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We had a plan to bring you a story
tonight about a kind of prep school that
prepares football players for the NFL
draft and big contracts, [music]
but we're going to call an audible.
We're going to switch sports tonight
because we've run across an absolutely
amazing basketball player that we want
you to see. Hard practice tomorrow, all
hour and a half. Let's get ready for
Arcadia. Let's go.
>> One, two, three, team. Helping with
whatever the team needs. And go. Get
them motivated, uh hand out water, and
just be enthusiastic.
I want to share a story with you that
will melt your heart. I grew up in
Rochester, New York, and [music] down
the road from where I grew up, there's a
high school where one of the most
unbelievable, emotional sports moments
ever took place. This wasn't the NBA, it
wasn't [music] March Madness, this is a
public high school gym. There were no
celebrities there, there were no scouts,
there were just some wooden bleachers
and a story that somehow made its way
around the world. And what's wild is
that when it happened, nobody thought it
would be famous because the person at
the center of it wasn't supposed to
matter. He wasn't the star, he wasn't
even a player. He was the water carrier.
He was the towel guy. He was the ball
boy, and he had autism. His name was
Jason McElwain.
Most unlikely hero, a special ed student
by the name of Jason McElwain. Let's
keep it going. Jason is the basketball
team manager.
For the past couple years, he's been
assisting coach Jim Johnson, helping
with whatever the team needs. And go.
Get them motivated, uh hand out water,
and just be enthusiastic. Enthusiastic,
to say the least. Despite being born
with autism, Jason's father says his son
has never had a problem expressing
himself at basketball games. You know, I
was always concerned that he might
[music] get a technical and they lose a
game because he, you know, start yelling
or whatever.
>> I said we'll have a hard practice
tomorrow, all hour and a half. Let's get
ready for Arcadia. Let's go. One, two,
three, team.
It was the last game of the season. The
score doesn't really matter anymore. The
season's basically over, and the coach
does something kind, something symbolic.
He puts in the team manager, Jason, also
known as J-Mac, who's autistic. He has
special needs. He's a kid who showed up
every day. He helped the team. He loved
the game, but never played a real
minute. Now, nobody expects anything.
You can even hear it in the crowd. This
isn't tension, this is, you know, a
polite applause.
And then he shoots.
Swish. Nice moment. Good for him.
And then he makes another one. Okay,
that's interesting. Then he makes a
third three-pointer. Okay, now something
shifts in the gym. You can feel it.
People stop sitting. They stop clapping
politely. They start leaning forward
because this isn't charity anymore. This
guy is for real. Shot after shot from
the corner, from the wing, hands in the
face. Six three-pointers in a row, 20
points in 4 minutes, and the gym
absolutely loses its mind. For the last
game of the season, coach Johnson
decided to let Jason actually suit up.
Not to play necessarily, just to let him
feel what it's like to wear a jersey.
At least that was the plan. But with 4
minutes to go in last week's game, coach
Johnson stood up and pointed to number
52.
Jason McElwain.
After years of fetching water and
toweling off other people's sweat, Jason
was actually in a game. His first shot
was a 20-footer from the right baseline.
Was it close? Did you almost make it?
>> missed. I just air-balled it. And like,
just, dear God, please, let's just get
him a basket. His second shot missed,
too, but the third was a charm, a
three-point no-doubter.
And Jason wasn't done yet.
Not by a long shot. If I wasn't there to
witness it, I wouldn't have believed it,
you know. You caught fire.
>> just caught fire. I was hot as a pistol.
Jason ended up shooting six
three-pointers.
One right after the other.
He had 20 points total,
>> [screaming]
>> and each time a shot went in, his
teammates and the crowd went a little
crazier.
All that time, they thought he was just
the ball boy. But maybe he wasn't. Maybe
he was a player who never got put in the
game. Maybe he had it in him, and no one
ever thought to look. And that's where
this stops being a sports story and
starts being a life story. [music]
Because this happens every single day.
We label people. We reduce human beings
[music] to categories. We decide, he's
just support. She's behind the scenes.
That guy, he's not built for this. He's
the towel guy. He's the water carrier.
He's not the builder, he's the helper.
He's not the speaker, he's the listener.
He's not the learner, he's the guy who
supports the learners. And once a label
sticks, we stop looking. We stop
expecting. We stop investing. [music] We
stop imaginating anything more. And
sometimes we're not just wrong, we're
catastrophically wrong. Because
sometimes the people we least expect
aren't lacking ability, they're lacking
opportunity. They're not empty, they're
loaded. They're loaded with depth,
they're loaded with fire, they're loaded
with talent. They never got called off
the bench.
History is littered with people everyone
misjudged until one moment ripped
[music] the mask off the lie. And the
lie is simple, but deadly. That you can
measure someone's potential by where
they're standing right now. Except you
can't. Because sometimes the towel guy
is the deadliest shooter in the gym.
Sometimes the quiet one is carrying
oceans of Torah no one ever bothered to
tap into. Someone Sometimes the guy
nobody turns to is the only one with the
courage to step forward when everyone
else freezes. And sometimes, if we're
being honest, the most underestimated
person in the room is the one looking
back at you [music] in the mirror.
Because here's the part that should make
us a little uncomfortable. Sometimes we
do it to ourselves. We hand ourselves
the towel. We grab the water bottle. We
stand on the sidelines and say, I'm not
really cut out to learn Torah, I'll just
support it. I'm not the type who gives
to you, Rim, I'll just [music] tend
them. I'm not built for real chesed,
I'll just send checks to those who are.
And those are respectable roles. They're
honorable roles. But at the end of the
day, they're sideline roles. Maybe the
story of Jason McElwain isn't just
[music] inspirational, maybe it's
accusatory. Maybe you've been showing up
your whole life being dependable, being
helpful, being nice, but never stepping
onto the court. [music]
Not because you couldn't play, but
because somewhere along the way you
decided you weren't a player, you were
just [music] a towel boy. Well, Judaism
doesn't believe in towel boys. Judaism
doesn't believe in spectators. The Torah
wasn't given to fans, it was given to
participants. You don't need to be the
star, you don't need to hit nine shots
in a row, but you do need to take the
shot. Because the tragedy isn't missing,
the tragedy is never trying. The tragedy
is convincing yourself that you're just
the ball boy. But maybe you're not.
Maybe Jason McElwain isn't the story.
Maybe Jason McElwain is you.
Because he is autistic.
Jason says he's used to feeling
different.
But never this different.
Never this wonderful.