Parshat Shoftim: Become Part of G-d's Benevolence Association - Rabbi Eliezer Zeytouneh

[Music] this is fellow chespin a shot show PT and there's one pursuit in this week's Paris I did a few focus on this pursuit and Eve internalize it and you delve in he try to interrogate after the true meaning of the puzzle it could change your life forever and that's what I want to do tonight there's at the gym already pursue can be found play cupid plus a good Kim I want you to what the bus look right it's a famous muscle one of the most famous blue team in all of Siffin divani the pursue Crites time MTA in my similar character you gotta be Tommy with what a olam you gotta be I mean with your master now a couple of questions question number one is what does it mean to be dummy what is the word that me mean that's question number one question number two is what happens when I am to me if what LM is charging me commanding me asking me to be at uh Miam in my life look and I have to realize ascertain what happens when I am coming and question number three is what is the lesson for me tonight when I go home today what did I gain if I just came here and heard a bunch of stories a bunch of jokes and I went home with nothing new to internalize in my life then it's all over I'm wanted boy don't brought me it tonight or we're watching I need the boot in order to impart upon me a lesson that I didn't know before so let's get started everybody ready what is the lesson Hashem wants me to learn so let's get started come session right so what does it mean to be a tummy sorry two of us she writes ready Tamim ta béchamel kita hits he'll live in more became a mood walk over Allah with simplicity with steadfast with the whole with trust we'll talk what a hot you doing don't go and delve interrogate try to find out what's gonna happen in the future a local Marcia voila like a bell beats me move rather everything that comes everything that transpires everything that happens to a person understand and accept it with simplicity always accept it with simplicity in other words a person has to be very careful not to look at harbor scopes right horoscope because you see they go to the to the newsstand they buy daily news they open it up in some is known case tell them what's gonna happen to them that week and people Jewish people also lalalina take a look and you look at these our scopes they wanna know what they're my cell has its toll for them if it's right you don't do that don't take a look at what can happen in the future don't go to necromancer's and don't go to magicians and don't go to psychos I mean psychics don't go to those people rather trust put your lamb and have full faith in a shammy para and understand that the minutes of the universe only has your best interests in mind that's what it means to me me I'm a similar character be complete be steadfast beyond shaking be unnerved be trusting of putting alarm and I want you to hi Marco those rights because what Allah says something phenomenal ready VMT a mash em Tamim if you're gonna be simple but L am if you're gonna be trusting a buddy alarm if you're gonna place your mu now and put it all up it's gonna be unwavering and you're gonna follow our chefs are exactly then what happens well your Salamis adovada you will never be missing anything you'll never be lacking anything you'll never be the link within anything you'll never be deficient than anything if you're totally attach them with alarm and subscribe to our shipping cut out and your simple buddy alarm without trying to outsmart gun without trying tell do Patil them without trying to outperform buddy all them but it's simple you trust you follow what LM says you trust me you'll never be missing a thing in your life you know you learn it from a Brahma be no lavash Allah Allah if you know had no children and I'm sure you went to met the doctors right Muslim went to doctors and you take a look at these in the astrology in the formation of the stars the astrologist old rama v no you're not having children Lali no you don't have the Finn we'll make up the composition the wherewithal of the ability to have children the doctor said it to him the astrologist told it to him then that co man just told it to him but I thought my field didn't listen he clunked him with alarm he trusts and I should be put out he didn't care about the futuristic and naysayers I Rama V no totally placed his faith and I shabby piranhas ladies and gentlemen if you're in this room right now and if you're watching on either boot please put in on the end for a second everybody put the other hand I can't believe you people actually doing this putting on yet are you there well if you're here that means that all those people were wrong all the astrologers are wrong and all of those prophets are wrong and all the sorcerers are wrong because I've had my veal did have kids because he trots in a bomb it doesn't make sense he wasn't supposed to it's not logical it wasn't medically are saying or there makes me sound occurrence but it doesn't have to be coz when you believe in whatever mom you're never missing anything you know I got to tell you great story when we had my first child share buddy my son I took a look at my wife and I said honey what are we