How it felt to be in a war zone, with Ari Weiss⚠️ (audio podcast)

very excited thank you you think you're excited imagine what I am I'm very excited so you you were actually in Israel in I was petrified for you like because and not [Music] because it was explain a little bit psychology that's I'm saying the the psychology was crazy like we were all in shock you weren't even able to ground yourself yeah like now you can ground yourself but for you in that moment Ali what was what was the experience so I'll explain my my the most hard experience for me was I was walking in shalam right after it all happened obviously while it's happening we're sitting in Shi the second day of yam in Israel I don't know if you guys are aware Israel is only keep one day and we keep two days so for us it's yum to shiny and we we all had plans on booking like singers and music and it was supposed to be like this amazing second day that the only reason I went for because everyone always talks about the second day every the dancing the dancing with the to with music and it's so amazing so that's what I had imagined the whole time and then I come there and I'm like yeah is gonna be here and FY is coming there and this is gonna and I come to all these places and everyone is down and you look at them and I'm like where's the music and they're like no canceled so I went toisa and I asked over there they have Yi Londo and all the big guys I'm like supposed to be here they're like yeah he called in today in the morning he said he's not coming so he said what do you mean they offered him double the money they said you charge this and this amount double it he said you can double whatever you want I'm not coming they even they Yol offed him tripled the amount that he asked he said I am not coming they did not want to go think about it all their neighbors were called in everyone that itself didn't hit me until the next day I'm walking in the streets streets are empty it's nothing there loaded with cops loaded with soldiers and it's but but I'm thinking the people that did come out already all of a sudden we're walking the alarm goes off I took a video of this you cannot understand how 1:30 in the afternoon the street that had very little people but still had people within a couple of seconds it's empty you you can't you can hear flies going and you hear the sirens and then everyone takes cover the side of buildings underneath roofs the cops were hiding with us the cops they're standing with guns and you see these people adults that are trained and you can see in their eyes the fear is real and everyone is D you see people that you don't even realize yeah they're Jew they live in Israel but you don't realize they know how to say sh you don't you don't understand it you know it's like oh this girl is wearing pants and we don't know what they go through in life we don't know how they were raised but all of a sudden everyone is crouched up you nor makes the sound the lady cups the men cups theur the the all are bent over in the side and everyone's mouth is murmuring hasem watch us Hashem I hope it doesn't hit I hope the how did you feel in that moment was your heart racing you feel anxiety so right so right then in the beginning so I'll explain the beginning first the first time I don't even know how to say this it was a an was pretty action because you hear the sirens right so you're like oh wait this happening this so cool right first thinking this is cool but the sirens end the wow Sirens don't end when it lands the sirens warn you to hide once the Rockets are there it gets quiet as soon as the sirens ended and the quiet hit the quietness hit it was a type of quietness I never experienced in my life it was like no no one saying anything older mouth stop and we're all waiting to hear where the Boom is and then we started hearing boom boom boom and literally the floor was Shak Bing and one rocket actually hit next to shal it hit a musk in the Arabic neighborhood they hit themselves so what's it called so I hear myself so as soon as we hear the boom boom booms that's when I felt like wait is this the end do I say krishma now is it over is it the beginning it goes to a place place where it's so quiet and scary that it's almost at a level of where you're making peace with your own self yeah that's what say but when you face death really really you faced death in that moment you knew there's like a chance that this hit me I I I didn't know what to know I was at a point where I I didn't know if I'm calm or if I'm nervous I had no idea called Frozen that's frozen psychology it's called Frozen yeah but it was so clear that I'm frozen that I didn't even know that I'm frozen I felt like w like you like literally I felt every one of my heart pounds boom I looked at my brother shy he looked at me yeah I were like and all of a sudden like after this we're all like frozen there and the cops are like okay it's good it's good and we're like wait we can go now yeah like we literally like we were glued there and we're like C wait can we go the guy's like yeah yeah you're good and I'm like that that's where it also hit me again like are these people walking around like if nothing happened like they're used to this their life there is literally used to something like this it's you can't explain it wow it's it's it's insane wow so then you would there for another two or three right so yeah I was stuck there actually how does that feeling how does that feel how does it feel to be stuck in a war zone when you have no idea what's gonna happen and there's no way out so like I'm a little bit I'm a little bit okay so right away hold on a second I have a guy that's