Tisha B'Av: The True Meaning of Mourning - Rabbi Avraham Rockmill

[Music] you just had just went through a Shabbos and today was a tisha Bob knit pushed off to the tenth day today is the tenth day of off truth is that the basin mikdash burned for two days so it's the factories we have to commemorate tisha Bob on the 10th of August there was some opinions in eager Moria which a little intent about but the reason is knit because Shabbos job as you can have a valence that they would pitch Bob is most similar to was yarmulke porn it's a full day fair that's the right said this is do Abunimah Yoma Kippur has those who the muck seconds this is sooner before you start the first we also had a certain amount of seconds this year we didn't have one so full full day fest nor the other fasts before the fourth past days which you were in binnacle are not full day except for this but there's one difference you confess than Yom Kippur and on Chavez but you can't fast the tissue boggling Chavez have to fist the next day and that's because in addition to the element of Caparo which is list which exists of atonement which exists in all fair stays is element of Khepera and that's what the Rambam says all fair stays you have to reflect the tissue bob has an added dimension on the other fast days perhaps the certainly overkill keeper and that today were those where a mossad oh we're mourners ave Litzy on vive la you shall i wear a veil iman see on and a valine on initializer what does it mean veil eat see on wear a veil iman still use the word see on quite a bit Zion so the word see all needs to basic McNish it means the their spiritual Emmet that Basin make this when the Tamina mobility one explains a Tom should be base of McNish met crack see you and why is the base macness referred to as seein to Russian ice persimmon it's a sign behind Sean Malcolm Isaiah who were Shimo with the Moose Chicago me that place is a mahkum is a place and a symphony and a form of all the worlds it's the merit casserole um says he the charm has rised Louie he said for these broad when the base of macness existed it was the Americas the center of the world everything the entire world has a simian has it makes a Roshan in that spot that's why it's called ciancia means a sign that's the base of McNish Vilna Gaon says just like Adam Adam is Adama commerciai kia kia optima mean Adama cane a yaw a courteous pacer mukesh the a courteous the essential life force of a man of life comes from the base of McNish that's the maximum English and we're availing Seon we are veiling on the base of mikdash I'd like to share with you so an unbelievable thought we're now unfortunately marking the destruction of the base of English the horrible says rebbit surprise acaba tomatillo goalie gone Nia dua he made the Asia here but they said McNish Lahav aha Smith who can aim Mesa Mohnish the destruction of the base of macness is like death and simplicity sure work Tasha became the rock of the base of mikdash return to God for who base to make the chamalla should gobble them all up a group here at La Motta just like when a person dies with Ronald son the the Sherman goes up and the goof goes down so - but their base in English as a water war the spirit of the business Basin macness went up and its body went down and that's what it says the hangouts of Bosco Varma Kim Satine it to contact whether the base in making sure Eddie was destroyed by the physic the the spiritual base of mentorship destroy before teachers had come the densest Shiva Emma's roll shot scissoring the caduceus of mikdash the czarina the foreigners desired wrong never really had their hands on the to mikdash rock but who hungry only in the physical body the nimzo-indian cortland basis of McNish okay beget her me some Amish it's like death simply put she the star like world - Shaboom now listen to this oka Moshe anomic aphasia may see my signal are Theo's just like we are in a future hoping we're praying we believe that the dead people will realized TSM a symbiont during the summers the vegara Mason then the shamans are going to come back to dead bodies Kemal Cain acid-base a McNish large slowly borrows the base of meekness is going to be rebuilt the Assad a shoe or rainbow there's going to be a war crime within it a share ball Laura young that world which has never been destroyed tomorrow may seem Charlotte College broke lock the awesome show you crazy mark from that makes the meekness is never going to be a destroyed just like when the fearsome a scene people will be reborn we their their rebirth will be forever he is amazing and the Binion basin McNish I might be all parallel the Corbin of the basin make this is like the death of an individual which is unbelievable for it and I'll take it a step further listen to this Benny asleep deserves our Baker's dislike he says when the A's are mean the foreigners the nation's they were showing on the base of McNish it's like the worms and the maggots which will show which rule over persons who've after