gonna do with this guy where are we setting this kid to school what is she was should be good we took her right we took an accounting of all these healers and we listed all the pros and all the cons and we couldn't find that perfect yeshiva there Shiva that's going to fulfill all our desires and meet all our standards we didn't know where to go and what we're going to do what's gonna transpire what's gonna happen and my wife looked at me and said what are you worried about Marilla um gave us a kid well I was gonna take care of the kid she said let me tell you something when I was in eighth grade I had no high school to go to and sure enough lo and behold but ill I'm open high school that year for me to go to when I graduated high school and yeah I wanted to go on with my education there was no seminary for me to go to and lo and behold they opened up a seminary so I know in the bottom of my heart I trust what LM would complete me with blind faith with total trust then they're gonna open up a school for my son as well you watch is it honey are you joking me you think that the community's gonna open boat school Jesse a son she said he trusts boil up is it of course she said watch and my son turned two and a half and has he turns two and a half one day we're flipping through the community magazine and as we're flipping through we see there's an ad there's a great curl school and the head of that girl's school was someone that I hold it high if we go out and high esteem and on the bottom of that ad says introducing we're opening a boys division and my wife looked at me and she said I told you so I said great you predicted a good school could you predict a good job I right no couple actually predicted because when you have total faith in putting olam when you trust a Chevy butter when your unwavering when your unnerved when your unshaken you never miss a thing I'll tell you another story I was a Rebbe in a Shiva and as a I was a pretty popular Rebbe I'll add some students alike me and when I came to the administration we couldn't meet financially and I needed more money to survive and they weren't willing to give it to me and it was a very very messy divorce but we decided each one to go its own way and my wife looks at me and says I don't understand what are you gonna do where you gonna go how are we gonna make a living we have bills to pay I said honey you remember what you told me I bet our son if you're gonna open up here Eva you watch we trust him buddy olam you're never gonna lose you walk simply don't ask questions and watch up whatever lob is gonna open up the achiever first and the next year we open up achiever someone came to me says rabbi please do you mind we have high school can you open up an elementary school and that's what we did because we had unshaken faith and i shimmied baraja and that's what i want to talk about tonight tonight I want to talk about when it doesn't make sense when things are not logical when things don't seem like they're going to transpire do i waiver so I tried out so humbly olam do I try to find other means to fulfill my desires or do I follow up what alarms terms and conditions his rules and regulations because if your unshaken but I will always be there with you was it the opilio that's right cons of permits and he said like this in the topic of TV mood Vittoria left but there's a collie truth but I would be very careful never to be to go in the ways of chicanery I don't know what your calorie means in his deception it means lying I mean cheating when you're going and you're partaking in business upon us ah if you have real faith in Patel lamb there's no need to lie there's no need to be a you know a cheater no need to deceive you could do everything according to the playbook or everything going to the rulebook and reliable um did you never gonna lose you know I even got one time I was going with somebody and we were walking - doing through that sushi we're outside after we ate we said we cut them a zone before I beat and that's how walking around the guy comes and he shows off to me he says rabbi he'll never guess what I do for a living I says what do you do for a living he says I'm a jeweler I'm a rabbi nice to meet you right he says where were we but listen to what I do he says I think 18 karat gold necklaces and I sell them under the label of 24 karat I said well I'd like a little scare a big lecture is that great he said what do you mean I said do you believe in what LM was giving you a paycheck who's riding your paycheck Shammi piranha and therefore what LM says listen follow my directions follow my instructions and watch how good your life could be but many times we tried Alex smart but L am we think we know better we think we could outperform but L I'm weaving we could outsmart put it on we think that we have a better solution the problems that we face but we don't we don't have better solutions we have if we follow Patel I'm charged and we follow it an unwavering right because it's over me know if we're unwavering then let it survive a know exactly remember Elam is always with us in fact this is even if it doesn't make sense even if it's totally illogical I'll prove it to you since I've been Ibaka wizard who is great a bit about here a bit about