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Hello everyone and welcome back to
Inside Art Scroll where the books you
read and the people who write them come
to life. We're joined today by Rabbi
Ysef Kaim Golding, the author of Faith
Amid the Flames, as well as a longtime
Askin, an activist for the from
community in many different capacities.
Perhaps we'll get into that. So, Rabbi
Golding, give our viewers a little
background into your upbringing, your
early years, who influenced you. Whoa.
Well, this interview is supposed to be
about my father-in-law. So in short
uh
basically uh I was a regular turvidas
guy as they say who barak hashem
uh had a rebi by the name of
rebum who basically in influenced me
that whatever I was going to do uh with
my life I should be able to look back
and feel that I accomplished something.
um back uh through
term courses that I took. Um and then we
all of a sudden Jeep came into the
picture and Barasha had discuss of
co-founding Jeep Jewish education
program uh together with Rabbi Matiatz
at that time it was Matic
um and from there I joined the National
Office of Agura of America uh back in
January of 81 and it was a
wildwide pride and um Barak Hashem we
were able to accomplish lots of things
in those years. It was around 26 years
uh including uh becoming the CEO of the
Sume Hashas starting in 1990.
Um it was a lot of fun also and
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um in around 2006 I'm estimating I
believe um I became executive director
of RCCS Roa Cancer Society and Barak
Hashem it's a tremendous accomplishment
um and these days I'm doing this things
on my own see RCCS different projects
and And I had the opportunity to have uh
to be able to write this book, something
that I discussed with my late
father-in-law 20 some odd years ago. And
Barashem
um the reviews have been way way way
beyond my
expectations. And um Barashem really
really really happy that that I did it.
I think it's a big for him. And I think
more so is the fact
that people are finding out about the
Kadoshim, what they went through and how
they survived
um in a way that possibly they didn't
know before.
and
um that you know the the the sales have
been tremendous but the reviews and the
phone calls and the people stopping me
um I'll tell you one of my friends or
Biancle Bender from Dark who we worked
together in the Agodo office for a short
period of time at five Beakman Street
and um he was talking at a wedding and I
snuck up behind him he didn't see me and
I said to him. Rabbi Bender, stop making
so much noise. Some of us are trying to
sleep here. He turns around. He says,
"Golding, I read the book. It should be
required reading for every member of
Cla." It's a free ad. So, you know, and
and I've gotten calls um
Rashiva David Goldberg of tells member
of Gdal Atura called me up. How do you
get my phone number? I have no idea. He
says he just read the book Rashiva and
he's going to speak about it at his
chuvader
before. I mean things like this I never
imagined that that that was going to
happen. Um and I've gotten lots of calls
from Rabbi Aram Foyer uh son-in-law of
Rav GIFA and was my RAV in Muny for many
years. He called me up. he called and he
said, "You should not refer to it as a
book. It's a Musa safer." And um I've
gotten it just doesn't stop. So Barak
Hashem
um the sales are great, the reviews are
great, and I have some future plans that
maybe we'll talk about uh a few minutes
from now. But what's interesting is
that growing up myself in the late 80s,
90s, I remember Holocaust books coming
out all the time. And I think after
that, and correct me if I'm wrong, after
that, I think as time has gone on, I
think fewer and fewer books on the
Holocaust are coming out, maybe because
everything's been said or written. Um,
and then this book came out. Do you
agree with that? that over the last
10-15 years there aren't as many
Holocaust books and this was kind of uh
kind of an anomaly. Um there was a time
where there were there was an influx um
of such books. Um
I I I don't really know. You're talking
to someone who was born in America,
whose father was born in America. My
father was in the American army during
World War uh two. He didn't go overseas,
but he he was in the army. Um, so I'm so
Americanborn. And to me, the whole
concept of the Holocaust and and and the
Nazis Shamom was something that I
learned in my later later teenage years.
And Hashem Kadesh has his sense of
humor. and uh he was Mashadi with the
the daughter of Rabul Frieden
and you know it's it's it was a little
bit of an intermarriage between uh you
know an American and and and and aided
family and and Barak Hashem uh it's it's
it's we we have no complaints. So I
wanted to ask you about that you grew up
in Brooklyn. No, right west side west
side west side. So you traveled to
Brooklyn to go to Tarvadas. Yes. And
what did your what did your parents do?
