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Usually in the classes we begin with a
theme in the para and then try to apply
it to our lives. Today I want to reverse
the order and begin with a story and
then get get to the para. I feel it's
extremely important to speak about it
for the following reason. The garra says
in trackctate Sanhedrin
that
Mashiach.
Hashem wanted to make mech
who was one of the later kings during
the first peskto make him Msiah and his
war against the Syrian king. The final
war known as Genan MG. What happened was
that Kiski experienced tremendous
tremendous salvation and miracles and Ly
Omar Shira he did not give thanks. He
did not sing the praises to experience
viscerally the tremendous extraordinary
miracle that he experienced. Now it's a
whole discussion why didn't what he
thought of it what's the connection to
Msiah. But whenever one experiences a
miracle especially of a magnitude that
we have seen it's uh a privilege and a
gift and also a responsibility to be
able to articulate it and to be able to
express it. We say on the drum
or if you're in the holy land the says
mikdash there were 10 perpetual miracles
that happened to our forefathers in the
bas it says in chapter 5 well last
Thursday
the fifth day of sukus the 19th of tre
pes 30th 2026
n god
Not just a great miracle but a great
miracle of extraordinary proportions
that even defy the imagination happened
to our brothers and sisters and to the
Jewish people and really to the whole
world and not just one but minimum
assurm
just like in the B minimum maybe much
more probably much more but minimum 10
10 miracles
and to just point them out I want to
point out what the 10 miracles are So I
want to remind you of the story. It was
supposed to be a regular flight, a 3hour
flight or 3 and 1 half hour flight from
Dubai to Tel a Viv leaving 7:00 in the
morning approximately 7 7:00 7:06 from
Dubai on an airline called Fly Dubai.
Flight number 1073
which would land in Tel Aiv a few hours
later. people going home,
182 souls on the airplane, mostly almost
every single person Jewish. Nobody when
they ascended the plane that morning
realized or figured out or had the
slightest inkling that in a few hours
they would become part of one of the
most extraordinary aviation miracles
that we know in the history of humanity.
So the plane goes up, it embarks on its
journey, and it ascends 5,000 ft, 10,000
ft, 15,000 ft, 20,000 ft, all the way up
to approximately 34,000
ft. For more than 2 hours, everything
was usual, calm, relaxing, the regular
sights on a plane. One person is
sleeping. One person is trying to sleep.
One person is upset by the person near
them who's not letting them sleep. One
person is reading a book. One person is
drinking coffee. And one person is
looking at whatever they're looking at.
Hopefully, it was my videos
or some other beautiful things. And then
when the airplane was already relatively
close to Israel, something horrific
happens in the cockpit, but nobody knows
about it. Nobody is supposed to know
about it. Nobody would know about it
because cockpit
as we know is sealed and sealed very
well. And therefore it was something
that was happening behind closed doors
between two people. That's when the
first miracle happens. The first miracle
happens. There's a little girl who's 5
years old. It's really in her a
5-year-old girl by the name of Nina
Mains who was flying home to Tel Aviv
with her family in business class. Thank
God they were in business class. I think
on the first row, 5-year-old girl says,
"I need to go to the bathroom." Now, one
miracle was nobody told her, "You went
already. You went already. We're going
to be landing soon." That's a big
miracle. Instead, mommy said, "Go and
I'm coming with you." Right? That was
miracle number two. She had to go to the
bathroom and mommy said, "I'm coming
with you." And her mother, her mother's
name is Tali. Talmains came with her to
the bathroom and of obviously she was
waiting outside the bathroom as they
call them in Hebrew Sherutim as her
daughter was there and that's when Tali
Mains the mother of Nina hears
sounds inside the cockpit sounds that
don't sound regular. They sound
irregular. They're not normal. Something
is going on. And uh as a cautious
present woman, she turns to a man who's
sitting also in business class with the
pilot uniform who happens to be
traveling there as a traveler because he
had to get to Tel Aviv to fly back a
plane. So she goes to him and says,
"Could you check out what's happening in
the cockpit because I'm hearing strange
sounds." Now he was tired, so he was
busy sleeping. He wasn't interested in
checking out what's happening in the
cockpit. He's not the pilot of the
plane. It's not his responsibility. He
wants to relax and he had a comfortable
seat. But she's nudging him. She says
this is important. So bles, as they say,
without choice, he stands up and he goes
over. To his surprise, the door is not
locked. Supposed to be locked. The door
is not locked. And he opens up
the door. And then is when he and she,
she's standing right behind him, see
this horrific sight of blood all over
the room of the cockpit because the
co-pilot
has been stabbing with an axe, [sighs]
the captain, the pilot.
But this third pilot who's standing
there became paralyzed from fear. So he
wasn't doing anything. He was just
standing there completely in shock
watching
the co-pilot trying to murder the pilot.
Now today we already know the story. Of
course at the time they didn't know the
story and that is Captain Smith
Macher is a 38-year-old Indian pilot a
hero of a man was flying his plane. his
co-pilot, Tayas Mishna, as they call it
in Hebrew, is a man named Hamam Al Hami,
an Omani national. And he asked the
captain permission to pray. He wants to
pray. So this was not unusual in a
flight from Dubai. So he says, "Sure,
you could pray." So he stands behind the
captain and he's praying.
The 38-year-old Indian pilot Smith
Macher says out of respect for his
religion, he didn't turn around. He just
steered straight not to interfere in his
prayer. So he wasn't noticing what's
happening behind him. But suddenly he
feels a huge bang on his head. So he
thought something happened in the plane,
some pressure, some change of something.
So he was just wanting to figure out
what's going on with the actual plane.
But then another one and a third one.
There is uh there is an emergency axe
that exists in every kak pilot in case
they have to break open a window. These
are serious serious instruments of harm.
And with this axe he was hitting him on
his neck, on his back, on his head,
literally trying to murder him.
When they investigated him, now they
investigated the murderer. He revealed
what his plan was. His plan was inside
the cockpit to kill the pilot. Nobody
would know about it. A few bangs on his
head, he should be dead before he had a
chance to scream because he would
already lose consciousness. He would
then take over his seat. Nobody would
know anything. Everything would be
peaceful and tranquil. He would arrive
to Bengurian airport in Tel a Viv. He
would get the clearance for landing. But
instead of landing on the runway, he
would crash in to the airport itself.
Now you have to understand what this
means. This is the fifth day of sukus
you test October 30th peak peak travel
season for the holy land peak. And this
is morning hours. It's not the middle of
the night. You're talking about
approximately 11 o'clock in the morning.
They may be in the airport then, not
hundreds, but thousands of people.
So you're talking about a massacre
far worse perhaps than October 7th,
which happened just 3 years ago. This
was his plan all worked out. The guy is
dead. Nobody imagines. Nobody has to
prepare. The Israeli Air Force can't
prepare for it. He's just landing. He
just takes a little turn and lands
somewhere else. This was the plan
because Nina Mains, the 5-year-old, had
to go to the bathroom. The plan got
ruined. Her mommy heard the screaming.
Her mommy heard the fight. Now, here is
where the pilot's extraordinary heroism
comes in because as he realizes that
this man is trying to kill him, he opens
the door of the cockpit. He knows that
without that, there's no chance that
anybody could come in and nobody could
save him.
But the terrorist realized that. So he
locks the door of the cockpit. There's
no way you can open it from the other
side. And he continues to try to kill
him. As this pilot is losing blood, is
about to collapse and lose
consciousness.
He knows the only chance is if he opens
the door again. And literally with his
last iota of energy, he opens the door
again. So that when the pilot came, the
third pilot came, the door was open, but
he was paralyzed. And that's when she
was screaming. Mrs. Mains was screaming,
"He's trying to kill him. He's trying to
kill him." And that's when four Jews,
three, that's when four four Jews, four
Israelis heard this and they came
rushing into the cockpit.