he comes in he says like this vehicle Tamim PMS MLK car in my tart I mean tae my similar car if a person is simple if you're trusting if your whole put alarm then you'll be Wiz body of them even if it doesn't make sense will you learn it from you learn it from moisture Lupino what does it say by Michela pain was it the bazooka puzzle cried by shamim I don't I well Shayla Pino was there with put Oman where was he Hassan I have been with hearts tonight 40 days and 40 nights walk out oh man was it done ladies and gentleman how long take a survey does it take you when you're fasting to start getting hungry anybody well some people takes let's say I know ten hours then they start feeling the hunger pangs the hunger pain all right the hunger pains and they start to you know they get feeling pain and sick you know only takes me five minutes okay I finished my meal put in if my short the cartomizer wonderful five minutes later honey I'm hungry what's wrong with you I understand and I'm really John I can't honey please what am I supposed to do and then I get a heavy coffee addict how do you my head it started third what honey did you just drink coffee I know and I can't and eleven what the tolerate I'm gonna go another couple hours like this in my cell well up inna was uh pinch of mine for forty days and forty nights let him wash out my ah he didn't eat anything he drank nothing and he didn't feel those hunger pains because he was teeming with biryeo lamb he was wholesome with God he was unwavering and even if it didn't make sense it doesn't have to make sense because when your hole with Bordeaux mom what LM takes care of you one second the order let's see one maybe some manana by Jules it's a wonderful thing since you know there was once a rabbi let it be a brown fat down anybody ever hear of the rabbi to be run for town maybe rub Fidel was the father-in-law of Amavasya the father logical idea and to be a rum fatale as a child grew deathly ill it was very very sick his feeling was very very poor so poor they couldn't afford to have a doctor's visit and sure enough the neighbor was a very affluent family and they had a lot of money so the doctor came to go visit that family that child the Apple child and as I said he went to go visit it'll be around Fatah he comes to the parents it says listen I gotta tell you the chances are very very grim it doesn't look like his son's going to make it mommy no she's because in order for your child to feel better yes living up you have to be in a spacious place your house is very small there's no way that these small quarters are going to enable your son to remedy himself says well your neighbor your neighbor was a wonderful house such a spacious quarter says uni was probably gonna make and the rabbi says and guess what happened if you ever I'm fatale it didn't make sense but he survived and the neighbors son well they know the neighbors are pissed away because it doesn't have to make sense to me if I say I don't need you I don't need a doctor to diagnose what our lab is here no fear for my sorrow my flu I saw it it doesn't have to be logical if I'm unwavering of putting olam mom says I'll heal all your ailments there's another story Thomas idea we about a man named Senor de pecho anybody here a pitcher or a little bit zero no so I can make up the story good one second so listen very carefully senior deputy otto was a manager of a bank in Syria now if you want if you hold such a such a position great esteem great prestige and he met many many people one time there's a very affluent rich person who comes through to the pink and senior the pitcher cups he shakes his hand says please doll come here can I make a coffee he says how could I help you so rich man says what's in you know me he says yes I do says you know my reputation said of course I do since you know a man of integrity a hundred percent he says I need alone he says you need a lot of course we'll give you a loan he takes out a big application and he starts filling it out from mr. for this rich guy and as he's about to complete the application he turns to the guy and says ok I just tell me who's your guarantor the rich man takes a look at the senior Picciotto and says I need a guarantor I need a guarantor you just said you know me they said you know that my name precedes me he said you know I have a great reputation of a man of integrity he Oh need a guarantor how dare you you're offending me sonoda but Jonah says wait wait it's not personal I'm an employee of the bank and the bank mandates that anybody who gets alone needs a guarantor who's he guarantor the guy looks at the pidgeotto Oh angry agitated he says you know what God is my guarantor see no your patroller says huh if that's a guarantor no problem and he signs the loan and it proves them on he takes the money and he places it into a red sack and he closes it up and he gives it to the rich man the rich man now I'm late and he's so happy that he was able to outsmart the bank he goes into a field and he goes to feel over there and there's a carob tree anyone here know what a character is okay good it takes the the sack and he hangs it in the carob tree because you want to take a nap in the carob tree he takes a nap and he wakes up a couple hours