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For a lot of Jewish history, the avoid
was pretty obvious. A Jew lived in some
freezing village in Poland or a
scorching hot town in Lebanon where the
nearest Tam Khak was three towns away
and sar were rare and money was scarce.
And getting to was about as realistic as
getting to Mars. There were no Torah
anytime apps. There were no podcasts.
There were no WhatsApp statuses with
dailyiz. There were no kosher vacations.
There was no kir of conventions and
tishabove films. You didn't have 500
shirim waiting for you at the click of a
button. If a Jew managed to hear a great
drasha once a year, it'd stay with him
for months. If he owned a few sarim, he
treasured them. If he even saw a sadic,
he'd tell his grandchildren about it 60
years later. The show barely had sided.
Most people didn't live within 500 miles
of yeshiva. And even if you did, you
might not been able to afford to go or
send your son there. For women, formal
Jewish education was non-existent. You
simply relied on a few stories you
heard, the occasional dé ty at a shabas
meal and the tahillim you knew by heart.
That was it. You didn't have access to
endless tyra. You'd have endless
inspiration. You didn't have a thousand
different ways to remind yourself that
you're a Jew. You had what you had. And
because you had so little of it, you
treasured every bit of it. The avoida of
many people was to take a world that
felt spiritually dark and somehow inject
yideskite into it to bring holiness into
a life that didn't really naturally
contain much of it. But nowadays I think
our challenge is almost the exact
opposite. Today to a certain extent
we're drowning in Judaism. We have so
much access to spirituality that
spirituality itself can start feeling
ordinary. You know what happens when you
visit arcrol once in your lifetime? You
kiss the ground. You cry at the kaisle.
You stare at the hills of your shell in
just utter disbelief. You know what
happens when you go every year? It
starts to feel like another vacation.
Which hotel are you staying at? Which
restaurant did you eat at? Which
boutique store, leather store, wood
carving store, Judeaica store did you go
to this time? Which tour did you go on?
You shall starts competing with Miami.
The holiest city on earth starts getting
processed by the same part of the brain
that processes Cancun. Or take Shaw.
Imagine bringing a Jew from 500 years
ago into some of our shores with crystal
chandeliers and beautiful woodwork and
air conditioning and coffee stations and
thousands of sparum. A building worth
literally tens of millions of dollars.
He he would look around and faint. We
walk in and say, "Hey, where's the decaf
coffee?" Or or how about Shirim? We live
in the first generation in human history
where a person can listen to Rav Misha
Feinstein, Rav Yakov, Kamatki, RV
Hutner, Ra Viker, Miller, Rikut all
simultaneously while sitting in traffic
and yet sometimes the shear is playing
in the background while we're checking
emails, answering texts, and wondering
why the guy in front of us hasn't moved
at the green light. The words can enter
one ear and then just leave the other.
Not because they're not profound,
because they're so available we don't
cherish them. And perhaps that's a real
legitimate crisis of our generation. Not
a Judaism shortage, a Judaism
saturation. We don't have too little
access to Yiddish. We have such an
unbelievable access that it sometimes we
forget how extraordinary it is. We
become so surrounded by Tyra and that we
stop being moved by it. We've heard the
words so many times that we've forgotten
that they're supposed to shake us. I
sometimes think the Yates of the
previous generation was distance. And
our Yates is familiarity. Nothing kills
wonder faster than familiarity. Nothing
kills inspiration faster than habit.
Nothing turns miracles into just
furniture faster than seeing them every
single day. And maybe that's the avoida
of our generation. Not more Judaism.
more attention, more curiosity, more
wonder. To stop sleepwalking through
mitzvah, to stop treating tila like
background music, to stop treating Tyra
like just white noise. To stop standing
in the middle of miracles and acting
like we're standing in line at the DMV.
Because for many people, the greatest
spiritual danger today is not that we'll
abandon Judaism. It's that we'll become
so familiar with it that we'll stop
noticing it. And the cure is simple.
Slow down. Look again. Ask questions.
Pay attention. recognize that there's a
difference between being observant and
being religious. [music] Like Raard
Felman likes to say that being observant
doesn't automatically make you religious
the same way that being religious
doesn't automatically make you
observant. You can do every single
mitzvah you're supposed to do and still
not have developed a deep emotional
connection to Hashem. And that doesn't
mean that the mitzvah you're doing
aren't real. Obviously they are. Of
course they are. It just means the duvos
isn't there. The emotional connection to
Hashem isn't there. The aavas, which by
the way is a mitzvah dice, isn't there.
And that's a tragedy. The mitzvah to
love Hashem is not some poetic idea that
we're supposed to feel only once in a
while. It's something we're supposed to
work on, something that we're supposed
to develop, something that we're
supposed to nurture, we're supposed to
become. We can know the we can know the
stories. We can listen to the shurim. We
can go to Arab. We can sit in the
beautiful shaw surrounded by thousands
of suvar and somehow through all of it,
Hashem can still feel distant because we
can do everything and feel nothing. And
in a generation that is constantly
dulling everything down where everything
is becoming faster and louder and more
entertaining and somehow more boring at
the exact same time, this idea matters
more than ever because the goal of Yoshk
was never simply to create people who
follow a system. The goal was to create
people who are connected to Hashem.
People who see Hashem, people who feel
Hashem, people who love Hashem, people
who walk through this world with the
sense that there's something much much
bigger happening than whatever is
appearing on the screen of their phones
at that particular time. And maybe
that's something we can all work on. Not
just to become more observant, to become
more spiritual, not just to do more, to
feel more, to make sure that in a
generation drowning in Judaism, we don't
accidentally drown out Hashem.
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