Tisha B'Av: An Attitude to Gratitude - Rabbi David Kaplan

[Music] Paris says my utter Ishod that could have awful confronts him because Rafa says what happened what my Omer me either lucky or Mota I mean I Eve so sure at CBC fellow built a home a mentor halter did you eat from the forbidden fruit way over all done ha yosher Rosati medina still america was my fault was the wife Rashi says over here can cover Vltava odd operation was what we call in English he was an ingrate yeah cuz Rocco gave him something so good memory should went and he was copper who is what we called kuffar bateau then because for hotels what the punishment is gonna be and the Punisher is gonna be you're gonna first enough flush and the wife she's gonna go through childbirth then it says Isaiah saw that photo I'll let him you're gonna work you're gonna sweat till you go back to the dirt to the earth and you're gonna you know what do you call it the coats desired or it's gonna be difficult so it gives them a whole clove areas that you're gonna work and it's gonna sweat then you're gonna die in the very next possible as Adam Rishon do says vyi Kragh or other Shan Meis no cava chiesa in cold hi what an interesting time to name her you know you just told your your why she called cava yeah I saw em cold high that you know listen she's the mother I mean now of all times you know okay this is this is the story you're gonna work you're gonna die that's that yeah you know what why so what an important said well Katya is from a Russian no fell solution in Aramaic a snake is called Olivia Olivia and then to happen havea that she's the wedding called she's the the source of all his troubles did not but other before ships say no to the contrary other Mauritian realizes at this point he was coffee Tova then he gets the call ah but on the one hand okay she she cause death she she she's it's a problem and the other hand look at all the good that he gets from her and therefore right now he turns around and he expresses a name cava which is a an expression of Icarus a toast to her she I saw ankle-high all living beings are gonna come from her all of his descendants it all comes from her and therefore right now he expresses his occurs at oath so you get to these to get that contrast you get on the one hand something called her Cara Soto which is gratitude and you get something else which is called doing a coffee Toba which is being an ingrate so winner of Palms Etzel was in the hospital palm was when you know they adore in America and he was in the hospital and his tummy them we're there they had a regular 24-hour watch they were saying to Hill him and everything else and at a certain point where palm said to one of the nurses saw what did the tummy dim there they said to these tell me then you know what are you - Ralph pound and they look there is that we're grateful that's what we are to respond so but when it comes to a corset oh there are many practical applications in broad possibilities of where a person has to express appreciation so in there was a an incident in England some rats there was a rat got into a house and the kids were running around with brooms they trapped his rat under a bed we wanted to kill the rat and the Zadie comes running into the room and says leave the rat alone this is a tea you know rats are dangerous their their their disease-infested said leave the rat along but the rat go such as a tea but the you know as a rat he said listen I was in the concentration camp and I was one of the barracks and at night it was freezing cold and we didn't have blankets the only way to stay warm is that we would lie against each other in the body heat we kept each other warm but I was the guy in the end of the road in some a and the white my right side there was somebody but on the left side was completely exposed but at night the rats who themselves were cold they would come up and they would rub up against me because they wanted to keep themselves warm so emailer they kept me warm so I don't you know might have a corset oath to the rats so leave the ranellone the obvious question is I you know those rats in England we're not necessarily connected for the rats over in Europe what's what does it mean how cars and rats would appreciate it anyway so the idea is that occurrence a Tove person has to realize it's a meet-up and when a person has you know they had a guy in in Israel they had a garbage strike those of you have been living in the country for any great length of time you know that it's not uncommon usually around pace off time there's a garbage strike and there were apartment building people had left their bags outside their doors there was nowhere to put it and one of the neighbors went to each door and he took the bags the garbage bags and he took him outside to the main garbage dumpster he collected all the neighbors doors and he took them out took out the minister somebody said why'd you do that so listen I'm living in this building for about 15 years these are my neighbors I have a curse a tough call my neighbors the least I could do I have an opportunity to help them out it's