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How Many B-days? Heart Transplant from Terrorist, 8 Candles 8 Nights, Surrounded by Enemies and More
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A class by Rabbi Aaron Pessin on the weekly Torah Portion and fascinating insights Some of the topics discussed: How Many birthdays can a person have? Heart transplant from a Hamas terrorist, is it permitted? 8 candles every night of Chanukah? Jews surrounded by enemies & MORE
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shom good
morning Welcome to our viewers on tour
anytime as well I want to dedicate the
year for the B him and his family and a
special dear friend a
hero SE who just joined us from Edison
New Jersey made alah in the middle of
the
war that's called
a you should have a you should only know
and and you should enjoy the beautiful
blessing of you should only see that
there are no Pebbles we spoke about this
morning there are no Pebbles it's only
precious stones we should be able to see
it
absolutely so we're
speaking what
that y they went away and they were
transformed into pearls and diamonds
silver and gold and precious
St
a little combination
of
and we start with YF goes to goes to
sleep and he has some dreams so why do
we go to sleep why did the create this
idea of sleeping why do we need it let
me be up for 24 hours be able to
function and
serve when I'm awake wouldn't may be
better an unbelievable Revelation from
the go Milla in his
commentary
to
says the whole purpose of creation of
this idea called sleeping is every
night goes upstairs to to Thea upstairs
to be able to accomplish and to learn
their things that you do in one hour
when you're sleeping you cannot do in 70
years down here when you're awake and in
yes down
here but he says from that learning you
don't get any reward in fact that is the
reward itself the reward that you get is
from what you learn during the day when
you're awake down here and that brings
you to but should be aware that when you
wake up you're loaded
with more so than you'll be able to
accomplish in 70 years when you're awake
down here be lay playing the purpose
why maybe similar to what the
says when a baby is in his mother's womb
he learns the entire is there teaching
him the entire before he leaves he slaps
him on the face and makes him forget it
all so what's the idea of learning
everything if ultimately you forgot it
explain it's easier to go back to what
you once had than to start something new
completely may maybe the same idea maybe
maybe it will be easier for you to
attain those that that you learned when
it was already by you once then just to
start the whole thing
again I don't think it's a problem
because when you're learning that's what
brings you to so his Shar in the world
to come is a little bigger and then it's
eternity you'll have more time to learn
with the K I don't think it's a
problem and this par we learn about the
birthday of
Po say question how many birthdays can
one person
have and I'm not counting
the date that's not part of our
system how many birthdays can one person
have well let's say it in a different
way can a person have more than one
birthday English is a we're not using
that definitely not in this ho place two
other what's that two others two
others and what if for I was born in
Nissan and let's say I was born in when
there's a leap not the following year
I'm only going to have one birthday
during a period of 12 months how many
birthdays can one
have Miracle a little louder someone
ConEd or something doesn't doesn't start
another birth if you had a miracle no
you just have to
say if he
converted that's very good
didn't think about that one we'll add
that one
great but what if he was born
Jewish every single one of us who were
born Jewish how many birthdays can we
have one
one and it wasn't a trick question so
obviously there is more than
one we have two potential birthdays two
birthdays because it's Aus when the
world was created was so there's Aus But
ultimately he was only created once but
I'm talking about everybody who's
sitting here and as far as I know your
name
is what about ad Al that was said before
I was born in the mouth of Nissan and
even the person who was born ad Al the
following year he only has one birthday
we'll decide if it's Al or
B when what what year are you counting
every single year what year are you
counting are you counting
from however you counted 12 month period
start from whatever you want from to but
the year that you're physically in is
counted as a certain year how many
birthdays can you have without
pulling have one that was already you
know
rejected that's clear that's P but
obviously I'm suggesting that there is
more than one you'll be surprised how
many birthdays we can have first of all
biological birthday obviously according
to the what do you say celebrating the
fact that you were born on you're not
circumcised you're like a
says a person's real birthday is
eight days
later now you come into the Covenant
of now there's your birthday you want to
celebrate the birthday that's your
birthday that doesn't apply to women I
guess they they have to go with the
biological
one we have already two we have two
birthdays or biological one doesn't like
it so according to him we'll have
another one 8 Days Later fine more
according to
it work by a woman I just said doesn't
include women they still stuck with one
biological birthday fine married when
they get married they have they're now
have the so they're now that's a nice
I'm not familiar with the source other
than yours it's cute I like it but you
want another source so you can have a
source because the gor says that a
person until he's married he's a half a
person so now is a complete person but
we don't find we find a happy
anniversary we had a happy birthday on
the day of anniversary of yours we'll go
with
says when he reaches his new level
that's his birthday with that he
explains what the says that a person aad
dies on the same day that he is born
because says but you see it doesn't will
always work like that we know many sadik