The first one is a man named Yaniv Kun,
a plumber by profession.
He was sitting in the 11th row.
Now, he's a plumber. He's not a pilot.
He's not a general. He's not a
commander. He's not a soldier. But he's
another miracle. What did he do as a
hobby? You know, people have hobbies.
What did this guy do as a hobby? He
liked watching programs about airplane
accidents.
What's the sh to plumbing? I don't know.
And I wouldn't be surprised if he heard
more than once from his wife, you have
nothing better to do with your life. Go
figure out how to be a better plumber
and make another couple of dollars.
You're becoming a pilot. But this is
what he liked doing. He liked watching
programs about plane accidents. He's the
one who ran into the cockpit first after
hearing Mrs. Main screaming that the
co-pilot is trying to kill the pilot.
And of course, there was a pilot
standing there paralyzed. He had to push
through him and go in. And then you had
Assaf Rajuan, another Jewish Israeli who
was sitting in the seventh row and
happened to be saved last year from an
Iranian missile that literally hit his
building in the Holy Land.
the mother of the five-year-old who had
to go to the bathroom who was sitting in
the first row and finally a dentist a
Jewish Israeli dentist suta Masay who
was in the 13th row
as Yaniv Khun the first one ran into the
cockpit he already saw that the shift
happened as the co-pilot realized the
door is open and people are charging So
he decided to push down the lever so
that the plane should go straight down.
What's called a nose dive where the
plane is literally going straight down.
And in less than 35 seconds it fell
approximately 17,000 ft. So people are
on a plane, 27 children, 182 people
screaming. Everybody can imagine 17,000
ft in less than 35 seconds. and he's
trying to destroy all the instruments on
the airplane so that there's no way to
recover this plane and whatever happens
it's going to crash. He admitted that he
had a second plan. And if Benorian
airport in Tel Aviv wouldn't work, he
would crash into an American army base
in Jordan, one of the big army bases
with a lot of F-16s, which may have also
killed thousands of people and ignited
another war at least minimum just to
crash it to kill all the Jews on the
plane. When Yaniv Kun runs into the
cockpit, this is what he's doing when
the plane is going down. So, he's going
down 17,000 feet and he has to hold
himself up and he runs in and he puts
the terrorist into a uh
>> a choke. Yeah. A choke. He chokes him
and pushes him out. Pulls him out.
Literally pulls him out. Tells the other
three guys to tie him down. And they use
earbuds literally to tie him down. Now
he because he watches all these
programs, he knows what to do. This This
is it. This is it. Right. And he
literally sits down and he pushes up the
lever to balance out the plane and it
gets it gets balanced. Now there's
another two pilots that are traveling on
the airplane. One has been paralyzed by
fear. The other one is sitting there and
they are the ones who now take over the
plane and they land it a few minutes
later. Emergency landing in Saudi Arabia
because that's where they were. They
were they were flying over Saudi Arabia.
The dentist Sat Musay is the only doctor
on the plane. He in the meantime saves
the pilot's life because he is about to
go unconscious. He's lost tremendous
amounts of blood. He said if they
wouldn't land right away, they would not
be able to save him. And he literally
saves his life. He's now recovering
in Dubai and I think making a nice
recovery. I heard an interview that he
did.
If you think about the story, they
landed in Saudi Arabia. A few hours
later, they took a flight to Israel,
another flight, and they all landed late
that day, last Wednesday, 19th of Tish,
the fifth day of Sukus in the Holy Land
in Bengurian airport in Tel Aviv. At
least Assar is 10 gigantic miracles
happen. First one is when a plane dives
to such in such a radical descent.
Nobody was wounded. You had people
standing in the aisles, people waiting
for bathrooms, people talking to each
other. They didn't have anything to hold
on. With such a drop, nobody was
seriously wounded. That's number one.
Number two, a plane that falls around
17,000 ft in less than 35 seconds.
Usually I was right seeing experts what
they wrote can just literally split into
pieces.
It can't survive yet it remained whole
to the point that they could continue
flying it and landing it even though it
was damaged. Miracle number three. The
Indian pilot Smith who was stabbed again
and again and again bleeding to death
the last moment succeeds in opening the
door of the cockpit and the terrorist
doesn't lock it. The first time he does
lock it the second time he doesn't lock
it. A moment of such courage and such
clarity because he literally his life
was hanging literally on a here and he
had that clarity and vision to
understand he must open the cockpit and
he had to lift up his hand. He was
already collapsing on the floor. Lift up
his hand and get it right and open it
and that literally saved the day. Number
four, in the middle of such a drastic
dive as the pilot fell down on the
ground, he was blocking the door cuz he
fell there. And they managed to push
open the door, get in and overwhelm a
strong, powerful murderous terrorist
with an axe, violent, suicide, suicidal,
completely with one agenda to murder and
murder and murder and literally choke
him and get him out of there.
Number five, they stopped this guy few
seconds before he managed to destroy all
the instruments on the plane which will
allow it to land. They say if it would
have been another 5 seconds, 10 seconds,
20 seconds, 30 seconds, it would be
impossible
to recover this airplane. Even after
such a dive, it would be impossible to
do anything. It's just too much,
especially after destroying all the
instruments. So, you're dealing
literally with seconds that he came in
and caught him. It would have been
another 10, 20 seconds. Unfortunately,
it all would have been over. Number six,
Yaniv Killun, a plumber by profession,
knew what to do because of a program he
saw and he internalized it and he
literally knew what to do. Number seven,
the plane survives
this dive.
Usually when a plane dives so deeply,
such power is released and generated,
it will again destroy the plane. It held
on. Number eight, there were two capable
pilots that happened to be traveling on
the airplane and they were in uniform so
that they can easily be recognizable. If
he didn't have those pilots there, he
may have balanced back the plane, but
there was nobody to land it, especially
that the airplane was seriously damaged.
It was intact but it it could fly but it
was damaged. These were two capable
pilots who landed it in Saudi Arabia.
Number nine, the plane landed. The
bottom line is the levers were damaged.
There were leaks. There was one of the
wings was broken. The tail was broken
but it landed. And number 10, there was
a dentist, a Jewish dentist on the plane
who saved the life of the pilot, who
saved the day, saved the situation. Each
one of these miracles was critical. It's
not just each one is nice. If you take
away one of them, if the door remains
locked,
if the plane, God forbid, disintegrates,
if Yaniv is paralyzed from fear and
frozen, if he doesn't know what to do,
if there's no other pilots,
nothing would have worked. Literally,
nothing would have worked. Each one of
these 10 miracles an indispensable
essential vital part of saving the day.
On this we could say
literally
182 Jewish souls each one a complete
world. But the truth is it's not just
182 that's enough. you're talking about
perhaps hundreds or thousands [snorts]
of more people as he was planning to
crash into the Bengorian airport and he
said if that wouldn't work he wanted to
crash into a tower in Tiv I think
there's Israeli tower one of the huge
towers there also with hundreds of
thousands of people and when on one of
the busiest days of the year this would
have been the Jewish September 11th
ramanitlan 25 years after the first
September 11th which many of us remember
very vividly September 11th 2001
25 years later a few days before
October 7th the 3rd anniversary and
happens to be the flight number is 1073
which is October 7th 3rd anniversary
this year and
I saw a speech that the prime minister
Netanyahu gave in a suka the next day
and he said this story is say dishaya
and sayata Bishma sayata means the help
from heaven. So he said this was the
help from heaven in heaven. Sayata
dishaya bishmaya because 34,000 ft above
the ground
everybody is helpless and vulnerable. So
this was not only say it was bishmaya
and I was thinking every day of sukus
for eight days including and here we did
it a nth day including last Wednesday
the fifth day of sukus we said hal in
halal there's a verse and I put it into
the source I wanted you should see it
exactly in the four first source
psalms 117 it's the shortest
halleluim
Hallelujah. What does that mean
literally? So you see you see it in the
English translation. Praise Hashem who
all the nations
extol him who
all the peoples all the nationalities.
