Holy Women Of The Exodus - MUSSAR Pirkei Avot (87)

[Music] good to be here again doing our weekly Shure um is a uh lot of interesting things that are new that we bring today that I know is going to uh it's going to be a surprise to a lot of people um there's at least um one atomic bomb that I think is a like ra says uh there one atomic bomb that uh is necessary weapon that you need to use once in a while you know it's a uh uh Time Bomb of the truth meaning um that will bring to uh to to to you rabai that are watching here elsewhere um and as hard as sometimes the fight from the uh is against the truth um such as life that's the battle that's the battle you have to fight with um you know it's a uh when you are telling people nice sweet things and sweet stories and their ears okay so uh nice sweet stories in their ears and so on uh you um get people to enjoy the lecture but you don't get them to change you tell people that they're good you make people feel good about where they're at you tell people everything is going to be okay you tell people that uh Hashem loves you and gives them the impression that they don't necessarily need to work on their relationships not their relationships with their kids not their relationships with their spouse and definitely not their relationships with god um you give them the impression that everything's okay and whatever is not okay we'll be okay eventually uh that type of uh that type of speech destroys Souls it doesn't help them it destroys them and the reason why is because when people hear that they're okay then they're encouraged to stay exactly the same and they're not encouraged to change so even though people like to hear nice stories and nice things um if you're looking to change sometimes Change Is Not So Nice uh it's not necessarily meant to be mean but nonetheless it's not as pleasing to hear no one likes to hear that they're wrong no one 119 talks specifically about it is that a person could literally look himself in the mirror and see nothing wrong with himself sees everything wrong with everyone else and nothing wrong with himself so will have a um uh and also gel re davidor Leana sanaad and all of will have and also so today we'll talk about the next mishna uh in the series that we have and uh today we're up to number 87 but today we're going to see some things in the Paras that uh perhaps you've never seen before and not necessarily you didn't read it you read it if you read the weekly parha you read it but the parasa has so much happening in it with the plagues that there's a lot of small details there's a lot of small details within the par that it's very easy to miss uh I can tell you personally I just got it this year after reading the the weekly para every year for some time now um and reading it several times and so on and M and so on and so on and so forth and however many times theem gave me the Merit to study it I only had the this week I only had this week apparently this week was the time to get this k it wasn't last year the year before the year before the year before or the year before but it was now apparently it's time for it to come out so the M begins as follows 53 the fifth uh chapter the third mishna continues with the tens the series of tens that this uh we already had a couple before one last week with the 10 utterances that hasem created the world one last night with the 10 Generations from Adar until Noah and now we we have the next one in the list which is the 10 Generations from Noah to so we have 10 from Adam to to Noah and now it's T from Noah to abah was born in the year 1948 from creation 1948 from creation which is interesting it's the same year in the Christian calendar that uh modern Israel was founded also interesting interesting how hasem runs the world anyone that thinks it's such a thing is a coincidence is simply a fool but the point is is that you have began technically with in modern day Israel the generation of the Messiah also began 1948 just different calendar but here we have a little bit of a different perspective last night we learned that 10 Generations from until Show's patience because ultimately a person needs to understand that the fact that hasem doesn't punish doesn't mean that he's forgiving doesn't mean he's forgiving you doesn't mean that he's just letting it go doesn't mean that he forgot it he's just patient and eventually he gives you time to do chuba but eventually he has to punish today is different today it says the 10 Generations from Noah to AB showed also patience showed also hashem's patience but why all of these Generations also angered him they also angered hm increasingly until our forefather abam came and received the reward for all of them so here we have similar 90% And then the last 10% changes the entire picture 10 Generations same 10 generations of of people that made angry same someone came along same no in one case AB in his case but yesterday the the M second Mish we had to show that punishment eventually comes today AB receed the reward so it's two different Corners so first off let's see who the generations are will go on to other issues as well to connect it now the 10 Generations from Noah until are as follows first it was Shem Shem was one of the three sons of Noah that's where all of comes from a uh a is the Yesa name of the Yesa and the person that uh learned it was in as well which isu's father and now simply put it says that all of these Generations generation of generation continue to anger asem meaning that despite Hashem destroying the world literally 1650 years into creation only 300 years later approximately 350 years later they built a Tower of Babel why specifically to fight God no no more no less not just because they wanted to hide Tower maybe they wanted to sell expensive real estate no no no they wanted to go fight God their ration now told them listen we're going to build a tower because God apparently destroyed the world 1600 years after he created it so maybe that's what he does every 1600 years so if we start building a tower now the next time he wants to destroy we're going to be ready for him this is and all the same thing it goes into people's head and it gives them craziness in their heads but nonetheless unlike the generation of Noah that were Sinners the generation of the Tower of Babel were also Sinners but hm did not destroy them he just changed language until that moment so the first 1900 years approximately of creation there was only a single language which was Hebrew there's no other languages and the Tower of Babel Babel meaning comes from the root bb bb means confusion uh where hasem confused them amongst each other how why he gave them different languages 70 different languages were created in an instant and now they weren't able to to communicate why he do so he did it because so long as they had Unity even though that Unity was all against Hashem it carried weight in the eyes of hasem and he did he didn't want to destroy them that's how important Unity is so even if you're going against hem with that Unity hasem will still give you Merit for it that's how much hem loves Unity but at the same token they made hasem Angry they made Hashem angry the question is does AEM get angry the same way that we do so there's a very interesting the one of the sages explains as far as the notion of anger here it's very different than you'd ever think you would think technically somebody let's say for example someone that's makes other people sin either because they're immodest or because they have a uh business that makes other people sin and so on and so forth you would think that just because you're going against hm that makes AEM angry because you're going against him that's human logic it's human logic you ask your wife for dinner and she said make it for yourself typically no will get upset about such a thing how upset depends on you on your midot but nonetheless it's not going to make you happy you uh spent a lot of money on a certain tool that you need for your business or for whatever and it cost you a lot of money and a lot of effort and you had to get it shipped from China and it took three months to get here and it was this and it was that and it special order and it had engravement on it with your name and everything is this and as soon as you got it 3 days into it your kids took it played with it and broke it make you upset your level of how upset you are again depends on your mid and how much M you learn but nonetheless not going to make you happy that's still human Logic the gives a that's explosive he says does not says I don't have thoughts like you you thinking that you do this and now you get upset because you did it no you're missing the point the says the following is the epitome of goodness always seeking to bestow benefits upon people he always wants to give good the only reason he created he created the world is to give good how do you define good good is something that wants to give good wants to create good everyone thinks they're good how do you know if you're good are you creating any good is all the good that you're creating for yourself then that's not good that's just selfish good meaning you're creating good for others means creating good so Hashem was perfect on his own but because of his nature of being good he wanted to create good to bestow good on others and not just keep all the joy for himself in essence so theat says he's the epitome of goodness he always seeks to bestow benefits and good amongst others but his wisdom is divine wisdom his endless wisdom His Infinite Wisdom decreed that man must earn and deserve that good meaning you cannot give good for no reason because giving good for no reason and spoiling someone is destroying them because if they don't deserve it and you give it to them like this generation to give these participation trophies you just participate and therefore you feel like a winner this is creating a generation of losers and I know that even the previous generation already have many of those same loser mentality type of people who would have people come to my office looking for a job but they weren't willing to start at the bottom they want to start at the top they want to start already making a million dollars they have no experience they have no knowledge they have no understanding whatsoever but they want to want you to give them yeah yeah I want a trade give me $50 million trade I I'll figure it out like like the money grows on trees you tell them no no you have to you know build your business get some clients get some this learn your well no no generation doesn't want to do that why because their whole life for however many years their parents just gave them whatever they want okay here's a car okay here's a house here's this here's this just shut up and I'll give you whatever you want just just be quiet I'll give you whatever you want this is bad because even though the parent means well in reality destroying them because the person never understands what it means to earn once they understand what it means to earn even if it's earning a lollipop they appreciate it more I can tell tell you that the first time I made $11,000 for a month in the investment business first few years I've made virtually nothing just survived barely with two jobs then I didn't make any money at all cuz I started the new place and somebody somebody um CED me long story short I got to literally poverty so for 6 months I made literally zero I had you know whatever I made I had to pay in bills to the office leaving me with nothing so for 6 months I'm going home with nothing finally after six months in March of 2002 I made my first th000 that I was able to take home finally I made more but after paying the office bills and everything I was finally able to take off $1,000 to me that $1,000 I will never forget it that $1,000 might as well been a billion that $1,000 was UN cuz you have to imagine I just worked three and2 years for that $1,000 it wasn't a month it wasn't a day it was three and a half years for that $1,000 that's finally goes in my pocket even though when I was 17 I was already making $100,000 a year before this job that I had and and change careers and so on I I knew what money was but here I worked three and a half years for the first th000 to me was like might as well been a billion dollars now you fast forward couple of years in uh I don't know I think sometime in 2003 I made in one month 600,000 and then you fast forward another few years I made one month 1.6 million I mean start absurd amount of money that money that million dollars plus was meaningless in comparison to the $1,000 meaningless why things changed things changed so earning something with all of your might and all of your strength and all of your effort has has a special meaning to it both a psychological a spiritual a sentimental value so the creator of all creation says in order for him to give good you must earn and deserve it you can't just give it to you just because you worked hard doesn't mean you deserve a million dollars you may have earned a living you may have earned something but doesn't mean you deserve the Moon earn and deserve but the is this because he's constantly looking for ways to give you good all he wants to do all he created you for is to give you good all he wants is to give you good that means that every time we sin all we're doing is we're holding him back from giving us what he wants to give us so instead of giving us good that he created us only to give us good he now has to give us bad why that's the bill that's the consequence for holding him back for frustrating in essence for