that they died not on their birthday how
does it work some Ser says yes they did
die on their birthday cuz their birthday
is counted as the day that they moved to
the level of that count oh now is your
birthday now you achieve that mil they
will die on the same date and that calls
them their birthday so we already have
three different
birthdays show that we don't go
by no that's not a problem at all cuz
was born circumcised
I wrote a about what about a a clinical
death is that also called that bab
reborn again went downstairs the stories
and they come back down
again and he will
say you're familiar with that the source
that says maybe he will counted as a
birthday but I'm looking for sources
in who says he does who says he
does does knows know his birthday who
knows who says he knows he has a
birthday but he doesn't know it's still
his
birthday you can't have a gift you can't
have a birthday cake without knowing but
say his birthday a person is in a coma
it's not his birthday he still is not
aware of it but it's still his
birthday
celebrates another
one there's another birthday when a
person does cha it's his birthday why
it's another it's a new
person is a new entity the ra says when
you do Chua you have to look back says
who's that guy has nothing to do with me
I'm a new person a new person a new
person is a birthday it's a chuva
according to this not only the day you
do chuva you should be doing Chua every
single day so every single day is the
birthday 354 days a year 354 gifts tell
your
wives
Orin he's a new person so he's not any
more than one doesn't make a difference
he'll do TR do tomorrow so he's never
going to have a two birth in one day but
it's still going to have a birthday
every single day
hopefully
really every single night before they go
to sleep and hopefully they
do why
not really that's the highest level of
CH says there's six different levels
that a person six different times that a
person does Chua the highest level he
does Chua every single day we are
required requested to do cha every
single day that's the highest
level you bang really really really hard
and you do some accounting and
introspection did I do anything wrong
today and if I did you try to fix it CH
but instead of waiting till you
accumulate a lot of AOS you do it
immediately let's go into what
about thinking about what you accomplish
that day I don't know I think about
praising that allows us to go to sleep
and giv us tomorrow to wake up with a
little
more two answers first says that when a
person has his circumcision that's his
real birthday don't celebrate the fact
that you became an and the fact that
says that when a person moves up to a
level of counts that as his birthday now
we move into a little more serious area
Mitzvah is still is still 13 years
doesn't change because your birthday but
Mitzvah is just we're singling out a day
that after 13 years that you're here in
this world now you're in old mit that's
what it means you go into the
pleasantry not oil Yoke the pleasantry
of the beautiful diamonds now we have 63
that your that's what it means that's
all it's the private
M of every individual in CL that's what
it is because back then we were all
obligated but a kid under 13 is still
not obligated when he reaches 13 now is
as if his own Revelation in says now
accept it on yourself and he says
yes use that next you have to speak
it a more serious sh very very
serious
there's that we injured and we caught
him and he's about to die he has five
minutes to
go there's also a Jew right next to him
who was also
injured so we turn to the kamnik who's
definitely
leaving us in 5 minutes and we say
listen would you like to donate some
organs says sure that'll be great it'll
be able to compensate you know to atone
for what I
did I doubt that that's ever going to
happen but luya oh we find some pieces
of him scattered around can you take
should you take do you want a heart of
aasik a liver of
aasik the Jew has been waiting for a
long time for a heart transplant now
finally there's a heart transplant can
you take it should you take it do you
recommend
it what do you say I say no you say no
and the reason
is it's inside the heart is a is part of
the person what about a
finger it's an external part it's not
part of the inside finger you good
with Hally it's fine it should be fine
sh he has no
problem ah hear what he says you hear
what he says he saying the raan why asks
the ran why did the T say stay away from
non kosher Birds he starts with birds
but he stretches it to all non-er
animals why did say stay away from the
eagle what do you have against the eagle
what do you have against the eagle what
you do wrong I never ate one but maybe
it's delicious what do you have against
the eagle what do you against the
lion says the
ramban the non-kosher animals are
predators they are cruel and when you
eat them you can become cruel as
well the one of says that's the reality
that the food that you
eat changes and becomes you it turns you
into what the food came from and this
can make you a cruel person that likes
to kill like these animals so you still
think it's okay and you would like that
heart or that liver but the the life of
a Jew we were even willing to be
suff shab but you want a cruel heart
that killed a 100 people five minutes
ago in a Jew's body I don't know how it
works but to me the life of a Jew seems
so precious that I think we do a lot for
that what if it's
not no but you say is not a problem it's
I'm saying when it's not is there a
problem I would think it's not it is
it's a problem if it's a problem so you
should you should say no please be
consistent I say it's absolutely fine
and um we see that anyone who's waiting
for orans they don't ask for the CV of
the person who but you have the CV in
front of you his name isas with his
uniform what is a Jew a Jew right his
soul his physical body is just temporary
that this organ allows him to live
longer what are you going to do with
thisan you're not eating it it's not be
consumed through your body and going
it's a
whole the says youve almost sco
your something that's what he's