later it takes a look muffy carob my feet three off you see nothing there he says she myself what happened to the tree he's looking around astounded shocked where's the tree and as he looks he sees a bunch of workers chopping down all the categories or the Caribes packing up all the carob to bring him to the market says oh my gosh what am I going to do she tries roiling after him and to no avail he wasn't able to get their money just one day see you know the picture his wife is walking by and she goes into a market and says you know what I want to pick up some carrots and that she's going antiquing look at the carrots she grabs a bunch and puts it into a big that brings it on and as she's unloading the carrots he sees a red pouch said she might sell out what's going on over here she's also husband husband says don't worry I got this he takes it he puts into his safe and then mr. Richman comes he says you ready to pay back your loan so then I don't have the money so let me ask you a question did you lose the money she's yeah as you know says were you willing were you gonna pay back the the bank that tell the truth there's really no says but how do you know that I lost the money he goes into the safe he opens the safe he takes out the sack of money and he says cuz your guarantor returned the money in life who's our guarantor who takes care of us who worries about us do we follow the rules in the terms of the conditions I'll put it out loud because if you do then your Tamim without asking questions and then putting Alam is your guarantor II you know I have a friend and my friend has a few medical conditions lovino and he had a few familial conditions and I remember my friend a couple years ago came up to me and says rabbi this is the year is here for what said this year I'm getting married do you have a single life for me to get married you have anything that you can do to get married if it was another I'm not even cabal I don't know all this is what I will tell you one thing in my shoe we have a history and that is that anybody who buys I tag me on our in my shoe that year he gets married and it's amazing astounding help every year hot dog me or not always gets married this is real boy I'm buying hot dog melena and I'm thinking to myself oh sure myself what happens if the guy doesn't get me I mean he has so many issues that he faces so many problems that he has what happens if he liked it I said listen he's sure you can afford hot dog no and I said I'll probably any price I know that if I buy that I'm Melana Hashem is gonna get me married I'm thinking to myself sure my cell first of all is gonna ruin my streak right everywhere gets married lose myself that's the way I sell it whoever wants get married upon a time you know what hold on a second and you don't keep writing it up and I don't know Anna and he buys it and now I'm shivering I turned to what li might say but L am he's your son he's trusting you please get him married ladies and gentlemen a few months later my friend got engaged today he's a father of a baby boy he still had those medical issues and those familial issues did not change but he's happily married because he was a tummy move Oreo Lama he realized all the problems that he had all the issues that he faced all the problems that were ensuing he said Patel I'm you're gonna get me married I said said you're coming with me you're never gonna be missing anything that's what everyone is all about wonderful and that's what I'm talking about tonight you know does he get mine ah you're almost a bit of court I don't want you this giving out wonderful sadly giving out like this ready the to pursue key the first possible cup that says look I didn't think I leave that at all I'm gonna take my greenery I'm gonna take my green pack only think my proto's back I'm going to take my stock back and there's another that says that's off topic and si you're gonna collect to the granary which one is it is God gonna take back his green his wealth his prosperity his affluence or are we gonna collect it says they coming out like I see ya can't as macho seen that so no show Michael calm is lunch ever seen this one I'll show my comb once talking about when we do a poor LM wants if we do it what LM want will always be able to collect the produce that we need but if we don't do what whatever I want then Portillo Lam starts collecting back his produce which means it doesn't depend on the Sun this is depend on the weather this is depend on the climate on our bill to the plant to feed to reap to weed the crops it all depends on Patil now and what put it on lamb has in store for us and the more we believe in what LM then what we're simple bear I'm the more we are still you put up the more we're fast in the Balaam the word when LM says your Tamim then you're in my club you know there's a pursuit how does it really work why does it work that the more time you my am them open alarm reciprocates the one boy LM was with me the more I don't have to worry that I'm gonna lose anything why does it work that way so I want me to a pursue can put a shot a kiss because of a Sukkah Paris I think was such a beautiful pursuit very carefully very very says the puss look like this hello it's gonna be if you listen it let me sweaty