Think Your Marriage Was a Mistake? Watch This!

Once someone came to me and said, "Rabbi, this isn't my match." I told him, "You should know that you're denying the Holy One, blessed be He." He said, "Me? God forbid. Look at my kippah. Look at my tzitzit." I said to him, "Tell me, who matched you two together? Who decided that you are suited for each other? There's a guy, when you say, 'This isn't my match,' you're basically saying, 'Excuse me, I'm sorry, but apparently there was some mistake here.' What do you mean, 'This isn't my match?'" He decided that this is your match, and with this you need to make it work. "But I have difficulties." Excellent. The more difficulties there are, the more a person grows. There is no couple without difficulties. Understand this, guys. There is no couple without difficulties. When you start married life, there are ups and downs all the time. So, what if there are? You overcome. You stumble, you rise, and grow.