Parshat Vayigash: Binyamin is Innocent - Rabbi David Kaplan

[Music] last time you remember you hood up Binyamin is taken because he's the one who they find the goblet in his bag and the brothers now now yo say if the brothers say ok why you caught us all you know when you get a group of people and they're in possession the whole group goes and Yossi says yeah well no I'm only gonna keep the guy who stole it and everybody go home at that point you hood it gets into the fray and it says like this but you guys should love you it you go to approaches him top of page 250 way Omar be a Dhoni a be out on me the article translate says if you please my lord now there are different opinions what be out on they be attorney be literally means me or in me so there are different opinions when it says be out on me saying it's me meaning meaning yet uh yeah since since it's a trumped-up charge according to one opinion he's saying I'm the one who planted and then I took it and blended it in his bag he's actually taking the blame for it I her in one opinion but he says yeah that burden of the hard over buzz daily I'd like to say something in your ears which we'd like to say something up close to you value far out kebab please don't get angry from which we see that he's about to say something that could get him angry otherwise you don't say don't get angry right I keep him up like a fire because you are like pyro now the you know this is like almost the proverbial in English with all due respect right or may I speak freely and anytime somebody says to you with all due respect you know that you're about to be insulted that's what we thought with all due respect sir you are incompetent whenever somebody says with all due respect you know that he's about to say something that your other that you're about that's not very respectful at all and it's the same thing if somebody says may I speak freely yeah well why are you asking permission to say something good you wouldn't just said it so if you may I speak freely means that you're about to have your flaws pointed out so you don't say don't get angry but in my eyes you are like power ah she says that you know was saying to me give me time I'm gonna kill you just like I'm gonna kill pyro your master they say says don't don't get upset but now what Yunus says like this he goes through the whole story again but rachie says the unit this is an aggressive you know Hooda has lost patience now the question here becomes why why what causes you okay biota his take a remember till I see last week's pressure you heard of took responsibility for video man he said the yaakov you know if I don't bring him back and put it down in front of you then it will I will consider to have sinned before you've returned it so you know has taken quite a step as being a guarantor here with cold hero an our eighth when Ari was a guarantor and yet has taken on the responsibility stands to lose if VM doesn't come back so he says TL safe look you know up until this point the brothers had thought that everything that was happening to them all this aggravation they go back and they find the money in the bags and there's trumped-up charges and why they obviously somebody's framing them so all along they thought this was some sort of divine retribution because they had sold yo say if this was very much on their head and now we're getting back now we're getting back for what we did now we're getting back at this point something has changed because justice I see you know what I'm only gonna keep in Yemen I'm gonna keep it Yammer the rest you go home what did the brothers what did you her to know Benjamin was the one brother who was not involved in the sale of yo safe so Ben Yemen is being framed in min Yemen is about to be taken as a prisoner that can't be divine retribution for the sin of selling yo safe number one number two they know it's a frame-up okay though this has nothing to do with Hashem anymore this is between you and me sir and if you don't cut it out then icky come off like a fire oh yeah I'm gonna trash you like a trash barrel because I understand at this point this is all a frame-up even where you're on your incredible statement there's a Gomorrah that says they're for people who died sinless for people like Warren says for people in history divided sinless you know who free up said the for people were being Amud Yishai Mosher banners father i sorry mm Oh father I'm rum Moshe banners father Yishai mm Ellis father and kill of who was son of Governor Miller the Morrises those four people died through history there's no but they died be eto she'll know hush they died because of the decree that came about as a result of a serpent that guy when death was brought to the world that means on their own merits they didn't deserve to die for people to guar says Ben Youngman was one of them so if vidyut if the Camorra tells us but you haven't died sinless so there's brothers know who Ben yeoman is you know if this is the brother he in my opinion is the family is the family Sadiq so but he I was the last guy who's gonna take a date they they're gonna go swiping the King's the King's goblet his is his sorcery goblet and you know knows all this anuses that's it I've had about enough I have had about enough right now now let's get this let's get this out the open now he says you Deborah knob the hold over Ben's daddy I want to speak in your ears meaning according to them a forum you know goes there there's like the king and the king he has his advisers around him and you know says he walks in past the inner circle very informal he actually breaks breaks with Palace formality you know when Obama went Obama met the Queen of England for the first time so there's a there's a rule in England you don't touch the Queen you don't tell you don't shake it's not like it's not like it's not like you're the president you'd shake