Oh, what did my parents do? My my father
was in various businesses. The Golding
family although really not connected to
us way back were very big in real estate
before and also Golding Brothers
textiles before the Great Depression.
Mhm. Um so the Golding family has been
in America for since before World War I.
Uhhuh. So um um my father had a a
gladkasha deli on 86 and Broadway for 11
years uh which he hardly stepped into.
He had people running it. Uh he was
involved in in in in commodities and
stocks and things like that. And um he
was nifted very young. And my mother was
an American sadakus who um who was
focused her work
on beam together with the late Mrs. Khan
of Mount Sai Hospital was just nifted
and I was you know as as I said to you
Hashem uh Raf Pam uh convinced me uh as
I said before I don't want to repeat but
you know do something that that I'll
feel accomplished as he did as he did he
called himself a diamond polisher he
says we take we rebum we take raw uncut
diamonds in first grade second grade
third grade fourth grade whatever it is
and we polish them and we're making and
then you look back 40 50 years later and
you see the piris of your work. I mean
bar hashem I mean it's it's fantastic. I
mean I don't uh you know but but again
this interview is not about me. The
interview is about is about my who
uh I I think was an anomaly because he
spoke about his experiences in World War
II. Well, you constantly hear many
people saying that, "Oh, they don't talk
about it or they refuse to talk about
it." Um, but that's what's interesting
to me. You're a son-in-law, but people
who know you and have seen you interact
with your father-in-law, Allah, Allah,
and and and now you put out a book, you
were like a son to him and and
and you you have tremendous admiration
for him. When you got married, when the
shik was read, did you know about Rabisa
Frieden? Did you know him as the editor
of Dasia de Shavar? Did you know that he
was kind of a legend in his in his own
way? You're you're asking very difficult
questions. You know, this was supposed
to be easy. I I knew that he was one of
the leaders of the Aguda. Um, the fact
that I was involved with Jeep back in
the early 70s, I uh produced the first
four Jeep records and uh I actually
spoke at uh and I go to convention
before I was married and the chairman of
the session was Rabiosa Frieden. Um and
um I really did I knew he was one of the
heads of the AODA. certainly didn't know
about his background, you know, his the
suffering that he went through. But the
thing about Rabasa Frieden Allah Shalom
is that he focused on the positives. He
didn't focus on the terrible things and
he didn't push about the atrocities.
He focused on the positive of claustrol
of how they reacted with the kdesh
hashem within the suffering of the
holocaust. And that's why
um many years ago I said to him, you
know, we should write a story about your
life. Excuse me. And he said and I
interviewed him. It was in Miami Beach.
He had a small apartment that he
inherited in Miami Beach. And we sat for
I think it was three nights, two hours
each night. So I I taped him with a
cassette tape recorder. Um what year is
this?
70s, 80s. 80s 80s. 80s. Um and I don't
Most of the people here don't even know
what cassette tape recorders are. It's a
cassette. It's a cassette. It's okay. Um
and I put it on tape and I had it
transcribed.
Um, and it was six hours worth and a lot
of work had to go into it because it
wasn't really step by step by step by
step. It wasn't it wasn't
chronolog it needed it needed a
tremendous total rewrite and so I kept
that all all the time and I discussed it
with him and I would do a sample table
of contents of what I would do if I
wrote wrote his book and it never
happened. It never happened and never
came to fruition. And then um around
around 6 years after his he was he was
nifa and
shabar I think the English year was
2013. It was the year after the 2012 cm
ashas at metife stadium. Um in fact he
suffered a stroke that night on his way
to to the um he was shown on the video.
