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"I want boys just like this" | Our growth as a Jewish family | An Oorah Story
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One simple decision set this family on a path they never expected. Watch now to see how one moment - right before Chanukah! - can change everything. To learn more about Oorah's work, sign up for a program, or volunteer, go to oorah.org.
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I'm just curious how did you guys hear
about Ura you have to watch the
video watch the video to find
out no we got we got a postcard and it
said come to the concert and that was 15
years
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ago hi I'm Marcy Gutman My name is D
Gutman My name is r and I go to RJ and
I'm 8 years
old my name is Sara and I'm an rgj and
I'm 10 years my name isman I'm 13 I go
to RJ my name isob I'm
in my I go to Sten Island I'm from
Staten Island group very traditional
after we had gotten married we weren't
religious to my husband's credit he was
in search he was in search for the
meaning of life it was his questioning
that led us into the right direction
Jewish
direction we received a postcard in the
mail and it was the Hanukah concert you
know the annual Hanukah concert of Ura
we were sitting by the concert the
singers they touched me because my inima
was like on fire and all of a sudden I
see all these bck and like get up and
start dancing and like I sat there and I
looked like in every direction and I
said I don't care if anybody sees me but
I'm about to start crying like I said
God I want boys just like this like I
don't know what I have to do to get this
but like I'm ready meanwhile like
there's a lot to do to get this had
but the concert had a great big sign
that said want to Tate my husband sees
us he's like oh my prayers have been
answered him my original uh my original
kabu said
that
R and AA set us up and I was soon after
learning with
ala we went to them for shabas and just
to see how they conducted their shabas
table and you know spoke to their kids
I used to bring home my Crea sheets to
my my mom and dad and I used to help
them not help them but I used to like
teach them how to read Hebrew I think it
was Shamar like 2008 and we actually
walked over to yiva Staten Island my
husband walked in there's so many men
around him just like flocking and asking
him like who are you where you're from
what could we do to help you he met his
shabas Tor mate of 15 years right by
beater he just felt the love the love
that like another yid sees for another
yid my grand mother is my unofficial
Torah mate at night usually I go and
learn with a b and Sh is right over here
and we learn my MOA approached me and
said do you want to be my Torah mate so
we officially became Torah mates and
Mary and I have been learning for 11
years these are professional Learners
these are professional people that know
how to serve Hashem the best way
possible truthfully this is a mistake
when I wanted to start covering my hair
my husband was a bit nervous he's like
didn't think I owned my religiousness
yet for so many years I'm going on like
the the um of the noay of him saying
like you know I don't think you can do
it when I'm like I'm going to prove him
wrong meanwhile not too long ago he told
me I only said it because I knew you
would do it I'm
like you're part of Ura you have a lot
of family we're going to Ura yeah that's
right we're enjoying the last days of
PES at Ur I went to the zone for suus it
was really fun
you always feel like you're part of like
one big huge family when we would see R
men on occasion he was always so proud
that we were achieving and growing as a
Jewish Family and he was actually the
sandic for our Second Son Yakov and it
was really a special moment this is your
little star family the gutterman's
wishing everybody a good
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when I was 3 years old I went to Little
Star and I was one of like seven or
eight kids I went to Little Star went to
Little
Star I remember lots of
things I
remember I remember um morea's Mac and
cheesy was the
best I I also have one more thing to say
about remember my teacher Madina Moses
when my youngest y was graduating Little
Star I wanted a special picture just to
hang up in my
house of all of my children you know and
my husband and I standing next to ra Min
and I turned to RAB Min I said RAB Min
you helped us these are sorry I'm going
to
cry these are your grandchildren
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I can honestly say like when I watch my
children and my boys dance on Zim Torah
now like I understand like what I asked
Hashem for it doesn't come like in a
second
anything that's good you have to work
hard for you have to put in your effort
and I asked for it and I and I got
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it the last 15 years years Ura has been
a part of our Lives helping us guiding
us whether my husband and I are learning
with our Torah mates or our children
went through Little Star Jewish
preschool we really would have not grown
this far if it wasn't for Ura and R they
held our hand through
Judaism knowing what Hashem wants from
all of us is a is a pathway to uh to
finding happiness and finding AEM
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