hands or something you know you don't touch the Queen don't touch the Queen we knew there's very formal they teach you you go in and how you you know you curtsy to the Queen and there's a whole live in England the queen is laid off look you know such a great well Obama and Michelle Obama went in and she just gave her a bear hug she broke all formality up yo Queen he gave her she gave her a ver hug you know which was a little shocked he got then they presented the queen with a with a with a with a gift you know you give the Queen a gift so what is thinking what you would good to quit you know a bouquet of flowers you know a president picture George watching this she did they gave her an iPod it was just so it was just so not right the whole big start to finish this so it just broke off for melody sounds like the Israeli Israel has an ambassador wonder then what's the country they're they have they have they still have a queen there they still have a king we're Sweden and I named they're in the scheme Sweden the I wonder what's a so the Umbria lead is really invested or I forgot what it's Davis where these really ambassadors showed up at the Royal and the royalty and he forgot the King's name I think it was a little loaded as it was and he comes in here got it is really resurrected oh hi King [Laughter] completely breaking with with formality so you heard of goes any since I want to speak in your ears meaning I want a private session here now there's that the basic idea is because he's about to in you dishes were to up slug in your Mar if you say something and I prove you wrong I've up slugged you he's about to up Schlag yet he's gonna prove yourself wrong now you can't prove Kings wrong in front of the royal court the there's a there's a Gomorrah that says that there was a Roman that what I think it was a Roman King who wanted to wanted to annihilate the Jews so he called it as advisors aguar says he said if a person has a painful sore on their foot should they suffer with it or should he just cut it off and be relieved so the advisor says well obviously cut it off which was a way of saying you know let's get rid of the Jews you know like make the plays you than right right so kids that man named CATIA bar Shalom speaks up he says listen you got a problem first of all there are verses in the Bible that indicate the Jews will never be wiped out so if you'd even destroy in one country they're gonna be they're like the wind they're compared to the wind they compare to the directions of not the window there are Beru clothes they're compared to the directions of the world the Jews are always gonna be around you know if you wipe them out these don't be there in the West up at the North they'll be in the south so number one your plan isn't gonna succeed number one and number two if you just wipe them out of your kingdom so then everybody would say well you're a deficient Kingdom because you're missing one nation this is either way anyway turn it's not gonna work and even if it does work in your own nation it's not good for you as a king so the King says said well you've spoken well and you've spoken correctly but we have a rule in anybody who gets anybody who up slugs the king anybody who bests the King and an argument gets thrown into a fiery furnace right so you heard if that's a rule you know in Kings the Kings don't like being shown up in front of the royal court there's a favorite story the Dublin Maggie as a muscle a king goes out with an archer King has an archer there's a like a magnificent archer and the King challenge is this Archer to an archery contest so now the archer knows that you know he can't beat the King it's like beating the boss at golf you know you just can't beat the King so the King shoots his first arrow and you know it's a it's somewhere somewhere near the near the bullseye and the archer realizes on the one hand you know I can't beat the King on the other hand I would like everybody to know that I'm still the best archer in the land you know I got my own pride so what does he do he shoots an arrow and he splits the Kings arrow so the King shoots another arrows or the archer shoots another he splits the Kings arrow so everybody sees that the King you know the you know he's not better than the King but he's better than me yeah yeah you know yeah you know so you so you heard of realizes I can't I can't defeat him over here now what he's about to say to yell say for going to the house I'm so for Ezio save Luke do you remember in last week's car show when Yosef comes to speak to Paro so the Midrash says that the King had to know 70 languages the King knew 70 languages and I don't know that language just means that you know how to speak the language as much as you understand the entire culture you know when it says a lot Shawn it probably means more than just parlor who friends say you know I mean it means you understand the whole culture so Paro he has a royal throne and there are seven these steps coming up to up the leading up to that royal throne and and every language that you knew if you knew 15 languages you stood on the 15th step the more languages you knew the further up you go is you approach the king and his seventy step throne so when you know save come out of prison he's got to speak to pyro so the measure says that the angel Gabriel came and taught Yosef all 70 languages in prison the night before and like a crash opined in 70 languages then you know safe goes to power and power you know says you know speaks him in French yes if knows it's takes up to step because every language pyro speaks there you'll see it moves up a step you know all 70 languages then you all safe gets level with peril and he looks at by Shalom elation and power doesn't know lotion Dakota is the Hebrew now y'all see if that's one language more in the King so at that point power made you'll say swear