How to FULLY RECEIVE in a marriage

part of being a good recipient in true feminine fashion is having boundaries now it sounds counterintuitive boundaries that will make me more receptive boundaries make me less receptive it's not true it's the exact opposite if I don't want to receive anything from you then I'm not talking to you we don't have a relationship I have boundaries in my relationship with you because I do want to receive from you and I just need it to be safe so one of the problems that often happens in a male female relationship and a marriage a woman has felt far too many times that what she received was not safe and she shuts down how do you prevent that from happening or how do you come back from it if it has happened boundaries boundaries are so important they don't decrease intimacy they increase intimacy if you know what feels respectful and what doesn't feel respectful and you can communicate that stick with that and only show up for that which feels respectful you'll be much more able to open up and to fully receive and then when you're fully receiving what happens to him he's giving more and more and more and more and more and then everyone's happy