In Honor of the Jewish Housewife

I love this question because comes from this side I'm fern I'm gonna read it to me love Emile it's wonderful on Thursday night I look back at the week man you have to hear this is what's going on in their minds I look back to the week I did laundry I cooked supper I sent kids to school what makes me special the gaim all do the same thing meaning you have your avoider you go down with a minion clear certain illumination miraba you learn you do that for you and me you're involved in community and then we leave the women at home to be that carrot of ice and we know that there's hail a kite in everything that we do but at the end of the day you also want to feel it you want to feel that what you're doing has Hayley kite as to Ducie and it's not just mundane it's not just something that you know when they say Schiller sonic YCJA you know why because we get to do all this stuff and you get to do the laundry huh so it's a it's an incredibly incredibly important question the reason I am I I'm looking at this and I just feel like I know time is running out but I once sat down with the daughter of a Russian Shiva whose husband was also a Russia Shiva and she asked me the same question now if your father's Rosh Yeshiva and your husband's Russia Shiva and this still bothers you so we need to explain and you don't it's not good if you feel like we're apologizing for you call apologetics taka what do you do to make you feel like you feel like what you're doing is incredibly important for the world you know a surgeon washes his hands and a worker washes vans both of them washed hands except that the surgeon is not going to open up somebody's heart and do a heart transplant and the watch in the ends is gonna save the hands from adding bacteria on them that would kill the patient and the other guy just didn't get the railing dirty cuz washed his hands the very fact that you do something similar to a guy to a mundane person means nothing it means nothing and this is what we have to internalize what we do is only important because we think what is the target everything that we do in life is for what reason it's to bring a cottage borrow food down to the world it's forgiveness chin up Delia Sheena means everything that I do will show Zach a levy on vaiue this is Maya Shem and if you do the most Heyliger thing but you do it without second leg on value then you're just going through mitzvahs on national mother but if you have in mind if you understand that when you make food you're not just a chef and some italian pizza parlor but you are sustaining a family whose very purpose is forgiven and you feel it and you know it I can't change what you do just like I can't change them a person who's a bus driver but if you're just driving your boss is nothing but if you're trying to bust bust to bring kinder walk to the haters so they should learn better then you didn't just ride the bus you brought people closer to a sham you were miguel esteana and when you make a supper and the kindle ah who came home from learning inhaler all day and your husband who worked in parnassia or a London coil is now the Simca and they could sustain themselves and it creates you cinch alibis and love than your own acclaim in the based on mikdash bringing an oil installment it's it's no different and that's otherwise we can't go on with life if we say well everyone does this no it's not true on the musky men they must give him we both get up on a muscular high oil ama dog they must be with their chakras we're getting up at every single thing we do my wife has a minute she took it on herself I never asked her to every morning she brings me a coffee to wake me up and what she does is amazing like except for Shabbos morning at Madeira coffee but every morning and if I'm so tired I drink and I plop back into bed she brings the second one she's a special person but she's not bringing me coffee for coffee she understands that I do car work and I get very very tired and she heard hey look in the clown book is watching me awake say no then see him get up you gotta you got the clown work to do and I'm gonna I'm gonna I'm gonna make the shirt nice cuz you have to stand in front of people and at the time accomplish usually cancel my big day kind of nice it's awful said he'll wash em and she looks at me and chose it she'll clean it up you left it you have to represent that sham this is not apologetics your side massage table like this says this is how we have to live our lives because it's not what we do but it's why we do it a person can do something and it's for nothing little bear shocked us or a person can even go to sleep and if they haven't Zim says he's such a fighter before they go to sleep he need Mohana mazuma to go to sleep so I could be awake to wake up my Kindle are so that they will be on time then every moment I'll be a dremel every moment of your sloth you get scarred that even though my welcome can't imagine so the secular world wants us to believe you put the woman in their place and they do the cooking the cleaning and we say you know what it was a fight in the base on Macduff who would be able to do the medaka buys everyone wanted to because they understood you're not just cleaning from his back you're not just cleaning but I get to clean them his back I get to go to base I'm mic'ed us and clean it as rain in my book cooking people fought for the honor if there was a customer if there was a president who was coming wouldn't you wanna make him miss coffee the president you make it just so cuz it's cautious like a little lot date the foam on top a little cinnamon I want I want him to because the customer thing so why are you kinder lock any less important than Donald Trump he's so excited to give Donald Trump for cereal be excited to give my she and yaki is cereal because you know what they're gonna do with it they'll have energy it'll go into their bones in their blood and next time they wrap you says what's the pox at work so tight they're gonna know they'll be alert and awake because you made sure that they were fed in the morning you made sure that they left without stress to the bus you're you you are a should've without sham that's not apologetic this is how we have to live our lives otherwise we're daydreaming so never never never look at what you do as mundane that's what's so special have even install it says inspectors then we Arusha knew Bannen la marca we are running we are the children of our sunset every single thing we do we do for the greatest king the now mark and welcome there's nothing that we do that's mundane not getting dressed not eating not cleaning not making par no sir you don't need a sit in front of the choristers to feel like you don't need to you just need to have an Sinan that everything you do is to love our Shem and to create Guillory Sina and if you do that you're gonna feel so great you're gonna you can understand that every day you live a life of Mitzvah even if it means scrubbing the yellow off of the collar it's a mitzvah it is a mitzvah and you should never feel it's anything less than a coin gobble in country Kardashian [Applause]