Hiking, Healing, and New Beginnings| ft. Yoily Goldstein | Let's Explore More Ep. 4 | Yiddish

But I took my backpack sack maybe just hiking gear. inspiration for And we had guide change to the energy at a man. Another Sunday, another hike. used to reach out to me. And I want to steal those goodies. Correct. So you had the further more Okay, that's the Muslim. Okay, that's [clears throat] probably what I'm going to do next. Okay. Come on check out some of his game videos, yeah. For the hiking, he can't go to the second but I think I didn't get any of them. Washington, Utah, like Montana. So you can win uh So you can't get any cave monsters. Correct. I can't do something like that. >> Yeah. Okay, this is very cool. This side of Google Maps has the unfinished tunnel. And the last holy This is not part of the hike. No, this is the this is specifically not part of the hike. So, I put this on status or going to be like an 911 call though. You find out. Grandpa. Look at this. You can just go to get the best. You can go and smash them. And you can just go and get the most of the hiker. I would I would not be going to go to the out of state. I would have been to the greatest hikes I've been to. I've been to the greatest Utah hikes in California. Um out of the countries do the most of the popular hikes. And the guys to Machu Picchu. Right away I was like Machu Picchu. I was going to get And some guy hiked out there going to get shabbos. And the next thing you know he took you really traveled to another group. So, it took you actually from there to go out to the park here. And for many reasons Some of the old guys are going to go out there and talk. You got to go out there and get them. You can go out there and sing in the genre of rock. And what you must do with the label rock here. Think of a man who likes rock here. >> Shh. It's nothing Oh, this is a mind As you were saying, was God better cuz I If when you help somebody else you think he's less than you then when you're going to need to take help you're going to think you're less than them. Correct. Exactly. And you have to get by me alone. If you have the goodest Exactly. And I got to have books. The answer will be a big >> Wow, what's a nice. automatically I It doesn't define my identity. I'm a hustling out. So when I'm finished hustling out >> [clears throat] >> What's next? So it's me and the mention of the world. Some people say, "Why me?" Some people say, "What now?" We have been going from a "Why me?" to "What now?" >> [snorts] >> Okay. I'm going to say that. >> In English I said act as if. It's as though as I swear. That's not his reality. Exactly. If there's a will, there's a way. It's always different as karma. It's always different as manifesting. It's always different as perception, the law of attraction. With families. I mean the alliance. Rather, the loneliness kicked in again. It's like I have my coffee trail. I want to go on a hiking. I want to connect with them. Actually you should believe in yourself. It's like this is with you guys energy. There's no way they're not going to feel it. And I literally started doing that. I want to go on a acting as if. I was going to go to single events. I want a family man. I belong to families. So when is your one day they schedule When is your one day they say another Sunday another hike? Yeah. I have another Sunday, another hike. Find an ice. Find an ice. So Exactly. Every guy for hike money kinder. They don't even know that they did for me more than I can do for them. I will go on and say act as if and have a community responsibility. This sounds silly. But LaMasa, guess what ended up happening? Wow. I stopped trying to chase them. You have a push a good reason. Hello. I'm living my best life possible. You want to come have fun? I don't say park. You want to join me? I don't say house concert. When they was busy with proving and Stein and pointing fingers and sending shivers Kinder will listen to my talk. I want to have a good time. They don't care who's right. They don't care who's wrong. They don't want to be involved. It's as it is So this looks tough. The guy tell me this is tough to get struggled kind of a hike on a weekly basis. Okay. >> Kind of a hike is given kind of my hobbies. Hobbies and interests I mean we're busy. When I come across an alliance and suddenly I'm bored, suddenly I'm lonely. And I'm Is it better to be bored? So if you feel like you're emotionally lost. Go biking. Go hiking. It looked very funny because it was >> [clears throat] >> so we Guess what? I started biking. For a mountain bike, it's not a mountain bike, it used to be a bike, it was a hybrid. I got to a mountain, especially [clears throat] to a road bike. It's a good tourist motion biking. The size raider, it's a carbon fiber bike. Look at me and see cleats. We the sheer, the took special sheer, we the sheer, click the run in the bike. It can't go so slow because they don't want to the steps of the pedal with the other feet, you're actually pulling the other pedal. So they're connected. It's connected. You have to know how to click out, to click out. So it's a good toy. I started biking, I started going racing. No