Why?
Listen to the words.
because he overwhelmed us with love,
with kindness.
You see something strange here? You're
saying the nations should praise him
because he was kind to us. So we should
praise him [laughter]
or it should have said
why should they praise him for what
happened to us? There's something very
strange about this. And on this there's
a fantastic story
of
known as of he was the rabbi of the city
of in Lithuania Bellarus. He was also
the rashiva of his father was the great
student of the veneot. They know they
call him.
So they say that there was once a
Russian uh official a Russian officer
who asked him this question. He was an
educated fellow and he said this doesn't
make sense. Why should the nations
praise God? Because he was so kind to
the Jewish people.
So
said to him as follows. He said because
you guys know something that we don't
know.
Says what are you talking about?
Says we don't know what you talk about
[snorts] in your closed rooms. We don't
know what you plan behind the scenes. We
don't even know what you guys have up
your sleeve. All we could see is the tip
of the iceberg. You know the iceberg. We
see what you actually execute and
sometimes tragically it works. And
sometimes, thank God, it doesn't work.
What we don't see is all the things that
you plan and you scheme and you imagine
and it never even gets to execution. So
we didn't even know about it. But you
guys do know. So therefore,
you know much better than the Jewish
people
what God does for us. WE DON'T EVEN
KNOW. WE DON'T EVEN BEGIN TO KNOW WHAT'S
HAPPENING. We hear the few stories that
make it to the next level. How many
stories don't we hear because they
remain in somebody's brain or dream or
mind? Here's an example. HERE IS
SOMETHING THAT ALMOST HAPPENED. It
almost happened. We got a glimpse into
what almost looks like.
We saw what almost looks like. But this
is what almost happened. It didn't
happen.
SO
THEY KNOW MUCH BETTER THAN ANYBODY ELSE.
Now all of this happened onus
the time of our joy. What a sim it
generated among Jews in the holy land
and Jews all over the world. What a
tremendous tremendous sim and sense of
gratitude of au of
there's also something very very
powerful that should be emphasized here.
I heard this in a class from Rabbi Zamir
and he said you know throughout the
seven throughout the days of sukus every
morning Jews all over the world shake
the lulv. We take the lulv and the
errich, the hadas and the rava, the palm
branch and the citrus, the willow and
the myrtle branch and we wave it. And if
somebody's not familiar with what's
happening, it seems very strange. Let's
face it. You take these four species and
you wave it to Durham and Suffen and Mis
and Mila and Mata and Miff to the south
and to the north and to the east and up
down and west and you know you're
looking at it and you're going like this
like this like this like this and it's
very hard. It's very strange and the gar
asks and why are we doing this? Like
what are you doing? And the garra says
that we're waving it
to all of the directions because really
what we're doing is
we're waving it to the presence of
Hashem who is equally present in all
directions
right left front center all directions.
And as the garra says
to neutralize or to prevent harmful
winds, harmful do in other words,
harmful forces that come from all
directions.
At the surface, it seems very enigmatic
and strange. And I just want to give a
metaphor that he gave. Imagine
somebody's going into a jungle and they
tell him, "This is not a good idea.
There are lions and tigers and leopards
and hyenas and beers. It's really not a
good idea. I want to go." Okay, at least
take what's called a laser beam. And
you'll take a laser beam and you see a
line coming point the laser to him and
he'll run away because of the radiation.
Now, somebody who lived 200 years ago,
even 150 years ago, even less, is going
to look at what you're doing and saying,
"You're you're going into literally
you're going into a lion's den. You're
not going to come out alive. You're
going to be mold." Lions are not afraid
of sticks. They're not going to run
away. The person doesn't have any idea
or inkling what radiation is. So you
can't expect them to understand it. He
doesn't know that there are forces in
the world that are real even though
they're not visible to the physical
naked eye, but they're still very very
real. He simply doesn't have an
understanding of it. He doesn't have an
appreciation of it. He comes from a
different millu.
We shake aul and estriad
and we see only somebody waving it in
all directions. But imagine what could
one can see the spiritual radiation so
to speak that it generates. Who knows
what somebody would be able to see. Now,
here is a fact that this year
more Jews shook Lulan than probably in
the last 80 years because there's such a
there's such an arousal in Israel that
even very very secular Jews today in
hundreds of thousands maybe millions
shook this year and Estri around the
whole world but especially in the Holy
Land I would assume and I think it's not
I think it's accurate than in the last
70 or 80 years.
Now, of course, these are things that I
I don't know if anybody could speculate
about this, but the fact is, who knows
that for a week as Jews were waving the
Lullivan Esser
in the hundreds of thousands and
millions, as that plane was going down,
taking its nose dive straight into the
ground, who knows if a whole week of the
Jewish people shaking the Lulivan Estri
in all directions, we did not become
partners with Hashem in helping that
plane come back up and in saving so many
so many souls.
You know, every day we finish the
shinness
every day
that everybody should know that Hashem
is God and there's nothing else. There's
nobody else. We say in every day
sometimes we don't realize the depth of
these words
not only on the earth but also
34,000 ft above is and every day at the
end of shaking we sayim
in fact I saw somebody sent me that one
of the survivors of the airplane. He's a
secular Jew. But he said he had to go to
shul ones
in Israel. It's the same day the shabas
in order to give gratitude.
And they came to the vo
this is the para that we read on. That's
when we read we finished the whole by us
we did it on Sunday and I just saw they
do it on Shabas
together and it came to this p he
literally started to dance and everybody
understood why. If you take a look at
the PK, you know, we read the PK every
year, but for him, he wasn't reading a
verse. He was experiencing a visceral
reality. I put it into the second source
on the top of your page.
The second paragraph, this is words at
the end of his life.
Mosha says, "Oh, yes." Is a term for the
Jewish people. There is nobody like
Hashem riding through the heavens to
help you.
Riding through the heavens to help you.
Riding through the skies in heavenly
majesty. SO IT'S LIKE AN EXPRESSION.
IT'S A beautiful expression is basically
saying I can ride a car. Maybe some of
you can ride a horse. Maybe a donkey. I
don't know how to ride the heavens.
But he said when he heard this, this is
literally what he experienced
up there in the heavens, vulnerable,
helpless, there's nowhere to run. When
people are in an airplane, it's a whole
different reality. You've realized the
vulnerability and right there literally
riding the heavens to help you almost
like an invisible plane riding near this
plane.
Gavasa means royal majesty like
greatness from the word ga. Soim
again heim is also a term for heavensim
are the heavens riding through the
heavens with majesty literally saving
the people.
I should mention an 11th miracle and
that is Israel already planned to shoot
down the plane because when they got an
emergency there's the emergency code
that was pressed and they got the
emergency and the cockpit wasn't
responding in the beginning till the
pilots took over. So they already
prepared the air force because knowing
this plane is coming to Israel and
there's nobody responding they already
suspected a hijacking and on September
11th they were preparing to shoot down
the airplane. At the end, of course, it
landed in Saudi Arabia. Saudi Arabia
wanted to shoot down the airplane. But
of course, at the end, Barakashem,
everything worked out. And there's
something else. This just popped into my
head and I'm going to share it. For
those who dash,
there's different versions of Davening.