frustrating The Godly shower that he wants to give you what is it like it's it's like someone prepared a huge event I mean an event like you would never I mean people spend $50,000 on B Mitzvah and Bar Mitzvah and some people spend $200,000 on them imagine somebody spent $5 million but not for a bar mitzvah for 500 or 5,000 people just for you they spent $5 million they got the best chefs they got the best this they got the best that they got chandeliers they got stars coming out in the sky they're coming to visit you angels are coming are coming I mean you're Hest the greatest things you could ever imagine of everything is just for you food anything you've ever liked they found out in your entire life that you found out they liked they put it there with the best chef in the world made that specific dish there's 500 chefs in the kitchen each one just came to make you one tiny little dish that you like when you were 3 years old you said I like it IMA so they found out right it's so much research to find out what you like at 3 years old they have a chef that made it the best one and at four years old and it's 5 years old and 6 years old and so on and so forth the whole part is for you and they got the music every music you've ever liked as long as kosher they're bringing it too and what happens they spent all the money they brought the flowers they put the trees they put this they put this everything is wonderful it's set it's on a a Tuesday at 900 p.m. you call at 8:45 like yeah um I can't make it tonight I'm U kind of busy I'm on watch the game I'm going to watch the game at home I'm going to watch the game I got a game I got a football game I'm going to watch what do you mean we just prepared a $5 million party just for you there's no other guest it's just you yeah yeah yeah but I'm going I'm tired I'm tired uh let's just do it another time that's what it's like when a person sins against that is the frustration that the is saying they're creating all he wanted to do is give you good and all you're doing is frustrating him and in making it impossible for him to do so the 10 Generations between AD and Noah frustrated AEM he was not able to give them good the 10 Generations from Noah to did the very same thing but the difference here is that finally we arrive at abah ainu and it says abah ainu came and he received the reward for all of them he received the reward for all of them so we learn from that and s menu were the ultimate K team were the first K team and the best C team that ever existed they converted everyone and that's why in the uh Genesis 12: 5 it specifically says that and Sarah travel they move with what the souls that they meaning ab and sah made inan meaning they left Khan but they brought all the souls with them what Souls all the people they got do cha all the people they converted from idolatry to monotheism all of those Souls that they created came with them so there's a few things to say about this first and foremost that the um say that this is one of the main sources of why anyone who doesn't do kiru is a fool anyone who doesn't contribute the maina money that they have main M money that they have on K is simply just missing out on the best Mitzvah in the world and the reason why is because you have to in mitv you have to look at them like Investments when you are going to invest in a piece of property you're not going to invest in a piece of property that's in the middle of the desert there's not going to be any tenants ever maybe once a year there's going to be a tenant what you going to invest in you invest in a piece of property that there going to be most amount of tenants most amount of business coming out of it you're not going to invest in a stock of a company that just makes qtips and sells at the hotel chains and reports earnings once every 10 years who knows what they're going to do after 10 years what are you going to do you're going to report to a company that's there's more going on they're Innovative they're doing something new they're reporting things more frequently every few months you know what's going on there's a brilliant people at the top and so on and so forth why you want to make more money you know that if it's not doing well you change but what do people do people take the bulk of their money and instead of donating to things that are going to be similar to their Investments Investments they're very good at people know how to invest people know how to invest in real estate in buildings in houses in projects and uh you know in all types of fields all types of farms all types of anything that you can imagine people have figured out a way to make money out of anything stock market I mean I don't know what's going on but all people keep telling me it's an all-time high people have found a way to make a money out of the stock market without even doing anything but when it comes to MIT people are clueless simply clueless why they take their main whatever stocka money they're going to give which is already a problem to begin with because people to get stock up out of them is like seriously taking a uh it's like it's easy to take blood out of them without a needle but anyway we don't go collecting money I just know that's I see I see what what people do main stock of money they leave oh I'm going to buy an Ali on once a year I'm going to go spend 10 20 30 50 $100,000 to buy Ali get pleasure and Cav for 20 minutes or not even five minutes I'm going to spend 10 $20,000 on getting or better yet I'm going to buy a for 50 $100,000 or if you want to get a cheap one for25 $30,000 I spend $25 $30,000 get a they use three times a week but in reality since the B already has five of them maybe they're going to use it once every four months maybe so that means you're going to get mitvah once every four months that means the Aliyah that you're getting you're going to get a mitvah during Al oh yeah I'm going to sponsor Hanukkah party okay sponsor hanuk one day nothing happened some of the people that came there didn't even do on one day eating some of the kosher someone brought is not even kosher it wasn't exactly a Mitzvah opportunity but people will easily spend 10 20 $30,000 sponsoring some hanuka party you tell a guy listen you know that seph t someone needs to read it oh yeah yeah the no no I don't mean that I mean this SE is for Jews problem is we have a lot of we don't have a lot of Jews though we have Jews we don't have why all the Jews unfortunately don't know what it means to have a se you have 20 million Jews only two three million of them keep Shabbat we have a problem instead of saving seph save the living seph save the Jew why should I do that the difference is if you buy a $50,000 if you donate $50,000 to some it's great but it's not the same type of investment why you get one time two times three times five times mitvah you get somebody to actually do chuva anyone doesn't make a difference get somebody do Chua get somebody to convert and become a every single mitah that that person ever does or is responsible for meaning his wife's MIT his children's go into your account too so says what does it mean that that received the reward for all of them every single person that converted you also got to for them too meaning they did they didn't just believe in God that's finish they go back home they go back to idol worship they continue making you want to eat you have to at you want to do this you want to do this every time you did every single Mitzvah they did goes to him goes to them and to him because Mitzvah is like fire if you take a candle and you want to light a second candle you take the first candle with the fire you light the second candle with no fire now you have two fires nothing changed the first candle does not have lower as fire it's just now there two fire that's a that's a mitvah so here we see that abam and Sarah got the ultimate reward they got the MIT for everyone the goes even further it says reason why they got such a huge reward is because of the level of difficulty they lived in a generation full of wicked Idol worshippers the fact that they did chuva and they did what they did as far as become so righteous during that that such a time that's what gave them such a big reward they got the reward for all of the previous generations before them that the reward existed when it says in the book of Isaiah all of Israel have a share of the world to come that means that each time AEM decided to create someone he designated a certain place for them in now if that person died Shabbat if that person died lending money people to people with interest if that person made certain sins that he lost their that share of still exists it has to go to somebody so that's why the verse in Isaiah says all of Israel has a share of the world to come as it says in the book of Isaiah 60: 21 and your people are all righteous they shall inherit the land forever a branch of my plantings my handiwork in which to take pride meaning where does this share go it goes to the righteous goes to the righteous so Abraham ainu was the first of its kind hasem allowed the world to continue existing despite the many many sins because hasem knew that abah and Sarah will come to the world and it was worth it for him to create the world just for them but now all of this share of the world to come that existed for couple thousand years have to go somewhere give it all that's says that's the significance of someone that does chuv when they're surrounded by Wicked people you know people always tell me yeah listen it's hard for me to do chuva because all my friends are such my family is such my I grew up as such I know such and all the excuses in the world of why not why not why not not says that's exactly the reason why you should do why someone has to take their if they're not going to get it themselves somebody has to do it how does this work exactly be each time you now you're not going to be uh selfish you're going to share the knowledge you want to help people you love them you want to help them you're not one of these the ones to keep everything to themselves because that's what happens is you end up being like them so you did Chua you want to help other people do Chua so he say okay listen come to a lecture they don't want to come okay listen is a uh CD they throw out the CD or they don't listen to the CD okay here's a link watch this lecture they don't watch the lecture you send him another one another one another one then you come to you know you invite them to your house and you try a few times and it just simply doesn't work they just don't want to do and eventually gets to such a point they make such big sins that hem does what the what the ramb says is the worst possible punishment in this world which is he decides to pay them the reward in this world and eliminate them just like it says in the last three verses pays his enemies to their face to destroy them Raam says the worst punishment why you can't do Juba finish patience right out so now they still have a share of the world to come that was created for them but they didn't they don't deserve it and they didn't earn it what is going to do with it ah you wanted to get them to do CH didn't do it there's a rule in the Torah there's a rule in the Torah which is if if you Tred to do Mitzvah but you're an meaning it's you weren't able to achieve this Mitzvah because it beyond your control in sh they judge you as if you fulfilled the Mitzvah in a perfect way meaning if let's say for example you wanted to go and you wanted to uh let's say uh go to beet go to be tomorrow morning n 6:00 in the morning you were excited you went to sleep you put the alarm and another alarm and alarm to wake up the alarm cu the first alarm went to sleep and the one finally you woke up in the morning you got the suit ready you got the this you're excited you know you still got cobwebs in your eyes no matter you're going out you don't even know right or left but you're going to besset because you're excited to go pray to hasem now besset is 5 10 you know 10 minutes Drive let's say from your house 10 minutes drive is kind of far walk on the way to you got a flat tire you can't just abandon the car and walk stopping traffic you're going to make it to the second minion at 8:00 but you want it to go to 6 in sh says you woke up for six the flat tire is beyond your control that's from sh you get azv as if you woke up at 600 you went to the Mei at 6 so such things are with every such a rules with every Mitzvah meaning you tried making somebody do CH you tried W genuinely tried now you Tred G him a CD and good luck and never never talk to him again you tried a few times with the guy and he didn't do it says I have to give the share to somebody oh here you go you go is another so says if you're surrounded by Wicked people that's exactly why you should do cha why number one you could inherit theira if they don't do chuva or you can inherit a biggera even if you get them TOA either way you win either way you win now the r Shalom guide for the perplexed 350 asks a very interesting question what why does AEM include all of these stories in the Torah I mean after all really the Torah is an instruction book of how to follow what a God wants to do it's a manual how to obey him how to praise him how to serve him when to pray when to eat what to eat what to say before you eat what to say after you eat what to do in the morning what to do in the afternoon who to marry who not to marry who to be friend who to not to be friend and so on and so there an enormous amount of rules thousands and thousands of intricate little details every single rule itself has