Inside My Wedding Day: Stories From Behind the Lens

Hello everybody and welcome back [clears throat] to the first episode. I'm very excited for this one the actual photographer. So it's very nice. We're going through the whole up to the wedding, the wedding day, the details from the actual anybody how I went about it specifically because details personal. So, I'm very excited for that. We're also releasing a vlog ready says vlog of the Weber channel. We're going to put a link in the description, post it on status, whatever if you're not following along. A huge shout out to our sponsor of the episode steakhouse. I personally went out there um and we had the most amazing beautiful experience. Coin call for Davis and the staff over there. Moishi Andreas, good good good energy people. Um, the owner from the restaurant, an experienced uh experienced in the restaurant industry, knows what they're doing and delicious, delicious food, the service, everything feels very five-star with the fact that it's conveniently located in Flatbush. 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And thank you so much to the sponsors of this episode. Enjoy. Okay. Um um super excited to be back recording the episode after my wedding. I did put out an episode last week with AJ the drummer and Zafik bandi band and people loved it and um but here we are to make an episode a very excited to bring on Shimmystein who was already a guest. I think that episode was one of the top performing episodes by the way 10K on YouTube and it picked up right away y this is showing how long ago was it do you remember summertime maybe >> and I was very very excited. So Shimmy was also the photographer at my wedding. So you guys stayed overtime. We paid over time. [laughter] I was actually the videographer mentions videographer. Yeah. >> Right. No, I do photography also but specifically because that's my passion. He enjoys the video part. Thank you. Um, nice. I appreciated it because for the video, you know, they don't know you can actually know that of the photograph in the pictures. It's all we already printed it out. Every shave was at the table and they and that and it leads me to think like I can't imagine what the whole thing will look like. The video is very tricky by the way because there are so many videos out there from our wedding. I'm trying to think what his video is going to look like. It's like you have to top something now. No, I'm saying very nice got access to the lighting and the equipment the opposite by so right but instead pictures code. Amazing pictures. That's literally what I had by my wedding. People took pictures and videos added by G's wedding. No, but but find the vlog. >> Yeah, actually quite cool. >> Yeah. So guys, let me give you a rundown of my wedding. The rundown goes as follows. It started off with me saying that I don't want the in a typical hall and for a few reasons. Main reason was I wanted something unique and different. I didn't want the Zelba to the gold fry whatever. Yeah. >> Second of all, yeah, exactly. Second of all, for my push the anxiety that that I've had in the past, I didn't want a hole that's in a basement where you can't breathe, where you can't go out of the wedding hall for even a second to take fresh air, where you don't see a window or a tree or snow in my case. >> Also, as thing, people don't have service. So all the time people got to go out cuz I need to call somebody. I want to call I want to text out and they're not in the hole for that. >> Yeah, I didn't think about that. Yeah. And then I also didn't want something in the center of bar park cuz I I thought maybe like random yeshivas are just going to rush in which technically I didn't have a problem but I also have a whole family of people and you know >> for the guest for the guest correct my cousins come there they're uncle they're a brother >> guest like for the people was matter >> right. Thank you. That's Yeah, even though I did I did already tell uh everybody whoever I spoke to that you just stay tuned the first child that I have vaknak or basak or whatever it's going to be a party >> like an expo center >> for the whole world like legit I I really want to do that like it's going to be open house come say Mazdov like you know because I want to make it up to people I like my every person every person in my context every watcher here is unique I have a unique connection with them. So, the funny thing is that I actually called Chimmy and I knew I want Chimmy as photographer >> videographer. Videographer >> because you're a package. No, you call him for both. >> Right. >> And what do you mean you you backseat driver the photographer like a [ __ ] I mean, >> correct. Right. [laughter] Okay. So, basically he wanted me >> you tell him what to do literally. >> Okay. No. >> So, you set up every shot that he takes, you set it up and then you do video. Well, he's a excellent photographer, but we work very good in the team. >> It's insane what he made. I mean, it literally looks like out of a magazine. Like, out of what you see, it's insane. >> His name is Nathan Rosenberg, by the way. I got to give him a shout out. Very, very >> shout out to Nathan. >> No. >> So, I told you I'm looking at a few venues at that point. A few of the options were >> I was looking I was looking at taking like a rustic barn. You remember like uh 456 Brooklyn? I forgot the names even. Uh like you take a >> Yeah. In Brooklyn you take a empty place, you a loft and and Yeah. >> You need to bring everything, >> right? You need to bring from A to Z. >> Everything. >> Yeah. And that's when you told me that about Dikker Heights. And to me that was like, okay, it's in Brooklyn, 10 minutes from Bar Park. Most of my family lives in Bar Park. It's about 40 50 minutes from Five Towns. That's where my wife is from. Kala, right? Um, my family right across the Versano, so it's closer to Lakewood, right? Like it's only an hour from Lakewood. It's not that far. >> Like this the place is perfect. And as soon as I looked up the pictures, I saw >> big grand ballroom, separate room can be outdoors. We ended up doing a tent because it was freezing that night. >> Um, but it was but it was beautiful. So we ride away. Malad Davka wanted she said she wants to have uh uh separate rooms. She likes the idea from it to another. I think it's very nice compared to the >> bar. It's a square box with with dividers and every 5 minutes you find yourself a divider flying past you 20 m an hour and a guy chasing after it and like okay what's now and all of a sudden now here's the like where >> I had it this week but this week yesterday Tuesday night was the wedding Tuesday night we went to this wedding in the middle of me eating schnitle the whole schnitle table just flew by I promise you and the wall >> and then and then I was running after my wife's drink legit Did you remember the drink wasn't there? >> It's the It's the walls that keep flying and keep moving and shifting >> and they move drinks. Correct. >> Yeah. And everything keeps moving. >> They move the walls. Yeah. It was hilarious. Okay. So, I didn't want that. So So Derer Heights kind of checked off and then every room had windows, doors, different entrances. >> You looked out, it was on a golf course. We're in Brooklyn. You have a golf course. Like you're talking about acres and acres of land. I remember you telling me if you're lucky you're going to have snow that day >> and we did. Everything was covered in snow. It was beautiful. >> So now the second biggest challenge is how do you get a caterer in because it's not a Jewish Jewish owned although they work well. They have many Jewish weddings there. Me myself we went when I went with my khala to look at a different Jewish wedding. It was a kabatka wedding >> but many people who saw that my wedding was there told me that they've had their wedding there. The reason for the reason why I recommended this venue is because I got married there. >> Correct. Yeah. >> So I love that spot so much and that was the reason we took that spot is because also my father wanted something in Bar Park but he didn't want everybody to jump in because my father knows my father. So we we wanted in Brooklyn. So this was the perfect spot for us. And you're right. Yeah. You have to bring the caterers know about this place. They've used the places and are friendly to meet the cers. Still you have to find somebody willing to come in and get them in charge. >> Correct. Yeah. So I went with La Shishi. We involved him. Um and he did an amazing job. He's based out of my but he does catering all over. And just a big shout out to him. He was amazing. Um he's a Zevi the Zevy Freriedman from Lilac Party Rentals is it. It's really on a different level on the days. But uh but but um Jerry Freiedman also does this like you call him upd from A to Z. He's based out of Brooklyn right now. Um he's actually a good friend of mine. I know him. So you need event sometimes people also they want to do like an anniversary party or a birthday party and who do you call? You know um you're not calling the big people. You're not calling the big cers. You're not looking to spend the big one. I want one guy here. I'm giving you a few hundred dollars or whatever how much he charges. Make me an event. Find me the unique cute things that nobody thinks about. That's what Lilac Party Rentals does and he's doing now for Peter Mosa and lights or anything like that. Uh reach out to my friend Zevi Freriedman Lilac Party Rentals. He's great. But uh yeah, who else? ment and unique and they're like once you have uniqueness and creativity everything's it's endless possibilities. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. He's really really good. I don't I see a status also. You don't think about it. Let's say Tata Mama have the the golden anniversary >> or a 50th birthday for your father. What do you do? >> Just call Ellie Freedman the >> Yeah, exactly. It's like you need somebody that's that's small that's that's going to be busy with you that that's devoted to these kind of parties. So, he's amazing. I'm I'm gonna leave his number if somebody wants to make a party or anything. The number is gonna be in the description. Um, so Suri did a hell of a job Shishi and this is not to give him a shout out. This is because I because just because it was a lot to pull together. >> Um, but the venue idea was amazing and I think we saw it show up in the pictures that we took. Like you have that picture with the brick wall and the you see the windows. >> Oh yeah, the old types of windows. >> Yeah, you see the old windows and and a little bit of light coming out and it's just insane, right? You've done many more sim since then. Um I don't know if I recommended but I think I might have also recommended it to them. They also want the Brooklyn cuz it's not such a known it's not an unknown wedding venue like eminence height you know >> right >> to the standard >> and is it considered expensive >> like I know for us it was around I think uh we say >> it's like a ballpark >> a ballpark between 10 and 15,000 yeah what you want to say something a >> lot more it was that price. >> Yeah. You shouldn't say. >> Okay. >> She doesn't know. No, >> she doesn't know. >> But so again, expensive and cheap is is relative obviously, but >> yeah. >> No, I think we got a good price. >> The tent. >> Oh, I didn't think about that. >> Music. >> Oh, yeah. Yeah. Just the place. from the plat. >> No, I'm trying to compare it to the typical