Honoring Your Parents - Kibud Av V'Em

foreign it says is a story about a person by name of dhamma benatina dhamma benatina dhamma benatina was a was a non-jew that happened to have a very precious stone and one day the the hoshin of the coin gadol lost one of the stones they lost one of the stones they need to find a perfect Stone to replace this not just any stone they're not going to look in a little rocks just put something in their head it's good enough make a miracle make it into the stone you want no you have to find it very precious very valuable stone and only one person had it who nothing benetina so they heard it the rabbis heard about it they went to him and said oh listen we heard you're the one that has the stone we need it for our coin Godot without it is out of order we don't have a coin we have a breastplate we don't whole thing is everything has to be perfect it's like oh he's missing a stone big deal he still has another 11. no manage so how much do you want he tells them a price oh I want let's say a thousand a thousand bucks million bucks whatever he wants okay fine he goes and he sees that the Box that had the stone in it is under his father who's sleeping he goes back to the rabbi he says I'm sorry I can't sell it to you they realize oh maybe he realized how much we need it so maybe a thousand is not enough that's fine we'll give you ten thousand I'm sorry I still can't sell it to you okay no fine you agree to a thousand though we're gonna pay you a hundred thousand hundred thousand dollars we're gonna pay you cash no I can't sell it to you a million dollars we're gonna give you we need there's no other place to get it put the McDonald's out of order without this they don't care the price is irrelevant we'll go collect from people whatever we have to pay this guy the money this guy is greedy now he greet to a thousand I want he's not even agreeing to a million they will to give him a million no not willing to give 10 million no can't sell it to you after that they realize this guy is just uh is either greedy or he's crazy they leave they come back the next day because they realize they have no hope they figure maybe if we bring some cash with us throw it in his face do something convince him maybe yesterday he was mad at us I know something he started talking to him and say listen we came back from a stone oh yeah sure I I'll have it look at him fine he comes back he gives him the stone he goes in here for the original price of a thousand we agreed not 10 million he says they say whoa hold on a second 10 million we agreed but a thousand yesterday he explained to us what just happened here we're confused you're confusing us yesterday we offered you a thousand you said yes then you came back you said no we offered you 10 million you said no what happened it was all yesterday couldn't sell it to you why not what happened the stone was sick it called off it was off for the day it told you I don't want to be sold today I have a vacation I'm uh why what happened was no yesterday my father was sleeping on the box that had the stone in it and Shalom I didn't want to wake up my father and the gemara says you do not know anything about kibbood of I am you know nothing about honoring your parents until you learn from that was not well to take 10 million dollars just not to wake up his father us as soon as we wake up we want the father to wake up the mom to wake up and to make us breakfast and lunch and dinner and everything else and pay our bills too also learns lessons from all types of doesn't matter whether they're Jewish or not of course most of them were Jews but nonetheless if a non-jew said something that was extremely valuable Torah mentions it why because Italy's a document of truth it's not a document of uh of uh racism or uh or uh or lies and sometimes when something bad happens or one of the sadikim looks an unfavorable way it also mentions it even at times that moshebenu sinned which really in our in in our level it's not a sin but his level he sinned it mentions made a mistake he mentions made a sin why he said listen he saw through kodesh that is he's going to do idol worship he says you know what better off not get married the prophet came to him says tomorrow Hashem decided he's going to kill you why but all of Ami saw that you are because of me everybody's learning to us six-year-old kids know the entire by heart why does him killing me because you went against Hashem what went against Hashem the whole nation is learning to all no one works no one works put a sword in the ground he says whoever doesn't learn until I'm going to kill meaning only job you have is to learn to us that's it so what I wanna go against the sin says you decided that you're not going to get married yeah but that's because it's for Hashem because I know that my son from the marriage is gonna be Russia prophet Isaiah says that's not your husband that's not your math to make your obligate to Mitzvah of get married what happens happens after has nothing to do with you you do what you have to do you don't start doing accounting for Hashem he didn't give you prophecy in wahakodesh for you to start navigating the future for him imagine he says okay fine so would you let me marry your daughter I said okay marry my daughter foreign that's how much of a Sadiq he was when he made a mistake the Torah says it despite the fact that it doesn't look so good when um says that if the tables were turned and shaol came after David and David tried to kill Shaul Hashem would allowed to kill David meaning King David the one Messiah is coming from Shah was the biggest Sadiq show made a mistake he used witchcraft destroy hide it no highlights it actually says you lost you went against Hashem that's it you lost your king Hood oh can you please no he tells the prophet no Prophet no no come to me maybe I'll pray to Hashem together because I'm not praying with you why is Sadiq you went against the show I'm not praying with you please I beg you dude highlights it why you made a mistake it's true it happens so there's a lot of lessons to be learned both from Jews and non-jews but nonetheless if it's in a Torah that obviously means it's divine [Music] let me know what you think and make sure to share it because a lot of people need to learn to