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[Music] so rather have to mentioned the famous Ramez where is the month of Elul alluded to in the 10 ask Annie Lee Dodie Dodie Lee it's the month I am for my beloved and my beloved is for me I'm for god and goddess for me that literally if we do our part to come closer attack on this Rahu the rebounder some will respond in kind but here's the million dollar question since when do we call God Dodie Dodie how about barakaatuh Hashem don't we call God your cave of K 1 we say I need Laird can you both kill viewed kpop Kiwi I need little Kimble a little little Kim Lee I need a shot guy Bashar Kylie I need lip spa coat Aniela Cara Homer when in Hamish is God ever called Dodie anybody know how many times and voracious God is called Dodie zero and how many times in Shimoda is God called od0 and how many times by agra none and how many comes about mid bars old and hammered on the Varden and yahushua shoved him shmoo hell muwah him yaaaa yummy huh yes girl TRAI sir he of michl a Tehillim zero zero zero zero there's only one place God has ever called Dodie and she Reshiram why in the world in the months of hell all the month were trying to get closer to God the month were trying to do to vana we don't say the word Dodie the whole Rosh Hashana why in the world when it comes to the months of L o do we invoke anima Dodie Dodie leeches and he lost shamash Emily very important question Shuba what's Chuba people you know as the high holidays are approaching people get nervous so what do they do they open up their checkbooks and they give to that guy beautiful giving to that guy has nothing to do a tuba without Shuba the person didn't have a rock and they give to that car nothing happens to that Iran chuva is very clear elastic process it has three or four ingredients number one Kurata regret number two as divagate stopped sinning number three Kabbalah did except upon yourself not to do it again and number four veto a confession writing checks it's wonderful there's nothing to achieve uh there's no concept that if you do good deeds it wipes away are they wrote to wipe away in a variety of very specific elastic process regret stop and confession very easy as long as you could stop question if a person does chew on does it work does it get rid of that Vera of course it does that's our faith that's part of an RM una can a Gentile do teshuva in other words it for Gentiles sins and now as a looming punishment can a Gentile do too about what would you say good those are the two choices no and yes excellent we've narrowed it down basically to two choices either no or yes we're getting close okay says the Midrash and I'm not telling you my opinion if you look on your sheets at number four I'll read to you there's a contradiction one-plus look it says he saw Hashem panov Alessa God will show favor to you and there's another plastic that says I shall Lois off on him God will not show you favor since the Gemara how do you reconcile that well God show you favor will God not show you favor says the medrash Oh set Suva no sale opening if you do Chava God will show you favor and if you don't do Chuba God will not show you favorites as simple as that when your personal chuva God favors them and if they don't do chuhwa God will not favor them says the mattress yo colic oh I would think anyone could do chuhwa Talmud Lola ISA Hashem Panov what's the next word hey les ah you could do Tula the world Oh mommy I come a Gentile cannot do children did not mama take my opinion when I could take a vote here it's not up to us I'm telling you the opinion of the Metis a Gentile cannot see you said what do you mean safer Jana and invade that wasn't you wrong that was they could defer punishment but they cannot erase the Avera as if it was never performed chuva is an illogical process it doesn't make any sense imagine someone stands in front of the judge and they committed a crime and the judge takes his gallery bangs down guilty smile everyone guilty yeah and the person says judge it's nice that I'm guilty but I'm doing chuhwa I'll never steal again from the government and I'm confessing my sin and I really feel bad about it I promise I'll never do it again so the judge will say you better believe you'll never do again behind bars you'll never do it again you can't do too well in this world there is no realm in life there's no area in life where you could repent and then it's like you never did it but God gave a special gift to the Jewish people where we could have we could press the delete button and we can make it as if we never sent but that gift was not given to the Gentiles and the question is why not does the process work or does a process not work is it an effective system or is a not effective system can regret and confession remove a sin or not why would chew vow only work for a Jew and not work for a Gentile you know we have to ask ourselves the following questions anybody know which parsha of the Torah do we read almost every year at the beginning of Hodesh hello this parsha