Ask The Rabbi Q&A Forum With Rabbi Moshe Meir Weiss Shlita

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Rabbi bald for his amazing work of putting these urine together year after year a lineup of my bite Torah that could be the envy of anywhere in the world Hashem should give him gazunt and the ability to do it for many years thank you Rabbi Deutsch for running such an incredible program there's just Boston before we hear from my good friend Shelley zeitlin who came straight from work you didn't eat supper yet no either did I but thank you so much Shelly zeitlin is the transcriber of my articles my forum and uh my tremendous appreciation to you and it's wonderful to have you here and that's because Hashem should give you bimali call me I mean I'd like to thank my Robinson Shashi who uh slept in with me all the way from the country after the tonight we're going back to the country so I also discussed with her the questions and she has input in the answers so thank you very much I'd also like to thank remember before Shelley country yasi used to ask the questions and he also had an input in getting me some of the questions so I thank yasitova as well uh now Shelly I'll turn it over to you well before we begin I'd like to thank and the rub for allowing me to do this it's my great honor and my great pleasure and much appreciated questions are really diverse tonight and I think everybody's gonna really get a lot from a diverse quality of questions so the first one one of the incredible recent advances is the adva is the availability of artificial intelligence AI where a computer can take its massive database and analyze it and draw it down and draw its own conclusions if we were to program a computer with all of the holies forum would AI be able to give us hidusha Torah will it be able to poskin okay so let me tell you about the questions tonight [Music] if there is any uh proof needed to what we say in creation which I commanded to you today foreign the terrorists should be every day like it was just given like it was just written for contemporary 21st century jury because that's the way it is the time it was written by the idea hasidus he was he is he will be and when he wrote the Torah he put the answers it's not a stick yeah we take out of the heart transplants you know and genetic planning and but no do a bunny song put it in because he saw the future and he saw AI and he saw all the different kinds of questions we're going to have tonight I I think because I know from experience we we have all kinds of uh media here that is trained just on me so I'm going to repeat the questions one of the incredible recent advances is the availability of artificial intelligence where computer can take its massive database and analyze it into its own conclusions if we were to program a computer with all of our holy swan would AI be able to give us hidushi Terra would it be able to pass so you have to understand that this is different than Google read Google [Music] see rep Google you ask and it draws from a lot of information and gives you what you're looking for so if you want to look up you know about srita on a giraffe or whether giraffe is December in this week's Parsha you could do that AI is a step further AI takes all of its data and now draws further conclusions and therefore thus the question can it perhaps if you put in it bobly and you've shown me and rambam and can it formulate with all its data can it take its combination of data and make them suck the answer is unequivocably no there's a reason why it says that Torah is acquired with with 48 Kenyon I mean why why do you need 48 Kenyatta you just need to study you need to have a good memory you need to have a sharp mind it's not enough it says you need to have emotion AI doesn't have emotion you need to have him AI doesn't have to cover I'll tell you an interesting story there was a a man who learned all of his life alone and he was constantly writing and writing and writing and writing and he had piles of notebooks he he left it Sava when he passed away that they should bury the notebooks with him the family was understandably upset about that buried in the notebooks with him thank you very much so they went to Rebel yashiv and rebel yahshu said let me see one of the notebooks a rebel yashiv randomly opened it up and it opens to the question it's a good question it says that yaakov Dreamed a ladder and the malachim were going up and down so he said I don't understand why did malachim need a ladder they have wings so he answered they were baby my Lord him before they got their wings it was his answer they were baby my love so they got their wings terrible yahsham said you could bury them you buried him now while it might be a sad slash humorous story but one of the kenyani attires is the pilpal kaverim AI doesn't help people have ever AI doesn't have Seattle that's an important quotient is they asked them a whole list of questions and one question he didn't know why because that question was fabricated it wasn't a real question and since it wasn't a real question he didn't have the Seattle there's a quotient of Seattle the the it's true you don't need 48 kinyanam to learn calculus and yes a computer played a game of chess against the whole world it was a big deal computer played a game of chess against the whole world many many many Grand Masters participated and they voted on each move and the computer one you don't need to win chess La my fire tired AI could be a good tool a rabbi that needs to check up sources and he knows that this chuvas what we have we have barilan programs that many rabbanim use in order to find different Jewelers that that's that could be used it'll never be zoys Elementary the