thousands of details if you just simply look at the of making it's a thousand is one but the to make theing is a thousand so ramb says listen in the end it's instructions so what's the stories for of course anyone that thinks that the Torah is a history book The Z says they they lose their right to live because that's the last thing in the world that is on the other hand we still have stories what do you do with them and the rambam gives you a Genius answer he says it's to teach us the ways of God it's to teach us his midot his character traits because you're not going to meet God in the middle of the street you're not going to see him he doesn't have an image he doesn't have the likeness of an image for so anyone who even thinks of an image of God is making a sin this is one of the principal sins of Christianity and Catholicism and all of these religions that have an image of God this is why even if let's say for example some people make they they mean well they want to make drawings they want to make drawings you know paintings and there's like a hand coming out of the sky you're not allowed God doesn't have a hand or they have this famous painting where uh there's some guy that they say is God is touching Adam I think Michelangelo made it or some other guy made it and they oh this is God or even worse you have this uh painting that was uh recently sold for $450 million 50 million and they claim it's JC Penney they claim it's Jesus uh that uh is in the painting that Michelangelo painted now what's the amazing thing about it the only thing that's amazing about that painting the fact that there's fools in the world is not amazing because if foolishness was a stock the price would be Infinity there's no shortage of fools there's always been there always will be there's new fools born every day what's a so amazing about that picture that was sold for $450 million what's so amazing if you actually watch my Torah and science part one part one I think it's part one maybe part two t Torah and science I talk about I mention a specific in and it says how did know about planet Earth before Columbus how do we have a proof what's the proof in we say you're not allowed to have a sculpture or even a picture of of any person holding a ball why cuz that in essence represents a person that in essence is being visualized as if he's holding the world as if he's God it's a form of idolatry that painting that was sold for $450 million is exactly that it's JC Penney holding a crystal ball it's exactly what God said not to do don't be surprised if the new owner within the next year don't be I'm dead serious don't be surprised if he dies within the next year don't be surprised it's m exactly what God said not to do exactly like it's like they wrote instructions they violated every single every single detail of it every single detail of it craziness or if they live a really really long life and they have Gom forever either way no good the point is is that the rambam says why do we have these stories then why do we have these stories he says in order for you to learn the ways of God if you see God acting a certain way then you can bet on it that he's going to do it again meaning if you see him rewarding the righteous you can bet on it he'll continue rewarding the righteous if you see him punishing the wicked you can bet on it that he's going to continue punishing the wicked how long forever why God doesn't change he's not a human being that changes his mind every week so when a person has such an understanding of the ways of God it's easier life becomes easier to fulfill the mitv why you have yourself an instruction set you can use every single part of it of knowing what to do and already in essence know what the outcome is maybe the same outcome is not going to happen to as quickly as it happened in the book but it will happen indeed someone did good they got good you'll get good when that's hashem's business nonetheless they got you saw they got good God gave them good for what they did you did the same thing you'll get good so it's not only that you have the lotto ticket you have the winning numbers too all you got do is pick it up from the store very simple now there are certain things that are Mitzvah Killers certain character traits that are Mitzvah killers that are blessing killers one of them is being stingy one of them is being stingy now the P says that it's better that you stick to an an ignorant person that has A Generous Heart and good overall good mid instead of going with a that's cheap that's stingy now the G says a lot of really horrible things about people that are ignorant why says listen if he's ignorant he's no different than the cow in fact some some of the says if he's ignorant he doesn't know to he's not allowed to eat cows why the cows better than him they're very very uh they don't fool around they're not politically correct very very harsh against ignorant people not let to be ignorant but R says if he's ignorant but he's generous it's better you're with him than with a someone knows a lot of Tora but he's stingy why why is it so bad to be with somebody that's stingy he says because the person that's ignorant but that's good mid is generous at least you know all he's missing is knowledge but in general he's spiritually healthy he's a healthy person the that's stingy you know for sure he's spiritually sick he's a sick person yeah but he has T exactly the fact that he has t and it still didn't cure him makes him sicker than what we thought initially the fact that he has t and he's still stingy makes him sicker than what we thought originally so this is one of those Mitzvah Killers to the itself frowns upon it horribly it's one of the stories is actually a rich guy was so stingy a real story he was so stingy so cheap that one day his wife had to suffer living with this guy hears him yelling and screaming in the room Peaks the room she she's screaming screaming doesn't see who he's screaming at so much yelling oh you Thief you Thief you liar you Thief oh somebody stole him she calls the cops the cops show up breaking down who's the thief right in that room in that room he's stealing from my husband they open the door they see him looking in the mirror you Thief you liar you Thief you sir who who's Thief who's a liar does my mouth it doesn't stop eating and spending my money it doesn't want to stop eating okay sir you're right you're under arrest they told him in jail shows up to the judge you guys are laughing it's true story the judge is a judge is knows what he's talking about he says yeah sir what happened he goes listen your honor my mouth is a thief it won't stop eating it won't stop spending my money look at me I work so hard to make my money and this mouth won't stop spending it and the judge says you're right I'm going to designate one of my personal best guards best policemen to make sure this mouth never steals from you again thank you your honor so few hours P he releases him he goes back home he wants to you know he wants to go get something to eat hey don't steal now what do you mean I need to hey we don't give anything to the thieves we don't give any life to the thieves one day passes no food no drink no water no nothing second day passes he goes oh I'm hungry yeah it's still it's Thief we can't feed the thieves we can't give them encourage ment you can't let them continue stealing after the third days I'm dying I'm dying please help me goes okay let's go back to the judge judge says listen we cannot give any life to thieves so the only way you're going to be allowed to eat drink or anything is if you admit that your mouth is not a thief someone's nature can get to such a horrible state that literally they could think of their own family as thieves they look at their wives why you spending all my money why do you think you got money from God what for for your IRA account people that are stingy on their wives people that are stingy on their kids they're so focus on you know saving for the future who knows if you're going to live to see it I no no I'm saving for my retirement I'm you know I'm 30 years old I have to save I have 30 years to save who knows if you're going to survive this week this forget this year or 30 years this week who says who gave you a guarantee can anyone here tell me I know for sure I'm going to survive this week for sure I know I have a guarantee I have a letter signed by God he said I'm surviving this week anyone can say it in the world they survived this week every day we survive is Mas a miracle every week is a miracle and you're saing for 30 years from now for what kids need to go to Yesa no no we can't afford what do you mean you can't afford you have $30,000 in the bank why can't you afford Yeshiva what's wrong with you why can't you afford yes no we need that for rainy day okay rainy day arrived Yeshiva arrived what do you mean rainy day what other the rainy day no retirement who knows if you can survive what you so that's that's the stinginess is is is is is not only a Mitzvah killer it's a life killer a marriage killer the noticed something extraordinary in right at the end of gives the blessings to his sons and it starts off as an order Shimon but then He blesses vul before when technically it's supposed to be the opposite is was older supposed to get the blessing before Z so what's the explanation explanation is that they had the deal where one studied and the other one paid for it soad says something extraordinary says volon was named first even though he was younger he was named first the one that studied was named second you would think it's the opposite it's not zun got named first he got the blessing first why because Von was merited to take food out of his own mouth to give it's not that he just gave him money hey go ahead listen I'm going to work I make $10,000 a month 5,000 to you 5,000 to me that's what people think is today do people have a warped version of what is there some people that go to poor people poor they give him a 100 bucks oh we have balloon now what am I going to do with $100 I can't buy groceries with $100 what am I going to do no we have balloon oh half your studying goes to me unfortunately some of these they're so they're so poor that they don't do anything okay fine you have half my study for 100 bucks but it's a joke though sh they laugh at it sh they laugh at it oh there's another guy says no no I'm uh you know I have a deal with all these I give him 500 bucks a month or 600 bucks a month and I have I get half day studying that's not you don't get half day studying for $500 a month okay $500 month's good it's butoon why you can't get half of their mer half of their learning the merits of their learning half their for their learning when you're not paying for half of their expenses $500 is not paying half of anybody's expenses not here not in Israel not anywhere so people try to like beat the system constantly so what's the original why did zon get a blessing first before he even though he's the one that's paying for it he says because the way that they looked at it the way that it should be looked at is that zon literally would give him food would give is the learner he would give him food before himself meaning if there's let's say $10,000 expected it wasn't once I get 10,000 I'm going to get cut it in half I take five you take five no no no no the first five goes to you the learner and I'll get my five that's the relase of you don't necessarily have to do it that way but the point is is that it's supposed to be 5050 it's not supposed to be uh just you give 500 bucks and you uh you have a uh it's as if you studied for the whole month it's not but the point here we see that the are quite different than our mindsets very very different than our mindsets now in ch we're also going to see something that's very very different than our mindsets very very different how different from our mindsets Worlds Apart Worlds Apart in you have extraordinary Miracles I mean you're so focused on the Miracles I mean I've done at least I've recorded at least a few two maybe three times this sh and every single time I did isue it was two three hours what was it about what could we learn from the plagues the plagues that hasem put on me destroyed the biggest civilization in the world made him from something to nothing there's a lot to learn here the measure for measure how hashem's ways how he does what he does why he does what he does you see in the beginning of the he comes to mosu he says I appear to abah and yob as El Shai but with my name hem I did not make make myself known to them meaning to abob I appeared to him as me but I didn't make the Miracles that I'm making for you you are Next Level you're seeing things even the didn't see what you what are you complaining about M look how much you're going to see you're seeing something no one's ever seen before and no one will ever see after I came to them as one character of myself one version of myself but nonetheless you're seeing something even clearer by the ramb says what's the difference between all the prophets and M what's the difference between all the prophets it says that there's different levels of Prophecy Ezekiel had a certain type of prophecy about the end of days but if you look at his prophecy versus Isaiah it's very very different why because even though they're both talking about the bet mdash the end of days and so on and so forth Isaiah's explanation is much easier to understand than Ezekiel why his prophecy was higher level so what does it mean higher level prophecy what does it mean it means that each time one of the neim one of the people that were