is always at the beginning of ello either a day before or on Rosh Chodesh ello or slightly into it there's anybody that what is the first parish ah as we enter the month of L o partial a partial a and thus logic others teacher a secret that the partial that we read during the week is connected to that time of the year even though you look in the Gemara they're only a few partial that have to be read at certain intervals and the other party all day they fall out when they fall out nevertheless I'll peek Kabbalah nothing great in this world happens coincidentally if we read a parsha at a certain time there is a specific connection to that time of the year what is the connection between Parishad ray and the beginning of the chuga process so here's the secret if you look on your sheet at number five one of the greats if REM written on the topic of chuhwa is a safer beit elohim base all again of the map in motion met Ronnie who's a contemporary of the Beth Yosef he writes it gar Hakuba Leah Israel the primary mechanism of chuhwa only works for a Jew the Romani pan or a Menachem Azaria pano the great Italian Cabalists says chuva was only given to the Jewish people why why would that be he says morality da roca acept of it as a line the very important idea you go in front of the king and you say king you have a long nose you're an ugly man King so the King just happened to be learning moose are and in moose hour he learned that if somebody insults you you should swallow it and you shouldn't say a word and you should be most of them is the king allowed to be most else someone who insults him he's not allowed to the Gemara condition says Mela Seamus all alcohol dough in Coloma foam a king is not authorized to overlook his insult he could try to be exotic if you wanna be a Tzadik if someone hurts the King if someone insults the king if someone doesn't show the king honor the king must kill them mo read with mouths hood there is no room for leniency there's no room for looking the other way but what if your kid comes home and your kid is sitting in your chair so now what uh-huh keyboard of a me take out a club with nails on it more into manhood yeah no I'll share my soul I'll keyboard or chroma who a father a tanto is the latter overlook his insult says Ikeda there's a difference between the relationship that God has with the Jewish people and the relationship that God has with the Gentiles you ever hear maybe hear on the radio after all we're all the children are the Lord you ever hear that expression all mankind we're all the children of the Lord it's a bunch of rubbish it's not true we're not we're not all the children Lord the Gentiles are created in the image of God they deserve respect honor and dignity but they are not the children of God they are B'Tselem elohim paviva domjan robert Selim man is beloved because he was created in the image of God Cathy Vinnie Israel the Jewish people are more beloved SHINee crew bonny moi maqam Shan Emma Bonnie ma tan wash Emma location you are the children of the Lord the Gentiles are not the children of the Lord but that's racist and bias and Prejudice no it's not that's what God told us I have a question imagine you're walking down the street and you tell your child you're my child and a young man from a different race over here as it says that's racist that's prejudiced I'm also your child a kid your nice guy you ain't my child I know for sure we could check the DNA I ain't your cheer you know you're not my son not racist we are this we have the spiritual DNA of the rebuttal I love the soul of the Jew is fundamentally related and created closer to the image of God than any other human being the kuzuri says the same way there's a difference between a plant in Iraq and an animal and a plant and a human and an animal there's a greater difference between a Jew and a human being Hamas the openko - well between holiness and profane they know Laquisha between light and darkness being Israel on them if you don't believe that there's a fundamental there's between a year and a good it's one of the fundamental principles of Judaism God is our Father and if we do in Avira and we do - ah God said I'm your Tata I could be Mosul you I could overlook it of shamash al al called aqua domicile God is not the father of the nations of the world he's their king he therefore is not licensed and able to overlook his indignity therefore if I were to ask you what is the mechanism of tomate what is the engine of Juba what is the way with which to buy operates through the principle of Barnum attend lashem elloe kaifi you are the children of the Lord without that principle Shevat cannot work cannot be effective cannot operate therefore the first power shall we read and Hoda shall all is bunim item lashem a location par shots from a we need to learn the mechanism and the engine of how chuva operates it operates through the process of we are the children of our colors parcel but let's take this a little further do we have any Ashkenazim here tonight we have a few ok cane year boo asking