You know, there's there's Ashkanaz,
there's ton, there's
whatever it is. In the shinness, most of
them are the same. But an Ashkanaz is a
special text that they say on sukus the
second day or sometimes another day
depends on the calendar and always
and that is
you have it your third source
which means please help us for 3 hours
please help us. This was written a very
long time ago and I want to tell you you
could look it up for hundreds of years
nobody knows what is this supposed to
mean usually the hish are referring to
some incident to some experience you
could figure out what it is if you look
through the whole you read through the
whole there's no story about three hours
if there was some story that happened
three hours you could say okay help us
for those three hours so over hundreds
of years this has been a speculation
that this has been something that was
debated by commentators of your by
commentators in pre previous
generations. The vilon writes something
about this
says that at the end of history there's
going to be something with three hours.
There's a lot of different
interpretations because it's very very
enigmatic.
So uh
something popped into my head and that
is the flight from Dubai to Tel Aiv is
three hours literally. So who knows if
is also a prophetic intimation of help
us for these three hours. And you know
what it happened. He helped the hishina
was fulfilled hundreds of thousands or
millions of Jews ashkazuk said
and it actually happened.
But now I want to get to what may have
been the greatest miracle in addition to
the 11 miracles we spoke about. Miracle
number 12 may be the greatest and that
is
the fact is that in a moment of crisis
and a moment of crazy fear people
freeze. That's how it is. The pilot
himself the third pilot himself who was
trained as a pilot and happened to be a
very good pilot as obvious what he did
with that plane. But when he saw the
blood and he saw something unbelievable,
the last thing you'd think you open the
cockpit and one guy is about to murder
the other one when they're supposed to
be friends and working together. He
himself was frozen. He didn't know what
to do. And it was the woman, Mrs. Mains,
who had to scream. And it was the
Israelis who who stormed the cockpit
because in a moment of such uh
overwhelming
anxiety and fear where according to
natural circumstances you may die within
5 seconds, 10 seconds, a half a minute,
maybe a minute. The system simply shuts
down. One can't think. The danger is so
powerful. It's so overwhelming.
Especially as that was happening. It's
not just the plane is about to fall
down. It was going down and less than 35
seconds it has fallen around 17,000 ft.
You can't breathe. The body literally
freezes.
And yet this plumber Yaniv Kun held
himself and together with his three
friends stormed the cockpit and under
these conditions choked the terrorist,
slept him out, knew what to do and saved
the day. So I saw an interview that the
prime minister BB Netanyao had with him
and he asked him where how did how did
you do it? Where did you get this? How
did you do it? So he looked at him and
he said in Hebrew,
which means we are a nation of lions,
aren't we? Because Bum said about the
Jewish people
and it says in every day you should wake
up like a lion.
Yeah, he's right. A nation of lions. And
he got that and he embodied it. But I
want to take his words and develop them
a little further and apply them to each
of us.
Because here we really come into contact
with one of the most incredible themes
of paras and the whole safer batius
which can easily be looked over because
this is one of its subplots. If somebody
would ask you is there one theme that
penetrates or pervades the entire book
that we now begin berious all the way
from the beginning till the end and
you'll say well it's the story of the
beginning berious means the beginning.
So we have Adam and we have Kava. We
have the generations all the way to
Noyak and then all the way to Arau and
then Ara's family all the way down to
Yakov and his family. And that's
basically the chronology of Bes. So
that's in terms of chronology. What
about in terms of theme? In terms of
theme, it doesn't look like the theme is
connected. Every para has so many
different stories. You have the story of
the tree and the story of Cayenne. story
of the flood and the story of Nayak
getting drunk and the story of Abraov's
travels and so many different stories.
Each story is a separate story.
But as Rabbi Jonathan Saxs All of Aalam,
the former British chief rabbi pointed
out in an essay, if you look a little
closely, you see that there is one theme
that pervades all of the portions almost
I say almost all of the portions and
that is sibling rivalry.
Sibling rivalry starts in the beginning
and it doesn't stop. It's just different
brothers.
It's different brothers, but there's
always a very very
painful and contentious experience in
every family. It starts off in birious
with the first family which is Adam and
Kava. They have two children, Cayenne
and He. And you would think with enough
real estate to go around with enough
territory to go around, they should be
in peace. One of them could live in New
Zealand, the other one can live in
Lakewood if they want, even in Tom's
River. There's nobody else there. They
can even go to Antarctica or the
Riviera, southern France, and there's
enough space for everybody. And yet
somehow they managed to get into a fight
[laughter]
because fights don't have to do with
that very often. And in medish the
doesn't say exactly what they were
fighting about but the medish rabb says
three different experiences three
different reasons. One reason is they
were fighting over literally who owns
the world and kav are going to die. Who
takes over? So you would think there's
enough split 50/50. What happened was
they split it in terms of metalin and
karka. One would get the real estate and
one would get everything movable.
So, He is standing on the ground.
Cayenne says, "The earth is mine." He
says, "You're wearing clothes. The
clothes is mine." So, they get into this
fight and Cayenne kills He. Another
opinion is they were fighting where the
basika should be. Cen said in my
territory, He said in mine. So, he
killed him. And the third interpretation
which is also brought in Rashi is that
Cayenne and He were both born with a
twin sister.
But He had two twin sisters. Cayenne
married his twin. He married his and
there was another girl and Cayenne said,
"I'm the oldest. I get her." He said,
"No, she's my twin. I get her." So he
killed her. Three explanations in the
medish why Cayenne killed He. Why it's
so fascinating is because if you look at
every war in history since it's going to
be one of these three things. It's going
to be a question of territory, a
question of religion, or a question of
love. That's going to be the war. Either
it's going to be where's the bik? In
other words, who owns God? Does God live
in my place or does he live in your
place? Time to kill each other.
That's fighting over God. All religious
wars, all spiritual wars, or at least
they call themselves spiritual wars.
That's about the B mikdash. Then there
is territory. And then there is of
course everything connected to
relationships and love and all the
intricacies over there. So the bottom
line is that Cayenne ends up murdering
his own brother. The first two brothers
in history. Not only they can't get
along, but one of them dies. That's the
first set of brothers. If you go to the
next para, there's another story with
brothers. Noyak has three sons, Shame,
and Yafus.
And at the end of his life, Noyak curses
and he blesses Shame and Yafas. You
think, okay, we had enough. You go to
the next one and you have and
don't get along either. And at the end,
Sarah tells Abrain, "Send away." Hashem
says listen to her and your is expelled.
Okay, maybe we're done. No, you go to to
we have Jacob and Asov. Here we go
again. [laughter]
And you suddenly see that this is not a
coincidence. If in every single portion
or almost every portion, it's coming up
again and again and again. This must be
a tremendous theme in Berius. And Yakov
and Asov ultimately Yakov buys his
birthright. He takes his blessings. Asov
wants to kill him. Yakov runs away.
You think we're done? No. Now have Ysef
and his brothers, they want to kill him
and ultimately throw him into a pit.
They sell him into slavery. And the para
ends with Ysef's death at the 110 in
Mitzim
in Safer.
We also have two brothers, Mosha and
Aaron. But here's the fascinating thing
which is important to realize. The story
begins identically in every situation,
but in every situation it ends
differently. And this is where you see
progress. The first fight between
brothers ends in murder, fratricside.
Cayenne kills he. The second one ends in
being cursed. The third one Yeshal is
expelled from the home. But there's an
interesting caveat and that is the Tyra
says in that when passed away,
They were both at the funeral. So
somehow
comes back. Not only that, Rash says he
puts before him in the funeral even
though was 13 years older.
That means respected at the time and he
realized was the and he let him be in
front of him at the funeral because
that's what the Torah says. So you see I
Yesh was expelled but he still comes
back for Ara's funeral and he meets over
there and even respects Yakov and Asov.
Asov wants to kill him, but Yakov runs
away. But after 22 years, Yakov and Asov
will meet. They will hug. They will
embrace each other. They will cry on
each other's necks and parishes, but
then they will part ways.
They will part ways.