Flesh and Blood like you and me they weren't uh something different they weren't a different creation they were flesh and blood which means it's possible for you to be a prophet if you if you really want to the gives you a strategy of how to become a prophet if you want to even though we're actually after the generation of Prophecy and there's no prophets in the world you can still become a prophet how you follow the entire path become I mean it gives you exactly a path I went over it to one of the we just do chva and forget about being prophets but nonetheless the point is you want to be there's a way to do it now what's the difference what's the difference in Prophecy each time someone fixed one of their bad midot one of their bad character traits they destroyed a wall that was separating them and God meaning each one of our bad character traits stinginess anger so on and so forth all of these bad character traits are as if it's a wall separating us and God so in essence meaning that the lower level prophets had fixed their mid to a lower level still drastically better than any of us could imagine but nonetheless it wasn't as good as the ones other so the r explains what's the difference between them and who was the prophet of all prophets no one's ever going to be like Moshe no one ever was like Moshe Moshe perfect Ed himself simply put he was perfect how perfect the r says the separation between him and Hashem reached the Pinnacle as if there was a glass between them it's just a glass separating them that you could see through it and that's why he said to hem let me see your let me show me your show me your your show me everything now you reached it you reached the ultimate level you can reach you perfected yourself as a human anything further you have to stop being a human you have to come with me to all as long as you're going to be in this world this is the highest level you could possibly achieve Al VI to even understand what this just meant youget about do it to understand what I just said you understand you have a to understand what I just said what it means to be such a prophet but now he says to Moshe I came to them as as El Shai to you I show you my name then you see the plagues begin disaster strikes right at the time M comes to and he tells him listen hasem is going to bring hail Hashem is going to bring hail it's going to destroy everything anything that's going to be outside anything that's going to be outside is going to be destroyed so from here we learn the actual definition of it says whoever among the Servants of par feared the word of hasem chased his servants and his livestock to the houses meaning whoever feared the word of hasem ran inside and put his animals inside but whoever did not pay attention and take hashem's word to Heart left the servants and livestock in the field so here we have literally the definition of unlike any other word in the Hebrew language doesn't have an opposite like other words for example tall short dark light yes no you understand but so you would ask somebody what is the opposite of what's the opposite of fear of the almighty you you would think no fear of the almighty wrong this specific verse in chapter n verse 20 actually teaches us not only about the plague but the nature of god of what it means not to have it says what the people that had that believed M what he said that hasm is going to bring hail and so on the people that feared hasem put their stuff inside the houses the ones who didn't pay attention and did not take the words of God to Heart left everything outside meaning the opposite of is not paying attention Lo didn't put their heart to it this actually originally learned from M years ago and uh and here we have a lesson about from but then after this plague and everything that happens mosu comes to and he says to him I'm going to speak to God to have him stop as soon as the uh M says to m when I leave the city I shall spread out my hands to Hashem the Thunder will cease and the hell will be no longer so that you know that the Earth is AEM so he says M says to par okay you're begging for us to for hem to stop okay as soon as I leave this city Hashem is going to stop the Thunder and the in the hell and then he adds this as for you and your servants I know that you're still not afraid of God I know that still even now after all these plagues you're still not afraid of Hashem you're still not afraid of Hashem and this is chapter 9 verse 29 verse 30 and then after he stopped hasem stopped The Hil the last plague in this par what is it say continued to sin continued to sin he didn't release he continued going against hem nothing changed so far not too many so far very similar to all the that we've done so far where it talks about the plagues talks about mid talks about measure for measure as we've already done a couple of times and I'm sure many other rabis have done it hundreds and hundreds of times before now first you ask yourself why is it that after all the plagues after getting already after the first plague the second plague the third plague why didn't do CH I mean after the third plague it says that Hashem himself hardened his heart meaning he removed his free choice but that didn't happen for the first three plagues when all of a sudden you wake up one day and all the water in the ocean all the water in the beaches all the water in the Lakes all the water in the sinks all the water in your cups all the water everywhere turns the blood I mean something's strange when all of a sudden you start seeing one giant frog appear and every time you hit it millions of frogs come out of it just thinking about it I want to do chba when Hashem says I'm going to put the frogs inside you not just in the food in the ovens and the on the roofs inside you meaning that every single day these people couldn't sleep why the frogs were quirking inside their bodies CH just thinking about it how come he didn't do CH there's Li everywhere each SCE say and a few other places I saw it each SCE was literally the size of an egg a chicken egg each slice was the size of a chicken egg thinking about it's worse than each slice and how much six feet from the ground meaning you couldn't avoid them you swimming in them the why why did it say at the end of the he continued to sin sometimes you tell a person the truth you tell them listen Hashem says you have to keep Shabbat listen you have to keep kosher listen you have to be modest listen you have to do this listen you have to do that they tell you okay you listen I need proofs I need proofs that God said it maybe you said it maybe you just like people that wear on their head maybe it's you have some type of crazy thing in your mind maybe you have a uh scarf store on the side maybe you're the number one distributor of scarfs in the world you make a dollar out of every scarf that's sold who knows maybe you own every single Yesa in the world you want my kids to send them for me to send my kids to Yesa so you make 500 bucks a month out of them like how do I know God said it how do know you don't have a bias I want to see proofs God said it so you say no problem let me show you proofs we sit down I show you proofs we've already done it many times we have it online I don't have to sit down with anybody anymore you want proofs I send you a link you watch the video finished finished one two three four five videos you're finished you have all the proof you could possibly want many we've done ourselves many other rabbis have done the point is there's a complete picture it doesn't matter whether it's scientific medical rational whatever it is all types of proofs are available to show you God actually said it sometimes you show a person all the proofs in the world like this one young man that I had when I went to California a couple years ago I had a lecture series over there I had a lecture with a group of kids maybe 25 30 kids young kids two hours almost two hours lecture at the end of the two hour lecture the rabbi comes to me with a young guy maybe 20 years old and he says can you sit down with him a little bit he has has some questions the kid has to keep on not so big but he has a keep on it's okay sure I have questions no problem 2 hours and 45 minutes I'm sitting down with this kid going over proofs as if the first two hours she didn't exist he's asking questions I'm giving him he's asking questions I'm giving him ANW you have questions question whatever you huh no problem some of the questions I didn't know gave me the answer but every answer yeah yeah at the end of two 2 hours and 45 minutes okay so you ready to keep Shabbat you're ready to do this you're ready to do that you know I don't know it's like a it's interesting it's interesting what do you mean interesting 2 hours or four that means almost 5 hours we sat 5 hours we sat why not all the questions you had I gave you answers all the issues you brought to me to contradict it are wrong and I proved you that they were wrong and anything that's not wrong that wasn't weren't able to prove as wrong it's simply because it's a theory it's a thought it's an estimate it's a guess no one knows it's like measuring the size of space no one knows so what you have is guesses what I provided you is facts I showed you yeah but it could always just happen so then I said okay debate is finished oh we can't do a little more at this point I know that there's no way for me to win there's you're not looking for the truth at this point I understand you're just looking for an excuse to justify your existing life to continue you're not looking for the truth you were just hoping that I'm not going to have the answer so therefore you go back to your IM and ab say im AB I spoke to this guy he doesn't know he says he's a rabbi he doesn't know anything I'm going to go back and I'm gonna go date my non-jew I'm going to go eat pig on y Kip I'm going to do this I'm going to do that I'm not but now you got the you still don't want to do chba that means you're not looking for the answers you're looking for justification for your existing behavior I'm not here to facilitate your craziness but but why I provided you the proof why wouldn't you change why why didn't do chv why do people sometimes not often sometimes their hearts are M such Stone you show them the proof and they still don't do Chua why it's rare but it happens why said something that when I told my father over Shabbat who was visiting us I told him what he said we had to we had sit down we learned a little bit I told him this my father M almost started crying on Shabbat said how true this is said you know you're obligated to go visit the sick you're obligate to go visit someone sick it's said to all of his all of his students if you don't give go visit someone that's sick you know he's sick you don't go visit him it's like you murdered him so much like you murdered him why because he may need some encouragement to come back to health you didn't come he died because of you so it's not like aah like it's nice to do oh it's a nice gesture look my kids are visiting the sick people no it's m an obligation to visit the sick now he said sometimes don't feel like it but shoot your friend's sick your partner's sick someone's sick close to you you guys were friends 25 years your partner's in business he invested into your business a million dollars you invested in business a million dollars now your business is worth a billion you're a billionaire now but in reality you wouldn't have been nothing if he didn't invest in your business or this or that someone that's someone that you know not someone that you know from 35 years ago now you know him now I know it's get sick you don't feel it going P you don't feel it going you want to go on vacation instead you want to go Hawaii want go see the ocean and trees you don't want to go to hospital it's uh who knows how many diseases are in there people are screaming yelling crying who wants to go to hospital it's fun no it's not fun I spent a lot of time in hospital it's never been fun lot of times hospital has never been fun never not one time I can say you know what what a fun time this Hospital never said it once months I spent in hospitals I told you not once I have said you know what five star hospital I can't wait to come back never I never said I can't wait to come back to this hospital so it's not fun to go to hospitals so she say to a guy listen he's sick you know your friend for 25 years your friend for 10 years your this guy they did he's sick go visit him no no no I'm going on vacation no no no I'm busy at work no no no I'm busy at this no I'm not going the guy is sick and you're not going to visit him but then video he's sick for a while 6 months he's sick a year he's sick you haven't come visit him to the point where it's like it's not that he's sick for a week you don't go visit okay you go visit I'll visit him when he comes out no he's sick for a while and now everyone else notices hey his best friend didn't come visit him hey his brother didn't come visit him hey his cousin didn't come visit him he been here for okay if he's busy for the first week you had to go on a honeymoon you had to go to Janam you had to go to this you had to go to that fine a week two weeks fine but a year already you didn't visit him so now the guy that didn't visit what does he do does he do as you go visit him says the person's embarrassment is so high at that moment when he realizes that what he did was wrong that he didn't go visit someone then now instead of doing I'm sorry didn't come visit you over the last year I was busy I was this I was wrong I was I forgot I lost track of time no