Azam stardom this far then when they say we do a sham new but God knew they have a song how do they say it Ashkenazi and have this tune it's like they're singing like they're walking their kid down to the Kaaba oh no oh boy oh god no girl no the bar new don't know imagine a guy comes into the show and he says I robbed a nice girl that I committed adultery yeah that's what I scan doesn't do they're singing about their sins like I don't know they won the lottery what in the world are these Ashkenazim doing that's a general question but now we're asking specifically on the Eevee doing right and you say no that's not how you're supposed to do it you're supposed to do it oh no that's not how you're supposed to do it look in the acronym it's supposed to be a happy tune happy tune why we have a costume the night of Rosh Hashanah we eat something called Maron or carrots and we say he trots on anybody know what you hear about Sean we say you're out summer finance my chef Alan cannibal cannibal say no say year boo there's a Julio Tina that we should have a lot of merits so here's a guy he's laying back in his chair he's popping carrots into his mouth he's saying god oh my II I should do a lot of mitzvoth this year and God's saying get off your chair you want to do mitts vote take a dig Amara give something that guy you're praying to me that you should do a lot of missile you want doom it's all doom it's or do you want from my life you think by you eating carrots you're gonna be eat doing more Mitzvah this year the one thing you can't pray to God is God gives me a lot of mitzvahs God could give you money can't give you mince food you got to do them yourself what's just feel I share your booze is who you're Tina you ever hear an expression the Gemara Brock Holt tops off Obama days the Macomb chappal a jihad on dim in tsadikim Cameron you column la mode where ballet to burst and the perfectly righteous will never stand wait wait a second so let's talk about the god aerobic I'm Kenny f ski right he's been sitting in Bnei Brak his whole life every year he learns call-out to : he doesn't know what an app here eyes and you have a guy for 50 years he ate McDonald's every single night and then he did chuhwa so he is greater than the Goa'uld are they Malcolm Shabazz hmm they mean something homo tacit happy what could the bow chuva do that it's sad that gum or can't do in what way is about sugar greater than its addict gum or so here's a secret premium Chuba what kind of credit card you have personal question right some people have a plain simple credit card I have a simple credit card I don't have the three seconds it takes to fill out the thing to get a silver gold platinum but it's probably worthwhile right cuz if you have platinum then you get frequent flyer miles and you get points and you could go fly all over the world and stay in whatever will tell it's always better to have premium if you had a choice when you're flying on a plane to sit coat or a premium premium you know when you get on to the premium you come onto the plane you're dehydrated and they hand you the hot towel and you wipe your face with it you feel like a million bucks it's always better if you could have premium there are two kinds of Chivo there are two kinds of Chuba the Gemara says in a sac the human this is the key to understanding how we should approach ello if you look on your sheet at number eleven race lock is now nobody knew how to do chuhwa better than race Lankesh rachellocke ish himself was a bandit a robber a gangster rich sluggish says two statements statement number one chuhwa is so great that if you do in a very intentionally it's downgraded to unintentional ssin mr.xu vias royale antosha no okikuta baboon esse do to chuva for your sin because you stop in your accidental sin sukumara asks it says I've owned and then it says cash loan Salta is it an intentional sin or is it a slip says a kymaro if you do Chava and you sinned intentionally it's downgraded to unintentional which means like this I'll give you a Michele a guy gets a ticket yeah guy gets a ticket he has a fine and he has points and then you know he gets the attorney the attorney gets the points often he pays the fine that's analogous to what sugar could do true value start off with an intentional sin and then you do Tuva and then it its downgraded yeah then it's downgraded on the other hand rich Locker sense shuva is so great that the Ave wrote turn into MIT's fault get dole out Shiva says they don't know Nasus locus we owed that the Aveiro turned intimates vote says reish lakish this is the key ready can may I have a can mera depends how you do Chu man whether you do too bad out of love or you do true out of fear if you do too bad out of fear you're afraid that if I don't do chuhwa I'm not gonna make money this year I'm not gonna be hosting this year I'm not gonna have shell on buying it this year then you're a Veyron is downgraded you want a free car however if you do too bad of love if you do too bad of love your ave rah is transformed into a mitzvah so