he's dead commotion Isha elements and to discover unbelievable words commotion Misha eight Salaam ace xmf I just like we know by in person there's one bone SHINee crowd lose right mark meat supposed to eat Mileva Maltese you're feeding your boos bone there's a certain bone in the body which never gets destroyed neasha a flood the Dharma a Sahara and never jerk I'm washable this could there's a certain woof a kind that remains within this bone sure I attached a yo-yo champion csma/ca for another human being the kayaks appear for his goof is gonna come from this lose bone listen to these words Kemal king neasha erosion caused some aarathi these are the words of rebuke to Kaiser cover the cost of my Robi the western wall Shabo niche suits Maharashtra nasi is Brad Schimel there is an Aegis there's a there's still a spark of the harsh recession from the colors were home right as it says Binet sir Oh Menaka kiss lover who base kill balloons Shaima every Charlotte's planning for Bray she's she's every siming shall us in Locksley bono's come on Indian how lose bottom she anal color back ever to me men were all made love to you just like this like there's a bone in a person's body which is never destroyed and that is disseminate from that was going to be the rebuilding the fact that there's still the coastal Marathi is that cemani says be that there's going to be the rebuilding of the basin English beacons comparing a man and his death to a base of MIG - and it's Corbin and literally truth - Kumar small just like there's a separation of the goofily neshama by a mensch there's a separation of the roar of the base of McNish Vimala and it's it's goof as it were LaMotta and that group is going to be reborn that goof was not totally destroyed just like a man's body is not totally destroyed when he's done when he does unbelievable words but that being said I think now we can understand something which has always bothered me and I would like to go into we say ik wants on some passes away you say when you leaving the house and say I'm Malcolm anonymous ten bits of shot I barely see on the ocean line may God comfort you Marconi's God come to you among all the rest of the all the rest of the ability on of the mourners of Zion person sitting Shiva he was the dear person he was somebody close in his life and was saying may God come from you now we don't say may God company among all the mourners that would be you know along with others you want to have comfort now sure I've a let's see on you line shar means the others of the same type what does it mean you're sitting person sitting Shiva Florence lon you're sitting Shiva and you're evil and you're among those who are mourning the base of Mukesh and you shall I the words it's unbelievable smog-filled so with this words of the various cries of coverage and start to understand that the Binion that the destruction the MacGuffin structure meant are really two parallel things it's a separation of an instrument from a goof it's in the separation of that craft Neelam Allah it's the cleric of a Kurdish particle the coyote a Bruckner shall we say which exists within a mensch his elemental King which has to separate from his goof or the rock of the base of McNish which separates when it's destroyed both the base and McNish and a mensch why it is their need for Mesa in the world why is it this his death in this world man was supposed to live forever we all have a heart gushin you know there's a reason why we won't feel gonna live forever because we all got on the threat what was supposed to live forever we feel that way there's only one problem although I wish on sins and when other Mauritian sinned he introduced the necessity of a cutters barrel to say the banishing from GaN Eden and that this unipi he shouldn't even a it's a high in a manila there's Mesa in the world because the man's body cannot be perfected by his neshama in its parent when the Shama when the goof when we hate for Nate's at last our garage the proof became such that the neshamah could not purify it in this state and there's an ephah mesa says the Ramban in charge movie mentioned it before that the reason why we cry at áliveá the person in the bio he's in a better place he's gone back to his career it's advocates in Guyana what we crying about Bobby crying for the missus why this they need to be missin I heard this room so of Albin why does there need to be miss in the world why is there a need that they can't we can't cut directly into eternal life because of sin the fact that there's sin there was a pet cat demands makes a necessity that there's need for me see the shortage of man's death is is kept and the church of the pinion of the destruction of the base of McNish is cut the parallel the truth is where we mourn because there's a lack of the divine presence in this world the Phoenix says you don't sit Shiva on an animal you don't sit Shiva on a pet I think those people who bother to bury their pets yeah watch such people in the world and if they're