Tariff thrives only with mysterious AI doesn't have a serious Snapfish we know that the backdrop of our Sinai was smoke Thunder blackness why wasn't the backdrop light and Sun's oh shelter says to Tyson sarush it should have been but because we would send the agilas of they weren't there to the hotel you need us questions so AI is never going to produce Charles to Chivas AI there's not going to be touche artificial it's not gonna happen next question recently there has been talk of a government whistleblowers count claiming that they have a body of extra of an extraterrestrial being what is the toe review on this similarly there are reports of finding a distant planet which has an atmosphere similar to ours on Earth can we believe there might be life elsewhere okay Shelley said it very well I'll just say it shortly can there be Martians are there plutonians and is it possible that there are other habitable planets besides us told you the questions would be uh so I can tell you what I heard from ramasha when they went up to the Moon when Armstrong went up to the moon ramisha was asked is it possible they'll find life on the Moon and ramasha said absolutely not pretty definitive right defend ant so they asked him how does he know he wasn't there as far as they know I mean imagine learned terrorists on Easter but as far as we knew he didn't go to the Moon already so he said because it's not mentioned nowhere in bubbly nowhere in you show me such a thing would have been mentioned in Bible or you show me it's not mentioned there you're not going to find any life now you know there's a lot of talk about Das Tyra what does terrorists but that's an example of that's tiger you have to be clear about the totality of badly you show me to be able to make such a statement and by the way that's the meaning of it says that Torah is written black fire on White Fire so black fire is the words White Fire is the parchment parchment is blank how is that a fire and the answer is is because we learn not from what is said but also from what is omitted omissions teach us they're a fire but you have to know everything to be able to say categorically that's omitted but omissions teach us that's why it's a fire I'll give you an example from from last week's passion it says we're going to bench hello we're going to bench out of the Shabbos some people banish you with the nurse is so the plastic says in the word Mauritius it's missing an olive the balaturam says yeah because they're all of gracious cause of alpha is also titring so it's metishre so it tells us that we do it from tishray and not from Nissan okay place this is an interesting thing that's our place says that even though our Zionist is fixed on Rosh Hashanah but the its size of Shabbos yamtiv and Torah for our children and adds adds the Ikea andish is not part of the suck emissive myself so therefore says plus that shot me racist racist Rosh Hashanah Shino Shabbos yodes and toughest Tire I don't want to get carried away but I'll just tell you I have I also have a thought it says my race is missing and aleph because it's not from the beginning of the year because the second Rosh Hashanah is on the first day so what about the night of Rosh Hashanah in the morning that had to be from last year so when it says Mauritius it's not the fouracious that's why it's called and that by the way answers another gishmaker question everybody wants to know when you're done with a lot of kavana and you say Baruch and you say you're very my type is blessed this year what are you asking for it's it's the years over so people say yeah but a lot of things could happen until the year is over but now it's very good because we're davening for the first part of Rosh Hashanah until dubsak how are you going to Daven mariv if you're going to get up to Shakers on dying right there's a lot of things to ask of us anyway so that's we learn a lot from What's missing and ramesha said is you don't have to worry a lot of people are worried they found bodies of these strange things I'm gonna get up and strange things are going to be flying from the sky it's one less thing that you have to worry about here's a Down to Earth question for Hashem I have been blessed with many grandchildren now that I've retired I want some time to for myself to travel to learn to take up a hobby I put in my time with my children now it's the children's turn to raise their children as my strength wanes do I have to alter my dreams to spend significant time with my a Nicola and another question on the same theme I want to make Aaliyah but I have 18 grandchildren in America should this deter me from living in Eric's Israel okay so what Shelly just asked is basically a grandparent has a dilemma they they were taught all their life they did their orthodontia visits and they did all the trips to the bus stop and they stayed up and died for the children and and stayed at home with the measles and you know they they they they did everything and now their children want a lot from them ma we want to go away can you take the kids for the weekend uh you know you know I'm I I want to go out with my husband could you take the kids for the night and my you know we have a sitter play we can't come you're gonna go there instead of us and could you take all the all the girls you know for all four of us all our daughters for Shabbos make a make a girl Shabbos it would be a nice thing you know and uh on the other hand you wanna you wanna start traveling to project Inspire and you want to go you know to Poland and you want to go on a cruise you have all kinds of plans and uh listen it's that turn now it's your turn to lift Shelly asked another question and that is the couple always had a dream to gonalia to