um uh where he spoke about the third
sash that he
celebrated upon being released from
Bhimva. Um and
um I had some time on my hands and I
collected from I mean without the help
of Mrs. Likenstein of of of Project
Witness uh and I did it and and and
Rabbi Aram Bernbalam and people who
wrote and had uh interviews with him and
stories throughout the years and some of
which is included in the book. Most of
it is included in the book. I didn't
write I didn't make up stories in the
book. This is him speaking. I which is
interesting. The book is written in
first person almost like a memoir which
just wasn't released during his
lifetime. Absolutely. Absolutely. It was
a big discussion whether that should be
done that way. Um, and had you come to
the decision to do it the way you did
because I wasn't there. I didn't make
anything up. It's all him. Yes. I
enhanced the English. I put everything
into the correct order. I I was more of
a of a master editor than an author. But
uh and and and it worked. And people
criticize me at the beginning. He says,
"How can you write an autobio
autobiography? Must be written by the
person who's writing." But it's him.
It's all his words. Mhm. Um and and I
don't regret the decision at all. Not at
all. I've heard from people that they
appreciated that it still had the flavor
of your father-in-law because it's in
his words. It's him. It's not me. I like
like I said to you, this interview is is
is him. It's you know and um
and you know maybe towards the end of
this interview I'll tell you about some
of my thoughts about expanding upon this
and getting this uh I mean for
example the secular
world even our world even our generation
second third fourth generation we're
getting further and further away from
the atrocities of World War II my own
grandchildren children, the younger ones
didn't really know him. Mhm. We need to
get the people to
understand the the greatness of
Clausal there in in in in during the
war.
Um, one of my dreams and we're looking
for funding now and I discussed this
with uh Rab Ladawitz at Arts Girl. One
of my dreams is
to rewrite the book for secular Jews for
for Eden maybe not even Eden but more
modern who do not understand the lingo
of what's aid what is what is trafe what
is you know
etc
and the the book would be
called the murder of three million
through the eyes of
one. People don't understand. What do
you mean six million? How can they
fathom what 6 million
is? Take a a a sports arena. I don't
care. Barkley Center, Madison Square
Garden, Credential Airlines. I don't I
don't care. Credential Airlines. No,
it's Credential Center. Used to be
Continental. Used to Continental
Airlines. Okay. Metife Stadium, right?
Well Well, Metife is is you're talking
about 90,000. Even take 20,000. Take a
stadium that has 20,000. If Khas there
would ever be a disaster at a arena like
that for 20,000 I mean we wouldn't be we
wouldn't stop talking about it for for
hundreds of years. So 6 million wasn't
20,000. Take 20,000 do five stadiums you
still only be 100,000. Do the math till
you get to a million. And if you count
one, two, three, four, it's it's an
impossible way to even think about it.
And that's
why there were three million Polish Jews
who were killed. And the murder of three
million through the eyes of one should
resonate with these people. Um, we're,
you know, we're actively looking for
major funding. This is obviously not,
you know, not something uh that's that's
simple to attain. We're talking about
government. We're talking about because
there are a lot of people, excuse me,
there a lot of people out there who
really want to get this message out. Um
and you know, my my wife very often
would say, "Sure, they suffered." And he
suffered, but he never used to say,
"They beat me." He used to say,
Unslugen. They beat us. Everything was
in us. I mean, there's a story in the
book. He was in the Warsaw ghetto. It
was freezing cold. It was snow all over
the place. He volunteered to shovel the
streets so that his father, Ablaz
Gersian Frieden, didn't have to do
it. He went, he lined up. They smacked
him around. They beat him. They took off
his coat. He shoveled for 10 hours
straight. This is not a person like, you
know, a 220 pound bodybuilder. He was a
a very frail uh thin individual and and
and and then they beat him when he
finished 10 hours later and they said,
"Come back tomorrow." Of course, he
somehow know Hashem gave him the
thought. He gave a fake name. He gave a
fake address. He didn't show up. He
couldn't show up. He was in bed for a
week. He couldn't move for a
week. Would you I been able to do this?
