Tzur Mishelanu: Don't Do to Your Friends Things You Wouldn't Want Done to You

[Music] surprised [Music] contended what you have there Saenz their stories adventures and a rhyme in our little part good things happening all the time I [Applause] [Music] can see and hear I can feel I can ask don't judge a book by its cover first read what's inside that's okay I can teach me and it's a daily walk clear every friend I've ever met is different special and uni are you saying that if I don't treat them well this is it pick up until the end a hero is someone who can control his will cover secret piece of advice my sister Newell a hawk I'll toss a low hover hawk yeah okay let's see I'm gonna get rid of this ball Hey hi there it's alright with you okay the blue ball yeah yeah I'll keep it sure I'll keep it what what is all that stuff I'll be with you let's see so this is a spider cover okay okay no I don't want dad I'm going to throw that away it's gone yeah come back Lesley okay should I keep it yeah yeah I might need it okay disposable cups no I don't need those hey Ronnie I have something here for you what's that what are these what a busted picture frame yeah no thanks really it would be a shame to throw it away I'll save it I'll give it as a present too Jonathan wait wait what are you saving this for for his birthday it's a good present what why what are you telling me that you're giving Jonathan a broken picture frame yes and what makes you think that Jonathan will want a broken gift like if he doesn't you can give it to someone else tell me sir would you like to receive a broken gift gosh not what would I do with a broken frame you know what sir but I forgot well I've got you a nice treat oh well I love a good treat I just love it when say go you're welcome someone took a bite out of my cookie mm-hmm I hate it when people do that you must be disappointed no no no no oh you're not so you're happy no no no I'm very happy I'm always happy when someone takes a bite from my cookie which is something I really hate and of course I'm happy oh good so I'll taste your cookies every time before I give them to you [Music] okay what now wait I didn't really mean it of course I'm disappointed no one likes that okay come on Ronnie tell me why sing which will make me feel better something really smart I have the perfect proverb for you yeah don't do to your friends things you wouldn't like done to you but why okay so I'll go take a few more bites from your cookies no no no explain to me why why it's so important why can't I do what I don't like to my friends maybe they like what I don't like tell me sir yeah do you like being called names do you like being ignored by your friends or being excluded do you like it when you're given broken things that's very funny what's up with you today Ronnie who in the right mind likes broken things in which case do you like calling people names who me do you like insulting them do you do you mean me can you not see that I am such a sweetie then tell me my sweetie yes why why what why don't you call someone names and insult them why Ronnie I don't know why you think of me that way but I'm so nice I do not hurt their feelings and that's why it's disappointing sore now you're treating your friends exactly the way you don't want to be treated how exactly am i doing that thing to my friends sir what a broken picture frame a present for a friend oh [Music] I see the one I was saving before see wait wait wait yes and it's a good thing that someone else David Tom me huh well what if it broke during delivery I have to tell you it's or whoever gave it to you probably didn't know it was broken Wow well so you notes or I expected you to behave better listen Ronny it's never good to develop expectations lend me your ears don't do to your friends you shouldn't bother to do it all that's not what the wise man meant right right of course well don't do unto others things you wouldn't like done to you [Music] I'll toss salad ha ha don't - thanks to your friends yeah eat that you would not want unto you ok look if there's something I don't like I see that's it take a hike and I won't know I won't wish it on my friends at all if there's something that I hate I walk away and I feel great coz anything I don't like almost every time my friends won't light as well [Music] sometimes there are some things say things like they said that which have best my Francey test it happens everyday that song story or a game even types of food there's my taste there's your taste to argue would be mean I guess Andrew know if there's something I don't like I see that's it now take a hike and I won't know I was wishing all my friends at all if there's something bad I hate I walk away and I feel great cuz anything I don't like almost every time my friends [Applause] [Music] and that is why we almost tried to act nice and behaved to know exactly what to say and what not to do so don't insult another and they won't hurt you bad okay it's the right way to be around your friend [Music] if there's something I don't like I'll say that's it now take a hike and I won't know I won't wish it on my friends it up into something that I hate I walk away and I feel great cuz anything I don't like almost every time my friends won't like as well if I don't like it I'll walk away maash it's a new Aloha I don't do things to your friends yeah that you would not want done to you [Music] ah runny I think I get it pay attention mm-hmm even if someone does something wrong to someone else who does something wrong to someone else who has done something wrong to someone else who did something else wrong mhm and that person did something else to somebody else someone needs to stop it great and it will be me and so I will not do wrong by anyone I will throw away the broken frame and not give it to anyone wonderful I think you have a phone call somebody's calling me hello hang on hello who's this hello this is Ruth hey Ruth oh hi there Ruth hi you said it's bad to treat friends in ways I don't want to be treated myself I did then what if they aren't my friends why shouldn't I be able to do something I don't like to them after all the same refers only to my friends right that is an excellent question Ruth you never cease to amaze us the saying refers to everyone this is the right way to behave we should try to be nice to each and every one even those who we don't