saying says can you
nurse can you nurse from Aya
didn't M didn't
why this mouth one
day are you allowed
to if you have to there's no other
alternative
aha you
correct you're allowed to but the says
stay
away stay away unless like you say
there's no other alternative it's a
without it the baby can't live
why says the where does milk come
from from where does he have blood from
eating all the and and all thef and all
the wrong things says stay away it's not
good for you that creates the milk with
that milk you want to feed a Jewish Soul
you want to feed a Jewish
person if from eating the wrong foods
like the ran like Theo like the it can
create bad Mido cruelty how much more so
when you take the actual organ of that
person who had the bad mid and the
cruelty and you put it inside a person's
body but the body like you're saying is
a vehicle it's
a it's not the body the body doesn't
have
mid but even the doesn't have bad
mid it's a part of it's a spark from the
Heavenly Throne doesn't have bad
Mido so when you eat the wrong food it
causes it wrecks your internal makeup
the neish where is the neish found blood
in the blood that's why you can't have a
blood
transfusion from a that's what it's
going to destroy your internal makeup
your mid going to bring cruelty but
who
says and many others say that as well
it's not that the T animal the animal in
itself is problematic it's when says to
you stay away that it's problematic if
you eat it we told you not to eat it and
you ate it that can cause a problem to
your body but if says eat it
now doctor says you have to eat
have so is punishing you for doing what
he says says eat it you have to eat it
but you know you're going to get it I'm
going to change your internal makeup
does that make sense says nothing's
going to happen to him only when he eats
it then it's a spiritual thing somehow
in type of a way it can change and can
affect his body but that when he's doing
the right
thing the however
says 500 years ago the
greatest greatest he says even when one
eats he's forced to it's Aus if you put
your hand in fire it's going to burn
whether the like told you to do it the
what we is fire burns and the wrong
foods change our internal makeup that's
just the way created the world writes
the same so it's a tremendous tremendous
but even according to those that it does
change you that's when they told you not
to eat and you ate when they told you to
eat and you ate because you ate it but
nobody says anything about the
transplant nobody says anything about
the blood transfusion that goes into
your body not through your mouth the
problem is the eating the eating can
affect you but who says in other areas
so say can you take it or
not yes however you shouldn't take
it why because there another
issue Bas we learn don't take Sedaka
from a Yi
why because it gives them such a big
upstairs it delays the of it delays the
G it's a big MIT so this guy wants to
atone for what we what he did we don't
want him to have an atonement let him
suffer forever and ever and G him take
care of him and we don't want to delay
the G by saving a Jewish life it's galic
what he could do we don't want to do
that so if it was up to you we should
say no if it's a you must take it no
question about it that overrides
everything except for three so if it's a
no question doesn't make a difference
what part of the body is take it but if
it's not a and we can wait or can take
it from somebody else a obviously take
it from there there was a with
the that he was hospitalized in Mount
siai Hospital in New York and he needed
the blood transfusion so he had two
doctors Dr hman and Dr heig just many
years ago and he said to them please
make sure that I only get Jewish blood I
don't want non-jewish blood he said what
do you mean I don't
want okay they had a technical
difficulty getting D Jewish BL so they
said they came to him and said we found
Jewish Bloods no problem but it was a
blood as soon as they started putting it
into his body his body started shivering
and W he couldn't relax and he started
yelling no no no no no no n blood no n
blood no n blood and they never saw
anything like it they took it out of his
body and immediately it was fine very
very strange 18 years later he was sick
again again he was hospitalized in Mount
sa this was the last time he's going to
get sick before he left and went
upstairs and again needed a blood
transfusion the doctor comes to him and
says Doctor please make sure that I only
get Jewish blood doctor looks at him
says that's a very strange thing I never
heard Z request before what do you mean
Jewish blood is there Jewish blood is
redder was it sweeter what do you mean
and he says listen go down to the files
downstairs you'll see my records you'll
understand he went downstairs and in
fact he saw this body rejects any
non-jewish blood that's what the doctors
wrote so he put him on a radio that is
looking for Jewish people to donate
blood for a very special Rabbi and they
were able to give him Jewish
blood specifically
from that I don't know that I don't know
you mean for a birthday boy according
what we said before was je Jewish blood
from B for a birthday boy Bala according
to what we said before you said you
about the terrorist right about the why
why do we heal them why say they're
dying why do we take them into hospital
and treat them I think we spoke about
this a few weeks ago when a doctor asked
me does he have a obligation to treat
aasik that they caught and he's injured
and the answer is you must take care of
him why I brought a that proves
it not going to go through the whole
proof but the bottom line is today if
you don't treat is going to be major
major AA animosity and that's that
they're going to do to our hostages to
our injured people and not only between
us and them all over the world this can
endanger Jewish lives and because of
this concept of AA you must treat them
no question about it s question about
someone and they have to shab give her
food to take non meat and and give her I
remember the I don't remember why but it
was basically to
rather like you were saying
