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HILCHOS KIBUD AV VAEIM: INTRODUCTORY SHIUR - DIFFERENT PARTS OF THE MITZVAH
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Rabbi Nachum Scheiner speaking at the Night Kollel at Bais Medrash Ohr Chaim
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We're learning this with our aim.
I want to ask the people here.
What's the practical application
in being kind to our aim? How is one
kind to our aim?
I would rather
a logical answer. Everybody will answer.
We're learning the
answer to the question. Turn around now.
What's covered? So the answer lists out
six different ways how to be kind to a
father. My
my
way. My way. Cover my
different
ways.
That's our aim.
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that that's our aim. What the answer
says what how to be
the
answer to the question of our aim.
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that's only a way
and could even be
the very least part of the
of our aim.
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off with doing it.
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also does it my way. But he says the way
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way that I do it. That's the way that I
do it. So he says
when you
speak to them, you have to speak calmly.
Calmly.
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is going to is going to kind of speak
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that I do it. That's the way that I do
it. Look at who who's this person's
father. He was never
kind to him. So part of the
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the way that I do it. That's the way
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speak bad on your father.
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kind to his mother.
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this that his mother remarried.
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took care of her.
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but in his heart he really he was
He wasn't happy that his mother
remarried. So that was was missing in
the believe.
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I
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person can find at least one way that
his parents are the way that I do it.
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way that I do it.
The way that I do it. you're saying. I
Maybe I wasn't clear. That's what I was
trying to say.
It's different. The way that I do it.
That's the way that I do it. That's the
way that I do it. That's the way that I
do it. That's the way that I do it.
That's the way that I do it.
You need to have kavana when you shake
the lulav, but the kavana is not the
mitzvah. The kavana is if you don't have
kavana, you're not the mitzvah. Not
shaking by kibud av, it's not the it's
more you
need to have kavana. The kavana is that
you respect your parents. That is a look
of the mitzvah. By lulav, if you don't
have kavana, it's a you don't have
kavana, it's the mitzvah, but the kavana
is not the mitzvah of shaking the lulav.
Here the kavana by kibud av, not the
mitzvah kavana, but the kavana
the believe, that's a of the mitzvah.
That's the mitzvah.
Now, you might look at me I'm saying
from the
but maybe it's more
musar, it's not
the
in
in the
brings in in
in Zion Gimel.
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the mitzvah of the mitzvah of the
mitzvah of and then he has a separate
for each one for
for for the mitzvah.
There's another mitzvah.
Besides
the mitzvah of the mitzvah of the
mitzvah.
before in the mitzvah.
to love a parent.
The
I start first with the because he's a
little bit more and he says, I'd rather
you're supposed to love everybody. In
this week's we have to
so there's a mitzvah there's a mitzvah
to love everybody.
So he says, but
who
I have awesome loving one's parent and
he brings the mitzvah.
What does it mean it's who
the mitzvah of the mitzvah of the
And the
brings this mitzvah of the mitzvah
the
mitzvah of the mitzvah of the mitzvah of
the mitzvah of the mitzvah of the
mitzvah of the mitzvah of the mitzvah of
the mitzvah of the mitzvah of the
mitzvah of the mitzvah of the mitzvah of
the mitzvah of the mitzvah of the
mitzvah of the mitzvah
besides the mitzvah.
So the mitzvah of the mitzvah
So the mitzvah of the mitzvah of the
mitzvah but wait a second, before the
mitzvah of the mitzvah of the mitzvah of
the mitzvah of the mitzvah of the
mitzvah of the mitzvah to love the
mitzvah
to love the mitzvah of the mitzvah.
So what's the over there? Why didn't he
stop over there? Who could he be
to add on the the
of the mitzvah of the mitzvah?
So the mitzvah of the mitzvah No, that
wasn't a
cuz over there the is the mitzvah of the
mitzvah the parents.
But often
mitzvah of kibud av the mitzvah
The mitzvah we said before the
respect them the mitzvah of the mitzvah
of the mitzvah and then we see over here
also
to love them.
The mitzvah the mitzvah
a special addition
more than anybody else to love a parent
from the
as we see
mitzvah of the mitzvah of the mitzvah of
the mitzvah of the mitzvah of the
mitzvah of the mitzvah of the mitzvah of
the mitzvah of the mitzvah of the
mitzvah
The mitzvah of the mitzvah of the
mitzvah he writes a letter to a
that they were they were
they were worried of the
and the mitzvah writes a whole letter to
the mitzvah of the mitzvah this is
how many
and the mitzvah says you have to be you
have to
have the mitzvah of the mitzvah the
mitzvah writes to the mitzvah of the
mitzvah.