dropped me off I'm live yeah yeah I'm waiting right here found it got it okay I'm waiting right here anyhow I'm doing a favor some one I'm heading to Lakewood from bar Parks I'm already picking up something from Z for some someone why not but anyhow so for me I'm a little cuckoo I'm crazy so as soon as I heard that my flight is canceled I thought to myself listen I'm single I don't have kids I have no one like I have a family obviously but all these army people they're not in the Army now they were in the Army they're on reserve everyone in Israel is always going to be on reserve because everyone was supposed to be in the Army and then when you go home it's not like oh you're free the country needs you you go back all these people they do have wives they do have children and they got woken up or called from somewhere and they have to go and I thought to myself oh I have EMP training I was in slsb AMS if I'm stuck here I'm going to help I right always started making phone calls friends that are in the Army friends that are in this how can I go help and I told I literally called up my mother I might have done that just to scare her honest but right away I'm sorry Mommy if you're watching but right away I got on I'm like listen this is my choice they're like no don't go you're crazy I told him listen I'm gonna adult if I choose now to join the Army it's my choice you did well he raised me I'm here I'm choosing to go and I was trying for a couple of days I was trying to get in touch with the right people to go literally there and try to help as much as I can but uh it took a very long time and until everything it's it's more complicating than it sounds but uh yeah that's where that's where my mind went but on the people there I know people that were I was everywhere you were there you were in Israel l you you had a different walking on the street crying and it came to a point where I stopped asking like why you crying what's going on cuz I already know either someone that they loved is gone or someone got kidnapped or they don't know where someone is literally I I I had a friend and a guy that I met there we're middle of walking it starts crying I'm like what's going on I don't know my sister hasn't been picking up for four hours then she does pick up but the the the way how people think there is like imagine living like that it's unbelievable imagine someone doesn't ask answer your phone call doing America okay they're busy they went to a mall they don't have patience for me and Israel it's like wait are they in the Army now did they go back wait which unit was this which area oh over there did it it hit the right away you start thinking imagine a person living their life with that kind of fear it's crazy yeah yeah we had some good news today what good we we got another hostage back a baby oh yeah today we got a baby back yesterday we got a a girl and how are they get only one hostage I mean I'm not I'm I'm not so into the news so what are they all these hostages I thought they're like in one place so I'll be honest if I would have known I would have answered you but the true answer right now is I promise you I have no idea but I can give it a speculation what I imagine but that's that's purely guys whoever is watching all the one this is purely my stomach pain that's going out it's not knowledge I don't know it I I don't know but I'm I'm just it's not going to be fake news because uh baby is fake news so I don't know pictures going around no I heard that it's a real real thing I ALS saw that it's a fake news but um but I guess then again I don't know what's fake and what's real I'm not a News Channel all I do is I sometimes uh give restaurants some hell and sometimes some heaven and I try to get good food but yeah that's not my department and I'm telling you right now what I'm thinking out of pure as you call it in yish is probably that they're not smartart enough to keep them all in a I mean they're not stupid enough to keep them all in one place I'm assuming they keep them in different places like that if one place get they find them they don't find everyone and they still have something but that's that's just how I'm not even gonna say that's how I would do it because that's no don't don't put me in that wow I don't have words but I do want to ask lately a lot of videos are going around from really horrible things yeah like today it's not all you see is a picture of a child and a sister and you see blood on the floor yeah it's not even a real it's not even a video of something happening but they're taking such a picture they're putting it out there and it's literally crushing not not just me every eat a lot of these a lot of these things come from people from that side because in order to win a war the best way to do it is you crush people's hopes and you take people's energy and you put in a downward the reason why the soldiers keep on spreading love and dancing and M in and all the people are throwing up on tanks and they're waving flags is to show no matter what we go through our Spirits are higher we're going to fight with our heads up but these I'm very very strongly um asking everybody to do your best if you see such things obviously don't hate on it I don't forward it such things it's it's really not good for us and when you forward it around just like when we see something from that side that we got them we got a building down this happened to them our hearts in a way we are human beings and we we don't think of them as human being so right away we're like yes it makes yeah you see how it raises our Spirits when they see it it Downs their Spirits so we shouldn't send around their happiness and