Tov then for to eat that's not the
reason it's the it's a famous and the
reason is because you do
one and you end it but when you're
eating the food every Kaz is another
love another love another love not
everybody agrees that's what thean
says our soldiers conquered invaded and
conquered many homes in
Aza they don't know how long they're
going to be there they're there now
today they're going to be there for a
week for two weeks for 6 months who
knows can they light kanaka candles in
those
homes is it their homes they are a
person who is homeless doesn't light
kanuka candles he's exempt from the
mitzah but they have a home it's not
their home is it their home how do we
view this can they light kanaka candles
in this place
you say no are they actually staying in
the houses sure really sure yeah you
want to stay in the street there are no
streets anymore a few homes left but
there are no streets that's their home
for that
time when doesn't have to be your home
is it their
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home for the hotel I paid now it's my
place for the next 24 hours for the next
week we their come what about a person
who's single a
widower doesn't have they live in a
different time zone they live in
Australia which a big shout
out they don't have he doesn't have he
is the par same time
zone even in different time zone many
say it's okay but it's it's it's a
question I don't think they have from
the owners they definitely don't the
owners want them dead so does that make
a difference didn't the owners give up
ownership when they ran away and made it
HEK are they still the owners do they
even know if there's going to be house
when they come back they're assuming
they're hoping so you ran away from your
house he you made it he what's our
who he you run away
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princip so coming back to what we
discussed if you live in
and you need blood the chance they're
going to get Goa blood right and even
even in Nell if they need a body part or
something they don't if it's available
don't
say we said it's not a problem we said
it's not a problem only eating it can
cause problems even to those according
to those opinions that say that even
when you're it can still that's the it
can change you inside but that's when
you eat things not when you plug them in
your body not your Mount there's no
problem why can't you say where you
sleep that belongs to you so since
you're sleeping there so it's like yours
and therefore then it's like it's like
your I have a bigger question on you who
says it has to belong to you we don't
find there's no such thing as the house
has to be owned by
you when you go to your friend so you
don't light when your friend Liv you you
stay in his place for a week so you
don't light of course you light there's
no such thing as the house has to belong
to you and since right now this is their
home they have to light I just trying to
fool you a little no question no problem
they can
light what if a person lights hanaka
candles and 3 seconds after he finish
lighting a siren goes off so they all
ran to the uh shelter to the to the mad
and they stay there for a full hour
because the Rockets keep coming for a
full hour they come out and the comes
out that not even even one minute forget
about half an hour nobody was in the
streets nobody so there was
no or if the rocket
hit close by and shatter the glass box
and theuk and everything fell and it was
it was a maybe 15 seconds we told you to
light for for half an hour but it was on
only for 15 seconds was the person in
these two cases
y so clear to you why yes why yes
because the lighting is done last 1 hour
whatever but the fact that you L it and
it's not due to your ca that it's gone
are you sure about this I think so are
you sure yes or no yes don't be afraid
good you have to be sure the rule
is if the candles blow out you don't
have to
relight if you lifted in a place where
it can't stand for half an hour you did
something wrong you didn't put enough
oil but if you lit in a koser manner and
you did whatever external reasons caused
it to blow out not our problem and is
even when there is time of peace there's
no sirens and there's no rockets and I
light outside in the right time can I
force all my neighbors come come come
see my if they want to stay home so I'm
not so what if nobody went in the
streets that's not my problem K
instituted to light it in a place where
there is potential but can't force all
the people to come D to my house what if
I want to come to some see somebody else
there's no
problem yeah if you lit in a non-cure
manner it's not
not I was going to say very similar that
because normally this is a place where
people pass by just because of the
sirens and they are doing something
different I can't be responsible and
force people to come to my house to see
it question is if the siren started and
then he LS and then he goes in since
they only told you to stay in the mad
for 10 minutes you don't know that
there's going to be more and more and
more missiles throwing at you all you
heard is one sir so you run downstairs
for 10 minutes you should be there you
go out there's no you can't you're not a
prophet you don't know what's going to
be famous question of the B I think we
spoke about it last year why eight days
where when seemingly kanuka should be
celebrated only for seven days after all
they had enough oil for one night so the
miracle transpired in the next
subsequent seven nights not eight so why
do we need to celebrate eight we should
celebrate only for seven so there are
more than 1,000 answers to this question
if we will start only saying you know
two 300 will be here until next hanuka
so we're going to spare you that we also
shared a few last time but from the says
the I
think we once spoke about just last year
I think we spoke about
him that's him right that was I said it
but we said about this old why he made
aah remember the with the diamonds with
the Pebbles we started this week so the
says I think that the stamp of the on
that jug of oil was the
letter was his
name says
the