incredibly does anybody know the Gemara says I'm Rosh Hashanah how many sets of takeo do they blow twice the kyoto mod takeo team you chef we blow standing we blow sitting first we blow before this other Shawn has Ray and we blow during the Shawn s right why do we blow twice says the Gemara kadai our business has a ton in order to confound and confuse and mix up the Saab done so rational what does that mean mix up the tsaatan how do you mix up this dan says Rashi that when the sat down here's that not only do we blow the show for once but we blow twice says Rashi the Sutton sees that we love doing mitts vote he silences his mouth he closes his mouth he doesn't accuse he doesn't mention to God any of our sins why would that be because we love mitts vote the Sutton doesn't mention our sins just the opposite if we love mitzvoth the Sutton should work overtime you should work harder says rabbi akiva agar one of the greatest minds of all the latter sages are the last 300 400 years says Rabi Akiva ager the Sutton has one job to read to God our sins said God he woke up in the morning he went to shul he was looking at his phone during the davines the tsaatan says God that's not babbling he can't get reward for that get a man he spoke by Cozart a shots you know the cafe Khayyam says the copper Heim says if you're gonna talk by dabbing better not to come you'll get more reward if you stay in bed so Sutton is reading to God sin after sin look god he went to business he went to work and he's cheating he's stealing money also Sutton is reading to God the person's ledger and he's telling God all of the person's out he wrote all of a sudden the Sultan hears from heaven two sets of shofar blasts so he keeps his mouth closed why does he keep his mouth closed why doesn't he continued to read to God all of the sins that a person committed ah says Rebekah Vega if the Sutton things that were serving God out of love then maybe we're doing juve out of love and if we do chuhwa out of love then every of a rod that he reads to God is gonna be transformed into a mitzvah so there's something says let me get out here because every other round that I read to God I'm giving them points I'm giving them credit giving them star so the Sutton is afraid to tell God about our sins because if it did you does chuva me I have uh the sins turn into vote kasam sofa rights that if a Jew eat a cheeseburger and he did chuva it's transformed into the mitzvah of eating the carbon Pesa that's a mitzvah rope climb can I have ski never performed rock I'm kin EF ski never ate the Contessa cuz he never ate a cheeseburger but if you now don't try this at home but if a person didn't have a rod let's say they didn't know they thought it's okay to talk like a sorta shots they didn't know the chef/owner of said it's the worst of Iran the Tehran and now they realize you know how to talk when determining and they do chuhwa God will transform that are they run into us a hook that even real kind can you have ski doesn't have been my calm Chapelle eat you found him sadly kim kiman remaining home landlord because the SATA come or never did that are they rob to transform to mitzvah you see it's a dictum or his ability to do myths phone eliminated you can only do 248 mitts vote but for somebody who did have a road and then could transform them into mitts vote the possibilities are endless every type of a lira can be transformed into a mitzvah that it's a dick or more never did be my comb ship ballet she found em it's i think my mom oh god he rots on my finanza shake your boov who your Tina give me a lot of the cotton how give me the merit to the chuva out of love I do chew the out of love then all my Ave roads will not only be wiped away they will accrue to my merit I'll have so many mitts volt notes a takamore will have as many men so tell me please God this hello when I do chuhwa I don't want to just do to Bob because I'm afraid you know what the doctors gonna say I my checkup I'm not just going to do chuva cuz I want to have nice hots for my children God this year I'm gonna do - ah because I love you and if I do - riot of love all the other roads turn into mitts vote haha sham no bargain oh god I see we're cashing in every ave rah we sing to God it's the greatest thing we could do we're so happy all the other roads we do this here a few did Siobhan now you can't intentionally somebody who says I'm gonna sin and do true Val God will not allow them to do true uh but we don't have to worry about that we have enough sins without trying to do them and if we do do chuhwa and we do the proper Jovan may I have other reason that the Pharisees my rights the reason we sing in the video is because we're trying to do premium Juba not you know not economy to economy Juba is just gonna get off the points we're trying to do premium chupa chupa my Ahava Shivani hava every Aveiro we did will be transformed and elevated to mitzvah I'm gonna tell you a frightening tomorrow and I'm not here to frighten you but I can't withhold the truth it's a scary Gomorrah and I'm gonna tell