bar park wedding. Again, nothing compares to the typical Takuna wedding that you get for 17 $18,000 >> for couples that's to compare. >> Okay, you're right. It is a lot more expensive. >> Is it is >> we were lucky. >> Yeah. But as when you come to a place, it's going to add up. >> Right. Right. I bought everything, kitchen, warmers, dishes, cups. >> Correct. Correct. >> So, this is there's no monkey, but again, it's it's not super expensive. It's not highend, >> but it's on the cheaper side. >> Yeah. >> You know what I mean? But in comparison to it's not just another wedding. It's a wedding which stands out and you wanted to have something different, >> right? So, so Derer was really nice. I I enjoyed that decision. Um the food was was um was all done by Seri. I think he did an amazing job. He dealt with my parents and he just did right. >> Um what else details did we do for the wedding? I know questions my wedding questions of the wedding. >> Yeah, >> let's let's wait for them. [clears throat and laughter] [gasps] >> What do people want to know about the wedding? So that was the location. Um, >> so now going to the day of the wedding. You started your day off and >> I started my day off. I went doning. I went um I went to the mikvah doning. Drove in. My brother drove me in. I was actually in a very good mood. I I made a good decision to go to a spa before the wedding. I don't think anybody ever does that. I haven't heard of that. U went to the Brooklyn Spa actually. It's a very nice spa and and it's actually like also a few minutes from bar park. So it was actually like seven eight blocks from Diker Heights. So over there >> mikvah this was yeah the wash of the mik was actually very nice wet sauna dry sauna cold plunge jacuzzi and also was good because the venue itself doesn't have like an official groom. They have a bride room but not an official groom room and they don't have a shower there. So for me Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I'm actually also releasing a vlog tonight, whoever's watching this and we're going to it's going to be on the Weber channel of all the details of the of the days. Yeah. So, you can watch it over there. You can see actually there's a video of me in the cold plunge. Then I got to the venue and uh we started doing pictures. I was told to be there at 4. >> Timing. >> Yeah, >> timing. De actually going on on time. >> Thank you. >> Decently on time. >> Um yeah, she was also decently everybody was more or less uh on time on different time zones, but they were on time. Everybody in their own way. >> Um but it's it's a normal thing that weddings almost because like oh I still have till three. Oh, I still have till 4 and then all of a sudden the last minute get >> Yeah. the get but >> you're very on time usually. I am I I I don't like to use this to like I don't like to use the word always or never, but I'm generally there before more than an hour before the event. Half an hour is the latest that I get an event cuz I need you know I can't run in and start >> Well, yeah. You ever had crazy traffic or that? >> So I always calculate. So my timing is I usually leave three I always say it's three hours before an event is when I leave my house. I'm like two and a half hours. Brooklyn Mons, you know, it's always usually around. >> So you always get there probably an hour, hour and a half before the event. Why? just in case >> because if I want to sit in CL or do something I'd rather do it there than do it at home and there's going to be traffic and I think always just in case >> I'd rather sit and in park also for example I had a wedding this week in front of ter park 15 144 but also now with the snow and >> yeah it's harder to find spots yeah >> so mid alma I arrived there was 210 that was considered late for me that was considered late for me 210 >> um and I have to circle four times right till I finally found a spot so I like to come on time and you know to make sure everything but also you need to know that when you start in the beginning on more or less on time everything goes more calm you know the food but if in the beginning here's the thing when I come to a wedding in the beginning we sit like this and we had a call so we had to wait for like the color for like an hour or so and when we are very calm in the beginning that's when I start worrying >> because I know always like at some point I'm going to be rushing to get rushed yeah >> yeah no but otherwise it ran pretty much on time your guy was very good on like want to come in like you know cuz you're >> my guy >> the party guy the yeah >> I was shocked myself cuz I've seen I just have I've never seen him at a wedding so he was like I'll be your manager he said >> my manager and and I was like yeah I'm like yeah manager like yeah I was like I I've never seen you manage like I know you make good food and I know you're a nice guy >> but he knows the wedding system so >> but he was he like literally he pulled me out of pictures by the by the from the smorg into the husish. >> Right. >> So that was uh so anyway I'm also thinking I can make this podcast as a guide to people that are engaged or plan on getting engaged and how to do their wedding which is I really think that planning a wedding first of all starts with who you get engaged to. Just make sure that that's a good one. Obviously in this case that's checked off. Um but I also think that I think a venue makes a huge difference. I think if you can find a cozy comfortable venue then it's very important >> the crew people also >> because because another thing it's very important for the people that you have besides them being very talented whatever should have a good personality should have to be fun >> crew people you mean the photograph people it's it makes the m it makes the environment and and all bragging aside I'm saying the compliment that I at a lot more from at the event because they don't see my pictures yet is they love the you know the experience and the gishmach and the fun and the excitement. That's what people really care about. That's what really matters because right now and I I don't know if I said it last time but I know of people that don't like to look at their pictures because the photographer >> such and like they don't enjoy looking at anymore. Yeah, >> that makes also part of the fun. But how late the wedding is running, like if it's running late, but how fast the manage be fast, you know that the timing is all the time. >> I I keep on showing my wife like the videos where he sees running. >> Yeah. You know that laughing. Yeah. Because I like I know what's going through his mind, right? I showed you probably 10 times. Like look at running over there. >> He was he was all over the place. He was by the He was standing in the front and when your brothers walked down, >> he ran to the front to tell them when to walk in. Like he was all over the place, >> right? Well, you can say stuff if you want to. >> Yeah. >> Oh, >> okay. >> No. >> So, yeah, today I'm recording in English because my wife is sitting in. she wants to enjoy the the show. >> But you were also very lucky is there's always a joke going around and I and I I see it all the time when I go to a grocery store shopping mall. I'm in a huge parking lot and it's 4 or 5:00 in the afternoon. >> Mhm. >> I will see the most beautiful sunset ever. >> Ah >> always. And I always want to take out my phone. I want to take but what am I taking pictures of videos of? And I always wonder like why can't I have this at weddings? But then again when I'm at a wedding and I'm standing in front of a wedding or it's hype the eminence of gold how am I getting the sky I have nothing from sky or >> but when you have a venue like yours >> and you have the snow background and you had that five minutes of beautiful sunset chaos red >> gorgeous pictures you remember we took >> it's just stunning the way you can get >> on that space on that place with the snow such nice pictures, >> right? >> But if you want, we can put in a picture over here. We'll block face you don't want to put in. >> You write down the mark stamp. What is it? 30 minutes in. >> But also, it's it's literally you have five minutes to get those pictures from when it starts to turn. >> You forgot to mention that it was a cloudy day the whole day, >> right? It was >> we had a sunset when the whole day was cloudy >> and like towards 4 or 5:00 cleared up. >> Yeah. >> Moving on. In the beginning was very nice and a couple by the way. >> So, yeah. >> Quick quick. How did you like the kabul spun, bro? >> The kabulun was very cozy. I really liked it. >> Um, the kabul spunum is like you said on your stories, it's that awkward, very awkward time. >> I actually wanted to avoid that awkwardness by having your vice just sing uh music, >> but then I was like, it goes so quickly. The wholeish is 30 minutes and majority of the time you're either reading because we did to him and the thing and you're talking to the rabbi and you're getting the so what am I I I felt like it's going to just get watered away. It's either going to be like okay sha but I did want it so that it it it seems more smooth and whatever what he ended up singing by the dancing which was very nice but I'm saying that I did want that but in the same time it's it's really to get through like on the kala side you have much more of a ceremony they sit there they take the bras they they sit but it's more like very serious you know whatever [snorts] excited serious because >> between the crying it's emotion I want to be happy but I can't be happy so happy because you have to be cryish >> um >> we also did a first look which I don't think is they still do this >> I wasn't going to say [laughter] >> why not >> that's why when I said before about the uh the sunset I thought like oops maybe not no >> may I want to talk about it explain for people what a first look is you'll know better than But who does know what a first look is? >> I don't know. I I've never heard of this before I got engaged or whatever. >> Oh, no. >> Nope. >> Uhhuh. Okay. So, in short, in English, English >> because the last podcast was Yiddish and a lot of people were like, make an English. >> I got it. >> I just told you English not so good. I [snorts] speak. [laughter] >> So, what's a first look? >> Yeah. So, is unheard of. Really unheard of. Why is it so unheard of? >> Hold on. In general, it's unheard of because they don't see each other before >> Davka. >> Yeah. Says Davka. >> The Davka don't see each other before they're engaged. You stop talking to each other looking seeing each other more even. Some see them a month. Some two weeks and the max is a week. >> Okay. >> Like a week. >> And why? By the way, you know, there's no Mart to this. I think >> so. I do know the reasons. I do hear the reasons why. I can't say that I'm justifying validating it. Uh it just for that to be excited for the husband for the not having seen him all like up on the whole time whatever and some also say it has to do with monthly cycles whatever. >> Oh yeah yeah yeah right. Well yeah but in any case um but by the is really a normal thing not just normal common and it's like when they like they don't see each other it's sort of the complete opposite but like by some people it's really the norm. So a first look is basically when the and the kala see each other before and and usually the way it goes is as the stands you know they make the whole nice dress stands a very fancy dress facing away and then the kala comes up behind him. >> We have a picture of this by the way. >> We do have a nice a bunch of nice pictures. Oh the walk. >> Yeah. No a picture from shimmy. Shimmy sent us a picture. You don't want to add pictures. >> Take a time stamp. What is it? 40 minutes in. No >> vlog. Pictures. >> Okay. watch the vlog. So, okay. So, the the >> stands stands facing away and then the color comes walks behind him and taps him on the shoulder and then the turns around and it's like wow sees the color for you know first time today obviously. >> Yeah. >> Which was actually very nice. Can we say a clap [laughter] for you the first time we had to do a a second take which was actually cool because it's typical you know it's like a video guy. Okay. Hey, second take. Second take, which is actually very nice, but it was so gorgeous with the sky in the back. And then she walked out behind you and you have the white snow and your wife in the white dress and it was breathtaking. It was stunning. I was like, the pictures. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I saw a very good picture of me like smiling and you see her in the background. >> Different like different angles from the sides, whatever. It was a very It was a very nice thing. And it's obviously very nice because the pictures that you got then are killer photos and it's impossible to get that after the because >> you're saying it was bash. Yeah. It is gamb. >> What do you What do you ta do by get to the rest of my story? What do you do in bar park? Somebody's calling you for a wedding to take pictures. You have zero nature involved. >> What do you do? You take them out on the street for a minute. What do you take 16th Avenue here? Like what's the holding hands and you see 16th Avenue in the back a bus? >> Nobody takes outside flowers. The backdrop was mentioned the bet the backdrop like it's a shiny spark they don't nobody cares like this right so when somebody has a wedding at the marina or by the any fancy besides the outside they also have room whatever visal that you can take nice pictures where the color took whatever you can take nice and color pictures the a nice backdrop. >> People pay sometimes $10 $15,000 just for flowers at event or a wedding. The $5,000 is the minimum that people pay for wedding flowers, but people pay 10 $15,000 and the only pictures you have is the color. The color's family has those pictures >> and that's don't have pictures in front of it, which is a pity. But you guys since I mean by the people that take pictures, you knock out all the pictures before the we did more or less all the pictures after the we went outside for five minutes. Remember it's five minutes of pictures. Correct. It's impossible to take parents and all that. >> But also what I do is um by regular weddings. So we do we take a picture with the inserts. You know the insert is we have a whole but never really looks legit like having you know actual color there with all different kinds of shots. So it worked out beautifully by you besides you having people insert. Yeah. Yeah. >> That you leave a space for the you put it in. >> Yeah. I like how people say you just crap it in. Just crap it in. >> It doesn't just crap itself in there. >> Right. Right. [laughter] I think just but any case so it was beautiful but also like you don't have to spend a lot of time between the and the dancing but this takes away from being inside the wedding hall with all the people because this is not >> where >> after the meal. Yeah. Oh yeah. Yeah. It gave me more time. >> So we're only at five minutes and whatever. >> Yeah. Okay. So let me give the rundown my schedule. So I think it was officially scheduled 6:30 7:30 then 9:30 dancing and so on. I think I went 6:45 is when I stepped out of the room to the Kabulam. I sat down. We did it. We did. Um Harava Laban was my midicition who was also my >> teacher which he is amazing I just have to say because he he gives us classes in the park like you go on a walk. There's a park actually here in Tom's River. You go on a walk, it's not nothing formal. He sit in the bish with a cipher. He just sit he understands who you are. So big shout out to him. He's an amazing amazing Reb and I appreciate amazing group. Appreciate. Yeah. >> And so he's just an amazing down to earth guy and I wanted to have him as edition, not like a whole seriousness where somebody can't talk to me. I wanted somebody that can. So we did that. It was very nice. I made sure to drink. I fasted tillas. I didn't want to fast the whole day cuz I didn't want to get to a wedding and have headache or whatever. I think a lot of people now fast only half a day and the kalas most of them don't fast at all. >> Right. Right. >> The fast the whole day you do you notice like the energy >> notice when the smile >> what oh then you know the oh the fast also but >> that's true I would say 75% fast >> fasting till the end. colors also a lot of them and I usually ask them like are you fasting you're not fasting I can give you water or not >> you can see if they're not okay probably >> right yeah that's what I'm saying like they're smiling you see they're peel and they're falling like a few minutes like I need a break or they want to water >> right so also I want to mention that I had one challenge I had one not challenge one my biggest thing going into my own wedding was I have to be present and I discussed this with you before the I did not want to miss my own wedding >> right And there's actually two times that I was I think very distracted which was the beginning the >> very distracting [snorts] and it's very I I really didn't want it to go the way it went. I I wanted I wanted I wanted to go to the room. >> I wanted to see what's happening. Yes. I wanted to see what's happening. I I still to this day I have no idea what foods were which people I five minutes of me just walking around. What's going to happen? People gonna say stuff. You can't walk. You can't walk because nobody everybody stop you. Sure. >> Right. So, so that's the that that's I acknowledge that also. And also the mitzotans was for me. I was very not present. And I'll tell you why. Because >> because we had to be out by 6:45. And knowing Dker Heights by 12:45 knowing Dyker Heights, I knew that if we go Yeah. They told me 12:30 officially 12:45 they told me is your contingency. Yeah. Yeah. extension and then if you stay it's an extra $1,500. And I knew that if I stay over by five or 10 minutes, I would say by more than five minutes more than what they said, it's overtime and then it's just I didn't want to I didn't want to pay them more money, >> right? >> So was like don't worry, but he also he did add stuff. So say he he's focused on his job and he he so I was I was not there. I was I mean I was there but I was I was not so focused. If he would have told me I promise you I'm going to end by 12:45 I would have >> He was done by 12:40 12:45. >> He was done by 12:47 12:46 and then I'm like dancing with my call and I stopped cuz I I I wanted to end the wedding and he's like dance a little bit more. >> Um >> he was like >> yeah like I end up charging you more. >> No, they didn't because by 12:49 we were done. >> So, okay, for the 4 minutes it didn't. But I already saw by 12:40 >> I already see the one of the, you know, talking into the radio, they're not going to be done, you know? >> We were done, >> right? So, they're a little bit, >> but other than that, the whole So, yeah. So, my mission of the day was I want to be present. I want to be there. I want to enjoy every moment, say hi to everybody, be present, not be carried away because I know how >> to That was a big point. Stress on that. Saying hi to everybody. >> Yeah. Like I I I I feel like it's very easy to get distracted. >> And I I must admit it. First of all, you were present. Besides that that you were, you know, giving attention to people, but you're also not like days like a lot of like like, you know, I mean, like, >> but you're like do it's very important to be like relaxed, but also when to give them that like I see it all the time because like I watch I see you know I see my camera I can watch and oh yo and when they their eyes don't make contact at the same time at the hand. That's a problem. When you shake somebody, you look at the next one, he doesn't acknowledge it. He like, yeah, >> 4 seconds, spend time parking in the snow, >> 5 seconds, we had parking right near the hall. There's a huge parking lot, like a 30 second walk or a 60-second walk. So, that was a bam, a benefit. Um, so yeah, so presence was for me very important. That's why I did the cold plunge in the morning. Like I did uh I did my breath work in the morning. I made sure to sleep enough. >> Um I got my seven hours in, >> right? >> Um made sure to eat healthy foods and just to have good energy. Shot my phone early enough. Um so yeah, so Kabla was very nice. Um I think uh a highlight was obviously going into the bad. >> So most shared clip from the past at least half a year >> that one clip and all the tit says about I think it's the moment when you went over to your current wife the kala and you covered her and you whispered something in here it's it's it's a moment it's it's you can I remember that same moment that I walked down that aisle and I covered my wife and I remember what I told her >> oh yeah >> yeah because it's like these little >> things in your head >> well she also remembers And uh she didn't tell anybody. It's a secret. >> Obvious. No, but I'm saying is that that moment for people to see that and like also zuk for the babas for the ladies. You went hugged your mother. It's it's warm. People connect with that. >> That's where it hit me. Like that was the point where it got really emotional. Like I felt like a king walking in with my you know her dad and my two fathers >> and then just seeing all like that's when the ceremony part kicked in. It's like okay it's real. Um, yeah, it was it was a beautiful moment. My mother was very very emotional. >> So, I took the time. Yeah, I gave her a hug. Um, >> it's a very, but it became such a like a highlight. I remember a person walked in after a minute after like that or after you left or whatever. Oh, I missed the whole thing. I missed the whole thing. He felt as if he missed the wedding and like he wants to go home, right? just over there. >> So they missed. >> We got to talk about this because >> for some reason by the I'm just going to say and the rest of the world is out meaning people look to skip it. They dread on it. They hate it. And there's a video now of uh Pedlo where he's in front of the eminence >> where where my wedding was supposed to be. if you remember. By the way, shout out to Eminence by the way. She really helped me a lot by the way. Helped me with information on Der. >> Yeah. Um but there's a video where you see there's constru and he can't do anything about it, but there's construction on the right, construction on the left. You know, that's where you make your so the and is for some reason it's shot before it even starts. And it's shocking that sometimes you see these massive where they have 40 piece bands. The guy probably spends thousands extra I think I think um or maybe even the other one they they they block over the street sometimes they do it very quickly right >> yeah but it's it's crazy how the and one of the reasons is because they do it completely outside >> so that's one of the reasons why the are not but in the rest of the world the is the