represents the bigun the eight is eight
the eight Royal garments theun garment
the priest special garments that with
that he is superior to other kohanim
that singles him
out is also shows that he was clinging
to the 13 attributes of Mercy how does
eight turn into 13 so he says how do you
write in Hebrew it's a VAV and a z you
connect them together that's a
V and Z together is how much V is six Z
seven 13 that's 13 attributes of
Mercy since that was his stamp and
that's what they found so to commemorate
what they found with that stamp of they
made it days they made it eight days
for said last night we all say right yes
can it be that somebody said shean last
night he is healthy everybody is y
everything was done correctly perfect
but he's going to have to sayu again
tonight he didn't buy a new garment or a
new kanuk a silver W no same kanuk a did
you know same type of kanuk nothing
special that requires a it's for the
lighting itself there's no new people
here the same people from yesterday and
yet he saidu last night and he's going
to say again tonight or sometimes it
happens you say it the first night and
then four or five days later again you
have to say no vows no uh people who
were sick everybody is healthy he was y
the first time around he didn't buy
anything that requires a shanu and yet
he's have to say shanu again four or
five days later tonight can it be
somebody who did not hear it doing that
and that person can't say the and I just
said that's not part of the equation
everybody heard it who was here they all
y they all said it the guy's by himself
last he said it
he he made
the why would you
say but we
don't
right are you familiar
with that requires you to if you made
the made out of wood worth three
shekels you would pull out I'm not
familiar not
familiar no that was already suggested
before we rejected
that if you said last night you're not
going to
say and by the way you're in the same
town sorry if the if you met sh last
night and you've got new guests tonight
who have they make the Shan you don't
make it he had a baby you are going to
say again not for an external reason
like a new baby and not for a new
garment and not for a new for the
lighting for the
lighting it be he got married yesterday
m not for an external reason for the
lighting okay and if you got married his
his wife her last night by your parents
house or something that a a a what about
a you you're M or something h a
ffb was
Australia to
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America do we say when Lighting in the
sh first night why not what about a sh
that they don't die in their week days
many shs they only dive in the shabas
right so the first time you're going to
lighten that TR is shabus let's sayuka
started L like yesterday kanuka started
on Sunday or Monday and then you lit you
said on Sunday five days pass the first
time you're going lighten this Shool is
Friday night saysi that's the first time
in the requires so if you're that person
this year it's last night and tonight
tonight you're the or they offer you the
honor you to light the candles you're
going to say if it's that type of a that
doesn't meet week days only shabas
you're going to have to
again no it's a chance to advertise a
they have
joy you yell to publicize the of course
you confuse everyone in no you won't
before you start saying the you
say I heard in
a it's very the first time you like say
this you say it to them nobody's going
to yell at you nobody's going to be
surprised tell them and then you do it
isone this I don't know anyone who's not
masing to
it the whole thing that we say is in
itself so if you already why do you care
taging on one more it hurts
you say a few
more what should you check before you
start lighting the oil in this clear
otherwise you're not you're not is not
enough
oil works are good without wings there's
no Mitzvah what are you going to light
the glass the weather there is no wind
that we blow up Sunday and if it's bad
weather so bring an umbrella what's the
question again what should you check
before you light your
candles the
time it's the right place that the
wind's not going to blow
out
he says check
your
Che you're not going to Che what a
person are you why the
says and a three stranded cord will not
quickly be broken
right two people are better than one but
three three stranded uh cord will not be
severed what three m is on the right
side cand on the left side and you're in
the middle that's the three stranded
cord that cannot be broken and then he
says
not just like you
do the
mo on the right side
no no that's not
the that's related to that's for
different reasons because there will be
tremendous light in the time of M soon
speed in our days so much light is going
to be the night is going to be like a
day going to be to check it right now
singling that's what's going to happen
to the moon in the
sun
what's I know so I could have asked it
in this manner there is
Noah there is no night and yet when
should you check the at night two
answers and the answer would
be and and before lighting the candles
be no need to do that tonight because
you've got sh's candles you've got
cand the shabas candles are usually not
lit in the same place where the kanuk
isuk is at the entrance we have a mza
and and we want you to be in the middle
and then you have a three coordin
strand according to either that he
doesn't want you to check it publicly or
that that's something already built in
he wants you to put another Mitzvah on
you when you check something it can you
can make it kosher when it's already
built in you can't do anything about it
to you it's something your parents did
for you what's
that every single second so you say you
going to check the seat before you let
the C can't you take a that's last time
you saw it was Cas that's a good
question which is related to every
single morning when you check your Talis
it's a good question regarding the Talis
of shabis do you have have to check it
last shabas I folded it m shabas i put
it in the bag why do I have to check it
again nobody used it this morning I
check my Talis tomorrow morning do you