that he'll never tell anybody in Egypt about never tell anybody in Egypt about that he knows one more language than him he made him swear because otherwise they'll depose power would make yo say videos there's no 71 languages okay as a matter of fact just look at look very good look towards the look towards the in the next part to show you something around and the subject I in Tarsus by Fe Yaakov Avene who dies and he makes us a swear that he's going to take him to Eretz Israel so when you're safe he has to ask permission from pyro to bury his father in Eretz Israel to take a look on page in partial ap on page 24 yo safe appeals to pyro he says oh he has me any lamer my father invoked on me he nano if he may speak ev'ry I'm gonna die a shower a severe it's going on Shama Tikvah rainy that's where I want you to bury me my father made me swear I'd bury him in land of flounders what you'll say Singh to power the outside Ln of X ray V is ugly version I have to go there and bury my father and connect Egypt well Mary pero al late of course Aviva got Jerry's vfo parle says he has to go up and bury your father because he made you swear so the commentaries point out the power did not want your safe to leave remember Yosef comes to Egypt and yes it's good for the Academy yes if his Yosef is Yosef his strengthened powers positions also in your economy minister says I got to go bury my father in lion to clean I don't in Atlantic that we're gonna see you again you know I don't want you going up the Atlantic 9 so the measure says that part of the deal says no you can't go she says yeah but my father made me swear surprised as well then I guess you'll just have to break your oath so you all save says well if I break that oath then I guess I have to break the other row that I swear I wouldn't say you don't know 71 languages at that point process beautiful day for a funeral my favorite you know thank you God go right on up there because because you'll say because he'll see if it's worth all right so that's that's where you didn't know so you heard of approaches you know safe and it sounds like this now those are this brilliant awesome so facility get Co say that's why he doesn't want to say it and where everybody could hear he said still yell safe hey listen you got an interpreter all along there's been what's called a male eights there's been an interpreter between Yosef and the brothers does I understand something if if there is if you don't understand Russian are kotas yeah one or two things here they suspect Yosef understood anyway he says CL safe look he then again he doesn't know as Yosef yet he says if you understand Russian are Kurdish and you've been using an interpreter in order to deceive us to pretend you don't understand I mean just like you deceived us on that you could be you're pulling stick here with your with your goblet also and if you don't understand washing our kodesh then I'm just gonna go spread the word in Egypt that you and power there's the language understand then you're gonna dump the whole boat to both of you thank you so mostly Caporal you and power are gonna share the same fate all I'll do is spread the light spread the word that you don't understand all languages so at that point you know what you're safe does you can Kippur we never find yourself responding here all you'll save doesn't be that he reveals himself he doesn't even respond to this he doesn't respond to it all he does is immediately goes and revealment there's no response he's trapped once he's trapped that the game's up I was gonna have to reveal himself what's he gonna say if he says yeah I don't understand love should I go to see you dissol rinsing expose him in peril if he says I do understand laser cutter so then what are you pulling stick over here you understood all along so we're you troll can't intercept you what kind of game are you playing with an interpreter at that point you'll say yes it really has its hands are tight at that point you reveal themselves I don't need Charlotte as I would've let my Haitian come over you asked if we have a father vinamra allowed on the issue of Zhou cane we have an elderly father the illa de Kooning cotton and we have a young brother the aussies maces brother died in a yell save a busser lavato the email of avevo and he has remained alone been Yemen has remained alone and his father loves him and he says if we go up to our Father now and and bring him probably look at that bottom line of the page bottom line on the page the hayek hero Sookie aina an hour the mace if he would see us without the lad he will die the whole redo of the hearts I save us our vehicle you're gonna Ola I mean you're the saint he'll say we wouldn't even have a chance to explain to him that he's in prison as soon as he sees us riding in in Binyamin is not there we'll never have a chance I'll die in a spot I'll have a hard day by year it's a that's why this eye doesn't say we'll tell him he says the higher cure Oh Sookie in an hour as soon as he sees that to you there they be the younger that the young man's not with us he's gonna die it's not gonna have a chance for explanations over here we're gonna ride in Benjamin's not with us he's gonna die we're gonna it's gonna kill the man and therefore you two concludes he says how can I possibly go up how could I possibly go up without him okay so now that's the end of you it is appeal so look what Yosef does page 252 six lines from the top villo y'all call yo safely stop a clock on dates Lviv also cannot hold back he's already emotionally remember this is a man as his emotions are being toyed with but you Croats seal Cole Ishmael like get everybody out of here below a mighty she Toby's varios enough of no one was there when you also revealed themselves as brothers not a common theories point out look but yes it does hurt you know they're a bunch of guys bunch of