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when you want to work on your marriage that's not the same as trying to change your spouse because when you try to change your spouse what you're doing is you're damaging your marriage ladies you'll forgive me for being this blunt and it's probably never happened in the real world but imagine with me for a minute in a theoretical hypothetical world that a woman walks into her bedroom and on the floor she sees a pair of socks just imagine I know it can't happen I know I know and what did she say exactly what she said 99,999 * 4 what's wrong with you you're 40 years old will you pick up your socks already Okay so let's sort of analyze this is he right no you're a schlump will you pick up the socks please okay I got that but here's the question what did she just accomplish now let's sort of do the math 990 times before she said it probably he gets it so what did she think is going to change on the 10,000th time that she tells him to finally pick up the socks now he should pick up the socks I got it but I'd like to share with you what happens what happens is is if you try to change your husband you wreck the relationship and what happens is he doesn't pick up the socks and he gets angry and he gets distant and he gets cold and you'll be right and everyone will agree that you're right and I couldn't agree more because he should be a mention pick up the socks or you are 40 years old put it away will you grow up and at the same time that you'll be right you'll also damage your relationship