have to check it again it's this 30
years nothing went wrong why do you have
to check it again there aaka that it's
fine we rely on a kazaka when you can't
check the Kaka but when when it's easily
checked we don't r on the kazaka and
since you can check it's right in front
of you it takes you another 3 seconds
you can check it we don't rely on the
kazaka
maybe it was Tor maybe got strong T
something happens things do happen many
times you know you sit on your the chair
and something people step on it they
made when that you can check we don't
rely onak and therefore you should check
your Talis for shabis or Talis for
weekdays say how should you get dressed
before you light the
mono doesn't make a difference but you
wear put on jewelry
really should men put on
jewelry we better not have you don't
need to change your clothing if you
don't need to change your clothing the
doesn't agree with you
and writes this is a very dear Mitzvah
that only comes once a year and because
the angels are coming to your house as
well light the candles when you're
wearing your jacket malush Alon just
like you're going to the sh he wants you
to get dressed the same way you go to sh
and you should light in immediately as
you can
because another important thing since
we're talking about candles and we're
going to be lighting a lot of candles
the whole week There's a it's brought
the also brings
in and
the there's some things that if one does
he can lose his life one of them is
blowing out a candle like this with your
mouth one can lose his life for that
doesn't say why but it says it's
dangerous I once
asked if this is applicable only to the
candle or to all candles I think most
people for some reason think it only is
applicable for the medes doesn't say
that and told me you should be careful
in all candles even birthday candles so
we said last year didn't hold the
birthday he said that's only for going
because the only one we found this in
this is the only one that we have in
tanak that has a birthday but anyways
one can lose
I know think he say we used to celebrate
it doesn't agree many others don't agree
and many the other say yes I think we
discussed it maybe last year but um one
can lose his wife be careful you can do
like this you can do this come up with
all kind of tricks what you need to do
to blow out candles I think maybe maybe
the reason is it's not brought I didn't
see any sources for this but the
says the candle alludes to so when you
blow out the candle which all loses to
as if you can blow out your own
extinguish your differ since you brought
up the point of lighting as soon as you
can in Hearts we always lit after say we
need to light ear first of all welcome
to that you're
in you don't have to rely on all kinds
of things that they do in different
places we like to do things and depends
if you're if if you're you light say if
asazi between and say at one point some
do immediately at 10 minutes later 15
minutes later 20 minutes later but after
that that's not the time of you're still
as long as the people are still out
there but it's not and we like to do
things how
many some do some do 10 minutes later
it's not not first night
before every single night that you light
first according to theik Min at
some hold 10 minutes after some holds 15
minutes some hold 20 minutes I'm giving
you opinions
of and a few
others anyway in between that you're
good to
go later you're still
your is there a height restriction of
how high in the building you can like if
you're beyond the second or third or
fourth as high up as the you're living
in so there's no reason for you to light
inside light
outside I light inside but I also want
to light for the coming into the
building but coming into the building
they know it's me I can light on my
porch is is there a height restriction
there is a height restrictions with
there's 20 AMA more than 20 about 6 M
but in many buildings today if you light
in a higher place of that anyways the
buildings next door to you are seeing it
but anyway since you're lighting inside
it's less of a problem because once you
light inside you can even light on your
kitchen table and nobody's going to see
it only your household members so we're
a little more lenient with that but can
also light outside
as a very very strange riddle how many
candles do you like the first
night one can it be that a person will
be required we will instruct him to
light eight candles on the first
night and but we don't
pass
pass mashia is still not
here and if you think that's strange
will make it even stranger how many
candles you light in the second
night mhm can it be that there's a
person that will instruct him to light
eight candles on the second night you
know what every single night eight
candles every single night the whole can
it be you can say no but you'll be
incorrect can it be how how can it be
that you light every single night eight
candles that everybody
together one by
one no we have 1 2 3 4 b or
8765 you have eight members in your
family a person is by himself and he
will light eight candles in the same
Mina every single night and you exactly
which day is what of well if he doesn't
know we'll tell him you tell him oh it's
the first night you have to light
candles still I with what he has to be
only one candle for when he comes and
asks tell me how many candles should I
light well tell you have to light eight
the following morning comes how many
candles you light tonight eight saying
he has light this a scenario he has to
light eight that's the question yes can
it be that one should let we will
instruct a person like he's going to be
y That's not the question am asking when
will you instruct a person to light
eight candles not only the first night
but every single night after you just ch
every day good for him so he does trua
wants to wreck it with doing the wrong
number of candles what kind of trua is
that who is this person like to meet
him with a
tremendous we
learn going up 1 2 3 4 5 b going down
why why basically want to count how many
days are still left or that passed pass
are passed sh want to