be near the becoming secondation to be in our land but it means leaving all the grandchildren and not seeing them except for isolated times maybe not seeing them for a year or two what's the right thing so those that listen to my shearing regularly and if you don't maybe you should uh we have a family daf a zoom deaf I have over here it'll be so Fisher who comes all the time when he can all the time when he can yeah uh the uh Shelley's Island comes every night it's very easy to join our family you go to zoomdaf.com zoomdaf.com and tomorrow night you could join at 8 35 pm the whole week this month's Shabbos it's gonna be at 10 15 two blocks I do Friday in Shabbos but anyway uh those that listen to me know that during the summer I have this here to be to dive in with the crueler rabbit in the morning and usually late at night marav I go to Elm shade Estates it's right next to krula so I became very friendly with the Cruella rabbit so I told the cruel or ever I'm going to do a q a and randomly he said he didn't even know this question but randomly he said you know you should say over it should say over there's probably going to be a lot of grandparents there you should say over that elifas chased yaakov to kill him and alif as if he got any Clinic about anything it was incubator of aim his father told him to kill him but because he grew up on the cake because he grew up on the lap of his Ada he couldn't kill he couldn't kill his uncle there wouldn't be a Cloudy as well if it wasn't for the lap of azada in the crazy world that we live in asada needs to be able to talk to the children about a Shabbos that wasn't full of skateboards you have to talk about a time that people traveled in the car and they weren't busy the whole way on the phone it's a different world is so important and it's important for our arigas young the Sam Cipher interpreted the plastic by Sir Vietnam Hashem will give you extra because of the fruit of your womb says there's some Cipher if the rabbin Islam sees that you are benefiting your grandchildren I'm benefiting my grandchildren Urban storm says I gotta keep you around you need it for the Next Generation foreign therefore living in our souls nice but if you have 18 grandchildren here you first of all a lot of times the grandmother is taking it away from her children and grandchildren and she's miserable even in yiddishkai we believe a happy wife is a happy life foreign you could go there part at a time you could have a time sharing but to leave the children the grandchildren the schwaramisa we're we're very needed even more now right than years before next question recently we celebrated what was the nakama once tishabab was over what changed we still don't have a basement we still are experiencing anti-Semitism all over the world right the question is Shabbos nakamu big Shabbos of consolation cancellation what's different than the day before when we were sitting and crying what happened it's still we don't have a basement dish it's still cold though I know we've created pseudo nakama of course the job is David cancer and on Sunday we're having a barbecue and all the hotels have weekends of course in Japanese what what's going to come what happened what changed Rubino glasting talks about that it's not coincidental that we landed our series the Terrace our consolation amen from Goldberg and Boca Raton says that it's Shabbos that's our cancellation I'd like to suggest that the consolation is that we spent three weeks reevaluating if we spend enough time dreaming for mashiach and we took three weeks and nine days where we didn't eat meat and drink wine and we didn't go swimming and we didn't listen to music and we thought Russian horror and we spoke about it to our families and hopefully we made a commitment that from now on when I say Elena I'll think volcanic lakash Emily came on the race mayor of the safarisons ever and when I say in benching while you saw a milk of all your slimy wrath I'll pay more attention and keep it and when I talk about people I'm not going to say oh yeah I go to this place this Bungalow coming but boy did the crowd change no [Music] hopefully we're turning over a new Leaf that's gonna come cause now with everybody hoping and saying Almighty is now we could hope that the Yeshua is cryba lover s is next Thursday and Friday its objective is Anila Dodi I am to my beloved namely to be close to Hashem is there a way for me to start practicing being closer to Hashem as eventually this week and the next week Thursday and Friday is Richard it's coming upon us and while we're still in the Lazy Days of Summer the reward of Anil adidi is a very exciting reward Anila Dodi I am to my beloved and then with Dodie lead and Hashem will give special attention to me but how do we do that how do we get close to Tashan so last week's powership is a lot about the Vegas happens to be that hashem's name is mentioned more in last week's passion and any other passion the entire time is mentioned 93 times in Paris attack and there's a lot about a lot about thinking about Hashem Allah be careful not to forget and we know that Yura means a Miller defines it as being aware of Hashem uh don't read it Ma but may uh that's a hundred Brothers if you say a hundred blockers every day you'll become close to Hashem it's a recipe it's the recipe [Music] it is the recipe it's like you got a book of recipes and they say undercover this is the recipe ramilla would say Sarah Miller's example says there was a clown called bozo big red nose a lot of people are here are old enough to remember bozo he says prabella challenged us say Bozo a hundred times if you say Bozo 100 times during the day then by the end of the night you're gonna dream of Bosa so make a good