at least I can do a lot of people you'd ask the same thing you know I'd say yeah the living here with my neighbors 15 years I'm putting garbage in front of their doors so person he and I you know I could go it's a double-edged sword so I'm sure there are things that his neighbors did they're probably irritated him well the other thing and there were things that they did which he has a curse I talk to them for so he goes that he takes the garbage kind cries worth the roof of Antwerp when we could all a ador just once driving he got off in the highway he got out of the car and he stopped in at a service station to use the facilities after he finished in the facilities he went into the little shop they are there he bought a coke just tell me to with him very uncharacteristic of her cries worth to buy coke to drink pop and you get back in the car and they said to him Rebbe why you know why did you do that why did you buy that coke he said listen I went in I used the service station and I use those facilities the least I can do is express my appreciation to the owner he's got it you know we use this facilities at least I could do something for him and by the coca make a purchase realizing of course that it's the law I think in every every every country there's a law that you have to have facilities in order to have a service station has their facilities but the intent of the person that we benefit from as a material the fact that we got a benefit from somebody doesn't absolve us of any way of expressing and feeling how parasitol there was even a big boy who was a famous performer in the United States and after every performance at the end of his show he would finish the show by saying good night mrs. calabash wherever you are nobody ever knew who this was the business mysterious mrs. calabash and every time he finished the show a performance a good night mrs. calabash wherever you are let me know who she was after he died they did something he did some research he went looking around they found that when he was first breaking into show business and who's trying to get his big break he had no money there's a woman who allowed him to stay rent-free in a flat mrs. calabash and until his dying day he had her car sawed off to her that's a guy that's not one of the tribe it's something so basic in human nature that we understand that it's such a basic nita that a person has to have this sort of our curse a toad in rough shafts that saw when he was a Talmud move hook of reversers almond Meltzer and reversers all in Meltzer of shaft married his beasts and it was his rub there was a common move up it when reducers dominum ulcers that saw was lifter of shaft bought cover the empty plot next to mr. Solomon there was a young kava kava minutia line was mr. this young table of hokum when Rashad had first come to Eretz Israel years earlier this yeah I'm Thomas Holcomb had been sent by the Rebbe on him and he went and picked up he met rogue shot at the port when reshef came in at the port - wherever it was this was the young man who had gone to group of shot then a few years later mr. Solomon was not if there that this young type of haha was lifter before he was lifter he expressed his wish that he wants to be buried next services almond in rashad said that Hawk Carosa Tov demands that he forfeit his kefir next to his Rebbe bull puck and he surrender it up to this young man because he had a debt of gratitude too because this young man had picked him up can you imagine a seraph chef gave up his kefir next to Robbo move Hawks because of the debt of a car so Toby he also once it was already the goal of door of shot was already somebody who was recognized as the leader of Lithuania jury and he came to your shoreline from Bnei Brak and he knocked on the door of a certain Thomas Holcomb Tom Coughlin's had apparently done reshef a favor at some point or shot felt he owed him a debt of our isotopes so chef comes over to his house and a crowd of people as soon as of shot her stasis or assassinate get a giant crowd of people starts following him where's Rashad going and her shot comes knocking on his door imagine la how's the hot imagine well have there been been kind Makai imagine how you'd feel day for Kaimuki Nevsky would come and knock on your door where's Hawkins become looking around for you how you'd feel what a covet could imagine such a covered everybody sees what he's coming looking in rough shop goes that he he knocks on the door of his Tom and Hoffman opens the door he shocked he's astonished to see rough shot Chuck said I came to say thank you you did me a favor I can say that rebbe it wasn't necessary people are standing outside and Rashad says and is a token of my appreciation I brought something for your children Trebbia wasn't necessary comes in he pulls out a boardgame Mushaf bought it brought a game for the kids that was a token of appreciation now hustle mom she's cringing he can't yeah her shop said call the children this is rebbe reb he's really not necessary and he calls the children and he says looking I brought you a game Wow thank you he says ok now let's open