They will live in different locations
even though they would also meet at
Yuk's funeral, but they would live
separately. Ysef and his brothers also
starts off. They might kill him. They
sell them into slavery. But after 22
years, they come together.
Ysef feeds them. He protects them. He
gives them a place to live. And at the
end of Berius, the brothers are living
together with their father Yak in
coexistence and in peace and respect.
What the is really intimating is that
humanity begins with one brother killing
another brother. But it doesn't have to
end that way. it can have a different
ending even if it has that beginning and
only that can be the introduction for
the formation of the Jewish people in
the next book. In other words, as long
as we cannot learn this art, we cannot
really become a people. Because if one
brother could sell another brother, this
people will never survive. So it was
only after Ysef's
unique contribution to how this story
ends can begin with a nation being
formed with difficult difficult
circumstances in exile and yet coming
out to liberation.
That's why it says when Mosher Rabenu
went out the second day and he saw two
Jews fighting with each other and then
they informed on him to par about what
he did. He killed the Egyptian
says
that now I know why they're in exile
and I'm afraid they won't be able to be
redeemed. Why is this so serious? And
the answer is because if you want to be
a nation, you have to be able to be here
for each other. And if one is informing
on the other, it's not just a sin. It
destroys a nation. It destroys a nation.
You know, when a family has no trust,
there's no trust. I can't trust you. It
destroys the very fabric of family. And
it's a very devastating reality. So Ysef
is the one who creates the paradigm for
a shift. And what happens with Mosa and
Aaron? They worked together already.
Ysef never worked with his brothers. He
remained the prime minister of Egypt. He
took care of them, but he didn't work
with them. He remained in the palace.
Mosa and Aaron already are working
together. They're both sent by Hashem to
liberate the Jewish people. And for 40
years, they work in unison. Not only
that, when Hashem tells Mosha, I want
you to be the leader. Mosha doesn't want
to because he has an older brother and
Hashem says, "Don't worry. When Aaron
sees you,
he's going to be happy in his heart."
And he uses the word because very often
an older brother can pay lip service and
say, "Sure, I'm very proud of my, you
know, baby sister, my baby." But deep
down
fire that low life. [laughter]
Oh, you won $300 million in the lottery.
That's so nice. But why you why you
right? But these are things that you
don't tell anybody because you want to
be a gentleman or a GENTLE WOMAN.
ACTUALLY, Aaron is going to be happy in
his heart. Oh, that's already a whole
other experience. So, we see that it
begins, it goes through these
relationships because relationships in
family are the hardest relationships.
Let's face it, with strangers, it's
easy. I see a person once a day, once a
week, once a month. It's in the pro
maybe a framework of work. But with
family, they they get into your uh
kishkas, as they say in Yiddish. I don't
know if it works in English, intestines,
but whatever. They get somewhere. They
get somewhere. Yeah. It's why Hashem
created the institution of marriage.
There's nothing that challenges people
to grow like marriage, right? That's why
a culture that disassociates from
marriage because it's much easier
doesn't understand that it's an
essential to the plan of humanity.
Because if people work on themselves,
the levels of humility and vulnerability
and ego challenge and growth that
happens through living with another
person constantly 24/7. This is what
propels the deepest emotional and
spiritual growth. Although it comes with
a lot of challenges and sometimes with
very very difficult challenges. So the
family relationship is the relationship
where everything gets tested. That's
becomes a symbol of humanity. Can
humanity ultimately get along? And it's
not easy. It's not simple. Siblings are
different. Parents have their ways of
doing things. Children, it's a
complicated reality. And the Tory is
saying, "We know about this complicated
reality to the POINT THAT IT IT STARTS
WITH MURDER.
So don't think you're so bad. [laughter]
STARTS WITH MURDER, CURSING, EXPULSION,
RUNNING AWAY, SEPARATION. But it doesn't
have to end that way. Of course, it
takes deep deep work of Ysef and his
brothers who have to be very very
introspective. It's not simple. It's not
a simple process until you can reach
Mosha and Aaron where it's a completely
different level. But now as we look at
this, let's see something specific
in what happens, what makes that
difference. So you could say it's inner
work, it's faith, it's spiritual work.
It's all true. But there's one
particular thing that the Torah mentions
and that's what I want to focus on here
and I'm going to ask you to please take
a look
and that is
there are two major stories in paras and
they all have a very common theme. One
is Adam and Kava are created and soon
afterwards they're placed in the garden
and they eat from the tree that they
weren't supposed to eat from. Major
story number two is their children
Cayenne and Hevil get into a fight and
Cayenne murders Hevil.
Hashem confronts them both and their
responses are fascinating. So if you'll
take a look, this is the second box of
the sources. You have it in the Hebrew,
you have it in the English.
That's Genesis 38.
Ate from the tree.
They hear the voice of Hashem. He's
strolling in the garden and they hide
from Hashem and Hashem calls out to Adam
and he says, "Where are you?"
Hashem says
Adam says to Hashem, "I heard your voice
in the garden and I was afraid cuz I'm
not dressed. I was naked, so I hid." So,
Hashem says to him,
"Who told you that you weren't wearing
clothes?" Ah, did you eat from the tree
that I told you not to eat?
What does he answer?
So Adam answers
the woman you put here with me. She is
the one who gave me some fruit from the
tree and I ate it.
Shem goes to the woman says, "What did
you do?" Says,
"The serpent deceived me." What do we
see right here?
passes the blame to his wife. What else
is new, right? Well, you think I make
dinner?
What do you think? But you ordered this
from a restaurant. No, she ordered it.
So, the bottom line is he passes the
responsibility to his wife and then she
passes it to the serpent.
They each failed to take responsibility.
He blames her and she blames the snake.
Then you have the next story,
the next chapter of Berius.
They're in the field. Cen attacks his
brother He and he kills him.
Hashem tells Cen, "Where's your brother?
I don't know.
Am I my brother's keeper?
I'm the bodyguard of my brother. I'm his
sh I'm his protector. I don't know where
he is."
Hashem says, "So, what did you do?
What have you done? Your brother's blood
cries out to me from the earth. [snorts]
And failed to take personal
responsibility. Cayenne fails to take
moral responsibility.
I'm responsible for my brother Hashem.
I'm not responsible for him. He doesn't
even deny what he did. But he says it's
fine. If I have the power, I can do it.
And Hashem says his blood is crying out
from the earth. So here you have two
stories of besas, two huge stories and
they both have a very very common theme
and that is everybody says don't look at
me look at somebody else. Adam says it's
Kava's fault. Kava says it's a snake.
Cen says it's not my job to protect my
brother.
That's the first set of brothers. Now I
want to go to the last set of brothers
in Berius which is Ysef and his
brothers. You have almost the same
exchange. It's fascinating
but the words now change. If you take a
look at the next one
tells Ysef go see how your brothers are
doing, how the flocks are fearing. Bring
me back word goes to
Ysef now goes from the valley of his
brother, his father sent him to seek the
welfare of his brothers. But you know
what? He gets lost. So a person asks
him, a person finds him and says two
words, what are you looking for?
And responds,
I'm looking for my brothers.
Could
you tell me where they are pasturing?
[snorts]
Look at the difference of the words
said,
"Am I responsible for my brother? Am I
the guardian of my brother? Am I my
brother's keeper?
I got my own sorus. I got a mortgage to
pay, too. I got to WORRY ABOUT TOO. I
GOT my mental health crisis, too. I got
to cover the month, too.
It happens to be you KILLED YOUR
BROTHER, BUT OKAY.
WHAT DO YOU want from me? I got to take
care of my life.
Changes the wording. He says,
"I'm searching for my brothers. I'm
looking for my brothers." Now, Ysef knew
that they didn't get along. The Tyra
clearly says they despised him. They
mocked him. They hated him.
