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What If Your Life Is More Extraordinary Than You Think? Rabbi Hillel Eisenberg

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If you take a look around the world, you'll find many famous landmarks that are instantly iconic from the Eiffel Tower, the Colosseum, the Statue of Liberty, the Burj Khalifa, the Taj Mahal. You could literally place them in the middle of nowhere and people would still travel across the world just to see them. They don't need context. They are the context. They are the attraction. But, there's another type of place that I kept finding myself going to over the past several years. Places that don't look like much when you first look at them. In fact, if you zoom in, they look kind of ordinary. Just a village or a small cliff or some buildings, nothing special. But then when you zoom out and you get a panoramic view, and everything [music] changes, and you realize you are in some of the most magnificent places on Earth. I want to show you what I mean. Take Cinque Terre, Italy as an example. When I walked [music] through it zoomed in, all I saw were colorful houses stacked on top of one another and narrow streets and some laundry hanging between the buildings. Pretty, but not exactly mind-blowing. But then you get to an angle where you can zoom out and you realize this place is not regular. This entire village is literally [music] clinging to the edge of a cliff dropping straight into the ocean like it shouldn't even be possible. Or [music] take this hotel I stayed in Krabi, Thailand. Zoomed in, it's just a decent hotel by the ocean. But you zoom out and you realize that it's sitting on a tiny mini island surrounded [music] by an emerald sea and giant limestone cliffs shooting straight out of the ocean. Or how about this in Hallstatt, Austria, where we were lucky enough to go. Zoomed in, pretty ordinary quiet lakeside little village, cute, peaceful, [music] normal. But you zoom out and it becomes absolutely gorgeous. Or how about this in Ronda, Spain? This was our hotel right here. Zoomed in, just a regular place to stay. But then zoomed out and you realize the entire city is split in half [music] by a massive cliff with bridges hanging across it like it's completely normal to live on the edge of a canyon. Or how about this village of Setenil de las Bodegas in Spain? I spent the day there. Zoomed in, it's just a regular little medieval village. But you zoom out and you realize the entire [music] place is built into a mountain. Or take the Ba Na Hills in Vietnam, another hotel we stayed in not too long ago. Zoomed in, it looks like a small theme park [music] with hotel. But you zoom out and you realize that it's literally a city floating balanced on top of a mountain top above the clouds. How about this one we stayed in in Kyoto? Or Alaska? Or this one in Ninh Binh? Or Ha Long Bay? Or Montserrat? Or Salzburg? Or Hong Kong? Zoomed in, they're all ordinary. Zoomed out and they are nothing short of breathtaking. None of these places are particularly impressive [music] when you're up close. But you only realize and appreciate their beauty when you zoom out. Only then do you see where they are and what they're [music] built on and what surrounds them. Now here's where it gets interesting. Because how many times do we do the exact same thing to ourselves? How many of us live our lives zoomed in staring at our own little existence [music] from only 3 in away? Zoomed in on our routines, zoomed in on our flaws, zoomed in on our struggles and our imperfections, zoomed in on what we call our normal life. And when we live like that, everything starts to shrink. [music] Everything feels small and ordinary and drastically unremarkable. And before we've even lived most of our lives, we quietly write the verdict and declare, "That's it. I'm average. I'm regular. I'm just an ordinary guy with an ordinary career living an ordinary life. I'm not doing [music] anything breathtaking. I'm not changing anything. I'm not building anything world-shattering and world-shaking. I'm just a guy." And then, not only do we say that, but then we spiritualize it by saying, [music] "You know what? That's probably what Hashem wants from me in the end anyway. Just be a fine ordinary Yid. So, that's what I'll be. I'll do a little bit here. I'll do a little bit there. I won't push myself too hard. You know, obviously, I don't want to be like an extremist or anything. I just want to be normal. I think that's what Hashem wants from me, [music] to just be sort of average and normal." And so, we settle. Not because we chose mediocrity, but because we feel like mediocrity chose us. But not only is that wrong, it's catastrophically wrong. Because the same way some of the most breathtaking [music] places on Earth are actually just ordinary objects that become extraordinary through the context, like a mountain they stand in front of or the history they carry or the stories embedded in them, so too you. You might feel like you're average. You might feel ordinary. You might feel random. But maybe your neshama is standing at the edge of one of the most spectacular spiritual places imaginable. Maybe your life is like a small house sitting at the edge of the Austrian Alps. Where from the inch 3 in away just looks like wooden walls and routine and ordinary days, but when you zoom out, suddenly that same house is sitting on the edge of one of the most incredible views in the world. Maybe your life is like a simple home overlooking the rice paddies of Vietnam. Where from the inside of the house it feels repetitive and ordinary and maybe even boring. But from above, it's layered beauty, it's depth, it's color and design make people travel across the world just to see it. Maybe your life isn't random at all. Maybe your soul is the culmination of a journey that didn't start with you, but hundreds of years before you. Maybe your strength is not just yours. [music] It's finishing battles your ancestors started and never got to complete, and the completion is you. [music] Maybe your emunah is the final chapter of tears cried in ghettos and deserts and labor camps and hidden basements and places no one saw, but Hashem never forgot. Maybe that ordinary job of yours isn't ordinary at all. Or maybe Hashem placed you there because that is your battlefield. Maybe your real greatness is learning to win where nobody is watching. Maybe your job isn't just to earn a living, but to become a giant in something quiet and controlling your tongue and refining your thoughts and holding back lashon hara when it's completely rampant everywhere around you. Maybe that daily commute of yours, you think it's wasted time, it's actually your hidden window of eternity where it's a built-in space where Hashem gave you no distractions, just the choice of what you let into your mind, what you listen to, what you become. Maybe [music] that struggle to stay focused on a shiur when you're tired and not in the mood is not a small at all. Maybe that's your ultimate battle. Maybe winning that battle is the final nail in the cabin overlooking the Dolomites. You have no idea what story you're finishing. You have no idea whose quiet sacrifices are reaching their fulfillment [music] through you. You have no idea what whose grandparents' mesiras nefesh is finally landing in your actions. You have no idea which grandmothers' whispered feelas are still echoing inside of your neshama. You have no idea how many generations fought and davened [music] and bled just so you could be you. There is no such thing as a random Jewish life. Yeah, maybe from up close you look ordinary, but from the perspective of heaven, from the perspective of Jewish history, from the perspective of eternity, you're not standing on something small. [music] You are standing inside of a masterpiece, and the only reason it doesn't look like one yet is because you're still inside of it.