you something that's gonna save your life you ask the most Jews if I do - bah how call ye up a said there everything will be okay yeah of course better I do too but everything's okay Yom Kippur thank you yeah schedule after Yom Kippur am i clean won't you say yeah I feel it mare if I feel like a newborn baby it's not true they're not so many things yom kippur takes care of let me tell you the Gemara in you ma the Gemara says are ba Caloocan a para there are four levels of atonement listen carefully let's say someone fails to fulfill mitzvot si someone you know de Mitzvah toss a is a positive commandment shaking the lulav and Estragon Sukkot sitting in the sukkah eating matzah wearing to fill in let's see seeing shimmer at the right time very important to know Shabbat morning oh I said shimmer you have to know the man crema is a man crema if you say the ship after this man crema you didn't say the Shema it's not you don't get them it's not if sometimes Friday night I said to shimmer on the shul there's before it's the attacker forbidden for a night for you have to know so what's a person did not fulfill them it's not that saying says a chimera if a person does Chuba immediate atonement you're clean right away you don't even need Yom Kippur if soin violated love a negative commandment somebody wore shaatnez somebody spoke loshon Hara and you do chuhwa the sinner still there you need Chava and you don't keep or that's a scary thing that me but but it's not Yom Kippur yet what if I don't make it to you I'm capable that's why we eat our of Yom Kippur to show oh thank God I made it to Yom Kippur and I didn't leave this world before Yom Kippur got rid of my love him what if someone violated Kree taught something that carries with it penalty of curette chuhwa ain't gonna do it Yom Kippur ain't gonna do it so the Chimera you saw him that bizarre then it's a very frightening thing it's a very frightening thing there are many sins Yom Kippur is not gonna take care of two buns not gonna take care yousa rim travails afflictions I'm just here to tell you what the Chimera says and then the governor says he will Hashem desecrating the name of God does true but take care of Nam yom kippur know you saw him even used to him not not until the last day of life it's a very scary Gomorrah the frightening Gomorrah that means that even Schumer even Yom Kippur there are certain things that can't get you ready for this comes Moran he down comes man you know and they save our life says the men karkinos says ikeda when does the Gemara mean that shuva doesn't do the job you need sometimes Yom Kippur and you sue him and meat ah that's if you do economy to a low level to that because when you do a low level chuva this thing is downgraded and if the sin is downgraded you still have a semblance of sin so you need extra detergent so you're gonna need Yom Kippur has to show Mesa rim but if you do to family I have a your cheeseburger transformed into carbon pizza so if a person does too bad of love of God in one second every sin you ever did is not only gone it's turned into Mitzvah and you don't have to worry about the most severe sins they're not severe censored your greatest Mitzvah Dermott sort of time can you ask him to be jealous of he wished he could have eaten that cheeseburger and transformed it into the current path that's why it's so important to do premium to the premium chuhwa you save your life everything everything is wiped away everything is transformed let me tell you a story you know the story you heard about the Shilla great Shilla the richest guy he was the richest guy in Bukhara and in Queens he's double as rich as he was his daughter married the son of the poorest guy in the city there's a great chin of a perfect match and the father of the bride said look I know my situation we know your situation we've got it covered we're gonna pay for everything the flowers the liquor the orchestra the photographer the shade those everything all you need to do is buy your son a suit for the wedding we have everything else covered but the father of the groom had no money so where does he can get a suit already he's not gonna get him a custom suit he's gonna go to one of these you know stores and I don't know where but Bora Park and get in one of these suits buy one get 80 free and he got him a suit you know it's like it's a lefty suit as two left arms that's what he could afford and the son is on the way to the Copa and he gets into an accident and he goes flying out of the window into a puddle and the suit is ripped and wet and ragged and he walks into the Koopa and the father-in-law looks at him said what happened to you tell some story so look it's no sweat off my back to get you a new suit this time I'm gonna buy your suit but when I buy you a suit I don't go to that store in Barra Park I'm getting you my kind of suit when I pay for the suit I'm getting you my kind of suit says the Dubna Magadh you could be it's a dick gun more and you could try to do mitzvahs you could be the most righteous man in the generation