hundred rockers and you'll get close to Hashem place asks an interesting question he says wait a second wait a second this is such a basic lesson in Broncos how come it's not mentioned anywhere in masakis Brothers you know where you'll learn all the way to manage to say to kochim why wasn't it it's a very basic question do you know what he answers all say that if you say a hundred Brothers it's as if you offered a carbon that's why it's in the sectors it's like a carbon carbon is carafe to get close Rabbi said I challenge you try it out from the morning when you wash your hands and you say to me you put on your towels yeah [Music] you focus on Hashem after a hundred of that you get close to the ambition that's a recipe for Anila Dodie that's homework for Ella that's a way to get close to Usher it's going to lead into the next question if there would be God forbid another dangerous Resurgence of covid is there something special I could do to protect myself and my family you read in the news another uptick in covet they like the sensationalism a worse comment might be around the corner would be would we be ready for it God forbid I fear not you'll tell people to put on masks no that's politics masks don't help you don't want to know why the surgeon wears a mask because he doesn't want to be recognized he does I might get a sew it he wears gloves because he doesn't want fingerprints he doesn't you know you can't read the prescription he doesn't want to be sued if he gave me the wrong medicine I'm afraid I'm afraid we we we're not ready but this hundred Brothers the Third brings down to say a hundred brothers and he then writes instituted 100 Brokers because there was an epidemic to plague and a hundred people were dying so he instituted a hundred brothers and they stopped dying is 100. so the back the great back the famous one of the famous commentaries the box says that the tour is a basic he doesn't bring down sources and stories why over here does he does he deviate and tell us about David and Malik and a plague that's that's not the Box the tourist job the times teaches us back so the back says that Tori is telling us that it was because if there should ever be a plague Governor Malik instituted at a hundred blessings will protect for a plague it's a box I have my own shot you don't have to like it it's okay it's okay this actually dates back Staten Island to over 36 years ago when they made the first I was I was one of the founders of at Solon Staten Island as a matter of fact had someone Staten Island had women on the force because there were two neighborhoods that had women Staten Island and Washington Heights because both didn't have enough coverage of men during the day it's phased out now but uh so the first ambulance we bought one of the donors I was also one of the donors but one of the donors wanted to put a mug and dovet on the on the ambulance so the other donors got upset ah Zionism so I told him look it's oh don't get so excited it's a mug and puppets you know what it stands for Echo the model of echo the mountains that's what it is and the reason why it's a mugging of it is because when they went to battle Mello says ah but I just told you now that's not what I said you don't have that that's that's the worm shoot it happens to be the Gematria of mugging is 93. together with the six sides it's 99. and the body of the star makes it a hundred that's the mugging of it the mugging of it is the hundred blessings now you'll say Rabbi rice that's a little bit the body of the Star come on who says that it's a six-sided so that you should know that's me Kabula I'm not a kabbalist but I learned Hawk so that's Kabbalah Kabbalah says that the six-sided Star of David America's actually represents the seven spheres and the body of the star represents the sphere of your site and I'll even tell you what the body stands for because when representer said that you should think that Hashem is he said when you're anointing Hashem above and below in the four directions don't forget to do it on yourself too the body of the stars yourself so that's that's a hundred that's a protection from any Corona I know with my boys that I have to be concerned with technology do I also have to be concerned with my daughters as well okay so here's a very contemporary question it's not a problem to have my daughters have a smartphone I don't have to worry about my daughters right so it happens to be that a very fine young man who is now the president of my former kahilla the good soul of Staten Island khaim fender works for guard your eyes they call it gye and he told me an astounding statistic he said 15 of the people that come to them begging for help our girls and young ladies 15 percent one out of six or one out of seven I know it's a kiddish but it's a reality so the answer is you certainly do have to be concerned about the girls now also we must know that this is a Marcus Medina that number is in the thousands we shouldn't be surprised it's so available three times this day it says that our nature is the look like [Music] that's a human person human person is interested to look so I wanted to give out on ergon shiratira's lines that first of all God your eyes.com can be looked into online anonymously with a lot of information guard your eyes.com there's also a hotline where a person could speak unanimously without giving a name to a counselor 8100. there's also a gye hotline for kizik -493 and although I wasn't going to but I'm feeling brave feeling brave I received a phone call woman tearfully telling me her marriage is over she found her husband watching horrible things she said I'm marriage is over I said to her calm down if your marriage is over then we might run out of