made of it with all these ordinances if you follow my commands if you commit and fulfill my men's would know I see Tim or Tom listen to the following words this Shamar of am I awake huh but LM is gonna preserve for you it's a bitty Twitter I said the comedy the deal God's gonna keep the deal and the kindness what do you mean the deal and the kindness what's the deal and what's the kindness what's the difference between the dealer God's gonna give you the deal and the kindness who one second what's the deal what's the kind what are we talking about over here and it's very possible that put it on me to deal with us and that is that buddy I'm says listen you do Mitzvah you get me wood that's a deal the moments what you do the more reward you reap that's the deal with the camera right socks are the higher I'll Malika there's no rewards in this world also do you perform all the great deeds that you commit you don't get paid nothing in this world so that's the case what do I get in this world what am i what am i acquiring in this world that's the best part I mean that we get in this world it's total that you deserve nothing because everything you deserve you getting in the next world you're not getting in this world the breeth isn't all I'm a bra the kiss it isn't a llama Z God gives you a said and if that's the case it's very simple if I want the pleasure from whatever I'm don't you think I should just do what Patel mom tells me without worrying without wavering without try to outsmart God or how to put all Dharma think I know better than I save it better what I love is the one doing the kindness he's the one who's benevolent hit all those generous charitable and that's the case that's why I have to trust that's why I have to peace that's what I have to me Cappy you know there is uh I don't know how many people know this there's something called the Police Benevolent Association anybody know what that is otherwise known as the PBA okay Police Benevolent Association you give a little donation and then they give you a card the Police Benevolent Association thank you for your card and every time you get pulled over right doesn't matter what you're doing think I could be on the cellphone speeding eating a sandwich in the other without the end he's driving with his knees go through a red light pulls you over well I sense a registration please happens to me once a week all right what happens you take out your license you take out the registration you take out the PBA card and you place it under the license don't put it on top because if they see it they won't touch it once they touch it that's it put it under see nothing see it he grabs it and then he sees the PBA card regardless of what you did he's kind to you and says okay just don't do it again and he lets you go unbelievable so I'm not talking tonight about the PBA the ladies and gentlemen I think that today we should start joining the HPA Hashem is benevolent association God's being kind to you how do you do such things very simple you can strive to body alarm you say buddy LM whatever instructions you have to be part of this fraternity three pilots Club do you part his group I'm in sign me up and if you do that it doesn't make sense just like it didn't make sense this jackets off it is enough to make sense but LLL do the one who's going to kindness you know do it you recall it so the circumstances that's what it means to be a Tamim because in our life if those doesn't make sense if we follow God's charge and we don't ask questions then problem says you're part of my benevolence Association you know two weeks ago I'll show you what I'm talking about cuz you always do that maybe those you really think we know better when he Ola and we try doubts about God so I'll take a great story to happen three weeks ago I got a text from one of the ladies that comes to my place thanks that's a wrap why I don't know what to do I said what's the matter she says you know there was a guy was offered to me and I don't think it's a match I took a look at all his credentials I took a look and I we did some research on its personality I know he is and I just don't want to go out with him I don't think it's compatible with me I said so how's that go bro don't go out with him sympathy is a problem I said really the problem with the problem what kind of problem he he said let me tell you my uncle called me up in my uncle told me the following words wasn't my uncle said my uncle said I cook your name and this boy's name and I brought it to rough time can you have ski well climb can you ask you check the names and he said that the name is a match what do I do so I looked at her and I didn't look at her I was on the phone and I said uh your uncle's a lawyer she said rabbi hides you know that well how do you know he's lying I see uncle must be lying and I'll tell you why listen to this great story so the ones a couple know went out and after they went out right he charmed her and she was charmed and he liked her right he was writing her poems and he put her flowers and he's writing songs songs or whatever this they finally got they decided to get engaged and before that they went for a blessing by Sony mokuba and they go into the mokuba's office and then the Cabal says