highlight of the wedding everybody gets Sure. It's it's a beautiful moment for for one reason is because they sit. They do they do it indoors and they sit. Um so yeah they don't sit. >> So so automatically but people should know in the is the highlight of the wedding. You get you go by the >> this is where they see them. Right. But this is the ceremony. Okay. But the ladies do fancy salads. But the hot dishes is do sesame chicken. This is men. Yeah. >> Correct. >> By the anywhere else in the world, the smorg is the highlight of what is going. We by my wedding we had stations at a schwama station, a schnitle station. Sure. sushi station in that room next to the >> Yeah. And then there was instead of three hot dishes, there was 10 hot dishes. We had beef and chicken and whatever you name it. It was >> and over there you could take whatever you want cuz the main course you get what you get whatever. >> I go sometimes to weddings to go with my kala wife and we we seem like you can't imagine she has to pull me out the >> is the best part. >> And there's a Chinese station and there's a Yemenite station, an Arabic station. Yeah. Every station in the world. the gas station. They don't have [laughter] >> everything essentially is a gas station, but >> No, but you shimmy, you know. >> No, I totally agree. It's >> you've seen where is usually sesame chicken and potato. That's across the board. And if you're lucky but um no definitely is sad you have to move this the timings a little bit. I think that people should make at 4:00 and then have only their family members there by the because nobody else needs to be there. You don't need 20 people. That's it. That's all you need. have a four hour break till 8 o'clock you start the meal in the meantime you can take as many pictures you want can go home they can rest in Europe they do that >> yes Europe they do four or five o'clock in the afternoon everybody goes home >> and then they come back 8:00 for me and dancing it's a different mentality it's obviously a different kind of tie but meaning to say yes you know why but nobody really comes and nobody really like whoever wants to come come 5:00 to the come off, take off from work, whatever. So, this got a beautiful had it in the tent, which was which was lucky. >> Yeah. I did not expect, by the way, my family to show up. I remember telling for months before the wedding, I told my uh wife, I told her parents, I was like, "My family is not showing up." I think one of the things that made them show up is probably that I said a few days before the wedding, I said, "By the way, no kids at the wedding." By the way, how do you tell people who can't bring kids? >> Uh 18 plus. >> Yeah. I just I just said I just posted on my family chat that said everybody's invited, kids are not invited. >> So like basically >> kids can no kids at the wedding. >> Oh, >> it's one of the reasons in my opinion why it was so nice, why it was so now I remember. Taka, I was looking at when I was going through your stories. I was something felt different and I was like, is there a is there not a kid? I wasn't sure if it was the kids or not. And then this week I was talking to somebody like you know what ruins weddings and he jumped on Nathan kids. And I was like yeah but not having I just now he had so you said no >> no kids at my wedding. >> No offense to kids my own have many of them but they destroy the wedding and >> tell me why did they destroy a wedding? >> Because they're lost and this is their highlight. and they take off from school. And also, you know what I dislike is when mother's parents, they pull up to the hall, the minivan opens up the door and seven kids come, 17 kids come popping out of there. All different heights, size, shapes and formats. They come running into parents are not here. The mother is the father and the photographer, the videographers, but that's just beside the point. Besides that, >> the musician there >> musicians, but also when when we take pictures and we have constantly kids, kids kids running around, the musician needs to set up and you have kids going on the stage, off the stage, on the stage, over the stage. The the I've seen all the time waiters walking nice at the tree with a whole bunch of glasses and some kid comes flying down the side looking and boom, jumps right into them and everything topples over. >> They're destructive. It's not a specific group of kids, Monroe, whatever, but [laughter] >> by the bar part. What? No. No. But it's thing, >> right? It's also I tell you why it's because the have more kids. So automatically >> those the parents are way more like whatever the kick of the like I literally discussed this with the photograph. We're watching kids at least the modern people have a nanny for the kids. >> Yeah. But also the kids they you see about the kids and dress from the paddles flowers but they're not I don't know hate people but like kids will jump in front of my with their hands like this. This is whatever destroy wedding they're very to lost and it's it's I would say it's normal but it's also on the parents and I'm actually going to tell the parents of people that they need to control their kids like it's your job. We're not babysitters or don't bring them right. It's not a babysitting place. It's a wedding and legit kids really could could sometimes make or break a wedding. Especially by the mitzvatans, they kick these soda cap on the floor. I've seen people fall on them like just Yeah. They just whatever. >> Up until they fall asleep on three chairs. >> Yeah. Oh, that's that. Then they're cute. They're adorable. Then I take nice videos and pictures in the middle of the mitzvah cuz then they're the cutest. Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Did I ever tell you that I once saved a kid that was slept and the parents left him in the hole? >> No way. >> In a rose castle. I'll make it very short within 30 seconds. I was in Rose Castle for those who remember Williamsburg and I finished wedding. I was the last one to leave cuz this must have been 12 13 years ago a long time ago before I was married and the manager no came ready by the lights like hacking the lights and again in the middle of the hall and I was slapping my wagon in the middle of the hall with three makita like in a triangle and I wanted to see if there's anything like behind it or whatever left. I just kicked one makita pushed it away. >> Three chairs of kids sleeping on it. There's nobody in the building besides the manager and myself. Nobody. >> Okay. >> Anyways, I bend down to the kid and like very gently slowly whenever I'm making up and I and he's like, "No, no, Kimsh like there's a kid here." He's like nine days like there's a kid here. Hello. I wake up the kid. The kid's like very disoriented. I didn't want to like scare him. So, first I asked him his name and thankfully his name his last name was matching to one of the two because he could have been like this and it's fine. So, he had no idea. He was like a six-year-old kid. So I call one of them that I have like um do they thought that I'm joking? I'm like I'm not joking. No, whatever. So I call him up like hello of the FDR. The mom is the babysitter and the mama and the father thought that the mother took the kid and the father just went home and he was on FD and the kids are still sleeping in one's work. >> Wow. >> So we waited there a few minutes. Yeah. And I told the kid to go back to sleep. Tat's here and packing up the car. I need him to sit and wait. Imagine I didn't care. And the kid wakes up in the morning 6 7:00 in the morning starts banging on. It was a Thursday night. No wedding the next day. >> Whatever. >> Yeah. Anyways, so and kids could stay home unless they know how to behave. Like when we take kids to weddings, they're with me the whole time. And after the >> continue. No. >> Okay. So uh then after I I went back to the Kabulum room. >> So that was very nice. So ash empty the pockets. You're not allowed to have the no shoelaces. Um why do you leave one hand out of the code? Do you know that also not to be connected or something? Okay. No, I didn't I didn't say that. I also didn't say vidi simply because I forgot. >> Yeah. >> Oh, okay. >> Did you? >> Yeah. [laughter] >> So, you said for me. >> Okay. >> I forgot. And nobody told me by the way. Nobody was there to be like you say >> I wanted to say it by by I saw like looking for [laughter] it. I'm like, "Oh, you have to wait." >> Ah, it's okay. No, >> you have to redo it. [laughter] >> No, I have to redo it. No, >> I can say it now. No. Um I think I got a from very happy he came. It's very holy is a pure very pure. By the way, you know the whole night he was giving you took [laughter] the story. P I think you enjoyed my wedding because No, you finally had stories like I love when there's an appreciation for the story, but also when it's a fun wedding, when it's different, it's not just >> I've seen you try to quetch out stories from a random wedding. It doesn't work. It's like, okay, here there's a cake and here's this Kh. It's like there's nothing to show >> over here. You had 10 stories showing just the venue, >> right? Okay. Because you saw that I was connected to it and I loved you know about you. So, Okay. >> Yeah. [laughter] >> Okay. Before I went out to the I got very emotional. I I think it was like that moment where you like put on the kettle and they take out the stuff from your pockets and it was like wow am I dying now or what's what's happening here? Like it was very >> sentimental. It was it was a big one. >> Um it got very emotional. I hugged my my uh father. That was a moment. Um, and then I walked out. Also, I'm not sure why so many people came back with me to the to the group. [laughter] No. Do you understand that there's certain things like get the hell out of here? Like, this was supposed to be a moment where, you know, there's just one uncle there and there in the in the mansion. >> Everybody came. I think they abused the fact that it didn't have like a groom. Like, you know what I'm saying? Most of the times they take you back to the room to see every detail. Yeah. And like I was annoyed because like and I don't want like the whole time whatever but we have this all the time. People with red phone cases are like very [laughter] I would if I could like make a rule. Phone stay outside in a ziploc bag. You need a phone call phone booth, right? Why everybody with phones the whole time? >> What are you going to do with a video of a kala walking down? Like when are you saving it for whatever? >> Yeah. For who you sending it to? [laughter] No, but also I saw once a photographer was so annoy. I took a beautiful picture of the color walking down the aisle, right? The color walk down the aisle. And it's a gorgeous shot. Nice lighting. Like everything is perfect, clean, very nice. And all you see is the backs of people's heads and with their phones sticking out. So he decided he's going to take and like every person that holds is going to put something in their hand like a lollipop or a chicken or a doctor like just for the cute and he posted like why do we have to photoshop your phones out just put it away be in the moment enjoy it >> literally who are you sending it to but now this is people enjoy they want to watch want to see like oh my god it's where go where's everybody going now this guy [laughter] >> yeah there's one photo cell phone photo that I actually have in my house printed out somebody took of the back of the color