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I believe it's important to face this
question about how do we handle
the fact that there are missiles
and threats of annihilation, genocide,
not in Gaza, but where the genocide has
always been been attempted to take place
with Jews around the world and Jews in
Israel.
So, what How do we How do we manage all
of that? How do we handle it? So, I want
to talk about trust and faith and
clarify what can be very confusing and
that is this.
Like all things in Judaism and life,
there's more than one perspective, which
means in Jewish talk it's a machlokes.
In Sefardi talk it's a machloket.
Now,
what do I mean?
Let's be practical and use our brain and
it'll be very simple what it means to
put our trust and faith in God.
It's balanced because our brain forces
us to be
balanced and logical. And so, the answer
for trust and faith when we use our
brain is
Look, God's in control, God punishes,
God rewards, God loves, God God gets
angry. And so, ultimately, you know,
there's times of danger. And in times of
danger, unfortunately, it's possible for
people to get hurt. We know that people
are are dying to the left of me, to the
right of me. So, why should I assume
that I'm immune from the people that are
dying to the left of me, to the right of
me? I should assume that I could also be
struck in this in this time of danger,
this war time, which is really, by the
way, the worst that a human can be is in
the time of war. And so, it's funny you
want to You want to like point the
finger, "YOU'RE NOT A TZADDIK. You're
not a saint." Yeah, we're at war. What
do you want? War is war. Abraham,
simple. Abraham was the kindest man that
ever lived. Nobody's going to outdo
Abraham in kindness. He is kindness.
According to Kabbalah, he is the
kindness of God that that comes through
him on Earth. That's That's Abraham.
Godly kindness that is revealed through
a human being and that is Abraham. Okay.
So, so And yet, he went to war. He went
to war to save his nephew and to to to
wage war against kings that were not
doing the right thing. And he fought
with a And he And he And he had to kill
people. He went and fought war. So, how
could the kindest man that ever live
fight a war? Because, unfortunately,
when it's necessary and you don't do it,
that's not being kind. That's being
cruel. Allowing innocent victims to die
in in genocide and massacres like we see
all around the world and not doing
something about it, that's not being
ultra kind. That's being ultra fool An
ultra fool. A fool and a And And And a
achzari, um which is in English My
English is funny as a My Hebrew is
better, my English gets worse. Achzari
in English means
cruel. It's being cruel, not kind.
So, there's a time to fight. And when
there's a time to fight, rule number one
is win.
Stay alive so that your children don't
become orphans. And rule number two, if
there's going to be an orphan, it's
going to be your enemies' kids, not you.
That's rule number two, simple. Am I Am
I evil cuz I said that? No, I'm just
practical and smart. Because if we're
going to If we think that we're going to
die for the sake of of saving our
enemies' children so that they come and
kill my own children later, it's
stupidity. You know, the the the the the
the the the slogan of today is Go to war
against your enemy and adopt a country.
Have you fed your enemies enough today
lately? Are they getting their minerals
and their vitamins?
We want a shalom. Am I insane or is the
world insane? It's not enough. Did you
give They don't have enough food. They
need a balanced diet. And you know what?
Believe it or not,
free therapy. You Could you imagine?
The Palestinians are supposed to call
the Israeli medical systems and
insurance companies for free therapy
because of what they're going through.
That was a joke, but
we're not far from such demands.
Anyways,
so back to the point. Logically, trust
and faith means that if he got hurt and
he got hurt, why should I be any
different? So, we have to have a
balanced approach. God can do anything.
We're not heretics over here. God can do
anything. God can decide anything. He
may decide to save me. He may not. Now,
what would a basis be? We're not just,
you know, throwing We're not just
flipping a coin. I may deserve to be
saved. I may not deserve to be saved. I
trust that I could be saved cuz God can
do anything. God could save me. But I
I'm logical enough and practical enough
to know that he may not save me cuz that
In danger, we don't all survive and I
may be one of them that don't survive.
That is p'shat number one. It's very
very logical and very safe. And of
course, that only works if I understand
that I'm not perfect and that I have
And I have sins and And those sins could
be kind of like a a point of where it
all starts, where the where the where
the middas hadin, where the strict
judgment of me will allow me to be
killed is because I'm not perfect. And
nobody's perfect. That's
approach one. We see it actually from
Chazal, the sages say it. And we learn
it from Yaakov, Jacob, our forefather,
who was pretty pretty darn righteous.
Can I say that or is that's
Darn is a curse word or no? No.
It's not. Okay, with the Southern
accent, was it a word Was it Was it
It's a machlokes. Excellent.
Everything's a machlokes. Basically,
Jacob was pretty righteous and he still
was worried. He said, "Maybe I've sinned
and maybe the promises that God directly
told me may not apply cuz I may not
deserve it." So, if we see Yaakov
behaving that way, that is the basis for
this entire approach in the Rishonim and
and and in all of the different classes
you're going to get on trust and faith,
it doesn't mean that I'm guar I have no
guarantee. God didn't make I didn't make
a contract with God that I'm going to
live to see Mashiach, although I would
love to live to see Mashiach. We should
all live to see Mashiach. Amen. Amen.