okay just give me your names so the couple gives the names and the Cabal takes are looking observes and it concludes this listen these Dame's don't match I think you should just break it up yeah though huh the guys looks at the girl he says I guess this is it no of course not it no way doesn't it we gotta go to a kadal we gotta go hit somebody who do you go to so they did some interrogating some investigating and they found that there was a break a great guy Joel and Brock his name was a stapler and they killed they took these names and then went to the stapler and the way it works with his diaper is you write the problem whatever issue question you have and they showed it to the red line so they wrote down mokuba said these names don't match couple one says it's a breakup what do they do and they showed it to the stapler and the sniper takes a look at it he starts screaming who's this is not the Jewish way who we don't do such things we don't check names that's not how we ascertain whether it's a compatible couple or not it's not the Jewish way sohcahtoa and he was not happy got a pink appease he was out of peace and it starts right to calm it down and he wasn't coming down telepathy I should write away the I thought of the card live those in the mail I feel half an hour transpire of piss boy and finally he calmed down they brought back the couple and this type was saying go get married go get married and you're gonna live together hi Tim I'm ezel Zedekiah ma and that's what happened because we don't go check names I took I took a look at the text of the girl I said and that's how I know that rough time didn't check those names cuz her flame is a cycler son and if his father didn't check names he wasn't gonna go against his father don't go out with his boy when we looked for people he knows once a girl came to me and said crap why there's a guy up going out with I can't stand them we're about to get engaged I said I'm sorry I've heard many things am I could you say that again she said yep we're going out already for a couple of months I don't like him but we're about to get engaged I said sure hope that's not what happen with my wife right I'd understand I said why are you about to get engaged to the guy you don't like she said because I'm really scared that he's - eeeep you can't see the guy well how did I see then that's mine what if I lose - Abe what do I lose my bus shared what if I lose that person that voice I said let me explain to you something I said that voice leave that for Brianna you have to ascertain determine work out whether or not that person is compatible for you do you like him is he a nice person you see someone you want to give to for the rest of your life you see someone's face that you want to see every morning if so Miriam if not don't worry about the naseeb I'm telling you hey Genevieve and she broke up but look at that we try to help small mom but also there's a system what to look for when you want to get married don't try to outsmart me don't try to outdo me be Tamim be simple ladies and gentlemen until now we might have said things that you do know but this is my favorite part of this class Rochelle madrone Teddy grocery haha once brought out an unbelievable point he made a very pointed point anybody here I'm sure everybody here at one point in their life was on an airplane right or almost everybody ladies and gentlemen when you go on that airplane anybody ever interview the pilot so Sarah which aviation school did you go to did you pass the first time you think if I know um let me did you ever get a ticket in the air never get into an accident anybody anybody ever interview the pilot you're putting your life in the back seat why don't you ask anybody any questions from that pilot why don't you fabricate them which investigation forget the airplane we go into pers and I want to tell you Hoover's are wonderful people there's some very very nice community members that drive Cooper's but sometimes you walk into an uber not only do not know the guy you don't want to know the guy anybody ever interviewed the uber driver uh sir how many times did you take your driver's test you have a couple of points did you ever get caught speeding ever go on your cell phone uh did you ever drink while you were driving anybody why not we trust the uber driver and life is in the backseat he could drive as he wants without us doing background checks and the train operator anybody here ever interview anyone here ever know where they are trade operator is I have no idea where we is some time get off the trailer you I go to the person of that window I think you please tell me who the trade operator is all right could you do me a favor if you see him can you dump a sock over for me anybody ever interview the train operator a bus driver you're putting in life into these people's hands and yet we trust him so much we don't ask him any questions here when it comes to body olam who's that driving a bus or a plane or an uber he's not driving a car he's driving the universe he created the universe he's managing University he's both time managing the university in a very micro fashion intimately with every person why when it comes up with alarm we start asking questions it doesn't make sense