guys are in there I mean how would you feel I'll just use accountable there's a Palestinian delegation that's talking to you there are ten of them they're big and they're strong and you send everybody all the Israeli security guys okay all security men out of the room i supped i want to say to them privately you're gonna leave yourself in a room with it with with ten palestinians with them Comus guys are in the room you leave yourself with ten comments guys in a room all israeli security officials out you leave yourself in a room you know hey it's not a great idea you'll see if he has ten guys who are not happy with him you know he's gonna leave himself alone you gonna leave yourself one Clinton came to Israel so Bill Clinton built when Buckland gives Israel so he was staying at the King David hotel so the Israelis offered to provide the the detail you know the the security for Bill Clinton so the Americans said no you know it's a pride thing you know we could take care of our own man that sort of thing so they take him to the King David hotel so they put him in a room and what they didn't know is there was a side door leading into that room did the Israelis all wanted to meet Clinton so the security guys think it's like putting him in this room security guys Clinton goes into the room the security guys are standing outside blocking the door the meantime the Israelis found a side door the whole crowd comes in and Clinton is crowded by falafel eating Israelis you know yeah and it took the security guys ten minutes to get through the crowd to get to him they lost them for about 5-10 minutes Eila which is a major a major foe by you know the security guys I know surrounded by Israeli so here you have I mean you got ten guys were around you and you're not to plea you know you know this is not why did you save do it because he knows that when he reveals themselves his brothers are gonna be humiliated I'm not willing to allow them to be ashamed of publicly not well yeah I'm not gonna let the me shame publicly so it sounds like this little yoyo safely stopping the calling something of micro ho - Colie schmear like get everybody out below I'm not easy Toby's varios a feels a lot of your safe nobody was there by eating s cola BT he cries Valley Shmuel me trying but ish my base power word already gets back to the royal palace yeah word gets back to Royal Palace now I just want you see we're just gonna hold it here for one second turn to the next page very quickly look at verse 16 look over 16 and I'm page 254 it's right almost smack in the middle debate a little bit above the middle of the page verse 16 it says they are called niche mob a that the net exceptional skill happens there's gonna be this revelation between Yosef and his brothers but the next thing we find out is they'll call Nisha Bob a spiral a more the word gets back to the house of pyro ball okay yes if you'll say his brothers have come by eat of Bane they probably know about of pyro and all of his servants the royal officials are pleased word gets back he'll say but why should they be pleasing yells their brothers have gotten to the land the last thing that pyro heard was what they yell say was crying remember over here it says you'll save cries and the word is heard in Egypt that has heard all the way in Pyro's palace word gets back tomorrow Yosef is crying the next puss look great next thing we find out about that is word gets back to the palace that USA's brothers have come in pyro is happy and his servants are happy why should probably happy very good very good if you you know think of this stuff for the riggidy and thinking it step further imagine you two president united states and also you hear that what's the name of the Secretary of Treasury Bernard burnick what's it in Bern Bernanke or Alan Greenspan he's the one I remember was a Jewish one all of a sudden you tell the president Alan Greenspan is in hysterics right now you're the president United States in your your Treasury Minister isn't it's there you know what happens in a market what happened to the economy you know you could and then some because it says well no it was all it was a family reunion it was he's crying emotion family word gets back his brothers are all good oh good yeah I always love those family reunions always touches warms the heart when there's a family reunion I mean how would you feel right say yeah what do you you'll see it's crying hysterically that's not a good thing you know this is the guy who's losing understand now look what you'll see those know let's go back to the ranch he says okay you'll say yo safe says he gets everybody out of the room and then he says to them like this pasa gimel biomerieux say feller cuff I knew yo safer Oh Toby hi I'm Yosef is my father still alive Villa Yahoo okay cause I know zucchini follow me part of his brothers could not respond because they were frightened you know he sold the guy 22 years ago and you've been talking to him the whole time and all of a sudden he turns he says I'm yes if father says Dan still life how'd you feel this thing you're face to face with the person who just sold and there's a I mean you know what kind of feeling that is you're face to face with the person you just sold when sometimes sometimes you you had a fight with somebody 20 years ago and also to a guy that's hi remember me Oh everybody has a couple of those moments in life everybody has a couple of those moments in life like hi remember me oh yeah everything's been what you've been to over 22 years yeah great weather we're having here in Egypt no I always loved that Egyptian weather you know how do you think it's swimming and now with us what do you talk what do you write here - speechless but they're frightened now listen to what this measure says the measure says alone only yo had in the word ie is a word and in math you find the word boy oh