he does doesn't say that what does he do he goes to bees he starts praying to God to kill him why to kill him cuz that way I don't have to face the embarrassment I rather him die in the hospital that way I don't have to face the embarrassment I don't have to face the embarrassment this is what it says my father heard this on shabat he said he almost start crying he says it's 100% true it's M from sh it's 100% true of how people behave when someone someone is evil and his nature is evil just no Tor that's exactly his nature and I can tell you from experience I had it happen to me I was very sick and it was a specific some people came to visit but there was one specific guy that I helped him more than anyone else he had drug problems I sent him to rehab twice twice I sent to rehab each time $18,000 I paid got arrested I bailed him out he had in trouble lived with me I took care of this guy like he was my baby why cuz he let me a dollar every day many years before that I tell you it's part of my story so he L me a dollar 300 times I gave him $300,000 point is I took care of him because I appreciated a little bit of favor that he did to me when I needed it I got sick everyone knew even people that haven't seen me in 20 years knew I was dying everyone knew I was dying it wasn't a secret everyone knew you don't just go from nothing to from something to nothing and the world doesn't hear the the earthquake no way to be found disappeared okay maybe he's on vacation for the first week or maybe it's uncomfortable for the first month or maybe it's unusual for the first six months three and a half years later he gives me a phone call hey you doing how everything long time no speak now by then I asked about him a bunch of times to people I'm like how Demetri didn't come yet like what's going on is he okay is he alive did he overdose finally like what happened like no no he's actually doing great he's doing this he's doing that so how come but he didn't know I was SI no he actually asked about you once and I told him you were sick and he asked a couple times he knows you're sick he knows everything so I finally after three and a half years I want to verify the story hey how you doing I said alive how you doing I'm like let me ask you you knew oh yeah yeah I knew I knew just was a little bit uncomfortable I just I didn't have the chance and then I was uncomfortable and uh you know but how's everything now how's everything now said everything is fine thank you all I got to go why know want to talk I'm like listen man everything wasn't fine for you I was there 24 hours a day the embarrassment level at that moment you want to bury yourself you rather the guy die that's what say say that sometimes you have such selfishness inside you you Cann not deal with the embarrassment what is this like this is exactly like when someone tells you oh I want to know the truth I want to know the truth you provide them the truth you provide them all the proofs in the world and they still don't want to do Chua why don't they want to do Chua it's not because they disagree with you they agree it's 100% true God is real the Torah is real everything is real but they cannot do chuva they cannot do chuva for their sin why they're embarrassed they rather die or you die than them fulfilling the doing Chua now this leads me to my next point this next point is going to shake up some people but it's necessary nonetheless inside the par when we pay attention to a little bit more of the details of what's happening in the par we actually see that the say that the reason why hasem saved from was not because of the special men but rather because of the special women the special a the of is he saved am is from Egypt because of theot he will save am is with the Messiah at the end of times because of the sadikot of that generation same thing that happened will happen again but it's not easy to be sadika so this in between the words in between the stories we see the Divine hand at work there are a few women that are mentioned inside this Paras and each one will give us a little bit of an understanding of the ways of hem in chapter six verse 15 in this section it talks about how the lineage of the heads of am is the tribe of ruen and his sons the tribe of Shimon and his sons the tribe of Levi and his sons to show you where Moshe and Aon came from where Moshe and Aon came from at the end of the section in verse 30 it reminds us that or verse 26 again it says that this is Aon and Moshe which Aon MOS this is said to them take the children of Israel out of the land of Egypt according to their allegiance and then later on says this was MOS meaning it repeats multiple times this is the same M there wasn't two M there one M and this whole lineage that we just went through is where MOS andon came from now in between that whole story of how we go from the tribe of ruen and how his descendants and Shimon and his descendants and leev and his descendants all the way to M we see the first woman in this par who is this first woman Canan is that the name no she was a Canan can meaning she was a Canaanite it's the first woman that's mentioned who is this woman it says when it talks about the sons of Shimon the sons of shim was y Ben all of these sons and then it was this name is one son that's the son of the Canaanite woman son of the Canaanite woman who is this Canaanite woman another woman also mentions y it later on but another woman that I saw noticed it's very interesting very interesting another woman if you fast forward few verses in this lineage it says in verse Alon took Elisha the daughter of aminadav the sister of as wife and she bore him and before that it also mention the mother of and M the wife of so we have another couple of women here have had the Merit of not only marrying the but also having three children all of them prophets M and after that it talks about Elish Elisha married Aon who elisheva Elisha was the daughter amav the sister of and then lastly in verse 25 one of the sons of Aon elazar took for himself one of the daughters of puel as a wife who's puel Jethro it's another one of his names I believe he had seven names he took one of the daughters of puel as a wife and she bore him who Pinas so here we have four different women four different women that are mentioned first one is the second one is y third one is Elisha and the last one is the daughter of puel these are the women that are highlighted in the Torah if it's highlighted in the Torah that means it's carries there many women lived millions and millions of women lived millions and millions of women were part of am they're not mentioned these women are mentioned that means it's something special what's so special about them to be mentioned T that's Eternal hasem is trying to teach you teach us his ways what can we learn from these women in the times of the Exodus of and how could we apply it today how is it relevant today first and foremost sha who is the the overwhelming majority of the sages say that is another name for Din Da the daughter of yov why was she called thean why was she called thean because if you rewind all the way back to Genesis chapter 34 chapter 34 you will see the horrible event that happened with daa that daa got raped did not got raped by and she was embarrassed from that moment on and she refused to continue living our life she got in depression so yobu figured out a solution you can't be constantly looking at your own depr you know your what happened and be reminded of what happened and get over it's very difficult okay first of all the child that came out of it send it to a different family send her to a different family it's going to raise her and I'll make sure that I'll pray and I'll give a medallion to know who she is and so on know that she's one of our descendants send her they ended up kazal says they ended up giving that daughter up to who to ptif to poal that daughter's name was osnat oat later on you fast forward a little over 20 years she marries yadik when y became a became the visoy of Egypt all the women finally saw his Beauty they all wanted to marry him and they all in some cases threw their underwear at him he was so beautiful they all wanted him to just look at him they wanted to just look at him y was sadik who looked on the floor only until one woman threw a medallion that hit the floor and he saw there Hebrew writings Engravings on The Medallion and no one in Egypt knew Hebrew only he did he looked at it and he said this is not granddaughter of yov oh I want to marry her so much prophecy hm's Divine hand runs the world the daughter of of of Dina ends up being the only one that's could actually marry in Egypt and that's what happens but now daa still can't continue with her life because she remembers what happened and so on and so forth so kazal say that until Shimon married her she couldn't get over the embarrassment of what happened to know that at least if he marries me that I'm still acceptable we still acceptable so Shimon married her now why did this whole thing happen to Dina why isn't mention her name why is z the Canaanite because she's this is a form of rebuke this is a form of divine rebuke came from the seed of yov came from a KES and had all the opportunities of the world to be one of the most righteous women that ever lived but in chapter 34 of SE Genesis it says now the daughter of Leah whom he had born to yov went out to look over the daughters of the land she went out she want out to go see what the other people do the sages explain this contradicts the code of modesty why do you want to know what the go are doing why do you want to know what the other daughters in the world are doing why don't you stay with your own family why don't you stay with your own kind why do you care what the gim are doing why do you care that the green wear wigs why do you care with the green wear mini skirts why do you care if the going do this this and that why you want to be like them okay she got punished how punished severely one of those go raped and this is something she had to live with but not just then eternally so much so that the Tora itself calls it a Canaanite woman why cuz a Canaanite raped her this also shows the authenticity of the Torah itself that it's not hiding anything that's embarrassing like some of the other books in the world that's saw from different religions if anything it highlights it that's a hard punishment it's a very hard punishment why you're not supposed to be like the go to understand the significance of being a chosen Jew a chosen Ben is is one of the most important missions you have in your life if you misunderstand it you could literally lose your life Dina had an opportunity of a lifetime and for a moment she peaked she didn't go she didn't marry she didn't do anything she picked he said that's already too much that's already too much you care what they look like what they do where they shop what they eat what they don't eat why it's not enough what you have it's not enough to know you're the you're the daughter of yov it's not enough to know that you're the daughter of God himself it's not enough God said says you are my daughter God himself God said you're my daughter you're my you you are my daughter you're my princess no one is above you the whole world was created for you my daughter is that enough you want more the whole world all of the galaxies all the planets all the stars all the everything was created just for you my special daughter it's not enough you still want to know what the other go are doing why why it's very rude it's very rude Behavior as we talked about in the beginning of the sh all hasem wants to do is give you good he made an event $500 zillion dollars just for you he build a whole world for you with planets and stars and Suns and little cute little bugs or sometimes they're ugly but for you they're cute maybe and and flowers and they smell good and there's different colors and there's light and there's shade and there's air and there's water and there's fish and there's different types of fish and there's animals and some of them are strange looking but they're still cute and there's children and even though you sometimes want to kill them but they're so cute you don't want to because they're yours and and you know and all these wonderful things he created all of it for you my precious daughter he created for you and what are you saying no I'm busy I want to see what uh what the non-jews are doing I want to act like them it's rude to say the least so daa she stayed with but her stature changed she stayed with she still mentioned in the Tora viat to be mention in tah but nonetheless we see here clearly K teaches if it wasn't right we would allow wouldn't be allowed to say it we see the stature changed the fact that you're looking elsewhere means you don't know what you have at home the fact that you're still looking at at other women means you don't appreciate your wife it's not your wife's fault it's your fault the fact that you're looking at your neighbor's car house and money means you don't appreciate how hard your husband's working the fact that you're looking at the neighbor's kids means you don't value your precious kids why you looking somewhere else why why why don't you appreciate what God gave you the sages teach us who is Rich someone who's happy with a share AEM created the entire planet for you and you're still not happy it's very rude so the special excuse me the special woman lost stature within next woman was the ant of am she wanted to do something she went to am allowed not allowed allowed not allowed one day am says listen par is killing all the