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Stop Labeling Your Kids - Rabbi Zamir Cohen
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The words you use to correct your child can either build them up or break them down. Labeling a child as "bad" or "foolish" only makes them internalize that identity. If we want them to change, we need to speak to their potential, not their mistakes. #jewishwisdom #jewishthought #jewisheducation #education #jewishinspiration #rabbi #rabbizamircohen #raisingkids #educationalvideo #educationtips #jewish #jewishtiktok #jewishshorts #hidabroot
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If a child lies or takes something that
doesn't belong to them, labeling them as
a liar or a thief can be devastating.
Labels stick and a child might
internalize them.
If my wise and caring parent says I'm a
thief, it must be true.
This can discourage the child from even
attempting to change. King Solomon in
his wisdom offered a timeless principle.
He wrote, "Do not rebuke a scoffer, lest
they hate you. Rebuke a wise person, and
they will love you."
On the surface, this teaches us who to
correct. On a deeper level, it teaches
us how to correct. Don't use words like,
"You're foolish, you're bad, or you're
hopeless."
These words only breed resentment.
Instead, uplift the child. Say,
"You're wise, capable, and wonderful.
This behavior doesn't align with the
amazing person you are." Such words
inspire love and a desire to improve. By
disciplining with thoughtfulness and
care, we raise children who feel valued,
respected, and eager to grow.