your mitts vote will always be limited by human shortcoming no human being could do a perfect mitzvah with love of God with fear of God fulfilling all the details our Mitzvah will always be lacking because we're human beings but when God gifts you a mitzvah God will gift you his kind of Mitzvah and when he gives you his kind emits light it will be a stunning brilliant glorious Mitzvah when does God gift us a mitzvah if we didn't have a Ron and we do too bad of love and God transformed that of Aron to a mitzvah that Mitzvah will be the greatest merit we have in our repertoire by mccombs a ballet Chava um dim tsadikim cameraman homo even the Codel hador could never do the perfect mitzvah that God will gift you with if you do too bad of love and therefore says my Ramsey da i nee na Donny washer Bosch Emily I mean little King little kingly you know what kind of tumor you need to do it all I need little diva Dodie lee hye-in for my beloved it's a hint what kind of true love do we need to do in hello suvamay I have a heart you might have love premium chuhwa if you do premium chuhwa when the yama didn't comes you're gonna be higher than the gondola are all your Ave Road will be brilliant mitzvahs I need Lido di am for the one that I love she say it's a very high level to do too bad of love could we really love God the Calvo table vote says the highest night Riga is love of God but on the other hand the Vilna Gaon says you could teach love of God even to a little child the love of God is a natural love every Jew in his heart of hearts loves Akhilesh Marku but sometimes it's covered over sometimes there's their layers on top of it on top of on top of it what we need to do is we need to dig deep down into our heart and access the love of Hashem that's there already you know there's a big question how could the Torah command us to love God you know it's one of them it's vote one of the 613 mitzvot love Hashem which means you can't let a day if your life go by without fulfilling the mitzvot of love of God what you when I ask a question what you it's we're saying oh did I put on tefillin today I'm not sure if I put on filling today I can't remember everybody knows they make it their business to put on tefillin and if you didn't you know you make sure you got your filling on nobody will let a day go in their life without wearing school in so the cuff it sky em you can't let a day in your life go by without fulfilling the basic mitzvot of loving her color Sparkle when do i fulfill that mitzvah when you say the parcel can create Shama we all hafta eight hashem elokenu you should love Hashem your God at that moment a person should focus on the Mitzvah the iris the positive command to love a color Sparkle and if you don't have a chance then so the hobbits Khayyam don't go home and eat in the morning unless you know you fulfill that Mitzvah so rather victor miller's at the time the rock would say everyday a person should say the following you're walking down the street you should say i love you' ash so people are gonna think you're crazy first of all they know already okay and even besides that so he would say you know go into the telephone booth and you make a long-distance call you pick up the phone and you say i love you' a sham the problem is there no more telephone booths so either the one option as you can move to London in London in London they have the big red telephone but God in His infinite wisdom created something called a phone you might not know what that is a phone is one of these little boxes that people we're on their belt in a holster as if they would have a pistol you know you ever see like Dominic people are going again that's the phone that they have people anyway are on the phone the whole day right they're walking in the street cars are about to hit them it doesn't matter it's big and the false choice they're on the phone so you take the phone and nobody has to know you're making a long-distance call to God and you say God I love you Michael it's one of the 613 mitzvot so natira for the key Vega rights it's very interesting imagine your kid comes home from school and says you know I don't like yongki I don't like this kid no you have to like him you can't tell somebody you have to like someone either you like them or you don't like them either you love someone you know you're going out and the parents uh she's over the guys so I'm not feeling it the parent no you have to feel it yeah that's a recipe for disaster right so how could God say you have to love Hashem either you love him or you don't so listen carefully look we're in the davin in the midst of love of Hashem is positioned right after what barakat ah Shem ha boy share you saw al-bayada that God loves you once Hashem tells you that he loves you there's a principle in human dynamic can my impugn name upon him came Laban ar mo coming right where the key Vega writes right after we say the love that Akash growth has for us once God loves us it's only natural it's already in our heart we feel the love of Hashem to us and we naturally