watching this so be it but they don't sit Shiva and if they do there's a place you know for people like that but anyhow we did nobody said on that pet might be said be sitting Shiva sitting Shiva seven days to recognize what this individual pointed to the world what his selam aleykum what his contribution was what we're missing how he he brought some some of the God's will into this world and now it's departed and had to leave so - we'd be more on the basis of meekness we have to be focused on those of various on those things that cause the base invectives to be destroyed and that's how we understand what's missing and like both of them both of them are going to be restored there's going to be clear samay seen and it's going to beat resurrection dominion of the base of English by the way this I think is subjective himakajima not what what is the multi me in Afghanistan God should for comfort you like that one is it's an Amish alignment I always thought that the comforting of the mourner would be they should feel good she'd be able to get on with his life she'll be able to make do you feel the garland his life was a comfort perhaps it's also true but the complaint what we're learning a mock team in Afghanistan the soldier you should be confident just like the confidence of a lot the rest of the comfort is of Zion Andrew and you shall I am it's gonna be rebuild your comforting your true company for a lost of a dear one it's going to be fierce amazing and also there's another interesting thing among human RMS scam now that before team explained what is it as chemist chemist plural among human our chemist M so you say that if there's a group of the family but even if there's one other you say yes Jim that's the that's the whole awful if there's one elbow in front of you you still say s10 as him as the plural lawsuit so they say the reason is because the your Menachem the Nifty the person who is lifter is also getting in the hump so if she said in the comment is that people come to his you know they remember him etc but then the comic to him will also be clear summation according to this his perhaps one one of the ideas within a comma for the mesas the de st. him that's a shiny shelter from the common one day your your soul be restored to your body so we have to appreciate that as we know as you we're all aware that they were they were a varus that led to destruction in the temple these are various are what the shore of the Cape is what brings destruction the carbon Tet is what brings me into the world so we know that the three of eras Comoros the three cardinal sins chief is dumbing murder Gilly arias licentious behavior avodah Zarah idol worship these are the causes of the destruction of the first temple simply put it would seem that the pride is that the destruction the first temple God's honor was taken away God's honor was there in that mohkum us everybody saw up the open miracles these three of errors are when turret calls on us to give up our life normally we save a Kaiba hem you shall live by them not you shall die by them all other misses in the turret the halacha is mr. case because nefesh you you you forego the mitzvot and you save a person's life there's three three mitzvahs even in private me three averey's the Baris even in private if we asked to do them by a non-jew abide for whatever reason we're not allowed to do gilli arrived it was dummy and a vote is over that means that these three mitzvahs state are higher than our whole life stand stand for the we are here in this world to bring out the the honor of the colors Baraka these three things show the honor of the cutters barraco and we have to give up our life for them it's no wonder a be a keeper and his dying day when he's being tortured by the Romans he's tortured he said I've been waiting for this day we say every day schmeyer ceragem elokenu hashem f i was supposed to be thinking that one day we were willing to give up our lives recovers Borobudur we're beekeeper reached that point that this answer I'm alive to be able to die for a cut of sparkle that's the whole pinnacle of life so these to be a varus they stand for the honour of a country's powerful in this world and when we when we we we didn't keep them properly we were over them so the first place to make this is destroyed this concept of the honor of a Shem and the first place of meekness perhaps is the shot it says that there we know there are five things five things that happened on on on Tisha Bob one was the cut to the maragua the destruction of first and second temple the near kdl gaedola beta Sh'ma and the destruction and of a great city it was called a time higher ball a femur of Abbas had thousands tens of thousands of Jews and they had a member gildo and everyone thought that he was going to be the machine but nothing we are going to Najera go Coulomb for hiset surrogate ola Comeau for benimaclet the destruction of bait our says the Rama is like the destruction of a scimitar so simply put this city represented