one wants to do the floating pods. What are these? Yeah, they're so good. I don't know what they're going to make. What are these? What are floating pods? Floating pods is also a desired comic. Picture a gross gross bathtub. Okay. I thought about it. Can't do that. I'm making. So it's like this. Can't spread them out and they touch the wall. So this is a gross pod. And the water is not hot and it's cold. This is body temperature. No, I think what you mentioned is is a sensory deprivation tank. So then they take out all senses. So when you look down in the after 15, 20 minutes, you're floating but those fill with Epsom salt. Okay. Okay. So the the space The Schweppes, very relaxing. Can all the mid music, all the little light often. All the can't have a magic the tanks. Do you mention anything claustrophobic? So they have a magic this niche. Takes time to get into it. First time I did it 50 minutes and I just went out with steel door. Mhm. I don't think it's a shoot salt for magic the lid no music. No lights, no sound, just a place of nothing. Only from nothingness can you get to everything. So that was a good hiking. Disconnect to connect. Insights, self-awareness. My decisions are made in the lab chemical other hiking other floating. Wow. Listen I'm out of the vision of the good share is no distractions. We turn to others. Help me. >> [snorts] >> How many times do we listen to our mission of the Kirby? I got feeling. You can just give us a good feeling is by the way until I was 35. My God tells me. Because I was never in touch. I never felt my own awareness. My own thoughts, my own were constantly trying like I said to busy to perform to act to try to make sure impress, check off all the boxes. Change every I got to into I get to. So I got I got to go. I get to go. So that's a privilege. That's a privilege. So the floating parts one the place that we connect. Hiking is one of the places we connect. Biking. The guy is biking. The force kicking the vent. And and again, the first 15-20 minutes, you're still getting into the zone. But after 20 minutes, the best in our zone with everything else around shuts down. All the noise around you is not distracting anymore. You're just focused. creative mentioned by artist. And I said when he's performing, he's not himself. But when he stops performing and he just gets into the zone and the cast is in and Wow. Cuz there's around our zone we he wasn't acting, he wasn't performing, he wasn't impressing, he was just himself. Hiking the plot. Whatever comes up for you. Be yourself. Just be. We are human beings and then we are human doings. Wow. I was able to release all the stress from the day. You know about came home. I had a control alt delete. I reset button. I'll tell benefit is doing any any things that are helpful in the living there then hiking. hiking. Okay. Cast and shine is not chocolate. Hike in the mountains. I told her, if you see I'm not in a good zone, tell me go take a hike. And I'm going to go. So kids hiking. So I can go to the country of London and begin visiting. To go and travel in different land and different culture. Can only affect me just going for a hike. Hiking, traveling is going to be on my bucket list. Traveling is going to be on my bucket list. This is the deepest of traveler. I believe it's a beautiful world there. I am more than thankful for the chef for my introduction to the year. I am more than thankful for the chef for my introduction to the year early. To Bentzi, to Isaac, to the entire crew, because it's a gift of the world from you. It was as if I didn't know what hiking is. I didn't know what traveling is. You have a Give me the age to move Machu Picchu or commit. I got to take a hike. It's a gift of the world and traveling. To Peru, to Thailand, to Guatemala, San Pedro, mega food, mega experiences, exploring, cabana houses. This is a reason why we say the difference between traveling and hiking. It's a wonderful world. I mean hiking, as if you have freedom to walk. You get into the zone automatically. The most kind of blood we you let go of all expectations. And I must go straight on our zone. And this health is going to help me. I go take a hike and suddenly all this got my way. For what? Because the second was I expected I let go. It's okay. Suddenly new possibilities open itself up. And I was really really stuck with a given outcome. It made me happy. I got to a place The more desperate I was the more less likely things should happen. >> Exactly. Why? Because the more needy I was. As long as I needed You only have me to love us baby in the audience. I realize it's annoying to hear me talk about my subscribers. But I realize it's also annoying to see that 60% was watching the videos might as well have been asleep and then subscribe. So please guys subscribe to the channel. No division subscribe. I got to subscribe. You can't stand is liking the video. It's the same stuff I talk about the channel. Back to your question. Hiking is comes to blood we know expectations, no planning. Traveling is being forget. Because especially within stimulus and trauma I have a whole country and I can take and should have managed. And