it up so I could teach you how to play the goal outdoor sat there at the table with the children teaching them how to play the game because of his icarus a toast to the father that's the concept of appreciation the Torah says lost a toy you musta saw him it's raki Guerra ISA Barrett so you're not allowed to give the mystery of my hard time because we were strangers we were visitors in their land and I understand that when the Jews were in betrayin the midstream themselves were a bunch of ingrates Joseph had put their economy on solid footing you'll see fit Sadiq and as soon as he died then I bought his pair of begins and they were completely ungrateful for everything that was done and besides the fact that being enmity Ryan was not a five-star hotel and yet the Torah says you benefited from them and since you benefited from them you have a debt of our Carosa toes to the bitstream can you imagine such a thing you benefited and therefore it is your obligation to appreciate what they've done for you there for the society administration so what we understand first of all a true pal Hesed somebody who's truly a kind person who helps other people somebody is truly about acid not somebody who's doing s-said in order to get something from somebody sometimes if you're nice to people you get even more a true public asset who's a person who the true giver of Destler says anytime anybody does something for him he's very sensitive to it because he himself knows what it is to give so as a giver as an inherent giver as soon as he's the receiving end something clicks and he understands I've just received I owe the other person their different ways to pay it of course of Catskill levenshtein that saw was the Michigan for punishment of fun of it Andrew at school there was a [ __ ] in the yeshiva who was about gave up a mush was a selfish person I'm gonna know everything every cold me the Rashomon oh haha me and her of Catskill ever taught school ever she had nothing to do with this bar and then one day he was walking up towards the ship in punta [ __ ] and he's walking up to her up the hill and this bugger came up behind him and he took the package out of his hand and he carried it those few yards up to the you shiva he carried the package for of cots box when they got there of the shiva rakaats girl turned to the bunker and he said to him well now I owe you one I have a debt of a chorus I talk to you I have to pay you back you're all mush Gus here I mean no vulgar I know good Nick nothing ever gonna come from you write the book I be to be told that by Ricardo whatever classic eleven she is what we would say in the old days not a good thing the bar did a complete she knowing him change himself completely that's how he paid his debt of my curse a tough don't do it by the way to find some other way but that's coal know that coming from him that's how that's how you pay that's how he paid his debt of a corset oak in the bucket for what because he carried his package a few steps that's that a buckler he had nothing to do with up until that point in at their point he led into him with both guns blazing why can't he felt the other dead Oh occurs at all everybody knows they've done tests and Sheeta they've done scientific tests in it has been proven time after time not that we need the proof it's enough their bones form tells us but for those who are doubters they have found that cheetah is the most painless form of killing animals the knife is extremely sharp by the time the night cuts through the trophy in the trachea and the esophagus the animal is already dead before it even has a chance to feel the pain very much like if somebody gets a paper cut it's only while they don't even realize he'd been cut till the violator the person sees it they somehow they cut themselves on something extremely extremely sharp that's how sharp that's how painless schita is so there were there were also you know nowadays it's always comes up in the news that they wanted this put out wash because it's inhumane and it's in you this and he knew there we're at the end of the day schita has been proven they did once they test where they had a film on a cow and I remember all the details of it but the cow every time a fly landed anywhere on the cow the cow would flick his tail to get the fly off and then they kept the camera on the fly and the cow as the cow is being shifted and through the entire sheet that went through the street the process the cow never flicked the tail and the the the the understanding was that the flee the fly landing on the cow irritated the cow more than the actual schita other yeah uh tarnished ivory Tonya what they what they showed in this study so when we think about Rita why does the tourists say that terms as you have to shift and it's got to be as painless as possible so everybody thinks SAR by Lake I am you know you don't want to cause pain to the animals which is true but why is there an assertive SAR by lifetime whitish feet they have to be so painless so the truth of the matter is that if somebody says well that's you know out of consideration for the cow if you do a