Same Team. Different Views.

It's good to have differences of opinion if you know how to handle them, if you know how to go about it. Not arguing and not fighting, but discussing the differences. And if one keeps one savvy and one controls one's emotions and for Shalom one doesn't get into a situation of anger, husband and wives, it is a very healthy thing when there are differences because differences bring things much sharper. It clarifies issues. We go through this cleansing process and then the two halves stick and now there's one. Okay, we still carry a lot of background. You know, the early years of a person, there's a lot of things that are formative in his personality. And these issues that the couple start to go through, but when a couple knows, once I went under the chuppah, he's for me and I'm for him. There's potential here. So there might be difficulties, there might be other factors which are disturbing the Shalom Bayit, but once you know that it's the potential is there, you'll work on it. Keeping marriage happy and alive and vibrant and exciting and enjoyable takes work.