the glory of the Jewish people it thousands and thousands of unity somebody who they thought was going to be mushy at Bar Kochba this was the glory of the Jewish people when it's destroyed that's the destructions of glory what marks line of a killers Burkle in this world his honor is being taken away and the ultimate destruction of our College Burroughs honor who Baba Yama Mukalla promised Chyna's raucous ha Russian mafia drama say hey cow this bizarre Bob the time Seon took to her wish the last thing was that they covered over the mahkum of the hey cow and they they buried it like with a garden that with it with it with like like a sudden imagine it's a cottage Baraka's world he's got this symbol of his honor in this world and what do you do not only destroy it you cover it over it's not like it's not even there it's the greatest desecration a pillow a desecration of the honor of occurs barkal in this world that is what the first place of McNish the destruction of the honor of ocean a shameless has something else left in his world which is his honor what is that classroom that's the second base in English the second base in English as the morale existed nakaya's because of the octaves and the Jewish people were the ones that allowed for the first second base of McNish the fact that they exist they didn't have open miracles it was acquired through the mail it's very understood says see niskanen destroyed the second base of McNish the minute there's no unity among the Jewish people there's no need for a base of English that is where the Kurdish borough has in this world if he doesn't have us what does he have of course they're symbols there are symbols when we do a very refined sandwich which are highly charged like the Marah gleam we reject he gives us Eretz Israel and we rejected these are highly charged of errors or they're symbols of a of a Shems blurry for sure that's the destruction of hashem sana but the destruction of Jewish people when the Jewish people no longer one that itself is the greatest killer and that's the second destruction of the second temple now that being said that's the union of evaluate seal now what does it mean a veil a you shall I am the mourners of Jerusalem that's what does Jerusalem have now that we very discussed the destruction of a some English so what is special about Jewish alignment so there's no junctional Foyle Hirsch I'm sure their other shot them over here he says like this a veil a minute you wish a lion of a Mount Horeb in hockey Gila how illumise it's a veil emits morning on the Corbin on destruction of the National key Gila the National congregation Tschida Bonnaroo that shall be rebuilt meaning Jewish people in their in their entirety be America's Etzion and its mierqis is in see own or ball him saw okay Elohim and in it will be found that God the the statues of God are shocked in the sea on hogwash awesome when Yeshua lion is a place where the Jewish people as an entirety the national entity he calls it the National Anthony the Jewish people express itself in all the hokum of the tyro and then their merit causes in Yerushalayim that's what it means you wish a lion we don't need we don't need the recognition of the almost solemn to know what you wish aalayam is we don't need a hook in the Knesset to tell us that you animals we right now are marking what you Lucia lion is because we're mourning in which the lion we're mourning to have a place which reflects the hukum of a color sparkle of America's a center for the National national kale of the Jewish people we're all of God's laws are manifest this huge limas has to scream out with the with the the sovereignty of a colors borrow and every nook and cranny I value I've mentioned before and I'll mention again we'll hit we have gifted at Southampton mayor Shiva Kenton me Shiva when they were building tell someone supposed to be tells us supposed to be here didn't work out and he came to me at Shiva he says you younger white you think you're in Borough Park that's they said to us say if you think you're and bar you jigsaw cuz I be bar apart you think you're running around in Borough Park that's what he said what was he saying you seen this to the mirror you know white people learn Tarot people take the Turner seriously we don't realize where we are where it's supposed to be you wish lion is not just another city it feels a little different today but it's going to be a place with gods we have the national consensus of the Jewish people's expressed in the fullness of the turin every element of the turf it's going to cry out with the sovereignty of a cottage borough that's what you wish your line is that's what it means a Bailey you lion we mourn that we don't have that national entity as it's supposed to be we don't have quiet your function the I'll feet are the way it's meant to be that is the availa wish alliance by the way you look at the butler brough up goes a step further it says now famous general McKenna a severely beyond the severely mr. lion