Stop Complaining - Rabbi Yitzchak Fanger

Stop complaining. Sometimes it's fun to play the victim a little, to complain a bit, to blame others, but it doesn't get me anywhere in life. Look in the mirror, and the person you see in front of you is the reason for all your problems, but they're also the solution. Not a self-flagellation, but to understand that if I'm not part of the problem, I'm not part of the solution. I take responsibility for my feelings, for my actions, and also for my thoughts. Therefore, instead of complaining every time there's a reason to complain, look for one good thing in that very situation or in other things, because it's either complaints or gratitude. Choose to see the good in yourself, in others, and in every situation in life. Good luck.