our sadness to everybody let's keep F happy let's keep us yeah it's very serious and it's very nice what people are doing donating and I'm Ser the amount of money I've seen people donating and giving away from you so Bloomberg gave today like $44 million to the mova the yeah hear I hear listen for him it's like you giving a doar yeah know but I'm saying for them I don't know what they can build a hospital with this money you have a a wide I would say just a wide view on seeing things not just seeing it as as it is but also what appreciate that H coming from I know you're a loving guy thank you the negative affect you yeah and and that's that's by the way my struggle because it it it the negative wants to express itself the pain wants to express a mechan iig you can't always run away from it by the way one compliment I have to give you here on the live I know it's probably very very hard Al as men I know it's a it's a very kind mcken hunt men and I know they probably I heard a whole joke that they wanted to change the iPhone 15 Pro Max to be gender neutral and age fluid so it's GNA be called the iPhone thumbs up emoji it can be 15 and it can be Max because maybe it's a m so there's a whole joke how they said that but I know today that you can't really say that but us guys we were a guy is raised that we don't talk about emotion we don't talk about feeling this is a woman thing for me to see shine shine a cute bias the the but for you to be able to come out and say hey it's not easy yeah foraying and by the way I wish my dream is so it happens to be that this war brought up so many feelings for people that they had no choice but to express it and yeah let's be honest stories did come up over here they got to trauma that our parents and grandparents went through everything came up over here so people had no choice but to feel their feelings and that's why that's why we have a crisis right now that people are feeling and they have no idea what to do everybody was involved one way or another they had no choice but to either support or to or to DAV or to send money people weren't working nobody was working that week I I I know all the groups were busy you know says G because people were feeling they had no choice says it becomes but unfortunately I have to add unfortunately here in America it got weakened it's not a very good the first couple of days everybody opens their heart everybody's making groups by the way if I have people in the crowd in the audience right now that are from Queens send in a hard button cuz for the Queen's people I have a compliment somehow the Queens I've been in Queens I've been in Williamsburg I'm on of all areas when you go around in Queens every store has a kidnapped sign every store has ice every store has iand with Israel I don't know if if it's a community thing or if it's a group there but a shout out to the Queens un unbelievable amount of support I have a friend the soldier and he's he even even he told me like he gets back and you know yeah a lot of people say I have family soldiers and it's very nice but then there's the so soldiers that we know that they're really actually in Gaza and they're like literally risking they're not like standing oh call our respect to every Soldier but we all have that one person that someone knows that he is like in the real yeah you know what I mean like he's in the real deal and I have a soldier like that and he literally texted me he's like no matter what it is our Spirits are raised because every time we do get a little break and we do end up in our place and we go on to social media and we look around we see oh there's the parade in Manhattan wow look at how many people came with flags they're caring for us yeah wow you know I saw that in New York they're putting missing signs like wow yeah no one in New York is gonna be able to say I found them because we know where they're missing we know where they're kidnapped no the Arab is not gonna say I'm G to give it back it's the support they and in Queens it is unbelievable What the residents the business owners it's a beautiful beautiful thing if that was going on in B Park and then Williamsburg and all over I'm not saying it was physic help but it would definitely help our saw people get feedback it's a new world everything is on the phone we're two people we're having a conversation that happens to be in this moment 165 other Yas are sitting here and they're going along and if one of these people happens to be Imagine One imagine one of these listeners is a soldier in Israel and he's watching this and he's like wow you see that they're talking about me here yeah imagine that love tomorrow morning he goes out and he has his little terrible coffee that comes in a sandbag you know how they serve coffee in the Army yeah I'm I'm a food block I'm going to say this the food there is not good wow they once asked Gordon Ramsey what he thinks about airplane food you know what he answered what I'd rather walk like you have a flight from Dubai to America well how is the food I'd rather walk like that's how bad you cannot imagine they don't have the coffee like we do but they get but that little crappy sandback woffy that he lit up somehow with a chemical to make warm it's going to go down easier why because what do you mean I'm I'm here I'm part of this I'm getting the support the love everyone's sharing for me I know I'm on the good side good will always win and what it's it's a very very strong thing and and wow I didn't even know before I came on that this is a topic we're gonna talk about it's honor I I know know I know that you have a lot of feelings and you have opinions and you you have a way