This is all before. But Ysef says
there's a voice in me that says I'm
still looking for my brothers. Not just
geographically, emotionally, I'm looking
for my brothers. He doesn't say I
decided to make a life for myself. So
when my father sent me to go check OUT
MY BROTHERS, I took the mission. I
didn't say Tata, you know, we really
drifted ways. They got their world. I
got my world. Let me go my way. Let them
go their way. It's fine. and live and
let live. WHY? WHY ARE YOU GOING? AND
THE answer is
I'm searching for my brothers. The first
brother Cayenne says, I'm not my
brother's keeper. The last set of
brothers says I'm searching for my
brothers. Now go
the at the bottom their last source.
Mosha grew up in a palace among
Egyptians. Bati the daughter of Pharaoh
has adopted him. He is her son for all
practical purposes. Par is his
stepgrandfather. In Yiddish she would
call it his stiff zeta. Although I don't
know if par defined himself that way as
the zeta of Mosha. Mosha grows up. He
goes out to his brothers.
He sees their suffering.
And he sees an Egyptian beating a Hebrew
man, one of his brothers. Now, before
you go further, whenever you read such a
verse, you should notice that the word
brother here says twice. Says,
and then again,
you say, "What's the big deal?" Well,
it's a very big deal because he didn't
have to do that. It could have said he
grew up and he went out to the ifraim or
he went out to his brothers and then say
he saw an Egyptian beating a Hebrew. We
know already that it's his brother. We
know who Mosha was. But in the same
verse, the says twice his brother. What
happens next?
He turns here. He turns there. He sees
there's no man there.
He strikes down the Egyptian and he
hides him in the sand. So as he sees the
Egyptian man beating a Jew, one of his
brothers, he turns here and there.
There's nobody there. So he kills the
Egyptian and he saves the Jew. As all
the Mafarim ask a question, there was
somebody there. How do we know? Because
first of all, it was an open area. There
must have been people there. Number two,
the next day somebody tells him what he
did and they even informed on him. So
there was obviously people there and
probably not one person, probably many
people. So what does it mean by there
was somebody there this is the big
question that all the ask it was the
who says something fascinating and says
it does not mean physically
doesn't mean there was no person there
it means as we say in English there was
no man there there was no man there was
nobody with a spine there there was no
figure to take leadership to take
responsibility because the definition
what is leadership leadership means one
thing and that is I take respons
responsibility for a situation. I don't
say somebody else is responsible. I'm
going to lament. I'm going to cry. I'm
going to go home. I'm going to talk
about it. I'm going to make a meeting.
I'm going to blame somebody else. I'm
going to fetch. Those are all human
responses. But that's not leadership.
Leadership always means one thing. Am I
going to be like everybody else who are
not ready to stand up or will I do it
differently?
Mosha saw there was nobody with a spine.
There was nobody to stand up and say
this is not tolerable. This does not
make sense. This is ludicrous. This is
unjust. This is immoral. This is a
catastrophe.
And therefore now he could do one of two
things. He could say, "Nobody cares
enough or nobody has the courage or
everybody is afraid. Why should I be any
different? In fact, I have much more to
lose. I'm Py's grandson. I'm his ear in
the palace. I have a great future. I
have a lot to lose. And he has he loses
everything. He has to run away. He
doesn't know what the end of the story
is going to be. As far as Mosha was
concerned, what he did at that moment
jeopardized his entire future. Pirate
tried to kill him. His own grandfather.
He had to run away. He went to Midyan.
He became a fugitive. Of course, he
doesn't know that this story is the one
that brings him back and ultimately
makes him the leader who sets the Jewish
people free. But as far as he is
concerned, he has everything to lose.
But his instinct tells him nobody is
here to do anything and therefore he's
going to be that person or as we say in
which according to this means when you
see there is no men men in the sense of
people who are ready to take
responsibility so then don't say okay I
just follow the her
and that's exactly what Rabenu does and
of course this changes es all of
history.
So he decides he's going to be the ish.
But now bring it back
when he was lost. And the man says,
"What are you searching for?" He says,
"I'm searching for my brothers."
He goes out to his brothers and a second
time he sees an Egyptian beating his
brother. Now he has to make one
decision.
Do I belong to the tradition of Cayenne
or do I belong to the tradition of Ysef?
If I belong to the tradition of Cayenne,
I say
am I my brother's keeper? If I belong to
the tradition of I say
I search for my brothers
and we know what he does he follows not
he says I belong to's family.
So he stands up he kills the Egyptian
and he saves the Jew. And of course he
has to run away. Where does he run away
to? Midyan. And by the way where is
Midian? Saudi Arabia. That's where he
has to make his emergency landing
because he can't go to Egypt. He has to
go to Midya. No Midyan is in Saudi
Arabia. And he changes all of history.
You see this connection because when the
Jews leave Egypt in paral
the Torah mentions a detail that seems a
little strange that it focuses on it and
that is as everybody is leaving Egypt
you know hundreds of years in the
waiting finally men, women and children
are set free. Pyro was brought to his
knees at last. FREE AT LAST. FREE AT
LAST. The first pes of history. The Tory
mentions that Moshe did one last thing
before he left.
Ysef Emo. He went and he says, "We can't
go until I get the bones of Y." And the
Gmor says it wasn't simple. Ysef didn't
pass away a day ago. You're talking
about Ysef passed away before Mosha was
born.
The Jewish people were in Egypt for 210
years. The Isa passed away so many years
ago, dozens or hundreds of years ago and
he had to go find where's Mosa? So
they got Mosha's bones and the says he
took this with himself. He didn't give
it to anybody else. Now it's hard to
carry this. And the garra says in for 40
years Moshe carried the bones of
I know Ysef to made an oath. I want you
to take me out. So give it to somebody.
You have a lot of capable men. When
Mosha wasn't 20 years old, he was 80
years old at THE TIME AND HE'S raenu and
he literally had to shle this for 40
years. What's the meaning of it? But now
we get a little perspective. At the
moment of redemption, Mosha did not
forget what was the source of
inspiration and empowerment that
generated the entire redemption. That
was a
that's what gave Mosha the fortitude
when he went out to his brothers to say,
"I'm searching for my brothers." That's
why he runs away. That's why he's CHOSEN
BY HASHEM. GO BACK and set this people
free. The word
it's brought in and others the word
comes from the word
is a bone also means essence core the
atsm of somebody's decor
he took the essence of with him you know
the marrow the you know the marrow of
the suck the marrow out of life the
essence
took he adopted
the atmos the bones the core of Ysef's
soul. What was the core of Ysef?
He never gave up. And it wasn't easy for
Ysef because for 22 years there was so
much estrangement and pain. For 22 years
there was so much agony. There was so
much alienation. His father mourned him.
His brother sold him. He himself didn't
know if this can ever be recovered. But
he still held on to that feeling. As
How do we know? Because 22 years later,
he says, "Don't go into depression. You
wanted to sell me, but Hashem sent me."
And when Ysef meets them after 22 years,
the words he tells them is
I am your brother whom you sold to
Egypt. And says, "You think they didn't
know who Ysef their brother was? He
really, if you want to if you want to
add insult to injury, I get it. But Ysef
was trying to to calm them down. So why
does he have to say I'm Ysef your
brother? By the way, you low life sold
me to Egypt. We know he could have me.
Everybody knows who Ysef is. They
certainly did not forget guy named Ysef.
They saw what it did to the family. You
know what says? He says something
unbelievable.
I remained your brother even while you
sold me to Egypt.