it's my essence no time that I got to do it. I use the socket back to back and the taxi is over in the Airbnb is on the Yangtze River the planet was going to run and and and I traveling The rooms are not the videos came to us. Traveler more like I entertain monk. We got my ass and we got my shoulders. I'm a good I think things we can manage the bureau. It's a good one to summer as a group six camera. I don't care about my tail. What's the second leg smack at the Santa sermon and grosser Villa? I don't know if I used to say she could travel a shiny grosser Villa. Special in the same Villa Florida kosher Yeah. Shaya Shaya is good. I think my name is Shaya has it all the time. This is traveling. This is a vacation. I want to make it get the half full blown vacation. As you came in Airlines. I got a problem against him to read them. I have a better idea than I had before. I was the open market schmucky vacation with the helical Villa. Call Shaya Weinberg in Florida kosher Villas. I make sure you can see here I got to get a new vacation of your mansion. Oh I must be aligned and I can Villa in Florida and this is kind of all good camera Villas. We fill more but 305-449-9899 or the click the link in the description. So usually when I got to come to Florida I got to just vacation them. I mean some of the sleep to gain explored in Ireland. Initiate I live in the style of travel. It's too much of home found to whom all is planned. I don't have a constant schedule. I have my own constant schedule. I style of a certain style I will not have a schedule I will just go with the flow. When I have a whole week and I'm going to have a good time in the summer. I don't know if I want to wake up and say good. I might finish the show off connect. I want to wake up naturally. I think Shaya Villa is happy that they are sold out. It's really something. I think we managed to go on a stream also this week is a mini mini stream. In the style of Yaron to cabin, well, my will cover with me. Well, this is objective. The Kim Schmidt paints the style. How do you like that? Kick off the groups. At the At What's Hello. If I like it's gone. No, but I will have to accomplish it. They don't feel good. They just sit around the hotel. So, if I tell my team to team But definitely in this manner style. Man style. You will sell some in slow pace. >> Yeah. So, If you kick what you have against And then I get away in Thailand for a while. Then I get away in Chiang Mai. Then I get away in Phuket. Then I get away in Bangkok. Then I get away in the the the slippery The sticky sticky falls. >> falls. Then I get away with the with the elephant. Then I get away in the villages. Then I get away in the hike. >> I'm very very grateful. Ultimate relaxation. But Not the work with accomplishment. full back. And it's I became And my way on Brazil. I thought sunrise hike Sugarloaf Mountain. The colors were very beautiful. So since you got sunrise. So they're beautiful picture. The hiking in the rain is so ideal. I got to be But You won't be very disappointed. One of the best hikes is sunrise hikes. As I think of Come for for sunrise. This is um And the next And when the sun actually comes out. So As I came to the peak. To the top. Must sunrise Bear Mountain. Can you see the sunrise on the top? The Bear Mountain on the because this is But I can see from the top lookout place Dalton. You better Bear Mountain to to the edge Dalton. It's my most favorite hike. And it's like a half hour around the hike. the headlamps functional comes to glad for sunrise. The heaven and orange. It's my most favorite hikes sunrise hikes. sunrise and sunset. By the missed on camera and think of Okay. And do you think Do you think so on the left side and on the right side and do you think so on the left side? >> But in terms of beauty shine or What's the difference you get just the sunrise and the sunset? >> [snorts] >> Yeah. Ah, what's the reflect of us? Correct. Thomas is You think the sunset in some way in Guatemala the first talk and have it in angle. >> [sighs] >> Yeah, yeah. Oh, the picture that's a good picture. of a sunrise hike at Phi Phi Island and somehow we didn't show me the camera. >> [snorts] >> It was very time consuming. For that my speech I can English. of in the time zone for $7 a show which is $280 a week. and I was just a business with the marketing bringing in a living. Call hiring for less. It's 845-682-0990 or you can click the link in the description. A volcano. We see it in a live volcano. So this is the benefit from single life. I got to. I got to got to go home. Or I get to. Yeah. How? This is my college have my YouTube channel. As my future color. He's going to check me out on my YouTube channel. Which is like that. That's how the of came to be. So what did you say? Of the videos was it going to be like that? I'm a good guy. I'm outgoing. I love to do cassette. Yeah, there's a good guy. Everybody loves to do cassette and everybody volunteers but baby Steve. What is that uniqueness? So all of you It's the showing come out the other wash. That's the experience. It was prepared to go go to backpack with us all the stuff I'm showing ready. And you can see