Should Marriage be Easy? - Rabbi Benzion Klatzko

should marriage be easy okay everyone got the question shouldn't marriage be easy that that's you know living in today's society but you know just being exposed even if we're not watching movies we know like everyone's heard happily ever after and they and that's like even that's the day of the wedding so now should marriage be easy let's start with the rabbi that's been married the most rabbi Ben Co classic Oh before I answer this question I just want to say the reason that I came tonight I think I came the furthest for Muncie like him from Muncie I was actually the first rabbi here but now how that happened but I came here for one reason which is that I want us to improve our marriages that's that's the only reason I'm here if you came because you want to improve your marriage you're here for the right reason and it's a it's a journey we'll go on tonight and there's a chef when you come out if you come out with one idea that will improve your marriage then he did a great job spending the night here is married supposed to be easy well little kids play baseball not so hard the game is not such a difficult game there's a picture there's a catcher and a better and there's four bases and you could play as a kid but if you want to be in the major leagues you need a lot of practice you got to go through the farm system you've got to pay your dues many years and lots of effort and waking up early and being down there on the field and batting practice it's it's difficult if you want to be professional but if you want to be good at it being married is easy all you got to do is go onto the Hopa and you're married you're married that was easy expensive but easy but if you want to be good at it if you want to be a professional if you want to be able to look in the mirror and say I'm I'm gonna awesome husband I'm a really special wife I'm good at this I know how to make my wife happy I know how to make my husband happy takes a lot of effort there's nothing that I know of even raising kids that takes as much effort as being in a professional marriage being in a good marriage and you're right I am Mary the longest and my wife and I speak about solemn bodies every single day for 30 years we tweaked it we're open with our feelings if I overstep my bounds she'll tell me where it is it is the it is the greatest investment that you're gonna make it's the most worthwhile investment so is it easy it's easy to be married not so easy to stay married and it's even harder to be in a professional marriage that bazzetta xem will make all of your days happy once [Music] [Applause]