How to Sweeten the Dinim (judgments) - Bas Ayin Parshas Vayechi

i saw this fantastic idea in the maasaian and i wanted to share it with you it's an idea that gives us a perspective and and maybe a recommendation on how to deal with life's challenges when we experience missions when we experience hardships and we feel like hashem is giving us something we can't handle i mean hashem is giving us uh challenges that are just beyond us and are difficult what do we do how do we respond so i want to share this with you it was i found it very uplifting and i hope you do too so this is the last piece in the basayan on this week's parsha he starts on the pasik of avinu is giving his children a bracha before he dies and he tells asher may asha shame his bread will be fat will be rich and he will give ma'adani malach so the basayan explains venus right over here venus we can explain we can say shah tahir khadijah the holy tower of marilyn was teaching us there a path away how to sweeten judgments at their roots when life is difficult when we experience hardships what do how do we deal with that at the root he says for what the kid is in order to kind of draw down shafa bracha an abundance of brahmin from the king of the universe down to this world how do we do that so he explains the fundamental is lahaman to believe but complete faith whatever hashem does is for the good like like you said like we know from the gemara will avarice whatever hashem did is for the good is to understand that everything is for the good and even when something bad happens is to say that this too is good and to bless hashem for that and that's difficult but that's what you got to do and listen to this libra even if a person is missing what he needs aval nevertheless of them a person's praise should be enough in our lives that are given over to his hands and on the side that are given over to him to to watch marcus of like the puzzle says and tell him i'll call him every nishamath should praise god the darshan and the matter of darshan madras explains the word neshama i'll call nishima unishima on every breath calling ashama on every breath to halal you should praise hashem meaning even though he's missing something that he wants something that he needs nevertheless praising hashem with a simcha when life is difficult and understanding saying i understand this is hard but this is the khasir of hashem this is the kindness of hashem in that's covered over that will sweeten the judgments at its root sha is said that the water and all the influences caused by typhus all the good influences um the delicacies of kings bisgalya the will be sent down in reveal to the entire world so praising hashem when things don't go well but being able to say hashem i know this is difficult i know this is a hard experience but i know this is your sid covered over in a hidden way but this is your said that is something that will sweeten the judgments that is something that will turn things around and then he reads this into the past this is the passage from ashraf the root comes from the word hulas in tehillah prays shamana means two things who is nashamah it's referring to the neshama gamla ninshama which is the lassen the word neshama mira al-sham shamama ushima that is given over to his hands available missing what he needs and what he wants at that point then he will um he will give the mandan meaning hashem will be able to give awash the delicacies of kings for collage by his taiwanese he'll be able to bring the delicacies of kings hashem in a revealed way down to the world amen okay