all of all of us all the children all the firstborns listen we got to we got to leave we got you got to separate divorce is a get you ever see a you complaint no okay y says no it's no okay divorce divorce then his little genius daughter the prophet Mir that 60 years old comes hey ABA ABA you're worse than par what what do you mean worse than par you're worse than why am I wor than maybe it was my daugh tell me wor than I don't know if I would act the same way what did he say what he say why did he say the person never sinned in his life one of four people have never sinned in his life what does he say to his little Prophet daughter he says why why am I worse than po instead of go to your room your rude little kid he says why why am I was in Paro says ABA is only killing the boys by you divorcing IMA everyone's going to follow you which means it's not going to be boys or girls you're killing both is which means that hm may not fulfill his will you which means hm will fulfill your will he says my little six-year old daughter you're right do give you $1,000 marry hook me up with your mom again set me up with your mom go to she goes back to her husband she does say Hey you kick me out hey hey you have to pay me extra no okay now I'm back do wants me back no problem you did it for mitvah you want to do it again for mitvah no problem what happened with that that removal of any ego what did she get she got the humblest man of all time to be her son she got the most important person in the bet mikdash the to be a son also she got the top Prophet woman in history to be a daughter M that's she got for what removing ego and she's mentioning Torah by name next you have El daughter of am who is who's this how many women named today every day is does anybody know who Elish does anybody know who Elish is there's a few people name but who is this it's mentioned toah married what's so special about El what's so special the fact that she's married okay you don't have to be a genius it says it's married to married to Aon okay what that makes her special okay Aon was special you could say our one side was good she got lucky she got lucky she married she she caught a good one no was the daughter of very special family why special family because Amad was also the father of who's who's nakon was the one that said oh we're in the sea of reeds on one side we have just Ocean on the other side we have desert and the Egyptians coming down to kill us nowhere to go some people want to commit suicide some people want to go and fight the other people want to go back to be slaves says no no no if God brought us here that means it's for the best everything that the merciful one does he does it for the best like said page 63 or 66 at the end this what he said everything's for the best he says must be for the best if he brought us to the ocean it means for the best I'm going in what do you mean in it's it's deep that's aem's problem it's deep he brought us here that means he wants us here Egyptians are coming we obviously can't stay here that's against logic okay but the ocean's also against Logic No it's against human's logic I'm going in and he continued going into the ocean with 15 million per up to the point where he started swallowing water and it got to his nose and at that moment hasem opened split the sea for him why you Hada Hada the ocean split so obviously she came from a special family but how special is this family how Okay is good so she got lucky with a husband she got lucky with a brother who Elish Elisha is the tribe of Y where the mashia comes from mashia comes from why it's a family of it's not just oh he got big deal that's why I mentioned by name next you see each one of these is a character trait to have or not to have and then we finish off with elazar the son of Aon who married one of the daughters of the convert what's so special what's so special elazar learned a lot from his father even more so from his brother's dying even more so from and even more so from his father-in-law that was that was even though he was an idol worshiper for a big part of his life when he discovered the truth he left everything on a table and he went after it and that's how he raised his son and that's how she raised their son who did they get Pinas who's Pinas saved all of when we all sinned with the Foreigner woman P went there and said I'm putting my life on a line for what for hem don't go against Hashem you want to go against hem I'll kill you and he went and he killed the leader of the Shimon tribe Z and killed both of them why for the honor of hem not for his own honor not because he's crazy not because he's not even a fighter he wasn't even a warrior but he got special strength where he killed both of them then he lift them up in the air why honor of hem jealousy of hem what was the reward is co what was the other reward he's going to meet the Masia that comes from he's going to introduce him he's going to introduce him 3 Days Later 3 days before 3,000 4,000 years later you see you see the names are not for nothing this is inside the story you read a thousand times already you missed it I missed it also so we see when it says the say that hasem saved because of the special women we see a few things these women really were special from the least of them to the greatest of them not to judge anyone of them we see these women were really special we see these women were unbelievable what they did for what they did for the honor of hem if we look at these Generations we see some similar actions so how come some of these things are not highlighted they're not highlighted because unfortunately us men we're messing up a little bit right now there is as I've told you many times and we'll repeat it again there is a big huge lie it's infected am bigger than any disease that we've ever had and that's the disease of falsehood being taught by leaders to tell people that they're doing a mitvah when in reality they're doing an a now when it comes to wigs this is not a problem for a small community this is a problem for pretty much the entire religious Jewish World a very small fraction of women comparison actually cover their head like they're supposed to according to the majority of Pim throughout all of history with a hat or a scarf many women wear wigs now there's been a debate about the issue of wigs for almost 400 years which originally started as we said in the past by a misunderstanding by the because all the went against it of thebat page 64b the Mish there that talks about hair on the head and and which the be went against and so did many many other of the fast forward to not repeat some of the things we've mentioned in previous shim nonetheless there are over 127 Pim throughout history that have said that wearing a wig is 100% asso why asso it's ass it's not allowed it's forbidden because it's not modest not modest because the Mitzvah of covering a woman's hair is an obligation it's not like a it's not a stringency it's an obligation it's an obligation in it's an obligation in the it's obligation the five books of Moses or it starts but that specific is called it's an obligation in in several places it's everywhere everyone knows that a Jewish woman must cover our hair and for Generation among generation righteous Jewish women all the all the way back from the days of the Kash over 3,300 years ago 4,000 years ago covered the hair with a 5,000 years ago with the covered they with but now few hundred years ago things certain things changed so the M begins with this specific Mish which says the following a woman may go out on Shabbat with her hair braided with strands of hair whether the strands are her own hair or whether the strands are hair of her companion or whether the strands are of a animal with a frontlet or with head Bangles they are sewn to the hat with an ornament with an ornamental W uh Woolen cap or with a wig into the courtyard so this whole gar and it continues this gar talks about whether someone is allowed to put something on their head and walk outside when there's no cuz in essence it's carrying something thing so is it considered carrying or is it considered something like a piece of clothing which you're allowed to wear so here it says there's a few different types of things there is strands of hair her hair a friend's hair an animal hair or there's a uh a hat by itself or there's a hat uh with bangles on it or there is a um wig a wig itself so here that she take said oh see here you go says that you're allowed to wear a wig on Shabbat so it means you're allowed to wear a wig on shabbat mean you're allowed to we wig the rest of the week but why did everybody go against what he said says because you didn't read Rashi you missed Rashi what Rashi say Rashi said first of all who are these women that putting strands of hair why is he just putting his strand of hair why they put the whole wig if you're already putting a put a whole thing why you putting strands of hair first and foremost you should know who's putting this hair first off some people get sick they get Bol spots so it's embarrassing to have a bolt spot so put hair on it second thing if you're going to uh cover your hair anyway with a with a scarf or a hat why do you need to put the strands of hair because if you've ever seen if you ever seen a cancer patient someone that's bald and they cover their hair with a bandan you know that they're bald so many of the women even if they cover their hair with a bandan and they really don't have hair under it they still put a wig why because it still gives them more of a comfortable feeling a comfortable look to have that puffy hair look under the K even if it's Jew or non-jew so it say that even obviously all the women are covering their hair if they're married so even if they're covering their hair they're covering that bolt spot with hair not because you're going to see that hair but rather because they don't want you to see that there's some type of hole there looks deformed so what's the problem of just simply wearing the wig what is what does uh Rashi say he says the wig is allowed the wig is allowed because the only reason anything would not be allowed for example it's not allowed to wear certain ornaments on their head or certain things on their head because of the fear that they'll take it off on Shabbat to show it to their friend look how nice this Crown is look how ni my crown is and then forget to put it on their head and they're carrying it and they're violating Shabbat they're violating Shabbat because they're carrying something now so there certain things you're not allowed to wear specifically because a woman likes to show off our stuff if it's really nice she wants to show a friend oh look my husband just got this for me look my son just got this for me and so on and so forth and now you're going to forget to put it back to where it belongs and you're going to carry it and you're not have to carry if there's no so he says R she says there's no problem with wearing the wig why why is there no problem with wearing a wig because there's no fear of a woman removing that wig why is there no fear of that woman moving the wig because the wig is sewn into the hat that she's wearing on top of the wig the wig is sewn into the Hat she's wearing and of course she's not going to take off the hat because then you she's going be violating the torat she must cover her hair so even if she wants to show somebody hey look at my nice wig it's from France it's from uh Nigeria it's from I know Brazil wherever it is she not going to do it why cuz the wig is saw to the Hat cuz she has to have something cover her hair so she can't just take off the wig she has to take off the hat if she take off the hat she going to show off her head she going to show off our real head not allowed so here all of the all of the ones that say it's ass it's not allowed to cover your hair with a simple wig they're not using their own opinions this is this is what the says why is it not allowed to Simply wear a wig by itself why is it not allowed the specifically says in the same place 64b because it will be considered an enhancement if a older woman is wearing the hair of a younger woman meaning you're wearing hair that improves your looks which is going to grab the attention of other people which is an immodest act by definition an older woman is not going to you know no older woman is is getting a wig of white hair if she's already going to wear a wig she's going to wear a wig of a younger woman's hair that is by definition not loud that's what the says so when the missed it all of the other said you're 100% wrong and that's why the overwhelming majority of P throughout all of history have said it's forbidden 100% to wear a wig over 117 PO said it already before recent history another 10 recently were added but the recent 10 that were added were added for even another reason the recent 10 that were added were added for a more significant reason why were they added because after an in an intensive amount of studying that we've done with people in India people in different markets a lot of research that we did and as you all know I was on Wall Street for almost 20 years that was my profession that was what I did that was my expertise we pretty much have a not like a opinion it's a certainty it's a market certainty it's not my opinion it's a market certainty you go to any expert within the industry real expert that's not biased and you ask him where does the hair of real hair wigs originate from for the majority of the market statistically according to researchers Beyond myself over 90% of the hair in the world that goes for