exactly care for but what if someone likes the things I don't like for example I don't like green shirts but my friend does so should I not buy her one as a gift I'll explain it sir do you like bananas me very much did you bring me bananas I also like marshmallows and zucchini what yes that you never mentioned that ever again never never no okay what about carrots carrots don't like the dad much maybe sometimes I'm the opposite I don't like bananas but I like carrots so Ruth let's say that you baked sore a birthday cake [Music] with whipped cream in shorts or what kind of cake would you make firm booth well I wouldn't make anything I hate admitting something I like as making a carrot cake wait for me a carrot cake you can't be serious I can't stand carrot cake yeah but I didn't do anything I don't like I did something I do like now I'm completely confused okay okay okay let's be organized here okay chocolate cake mmm good carrot cake yeah don't do things you don't like done to you to your friends meds don't do things you do like to your friends mmm-hmm if it means your friend doesn't like a carrot cake so what do I do what happens when my friends don't like the things I like it's a problem it's not a problem at all it's really quite simple simple very simple what do you mean simple just listen there's my taste there's your taste to argue would be meaningless and rude look we're not arguing at all no not at all you cannot argue with my taste that's right I want a cake with chocolate and banana and that's what I'll get I don't want anything else that must be perfectly clear that's it okay I'm not arguing at all but but what but only when dealing with taste every single individual has their own tastes for example tasting food tasting closed in colors tasting toys also the friends you choose it's true that's right Ruth in each of these cases every one of us has their own tastes and friends or colors you may like the color yellow when else doesn't like yellow they like chocolate and those like me who don't like but also don't hate yellow I like purple that's great but another but what condition should I put this it's different when you're talking about the way that you treat another individual to one another to your fellow that's exactly rights or how you treat your fellow man respect others oh I get it I shouldn't hurt people even if I'm not their friend you know it's a shame that not everyone is like that mm-hmm it's very important to be nice to others that's exactly right that's not a bad idea at all Thank You Ruth I'd cross the kingdom for you bye bye bye hey honey yeah so uh can I can you what you know know the thing you mentioned you know that thing what thing sore about the cake the bananas in the chocolate what cake you want to bake your cake oh you want a cake yeah of course you do even if it was only an example maybe I get a kick out of it I have a question for you yes what have you decided is what I've decided right I'm going to take the basket with all those things I don't need and throw them away that's a very good idea tell me what will you give Jonathan as a gift well I don't know maybe a boat I don't know about that how about maybe a rubber bar the one I saved before or maybe those markers I'll package them nicely now you're talking thank you it's really nice true when you treat people the way you want to be treated and I think it's great that you don't treat your friends in a way you'd like to be treated but they don't like it excellent and that they don't treat you in a ways that you don't like but you like me right let me tell you something sore of course I like you well I like you too you're a cute kid you're not so bad yourself you're a good friend yeah even better give me five yeah friends forever yes [Music] over here I want to play too Hey [Music] look at that Oh me too me over here hey you catch oh yeah hey are you my friend how are you how's it going guys Isaac good to see you hey Joshua Hey ah this is great I love 400 here whoa back to me hey wait what's going on aren't you including Ari now he's not with us what do you mean is not with us isn't he part of the group not anymore does he want to be part of the group he does but Joshua doesn't want him and you you don't want him here well Ronnie he doesn't want him there leave it just leave it hold on Isaac is this actually true I don't mind but Joshua does so wait do you want to tell me that you're not friends with Ari I am and you have no problem leaving him out of the group no it's just because of Joshua and as Joshua make your decisions yeah what's going on Ronnie can we please let this go hey Joshua come come here for a moment I have to ask you a question how would it make you feel if we excluded you huh buddy hold on this is really important so is this in a minute sir I want to know honey this is a point in what Sawyer excuse me well sir what is it I think I know what's going on here what's even it a lot of thought well you know what's happening here what something very bad has happened to what a boycott you're absolutely right [Music] do you have any idea difficult it is to be excluded mm-hmm I hate being excluded it's just awful it's so hard so so so hard to deal with no you are right Isaac Joshua sir has something to tell you like why would you say that come on tell that it's embarrassing but it's you needs to tell them no no no I don't wanna tell didn't be embarrassed oh I see well because one totally did it and they should be embarrassed exactly okay I use again Joshua I'll have you both know that it is a very mean thing to boycott someone it is do you have any idea how much it hurts inside when you get excluded it's pure suffering it hurts to even think of the times when I was excluded but someone did it to you too yes and and you were left out of the group yes and let's be honest here wasn't it unpleasant for both of you it wasn't just unpleasant I was really suffering as my case hey you know what you know what just you and Isaac ask Ari go and ask him how he feels go on ask him if it makes him feel good stuff Ronny tell them that that's saying about doing things you like and you don't like you know that 100 you're right I should but who should I tell it to mm I wonder Oh till ari and Joshua oh I get it hey Ronnie hey money what I'll tell them go right in I want to tell them let's see I'll tell Ari come here and I'll tell I sick