from moments notice if they have my hike. And that's prepared, but it was prepared. So, what's that for prepared and what you can go on a hike? How do you prepare for a hike? The culture alliance makes the sound of mansion was going to go to the podcast. That prepared for a hike. Can I just call me To prepare for a hike that was to sneakers and a bottle of water. That's all it takes. >> That's it. Can I just leather soles? Can I just try on the wall doing a bottle of water? What is the reason for a bottle of water? What is when dehydrated? What is dehydration? When the guys are sick, must have much exercise in the gym. I must have my drinking. I wish you good luck in the lecture light. This is all advanced level. But what is the other advanced stuff I'm going to show you guys? The cooking the world is a scientific cook. What's the in the data storage in the scientific agreement of the certification? If you have something for mention what's going to happen again. I say senior in Yoko. The sound of a Japanese word. >> It's Japanese. >> Okay. It's Japanese come from Japan. So, I said forest bathing. I'm a butcher in the world. Butcher in the world. To my wish is connected to the world. Because I connected to tree huggers mention was hugging a bone. Can you follow original bone to show you connected? So, mention was doing the shaking the second. It's called grounding. I don't think. It says I would. I don't think we need to get to get in. What do all the interesting and funny mean to us? But I started reading books and actually got certified in it. And I have a sign as the data proof. >> Data washed. I was the mention of the team days. is the insurance was going to cover the filler. So, this is more in the noise of a meditation. Okay. It's more in the noise of a therapy was again connecting to oneself. We want to find a match mark a decision. So, we facilitate this. Okay. Preparing before. Okay. And our lightning is shining. We got the lightning around. And they did. They did. So, do mention was helping inflammation. >> [clears throat] >> I slept with the grounded blankets. Are the blankets are connected actually to a Blankets actually connected to a wire was got it on the ground. Okay. patches. >> Okay. It cancels off like the plugs with the fields inflammation. Do mention was feeling right away after a few hours. Do mention was feeling this not a good take. But there's actual data on this. Kansas Kansas checking of Amazon. I shouldn't have showed the pillow. Yeah. Because it's a form of therapy. And you connect to the ground. Let go of everything else. But I put you to work. Is there any humans or again connected to the ground with leather in a shoe? Highest. of us are connected to the ground. That's what we're going to wear, sneakers, rubber shoes. We stop being connected to the ground. Sicknesses come in from inflammation-based because we're not connected anymore. in Vermont. We are going to kick in the solar eclipse. Solar eclipse. I think the things that I mentioned before and then I was going to go in the freezing cold, 28°. in the snow. I was going to go in the snow. So, Shindering Yoku, I'm going to have a facilitator. I'm certified. Okay. >> And I was going to walk with a good pair of sneakers. That's the worst prepared for the guys who are going to go on longer hikes. The guys who are going to go on harder hikes. The clothes that a man wears, make sure nothing is cotton. Why is >> Because cotton absorbs. And I'm going to sweat and then I'm going to get the cotton and it's going to be wet and it's going to get really cold and then you're going to get a cold. In the winter, when the mister is going to wear wool. Well, there was no friend of mine who was going to wear thin wool. So, it's the most expensive wool. It's merino wool. Merino wool is thin. This is very, very warm. And the guy with the accent is going to say a little click with the guy who's going to see wool in the woods. I was going to say public bathrooms. So, eat light. Put things that fill you up. So, I'm going to eat protein bars and I get It's going to get the energy. >> It's going to get the energy. I don't like a powder in the water versus electrolytes. It's very important. dehydrated? Drinking a coffee for the hike definitely not recommended cuz the coffee dehydrates. Other cotton, other skin to quinoa. They prepackaged tuna cans. But not that you're going to have a problem that you have to fast run out of the woods. Especially the winter was the guy to find the way then think of schnitzel. What's the matter with the host? I had lamp. And they should call you the one who was charged so far your USB is come batteries. Finish finish the hike like so on the charging and it's got for the next hike. This is always the thing to pulse. Especially tell me the guys don't say no again. What the blood look off the hike? Especially tell me the blood look off the stain and the blood look off the stain and the blood look off the stain and the blood look off the stain and the blood look off the stain. And the blood look off the stain and the blood look off the stain and the blood look off the stain and the blood look off the stain and the