count how many days are left that's one
opinion and the other
opinioned corresponding to the that we
bring sukus there's a whole big reason
why what's the connection between sukus
and Kana but you see already
demonstrates that there is an inion to
go down in numbers every single day in
suus they would bring lessos than the
day before so you do the same thing but
B say you can't do that because what
happens if you do you're going against
the
rule you always move up in levels of K
you don't go down if you're going to do
eight today tomorrow you're going to go
down to seven no
good good we passing like B right no
question but what if a person comes to
us and says the doctors said I have
exactly 3 hours to go it's 4 p.m. last
night and he calls us he says listen
doctor said 3 hours maybe 3 and a half
hours max that's all I have what should
we instruct him to do if he liks one
candle what did he do he didn't fulfill
the reason of
B he didn't do anything at least if he's
going to do according to B the first
night the eight candles at least he did
something it's corresponding to the
candle to the amount of coros that it
diminishes with time this he did
something that's the first night what if
a miracle happened somehow he's still
around he didn't die he calls the
following day say you're not going to
believe it I'm still here but now the do
saying not maybe an hour and a half I
have to go maybe for sure they're saying
I'm I'm going to die no no question what
should we tell him then well if you
already started like the go down to
seven you can't do
that so you know what sick with eight
again but what if he somehow is still
here tomorrow and every single day the
doctors are promising us he's going to
die he has a few hours since he started
with eight and he can't go down suggest
the St sad he should continue lighting
eight every single
day he should say every day also maybe
he should switch
doctors no you Swit your doctors you'll
die he will live for many many more
years a diagnos every days AG
go once we come to the reason of not you
should just be sick the first day and
then get a
complete because what are you going to
do you're going to
go he's he's clear about the first night
he wants to say that perhaps even if
he's still around the second third and
fourth day he should still continue
because of this problem technical
problem
of so he's leaving it with a question
mark about the rest of the days by the
first day is clear to
him if this happened on the fourth night
he got this diagnosis he lights the
fifth day for 8 no no no you can't
there's no reason to jump you started
with with B stick with b no reason you
started with one two tonight is going to
be for you're going to fulfill the
reason for
b no problem and on the same scenar said
if the third day the doctor said recheck
you are fine you believe in0 years so
then he has a problem like he said
because he's going to have a and we
don't do that we're only we ascending
level we don't go down even though
that's what he's saying that's what he's
saying can it be that there's any part
of the mitvah of kanuk that we do which
is where isuk
written it's not it's
rabic but can it be that anything that
we do during is actually from
the the says that applies to any because
commanded you and you're commanded by to
listen to them so you can
say what to listen
to but is there any Mitzvah itself that
you do on that is from
the that's
a
says he says the that we say on the days
of is why because the
says don't's name from the
words
learnes so when you publ in the nest by
saying thank you to by saying that's a
to publicize the wherever it
happened on that
point how come we say full Hal on when
we destroy when we had a war with
someone when we have war with the Greeks
and we won but on
PESA when we we beat the the Egyptians
we don't say full you beat the Egyptians
you fought with them we didn't fight
with them whoever took out of
Egypt some of them drowned drown but you
didn't beat him because you didn't fight
them but what what's there in PES we
don't say right here we do
say even though people would
people go would kill and that's
reason one of the reasons we don't say
in PES off is because the
hashem's people
that's
the that's the they wanted to
say and you want to sing that's to them
not to
us we'll speak about because we have to
speak not only about and we have to
continue and stretch it to the other and
decide why we say in different sometimes
and sometimes we don't so remind me
we'll speak about it we have to stretch
it and elaborate we don't have too much
time
learning is very important we always
know that even more so in why because
they decid they
wanted they wanted to us to forget the
says in these days it's very important
to be learning but not only for that
reason I don't know who told but he says
because during is when the secrets of
were revealed to
mosu and therefore you have an inan
today not only to praise and to sing to
thank him but also to Le these are
special special propitious
times
say that if you light the candle candles
of candles ofab you can have kids who
are who should prepare the
candles you normally prepare them and
then you light them says
the the woman should prepare the
candles it's sh to her as well you know
it's also her kids and lighting candles
is also part of her mitzah it comes out
based on this is what he says it comes
based
on that it's a beautiful
partnership we learn that the man should
prepare the candles for his
wife and she should prepare for him
beautiful partnership and for that they
will Merit to have in
fact another
unbelievable when you or have a whether
to say a or not all do you say or not no
except
for but all other blessings are the rule
is is there any that you should say when
you have a suff you have a suff and say
you should still say the can it
be
because other than
that
my kids would
say why
says we're going to say even though
there is
a normally we say only re nature you
can't say when you have a
says
what why because if you're not going to
say the people say oh I guess he needs a
little light here it's not L enough in