paper for getting and it's not that your husband doesn't love you anymore he had the problem before he married you has nothing to do with you and yes it's something that needs to be deal dealt with you can't talk to them about it you need to speak to one of his mentors and brainstorm how to do it but I calmed her down gye has a special woman counselor to talk to a woman that finds out that it's not the end of her life gye is doing remarkably good work something needed for our day and age so again the number of the hotline is six four six six hundred eighty one hundred due to my upbringing I suffer from low self-esteem how can I cultivate more confidence in myself I'm going to answer in five minutes what Rabbi twersky dedicated his whole life to great Rabbi twinsky wrote over 50 spawn this was a theme that ran through all of his foreign dealing with low self-esteem so the first thing is that if a person recognizes that they are grappling with low self-esteem which is already they're ahead of the game they they recognize it so the two rules will right away help immensely a good friend then kids start repairing the damage and saying what are you talking about do you know how many special traits you have I wish there would be more people like you and by the way the best friend could be a spouse that could do remarkable healing and of course we're talking about the spouse saying the truth it says in the silver the migrant the myfitness in a migrant to me the pocon a micron designing them a fairness has to be with truth but a husband and a good Wrath or rebby or Russia Shiva can do wonders writing a a list of what this person considers good traits and then looking at them and trying to Circle what they have can also be a character builder however sometimes this is a scary fact sometimes a lot of damage was done a parent that always said you know the way you are you'll never amount to anything I don't know why can't you ever do like like your brothers ah again another disappointment I'm not surprised unfortunately these sometimes can Sear into a person's brain and cause what's called developmental trauma developmental trauma can be very difficult to cure on one's own sometimes a person might need help Hashem the day we have I would never send someone to a non Torah practitioner that's going out of The Frying Pan Into the Fire Hashem today we have highly trained therapists that have real toolboxes to deal with these things I have a inside seat because my my rabbit's in Shashi is an lcswr and she is trained in two modalities EMDR and ifs which are incredible tools to help sometimes in a pretty quick time developmental trauma EMDR which has to do with the eye movements it's really it's like it's real like space Space Age stuff and ifs which even goes deeper stands for internal family systems where the therapist is able to isolate The Protector that causes the person to freeze and to isolate the child that was hurt that was embarrassed and to sit with the pain and then to do a do-over can change the past but you could heal the perspective this not it's not always necessary at all but in severe situations we have wonderful therapists that can help repair damage but even more importantly as parents parents that are listening to this you should know that you have not to damage the children not to say oh you're always careless there's no hope know that you could be causing problems for the child for the rest of their life after 28 years of marriage my wife has started to seriously neglect her weight she's gained 40 pounds her appearance has started to bother me and I'm also worried about her health what is the Diplomatic way to talk to her about this here's a woman or it could be a man who starts to neglect themselves and they're starting not to look nice and they're also starting to breathe heavy but the husband that asked this question also knows that if he gives any indication that his wife is not looking nice oh you only love me because the way I look how is he supposed to talk to her I told you my rabbit son is a therapist so I mentioned to her the question she said you know Myer if the wife is she said most women don't like to let themselves go they're very very diet conscious she's letting herself go and has emotional eating and it's probably something else going on the husband is Right On Target when he says that it's a very delicate subject to talk about so you mean you don't love me anymore if I don't lose weight that's it so here again is where it's important that people have a rough that people have a mentor because that's the way to do it the way to do it is to speak to somebody else and say you know I'm worried about my wife and you know she's she needs to realize that uh she has to watch herself a little bit more and the love can say to her is everything all right I noticed that you're uh you're heaving as you go up the stairs it looks like it looks it looks like you put on a little late that that's why it's important to have a roof you know this famous story with rev gifter right if gifter uh wife enter of gifter and said you know my husband says it's my job to get up for the baby he has to learn the next day you know I could sleep with the baby but I'm a computer I can't get up I'm gonna faint with the baby sort of gifter you know talk to the husband and the husband says you know Abby I can't learn if I'm up in the night I can't concentrate so if gifted told them okay call me up I'll come over so that's all he had to say the problem was over you need now it's also true that couples have to if couples are close they have to develop the ability to talk about sensitive things without it becoming an issue but if they don't have such a relationship don't take a chance