blood look off the stain and the blood look off the stain and the blood look off the stain and the blood look off the stain. The best way to make sure the also the guy feeling is that the host sickness. Sickness is that better from the mega roof. We have mega roof. And the guys that roof steps guys that roof 50 hundred steps. So I don't swear at the guy. I don't swear at the guy. It's push a switch to ultimate. So I don't swear at the guy. Automatically My shark and guy never roof not a stick time with the one to feel of the clean. What's the guy online of the tracking pulse? What's helped up number the load from the knee? Correct. It starts using the muscles from the face. Start as to cooperate with me and then cardio and heart. But the many use the muscles to were also committed to this. So I found as when a huge man on trekking poles. And then through the publication of the load, I used my hand as a real estate links of steps and the self to auto walk. So this marked it on fees. Do can linger on going and so don't start to miss weight also the measure. Yeah, especially when you guys have longer hikes. Is it then use it for both ways. Side from we get off and side from we get off. I better off going and must watch. The tracking poles with hiking tracking poles is foldable. Can still get my like some guy that on the backpack and the kids going to be safe. It's like I bought the sneakers. What is I get when >> [clears throat] >> snow shoes. Well Tom is twice as high. But Tom in the next summer is gotten Vermont. Snow shoes. Platform. They got them bottom of the sneaker. And the blood on top of the snow. I have to made surface area. It's a direct to a missile row but they got to run down some teeth. >> Exactly. So I can just go on hiking the feeling. The mosquitoes that be in the kindness of women. So I can just give my net. It's not even funny. I bought Tom this guy to help on hiking. Guide him and who cares. Yeah. I mean she got us. Don't let me mention we're hiking. I don't know what the freak that was but it's got to be hiking. I don't know what the freak that was but it's got to be hiking. I don't know what the freak that was but it's got to be hiking. Mention was going hiking in the wild. 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You were you were the the the the the one that that went to the lemon squeeze Eagle Cliff. I saw your video and I want to do it. I don't know what the freak that was but it's got to be hiking. I don't know what the freak that was but it's got to be hiking. I don't know what the freak that was but it's got to be hiking. I don't know what the freak that was but it's got to be hiking. Be nice. But to do guys in the wild. I don't know what the freak that was but it's got to be hiking. I don't know what the freak that was but it's got to be hiking. I don't know what the freak that I don't know what the freak that was but it's got to be hiking. I don't know what the freak that was but it's got to be hiking. >> [clears throat] >> I don't know what the freak that was but it's got to be hiking. I don't know what the freak that was but it's got to be hiking. I don't know what the freak that was but it's I don't know what the freak that was I don't know what the freak that was but it's got to be hiking. I don't know what the freak that was but it's got to be hiking. I don't know what the freak that was but it's got to be hiking. I don't know what the freak that was but it's got >> [clears throat] >> I don't know what the freak that was but it's got to be hiking. and um he likes to take risks. And I got the turtle with me and the turtle from the Wasser. The Wasser schlep was a big turtle. And I said, And What are you doing? This is a snapping turtle. It was a snapping turtle. Snapping turtle can bite off of your hand in a second. This is going to turtle to play with. So, this turtle is more dangerous than the other one. Especially in the Gegend in Monsey, Harriman State Park, Bear Mountain. It says Bear Mountain for a reason. But all of the bears are made of black bears. Black bears and if you don't you don't threaten them, they stay away from people. Grizzly bears are right to run. But grizzly bears are mainly in Alaska and mainly in other places, not doing A black bear is black. >> Okay. A grizzly bear is usually brown. Okay. [clears throat] >> Mainly mainly light brown. The black bears, especially when they are with their cubs, stay away. Give them a lot They are not They are not puppies. Stay away. Ah. A bear very similar stories. Let's mention some interactions with bears. A bear from the heights of the gun This is It's very different for them. And just as you are afraid of them, Really? Because of this niche >> [clears throat] >> Step back. They don't know what they're looking at because they're not used to this. They used to highs, they're not used to people. They point the zero point for some reason. A minute to decide it's Mr. Marishon. Which was not a good move. holding territory. trying to protect the mama trying expert >> Step back. Step back. Correct. Backing up very slowly. slowly. Go back. >> [laughter] >> But But it goes to show But uh I got coyotes, I