tough guy guys don't have feelings but but you have you have a way of communicating with people and making the their feelings feel validated so my question to you is H how do you actually stay positive like the feelings get overwhelming because people do say things and I saw many people that and it bothered me that they I saw these kind of words like they're coming for us or that we're in danger which we're in we have Safety and Security over here and people are just really projecting a lot of fear on random people that live here so I know personally so many of my friends or or even like single Le mothers that are living in fear because of just random that put on their status that were in danger and it's not true antisemitism under rise does not mean that an average person living right now in bar Park Lakewood or any of the borrows in any in the area of the Tri State it doesn't mean that we're in in danger yes there's anti-Semitism maybe on the rise and you're seeing it now more and yes there's a war in Israel but people are putting out crazy negativity so how do you ask me you asked me a couple of things so first I'll ask you about the me staying positive you want me to give you the truth roll hard or you want me to make it sweet and lie a little bit so you can go for the truth the truth R hard I'm not a Mal I'm not always positive I'm not always strong and I don't always feel what I show on Instagram obviously I'm a human being Instagram is more fake than you can ever imagin obviously there's a couple of people that try to keep it real and I try to keep it real I don't post my personal life um I'm actually very against personal life I do have a personal Instagram for close friends and yeah over there I follow my people that I want to see their stuff but staying positive once said if you wake up in the morning and you have nothing what to smile about and you walk out in the street and you don't smile to anyone no one's going to smile at you wow if you wake up and you smile and it smile is fake no one can smile for fake more than a couple of seconds that fake smile is going to turn into a real smile wow and it's true and once your fake smile turns into a real smile and someone sees that smile he had a terrible mning why is why are you smiling and he looks at you and it's like wow this guy is happy and when someone Smiles at you you can't be mad at them imagine you're mad at me and you're like oh look this and you're like smiling I know but hello yeah eventually like it mirrors off and if you want if you really want to have a smile you got to fake it sometimes and it will become real faking a smile is not a problem so you ask me how I stay positive and how I'm so strong I'm not I also have just like every other human being some days where I come home and I also you know in the winter when it's like really late but it's not really late 6 o00 but you feel like it's like a million o'clock already and you're sitting alone and you're like wait I wake up I go to work I come home I go to sleep I wake up I go to work I come home I go to sleep and you feel like the time is not going anywhere and your life is not moving forward and this is not just for someone that doesn't have it can be for the richest and happiest person it can be I wake up I tell good morning to my wife I go to my work I get a raise I go to lunch I come home I take a take back to my kids and then the next day the same exact thing it's not because it's a physical thing it's a mental thing a mental thing is a physical thing because physically you're using your mental but point is a lot of people have that and that's something that is a level of depression and the only way to fight depression is two ways as a ye the only way to fight depression is with hem why I always looked at it this way a someone that doesn't believe in Hashem when he has has a hard day who does he blame himself he blames this he blames that because it has to make sense and then he gets even more depressed I you know you you know you spoke to hasm it didn't go well who are you blaming marive so right away while you're blaming Hashem because you already believe hem because you're blaming him which is one of the strongest level one of the strongest levels of feelings is upsetness hatred so because you're already feeling so upset hasm did it to you you're automatically going to throw in aill of make it better tomorrow and that filla without you even realizing is giving you hope for a better tomorrow you get how beautiful that is and once you have hope for a better tomorrow your depression will automatically go away people say that Hashem is not a physical it's the most physical thing I'm not I'm not a big svic it makes you feel like you're not alone it makes exactly it gives you the best company in the world because you can't yell at them you can't blame them you can only hope and apologize and it literally makes a person into a men I'm not saying that I'm perfected myar is just as big as thear for me it's this for him it's that we all have our own things I'm not gonna make this all about you I'm gonna make it back to what you asked how I stay so positive and how I'm smiling it's not easy a lot of practice and a lot of pushing yourself for it then it'll get there but when it comes to what you were saying about being scared I'm on a group with my mother and every time before summer comes she puts out these messages that even scare me you know want to if you have a headache and you search on Google why do I have a headache I guarantee you Google is Google just pass death penalty yep y so you know how everyone always has the news it's good to be updated but to a level like when some