And then the mitzvah says
kibud av he tells the kibud av
You could be the mitzvah of the mitzvah
of the mitzvah of the mitzvah
However, you could do all of that even
though
you don't like them. You could be the
mitzvah of the mitzvah. Not shaking by
it says the mitzvah of the mitzvah.
But often the mitzvah of the mitzvah
he's saying is it's not just
you could say that it's by a
it's the mitzvah of the mitzvah of the
mitzvah of the mitzvah not by the
parents but he says you could be the
mitzvah of the mitzvah the mitzvah of
the mitzvah of the mitzvah
You
don't have the mitzvah of the mitzvah of
the mitzvah you need it.
Before we go by that left a one mitzvah
We spoke about in the mitzvah of kibud
the mitzvah of the mitzvah of the
mitzvah.
He's also
this week's mitzvah.
the mitzvah of the mitzvah the mitzvah
and the mitzvah gives a list what's the
mitzvah
the mitzvah of the mitzvah of the
mitzvah of the mitzvah of the mitzvah
The
mitzvah says
I'll pee this. He says even the mitzvah
What does it mean the mitzvah? Just like
he says the mitzvah we said before the
mitzvah is in your mind you're supposed
to look up to them in your mind look up
and be respectful to them. So the
mitzvah and the same thing is the
mitzvah.
Not just the mitzvah of the mitzvah of
the mitzvah the mitzvah also it should
be the mitzvah of the mitzvah of the
mitzvah of the mitzvah of the mitzvah
the mitzvah of the mitzvah of the
mitzvah of the mitzvah of the mitzvah of
the mitzvah the mitzvah of the mitzvah
over here also would be the the same
thing the mitzvah to be the mitzvah of
the mitzvah as well also.
Since we just said
that these
the mitzvah kibud av the mitzvah
You could be the mitzvah of the mitzvah.
The famous question that's asked, why
don't you make a
on the mitzvah of the mitzvah of the
mitzvah of kibud av? Why don't you make
a mitzvah?
The mitzvah is many to root them.
It could be the next year
will be focused on that why you don't
make a
but I'll pee what we're saying now that
the mitzvah of kibud av is the mitzvah
of the mitzvah of the mitzvah even at
side that if you don't have the right
mitzvah you
not the mitzvah of kibud av.
Come to the whole mitzvah of the mitzvah
on the mitzvah that you on the mitzvah
you don't make a mitzvah.
Where do you find that?
The
says the mitzvah of the mitzvah of the
mitzvah of the mitzvah to make the
mitzvah of the mitzvah of the mitzvah of
the mitzvah of the mitzvah of the
mitzvah of the mitzvah on The mitzvah of
the mitzvah says and why don't you make
a
on the mitzvah
So the mitzvah of the reason why you
don't make a on the mitzvah of the
mitzvah is because believe and on the
mitzvah believe you don't make a
mitzvah. The mitzvah of kibud av
It could be
it could be that if you don't have the
right if you're missing the mitzvah of
the mitzvah of the mitzvah of the
mitzvah so the mitzvah of the mitzvah
you don't make a mitzvah.
Some say that's a also between the
mitzvah of the mitzvah of the mitzvah
some say the reason why you don't make a
on the mitzvah of the mitzvah of the
mitzvah
about you have to prepare but if you
don't know what you're talking about you
don't
you have to know the mitzvah is not a
don't say that
stop saying
you have to know what you're saying so
it's considered believe you don't make a
mitzvah. I could that would be the
mitzvah of the mitzvah of the mitzvah.
What's the reason
for the mitzvah? What's the
mitzvah
for kibud av the mitzvah?
the mitzvah
The says the reason why the mitzvah is
the mitzvah of the mitzvah of the
mitzvah of the mitzvah
that we should have the mitzvah of the
mitzvah of the mitzvah.
The spends a few lines going through
to be the mitzvah to explain
how much
parents did for us and how much we have
to have
from the day we were born
and food and for us and take us to and
teach us on and on and on and then the
mitzvah of the mitzvah of the mitzvah of
the mitzvah.
The mitzvah of the mitzvah the first and
the second day these are the mitzvah of
the mitzvah it's different different
words at each one.
And by by the mitzvah by the mitzvah of
the mitzvah of of the mitzvah of
kibud av
of the mitzvah of the mitzvah.
In the mitzvah of the mitzvah what the
food that that we got and what our
parents taught us and our parents for us
all goes through how much our parents
gave and therefore we're supposed to
have the mitzvah of the mitzvah.
And of course
not to be a mitzvah.
That's the reason why the mitzvah of the
mitzvah of kibud av
that we should have the mitzvah of the
mitzvah.
Then he adds on and he says the mitzvah
of the mitzvah first of all
a person should have the mitzvah of the
mitzvah. The
person the your parents have a curse at
all times.
