In shiddichim for 10 years ?!

For you, was it for 10 years or you were a bocher for 10 years? So, I was a bocher for 10 years. So, before I knew it, in the first month of Yeshiva after you were allowed to get engaged, 40 of my friends were engaged. It's almost a third of the class. Wow. The next thing I know is I'm getting phone calls. Hey, we have this girl for you. You want to go out? You have this girl >> Multiple choice. Yeah. And the first girl they read to me was a very nice girl from school, like a They had a lot of money, yichus, a nice family, a pretty girl, the whole like the full package. So, without even knowing what shidduchim is, without even knowing what I am, who I am, how I feel about the whole thing, I I was in shidduchim. Now, I'm also I'm not going to choose a side. I'm not going to say if that's a good thing or not because it was like Irrelevant. It's irrelevant. Like, hands down, I could have done it that way, and that would have worked because for some people it definitely does work. Um but I am grateful that this is how it went for me.