I I I So where did he get that strength
of spirit? And he was a giant of spirit
during the war and after the war. He had
the ability to talk about things, which
is an interesting point that many of the
survivors could not open up. And he
seemed to have that ability to put it
all out there. He was never inhibited
about it. I'm not sure the
answer. I can tell you
that he certainly had an upbringing
growing up in the house of Lasagen
Frieden who was killed in the Warsaw
ghetto at age 42. So everything you
heard about laser gastron freed and his
work inconis and everything all was done
before in in right before before
um I I don't really have the the total
answer but I could tell you in terms of
surviving and their will to survive
um Rabbi Fry Waxman who aside from
being a love of mine he's a personal
close friend since uh we grew up
together his his brothers and and and I
and I mentioned when he called me after
he read the entire book and he said to
me he complimented the book I says you
know
rebra I don't think you and I could have
lasted a day and he said a day an hour
we wouldn't have lasted an hour that's
how we've responded so it's that's a
hard answer I I don't know the cancer,
but he definitely dedicated himself from
the minute he was able to get out of bed
in in in the hospital in Bkinvald where
he was liberated by the American army
and Lieutenant Bernbam uh said vidi with
him. Of course, he didn't he says, "I
don't know why you're saying vid." He
says, "Well, when was the last time you
said shama? Say I said shad this
morning." I mean, he wasn't going
anywhere, but he he I I can't answer how
he was able to physically survive. I
guess there was just a a certain mental
spirit that he had. I could tell you
that there's a vert that uh they say
they quote from the bellba that every
survivor had two mal watching over him.
So we in our family we say my sh must
have had four, you know, not two, four.
And uh so how he did it and then the
minute he was able he worked in a good
cis of Munich. He started the aguda uh
in in Europe. He was in in places called
Felderfink and Lancing in in Munich. And
when he came to America in 1951,
um he was hired by the Aguda at the
behest of the head of the Mets Gador at
that time, Ruven Grosovski.
and Ruven Gazowski felt that we were
losing the survivors to the secular
Yiddish press and we needed to put a a a
a balance a counterbalance to the
secular Yiddish press and that's
basically how the Sideshart in America
began. There was a dedart in Europe.
This was here in America and um Mike
Tress hired my share at the behest of
Rivervu and Grosovski. And how many
years did he car did he carry that role?
430 issues of the sedish of art. Um he
was he a writer before he was hired for
that? Did he was writer? He was a
Yiddish writer. Uh yeah, he did it in
Europe. He did it in Europe. um how many
years he came here in 51 and he was nifa
in 2013 and he never stopped. I mean
even after he had a stroke and even
after he lost most of the sight in one
in in in in one of his eyes and etc. He
would still we would read him
manuscripts and he would correct
manuscripts by listening uh at one point
we had a big screen for him where was
able to to uh with a a magnify uh this
and then it reached a point where he
couldn't do that either but um he never
stopped he never stopped and uh and
what's interesting is also English was
not his mother tongue not at all he he
came over to America not knowing a word
of English right pretty much pretty much
pretty much but he is good at languages.
Well, obviously he was, which was what
I'm getting at is that in later years,
by the time I I I got to know him, you
know, from hearing his speeches at the
convention, he felt very comfortable
speaking English. He was very articulate
and and you know, he didn't seem
uncomfortable about that. He was a smart
man.