walking in. >> Very, very nice. I don't know if you do that. You had two photographers by the ship already. So, you don't even have a picture of the back of her. >> So beautiful because you see the whole veil. You see the shadow color and it's dark. I know you're going to the front. >> Yeah. >> So, you see it's good we have that picture, you know. I'm going to show you the picture. It's very very nice. >> Put the album cover shot on iPhone. >> Yeah. But, but you know, the iPhone picture getting better and better. So, it's >> a hot luck as it wasn't so freezing that night. It was cold but it wasn't so freezing. So in the tent was nice and comfortable like it was very and it was full. Do you remember? >> Yeah. >> It filled up. I did not expect >> the big right. It was full >> and it was also what I dislike about that just by the way. >> You can't really tell people but I could now when you go to a kupa and there is let's say 100 chairs set up. Why only 12 people sit and 96 are standing in the back? What? What is what is this? Why? Why? Why? Because don't sit down because the don't sit down by the modern weddings, you know, right? There's not a chair available. They take every I want to do a crowd. I see nice ladies, ladies. Lad cheers with 40 people in the back. >> Because the don't sit down for them. They consider it mix sit down. Yeah. >> Uhhuh. Not only that by the way there is people very very it's not common very very need we spoke about it >> somebody told me maybe told me that most in any case it looks nish >> I'm going toilet >> yeah what you can leave leave it rolling or >> leave the mic [laughter] >> the mic bonus. >> Oh, I have two magnets. >> Oh. my charge. I That's going well. [laughter] >> Loud. Exactly. [sighs and gasps] Huh? >> Biz. >> Wow. Powerful. >> Got guns fine so far. By the way, >> by the way, Yeah, actually page lights and I'll set you up. Well, this is Nish, by the way. The mic. >> Yeah, I think so. You think I should get mics? >> I'm asking my mic. It's going to look a 100 times better. question is if I can put it straight. >> Can I put the What do I do about audio >> again? Oh, nice. So, the best are the poster. >> This is super convenient. You know, I might I might actually not cut this part. I just upload it to YouTube, >> right? >> I don't have uh what do I There's zero editing. If not, he has to match up audio to video. If we can do that, the flooring travel What's wrong with using this one? >> It doesn't stop the >> It doesn't No. >> Okay, fine. Anyways, >> so that was very the walk down. So the walks down right away and waits for the kala, right? Waits like 10 15 minutes. You shout out the Lipa because this man is only one of a kind. I uh >> like wow he did such a good job. It was so warm, so perfect. He gave him a few songs at the kala side. Wanted him to sing. He learned it. He sang it. Um then after about 10 minutes, the kala comes in. That was for me very emotional. This video is going around. I think I wasn't that much. I wasn't I was crying, but I was also I was also excited. Like I was excited to finally see this moment. Yeah, I had no idea how it's going to play out. I didn't know if I'm just going to stand there and be dry or if I'm just going to be crying. I didn't know it's going to be such an emotional big moment. I I don't think I focused or thought about anybody in the room, just me and my kala, you know, like that was >> that's your moment. They look at me like, you know, and I tell like when you go to the that's your time. Think about this is literally your moment. if you believe in anything like any connection this is your big moment so it's like but it's one thing that I regret by my personal beautiful pictures >> whatever I'm saying is that it's very it's a very spiritual it's a very connect meaningful moment it's emotions she can't play with it Right? You can't it can't tell me how to feel. So like you've been waiting all your life for to get getting married. Right? You've been waiting months >> to get married to her. You've been waiting days to to the wedding. So everything leads up to this moment now. She's walking >> to you. She's coming to you connection. Like this is this is it. Like of course it's the most when people watch the videos they connect to it. like all the videos were my most views viewed and liked and shared videos throughout the night because that I'm telling you emotions mentioned either emotions that kind of emotions or laughing like jokes people love jokes but also crying people love that kind of emotions so when you show it and it's your own time and you're also so freely with it like we're open we're not hiding we're not you know Yeah. Yeah. Thank you. Yeah. Um then we did the >> Oh, he sang a mul song and he sang him a whole song and made that was very very nice of Lipa on the spot and I told him tapa I told him especially to do also in English not just Yiddish so that the kala and the color side can understand. Um they did this seven times around. Then Miamakala made a decision to do like they do in many uh you know many weddings modern weddings. It's very common that especially when you do the in you face >> for us it wasn't the shul but we still faced mis which is which is so that means that we basically turn >> from the crowd >> from the crowd. Yeah. the kala side requested it. >> So the no it was the kala and me myself. >> Oh so you guys want >> we both made this decision. Let's turn around. Why am I standing facing everybody? I want to face the direction that everybody is sitting in. I'll face the same direction. >> It's interesting because right >> so for the crowd it was I think a little bit confusing especially for those who never see it a lot. I see it a lot that they turn around sometimes even sideways and people like why is that? Well there's a reason so just let it happen. Let it go. But I happen to be I've liked it because think about it from my perspective, right? If I need to stand at the front, I have just the aisle. >> Correct. In the back. Yeah. >> The back was came. >> Nice. Yeah. Um, what do I want to say? >> The ringle. >> Yeah, that was a big moment. >> Thank you. That's that was good of you not to drop it. I was actually not there. I remember it was one of my friends wedding that the manager whatever. Yeah. the ring blip. Hey, >> and where did fallen? They couldn't find it. >> They looked for it for 2 minutes on the couldn't find it. Some lady popped up and was like, "Here, take mine." >> Wow. >> Yeah. They can whatever. >> Oh, wow. It's a sign. Yeah. >> Technically, you can be the guys in the pizza store like they're asking to >> the baby. Baby, whatever. >> I told her that morning that I forgot. So, I'm going to give her a licorice. I want somebody to actually pull up this prank because if it's worth a >> I pulled it off. I told her that morning she asked me I have every No, we didn't talk. >> Candy ring. >> I don't know when maybe after the first look she asked me I have the ring. >> Did you? I think I said no I have a licorice instead. >> A licorice. Yeah, a candy ring. >> But okay. >> Oh, so they stuck in the back. Yeah, I heard you try to pass me by the by the entrance of the I'm like whatever meaning but it happens to be I like that view because when when you were walking out I don't want to only see your faces like looking at I want to see the faces people's faces so you got a shot of that. >> Yeah. Yes, that was actually worked out pretty good. But crunch time >> not a lot of time after that because 9:30 you guys wanted >> Yeah. had about 20 25 minutes in the room >> to calm down and to eat and make up and here and all that. >> Yeah. >> But we were good because >> So people don't people think the room is like an event. It's really not. You go there you you exchange gifts and you you eat for a few minutes and by the time by the time nothing you're knocking on the door that they want to update the the hair that changing into pony for dancing the Yeah. >> Yeah. But hear me out for just 10 seconds. If we could only, like I said before, do the at 4:00, right? >> Yeah. >> Why not? But was this time that got to sit in the room with five minutes if even? >> Yeah. mentions meaning you sit with us and the best even though it's pressure on the photograph everybody it's real pressure because like you got to rush but on the other side >> it's a world of a difference >> yeah it's funny because I was at a wedding this week with my wife by my cousin's wedding and we both agreed we had a better time by Morty >> and we both agreed that we had a better time by Mort's wedding than our own what? Yeah. A better time than by Mort's wedding than our own. Like I don't know a lot of pressure to certain extent was the main actor to do. I mean you have to perform. You're a performer. >> Yeah. >> Straight up. >> Yeah. So from the room they right away wanted to come in to do makeup here and you have to still do some pictures, >> right? Someone right >> because Yeah. Because after that you're already married. You want to get pictures as a married couple. um opposed to when you're not married. >> It's a different It's a different >> It's a different kind of pictures. Yeah. Um and then we went in the intro. We had unlimited amounts. Obviously, you know, >> you want to take more pictures outside the light waves, light painting, but obviously But it was fine. We got some good stuff. >> It was cool. >> But like I remember when when I see that like timing is and we were getting crunch more and more in crunch. I said on the stories also like things could also like always push off a little bit. But the coming in is always till the 9:30. So we're the ones that getting sick. We're getting >> But what I already learned is when when I see and it's like becomes chaotic and crazy. The only thing that I do is is I talk a lot less. I smile a little less and I move so much more faster. I don't know if you noticed that I move much like way faster. I'm not I just like I move faster like in order to get but I looked at the pictures of you. So we got some very nice pictures then at that time also but people don't take a picture every picture takes time to set up the post to set up the coming. So when you have only like the time between lucky for you you had the first look as they can't 9:30 on time 9:35 you guys but >> 9:45 I think 9:50 >> because of the the there was also a second take on the on the walk in >> that that that's not what held up time. >> No what >> that's not what held up the time. >> Whatever time >> what held up the time was that we just need a time. I'm just saying like to make the hair and fix the gown. I don't know. Whatever. >> There's always something that comes up, right? >> Yeah. But again, we weren't in a rush at any point of the wedding. There was nothing. There was nowhere to get to. Like once it was kala dance, okay, dancing a little bit more, a little bit less. >> They were in a pressure because they had finished serving the soup and there's too much wait time. They can't have people sitting around waiting for too long. >> Ah, so they wanted us to come in already. >> When we photographers get the pressure is most of the times from the managers, from the halls, from the caterers because they have a program. Correct. Correct. >> They can't wait an hour between the soup and the main course. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Anyways, that's so interesting though. But everybody at a at a wedding particularly has their own train, their own schedule, own that they have to follow and they don't really like they try to work with everybody else but this is what they see. >> Yeah, the gown was also beautiful. We got that from uh Raquel. >> Very nice. >> That was a gorgeous gown there. Yeah. Was very nice. >> Um what else? So the intro I chose the intro that had Yeah. So that's a lot of that was also circulating. I had a recording of band many years ago and it was very energetic because in the intro he he basically like he's yelling and he's doing it starts and he goes woohoo. Yeah. And then >> he just and he goes uhhuh uhhuh tonight. Tonight you know and he keeps on yelling. They actually I don't know at which point of the chain it got cut off the intro. The intro goes for almost three minutes. >> They cut it off after like a minute and a half. I the only you can hear that's the >> no so it's actually mul actually says ladies and gentlemen please welcome Kala for the very first time as husband and wife and he who somebody thought I don't know who that is saying ladies and gentlemen please yeah so welcome and that's where they shut it so that leap can say welcome Ellie and so it it's a little bit mistake I don't know if it was leap liveish or the sound guy >> but shout out by the way to Lipa shout liveish by the way. No, but in any case it's going to make up also like the color wasn't ready. >> Oh, so they started the intro and we didn't come in basically. >> Oh show it was no >> I'm like with my camera nobody's there and then the the >> we were chilling. We were chilling. >> There was no stress. is just >> No, I'm saying for us, Mallo was upset that that that why are you playing an intro without him? But me, I was just like >> that's the >> okay like I'm the man of the hour. >> You chose to start an intro guys and >> I also don't know but I'm saying you chose to start an intro. I'm not ready yet. >> And then it's really or somebody tells me like go tell them to stop and like I'm the [laughter] I don't know if you're aware but I do the video and it's so tell. So I run it back inside and like when I walked into the room you have to understand all I have is 60 to 80 faces eyeing looking at me looking at the door right I'm like >> this and they're like who are you telling it to like the music I'm like stop cod stop like then they just waited for it to finish some part and then they stop and start again but they need to better coordinate it with the managers like when you're standing by the door that's when you start the intro% whatever Yeah, >> truly get this for next time if it was him. >> I do want to know before you go into town famous ideas given to switching the ladies on the man's side because for example my wedding was the complete opposite. >> Very simple. You mean why I chose Indker Heights to have men on the >> Yeah. No, no, but specific >> men on the left and ladies on the right. >> Simple. It's number one. So they can have the full dance floor. >> The ladies. Why do ladies need to dance floor? >> Because they have heels. Ah, >> it's a lot harder for them. >> Think about it. >> Yeah, >> that's thoughtful. >> Number two is because on the left side there is the extra room. >> Not only there's the extra room, but there's also doors to go out of the van. >> Oh, dark. >> Correct. So, there's the extra room. You have doors where people can come in and people did they came in and out >> mentioning that room is the light but it's very like giving the opposite. to the mening down the because the bigger dancer but I hear you correct cuz ladies can dance the high heels on the carpet. >> Yeah. And I was just by the way they could dance on carpet. I was just I said let her have the dance or we don't care. >> I don't care. The men which is not such a big boo boo whoever decided that before they come in all the lights in the building down except the up lights. So the like >> I'm glad they did that. That's pretty cool though. [laughter] I do remember that I asked you if you're okay with it. He's like, "Yeah, I like it." I'm like, >> "Yeah, yeah, I remember." >> But I did go as we should we did it a little bit because it's a little bit of some some something. Um but I remember my my videographer came up as middle of the wedding if you can hire the lights. >> I said raise the lights. I said no because I like the dim lighting. It's very cozy. So >> it's slightly too dim for my video was also come to me after the first dance and he was sweating balls and like what what happened to like 256,000 ISO like what is what is happening over here like his computer was kind >> well but so many weddings are like that I was by my cousin's wedding was pitch dark you couldn't see 10 the epis lights are shant like I don't know also like we weren't aware as a guy all the way down like I had the light but the man you know like they get the spotlight of the crowd like from the side like they get nice lighting. Uh cuz you don't want flood light on the people. You want to have like some different but whatever. But it was beautiful. Yeah. It was very nice the dancing. I love when it's like the dim lighting. But the black was was getting for me it was a little challenge. But any case >> so I went all the way in. Most pe most >> you went till the end. >> Yeah. Most people don't know this. like you're you're supposed to the correct thing to do is to go with your kala all the way in and then comes in from the opposite side but mostas the the friends are waiting in the front to greet or pick up the husen on a chair >> and you're not supposed to do that you're supposed to wait the opposite side but anyway um I went in they uh saw a chair and I was like I was I never wanted to be picked up on a chair but then I was like it's just my insecurity that I'm fast >> everybody just pick me out and the moment they went up and I obviously I I went up downhill. No, you can see in the video I go woo. That wasn't that wasn't excitement. [laughter] >> Pure panic. Pure panic. In my mind, I already saw the scenario of me falling down and there's no dancing that night. >> Like this catastrophic uh ending. >> Then I was like then I was like obviously I'm the got to be good support. But there wasn't. There was Mohi Clar by the way from Westwood. If you know runs this building and he is probably six and a half ft tall >> he's on one side not that tall is on the other side. >> Oh >> came as on the same side they were on the same side. So just imagine the difference of balance >> came in the middle from the back and just held it up like this. >> No, there's never really >> there was never but you know there was because with my friends I remember I used to tell them I said I I took three other guys. I'm always happy. Yeah. I don't have an issue with lifting a chair. Even if it's a heavy, I'm good for 75 to 100 pounds. I got it. >> And I would take three good friends that I know are strong. You don't take the you know little guys. >> Yeah. You take four big guys like this. You're not struggling. You just pick them up. Or a lot of do the shoulders, which I think is a lot easier and a lot better. I just didn't want to go on anybody's shoulders. >> It could damage. It could damage certain instruments. [laughter] >> Yeah. >> But also happens to be it is painful to be on shoulders. I came in I think it was on shoulders and it's painful but >> because you don't have that balance at least the chair is easy. >> Correct. Right. But what ticks me off usually is that t they don't do the running in but also like I like okay I like together but I like for the I mean what I think is nice is when they walk in and like together holding hands and the last thing like before they let go is they turn and look at each other smile like go have fun go enjoy them like you guys just got married like and I did that with my wife like go have fun love you by like enjoy guy you do you and I see They run in and like they don't even hold hands for a sec. As soon as he's in the seconds in the hand like and go through this thing also. >> Okay. So what did I do? I think I told her enjoy have fun. I don't think I was ready. >> No, it's not just that but then letting go of her right away like >> be present >> go a little bit. Yeah. Also like >> comes back to being present. >> True. It's it's all about also the ones they run in and they just start dancing with everybody and they have no idea who to dance with and they >> you know very >> yeah I know from before it's basically dance with your father first then the father of the kala then my grandfather then her grandfather and then uncles or whoever >> and then brothers and >> so right siblings or siblings before I did whatever something I mean I didn't want to follow a program I really wanted to just do >> so I kept it very casual I actually danced with her brothers right away. When I danced with her father, I danced with her brothers also. >> I danced with my friends during first dance. I was like I made a circle with them. I was like, "What do you mean?" My friends came out. >> So yeah. So then we did have a split meal. I think the whole dancing was uh first dance was what? Half an hour. >> Okay. Uh which was perfect because by the time they stopped the music I was like over and we sat down, >> right? Perfect. No, it was gorgeous. Was Like why are you gonna have a second dance? Right. Correct. But like syrupy like nice and juicy cars and sharp shine 25 30 minutes. Yeah. But like during the only thing that I look at is I check the battery percentage. The only thing I care about and when I have to first dance a guy for 55 minutes like bro what are you doing? Like I try to shoot the whole thing and be a shot. >> Right. Right. Right. Right. Yeah. Okay. Um it's interesting how you see everything from that. >> Correct. Everybody has like I also like you don't know what panic means when you see that the battery is about to die and you have to go charge a battery. Change a battery right now. Like from the gimbal I can change a battery in seven seconds. We timed it. Yeah. And it's yet stop the it takes like it's it's the sweet short to the point. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. That's uh that's something we have to discuss. Was that was unexpected. >> We'll get to that in a second. But great job. >> Yeah. I I have no idea what he sang. >> There's no videos of first dance. I haven't seen I haven't gotten the recording. So what you you your video has audio also. You you work with the musicians audio. How do you have audio on your video? >> I record you. Sure. First I start with the color pictures but once right before starts I take a recorder with the wire go to the Sure Sure. Every night I go to the musician like that's the output for me. Usually like a quarter inch XL whatever they plug it in. I hit record and it stays record till mitz. >> Ah. So you have the audio of my wedding. >> Sure. I can give it to you full audio. >> Thank you. >> You want it? >> I'm waiting for live still to send it. >> All right. So, I don't want to step on people's toes like sh to uneditable because mine is unedited. Obviously, it's one long shot. But the reason I like is the edit also cuz he puts it in into his video and he has a timeline. >> Yeah. >> So, from the kabulum, he sees and knows exactly what happened when and he just adds the program once you throw in. >> But you don't have every second video. >> No. >> So, you must be missing something. >> Yes. But listen, he puts in the audio track of the whole Sure. When they're smoozing or talking like nothing happening in between, he puts in the audio, the whole audio, he throws in the clips. >> It sorts it by where the where it matches it to the audio and then he cuts out the parts where it doesn't it's not needed. >> Mhm. >> And then he continues to meaning >> Oh, the you don't have to be up to the second because you're not seeing the singer's mouth anyway. >> Correct. >> So, as long as it's pretty much there. >> Yeah. And then he puts in like sometimes the singer sings, he puts in the meal or whatever. But >> you have video, let's say, of the singer singing. >> Sure. We have a camera, but >> yeah, >> you would think it would be on silent. >> Um, no, of course. So, I usually put down um um by the meal I put down that's that tripod over there, that stick with a camera. >> Nice. >> No, not anyone. >> Oh, so first down. So, first is very nice. Then we we ended up doing a split meal also which is common by the not so much common by theish wedings that and kala sit together and eat the third course the second course third third course between the people so that they can say maz they can sit enjoy otherwise >> otherwise you're just doing it between dances >> correct is a line Yeah. >> Right. So, this is definitely something, but it's it's very hard for weddings to accomplish for a simple reason, >> right? >> Because dessert, everything gets except dessert. Everything gets served. Tables get thrown out of there. And then for the over here, you had the table still there. Yeah, >> first dance was >> right. But that's that's the norm for when it's the first dance. >> Correct. And then my second dance I took out all the tables. >> Um I was for me it was a big surprise that you know my friends really green. Okay. >> It was a big surprise. I invited them obviously and all. I I but I was I was showing as a wedding that night. The guy is busy every night. >> Okay. But >> so it was I don't know how he made it but he was there and it was very nice. He sang by the meal. Mosha Feldman also sang with the meal. That was very nice. And then Sulli sang and took and sang together Ephra Ma and then Sulli sang together with Leipa and then Moshi Schwarz walks in showed up. I I did invite him. >> Okay. But you know >> Yeah. I didn't know if he's going to come or not. He showed up. So we had Moi Schwarz, Lipa taking over the second stage. >> It was very energetic. >> But also got the vibe. And also I noticed that you were like constantly looking at who to dance with and you would dance with them for a little while like of the mountains thousands of thousands of times. >> So I did a in my opinion I did a kesh of Thank you. I did a kesh of dancing which was that instead of sitting down in the center or sitting down on the side and taking my time to breathe I I chose certain people to dance with while I was resting. So instead of energetic har, >> I would pick a close friend of mine and walk around with him in the circle and just chill, >> right? >> It was nice. And I was able to recover, get my breath back >> by just walking around slower instead of energetic dancing. And that's that's that's >> correct. Yeah. So that was uh this and Libish was amazing. S with the communication s with the actual production. It was >> fun. He's a fun guy. >> Very good. Yeah. I added the horns and the guitar and it added so much. Like I rewatched the videos of the kip and you hear the horns and it's so beautiful. >> Yeah. >> Like and he kept it very tight like really really good. Even though it was three horns like it wasn't that a huge production but it still sounds like an orchestra. It's still it sounded very very good. So that was second dance. And then my friend surprised me. I saw Schmela show up. Schmela Posen, which is Lieish's brother. Yeah. DJ. >> And they plug in a Mul track which was a huge surprise. So >> that was a cool song. >> Yeah. My friend Abramus was the one who uh >> did it. Leap's nephew actually's first cousin >> and his father actually passed away a few hours ago. So sending love and all the beautiful wishes to him circus greens managers his brother >> right >> I know the breeders Shima circus circus distribute shims express um there's a bunch of brothers there Gabby circus is kind of what circuses >> can the with meni show meni so gabby circus is anyway I'm sending Penny circus penny circus jupekal sending all the love circus sending all my love to the whole family and all the leaper for everybody over there it's a it's a tight beautiful family sending love to everybody um but he made the DJ track I'm really grateful to him so it caused guilt sat energy >> u which is very nice I always wanted for my wedding a wedding song. Thanks. Like 10 years ago they sing the Zach >> and so to get this a special song for the wedding was very very nice. Um and it was beautiful. A combination of different songs and then they had the DJ. Yeah. >> So I heard they're putting it out for Peter Mitchum. I hope they do like it would be I think a very nice >> um >> Yeah, that was that time sang by the way. >> Yeah, he looks great. He sounded great. I asked him to sing the song Emily Milly because I saw him like about 10 15 years ago. Saw him once like by a random Shabas Vadis and he was singing this song and I like have that vision as a kid >> looking up the Y and hearing that song. I told him come to my wedding I want you to sing this song. >> Wow. >> Yeah. So he sang that impression. You don't even know how far it goes. >> Yeah. And then we did a very quick mitzvah. I'm happy that it uh >> the whole job. Yeah, the whole mitzvan is 45 minutes and I'm really grateful to that he even took the mitzvotans cuz >> he doesn't really Yeah. >> And he did it so well like you know we had a very short mitz dance cuz I didn't do many mitzvances for the other whatever I didn't do for either. >> [laughter] >> Yeah, exactly. You remember the name? That's a lotus. In any case, I really just like those people. Yeah. And like I I I lose respect to them like please. >> Yeah. No, no, this was a very tight wedding. Up until now, I keep on hearing from people that like whoever was there was was there. It's very funny because like people ask me like people tell me, "Oh, you didn't invite me or whatever." I didn't invite anybody. >> I did not make an invitation for the wedding. Why? Because I made invite. I can't invite my I can't put an invitation on status >> because I have 20,000 Yeah. >> Yeah. I have tens of thousands of people watching stuff. I can't invite everybody and say, "Oh, if you feel like you you want to show." Yeah. >> And so in the same And then so then whoever needed to be there, whoever was a close enough friend or a family member just knew to be there. They knew from my parents, from other people that's Yeah. Whoever is there when it leaves you on it, you stay and then we come back and nobody else comes. It's not a bad idea. >> But that's why people make destination weddings, right? It's like if you have the ticket and you have the this. >> Yeah. Shiner. >> Oh, okay. Because I think because my first my cousin was there. >> She was supposed to be by my wedding and that's the wedding she went to. >> Is this much of was the exact same and that week >> but happens. So I I I know a little bit of the the Shina fan. My wife is shabas whatever I did the previous um child's wedding and whatever doing the >> sure >> whatever but very nice people the sh but was since I've done already one wedding for them I know was the wedding first of all no they didn't ask me I don't want people ask like Yeah. What was it? In any case, so you don't want to. So I told the person that even if they did ask me, I I don't know if I would have taken it. First of all, even if you could in Morocco, but also like the amount of people, the amount of gross video, these humongous weddings is not fun for the photographers and videographers. It's fun for the people that come and they watch and they see around look delicious food. For the vendors, it's hard. I much much more preferred because it's kind intimate. I I'm not kidding 100%. Like by far I know the system. I know I know weddings my dream like the back of my head like when you said um like when I come and I do and I run wedding so I've been doing weddings for like 10 11 12 years not as my own studio but for like past four or five years I have my own so like they know what they have to do they know what I expect from them just by the look you know right so you do what you got to do I'm covered like huge there's no fun in that for us Yeah. Right. >> A wedding like yours was honestly for my most fun weddings in the past year. >> So I want to talk about mitzvants a second because I don't Thank you. Um I I don't get why mitzvants has to take two three hours. >> Doesn't have to take it all. >> I mamish don't understand like my mitzants. I did my zida together with the uncles. I did like I did the father together with the brothers. What's wrong with just calling people up or saying general general >> giving general compliments? Does it have to be every single family member with a separate family? I don't get it. He's just keeping up people for hours and hours. I don't even I don't believe in and I think it needs to be removed. It's my least fun part of the wedding at all. Why? Yeah. What are you taking pictures of? >> I try to make it more interesting versus you know. So I use usually two cameras. One I zoom in. So >> I have video of my whole mitzvah dance. >> Okay. >> Of course. Well, your mitans was a short one. So I wasn't playing around with different cameras but unusual. I have mitzv it's so boring. I try to make it interesting but it's so boring. Also nobody cares about it. Not one person. I can't say not one person. Correct. [laughter] It doesn't make sense. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. destroys dimensions next always respect my you have to respect your wife more than so I always respect my wife's in-laws a lot more than I respect my own in-laws like but they corny jokes of nowadays I took Took me a second to help. You heard what he said. It's a good one. Huh? >> I'll get there. I don't understand. That's nice. Yeah. >> You want to talk about the fathers? That's nice. The grandfathers. Yeah, >> I don't I don't get it. >> Right. So mentioned in this they want to do it. A lot of people do it midweing >> but the reason I didn't do it midwing is because I figured why do I need everybody there? Cuz the mitzan's only family will stay. >> I think that's still recording. >> I I was thinking the same thing a few times but I'm okay getting up. Wow. What an hour and a half. >> Okay, I think we're almost going to wrap up. I'm getting tired. [snorts] >> This is This is by the way. The whole week is draining, you know, like shave every night getting up like >> the night of the wedding, for example. Can we skip to the night of the wedding? Like, >> so I finished the wedding, it's 12:45, 12:50 to be exact. Same mile stuff to a few people. Go to the groom room, help my Kala pack up all her stuff. Um, we chose to go to hotel because it's a minig. >> It's it's not a minig. It's people do it. It's a nice thing to do. >> Yeah. Okay. I was I'm >> I said why not hotel? Let's go for even though I have a very nice, you know, apartment. >> But it's not. >> So, no, I got late check out 12:30 actually to the uh to the wave. So, uh, David Mizrai's place, not a sponsor of this episode. Yeah. It was very nice. Oh, no. I had a very nice limo. My friend got me. You didn't take a picture. I know. >> Probably. Yeah. I was thinking that we didn't take pictures. >> But we were Anyways, we changed in the wedding hall. That's another thing that I did. I told her like weeks ago. I was like, "Keep in mind. You can change. can take the gown off. >> Funny for an hour. I I remember till now. We didn't go to a hotel. We went to our own apartment. >> Yeah. But you didn't have a lot of pins, right? Who took it out? Did you tell me to take it out? >> Bobby pins will be here. In any case, the colors in the hole because as I was videoing >> Yeah. >> the uplighting >> in the beginning the mitz is purple and then you see less purple, less purple, less purple le Okay. Why they take away the uplighting? >> Because he was packing up whatever. >> Oh, okay. Um, you have that? >> Yeah. >> No. What is it? >> Oh, yeah. Yeah. >> And then they dance with >> I didn't know that. >> Yeah. >> Wow. >> Is benchmark. >> They call it your word. can't touch the day of the wedding. >> Yeah. >> By the sushi by the wedding from was from Wasabi. So, shout out to >> them. Yeah. Uber Eats. They didn't show up. They steal from sushi and they drive. I'm not going to deliver. >> Anyways, he did the whole thing and it got there 10 minutes later like 15. Big shout out. Very good. >> Yeah, my was from gold. extra segment but I don't have a position like this. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. >> Of course. I wore it to the wedding Tuesday night. I had such a good time. I didn't want to take it off my head. I'm serious now. I I resented resented mind. I had like for for many years for two reasons. Number one, they say it's very expensive and and it is. If you want a nice stram, it's going to cost you a few thousand. >> It's very expensive. It's ridiculously expensive. I'm sorry. >> Correct. Yeah. But then again, it is expensive. See, you've been lucky that I have a friend and I got a good deal. They said, but for me, why I resented it until now was because it is expensive. again expense of M is relative for certain people they it's they want to spend that money for me it was like I don't know why and so I always thought to myself I'll just take the cheapest option until when you know and he was like and he was like he's like I want to work out something I I want to make a for And I was like, "Okay, go ahead. Make your I didn't have any expectations. Didn't tell him nothing. I just, okay, I went to see it for the first time and I was like, wow, >> this is insane." >> I didn't I don't know. But I I just I wanted it. It was It was something else. Like in my life, >> in my life, I haven't seen such a nice. >> So he's amazing. He is more to the cause. I've seen here or there. >> Kicks over there. Okay. Here. >> Just saying. I've seen it here. >> A gorgeous. Don't get me wrong, but >> that's what I'm saying. Such a nice something that I want to wear. >> Yeah, why not? >> I would wear it. N this is so nice. I would wear it in the [laughter] I'm serious. I want to sleep with this. >> Do me one favor, please. Whatever you put him, >> but if you ever want to use whatever >> I don't whatever I'm not that's another thing that anyways >> that's what I'm telling you. So that's that's what I'm saying that he's my friend. So I worked out something with him. But um but he's amazing. His service is great. His quality is great. And um even his prices are are fair. No, he is for somebody that wants our best. But it was just very nice, very convenient. You walk in there, they have a talis you that that day, the next day, whatever. There was custom those days. They have like a few thousand options legit. um or anything that you want to get over there and yeah fans for the media outlets a lot of people that posted the wedding and people were very respectful WhatsApp group like to wasn't mention updates from the wedding and people were very respectful so they didn't post uh a lot of outlets didn't were respectful they didn't post uh pictures videos bal from the kala which is I think very respectful because I don't think it's it's nice or it's nas to send out pictures of my kala Um and they were just nice the comments that people had the maztov wishes. So I really appreciate everybody and >> starting did a phenomenal job. the event, the photography crew. >> Yeah. >> The singers, the musician, the band, >> everybody, >> food, flowers, you mentioned flowers. >> Flowers. She did a very nice job. >> The one thing there was no uplighting by the flowers, which is >> Oh, usually doable. >> Some light it. But otherwise, it was very nice flowers. >> I don't even know her company name Israeli. >> Okay. >> So, she did very I think she did. I think we were happy with her. >> Was [snorts] nice. is very nice. Sounds kind of what? >> Okay. >> Yeah. Um, that's very much it. I had a great time. >> Yeah, I had a great time with you. >> No, really. We enjoyed like we I feel like you don't waste time. Like I I don't like I've worked with photographers. It takes time. Move ahead. Like, >> yeah. Thank you. >> I never felt like, "Okay, get over it." You know what I'm saying? Like it's you you're really chick. both you the the photographer like it was and it felt professional >> mention mention like the picture like okay and like they feel a little bit but like let's move in and but like something's side on a side note OCD OCD like but also photographers need to have OCD but on a certain level when they see extreme so nice it happens to be a second. Um, in any case, it's always very nice and I am happy that I was part of it. Yeah, >> thank you. And I can't wait to share the actual professional video of the phone. I can't wait to sh usually the main three >> how do you keep every quick question how do you keep every wedding exciting like months is exciting because you know it's a unique venue if it's al you know it's going to be sometimes it's nice music or better food but for you when it's a typical >> it is not It's typical, but it's not every night. >> Sometimes in general, [clears throat] it's not every night the wedding, right? >> It's more excited. >> Yeah. But like it's either weddings or every night and it was not one event was the same. Every it is broken up. It is broken up in general. A lot of my customers are repeat clients. So that's a second of all different venue. So like I'm excited but especially when I know you know or if it's an event that I know you're also coming as a friend. You're not just there to work. I can't say that I always have that same excitement. You told me this already by the last podcast. By the whoever wants to know there's another podcast being shimmy recorded a while ago. He can listen to that. But there's Why don't you eat? You don't eat anything. >> A few reasons. First of all, I don't want it to mess up my system. >> And then towards the end of the wedding, I was like, I I I was sick. But that's not really the reason. >> I enjoy eating calm, peace, my own mind, my own time, >> and it's impossible to do that. Even if I'm even if I do have like the five when it when people have the five minute break since I have my own studio and I usually run my own my own crews. I need to know everybody's in their own plots. Everybody needs to have their own like I'm the middle of wedding and it doesn't just run people don't just come. >> I came downstairs in the middle of the meal. I'm supposed to have my other crew and my phone is off when I go to weddings for 12 15 hours. My phone is off and I come middle of the meal and I see my other videographers. So I turn on my phone and I call him up like where are you? Oh it's today it's whatever a long story but he didn't know he wasn't there. So I immediately she gets somebody. So I need to be you know to be in charge and to need to see what's happening. So sitting down and eating I can't I can't take it separate thing. >> You're not hungry. I can't sit down and eat a meal. Okay. >> No I'm not hungry. And also >> I have a wife that cooks and prepares delicious foods. Supper made shout out. And she prepares such good food for me in the oven at home when I come home. And that's what I look forward to. I sit down my own time. >> Dina, are you here? I think that's like a half. >> There was a hint to it. So yeah, >> sign an invite. >> Still recording. >> Yeah. >> Well, fine. >> Wow. >> Thank you for having me. >> This is very nice. Appreciate it. Thank you guys for being here. Thank you for listening. Thank you again for all the wellw wishes and all the respect and all the love and all the support. Um, I really appreciate it all. And um yeah, reminder if you uh comment on the episode every week there's a raffle of $100. I send a quick pay right away to whoever melts. >> Yeah, you if you comment and you win. No, really. We had a every week there's another winner. >> Um if you subscribe then there is to the membership. It's like $10 a month. You get bonus footage from every episode that we've aired in the past uh half a year or so since we started this. >> And fun idea is by the way. >> Yeah. The bonus the bonus. Uh it's very interesting like over here you know we sat here for 20 minutes >> on the wall and watching like yeah thank you and by the way it's more complicated than it is I know but idea >> um fun stuff and guys any anybody that can like or subscribe whatever it really means a lot for the algorithm for the channel means a lot to me >> yeah for the if you're there and again thank you to Everybody, thank you for all the vendors. Thank you to my beautiful family that did so much for this wedding. >> Massive shout out to your parents. >> That's they by the I'm going to go back for a quick second. Your father to talk about your father for a second what he does for a living. Yeah. >> So your father, you know, I work with him a lot. I've done my studio. He did all the electric work. >> But happens to be and at home she did we did a kitchen whatever he was he did the electric work and my wife Lord something with the outlet was off. She contacted him fratic fan of he came to us. >> No way. >> Yes. And like my wife told me it's not an emergency. It's just a plug and outlet. No. >> Like I'm passing. I'm here anyway. >> 2:00 in opens it up. Oh, I see the issue. Put in a new one. >> Wow. Your father phenomenal. Very friendly guy. Also at the wedding like like >> you were super chilled. Your mother also >> looked nice. >> Yeah. >> Everybody was so she was so like very nice. Her parents very lovely people. >> Very nice to meet them. Very nice. >> They have Yeah. >> Your father looked like he had such a blast by >> Yeah, he did. He really did. And he said he's doing by every kid now. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. [applause] >> Okay. >> Yeah. >> Fine. [snorts] I got six. So, thank you again. Yeah. Thank you to my parents. My parents paid for my wedding. >> A lot of money. Costed a lot and you know way. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Thank you. >> This is very It's very It's very impressive thing. So, we really appreciate it. Thank you guys for watching. Hope you had a wonderful day. Like, subscribe, comment, share. >> If you need electrical work, let me know. My dad's has electric company power. He's doing a lot of big jobs. >> Doing Tom Iden now coming up right here. and he does uh private houses and he also does work around Brooklyn. He does jobs in Pennsylvania. >> He does whatever he has a few crews if you need electrical work. >> It's lovely to it's it's it's a pleasure. Sure. >> Appreciate it. Yeah. Thank you. And thank you producer by the way.