I remained your brother even when you
sold me to Egypt. Ysef was not denying
his pain. Ysef was not being naive. Ysef
was not repressing. Ysef was not like,
"Oh, everything is beautiful and dandy
and I hate your guts." That's not what
he was doing. But Ysef, there's a big
difference between identifying the true
source of the pain and going to a
secondary layer which covers up the true
source of pain. When somebody can
identify the true source of the pain,
they're already in a much more powerful
position. The challenge is when I'm not
ready to acknowledge the true source of
my pain and I camouflage with other
things because I'm not ready to feel the
real pain. Y never stopped feeling the
real pain. That's
I want connection. I want attachment. I
don't want to be estranged. He felt it.
He knew it. He knew it's going to take a
long time. That's why he never sent his
father a letter because even if his
father would have gotten the letter and
they would have met prematurely as we
once did a class, it wouldn't have
healed the infections. Family would come
together for a party. Everybody would
smile. They would do pictures, put it on
WhatsApp, but the wounds would not heal.
Ysef needed Yehuda to go through a
transformation. Ruven to go through a
trans everybody had to go through a
transformation after they were all
transformed. Now he found his brothers,
but they had to first find themselves
before he could find them. and he knew
that. But he didn't camouflage his pain.
Very often when there's a difficulty in
a relationship because it's so painful,
we tell ourselves, "Oh, I don't need
this relationship. This relationship I
don't need. I don't need you. I don't
care about you." But then we find
ourselves angry, resentful, because
we're not honest about our pain. And
when a person is not honest about their
pain, they could never heal their pain.
They could never deal with their pain. Y
is always honest about his pain. He
doesn't cover it up.
Because he's honest about it, he can
identify and then come to a conclusion.
Is it salvageable or is it not
salvageable? Some relationships are not
salvageable. Sometimes there's nothing
to do. Sometimes I could try and try and
try. I could show up to the best of my
ability, but there's nobody home and I
have to be very very honest and
authentic about it and it's very very
painful. It's very painful because
sometimes a person can't see certain
things. Sometimes people are just shut
down. Sometimes people are just not
ready to confront anything and they have
to be able to know that.
But Ysef's heart remained open. He
didn't close his heart in the process.
He didn't become a he said even while
you were doing what you were doing I
remained your brother.
It was I think of one of the great
sadikim said for the to give such an
interpretation obviously he had to be
living in that space. How could somebody
give such an interpretation inh
your brother whom you sold TO SAYS EVEN
WHILE YOU sold me to be able to to give
such a commentary you have to be it you
know there's an expression in Jewish
philosophy
if I would know Hashem I would be Hashem
for some things to know it you have to
be it for the to give such an
interpretation he literally had to live
in that space it's a very very profound
space but what he's teaching everybody
is that Ysef's heart space remained
completely completely open. And there's
a part in each of us where the core of
the soul is not eclipsed and we can
always identify what we're really
searching for. What we're really
searching for. Sometimes people spend
their whole life making believe they're
searching for somebody else because
they're not ready to confront the true
the true pain. And just knowing that is
such a powerful thing. This is what I'm
experiencing. This is the pain that I'm
experiencing. I see the also it says
they were open about their feelings.
>> Yeah. They weren't says they weren't
Yeah.
[laughter]
>> Right. Yeah.
So, this is
hundreds of years later, Moshe didn't
forget this.
He knew that this is what was
responsible for everything that's
happening now. Ysef's courage, Yseph's
generosity of spirit, Ysef's
authenticity, Ysef's love, Ysef's
openness, Ysef's heart, being so
powerfully vulnerable and courageous. He
took Atmus Ysef because this is what
inspired him that day when HE WAS A
YOUNG MAN and he went out to the street
and he saw a Jew being beaten and he
could have said, "Am I my brother's
keeper? I'm actually not. I'm a half
Egyptian. My mother is Bati. I don't
even ow my life to the Jews. she saved
me. He could have done that. I'm not my
brother's keeper. But he knew what Ysef
did
that that was alive in Mosha. So at this
moment he went back to he took his
became the defining factor of a nation.
NOT SAYING
but saying
because deep down connection attachment
oneness is peace is at the core of a
person's soul and the pain of engaging
in that arangement and alienation when I
know I could do something and I don't do
it is extremely painful. Now here I'm
just going to say something in
parenthesis
okay because of the energy that I'm
feeling and that is there some people
here who have a lot of issues with
family and you're now going into
self-lame. I see you going in Allah some
of you into self-lame of how horrible
you are and you didn't do enough and
it's all your fault and you should be
like Ysef and even though they sold you
down to Egypt. So I just want to say
it's very very important in this process
to be able to respect the fact that
sometimes there are very difficult
situations and complex situations. Even
Ysef understood that if he goes too
early nothing is going to happen.
Everything is going to be fake. So it's
just very important to be able to
distinguish between the fact that I want
to open my heart. I want to be
authentic. I want to be real. I want to
do the courageous thing and the loving
thing. But I also have to acknowledge
the fact that sometimes another person
may not be ready for that level of a
relationship. And you know what? If
that's the case, I'll still be open. I'm
going to try. I'm not going to go into a
place of denial and repression and
alienation and suppression and cover it
up with anger and blame because that's
not who I really am. But we just have to
acknowledge the fact that water comes
under the bridge and there may be
situations I can change and there may be
situations I cannot change. The only
person ultimately I could change in my
life is me. And when we open up and we
radiate our light, it usually creates
tremendous blessing and healing. But
ultimately somebody else got to also
move their pieces in the chess game. I
just wanted to emphasize that because I
see in people's brains the self-lame is
very very powerful. So here is where
Rabenu takes the atsma.
So here we have the whole batious has a
theme sibling rivalry how it begins and
how it ends. IT BEGINS WITH
it begins with Adam saying, "My wife, MY
WIFE, MY WIFE, SHE'S TO." And by the
way, the story is still happening,
right? Ask Ask ask her husband, "Why did
you eat this? You think I made the food?
My wife put it on my plate. [laughter]
I EAT WHAT MY wife tells me to eat."
Besides, when she doesn't look, that's
why there's a makita, right? You say,
"Why is there a mitz?" I say, "The men
got to eat stuff that their wives don't
let them eat." So the makita is very
helpful. [laughter]
Yeah.
When you come home, check the pantry
because it may be empty. So the
[laughter]
all the nash that you collected on some
cast from the shs all the great good
candies you thought it was for your
great grandkids. Okay.
But the truth is so this is but it's
teaching us something. is teaching us
something that at the moment that made
their first mistake their biggest
mistake was they weren't be a they
weren't able to go back to presence as
we spoke in a previous class I think it
was tish of time they had to hide what
does it mean to hide to hide is I cannot
face hashem anymore I can't face myself
anymore and that's what blame really is
blame really is send it to somebody else
that way I'll feel a little better but
really deep down. I'm cutting myself off
from my truth. Hashem tells Adamaya,
"Where are you?" So Rashi asks this
week's parish, why did he have to say
where are you? He knew where he was. And
there's a very beautiful explanation of
the alterat he said is not
geographically. Ayaka is emotionally
spiritually
where are you? What does it mean? Why is
he looking for him? Because Adam himself
felt that now I have to hide. He tells
Hashem, I'm not wearing clothes. It's
embarrassing. I have to hide from you.
That's the moment that a person starts
believing that there is something inside
of them that is so shameful that God is
not ready to look at them. And if God is
not ready to look at me, how can I look
at myself? I for sure can't look at
myself because to stand face to face
with Hashem
says,
"Look, look, I want you to look at my
face."
Says, "I can't do that anymore. So if I
can't do that anymore, what do I do? I
say kava is guilty. Kava says the snake
is guilty. Cen says it's not my problem.
The common denominator in all of these
things is a person loses their own
agency. They lose their own power. They
lose their own creativity. They lose
their own initiative. They lose their
own internal depth. It's sometimes an
easier way to live because if everybody
else is guilty besides me, then somehow
I could make myself feel better. And
it's a normal thing. It's a normal
reaction. What it takes away from me is
my power. My true power. My true deepest
deepest power. And because of that,
Hashem says, "Where are you?" And what
this means is not that nobody else is
guilty for anything. It doesn't mean
that I'm responsible for every bad
thing. It means something much deeper
than that. People do what they do.