that's my ear how availa it says you have to me knocks on McCulloh Bob glass to give a nahama to the ear hon availa the city itself is warning the city itself is morning I would have known that such a beautiful bridge in that way in you know you look like you play the harp thing like sometimes looks like this playing Marco says the lights going up and down yeah the city's morning the city is morning you don't understand what those words mean the city is money it's like the goof trouble Yahoo that would be the goof of a man is mourning for the shamah to return to it so to the city of you Lyme is mourning for the Jewish people but clothed in in all their glory to return we all know what those words mean in this world missed this group of people we know that means tearing Mitsos we know that means that when we're functioning totally of cording to the Watsonville coverage borough obviously if there's much like this the dissension and then within our midst these things are obviously in the way of that ultimate the fruition of that ultimate dream we say Bonet Lucia line we say in the Brooklyn cutters Burke who is Bonet he was lying which means Bona Bona is present tense he's born he's now he's building it building it now really maybe you think it's the bridge right that's what they taught you in Derek you took you over there no okay sure homeless Shh see the foolish Buffalo hurry the base of Mukesh you sure Ryan he nice and he should say H hi gyro I'm bringing from the day in Yakov he's the the the the age the fire that's going to build the base of McNish in the future by the way you looked at the broccoli gonna say the safe noon if you haven't said it yet it says home us a Sahib he promises you're going to bring us down off the base of mikdash and fire that flyer is made nice a minute to say H I show off their shamed me or beam the Talmud Torah some of our lesson lesson all the tears of Nikita's excuse me the age of year that this those who serve a cutters burden in learning the turret and in their voter which start from cover Yahoo or behind us at home ization that's gonna make the fire but the father wall of fire that's going to come down from shin myeon Kurdish Barca was building right now the pinion I make tush he's building it every day with me a voter of choir is real the abode of the place for the last two thousand years is building currently building with our avodah the Binion and macness that fire it's going to come down from the fire of the year of shamayim was exhibited in the voter session now take a step further we say call a Mesaba Alicia Lyon Zartha burrow abyss impossible a person is miscible person who mourns on Jerusalem he'll be ziko and see it's it's it's it's glorious it's it's simple so the problem is presided guests you know what does that mean what does that mean when are we going to see this simple she says well if you say it means the future the nucleus amazing which is simply the puzzle shot you can bees are good see it's amazing but he says everybody all Heights was over the place may seem in prep some who weren't like for somebody's warm asaba on the shoreline I heard that it seems that the ribbon says that there's going to be 2/3 SMAC month of those who were Lima Szabo and a later one for those at work ok well he's bothered by the fact that can't to say it means kiss amazing he says it's difficult to learn that way because everyone's gonna be like anyone all class welcome has been reserved entities amis she says you have to say that in the morning of the morning mo you are in the morning for the base - in itself is dizzy there's the issue in itself is a why to be assured every time we mourn the morning itself lets us see a little bit of a assure the the external manifestation of that is you're sitting on chairs the external manifestations we sit on chairs the middle of day we decide you know what had enough of this floor very uncomfortable I'm sure you all thought like that what I did no that's not the chart that is not why we got in the picture we got because the cutters Russell took out his anger he took out his anger on stones and bricks and wood he destroyed the myth that she didn't destroy us it's it's T Shabaab itself is the statement that on the one hand well missing on the other hand we know it's coming we see it coming it's because of our Moana is because of our boda of other this very day that we're building the base of mikdash we're not waiting it's happening right now father so he can get dull in the summer feel it see it in the very in the more sublime spiritual way but all of us have to recognize that what we're doing is not stop and exercise it's not an exercise it's Binion hamikdash recognizing destruction make this is the beginning of billion of McNish we don't know what you're missing how can you possibly put it back together if we don't have recognized that with there's something missing in our lives or something missing clients well how can we possibly put it back together the externals of that is singly