I see them are moving into many communities so we skip this question they are introducing practices such as using swimming pools as mcvos not wearing masks during covid I have some more water and some children are accosting women who wear long shatles Etc how do I deal with my feelings thank you oh yeah yeah yeah yeah thank you it was a terrible picture in the New York Post that I once saw I don't read the New York Post I don't have the New York Post fat but I once saw a picture was shown to me there was a there was an expo about filth aquinos amongst the about filth and the cameraman caught two hasidim at the Expo and took a picture of it now I asked you does that represent the hasida of course not when you have to see them on an LL plane and they're standing there and they hold up the plane for 40 minutes because they won't sit down next to a woman does that represent no no you know what represents Casino I was with somebody who was taking chemotherapy by Dr hirschfeld by Dr Azrael hershfell the Malik by his office now in Williamsburg it was a SAT Merced who lovingly was setting up cakes and yogurts and sandwiches for the people who are the caregivers to eat the misses whatever you want whose job for the Saturday is to cook something for a terminally ill child who wants to have pancakes with strawberry and chocolate chips she whips it up who wants to have glintses with caramel and whipped cream and she whips it up the khasi that sets up a sucker for somebody that's in the hospital in Binghamton we have to be careful what we say represents the guy that uses the swimming pool for a Mikvah doesn't represent casida and the children [Music] that yell Isha proutza to a woman with a long shato also doesn't represent Chrissy it's just that their children who are being raised on a higher level of sneers and they're too young yet to understand to differentiate yes I had in my shoe in Staten Island we came to covid I didn't allow children into Shore that Under 12 and if you came you had to be masked at all time for 14 months that I had a minion in the back they didn't want to do that so I told them they can't come and down essentially I threw them out but my Island was angry why would they behave that way and I told them you're not being fair you don't have 14 children you don't have 12 children you don't have 11 children what do you think they did during covert they weren't keeping their 14 children inside they would have to they would have to move into a sanatorium and they weren't putting on their six seven and eight-year-olds masks they wouldn't stay on so all those children congregated together in the park and then they came home to their parents what might I ask would it help to wear masks it's a different culture we have to learn to understand different cultures it's not easy but remember when we walked through the arms of the guys are in 12 paths says there was a remarkable miracle the water that froze between the 12 paths was see-through that was one of the 250 miracles because usually what a freeze it's opaque but instead it was see-through why did it make such a miracle so I heard from heshi Jacobs one of the 911 Heroes a great artsulla member secretary Hashem wanted us to know that these 12 different ways but you should see I die it's a maturity to be able to see people that live different than you and to tolerate people that live different than you I remember when the spider moved into Flatbush ramilla was so excited he said we're getting the best of Istanbul I remember I remember why you're gonna watch how they dubbing you're gonna watch how they kiss the khakam's hand he was excited remember next question how can I determine if what I want is acceptable for a Torah Jew or whether I'm being just a baltiva and a novel beer shoe Satora is it okay to dine regularly on Cowboy steaks drink expensive aged wines if I can afford it what about weekend vacations to Dubai with my private jet certainly what money are you going yeah next week somebody's gonna say without a private jet it's okay my rabbitson is a talmuda of the bulvavi who wrote a whole safer an academic to them associate a deep thinker he gave this following powerful rule Ravi samashwards he said if something is necessary for once then that's not an excess but if it's beyond menu but I wanna come on you know you know what that that steak tastes like it's fatter than the tire on my car I don't even know I don't even know how to eat it I don't know I don't even know okay then that border is another bird now we have to realize that if we raise our children in a certain way then their menu will need a very high bar [Music] but we have to ask ourselves do we need this foreign and that's a good starting point to gauge what is acceptable and what is just simply being a baltiva and the novel this coming Tuesday the global dafyami Community is starting masaktus kadushan I'm not sure if I should start firstly I'm concerned about how much I can retain when learning so fast also perhaps I shouldn't start the dafiomi in the middle finally maybe I'm better off learning at a much slower Pace with Kenyan massage or the orisa program as a follow-up if I do start should I join a small live group in my shul or nearby or should I listen to one of the master dothyomi online we got Maggie day shirun after all they must be very special if they have so many people listening to them thank you okay question is starting this coming Tuesday Mrs kadushan you know I don't like to get on the train in the middle there'll be another time broccolis is going to come it's gonna be a lot of hype I can start then and you know I don't like this stuff yummy stuff two weeks later I don't even remember the camera I learned forget about two