survey among cows nine out of ten cows surveyed would recommend staying alive in grazing - painless death so it's obviously not something out of consideration for the cows the reason the Ramban says is that it's what it does to us if you kill an animal they used to do in the stockyards in Chicago they would kill the animals by pouring scalding hot waters at watering them they would scald the pigs with scalding hot water that's how they killed them you'll somehow its fresher that way something or other now obviously that's one for a papal Agito so why is it that we do the shmita we do the schita sorry by the time it's our bollocks I am why is there at sour buffing because of what it would do to us what would happen to a person who goes and takes scalding water what happens to that person what does it turn him into where a person who takes a blunt object and clobbers the animal over the head and answer clobber it several times so a person understands that that's going to erode my own sensitivities that's why the Torah says by the irony becouse the Torah says we know some of the rock I mean very calm calm sure says when its whole city all thy look us of an errand ich das when a whole group of people are ovate about Ozora so you have to execute them if executed all the people in the city and it says the Nussle of a rock on a very calm color diamond cutter says why does it or repeat it twice Oh give you mercy if you carry out God's will have mercy on you executing the regime is a mitzvah carries out of Shems will so why isn't the Nelson which I recommend very comp law says the ORAC I am Rafa me means that of course will have mercy on us but the second word written code will be there you will be still a merciful person that means in engaging in this act of multiple executions is not going to cause your own sensitivities they railroaded that's what there are times less and therefore a person understands that it's the same thing when it comes to a chorus a toad a chorus of Tobi's a meter it because I'll say then a bore that you drink from the barn Baba kama says if you drink water out of the pit don't throw a stone back into that pit why not the pit is inanimate the tip it doesn't know the difference even more than that Moshe Rabbeinu the first three Makos in mid-stride what does the Torah say first three Marcos Moshe Rabbeinu wouldn't hit the water and he would hit the sand for Kenan why because washer albedo was protected by the water when he was in the basket and the sand helped him out when he buried the mystery in the sand so out of his Hawk chorus I told ma baina did not hit the water and he didn't hit the sin do you know what he forfeited that means Moshe Rabbeinu didn't participate in the first three Makos which brought about kiddush change a man in the entire world didn't moshe rabbeinu feel that was worth it so you'll hit the water you'll hit the said they don't need know the difference so why the answer is because what ravana knew that this is a metre in like all other me toes if we don't work on it constantly inanimate human it makes the difference what is it going to do to me and moshe a vein of the belly blisters say was willing to sacrifice his participation in a kiddush a sham i'm across the world because of what the floor could become the flaw that would affect his meters how would his vetoes be affected if he goes and he becomes a cuff elite ovah to the earth in the water which protected him percy gives us a ride somebody gives you a ride what do you say when somebody gives you a ride so it's become the standard think the dorm so he gives me a ride i say to him tis killa mitzvos when he get out of the car just kill him it's this right does what we say tis kill him it's us or somebody does you a favor your wife cooks you a meal shayok right chef means you telling your wife shem should give you a lot of car to continue cooking meals for me that's what goes to your wife just kill them it's us a guy gave you a ride you say to the guy tusculum it's us what is disc allah mitzvahs Tusculum it's this means that you were gave me a ride and by giving me a ride you here now earned the privilege this convinces you have now earned the privilege of my Bravo you gave me a ride and since you gave me a ride now I say to you tis calamitous you have earned my bra have you not given me a ride you wouldn't be getting there Bravo but now you gave me a ride so now I gave you the understand what happened here you didn't express your appreciation you didn't express your gratitude to say sky off or to say tsk EULA Mitzvahs you didn't express your appreciation to the person who gave you a ride so two things were lost number one the submitting which is why we say thank you thank you means I owe you one and to say I owe you one side a reminder that I have to pay in the future I owe you one is a reminder for right now that's a dance work on my own meetups I owe you one and if you don't say thank you you've lost that if you don't say thank you your cuff waits over you wanna say thank you and then the other bra particular mitzvos that you could do don't worry about ribbons arm