Um, one of the ways he survived in in in
Poland, uh, was the fact that he was
fluent in German and in Yiddish and in
Polish. And he acted as a translator uh,
in a slave labor camp called Starkovitz
uh, for the head of the camp whose name
was Bruno Papa. Uh I can say this
without any inhibitions that Bruno papa
was a shalam one of the
um it's highlighted in the book it's in
the book it's a stories and
is that the story that's one of the
stories it's one of the stories story
and and pes matis and pes and even when
they had typhus how he brought oranges
to my mother-in-law and fed her oranges
uh to to to have her fight these
diseases. He was he was an amazing
amazing I mean matzas for pesak how in
the world did they get flour it's all it
was you know all all a a chain of nissim
um for people and they did it and they
did it they they baked matzas in 2000
degree ovens that they were using to to
to to manufacture arms or you know for
the war effort for the Nazi war effort
you know you put in the the the the the
the the the little piece of of flour for
3 seconds and pull it out before it's
burned to a crisp. And they did. They
had and and uh and one of we never found
out what happened to Bruno Papa at the
end of the war. We have no idea. Uh some
of the family think he was sent to the
front like most of the you know um but
he was a member of the SA not the SS
which is also
paramilitary and he didn't wear a gun he
didn't beat anybody he was um you know
and there's story after story and the
they were there for approximately two
years in the slave labor in Stavitz and
from there they went from Starkovitz
they went to Avitz and um how many camps
would your father Alto together what's
the total
at least five he was in he was in it
depends how you call camps because
sakovitz was slave labor but then he
went to he went toruff that's the famous
shindler's list he says that was the
worst of all no food they beat you they
made you run all day long dogs biting at
your at your legs he was He he went he
he w the main thing first he went to
Ashvitz and then he was there for a
while and the book is full of stories of
how he survived Ashvitz with Sadik
Sadikim who helped him uh Sadikis who
helped my mother-in-law Rebbitson Orlon
Saratskin Orlon um uh the all these
stories are are in the book u and if you
didn't buy it yet it's about time get
out of finish this interview and go buy
it Okay. Um, my favorite story in the
book, which I actually I wrote after the
book came out, is about the sweater, the
an amazing story. If you could tell, for
those who didn't read the story,
it's indescribable. It's funny how you
say it's your favorite story. I
I there are so many stories. Um, when he
was in Avitz and he was working with
with another sadic of his, I think his
name was Burin. Borstein um Aviar
Burstein
um
and he came to my father-in-law and he
said that uh when they were cleaning
doing detail cleaning detail near the w
women's camp in Ashvitz a young teenager
seemed like you know asked for a sweater
it was freezing cold in in Poland and
Ashvitz and he
uh they they were moist enoughish to get
her a sweater And you know they had they
were cleaning barracks and they found a
sweater and they put it under under the
clothes and they went and he this aza
gave it gave it to the lady and he comes
back with tears going down his eyes and
he still had the sweater and my said
what happened he says she didn't want a
sweater she wanted a sidur she wanted a
raship was coming up and she want She
she thought that maybe in the men's camp
they might be able to have some some
sort of safer and she was asking for a
sida not ava sidda sounds very similar
and he said I'll try and get you but
take the sweater no if I take the
sweater you're not going to come back I
need you to bring me the
sitter the heroes they were they were
heroes my friend Hoffman who wrote a
book heroes of spirit I mean they were
heroes they were heroes and that they
you know that the the topic the title
faith amid the flames which was coined
by my good friend Manakim Labinsky Rabbi
Manakim Labinsky
um this was I don't know when we doing a
a Holocaust uh project one video it was
on VHS that's another thing that you
won't know about and um and
um when I asked him if I could use that
name he says he can't think of anyone
more appropriate uh of the word faith
amid the flames. It's exactly what he
personified
amuna amidst the biggest torture. And um
you know I I I feel very satisfied that
I was able to do this for him. Um and uh
we're going to continue continue. Talk
for a moment. You worked for Dagod. You
knew Rabbi Sher for example. Um, talk
about the relationship that your
father-in-law and yourself had with
people like Rabbi Sher and how they
helped him further his mission.
Rabbi I consider Rabbi Sher to be uh my
rebio of
inconus. Um, I worked for him for 18
years.
Um, my associate reb was bloom. He
should live and be well.
Um
and Rabbi Sher was was first of all he
was dedicated to no end.
Um, his relationship with my
father-in-law was amazing in that here
you had this
American orator who, you know, English
writer and yet his best friend was Yasel
Frieden and he didn't do much without
conferring with Yasul Frieden. The
people who know know that all the
sheridan who joined the aguda in those
years came as a result of the efforts of
Mishv. Um certainly once they were there
Rabbi Sher knew how to keep these people
and that was the building up of the agu
all those years.
Um there's a very famous
story uh I consider it famous where uh
Rab Shere used to write in the sided
shaver but he he didn't write it the my
wrote it but they would discuss it and
everything and one day in the office
before I uh joined the ag
um they were writing this article and
Rabbi Sher
uh picked himself up to get ready to
leave. And my share said, "Rabbi
Sher, we have to do some more on this."