got foxes, shlink. It's about It's their territory. by night Especially if you stay on the trails. If you go bush walking I hope especially shlink, especially the squirrels, the foxes trails, the badgers, the highest, the shlink So when the guys are on the trail a raccoon sleeping over there. They can cross over some of the trails. They They have to cross over to go. But the reason why we use the trails is they've got to have the map. It's two apps. The most popular app was a rough wilderness heights all trails. Download it's the app. Um download the app. Guess it's not a map. I saw from the popular trails rough different >> [clears throat] >> is I begin marked. But I drove places. I hope to see you there 20 to 50 ft. You have to see the marker. I think I stick to the marker. I got to I guess it's for the right to go on. We have to be on the trail. The center of the trail is going to break the function of the system. It's all good. I got to go with the marker. I'm going to go with the blue trail. I have to have a blue marker a spot from blue. I'm going to say it's two blue spots. I'm going to tap it on the right side. That's my right side. I'm going to go to the right. >> [snorts] >> I'm going to tap it on the left side. I'm going to go to the left. I'm going to go to the one. One blue spot meant guys good. It's all red, yellow. It's all good. It's time to go to the mountain loop in the a loop meant as I trail got around the second. Because rough trails going good. So the blue is going to go this way. The red is going to go this way. The yellow David and I have to make a loop. The guys from the blue to the yellow to the red to go to the blue. I don't know what you can tell the airlines a loop and you can start circle. So what do you think you can do to the blood that kind of make a combination of different types of other combination other master U-turn. I'm going to loop with usually two trails. It's going from the blue to the yellow to the red. Others do a out and back. I out and back might be blocked of the blue. I'm going to go out and shoot out. I'm going to go with the blue. I'm going to go with the blue. I'm going to go house. Well, it was on trick the how the shoe. So, I half hour plus a half hour is an hour. So, this is an out and back. A point to point I'll take you back to your car or there. Who's the ingredient civilian following a trail? No, I advise ingredients why is it not cheating? Mark the stuff the blue trail and that will stay in out and back. Mark the stuff the blob of the blue and cut the wreck. So, how much mark the mistake and mark the right to the left and left to the right. Mark the mistake can can turn otherwise speak like you the best. Otherwise you the best guy should turn back. I don't get caught the same in the world. I [snorts] don't start the stuff on trail or the blob stuff on trail. I don't start the stuff I don't move when it comes to to a trail with that over cross another trail. So, other house to old trails does the app and device with the guys are coming or the house to a map and you follow the map. I don't start the map and it's old trails. I don't start the old trails. Blame the stuff the blob of the blue. I don't drive the truck and got the wreck with the guys are coming. The clown hiking is going north as a vault. With the device with the guys are going to turn. Bush walking is meant when the guys turn out vault in the master I can not trail. It's just the nothing with the master a GPS otherwise there's nothing on GPS. And you start a map with that big like with the next road is it's not advanced hikers. Otherwise I don't start the blob of the trail. It's freaking mentioned while he has to watch videos from the hike. What was the second financial? The hiking channel. And since you have the ability to say the same Because as man search for meaning the greater the why, the easier the how. I think it's the Schwedische thing because you don't have a why. Why are you doing it? If you have a good why, you're going to be able to do any how. How am I going to do it? You're going to figure it out. >> You're going to figure it out because the why is strong enough. Family is the why. Family is the reason. Family is what gets us. First time I can mention what is the best childhood memories? Usually it involves a big game with the family. I realized that I tapped into something was drawing him as English for. It's in your backyard. It's a clue to the mark. It's a connect to your alliance. It's mom's way. It fills up my gas tank. And they relate to it. And the certification for children in Yocum and in the data and the science from earth thing and grounding. And actually the woods and the trees is mom's the secrets of the woods, the secrets, the healing powers. That's just give us the the chain device for >> Exactly. This is my energy came to those men. And the What you see on the video, you see me being in my zone. And when the viewer I kicked the video and I meet in the video, I get this a lot shows and I got the hike. Exactly. And then you need the video. Just got go take a hike. One of the greatest sayings from John Muir. John Muir is the entire national park