months later and two years later and it's so fast who am I kidding I mean in Yeshiva I spent three weeks on what they learned in one day and you know you know I see it's very successful this Kenya masecta business and this Horizon they go slower and you know I could really absorb it might who am I kidding with this stuff behind me business I just want to be a hero just want to be able to say I finished the masecta I mean and then Rabbi Weiss if I do decide to go to adafyami you know there's a share in my shoe but it's a bunch of four or five people but you know there's these big super dafyamis with thousands of people and you know and it's also very convenient I could listen at home and you know these are all good questions and it's true romanica every generation has to have its own directors that say you know maybe there are a lot of people with ADHD they can't sit for longer than 20 minutes come on the walls and the ceilings and you're not going to get me to talk bad about getting myself my son rev nakami wise gives one of the largest urine in the world in Inwood and and he's very much leak and the people are very happy eraser program people are coming and enjoying the learning and getting into it and and remembering it as I give out but I know you're hearing a butt you're hearing your butt Australia fortunate is a person who comes to the next World with the talmud innocent a mission of life is to finish us I wouldn't be able to tell you this who am I pee wee Weiss oh my God I am orchestrated the ramay Shapiro should come to the Christian Light here he was he was introducing his dream he wanted to make a good impression and the couple other places see comes in like he comes in light and the coffee time stands up for him stands up for him stands up there because I used to stand up in the whole place the entire Christmas stood up there and you know you see from a success from the dafyami was born Arts group I know because I taught at school I thought I taught the family with the sun Cena came thousands of people who never thought they would finish him a sector and they finished us and they didn't finish one time they finished it four times they have told me to who hardly went to Yeshiva and finished us with up yemi four times is the way to finish us you're not learning you never even heard of araken not learning you're not learning schmooz you're like learning because I don't remember and I don't cop everything pink is both said everything you learn with the deaf yaimi you're gonna be admitted to the Shire of the atmos you'll learn it then but you gotta attempt it here nobody in this room has a Malik in their mother's womb who decided to do a riser who said you know what for you I'll do Kenyan Miss actor everybody learned chess and they learned it because they could recover it [Music] when you get a chance I'm not saying that I love those programs is the way to finish us the way to follow the daily Israel me is the way to tap into a kayak dafyami is the way to recover what we learned in our mother's womb all right I hear by Brokers Alzheimer allocation don't say when I get a chance I'll link Chevrolet [Music] it's great to start Cafe this is by the way Midway shots we're about to start the second half right now you know you finished the second half the first half is easier it's gonna be great it's going to be great you start caduce and you're finishing seven and a half years it's a great time oh it's great then we're coming into above the camera [Music] so much fun really so much fun all right maybe you convinced me but should I listen online to the big magidish Europe he has a bunch of Cycles there's nothing like going to your shoes first of all you gotta develop a rabbi not an online rebby you have a rough you have a local time that you could have a relationship with you have live peers who notice if you don't come and see why you're missing it's the biggest kindness It's a camaraderie of Tyra it's you definitely should go to a local Chanel it's great that we have these online things because if you miss and you have to travel your wife needs help oh yeah so you have a backup it's great 100 percent I have all of shots many times go listen to it a hundred percent 100 percent tomorrow night at 8 35 100 percent you know when I came to Yeshiva Staten Island I didn't speak Yiddish because my parents they were Hungarian when they didn't want me to understand about something they spoke Hungarian I never heard Yiddish I didn't know what Yiddish was I came to Yeshiva romija gave Sharon Yiddish what am I going to do I don't know I don't know so what did I do I bought a tape recorder I take the receiver and I listen to them slowly over and over and over again as I learned the Yiddish so I didn't come to this year sir asked me why wasn't I buy this year so I said I can't follow the Yiddish so he smiled when I told him I'm listening he says good good good but come to the shear anyway foreign what would be if everybody decided to watch ergon shiratara online there would be no more against your retirement Roberts would have a life I mean well what happened you have to support local shiram it's very important to support your school to support your love I want to thank you Torah for making this possible Shelley for doing a excellent job as usual excellent the questions are typed much better than when I wrote them out and I want to thank all of you for coming I wish you all a wonderful night and a ready we're gonna say [Music] like to welcome everyone who came and thanked for the advice for the very inspiring Joshua I'd give you a secured to all the sponsors and remind everyone there's still opportunities to sponsorship call 718-85-1865net.com [Music] I just Hank foreign [Music]