And Rabbi Sher said, "It's good
enough." And my share says, "Oo, didn't
you always teach us that good enough is
not good
enough?" So took off his jacket, sat
down, they stayed there for another hour
till it was perfect. So the relationship
between uh Yel Frieden and Misha Sher
was extremely special. Extremely
special. Uh um I my work for Rabbi
Sher I never knew what I was going to do
next. You would come in sit down in my
in my office. What was your what was
your official job description at the
time? Official or what my job
description was? people till today
people have no idea what I was what I
was supposed to do. My title
was I don't even know what my title was.
Maybe I was in development. Um
um I I did I did basically whatever
needed to be done.
Um, I had several titles that um I uh
Rabbi Sher would come in, sit down,
cross his leg, put
his Jewish observer has been losing
money for the last 10 years. I need you
to take over the management of the
Jewish observer. And I worked for 20
years together with Ramnissen Walpin
Oliver Shalom. And I cannot tell you how
much I missed that man. Rabbi Wen
was he was such a wonderful person both
behind the desk and not behind the desk.
And um
um we worked at the Jewish observer
which was which was massive uh in terms
of the sashas in 1990
uh when uh Yasf Rita um guaranteed Rabbi
Sher that if he gets does it in Madison
Square Garden if they lose any money he
will make up for the loss of money.
That's when Rab Sher asked me I went to
Madison Square Garden. Um I found out at
that time that it was not available.
This is 1990. The circus had it. It was
April 199. The Ringling Brothers, right?
Ringling Brothers, Barnum Bailey Circus.
And I did some research and I found out
that I knew that Misher Aman Shalom was
negotiating with building a new Madison
Square Garden in the railards, which
never happened. But there was a little G
and W uh on the logo which stood for
Gulf and Western which was Mish Rahman.
I said to Rabbi came back said Rabbi
Sher Rab
Sher we can't get it the date but if you
call Misha Rahman I'm sure some things
could happen. A day didn't pass by that
uh the president of Madison Square
Garden, I think his name was Mendelson,
showed up for lunch with Rabbi Chev in
the office and he walked out and Rab Sh
walks him afterwards to the elevator and
I said, "No." He says, "Well, there's a
legal stipulation that they can buy out
the circus for that date." And I said,
"No." So, we bought out the circus. And
that's how that 1990 seem ended up in
Madison Square Garden. Um you know after
that 1997 was NASA Coliseum 2005
Continental Alliance Arena Javit Center
Madison's Square Garden and of course
2012 and 20 January 1st of the of 20
Metife Stadium uh which was uh like I
said a lot of fun. You can you can
translate that word fun any way you want
to, but um it certainly was was was How
much sleep did you get ahead of the CMA?
Tell tell us the truth.
I
I I don't want to say that I stayed up.
I stayed up whatever had to be done. Um
I even there was a there was a
possibility of sleeping overnight at the
stadium, you know, a few nights
beforehand. It just wasn't necessary. It
was done. The staffing was great. The
the the the the staff at Metife Stadium
is fantastic from the president and CEO
down, Ron Vanine, uh straight down. I
mean, you know, I dealt only with the
heads of each department and
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um um we also had a an events uh uh
company that, you know, we subhired or
hired to do a lot of the like the
staging and the some of the lights and
the some of the sound etc. So, it was
great. It was great. I actually did
sleep. I did sleep. I actually did. The
night after the CM, I didn't sleep too
well. It was like you were on a high. I
don't know if the word is high, but it
was my my brain was definitely on
overload. But other other than this
book, would you consider your
involvement as CEO of the CMA Shas to be
your crowning achievement?
How do I know? How do I know? How do I
know? something small like and when
there's a family of F people today
because of Jeep who came to Borough Park
in the in the 1970s and today they have
children and grandchildren and and and
and are learning in
Kohl how do I know it's not for me to
judge it's for theam to judge but I go
back to my my thoughts about Raf Pam I
have tremendous to him for putting me on
that understanding ing and and I hope
the listeners here if there are young
listeners to to understand
that you know when look become diamond
polishes whatever it is whatever it is
in your life you know do something that
you're going to be able to look back and
feel an accomplishment on behalf
of behalf of their so so I was going to
ask that you you you were exposed to
worldclass aanum leaders they were
rebuilding the Jewish community post
World War II, 60s,7s,
80s, and you obviously learned a lot
from them. What message would you give
to the younger generation? You're kind
of like the bridge between them and
let's say my generation or even those
younger than
myself. What's the greatest piece of
advice you ever got that you could pass
on to them?
