is Ms but it's hard for people to handle so therefore if people are going to misinterpret it you want to be able to do better for excitement it talks about Kalani Mirage says when the Persona that's what I mentioned at the beginning of this year so that's Taka above armadrega but not that we shouldn't think about it because if you could put in one percent of that five percent ten percent that's already givaldik because it is about the saraswina certainly in the three weeks and the yamuna ROM afterwards and it says talking about the relationship of course Hashem wants to help us the only pistol pair we have is that we're weak we're fragile we need help in goshami is at the start it would be a great accuse time if we can perform better when we need this to perform better whether it be self-esteem a little extra cash more Health all that is legitimate but it's so much more powerful if we just put this in our shovels as we ask for it not stop a request can I have more money can I have a raise try to put this in the mix it'll help your trilo and according and many others we just saw it'll take the two the two Numa Dragon also make it a lot more powerful and more effective the last thing to just touch upon we got through at least 40 of the material but enough to hopefully give us a little bit to investigate further common question people have I think this comes the fact that they have more time on Chavez naturally I do a lot of dive in for personal but cautious on Shabbos the short answer is no however many say that's only goshmias and official the official is typhus brojo so that's why if you start at which happens to some people little Shabbos when they're a little tired and you really get into the book like halfway you finish the bracha because it's part of the regular standard and we have but cautious for Kashmir instead of there and we keep there and if he's bench till the end of benching the very end we do that on Travis also he does a lot of gashmias there I met a couple of people over the years who decided that during the week they learned to try and Berlin even though they didn't I just mentioned High Berlin because they follow the Mini Guy grow off and the only vegetables he decided busy day heimberliners can't be wrong on that issue Berlin the whole thing I said oh no you can't do that that's upside down if you don't say it during the week it's not that it's both of you in there for you not the regular you can't say in a shop it's there's no sharpest I have more time I said you'll learn more so we do it more time you can't ask for cashmere unless that's the standard feeling many place can hold you can ask for rookness so not a government's gun but enough to rely on that people have a hair gush it's Shabbos and they want to ask for what it is shop is the time the maximize you're learning you have more time to learn you want to have a short three load this uh please give me a slush of my learning not gonna say official and if you feel that'll help you possibly even suggested and with this we know in zamiris and maybe I'll even give you a little homework are you allowed to discuss on Shabbos to say why not well apparently it's not having Internet because tomorrow's to bring down let's put down they even brought down these mirrors because it could involve some allusions to money and Deals and panosa you can't the favorites talk out the exact amount of money and close the deal but you could start discussing it because not Usher when it comes to the bar mitzvah and it's considered Bar Mitzvah that's perfect and somebody asked Papa yashiv can you dive in foreign I think most people in advance of course I can Mama's Talk Shop talk like that's a bad expression he's over here maybe a good expression but we're trying to figure out like you know what is he looking for support that's a mutter if you don't get into too many details why not take a mama's Talk Shop abiyusha says absolutely not what's the sheikhas this is a mitzvah is also but that's part of the issue of davening for your personal think about this for a moment so why is that it's a Mitzvah with money well that's also a Mitzvah if you spent it right so rabies learns the reason they didn't have records is because when people have strong and they ask they're weighed down by their various their problems I need a raise and the way down that's not sharpest material so even though yes you can do lots of Mitzvahs and this and this is the Mitzvah but it's also a Bonafide human need that's a regular says you cannot diving but you can handle very interesting I never understood you guys sing on Shabbos you're giving me blank stares what does that mean there's a reason why if you're thinking ahead of what I'm about to say what's your time so happens the Beast most people have mutter it means you're allowed to think about business is that a good idea on Shabbos very lousy idea there are 100s that say that shabbisha comments like all your work is finished and you shouldn't think about it and it's a rough thing I've had people come over to meet good people but they tell you but they work hard during the week and they told me that they're working on it the first job is like at shallow Shooters they finally got the whole work week out of their head and now they can enjoy it took 23 hours okay so that's an advisor sometimes a little bit earlier so if it pops into your head you didn't do an answer much over here does not mean it means you didn't do an answer because they didn't make Xavier on mashava only the deeper I think that's why the bonus is in there because you could do talk about the you can't talk about money but you can start thinking about money so first they warn you otherwise why is it in the xamar the mirrors are written by Haley good sadikim he said you can do a Divine Mitzvah doesn't and if you start thinking too much about the money which you certainly shouldn't discuss there's no avail if you're still in your work week work on it and try to get out of your head but Shabbos is for avoida it's for learning it's for connecting to a coach borrow who if you need Seattle smile on that you can ask for it and that's not a violation of this din if there happens to be even more makeup by yunt if you ever wonder we have Revenge by uh that has a lot of organisms and a lot of gashmirs in there they're trying to explain because it's more part of the yountic description we have the definition of kipper even more Roshan the main focus is on the world order but I'm certainly I'm keeper so I'll leave you with this I'm not going to see you many of you before Yom Kippur Jim Kipper falls on Shabbos we don't say avina volcano wives you can't say about cautious that's a theory to everything we just said Yom Kippur is a time for about cautious one quick comment he provides a lot of caches and he says it's Yom Kippur of course the Holyoke keeper we're begging about clashes answer is of course that's the Yom kippur's form a little bit Roshana a little bit not sharpest as much only working he is we leave it out until Nila pastures is that's the turrets I was uh told as a young man that no it's really Arthur just that kind of stuff that's very nice that's not the Trap shot is certain are all about the bacauseous me it's a sham we should use the opportunities and all our cautious daily Shabbos planted a room to be maker for the working years the three weeks The Thrillers should be pale for Gula for all of clay Israel so damage could be undone and we should move on to much more positive territory in the ghoulash Lima [Music] asking for guidance and begging for help I like to remind item that we're not asking for guidance but we are begging for help to sponsoring this year and police calling 718-851-8651.com [Music] foreign all right