you can do it give you a permission say thank you to skill evinces but say thank you because it's for you to thank you not for him because you have to remind yourself this person just did for me you get out of a car you slammed it Tusculum it's listed you slam the door you didn't remind yourself of anything to the contrary you've told yourself we're even now he gave me a ride and I said to school omits list now we're even in therefore you lost the benefit of knowing that you owe a one to realize it ever dead of a curse a tote so when a person understands yet everything we do in Yiddish [ __ ] somebody comes into your home imagine person has been completely secular entire life they come to your house for the first time they've ever had a Shabbos experience walk in the beautiful Shabet suited your home and after the meal - you could I ask you a few questions sure so what was that song they sang about the angels with a man came home from shoulder oh you know we welcome the angels as we come in every year Shabbos the talmud says the good angels the bad angel truth so spiritual says what was that song about the woman soldier no no no that's that's the woman of Valor that's the wife you know we pay tribute to her for awhile interesting then I noticed everybody everybody you know he picked up the company made a declaration with the line says yeah that's just our declaration that words of chosen people better than everybody else oh nice yeah and was that thing about then I noticed that they they they poured water on their hands and said no no there's no that's that's part of purity with form eat bread and why were those two breads covered up well you know we normally the bread is the feature attraction at the meal and tonight it's the wine so we don't want to hurt the feelings of the bread so we cover it up can you imagine somebody sane hearing that in your home somebody who up until that point has thought that you and everybody around you is stable they've had a wonderful wonderful suit up and they ask you about this everything is making sense until you thought we don't want to hurt the feelings of the bread you know and then the person looks at everybody else in the room - did anybody else hear what he just said it everybody else - who say yeah yeah it's true yeah no yeah I mean what are we are is it him or is it us who's who's off balance here and the answer is sure we cover the foul you know why because it's good for us because it helps us to practice our sensitivity the kawah doesn't feel it but we do and it's just another and many long still gathered a long list of steps of how we keep our edging yiddish kite and make sure that we don't lose our sensitivities that's what hawk our assertive is about that's what is fuel amidst us is about if we do it we lose our sensitivity and I have to realize I owe you therefore I have to for my own benefit for the own sensitivity refinement of my Meadows I have to express my corset of water bring this up said today in the sleekest in the in the keynote sorry I said in Iquitos look wash em hats Daka Vilano bow shows up on it look wash a maxieduncan you rabona saw have done so much for us Vilano Borgias applauding we are shamefaced why because with all the good that you've done for us we haven't paid back properly we've taken things for granted and what's asked for of us by the rabona Schwab is just be good Jews don't talk loshon Hara learn Torah treat your wives well respect your parents that's all the code of romance cones and what do we do in return we're cuff Alito's look wash a Matsuzaka a lot of bushes have fun in its in kina you'd test if you want to look at it again and when Klaus Roland did not want it her scene I they didn't want to hear a Shems voice so em said mushroom is it that people are scared I caught his rebels at me detain alibi they should always be scared cuz I was like a bar says it about his army detain they should have said that gotta reckw you help us that we should always have this level of your sham and good they didn't say it because they didn't want to walk what is workable the water says they're called Kofu yeh Tova been NATO fleet over you are ingrates descended from in grace you are being ungrateful now and you're descended from utter Mauritian as I told you earlier was guilty of being a conflict over that's what the therosis because I'll say call Hawk Cofer bits of a social event is that recognise her the good the benefit of received from somebody else the vast self Cofer bits of uh social I caught his work in the end he's going to deny the good that he got from I thought as well a person who he has received good and he doesn't acknowledge the good in the end he's going to not acknowledge the good II receiver coders world what's the idea of keeping a vein honoring parents and for ships a obviously parents have given us so much parents brought us into the world we have an unrepairable debt of Microsoft our parents there's nothing we could do for them that evens the score any even lujah to you're a son would save his father's life so we're even now he gave me life I saved his life nothing's