Everybody is playing out the script that
God wrote for them together with their
own agency in the mysterious journeys of
life. But what it means is that
ultimately
the deepest power of a person is their
leadership inside of them. Not
but was saying
I will remain in my full power. I will
remain in my full presence. I will
remain in my full charisma. I will
remain in my full spiritual prowess even
in this situation. It's hard because
sometimes it comes with a lot of pain.
Ysef cries more than anybody in the
Tanakh in Kumish. Nobody cries as often
as Ysef. He didn't have a heart of
stone. He wasn't just this leader who's
oblivious and he could forgive everybody
because he doesn't care. Ysef is more
vulnerable than everybody else. But
because he's more vulnerable, he also
knows what he's really looking for. And
in a moment of truth, he's ready to
embrace it fully. So this is where Mosha
learned who he was and ultimately brings
to the redemption. So in that moment, he
takes the emo.
And here I come back to Yaniv Killun and
his free friend, three friends who
stormed the cockpit
because if Yaniv would have sat in his
seat, fastened his seat belt and prayed
for a miracle, nobody could blame him. A
plane is going down 17,000 ft. Who can
even imagine the terror, the horror, the
paralysis, the physical and emotional
paralysis? Nobody could have blamed him.
We all know what happened 9/11 and you
can't blame. You have hijackers, you
have terrorists, you have killers. It
would have been a very very normal
thing. But that instinct of
that instinct of
and therefore will I also not be the
ish. And nobody could blame me. It's a
crazy situation. There's a Hebrew being
beaten by an Egyptian. a bunch of slaves
can't really do anything about it. But
that instinct still beating in him and
in his friends created maybe the biggest
miracle and that is he stood up, stormed
the cockpit under impossible conditions
and literally saved 182 Jews from a
certain horrific horrific death and
perhaps hundreds and thousands of other
innocent souls saved at that moment
because of his. And if you think about
it, it's not like he was trained for
this. He wasn't part of a commando that
the Mossad placed on the plane to look
out for hijackers. That morning when he
got up and he got out of bed and brushed
his teeth in Dubai, I don't think he
thought to himself, you know, I better
be a mench today and I better be a man
today because on me hangs the fate of
182 Jews and maybe thousands of Jews.
He didn't have any any such instinct any
such idea but
that ability that sense to know that in
such a moment of crisis I can be the
person instead of passing the buck to
somebody else and take all this stamina
and courage with God's grace inside of
me to storm a cockpit that literally
transformed the Jewish people and And it
say it saved our people from an
unprecedented
horrific crisis that may have been much
worse than October 7th in terms of
numbers of death. I mean who knows
and really the world from from from
seeing how evil can can succeed in such
sinister and creative unimaginable ways
of of killing a pilot mid-flight and
then crashing a plane into into an
airport.
And I think and this is where I want to
bring it together. You know the BMP says
every story is a lesson in life. So
besides of course the lesson of the
tremendous miracles of
I think there's also a very powerful
lesson at least for me but I think for
all of us. You know if you look at
Jewish history essentially it's a long
flight.
Jewish history has been a long flight.
And let's face it, a lot of ups and a
lot of downs and some serious drops.
There was a drop of 17,000 ft or 16,000
ft. It's very very reminiscent of our
history. Ali and Uridis
moments in our history when the entire
plane was shaking and many of us certain
or conf or or fearful that it can just
split. It can disintegrate. It can it
can crash. But the fact is we're here.
We're still in the air. The plane is
still flying. The plane that began with
Arainu and ends with Messiah. It's still
in the air. It's still intact. And our
generation is a generation
that is destined to bring the plane to
landing. The last generation of Gulos
and the first generation of
to bring the down into the earth
beginning with our hearts, our homes,
our communities, and our world.
And if you listen thousands of years of
Jewish history tell us, land the plane,
storm the cockpit, don't be afraid. Go
into those places, take over and land
it, bring everything home.
But this type of landing doesn't happen
when people are passive. It doesn't
happen when people sit safely with
fastened seat belts. Even though nobody
could complain to them because I have a
fastened seat belt and I'm following
protocol. There was another interesting
thing that I saw and it was very moving
for me. Once things were settled, there
were two pilots in the cockpit taking
over the plane. The murderer was subdued
and tied down. The dentist saved the
other pilot's life. So things were more
or less, I mean relatively speaking, at
least more safe and organized. Some Jews
started to sing
and the flight attendants
started to maneuver to do their thing.
But the Jews very wisely understood you,
we don't know the story. What happens if
it's not one person? What happens if
this co-pilot
was in a cahoots with the flight
attendants? You never know. And
therefore, the Jews on the plane, they
became security guards for the flight
attendants. And the flight attendants
told them, "You can't do this. There's
policy. There's policy. You have to sit.
We bring the drinks. We do this. And one
of them turned to them and said, "Well,
now there's new policy.
There's a new policy. And the new policy
is we're controlling the plane." And
they wouldn't let any of them go
anywhere without somebody guarding them.
What happens if they have a knife, they
have a weapon, they take out, they
needed every person, wherever they went,
they were guarded and protected. They
said there's a new policy.
>> They wanted
>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Exactly. They didn't
know. The only ones they trusted were
those who spoke Hebrew and they felt
they were Jewish. They but nobody else.
And then I thought to myself, you know,
sometimes in life
following protocol and follow following
the law is very very important. I don't
have to tell you. But then there comes
moments of crisis where you have to be
able to have the courage to throw
everything away to say now there's new
policy. Now I don't fasten my seat belt.
Now I don't sit in one place. Now I
storm cockpits now. And now I do the
unthinkable because when moments of
truth summon a person in such urgency,
the worst thing I can do is just acquies
and surrender to the status quo. But now
some people might say
I'm just a plumber. [laughter]
I'm just a plumber. I'm not a trained
leader. I'm not a president. I'M NOT A
I'M NOT A GOD. I'M NOT a I'm not making
I'm not a pilot. I wasn't trained for
this. I'm just a plumber. I'm not
responsible for Jewish for Jewish
history.
And I think here is a lesson. Who did
this? Yaniv, a plumber, not trained for
this. But at that moment, thousands of
years of history and amuna were burning
in his bones. And with literal ms
nephesh he storms a cockpit saves a day
saves a people saves a world. What a
lesson to each and every one of us.
Sometimes people look at themselves and
the worst thing I could say is I'm
small. I'm insignificant. I'M A PLUMBER.
I'm a this. I'm a that. I'm a that.
Just a regular regular person. Leave me
alone. Most of our tests don't happen
34,000 feet above in the air. At least
let's hope, please God, that that's not
where I tested. Most of our tests happen
in the privacy of our hearts, in our
bedrooms, in our homes, in our offices,
in our communities, in our intimate
spaces.
But that's where the courage, the truth,
the authenticity of a person emerges to
be able to say, "This plane needs to be
landed safely. History needs to be
brought to redemption. I have the
courage, the responsibility, the
generosity, the openheartedness like to
say
to be able to find the courage, the
fire, the power inside of me. To be able
to be truly present to what the moment
calls because what this moment calls for
may be unprecedented. I couldn't have
prepared for it yesterday. But to be
able to be present in this small little
situation, with this small little
person, with this small little guy here,
to really be able to be truly open
without agendas, without preconceived
notions, without biases, without fear to
what my what my mission of Hashem is in
this literal moment without looking here
and there, this person this, this person
that every person has their own life,
but really to be able to say, I have
here the is to be able to bring the
plane of Jewish history to its landing.
The caravish, have a beautiful week.
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