the room or outside he needs to see
something he needs a flashlight people
will mistakenly think you're not doing
it for the Mitzvah only if you're going
to say the they will understand this
belongs to the Mitzvah and therefore he
says even though he explains the the
opinion of the tool even though you have
a suff in this specific case you have to
say and that's a
tremendous another great from
the what should you get extra we said
learning no question about it that's
always good
what else specifically for kanuk should
one be stried to get M during these
days that we said no question about it
says
that he asks why is it
that performed the miracle daa with the
oil for the not with the wine for the
for the Libations why not with thees for
the why dka with this item called oil
which is used for lighting because
wanted to demonstrate that the Greeks do
not have the to
remove from from the house why
because we learn that the
was that's the language of it was a
testimony to all the inhabitants of the
world
that is in that's in the
house so the cannot remove it that's why
specifically in the which is a testimony
that the resides with us that's why made
the miracle in the oil and therefore he
says it's clear that the right thing the
appropriate thing to be M and during
these days
is because our today is a
Min and he says I've seen a terrible
thing that people speak in the middle of
govering in the middle of that we fixed
we don't have the problem the time of
but he says you know it's good for the
history books for some reason he says
back in his time he saw this terrible
thing and he says there is no greater
disgrace that you come to A's house and
in his own house where the resides you
desecrate him it says there's no greater
sin than that so it's
not but if you ever heard of such a
thing exist anywhere just tell
them
um you heard what happened 3 weeks ago
why one of the houses here in
a family came shabas you heard about the
the r terrible my a family went away for
chabas and M shabas they came in the
door was already open so they realized
something is wrong because they locked
the door so they go in the house was
destroyed they stole everything they
cleaned them out they even took the
cookies from the
fridge they uprooted the tiles because
they thought maybe the guy is hiding
some dollars under the tiles they tore
the couches because maybe the guy
stooped something inside the place was
the family with five kids they come home
and they're looking around the mom is
are destroyed and then the father saw on
a corner there there a tiny little grape
juice you know what they get M the seven
shekele little bottles he saw he saw
this so look look they didn't touch it
look look look so he called all his kids
he says call the ne I want to
do they look at him
daddy they destroyed our house all
that's left is a seven shekel G grap
juice we don't even like this grap juice
had call all the neighbors I want to and
they saw the guy lost it they called The
Neighbors down he said to all them sit
down let's
do and then he realized they even stole
the chairs said okay we'll
stand and they look at him like what's
wrong with you what is wrong with him
said that's the story of they came into
bash what was there they destroyed
everything they even took the cookies
from the fridge they stole everything
they defiled everything
oh we found a little tiny jug of oil
let's celebrate for eight days what are
you
celebrating they destroyed everything
the house of and you're celebrating you
want to
do yes because that's the story of
kanuka you look at what you have and not
at what you don't have you look at the
Small Miracles that you think are small
and when you do that and you recognize
it and you say thank you to will show
you with much more I suggest strongly
each person should have a little should
have a little booklet give to your
family members as well write down the
Nim that you see every single day of
your life Friday night chis
table you read it out loud to the family
ask your family members to read it to
you when you recognize A's Miracles and
you say thank you even for small ones
appreciates it and he will give us much
much much
more just want to
finish with a fact which we all know
it's not a secret
we are surrounded by enemies from all
directions we're like a sheep around 70
Nations 70 wolves they want to devour
us the we just read in
says going surround me and only with
aem's name can I cut them
down who are these people these nations
that surround us the bris explained the
says
strength he
is he's splitting mountains and
shattering Boulders what are these
Boulders what
isim sah Boulders are the Nations that
surround us that's
the is Syria L is
Lebanon is AA yud is yarden Jordan and
me is MIT Egypt they surround me and
then the p
saysi a circle and another Circle there
the first Circle the second circle is
turkey Iran and Iraq and if one thinks
that we can go and fight them with our
the power of our arms the P
says the only way to fight him and the
only way to be successful is to use's
name because the following
says what does that mean they surround
me like bees
what kind of an allegory is that they
are like bees the
says a circle and another Circle and we
are right in the middle between all
these nations so what does it mean they
are like bees is
a
says the amorites dwelling in that
mountain came out told you and then what
happened and they pursued you as bees do
what does it mean they Chas that like
like the bees do Rashi explains just
like a bee dies instantly as soon as it
stings the person so too as soon as the
amorites touched us they immediately
died these isim are just like the P
because they don't care to die they're
just like the bees and therefore if one
thinks you can frighten them with the
bow and the arrow you can fighten them
with our guns with our tanks and with
our Air Force the only way it can work
is bashem has
we can cut them down we can destroy all
of
them that's the only way it works so
perform tremendous Miracles we said last
night in the we're going to say it today
we're going to say it in next few days
of
request
is