group tells you like if you don't drink three cups of water now because in the next two days going to be a heat wave then you're automatically going to get dehydrated and magically die chill you're not dehydrated yet hello easy now they're saying oh it's Halloween so they're going to go around to the houses dressed up with masks and once you open they're going to attack everybody and everybody's going to die and get kidnapped I didn't see that because if I were I would probably be very scared hello I got it my mother forwarded on our family group Mommy if you're here please say something but I'm serious I literally got my mother posted and I asked her ma please really like the arabas that they're going to come trick or treat in Tom's River knock on your door for candy and once you open up you think your door let's say it's true you think they need your door open to attack you like like what are they attacking you with an M&M okay that he needs your door but if it's a stick or a cane or a gun hello you're done what is it gonna blow it up or the door is gonna help so it doesn't even make sense all these threats but what does it do scares everybody scary how can you smile when you get scared every 10 seconds but that's also what I was saying before stop spreading around these it takes people people aren't strong I sometimes I'm not people are laughing because it's it's I hear I hear listen the smile makes people smile I used to say that maybe people are laughing at me but as long as they're laughing and I do it long enough then they'll laugh with me yeah so when a person makes fun of you there's fun of you there's fun with you is a person can laugh at you and a person can laugh with you that's why every time I finish a joke I laugh at my own joke like that they can't laugh at me laughing together it's like DJ khed says you either watch us win or you win with us okay I hear so I I think you just said the same thing you either watch me laugh or you laugh with me yeah for me it's though different because they're gonna laugh anyway I just choose to laugh with them like that no one is laughing at me because I'm laughing too how can you laugh at me I'm laughing at me no we're all laughing together yeah like like I guess like he said or something right to the point to the point you said there's the the idea of a terrorist is there's many killers unfortunately in the world but the terrorist is about scaring they do Terror and what we're facing right now is cyber terrorism which means that through sending around videos and all the the fear that's going around no doubt yeah why do you think why you think they video it there's two reasons video the terrible videos they're videoing so we see it and we lose the you know that fire flame that we had the beginning to donate it automatically goes away yeah they keep on doing it so they keep on putting us down that's real reason number one reason number two they're videoing is because they're making themselves look good the people over here that don't know anything that are uneducated and it's even I cannot believe that you have to pick a side right like they keep on saying saying from The River To The Sea Palestine will be free so I have a couple of questions so number one the word Palestine what is it it's nothing it means absolutely nothing there's no such place as Palestine Palestine is a beautiful Israeli government that gave them territory so they can live with their own laws we won't bother them and they won't bother us Israel has one motto yeah leave me alone Israel will never go attack them they have one rule don't bother me you bother me I have to protect myself yeah and then from The River To The Sea I don't know which river they're talking about out and what I saw a video before actually here was really funny someone posted it so it it's this video where they say from The River To The Sea Palestine will be free so he takes this liberal guy and he tells him what river the guy goes I don't know there's no River there but then he shows him on the map here to here to here he goes oh so that's half of Syria have everything so what will Palestine be free of so they say Israelis so okay so you want Palestine will be free from Israelis so you're saying right now T Aviv for example where it's woke and it's like all these friendly whatever I'm not going to say exactly what no they're allowed to stay so basically they only have a problem with the Jew that's not the T Aviv style I'm not GNA go into details basically where you gonna send us to America to the free country yeah so you wanna it doesn't even make no if you by what you yeah what do you think about the unity how does do you I feel like since I was born there was never something like this where you like I go to the gym and random Jews will come over to me and like say hi or by the way even nsh people I feel like there's like crazy Unity now and support Unity is always like that un unfortunately it takes a tragic thing to wake up people and if this is the cost for Unity I'm not willing to spend it one Jewish life is not is not worth a million right a million of anything so unfortunately you know every time there was a Booker in bar Park that did this and mental health everybody gets woken up for a couple of months and then it dies out and then all of a sudden the big OA keeps on giving money to the moas and to them and to this and it just dies why because it's old news unfortunately the world is like that if I tell someone that tomorrow a plane will come and hit the twin towers and so and so much people will die he will say wow that's terrible it didn't happen so he won't cry about it but then the next day it happens