chair the PME is the insight has to be our abode o our voter beach once a vote and somehow correcting a little bit reflecting a little bit on how we can make it a little bit our mouths are its famous words of year meow our moms are that's why the clients real leave why would we keep that emeritus Royale day miss cos all she'll all bar a freebooter Sheila they didn't make a blessing famous huzzah they certainly asked then the beam image everybody so hardly nobody knew the answer until the courier who said it himself they didn't call my way they're all barcode returns of humor says the famous Rubini ona welcoming laboratory Fela didn't recognize the achievements of turtle didn't recognize how special interests they learned their two cents the Comets kind like another mixer like something else like about other Huffman's didn't recognizing learn of the small didn't learn it for what it really is there was missing in their learning they were learning Torah they were sitting and learning maybe it's right Bubba says you know what it means slow bar from the toilet peanut so they all looked around they know the Kimo of Eros Commerce they know that we committed sins but why way they come from why won't we didn't have honk honor white never protection shall all bark of it's hard to Ceylon they didn't learn to are properly stimulated with lack to protection the tourists close to give law bars for the tired feeling that means that we weren't learning tireless ma and the level was supposed to be learning there's an idea of lachemann for its own sake learning terror for its own sake learning tar because that's the college bar was ruts in this world during the rut cinema courage because that's his ruts in this world heaven is a famous safer will allowed to learn it today it's called yolk for those who don't know yield means joke job right yo-yo of the book which stands which discusses discerning mcmarson you saw him in this world you have suffered all these Sherman can possibly imagine all the troubles and tribulations that one could possibly imagine what's frightening is you'll even read the beginning of the oh he was a good joke used to make sure his here the fine family was keeping the mitzvahs he was he was one of you know he look at them be first to Proxima be there he was he was a fine job says the mob womb he was missing one thing and that's why he heard his broker boarded dinner he wasn't serving in Kurdish broke who's doing for other reasons and then - well had the judge and then you have all the be cooking his discussions with those who came to visit him to understand the ruts under the covers broke on this world but the his his problem is the war the thing that brought on Rosie is serene it was Serbian Kurdish burro foolish more the SMAW meets for the sake of a cutters burro bringing God into this world bringing God into our lives let him turn of the small little bit serving God a little bit less tomorrow as opposed to just four we want but this is a sham in this world there's a God in this world he's hidden but he's here we know the second thing which I'd like to mention we just we mentioned in early a moment is that it says seen as Tina is the cherish of the destruction of second base in English my likeness arguments are hatred what's my flakies you know what the Vilna Gaon says bali must like this are you know they've learnt oh great and you have a very good cup work I've been where I've join a nice cup or you know have a people like me parts of fraternities and groups and you know so you know who the cab or of the my collective Bali Marcus is a rule of guys you want to be my remember the era of raava Bali muffles and who's that a malakian the meter of a bollock the meter must like this is I'm awakened what is much likeness my quake this is the fighting which we come from jealousy from variety of covered etc money says the Vilna Gaon unbelievable words the Vilna Gaon says shallow yariv autumn Alka vero a person shouldn't fight with his friend of Shambhala Caymans Kane exhibition Lama yah Ruth coz thus it was decreed from the cutters Braja why is he fighting the Shura SH the rules is a groan the root of all sin is Keenan the root of all is lo sock mod loss Ocwen means do not covet the Leslie assess at D Brooks is denied covet what your friend has this church of all apheresis little sock more that says the bill McGann all sinner and Keena comes from one thing lack of be talkin and women to his burrow if we want to start to correct if we want to start to rebuild the pinion and McNish if we want we have to start to understand that there's such a thing is the honor of a kind of article in our lives there's honor cutters buckle in this world there's a Cudi's vertical plain and simple we talk a lot I'm talking a lot we try a lot beat up slowly Chanel polish mama person a knife an army a person supposed to start from low leash mark when you sprout mulish more you eventually come to the Schmoll to do it for the sake of guard you Stewart before our