Rabbi
Sher. I once asked Rabbi Sher that
question and his response was he thought
for a second. He looked me straight in
the face and says, "Don't just live for
yourself, live for others."
And that wrapped up the
entire the entire conversation
on I would say to the people out there
don't just live for yourself live for
others because and if you live for
others you will be you will feel so much
accomplishment.
One of the things that bothers me a
mazer is that we don't really have
training forum and I wish we could um uh
I went to David's rebel I mean
uh turvas west side boy turvas boy a
lawyer and look what he's done for now
if if you had your brothers and let's
say funding wasn't an issue What what
would you do to cultivate a cadre of of
Askanim of the next generation of
activists? What would you do? I'd say we
would discuss this on a different
interview when I have some time to think
about it because uh it it it definitely
uh it's it all boils down to to money.
If you're going if if you're raised with
the idea that I have to become an
accountant or I have to become a lawyer
because I have to support a family and I
have to pay tuition and and everything.
If money wasn't an issue then you know
the focus really should shift just like
there's a whole training department for
Rabonam through whether it's through
touro or through the or this other there
should be an asanis training program and
I believe it can be done I believe it
could happen it would take a lot of uh
cash influx but you know that's what I
think needs to be done and it it bothers
me it bothers me
because an Oscan should be choice one
not okay I became an Oscan because I
failed in something else and by the way
I never consider myself an asking it
just happened I mean that no somebody
once said to me you're an Oskin I says I
am that's not I'm really you know
basically that's the way I feel do
something what Rabbi Sher said don't
just live for self live for others that
from Rabbi Sher my rebi in Askconus and
Raf Pam when he spoke about the diamond
polishing my my my real rebi I think
that's the message I would like like to
leave to cla I think humbly that with
all the comfort creatures that we have I
think young families fathers and mothers
are more harried today than they've ever
been and I think that that doesn't give
enough open space in their mind to think
more broadly. Young families are barely
surviving financially. They're barely
surviving just emotionally getting
through the day, taking care of their
families, housing costs, tuition costs,
different pressures, shookham pressures.
It's it's it's this unending race and
somehow in a weird way I think that
maybe in the 70s and 80s things were
calmer and maybe people were able to
think more broadly. Do you think that's
an accurate depiction?
I agree with the first part, the first
part that that it's very hard to survive
in this day and age financially. Um I
don't know if it was easier in the 60s
and 70s. I don't know if that's true.
Um, but you said if money wasn't an
object, if somebody would come and say,
"Well, I want to uh put x amount of
million dollars into the into into this
training and we would be able to and if
a person wouldn't have to worry about,
you know, spending x amount of years uh
in in in training for a panaser, perhaps
there there would be more. It it it also
needs dedication. There has to be a
certain amount of dedication. You can't
just say, "Okay, should I become an
accountant, a lawyer, or an
Oscin?" Even I'll admit it doesn't
always work that way. So, um um I I you
know, in reality, I don't know if it's
ever going to happen. It probably also
takes a certain personality. I don't
know if necessarily you could train
everyone to have that. You couldn't
train everyone but you have to take the
right people and then kind of channel
their strengths and their interests
towards working on behalf of the claw.
Absolutely. But there are people out
there who can do this. There are people
there are people I mean there are some
great people in Agodisol and who have
dedicated their lives and have done
tremendous tremendous accomplishments.