he's not going to be in shock he's not going to go crazy why because it's as planned a person as as soon as you tell him a plan the plan can be horrible yeah I know it's coming okay like you know in by recess let's say I smacked the kid and he's bleeding from his nose the reab comes in after he says he kill me so how do you how do you save this you want the kid me the puncher I run out in the hallway and I start running to the rebb what happened I punched moi why'd you punch my she I don't know he made me so mad I lost control I don't know why I don't know what that me I punched him I think he's even bleeding what will that ever tell me don't worry I'll go and I'll check it out don't worry I'll take care of it don't do it again I promise I won't he goes into the class and mo she comes running ADI punch me look I'm bleeding I spoke to ADI sit down here's a tissue wipe your nose yeah but the other way around this NE would kill me what was he wouldn't even listen to me because he'd be so mad at me why because one he knows it's coming he knows what he has to deal with and it's done now if you didn't know the same exact thing if I tell people so and so many people are going to die it happens unfortunately it doesn't really do anything because it has plans but as soon as something comes out of the ordinary and it already happens that's where Unity comes in that's where everyone is shocked so my big issue is how do you take a community how do you take a cloud a folk and how do you tell them what are you waiting for tragic to be United be always United why do you have to get by the way this is how you tell it to them by the way and that's what I said and I said from the beginning I don't think it's worth the price right the price of unity to cause this is not normal but I'm saying I think it should always be like that I'm saying you have the opportunity to say it because you have t of I'm just another I'm just another schmuck that got lucky with a couple of followers on Instagram was me what makes me do anything who am I it's your part like like oh how are you always happy saying guy like everyone here I wake up in the morning sometimes in a bad mood if I don't brush my teeth you don't want to come anywhere near my block just like everyone else I'm human just like everyone guess what nothing is gonna make me different and get and a lot of some ones that follow me are even better than me better off they have they're more connected they're more open they worked on themselves harder listen we have to try and on my opinion I believe that a friend is a beautiful thing I believe that doing something kind for someone in a r random way is a beautiful thing and that's Unity that's that's what it's about the whole Everyone is always jealous the Jews they're sold together they're sold together they buy from Jews they don't even realize that for us it's pretty easy because is not buying by a Jew on purpose where can he buy Foods that's kosher who sells kosher food the Jew where can he buy a suit in G&G who owns G&G a Jew you won't see a Spanish guy or Italian selling Jewish suits a hit kova so when does he go into a non-jewish store to give them business they automatically think that we do it on purposely and that's why they're always all the Jews are sticking together all started don't buy by the Jew they don't buy from us you can't explain it that a lot of we have a lot of advantage that we grew up in the way we did and we it's how we live that we're together but are we really together besides for on the road when you see a random Jew and you shake with your head hello what makes us together okay you won't see a with another waving their heads oh you know the shake the highway yeah that togetherness imagine that is extended everywhere imagine every time in Florida I saw when I was young I grew up in bar park over here a boy doesn't talk to a girl and a girl doesn't talk to a boy and if you look a little more he's I worked in Florida I was probably 11 years old I walked in the street I was in chabas I walked to sh and as I walked by three girls they looked at me and they said g chabas and I was like huh I write answer gabas yeah and then after I realized that everyone was telling me gabas yeah I had I had I started I started answering and I I started smiling it made me happy hello we're here all together hello I'm a humanas to youas a a man doesn't really matter I'm Jewish I'm a human even I it got me so so strong nowadays it's a little weird sometimes it ruins off new people that I meet I walk in Manhattan I see a guy good morning sir it looks at me a lot of people that are fisen they're sad they're not going to tell me back in but you know how many people look at me and they I say with a smile yeah and they look back at me they go good morning to you too yeah and everyone is SM smiling imagine the whole world is like that right so the EMS is that we have to focus on the people that are like that because many people are like that are spreading love are positive are greeting each other in the Jewish community and and in the non Community there's a lot of people that are nice and want to become like guy you live in a Jersey New Jersey is a lot nicer than than New York than Brooklyn that being said I think that New York is also pretty nice New York is very nice but in Jersey they're calmer because they don't live on top of their neighbor yeah yeah yeah but and it's also you notice that we attract our energy so you're a nice guy and you feel when you walk into a place people tell you hi because that's what even somebody doesn't know you even if some people say I'm not a nice guy no I'm saying even if people don't know you