will reciprocate I'll tell you a story so my grandfather used to live and be well he was a rabbi in Pittsburgh since 1951 God should watch over him he's 102 years old you know he lives with my parents in Brooklyn and as a rabbi for sure one of the responsibilities of a rabbi is you know you sometimes have to preside over an unveiling why you need a rabbi for an unveiling I don't know it's a way to give the rabbi some extra you know the rabbi has to say that to him you know you have to study for many many years to detail to read the paragraph that to him and to read the grave so you need a rabbi my grandfather would preside over the veil my grandpa was not well and he asked my father to do it so my father gets the call from the guy the guy says ok rabbi I'm gonna be picking you up in an hour we're gonna go down to the cemetery and you're gonna do the unveiling okay fine he wasn't a practicing rabbi but you know it wasn't rocket science so this is Pittsburgh Pennsylvania the guy knocks on the door it's a six foot five big burly gruff man he comes in a pickup truck this guy is like a little around the edges not a very refined guy said rabbi were going down to the cemetery you're gonna do the unveiling thing from him okay so he goes to the cemetery and he starts to show my dad he says you know rabbi we're all here we're all here all of us are here my brother is over here and my sister is over here and my niece is over here and my nephew is there and here's my first wife and here's my second wife and here's my third wife and he's showing off graves like he'd be showing a bottle cap collection no emotion this guy's a rough guy here's my son here's my daughter no emotion at all and then this six foot five man from western Pennsylvania shows my dad the grave of his father and mother that passed away forty years earlier and he breaks down crying like a baby you know if I were to ask you what is the strongest love in a person's heart many people would say it for a child but there is a certain dimension that the strongest love that a person has is for their father and mother and the reason is because the first love that a person is born with is the lovely half to their parents when they come into this world they have no brother and sister sometimes no children no spouse all they have is a father and mother so love for a parent is the most natural of moisture Aveeno tells Claudius around a binocular Sparkle how our vehicle Konoha he's your Tata he's your father that's what she was all about the reason why humor works is because of Shama halka voto called OMA home the reason God could accept our tubas because he's our father how are we so confident in the month of L all I Neela Dodie Dodie that if we make an effort to come close to God that God will come close to us why are we so confident let me end with the following so they're a bunch of kids playing on the beach they're playing on the shore and there's one little child that all the rest of the kids are playing up further up and he goes all the way down to the water and he's standing by the water he's he's looking out at the horizon and he has this flag and he's waving the flag and the other kids say come come join us why are you not playing with us and the kid sitting around I got to do something so what he got to do I see I'm waving this flag who are you waving at well my way I'm waving at the ship that was passing the ship so you know they squint their eyes they see like this dot moving across they say you ridiculous we could barely see it why are you waving at the ship so I'm not only waving at the ship I know that the captain of the ship is waving back at me so you can't even see the ship you can't see the captain why are you so sure that the captain is waving back at you so kid says because the captain of that ship is my father that's the month of El Oh you know why we're confident that if it's on Neela Dodie Dodie Lee you know why we're confident that if we take our best half make our best efforts and we come close to that color Sparkle and we repent our sins out of love do you know why we're confident that God will double in kind because Hashem is not only our king Hashem's our father and only our father and if we do our best to do Premium chuhwa then this will not only be a successful L all this will be the best month of your life the happiest month of your life people say okay wake me up when it's over 40 days yom kippur is over Neela's over i can't wait to eat that first piece of cake when he lies over know this is the month squeezed out you can and the next 40 days every ounce of chuva every small measure we're able to take premium shuva will bring us eternal wealth eternal benefit may our color Sparkle bless all of us and give us the heavenly strength and assistance to return to him that I have a out of love ya sham transform all of our I don't know it into the old intimates vote and I bless everyone here survival hottie man toda a healthy happy successful year to us in all of our families thank you so much [Applause] [Music] [Applause]