But it means possibilities. That's the
the the most basic logical approach. How
What do you think about that one? How
does that That works for you? That fits
in your brain?
Yeah. It should fit in your brain. In a
big brain like you have, it should fit.
But the real p'shat, the deeper p'shat,
the more Kabbalistic p'shat cuz the
Kabbalists are embracing it, but it also
comes from Chazal. Our sages have also
told us this.
is that's not enough faith. It's not
enough trust.
And now I'll explain you why.
The sages that that point out that
Jacob, Yaakov, thought maybe he's not
deserving of God's promises,
okay, that's out of humility and it's
it's an important thing to have
humility. However, when humility gets in
the way of your trust and faith, what's
happening is, you know, you're you're
applying the wrong positive trait of
humility in the wrong place. Because it
shouldn't detract from Trust Trust is
its own virtue. And if you Your humility
makes you trust less, then you know, you
just trust less. That's the other
approach and it says like this.
It says that both Moses, Moshe, and
Jacob, Yaakov, were both afraid. The
Bible The Torah goes out of its way to
say that Moshe was afraid
and Yaakov was afraid when Esau was
coming to kill him. And they criticized
both of them. We don't pull any punches.
We want truth. We want reality. And
reality and truth, there's another level
of scrutiny where God says, "Jacob, how
could you be afraid, Yaakov? I promised
you I'm going to take you home safely.
How could you be worried?
Moshe, you did a good thing. You saved a
Jewish life and you killed an evil
Egyptian. Why would you think that
Pharaoh's going to kill you now? Why
would you be afraid of Pharaoh?"
And they criticized them for being
afraid.
This approach
demands from us.
Faith and trust has no limit.
Why? Because ultimately it goes beyond
your brain.
Yes, the guy to the right of me didn't
survive. Yes, the guy to the left of me
didn't survive.
But I ignore that
because God doesn't have to fit into my
brain.
And I have to go out of my brain and
into God's infinite world.
And God is kol yakhol. God creates
contradictions and he and he he balances
those contradictions and he goes through
those contradictions. He makes miracles.
He made nature,
which is things that I can expect, and
he makes miracles, which I can never
expect. And therefore, when it's about
my story, my story that on a certain
level God created the entire world just
for me,
how dare me
to say that God created the entire world
and universes and everything just for me
to kill me, to let me die in the hands
of these wicked animals? God forbid to
think such a thing.
Never.
Never
would he do that to me.
That's trust.
That's faith.
What's going to happen tomorrow? I'm not
a prophet.
I don't know what's going to happen
tomorrow and I don't have to know.
That's trying to squeeze too much into
your brain. I know God loves me. He
cares about me. He's holding on to me.
And I have nothing to fear
because I'm full of faith and trust in
the one that does it all and can do
anything.
And that's it.
It's not It's not a Gemara.
It's life. It's God. It's me.
And just like when we go to pray,
beautiful beautiful insight. When we go
to pray,
for years and years and years I thought
it was the wrong statement that they're
putting in in on top of the Aron Kodesh,
where we all face to pray. It says,
"Da lifnei mi ata omed." Know
who you you in the singular are standing
before.
And I'm like, "Why is this statement in
a synagogue where there's hundreds and
hundreds of people, why is it in the
synagogue? It should I'm sorry. Why is
it in the singular? It should be in the
plural." And the Gemara speaks in the
singular. You know why? Because even if
there's a million people standing there
praying to God with you,
God came to hear you and to see you and
you came to see God. And it's as if
you're the only one there.
Every single person that stands to pray,
creates his four cubits
that are holy and sacred like a
cotton and collar, like a bride and
groom in the room that they go into
privately for the first time that
they're as their husband and wife. And
nobody would dare walk into that room.
That is the most private, intimate,
sacred room of bride and groom. And
every time you go to a synagogue or even
at home and stand to pray, those four
cubits become your unique,
private room with just God and you. And
it's in that room and in that moment
where God says, "I created all of this
for you, Ike. I created all of this for
you, Joe. It's all for you."
Because it's just me and you at
And that's the Holy of Holies. One man
walks into the Holy of Holies. It's a
place that has to be exactly measured,
yet has no measure.
It's an impossibility, the place of the
Holy of Holies. It's an infinite God
meeting a finite creation, finite
person. And therefore the Aaron had to
be exactly measured, 20 amot.
But yet, there were 20 amot empty there
because space and infinitude when it
meets,
it it doesn't it doesn't add up.
And that's what our relationship with
God it doesn't add up. He's my God and
he'll never let go of me and therefore I
should never let go of him. I I may not
deserve it.
It's a good question.
It That's for your brain. But ultimately
trust and faith is for is beyond your
brain.
Hugs and mass. Hugs and mass.