you you give off that energy that if somebody were to tell you hi you would be nice to them back and that's that's who you are because I appreciate app it so but by the way the people that don't answer you hi don't annoy them because it takes time to warm up if you annoy them they'll be pissed at it yeah but consistently every day with the same smile tell him good morning I promise you after a couple of days he's gonna look at you with a smile and he's gonna answer you know why because he's gonna see that you're not just messing with him so I used to go to the same Starbucks and every time it' come in I tell the worker good morning thank you so much sometimes you're welcome I did it so often when I started saying they would stop with doing you're welcome yeah and smile I just and someone would see it and then I tell him good morning he realized that I really mean it keep doing that and on a bus tell him don't sit next to him tell him good morning don't ask him who his father is the V I give a hitch every time I see sometimes I drive out of my way to give a hitch why because I was a book and I stood on that same black and I know the feeling but when they come into the car I don't turn the music down and I ask them what lat time where you from who's your top I asked them one question how's the temperature a stay condition steam you're good Al sure and then in bar park where you going and I take them to wherever they're going W that's a way of life you see a person be genuine give them your actual true meaning we're all built to be nice people it's hard to to be angry is so so much harder I have to remember every fight and every person that did this and he did that leave me alone I'm just nice to everybody I forgive you it's yeah so much easier in life in the same way I forgive everyone I'm not mad I'll tell you good morning I'll smile to you I think that you don't want to smile back that's your choice yeah I think that kindness goes a long way and for me personally the week of when the strategy the the tragedy happened I started calling random people on my context and checking in on them and the next week I started messaging people randomly in middle of the week how are you doing today how are you feeling and this week I devoted myself to Red for people I I today I sent 10 different to 10 different people because acts of love and kindness caring and giving giving people hope and showing them that they hear for them you you're thinking about them you're caring for them is the nicest thing that we can do this is how way since you're saying that we have 121 people watching yeah 19 it keeps going up and down I want everybody for the next 24 hours to think of think about it this guy sitting here beautiful smile beautiful heart this guy is gonna take a woman going to give her a beautiful life that's it that matters a woman doesn't need anything in the world they need a beautiful life that's it someone is going to like them look at this guy a d heic and he's blushing I'm saying this in public he's probably not gonna save this life and I'm actually gonna come to an end because I gotta run I I I would love to talk to you I drove a whole bar Park while on while on live but on the highway yeah no it's not because I'm a GU because I'm selfish I want to listen to loud music um anyhow I'm definely gonna put this on my podcast as well so you can say I have watched so much more what I'm saying very well put put your hand there and ignore everybody here how that I sound see I also have a complex amaz be honest anyhow now I'm back with you guys but to end it up we have a lot of people here watching the Weber is a wonderful wonderful guy I vouch for him if you want information I know a lot of people thank I know a person that he knew very well and he was also a very nice guy and he takes a lot of love from him really and you remind me of him with certain things that you do but we're gonna focus on happiness there you go we're gonna focus on happiness gonna focus on happiness happiness there Weber have him in mind thank you that's it tomorrow tell he knows exactly talking about blah blah blah so he's asking you think hasem understood what he said so he told him heem he's my father he understood what I meant you don't have to get names ban yeah it's very nice to do that but if you don't have it de V have him in mind he's a nice guy a good guy he's here for you guys he gives away his days his time literally I know what it takes I don't post as much as he does I don't go through what he does and yeah people think it's a big paying money we're not sitting in palaces and driving rolls roises we also go to work I don't know where they take so yeah but anyhow he's a beautiful guy an amazing Soul let's get him something something nice but yeah listen them made often yet so beauti how many hours three hours yeah yeah amazing anyhow have a wonderful wonderful night you could stay on live I'm gonna go yeah it was a pleasure I'm sorry for everyone that I didn't respond right away U we were basically very very into our own thing but I love you all thank you for being here I don't go live a lot thank you for stopping by it's a pleasure and we'll stay posted I'm thank you we'll win this one and all the others to come that's what means a lot bigger than Hamas try to take us down we're not gonna let our Spirits go we started in and it's we went to every the Spanish the Germans Vang and everyone always tried to get rid of us but guess what we're right here and we're here to stay we will win this one we have AEM on our side we have beautiful people and have a wonderful good night I'm gonna stop talking now I love I love you thank you bye bye