So um
and not just tag auda term misora
whatever I mean I these are the ones
that I'm more familiar with but there
there there are others I mean I would
even say people who working on in in art
scroll the misora heritage foundation
the people working on the shas and and
and and all these I mean is that not
accomplishment absolutely absolutely so
I mean I I I uh when I was talking about
a possibility of a of a of another book
about about uh uh well I'm not going to
give it away but uh till until it's
official until it's copyrighted um but
uh a
good dafomi and art scroll what better
you know what better team can you can
you think about you know so you know I'm
not being p I'm not being paid extra for
to push art school I'm just letting you
know that but it's true everything I
said today is true almost everything but
it True. They these entities and the
people involved all have the same
mission to
be to do what they can for the Jewish
people. Absolutely. And and to bring to
Absolutely. Absolutely. You know,
circling back to the book you alluded to
before that you have a plan to broaden
and to do more. Tell us more about that.
it would take a hefty uh influx of
sponsorship which I don't think is going
to come from the from community. Um I
have begun to make contacts with people
who have contacts with the secular
community.
uh uh there whether it's I mean for for
example the book itself the book should
be in the hands of
10,000 day school raham and teachers
throughout the United States every rebi
every teacher every day school uh
teacher moa from fourth grade and up
should have this book should read this
book which will give them people a a a
a dera
of being able to give over of what
happened. Not what happened, not the
suffering, but the keshm within the
suffering, which is the most important
part of of my father-in-law's
legacy. For for people who are a little
bit more secular or even not Jewish,
then the book needs a total rewrite.
total rewrite with I mean you can't just
talk about Ludge without talking about
the whole history of Poland and what was
Poland and who lived in Poland and etc.
And you can't just talk about Cristan
without talking about what the Nazi
party was in the 1931 32 and how Hitler
rose to power etc. It's a total rewrite.
M um and that's why you know we wouldn't
it wouldn't be faith in the flames but
as I said the murder of three million
through the eyes of one and it you know
I'm not sure if it would be in written
in first person uh as this book is I'm
not that's I was going to ask you did
you consider or have you shared it let's
say with the Holocaust Museum with
Yadvashm people who are involved in
disseminating information about the
Holocaust so that they could have this
first person account to enhance whatever
message they're already sending. The
answer is yes. Yes. Yes. They all have
it and they all appreciate it. With the
Holocaust Museum in Washington, Yadvashm
certainly um and there are others. There
are scholars, Holocaust scholars like
Michael Baronbam um um another name
Rafel Rafel Maidoff people who are they
all have the book they've all uh read
it. They've all commented on it.
But that's not the next step as to get
it out to the secular world. It needs a
rewrite. Um, and if anybody has any
ideas, possibly I don't know, maybe the
claims conference. I don't know what
what that means these days. Um, uh,
there's been so many metamorphoses of,
you know, of the of that so many change.
So if somebody has any idea can reach me
through artscrow as an example of uh my
father-in-law's message to the world um
I think we have a 60-second clip that
was recently recently shown on a
meaningful minute. I think your viewers
would appreciate will appreciate
watching this short clip. Absolutely.
Let's take a look. There are many times
that my children or my
grandchildren are asking me
zi what does it all mean? What do we
what do we all learn from this? Uh what
should we learn from this? Well, I have
a lot of answers, but my main answer is
you just know that we are a unique
people, an eternal people,
indestructible. And not only that, we
are, we also should be. And this is our
destiny to be a unique people in our
behavior. our behavior with our
fellow men, fellow friends, non friends,
with
everyone just to keep up
the
that and that we have to try to be as
close to him as possible. Any closing
message as we conclude our conversation?
Well, first of all, uh you know, my
appreciation to Art Scroll for
publishing the book, my appreciation to
you for inviting me, uh to come down, uh
here today. Um we've covered a lot. I
can only say that
um um I I I look forward
to expanding upon this and other uh type
of of of books and
um benches. We should be gaz and we
should get rid of this terrible pandemic
and um and we should be z as they say in
French to gaze.
Well, thank you firstly for your decades
of work on behalf of Israel, many more
decades. Amen. Whether it's through
Mashas or like you mentioned Jeep and
other wonderful
undertakings and the Jewish observer, so
many different uh you've touched so many
different aspects of the Jewish
community. And right now a special thank
you for bringing your father-in-law's
eternal message of hope and faith. The
message of you know is to us to the
younger generation in a language that we
understand and we could appreciate and
the book will continue to be well
received. I appreciate that. Thank you
very much and to you and to everybody
else here uh in this beautiful beautiful
arts girl new headquarters in Rowway,
New Jersey. Thank you.
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