HILCHOS KIBUD AV VAEIM: INTRODUCTORY SHIUR - DIFFERENT PARTS OF THE MITZVAH

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He goes through how much a person has to have a curse at all times to the at all times. So the midst of keeping is to have a curse at all times to our parents. A person is supposed to be someone who is not a coffee type. Another reason another reason for the midst of at all times is before in the at all times. The brings brings it from at all times to tomorrow. Tomorrow says you have to go. Tomorrow you have to go that if a father tells you to at all times you should listen to him. Tell me to at all times at all times. The show is the after you have to You don't listen to your father that tells you to at all times. You listen to your at all times. That's tomorrow. For at all times and it's at all times over there for at all times. What do you have to have a Russia? Take a clay. It's a small just like if a father and a mother ask you to do something you have to listen to your father over your mother cuz it's a small one. Cuz your mother is also in the cover of your father. So we here what do you have to have a at all times? You have to listen to your You have to listen to the at all times at all times at all times in the at all times. This is good for you know it's from. But at all times more than at all times. He says and that's how I bring the at all times. You know why there's a midst of keeping at all times? Because the only way there could be a in the key of at all times the at all times at all times at all times at all times throughout the generations could only happen if a person his father. If a person looks up to his father he's his father. He could be from his father the at all times. If a person is not his father that the would not go down the at all times. And that's the reason why the says to listen to a father. Different than what we said from the says in you never curse at all times. Here he's saying a reason why to listen not at all times at all times. Also the reason is because that's what's at all times at all times. So the at all times you would be at sad that a person should listen to his father to be at all times because if what he's doing is is to be to respect his father come to his what he's doing is he's helping out in the at all times at all times. As I said at all times Do you have to have a minute? They look at the midst of keeping at all times. The reason for the midst of it is for the at all times maybe you should listen when the father says to at all times. What do you say? It's not part of the he's saying it's good for saying uh Let me say the Russian. It is the big picture the small picture of the big picture. The is that The mice says why it happened at all times. He says the reason why it's not at all times why it happened at all times because it's only a at all times. It's only a at all times. The asking even if one would be a even if it would be a but the whole keeping at all times and here it's the at all times. A third reason the even though the is under the name cuz I want to go from the second back. The one explains the reason for the midst of at all times at all times. So the one one The first four of the at all times is been at all times. Keeping at all times transfers the midst of at all times at all times. So the one one why is keeping at all times the midst of that is the transfer midst of between at all times at all times to at all times at all times. So the one at all times at all times because the says just like you me those are the midst of at all times at all times. I want you to your parents. Much of it means because it blinds like you me. But the word is because I use the parents should from the and the parents are a short of with the at all times just like you the at all times you the parents also. This is the one one. That's why it goes after the four at all times at all times Oh so the mice says like this that's why I said the one one last cuz on this I wanted and this with this I'm going to conclude very good I want with this I want to get into the last one. But before that let's just be these three reasons for for we tonight we said three reasons why for the midst of keeping at all times at all times at all times. It's at all times at all times at all times and also it's it's a it's to be at all times at all times. So the one one the two other places at all times and also in another place the one one that's why it's on the it's in the first one. It doesn't say that it's been at all times. But the is the reason why the reason why it's together with the first one the reason why it's together with the first is it's been at all times it's called but how does it come in to the first one that have been at all times? The says because the one one the the reason for keeping is the at all times at all times so maybe it's connected. Let's just go back now to the other two reasons. The says the reason for keeping at all times is a curse at all times and because of that curse at all times the parents a person comes that curse at all times to the at all times. So that would also be a why it's in the first the right side of the at all times together with at all times at all times. I would have to be at all times at all times but the is it's maybe a curse at all times to the at all times so it's connected but what the one one says you're being at all times your parents is at all times at all times which is a curse at all times also. And and like the at all times also it goes clear like that cuz if the reason for keeping at all times is to help the at all times at all times so that's the it's right to be at all times at all times but it's connected to the first four of the at all times at all times cuz the whole midst of keeping at all times is to have the at all times at all times so it's connected to the at all times. I I agree 100%