wigs comes from India no other place it does come from Cambodia and from China and from Russia and from different places but it's small amounts in comparison to the large amounts why is the small amounts why can't they just bring half of it from Russia why can't they bring half of it from China why can't they bring half of it from Brazil each one of those countries has its own explanation first and foremost Cambodia it's very nice thank you very much for providing some of the hair you just don't have a very big population though to provide a 10 billion business with hair it's a 1010 billion Market it's not like a $2 million business it's a 10 billion billion dollar industry you cannot Cambodia cannot provide even 5% of the markets air finished Cambodia Brazil a lot of people say Brazil comes from Brazil I asked some Brazilians oh do you have people that donate hair and or sell their hair in Brazil they start laughing in my face I said well okay you don't have to laugh at me why why you why you think it's not not funny I'm not really doing research like Brazilians and people from you know this part of the world would be more likely to commit suicide from starvation than shave their head such is the appreciation of of personal Beauty in that country in that part of the world it's never happening it's never happening Brazil gone there are a few suppliers in Brazil but after further research we saw they were just smarter than everybody else and already in the early uh ' 80s and 1990s they made contracts with the temples in India a few of them made some big contracts with the temples in India which we'll get to in a moment okay Russia Russia has this thing that they do where they go to the the women prisons and they forc the women even if it requires physical beatings to shave their head and then they sell the hair this how many how many people in jail can you possibly have it cannot Supply $10 billion business I'm sorry so then you say okay you have only left Europe you go to Europe France England Italy you ask them you guys shave your head you see any bald people in the street they're going to laugh at you the same way they laugh at you in Brazil it's it's not happening You Don't See the Queen of England shaving their head to donate our hair anywhere you don't see even the homeless people do such thing it's just not part of their thing and you don't see them selling it either you don't see them selling it either the reason why you don't see many people selling it because you can get it for free if someone sold it if someone wanted to sell their hair they'd sell it for a lot of money no one in their right mind will sell long hair that took him 15 20 years to grow well no one in their right mind will sell 50 bucks you're going to sell for several thousand why would I buy as a wig maker as a supplier why would I buy your hair for two three four five 6 S8 $9,000 if I can get it for free meaning for pennies on a dollar just go to India so now you have yourself two main markets left you have China and you have India China gets hair from dead people China has a population of a billion and a half people approximately and when people die part of the people actually they shave their head and they sell the hair this is forbidden according to the Torah you're not allowed to use the anything of the dead so that I don't have to debate it's a known fact it's not allowed but Chinese here you can tell it's Chinese here nonetheless either way even if it is even if it's not it's forbidden it's forbidden but even more so even more so there's not as many people dying in China as there is people donating hair in India why India because India for hundreds and hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of years has had it as part of their many religions to donate the hair to one of their false gods to one of their Idols you have over a billion people live in India currently average statistically according to Market Research not me market research professionals experts different major hedge funds major uh research houses major business outlets and so on said average person has donated a hair at least two and a half times meaning 2 and a half billion that's the market there's no other country including China that can supply the market like this why because even if you got the hair from some European or some isra iseli or some Cambodian or some Chinese or some it still will be drastically more expensive why cuz someone selling it here the people are giving it for free and they're actually paying the temple to take the hair no other Market can compete with free it's the best price now why are they doing it for free because it is 100% idol worship just like a million big difference we brought to in the mikdash they bring their hair to their false Idols of rats and statues and all types of foolishness same thing in their eyes obviously stupidity but nonetheless their purpose is the same according to the according to the according to the entire T once something was used for idol worship it can never be undone that's why as soon as Yeshua went into went to isem said burn all the trees why burn the trees what they do somebody worshiped them yeah but the tree itself is innocent didn't do anything doesn't make a difference it was used for idol worship once it can never be used again it must be destroyed the only mitvah left for its existence is to destroy it it cannot be used you can't make it into paper you can't make it into tables you can't make it used for beauty you can't use its fruit it must be destroyed meaning if you have a wig and you have a zillion hairs in the wig and one hair in it one hair came from idolatry Just One Hair not the whole thing one hair but you don't know which hair the whole wig has to be destroyed why you can't take the chance can't take the chance that that one hair is on your head cuz that's idol worship now all all T all real Scholars all real Jews everyone agrees you're not allowed to benefit him from idol worship everyone but there was some heretic that pretends to be a rabbi that came up and says no no we're going to kosher the wigs we're going to uh oversee it we're going to this we're going to this we going to that I already made enough videos about that that the whole coastering of wigs is complete nonsense there's no such thing it cannot exist there's no way to koser it especially the way that he doesn't do what he what he says that he does and even he himself when raash Shalom came out and said it's not allowed it's forbidden to use wigs from India or from anywhere from idol worship he himself says no I don't I don't agree with rash I don't think that uh the idol worshiping is a problem even if you get it from India you could still use it so if you don't think that they need to be koshered how are you koshering it how many kosher institutions are there for wigs one only him I made a I made already enough comments about the whole koshering thing what am I telling what's the here summarizing everything to a point how is this connected to to to to to the to the wife of of elazar how is this connected the main defendant unfortunately the main defendant of all of the wigs in the world right now the main defendant of fighting for wigs right now the main unfortunately the main defendant of it is kabad stands for three levels of of wisdom Unfortunately today after the rebi died it stands for three other things it stands for you have to believe that the Reb is Masia stands for that we all everybody's a captured baby you're okay wherever you are and stands for wigs you go to kabad and you tell them listen it's forbidden over 120 said that it's not allowed they said no no no rebi allowed it he tell them it's forbidden it's idol worship all post SCH said it's not allowed including the the Reb of course the reab would never say that idol worship was allowed it's against the Tora it was a kados was is kados not allow idol worship no no it's not idol worship what I I told you it's idol worship the idol worship himself made a video said it's idol worship have people in in India in India saying it's idol worship we do idol worship yeah sure what's the problem they have nothing don't think there's anything wrong with it they're not embarrassed of their idol worship they're proud of it you know how many videos I have of of people saying it's idol worship while they're shaving their head they're proud of it just like you're proud of putting feeling on your head just like your your your wife is proud of putting a scarf on the head she like you're proud of seeing she you're proud of eating food just like you're proud of sending your kids to Yesa they're proud of their idol worship so they made many videos there there no problem they're actually looking at you like what's wrong with you why don't you why don't you also pray to the rats and the bats and the the snakes and the the statues with the uh with the Elephant Head why why don't you pray to them too they don't know what's wrong with you they don't realize it's wrong with them so you tell theab no no it's idol worship no no the RB allowed the RB allowed there's no way the RB would be allowed would would would make a mistake what is he God and for the last couple of days I've had this for months for the last two days I've been debating R FR and I have been debating these several several kabad rabbis where they're literally it started as we just posted something about uh some person had a dream that the rebi Shalom came to him in a dream or came to her in a dream and said I never said that wigs are the wigs of today are allowed I never said that a mashia tell people to stop tell people stop doing it stop saying that this is my name I posted this in this different groups immediately these uh first Rabbi publicly insults me says you have to be an idiot to believe such a thing and you're a fool and you're this and you're that a lot of compliments thank you very much I need thank you very much for helping me out fine so then we started talking about I said well wigs are not allowed I like no but the re allowed and we have other proofs and we start going back and forth so initially they provide five sources of P we the sources it's all mistake just don't know how to read these people we provide them 25 sources showing them that the five sources are wrong they provide two or three more sources we provide 50 more 50 more so far our numbering a little bit 50 more not allowed what do they do they start cursing us out start insulting us we continue for the there proofs then we say even the rebi Lich himself did not agree with what you're saying why what the guy say the rabbi theab Rabbi what does he say he said yeah yeah I just came back from such and such town in Israel and I was making sure to look at all of the women to make sure they're wearing weights wait excuse me what did you just say that's what you just say yeah make sure to look this is in writing I can show it you it's in Hebrew though but I can show it to you I make sure to look at all of the rabbis at all of the women to make sure they're wearing wigs why you looking at women you why are you looking at other women you don't know you don't you're obligated to watch your eyes and then they start creating laws and they start creating things in the name of the rebi the that was a ises they start creating things what they say theab refused to marry any couple if the woman did not agree to wear a wig are you stupid are you are is something wrong with you where did you come up with such nonsense we St providing them proofs that the rebi himself himself wrote letters for for the scarves and this goes back and forth back and forth not so much Dage more cursing us it's more proofs nonetheless we're trying to get to the we're trying for we're figuring it's frustration we're not taking anything personally whatever it is what it is you get a little heated sometimes fine you want to get heated fine no problem so D after two days of arguing I've been dealing with this weak thing for a couple of years already Ro FR for even more he wrote it in his books and so on I have lifetime I think to myself all this debate who was the closest person to the rebi who is the closest person to any is KES who of course Rabbi is a close is close but aside from that inside who his wife what did his wife do his wife definitely didn't call him Messiah tell you that but what did his wife do I said let's find out I went on on some research I found you some confirmations I found you some confirmations you can't say it's my opinion why the source isad the source of everything I have right now is it's not me it's I I didn't I don't I didn't go back 30 years in time to take these pictures kabad has several movies about the rabbitson she was a is she was m in our generation when she lived she died in the late 80s the reiton was K Muska schneerson was M Unfortunately they didn't have any kids but when there was a lawsuit and they were looking at the estate they were looking into the the estate of kabad and so on and so forth they asked about the rebi and they asked about her her Father which was the uh the uh laich rebi before the rabne said and they asked oh what does he have what does he have he goes no no the rebi belongs to the everything he has is for the everything there's no person our house our car our money our bank everything is for the one little boy came to the rits in he says Ritson where are your kids little kid doesn't know M what having kids is M doesn't know innocent innocent Mama's pure Soul what the rabbit instead of crying like all of us want to cry right now for such a thing what did she say she all the