system. He's a credited for it. So one of his other memes is what he had said is "And into the woods I go to lose my mind and find myself." Are you out of your mind? Oh, I wish I can be. So I go into the woods to get out of my mind. Can I just go need to get out of my mind because in my mind is a tits it's a busy enough accomplishing the bills, the payments, the other stuff. This is all part of the mind. Can you try stepping out of your mind? This is something that I feel when I travel by the way. pressure, customers, jobs, guilt You got to get out of your comfort zone. You got to see other places. This is what for you is a standard thing is for them a luxury. And I have to see feel and say "Wow." So the key is to make gratitude. You appreciate it more. I need less. The I think of the biggest reason people are not happy Um I'm kind of engrossed in eating them. So, billions of dollars in a claim and our society Well, it's kind of expectation. If the billionaire expect to become a certain level of service or something much you want to give it to brokers. It was when in Argentina the woods Because I can't even is very happy for was I was expecting only is I was expecting to just a black in the house. Is that friend is becoming his next meal? So, Expectations lowers. Suddenly we made a freedom. Yeah. It's not expectations. Suddenly [clears throat] you have my shaky Suddenly when I feel okay, suddenly all this is okay. I feel all this is something more winning is something more than empowered. I saw more than I could react to. As man I have to shine. That's the thing. Exactly. I replied to your email. I replied. That's not proactive. Exactly. I respond. I have to leave and I have to leave and take. So, I saw a gross highly when I say man [clears throat] took is not man took not I'm being busy. I saw them being busy responding. Let me give you for example I say something more in my side I have to work. So, guys are on a meeting. Yeah. I was on a discussion let me give you what happened to the service my guy discussion. This all is really the meeting. If I'm the one initiating, if I'm the one calling, I feel something more accomplished. When I'm ahead of the game. So, when we step out of our life are we stepping out of our life to escape because it's too much? Are we stepping out of our life so we can step back in with more empowered. So for me it is just traveling. For me it is just hiking. Those guys skiing. Those guys meditating. Some guitar lessons. Those guys biking. Those guys Those guys calling. Those guys doing the flooring pads. Those guys traveling. Whatever it is that does it for you that when you do that when it is days the chemist arose and suddenly the baboos of the online. What's the reason that I actually chose him to have a video? I could have brought a dozen. >> [clears throat] >> I could have brought a dozen of my love. Uh, so the love is against the job? >> No, I have to do something but I should resend it. Okay. Taking videos, editing, traveling. Mhm. I should resend it. And right now is not the time to travel. Right now is not the time to take videos. I would love to get back to it. But I should be What if you could have a second marriage that's different from first marriage? I would have to get a sock to start as a creation. If you know it's blood blood flowing in the blood line. >> [snorts] >> It's the average trajectory. I did it after 10. These guys did 10. As long as you follow the trajectory, it's blood flowing in the blood line. What if you make decisions? And you start making choices that completely take you in a different trajectory. You get to a place where you start realizing as done decisions with the mast, it's going to really impact you for the good or for the bad. So suddenly because you made that decision, this leads [clears throat] you to go down the path. So the blood line plus blood line it doesn't match anymore. You start knowing yourself. And you start finding yourself. They become like I said hobbies, interests, healthy outlets, healthy lifestyle. The more work one does on getting to know himself and then you attract somebody and she also knows how to take care of herself. And as in it's codependent. This is codependent. That's missing one another fixing. Second marriage is learning how to coregulate. It's the maybe the right project. Which I will never be able to step into that circle. Which she will never be able to step into my circle. Again, this is done experience. This is my experience. We're going for a professional, especially when it comes to blended families. Get a professional. Don't try to figure it out yourself. And I will bounce because she is a professional. When I look to help us see if it fits with you. Right, whoever is listening, if it doesn't make sense to you then it's not for you. As I painful. So to change the situation with my own children, they can show me a So this with your sister Ingrid is what makes it even more complicated. Because my own children when I was a single and the next thing try you to drink. So they started living by me because for so many years of the hot and now suddenly [clears throat] I became the full-time the full-time