yeah is that just like an old an old Jew crossing I oh yeah good hot chicken soup you know that's that that's not what all years are you ever or Ivar Voight all right the medic there's a project that says let me let me avoid pausing admission he says who groans oi who wails avoid that's where we say oh you've a voice right who says Oi and who says whiter the putts ago I'd say somebody who who's involved in drinking he ends up hands up bruised you know he's that got all sorts of drinking problems the heads up going oh boy so the manager says hola know me Omar then woe to us and the day of judgment alone o me o my talk I thought whoa to us under they every buek if yo saves brothers could not withstand the rebuke of a king of flesh and blood how are we going to withstand the rebuke of the creator so the measure says there's a big question on that mesh a very big question on that my dress what's the question say again what the words in measure says if USA's brothers could not withstand the rebuke of a king of flesh and blood how will we were standing a rebuke of the Creator that's a bother you about this Damon what's that why are we gonna have a rebuke for various things that we've done I remember I remember I think I love eleven years ago about 11 years ago I spoke loshon hora so you know it's a you know I'll probably get rebuked for there he is the only one who caught that yeah you know we've all got our little accounting I've got our little calendar our little weak moments so you know if we if he they couldn't withstand a rebuke how are we gonna stand rebuked for him I go to the Oracle what's what's a question was it you should still be bothered by something about that mesh question is where did you serve rebuking it rebuke oh he just revealed himself he just revealed himself either gonna be good when's the bender says well just say yo sage brothers go with salmon tell me if y'all said brothers couldn't withstand the emotional turmoil so how can we withstand emotional turmoil of meeting our in-laws for the first time you know you know there said say something yeah why did it wait wait wait to talk about rebuked weird weird say worried about review what's the answer the answer is look what yes it says I need oh say for my yosef Oda because my father's still alive means you're coming and telling me oh we have to worry about we have to take Benjamin home our father will never withstand the shock he'll die from think I'm yo safe my father's still alive how come he weren't worried about it 22 years ago when he told me that the old man that our Father won't be able to withstand the shock that you're not worried about all of a sudden now you're worried about it oh so now you're worried and now you're worried about when it's good for you you're worried about it when twenty-two years ago you weren't worried about it that is the ultimate zinger and it's the ultimate it's the ultimate sting in life in general there's nothing being caught it's one thing if somebody says you know I saw you doing something wrong I say going after a pepperoni pizza you're not come on shame shame shame all right I had a moment of weakness it's another thing if he had quite a self-contradiction you were the guy who was telling so I saw you yesterday rebuking somebody for eating a pepperoni pizza and now today in the privacy of your home I just caught you nobody that's even worse busier worse they always catch these judges I'm from Chicago so sorry you know judges who who they rebuke the guy for being corrupted for being disapper being that then they find the judge has been taking bribes for twenty years that he's been doing everything alle every every every every every negative thing puzzle that's words you'd be quite this self-contradiction you're telling me you give me this whole heart to heart throbbing heart uh what do you call a a heartfelt appeal our father won't be able to take the shot convenient doesn't come home oh now you're worried about it and where were you where were you 22 years ago this happens to people all times because it was Ed's wife Ann saw you do the dishes I'm really tired I'm sitting on the couch reading a newspaper ten minutes later the phone rings he gets a friend says hey listen I'm you know we rented a gym we need a tenth man for the meeting we're having a five-on-five and also he's up he's oh honey where are my socks you know my gym shoe my oh we got energy huh yeah to do the dishes you didn't have energy right but they go play basketball which I arguably takes a bunch of boring they obviously got energy for that's the worst that's the worst that's where you've been caught in self-contradiction sometimes men don't want to spend money till there comes something important to spend money on you know his wife says I do you think do you think we do you think we need a new you know think I get a new sweater ten minutes later phony say I got a I got a deal on seats at the 50-yard line no kids only have money for well listen you know this is important you know let's get our priorities straight over here that that sort of thing say say you know all of a sudden people get caught that's so you get caught myself yeah that's the word that's what I could has work with us us that's what exactly the rebuke you and Austin you ask what's that reboot gonna be so a guy comes up after hundred twenty years ago and says do you know expensive you know I mean it's pretty steep eight hundred bucks or parrot filling 800 bucks repairs filling what's wrong that means little black boxes you know $800 yeah you got a brand new when you had a bearing and buying a brand new smartphone it's also a little black box they had no problem they end up around $100 right other do you get caught in a self counter what was important to you in life you know what was really important to you snuck up you didn't have money for but to upgrade your car every