yeah hey come here come here don't do things to your friends that you wouldn't want done to you you get it yeah Ronnie yeah hey can you tell me - I feel really bad sure I can certainly tell you don't do things to your friends that you wouldn't want done to you [Music] see what I mean sir what I get it but what do you get yeah you're right I was right hey guys I was right [Music] wait what was I right about about what you just said yes mash it's a new don't do things to your friends yeah that you would not want done to you I want you to know that you are all my friend you are you're a great friend so are you Isaac and Joshua there is no one like you I'm proud of you for realizing that it's not okay to treat your friends in the way you wouldn't like that good job and you know sir when I think about it everyone in the world of friends everyone in the world their friend [Music] guess what this reminds me of a story that's right are you ready I sure AM okay many years ago in a faraway Kingdom there was a kind-hearted king who ruled peacefully and honestly he would hand out gifts and visit the villagers and always help anyone in need a good king yes he was the people liked him so much that they would give the king gifts in return for example em clothes wool fruit and vegetables and if someone had a cow would they give him milk very good sir but then what a terrible thing happened to the king what happened I cannot fall asleep what's all the noise [Music] ready where are we what I am NOT Ronnie I am the king you are the king shh shh sir Agha King saga saga wait who King Shaka from the story yeah now I get it I like that yeah I like that good you get it yeah may I begin go for it I am having trouble sleeping at night the carriages the wagons the swings the warts delights what like I mean the ports and the crickets and the mumblings such a racket but but your majesty I didn't say anything I wasn't talking to you I was talking to this flower yeah but all it's doing is growing there so it makes no noise no merely grows it is therefore because of these circumstances that I make the following decree yes all travel must stop the channel what are you talking about why all the wagons and the carriages from 2:00 to 4:00 in the afternoon silence in the streets well ok your majesty that actually makes a lot of sense to have quiet in the streets and then from five to six I do not want to hear a single pin drop what and from seven to nine o'clock I demand no one be outside at all and from nine to ten I think I'm getting that point that's great despite these harsh decrees a whole week had gone by and the king was still unable to sleep sleep your majesty [Music] oh I hereby call the Royal exterminator no no your majesty go back to sleep you must be dreaming go back to sleep go back to sleep go to sleep [Music] all those carriages I hereby call on the royal carriage will remover your majesty go to sleep why make it so hard on yourself wrists well sweet dreams make way to your pillow good good just like dad good good [Music] I hereby call upon the Royal SnoreStop er Your Majesty I may hereby declare that only I can hear by a declare yes the Royal physician was called upon to bring the king snoozing medicine what sneezing medicine yeah you know medicine that makes you sleepy but sadly he would still keep waking up because of some new noise you mean it didn't help no it didn't quite the opposite the king became so irritable that he decided to go out and silence all the people himself hung himself it's the king silence silence all the birds silence all the butterflies silence all the people excuse me I didn't say anything uh-huh you just did that's not fair stop talking I need silence fine hold on what's that thing there over there well that's the camera it's filming the story and why is it looking at me how else you expected to film you and quiet I hereby declare you turn off all those noisy gadgets he can't turn it off you there yes you at home as well I am shutting off all your screams Shh it wasn't very long before the townspeople became irritable bitter and tired they themselves could not sleep because of the noise the King made was so they too were unable to sleepy sleep sleep sleep sleep don't do things to your friends that you wouldn't like done to you wait so wait a minute what happened in the end did they all go crazy like the king um a good question one night what happened as the King walked through the park in his royal pyjamas he called out to the people to be very silent shh-shh-shh [Music] could you please explain to me what that noise is who is this who dares break the Kings silence this is in your ears what was that you have tissues in your ear what did you say I can't hear you I've got tissues in my ears let me get that for you can you hear me now [Music] it's coming from that cradle over there that one there yes that way I won't be a moment of course yes oh [Music] what a darling it's a baby boy he's so cute oh no he's he's crying what's what's wrong with him I humbly beg your pardon your majesty whoa I believe he's having trouble sleeping why is he having trouble sleeping I demand to know who's disturbing his sleep his sleep is being disturbed by your royal Majesties loud decrees and I hereby call the royal majesty exterminator [Music] what's so funny what are you laughing at [Music] your majesty Hey I think I found something what did you find his pacifier there's a note here what does it say what does it say don't do to your friends what you wouldn't want done to you we have a smart baby here he's so cute no I understand you're having trouble sleeping because of me because of my shouting what a shame he should sleep grow strong and be a general from that day on the King no longer shouted at his people and peace and quiet returned to the kingdom so touching a happy ending so tell me yeah did did he manage to get any sleep in the end he got some earplugs hate sir you got the point right loud and clear bye everybody [Music] yes Anu alaikum I'll toss salad huh Baha why would I do that don't do things to your friends yeah me that you would not want unto you okay look if there's something I don't like I see that's it I take a hike and I won't no I won't wish it on my friends at all if there's something that I hate I walk away and I feel great coz anything I don't like almost every time my friends won't light as well [Music]