external external reasons then you come for the sake of a color Sparkle but a little bit of this small we have to have a little bit of a recognition that there's something in this world it's called the cutters buckle it's his world it's his usual I am it's his Eretz Israel it's his world and all the money and all the all the prosperity that we have everything that we have is well from a cutters burger but to live with that why do we dislike other people why we we we have kina was of course the most my flake is here you shall I am when people start to build out their map assets yeah Ezreal Auerbach said that most of the entirety comes to him so all from building different building rights block in my window is not blocking window he's can't do it he can't do it I recently ran into young couple I recently ran into a young couple and somebody had built over there with living room window all around all around the living room to the back bedroom and I asked the bother biases did you give him his shoes to that he said not gamer shoes to do in the back bedroom if this whole thing was without my shoes I said well why did you let it go he says it was too late so his wife chimed in he says it's fine we had beautiful Sun from this side she internalized the words of a villain go Matty's buy a beautiful apartment built over here she says only a beautiful son from him that's a woman who's internalized what it means that it could his vocals plays it it's nothing there it's nothing they but sure the neighbors not right and if you could you could stop him but that's not he's not this cherish could be spoken was buzzed on them that to some reason dance have a little bit of a darkening up there without their living room that's a very big moderator how many times people take from us you know it was so angry someone hurts us we're so angry it's not easy it's not easy forget it and you say to let somebody have something when especially when it's when you feel it's yours but when you appreciate it ultimately nobody can touch anything nobody can touch anything that's coming to you cuz I'll take they can't touch one NEMA not one inch of what's my kids any individual nobody can take away from me we know that in theory but we heart was hard to live live in practice but the minute we start to internalize a little bit these ideas a little bit of understanding that God runs the world that guy runs my life it's true accommodation puts me Russian mind I have to make choices we have to make choices we have to try to do our vote as best we know how we try to learn Torah as best we know how have to give me let's go son as best we know how we have to try to keep ourselves and straighten out and grow we make spiritual choices but our wealth are held the situation around us whether the bus driver growled at you that morning the other thing about the bus drivers heaven I want to tell you finish the bus driver is also human being you may not have thought of that sometimes difficult to appreciate that's a small thing isn't it but we got to start with the small things if we don't start with the small things you're never going to make it to the big things there are a lot of issues in choirs well which are outside of this room we can't win that Bolly level we don't we're not the ones that pull the strings and what some of the bigger issues in Cairo I don't think be in the religious world or in the secular world in the Knesset but you know we do pull the strings in our homes we do pull the strings within our community we do pull the shoes in our shul speak about showing bias Shawn bias that's real that's real that's where it's at that's not easy Shawn with your neighbors that's real and that's not easy show them in the best Knesset is real and that's not easy Charmin is cheaper is real it's not easy sure it's always easy to like like yo he was doing great it says and I'm telling you from the mob boom he was doing great every as long as things were throwing his way things were going his way he was great when things slide to work against them that's when it started to become difficult the reason why these things are difficult for us is because we think we're in charge we are in charge of our choices if the bus drive is not nice to us so how are we going to react if the food we come home to is not what we expected how he's going to react if my my roommate it's a little sloppier than I would prefer how am I going to react that the achievers dinner is not what I expected how am I gonna react or how am I gonna treat some of the people who put it out even though it comes a half an hour late that's in my hands that's in our hands when you make that little bit of step in a little things if we make the little steps which are with hands to do then we be show them into our lives then we bring a college bar go into our lives and God will make weeping cutters brought them to our lives God willing the rest of Christ will do the same I will say the opinion on English being hair of a minute [Music] [Applause]