two years they you have no problem they have no problem upgrading a car and spending a few thousand dollars on something totally unnecessary because your Lexus works perfectly well right now but you know listen if I if I if I'm not in a turn on the Jaguar you know I haven't lived yet you know so you gotta go from Alexis to Jaguar if there's an upgrade I don't know if it's that I'm assuming it is I was actually in a Jaguar once in in England I was in the Jag it's a good car if you had my birthday is in August by the way yes everyone who everyone if you know depends what new car makes his way on market my brother-in-law just called me yesterday he was driving a he was driving a Lamborghini called my brother when Columbus is in the Lamborghini because did you ever hear there's a guy John Frank John Frank is a from guy who was a played on Dallas they all said to a woman the Superbowl he was a lineman and Dallas when they won the Super Bowl and they became from so he lives in Columbus money-loser my brother-in-law lives and apparently he's he's got a Lamborghini ask my brother I happen to be in the Lambo you driving his Lamborghini at the time so also you know you know it's for the birthday I think he used one too by the way Scottie Pippen had a Lamborghini Scottie Pippen hit on the other lever yeah I think $275,000 yeah yeah yeah you're their remedies right you saw your house and buy a Lamborghini or baby half of a Lamborghini never let me get that's the ultimate review the ultimate rebuke is you know an excuse is a good excuse unless it's not a good excuse and then then you're caught that's where the brothers cannot answer number one number two it says if you look at it one of the categories points out look at the words very carefully the low yahooooo below Yahoo I Cleveland oh so so keen Eve halloumi puntos they were they were frightened now me punim means before him right but literally what does the word me pun of mean in Hebrew from his face they were frightened from his face so they'd answers our question remember all along he was wearing a knee gyptian headdress seda can't even see his they can't even see his face according to some of the counties they wouldn't look at his face because it's prohibited to look at the face of a wicked person primitive to look in the face of a Russia and all along they've assumed he's an Egyptian ruler an Egyptian ruler has never been known for their fine we dose so they could assume he's rather than ever even look straight at his face all of a sudden he'll say you know pulls up pulls up the headdress and he showed I'm yo safe here I am fellas and they look at his face they're fright nose hast what are they frightened though so one one approach is you know you take a look at a person when you look at a person's face you know white a face is called punning one of the most ironic words in here Oh what is the word paneer paneer mean inside why would their face which is the most external part of our body the part of our body which is the most public what is it called the inside face is a reflection you could tell by looking in a face as a guy happy sad is he tense something bothering him you can tell by looking at a person's face where he's holding most of many types out all the time you tell by a person's face even more than that it's a reflection of your inherent traits it's all written on your face there are certain people that you'll meet in life you take one look at them and say well it has its attic there's something pure and holy about him look at a baby look at a child child up until about two years old certain purity in the child what do you know once he hits his teen years it's finished yeah but up until up until you know up it there's a certain purity an angelic purity about a child wise and gentle why don't you look evil answers because it just sees these periods a child is very very pure you start looking at adults there are certain people you take a look at their face you know you know this guy looks like it's a teak there other people you take a look at y'all I don't know what's gonna be but one thing's clear I will never lend this guy money yeah I could tell you at first glance huh I can tell you at first glance I want spoke to a businessman in Australia he told me he was doing yeah I was asking about his ladies an investor and itself I said Tim do you judge people based on your what they look like or do you work based on the deal or debates I he said to me a guy could walk in the room and I could tell by the way he walks in the room no matter what he offers me I will not enter a business deal with him just by the way to go I'm gonna take one look at the guy who will not enter business deal with them and therefore the Pennines they take a look at your safe he's got Sadek on his face this is who we saw this is who we sold 22 years ago good good that's that because because they were so consumed with jealousy that guns are comes in they're consumed consumed with jealousy and again it's at their level on a very subtle level but that's really what's underlying their entire their entire motivation as there's there's a certain jealousy of yo safe and that is and they could if we were there Austin they would have convinced us in 50 different ways he needs to be sold he would have convinced us he would have walked out of there you would be leading the sale they would have convinced us they would have every every good argument but the underlying it there's one slight bias a personal a personal bias what we call me Rodney Ghia there's a touch you are personally connected to it and that is pushing them in the direction we get we get we gotta sell this guy you gotta saw this guy now that there Doug Dan chuva they've done Shiva they're coming down they recognize we've done wrong we take all the real factors of the consideration okay we'll continue to randomization [Music]