are his kids all the are kids say I want to know what in our generation did if you're saying so many things about a husband Shalom I want to see what she did she go with her husband she go again what she do if she's a I want to be like her you don't need to listen to my words anymore you could just see pictures this is the first picture this is a very famous picture of the rebit rabbits and serson you see that there is a little bit of hair and a hat there's a little bit of hair and a hat now this is obviously for anyone any woman would tell you this is obviously her real hair we showed this to the kabad rabbis they said no no it's a wig It's A Wig I said okay let's check another one let's check another picture you have another picture what about this one it's another hat this a wig too from 80 years ago it's a wig oh no it's a wig It's A Wig Hem Hem have mercy on you tells meem have mercy on you for calling for thinking this is not a wig hasm have mercy on you I said okay fine no problem no problem this is a wig this is her by the way I said okay no problem let's see next next next picture here she is over here same picture as the other one just the original picture is this a wig oh no it's a wig hasm have mercy on you that says It's A Wig I said okay no problem fine no problem we have wigs we have a lot of wigs we have a lot of different types of wigs then you have the movie the movie uh called the um Life and Times of the rabbitson life and time of the reiton a brief biography of rebon K musers it shows several pictures of her some of that I showed you some that other this is one of them this is one of them and you see that there this is her you see that there's hair here in the back and there's a hat is a hat okay and okay let's say this is also I made it up I don't know somehow or whatever it is fine no problem now oh so so you know the is that you are allowed to show according to you are allow allowed to show up to three finger fulls of hair up to three finger fulls of hair you're allowed to show front or back or so claims today's not today's people claim no no we hold by the Z who says you're not to show even a single hair not even that's why the wig is better according to them and to actually wear is a sin according to these rabbis that I had a debate with it's a sin if that's a sin what's a Mitzvah anyway so it said that's why so I said okay so what about the Ritson she's showing some hair no that's a wig that's a wig okay fine it's a wig so let's just go fast forward and we go to 1985 just a couple of years before she died and we see what the Ritson is wearing next to a a man that's not a husband this is actually a picture that was taken when they were questioning her to some type of a financial issues some type of lawsuit and you see you can't see in the back digitally but OB she's actually wearing a she's wearing a some type of cover on hair and the front is showing about three finger FS or even a little bit more of three finger FS is showing next to a strange man obviously a cameraman so obviously she this is not a picture that somebody got behind the scenes and she didn't know cuz if she knows that there's people out there Sheik she has to cover her hair now if case this was not convincing let's go there's another version of the picture now she looks and you can see clearly that she has something covering her hair and a little bit is not covered in the front next to the same strange man whoever this sadik is 1985 gives you the date and everything and if that wasn't enough I told him oh this what about this like no no it's a wig I'm like what a wig an old woman is going to get white hair wig he said no no it's not it's not if it's not that's only because she's home so she doesn't have to cover her hair I'm like what do you mean she doesn't have to cover her hair there's strength people next to us not a husband did you just create a new law he said don't make fun of me this what he's responsible don't make fun of me so then we have another picture of the Ritson of her in a car this is a somebody took she was in a car and actually you can't see here but she's actually wearing the same exact K was as before and the front is showing but she's in a car so you can't use that excuse of she was home and she didn't know and she doesn't have to meaning every single argument you have is going to the garbage she wore K and last but not least is another one where she covered her hair here she doesn't have much showing at all uh she covered our entire hair is a black and white picture so now you have is that dedicated her life toad dedicated her life to her husband dedicate her life to what dides she do she put a on now if that wasn't enough I figured I already have let's go all the way what did his mother do guy's not going to go against his mother you know his mother was what's a story about his mother his father was a huge huge one day there the Communist wanted to kill them wanted to kill them non-stop but the father's Father I remember the story from years ago his father used to write Kim on the corners of thear pages cuz they didn't have money for they didn't have money for uh for paper very you know how expensive paper was back then like today you buy 500 pieces of paper for $2 back then you have 500 piece of paper you're already rich so people used to write on the corners you know between you know you have the book you have the book and then you have a little bit of white space on it little white space that's where they write theim on the corners over here so she took all of these all of the books instead of clothes instead of food instead of money she took all of his and she took it out of the country to save the books she put her life on her line no money no clothes no nothing she just took his books why the world must see his this is how much she love Tora this is it's not regular women it's no different than the in that generation no different than and there no different what did she do Anderson look at this nice hat look at this another hat some hair showing on the side but you have the Hat more hair showing than the Ritson other one but nonetheless there's a hair covering which we'll explain in a moment another one these are all the pictures that are available there no more pictures you want to go find one send it to me but I don't I didn't F I did a lot of research covering more this is a meeting first meeting she had with the REI himself she hasn't seen him in almost 20 years meeting with all the rabbis and the rebi rebi here as you can see he very young is the rebbit and his mother the hat looks like a stral she covers everything huge and again another meeting over here another black and white picture this is the rabbits in here this is the rebi again huge hat and if you want to read you should read the story The Life and Times of the Ritson Muska it's actually on kad's website it's actually on rby.org or something like that very very good article also has many of the same pictures that I just showed you uh and others uh not others and uh what's it called just in the article now what's the point the point is a few things number one even if you want to say which is a lie even if you want to say they wore both of them both of these wore a wig let's say they did they didn't but let's say they did what kind what kind of wig did they did they wear what did they wear they we exactly what the says exactly what Rashi says they wore the wig under the Hat okay I wore the wig white wig okay fine never really existed why no no problem I we the wig under the Hat though not a wig by itself not a wig by itself covered my hair obligate no problem but just like Rashi says just say just like the mishna says no three feet long wig reach the floor not even a short wig nothing why it's not allowed it's p not allowed it's p not allowed so even if it was a wig you see it's covered by a hat in reality it wasn't a wig you want to believe it's a wig fine okay if you're holding by the you want to hold by him to wear wig no problem at least hold by what he actually did don't hold by something you created out of your thin mind of what you say he did hold by what his wife did hold by what his mother did no problem but don't go out and pretend like you're covering your hair like the Baba Sali says say he says these women they they're they're they're pretending like they could fool God they're pretending like they could fool God by fulfilling the obligation of covering hair with hair they're pretending to fulfill the obligation you think foem it's nonsense it's nonsense you have to understand to be is not easy it's not easy it's not easy to bring am to a point where hm will save us out of the tum of the world out of the impurity of the world of Egypt it's not easy you fast forward 3,300 years we're in the same situation for any woman to do serious chuva and stop with the nonsense it's not easy but at least don't lie about it don't pretend like you're finished with your children don't pretend we have all a lot to do we all have a lot to do but knowing the truth is half the battle knowing the truth is half the battle that's what we can do cha you want to hold by rebi no problem do what he did you want to hold by R do what he did whatever you whatever you want to hold do what they do don't start creating new rules in someone's name that died and you can't ask ask him now the best part is they said no RF kaneski said it's allowed I said no way he didn't say it's allowed I have a video of him saying it's not allow a video right now he just made a few months ago a couple years ago video of him say is not allowed they showed him a 15year old wig meaning it's a wig that's been beat up he says this looks like real hair it's not allowed would they insist so much in this allowed why they insist that it's allowed because the guys don't know how to watch their eyes that's the truth the guys don't know how to watch their eyes they want to be like go they want their wives to look like go they want to make the same mistakes Dina made in the par Dina made a mistake she wanted to see she didn't want to be like the go she want to see the guys today they want to see what the green look like oh look they have long hair I want long hair that's the truth that's the hard truth that's what they're GNA try to hang me on that's what they're gonna try to fight me with it's no problem I'm for God whoever wants to fight good luck or maybe they all interest whatever of course his interest is money but in reality it's eyes in reality it's eyes yeah of course there's money yes of course at the end of the day to do chuva for such a thing don't take it for Grant it's very difficult why is it very difficult for all of them to do chuva just like said sometimes the embarrassment is so big I rather the person die than me go visit him in hospital sometimes it's so hard for them do they rather die themselves even than than put a but that's the difference between aad and that's the difference between a and you want to bring the mashia for real you will say mashia Mash mashia you say want to bring mashia okay bring the mashia do Chu do Chua it's not easy it's not easy but you can do it if you couldn't do it Hashem would have never given you would have never given you you this test and that's what we'll finish with the p Shalom says nearly all of a woman's reward and Punishment in this world and the world to come all the reward all of the punishment comes and is dependent on her modesty it's the P it's not me you have a problem go to him he's in right now with the rest of problem going to him that's the truth at least we know where we stand there nothing against there's nothing against anyone it's only against lies it's only against lies there's many that I say stories on whether it's zil or the many others and himself but enough's enough stop desecrating hashem's name stop desecrating even your own Rab's name saying things in his name come on no enough enough let we all need to do CH that's what the r says which teaches they have a way a structured study for for for for rambam where they finish the rambam each year I believe it's it's there's a said they hold by it so okay hold by everything he says hold by everything he says don't just pick and choose we're not Christians this will shock enough people into Chua not into war with me it's not me it has nothing to do with me if one thing that I said Is A Lie prove it if one thing that I said Is A Lie prove it if one thing that I said has a bias that I have some personal interest prove it if you can prove it I'll admit it openly I'll make a bigger lecture about it I'll make a bigger lecture I have no problem it's not no no benefit if I if I may said something wrong if I said some mistake I'll brn it if I have some vested interest in it I'll admit it but the onus is on the hus is on everyone face reality okay this is where you stand now what you want Hashem to answer your prayers now what it's time it's time listen we learned from and we're going to learn next week hem put the plagues on in order to show us the measure for measure punishment against the wicked Shalom for us to be judged as the wicked Shalom we want to be the righteous they're in between the lines we want to be like y want to be like want to be even like din we want to be is one of them Al we don't to be like Po we have to we have to stop sinning just like it said at the end of the even though afterm rebuked him so many times seven times he beat him on the head so far and continue to sin Shalom we continue to sin Shalom we continue to sin and think that what we're doing is a 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