work that way because had he not given me life I wouldn't be here to save his life and therefore it's an unrepairable that for everything parents have done it ultimately the before ships a the FINA fits brought down what's underlying the idea of a chorus of hope to parents because if we show a course of toes to the physical entities mom and dad that will bring us to show our course I hope that cutters Werfel for everything that he's done for us Victor Miller was once his grandson walked into the house and he saw his ad for Victor Miller had filled the kitchen sink with water all the way to the top and he had his head immersed in the water you know anything about River Victor Miller anything is anything is possible with him was it possible and his grandson watches and after about a minute and a half Miller pulls his head out of the water and he starts breathing and he puts his head in the water again keeps his head on submerge for a minute a minute and a half and again he pulls his head out of the water he starts breathing his grandson said to him zadie why are you doing that so a Miller said I was downstairs I was out taking a walk and I ran into a man and he started complaining about the smoggy error in New York and it started getting me for a moment thinking up you know the earth kind of smarty and then I realized I being a coffee Toba could've Oracle gave us error what would happen if we didn't air here to breathe any air smoggy or otherwise so what did I do I came I filled up the sink and I submerged my head in water put your outed water in the kitchen sink for a minute and a half any air is good even the air of New York any air is good because they're ignored did not want to lose the sensitivity of his gratitude toward his world I owe a quarters worth oh I curse a toe for everything he's given us Latasha Mitsuko Villeneuve bullsh us up on it we have come up short and what's asked from us in the supplies in every relationship in the world it applies to children and parents everybody's got tynus and - on their parents they didn't do this for me they did that for me they didn't do this through they did there for me we had a young man of the sea Shiva who once wrote a letter to his parents in the letter he castigated his parents in the harshest terms why did you deprive me of all the it'sh kites and eventually when I was 23 or 25 I had to go and find it on my own and he said wrote a very severe harsh letter to his birds so he showed me the letter to ask you what he thought of it and I said them okay we are going to take this letter and we are going to tear it up and we are going to write another letter and the letter you write is going to say dear Mom and Dad I want to thank you for everything you've done for me and especially for instilling within me truth as a value and because you instill truth as a value all I've done is taken it to the next level and that's I want to live my life now you have to understand there are three number one it is very practical benefits because there are very few few parents in the world number one being thanked by their kids has benefits down the line very tangible green benefits in many cases but that's not the main reason there are no parents in the world who if you say to them Wow thank you for instilling truth than me as a valide because they know we did it we said you should be a shyster there are no parents of the world like that all parents are some reason pride themselves on being people of truth and instilling truth and honesty in their kids number one number three number two number three there's truth to it what did his parents instill in him what gave him this was why did he end up looking for truth we don't know what I could his worthless equal in what occurs real good I'm sorry but did his parents had still something in him that helped him to eventually arrive here are you sure it's no that assume it's yes and express your gratitude for it or otherwise err in Ingrid so besides the fact that castigating parents is an issue door eisah and has zero benefits maybe you haven't actual debt of a curse a tofu and a husband to a wife uh husband's always know exactly where their wives are coming up short in their duties because the husband is just such a Malik's sure both sigh I always tell it man got an exercise for you to do go take a good long hard look in a mirror and ask yourself one question how would I like to be married to me ask yourself that question tinies tinies you have a shift takes care of yama ville isla does a million things for you and one thing didn't come out on Shabbos the way he wanted it to also a tiny this wave tightness there's a cuff we Co author Marie show she just brought him work and death and I don't know which one is worse and what does he do he turns around he says an expression of a curse a toad because at the end of the day he benefits from her say 100 Broca's a day why are we saying 100 Brooklands a day more oh that's awesome you are the source of all blessing Asha you are the source of all blessing Asha hundred times a day could you imagine a person who does that a person who does they're