caregiver. So the moment of the hot This is given the message in hot for the side. Finally you have the hot study. Yes, guys to talk She has to hold space for that. I have to hold space for her and her kids. So we have hot and hot. Thank you for the help. It doesn't make any sense. Somebody would tell me I used to have sign of the miracle. What was it in miracles I have with other men? Why does it never happen to me? When it happens to you, I promise you you're not going to realize it. You have to realize until people started pointing out as my struggles with the hot It's like this is a struggle. Hello. The complaints doesn't enjoy it. I mention the line up. You are hello. Don't don't be a shuffer. Total different perspective. It's a good overwhelming. But it's still overwhelming. So can buy the so is a lot of moving pieces. And to have patience and really a lot a lot of patience. And I suck I suck I suck it built. I suck tolerance. Because and It's a lot everybody's entitled to a bad day. Two kids decide to both have a bad day in the same You didn't make it much to share with the kids. older children of the society struggles younger children of society struggles. from other struggles I advise that other mention other struggles with the younger children is I know that you are over the amount of other children as we can say hello. Tell the mommy I know that you are for sure with us. What can I say to the other mother? What can I say to the other so try to [clears throat] help them with placement with the other guy and I for I will try my best My wife tried her best but we're trying a lot but we keep on taking space. There's so many moving pieces. as in order to um push it the the cup with the guidance my other children with the other children This is our way. Is there a point that it gets easier? Like everything gets figured out and in place and settled? I'm only married for a very very short So you can finish You can finish joking. What's the guide to shine? I don't know what the guide to shine. I don't know what's been working for us until today. It's one day at a time. Sometimes [clears throat] one minute at a time. Just the next right thing. It's a complicated situation. But it's so worth it. It's so worth it. The Shabbat was in summer. And all the children are just not him. And the blended families and and You didn't even understand. I know it's really for you to know. >> [clears throat] >> The children are almost getting beaten by the common step step sisters. They have the other willingness not The children will not hurt. As I told the mommy I'm so unhappy. They have to tell the mommy and it's a freedom. So I have to tell her that I have felt and they are saying a loving family. And in the kids and as I as I have to say I have to say the same children close their ears to advice and open their eyes to example. And they can say that they are saying suddenly help us. It's a magical energy in the house. So, there's a lot of jealousy up. And to understand you ate in a kid up. To understand single self-compassion. To be able to extend the compassion out to others. They don't have to deserve it. Extend it even if they don't deserve it. Not to take it personal. And then we should some do a kegel from Welton. And it's going to be I I I It's too much for me. This is a miracle you ate and took. And we keep on bringing our sham in. Every single time you bring our sham in. I got to be crazy to try to control so many moving pieces. It's impossible. I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I family I keep on giving it over to our sham. Every time I bring in our sham, everything works out. >> [singing] >> All I got to do is so simple. It's none of my business. one baby one one step at a time. You know how beautiful it is when the orchestra when people compliment each other. People are going out of the way for another. If you just give me time for some of them. Do you see the best of humanity? You see the the epitome. And some of the eyes are blessed. So it's like our hands full. So we can expect them to join trip with us the list of two you build. Stay curious. So the device is one step at a time. Curiosity is is a gift you should never ever ever lose. Look at this. Keep on doing every single day what you did when you were dating. You're very curious. The first time I met you I was How do you know somebody's listening to you? If he's quiet, maybe he's just waiting to talk. You know somebody's listening how curious he is and if he asks a follow up question or if he's mirroring back. Curiosity is Wow. You put people into boxes and you don't let them evolve anymore. Because they're not all waxing. We're still growing up. Where did you grow up? So according to my assumption >> [snorts] >> I'm still growing up. But I stay curious. We should continue to stay curious about every single member of the family, about each other. People evolve, people change their minds, people grow, people keep on block curious for sisters, for sister. Oh, for my head. Get to know each other every single day. Moving parts should not shine is between 10 and 15 years. >> [laughter] >> Let's explore and let's explore more.