Person should have the meat of a curse
at all times always.
For everything that everything that we
have everything everything from the to
have a curse at all times.
The
the and a fish.
He goes through
how much a person has to have a curse at
all times to the at all times.
So the midst of keeping
is to have a curse at all times to our
parents. A person
is supposed to be someone who is
not a coffee type.
Another reason another reason
for
the midst of at all times
is before in the at all times.
The
brings brings it from at all times
to tomorrow.
Tomorrow says you have to go.
Tomorrow
you have to go that if a father
tells you to
at all times
you should listen to him.
Tell me
to at all times at all times.
The show is the after
you have to
You don't listen to your father that
tells you to at all times. You listen to
your
at all times. That's tomorrow.
For at all times
and it's
at all times over there
for at all times.
What do you have to have a Russia?
Take a clay. It's a small
just like
if a father and a mother ask you to do
something you have to listen to your
father over your mother cuz it's a small
one. Cuz your mother is also in the
cover of your father. So we here what do
you have to have a at all times? You
have to listen to your You have to
listen to the at all times at
all times
at all times in the at all times.
This is good for you know it's from.
But at all times more than at all times.
He says and that's how I bring the at
all times.
You know why there's a midst of keeping
at all times?
Because the only way there could be a
in the key of at all times
the at all times at all times at all
times at all times throughout the
generations could only happen if a
person
his father. If a person looks up to his
father he's his father.
He could be
from his father the at all times. If a
person is not
his father
that the would not go down the at all
times.
And that's the reason why the says to
listen to a father.
Different than what we said from the
says in you never curse at all times.
Here he's saying a reason why to listen
not
at all times at all times. Also the
reason is because that's what's
at all times at all times.
So the
at all times you would be at sad
that a person should listen to his
father
to be
at all times
because if what he's doing is is to be
to respect his father come to his what
he's doing is he's helping out in the
at all times at all times. As I said at
all times Do you have to have a minute?
They
look at the midst of keeping at all
times. The reason for the midst of it is
for the at all times
maybe you should listen when the father
says to at all times.
What do you say?
It's not part of the he's saying it's
good for saying uh
Let me say the Russian.
It is the big picture
the small picture of the big picture.
The is that
The mice says why it happened at all
times. He says the reason why it's not
at all times why it happened at all
times because it's only a at all times.
It's only a at all times. The asking
even if one would be a even if it would
be a
but the whole keeping
at all times and here it's the at all
times.
A third reason
the
even though the is under the name
cuz I want to go from the second back.
The
one
explains the reason for the midst of at
all times at all times.
So the one
one
The first four of the at all times is
been
at all times.
Keeping at all times transfers
the midst of at all times at all times.
So the one one why
is keeping at all times the midst of
that is the transfer midst of between at
all times at all times to at all times
at all times. So the one at all times at
all times
because the says just like you
me those are the midst of at all times
at all times. I want you to
your parents.
Much of it means because it blinds like
you
me.
But the word is because I use the
parents
should from the and the parents are a
short of with the at all times just like
you
the at all times you the parents also.
This is the one one.
That's why it goes after the four at all
times at all times
Oh
so the mice says like this that's why I
said the one one last cuz on this I
wanted and this with this I'm going to
conclude very good
I want with this I want to get into the
last one.
But before that let's just be
these three reasons for for we tonight
we said three reasons why for the midst
of keeping at all times at all times at
all times.
It's at all times at all times at all
times
and also it's
it's a
it's
to be at all times at all times.
So the one
one
the two other places at all times
and also in another place the one one
that's why it's on the it's in the first
one.
It doesn't say that it's been at all
times.
But the is the reason why the reason why
it's together with the first
one
the reason why it's together with the
first is
it's been at all times it's called
but how does it come in to the first one
that have been at all times? The says
because the one one
the the reason for keeping is
the at all times at all times so maybe
it's connected.
Let's just go back now to the other two
reasons.
The says the reason for keeping at all
times is a curse at all times and
because of that curse at all times the
parents a person comes that curse at all
times to the at all times. So that would
also be a
why it's in the first the right side of
the at all times together with
at all times at all times.
I would have to be at all times at all
times but the is it's maybe a curse at
all times to the at all times so it's
connected but what the one one says
you're being at all times
your parents is at all times at all
times which is a curse at all times
also.
And and like the
at all times also it goes clear like
that cuz if the reason for keeping at
all times is to help the at all times at
all times so that's the
it's right to be at all times at all
times but it's connected to the first
four of the at all times at all times
cuz the whole midst of keeping at all
times is to have the at all times at all
times so it's connected to the at all
times.
I I agree 100%