at a hundred a hundred times a day a person goes and he says barakat Asha by the end of the day he's going to have a different relationship with the river than us all if he's thinking about what he's saying and says saying blessed art thou he thinks himself you are the Makara brothel my blessing comes from you at the end of the day is gonna have a different relationship with her go to the world he'll every can you imagine a husband saying that there's wife a hundred times a day you are the source of my joy thank you for supper you are the source of my joy thank you for doing the towels you are the source of my joy thank you for not using the credit card could you imagine a hundred times a day a husband saying that's his wife all right we're into science fiction here but imagine he say can you imagine a relationship that he would have with her how he would look at her not for her benefit she deserves it but besides how does he view her what does he do to himself and what about your rebellion and what about your friends people who are around you helping you concerned about you all the time you me and talking to me Misha pirogova says mitzvah carreras Mitzvah Mitzvah causes now star mitzvah sorry star Mitzvah Mitzvah star mitzvah Mitzvah so there are different explanations what a star Mitzvah mean so if death sir explains sorry sorry with time fellowship star mitzvah Mitzvah means Hakodesh Worf was at ovum ativ could his workload created the world all we understand with our limited what of course rogue was revealed to us about himself as he's at ovum ain't age he wants Kavi awful to do good to bestow good every time we do a mitzvah we gets tired by allowing our coders world to give a star he's bestowing Tove on us which in itself is a mitzvah and because it's a mitzvah we get more star and because we get more star quarters work will then bestows their Tov on us that's a mitzvah those are kind of illusion star Mitzvah Mitzvah means it's endless no in the describe it's eternal because for every moment of star we get we get more star for you receiving this time it's a great deal doesn't happen down here on earth the boss pays you say well thanks a lot the boss is just thrilled to pay you more doesn't happen to the country say thank you he thinks he's over paying you how quarters were will the star of the Cyrus star a remarkable concept so it says sold of are called Nisha second last puzzle you go hell it's so stubborn cold Nisha take a look at the target over there both side and the second last puzzle can throws the targum says everything I caught his work will us eat love was going to roll out the scroll every single thing that's happened in the Bria from the time the world was created till the end of time every incident every single thing that's happened because raka will show us how they're affected each individual in each individual will then express will show feel a curse a thought that code is workable how everything in the Bria every tree every blade of grass every airplane flying what was the benefit for me from that acting action in the bridge could you imagine could you I mean beyond comprehension but what there means is that to the degree that we show how chorus at South Dakota's waffle is the degree that we will then live with eternity for eternity with the feeling of a quercetin and the more our core asset oath will have the more Hocker sat oval need to show and the more will use need to show for what I thought is Roku X reveals to us the more our Korsakov will have it will be an endless eternal cycle of a curse a toad person understands there was a taina and us and the taina was you were in grace I gave you so much good and you didn't pay back the way you should have comes along Tish above the digital says you know what the base of meanness was destroyed I've had a long time to think about it it was destroyed because of a lack of a corset off just like the Father punishes the son it says going into your room now think about what you've done we've thought about it we understand that it's not the right Mohammed in life not to people and not to certainly not psycho this world and therefore our avodah is we want to take something out of Tish above everywhere around us look around a little bit who do I old a debt of gratitude to who can i express my Thank You Tube by saying thank you not physical omits eccentric way out who can I look at and say thank you I owe you and the answer is basically every single person who you meet every single person who you see in the same way that we have our gratitude to every single individual if granted faculties were cool for every single thing he does for us not just the big things not just when there's a sinful or when there's a fight a windfall for every single thing I call machine Enoshima for every breath that we take and therefore we as a group collectively have to are one of the evidences it's the only about of one of the avodah ultimately is to internalize the meda of our chorus at OV two human beings are kurdish vocal and bass RM that will help us be another step in the way to the ultimate [Music] [Applause]