where's out Timmy moot where's ability to just be simple but all them with ability to just trust for the alarm to place our faith in the only one who gives us our kindness is in this world why do we trust everybody else but the one that makes the most sense you know comes to all things regarding buddy alarm we started asking questions but LM God says I feel Thomas it gave us an Atari right I give myself to repose it to me and you'll become rich wait a second do I really have to give 10% what about tuition could I start the topic from the tuition the tuition got asthma I said what happens if it's not totally Marta well it's 9.8 percent of my heart saying does that work also can I borrow against my mom why are you starting to ask questions what LM says give it and the affluence will come it will follow why are we sorry I've seen questions well that's near Bipasha moqueca walk humbly walk privately walk modestly with Patel Lemmy creator and yet I know so many people who force their daughters to dress she myself in a very very non modest way because they believe that's gonna get them married quicker and understand what LM right the rule book God gets you married why do you think you can outsmart put it on what do you think you can outdo put it off where's it's any mood where's your simplicity where's your faith was he trust that is what we have to do that's what we have to hold on to that's why we have to be girded and by the way not only when it's easy I want you to pursue in bachelor klika because unbelievable pursuit listen very carefully pursue can Messiah comes and writes the following ready Llewellyn comes up I'm a venal I brought my vino is Baron he had no kids for all those years and put LM turned stuff I'm everyone says ready I need el shaddai hit a little if an i there to be oh you put it mom I want you to walk in front of me and be a tummy be steadfast beyond shaken trust me don't ask questions wait a minute l the cliff at night you know yeah baby I my daughter my little daughter so many years I just started walking a couple of months ago and how do you get someone to start walking so Pharisee take your two fingers right and it's you hold on to your two fingers and you walk back as she's walking front went right she walked so with you and you all the two fingers and then what happens it becomes one hand and again you walk with him mother holding your hand but now but a question know that they were walking in New Jersey and as we're walking my wife was walking in the show with my daughter and we're holding her in and what did she do let's go dance and she starts running my wife says go counter I said you will get all right and the meantime she's running but how is she able to run with such confidence you know how she don't we were right behind her she knew we were watching her you know we were protecting her even though she didn't see us but she knew we were right behind we know it's very easy to beat uh me when you see me when I'm in front of you when I'm holding your hand but you know when you gotta be tummy when you're in front of me when I'm behind you when you don't see me when it's not so obvious when the sugar came are not working out well the child's not working out and the job interviews are not working out and the razors are not coming in and it's not easy to pay all those bills I paid for my mortgage or buy your house that's when you have to be a Tamim when you're walking in front of God not one on you're walking behind them that's what it means to be Tamim when you struggling in life understanding the podium is watching you he's behind you and if you follow his rules follow those terms and conditions how is guides you'll never be delinquent deficient in anything in life that right a beautiful thing we said Oh every every Shabbat value my eloheem and it we Co but a lot of the myths of the universe ma what is it man so the key that right he that right if you take a look at the word they made it starts with the first letter of the alphabet olive and ends with the last letter of the alphabet tough and the mem is right in the middle hyah God was it was the first he's now he's ever-present via he's gonna be the last being in the world also what Ellen was is and will be he says we know that it Siddiq another shop are categorized but it seemed to letters Sadiq is called each time and that I Shah is commit a Shyam I feel the high aim can we meet him even when they are living they called then he said but those same letters Tommy stuff man myth is a myth is mem tough who wants a difference and says ah hey Dad it depends what is your priority in life a Tom someone was simple but it on he says I don't care about a limousine god that's it you're gonna take care of me I know that it's a breacher that says it I'm worried about the top first the top the future all about that's what I'm worried about and the man you'll take care of it put it over that's what a tom is he puts the tough first but I met Raja he focuses on this world totally ignoring the tough he puts them in first but in life we have to be Tammy Tammy de imagem Alocasia even and we don't know that what LM is there one second and it's very very possible that that's the mode of operation in the law that's the goal of a loom that's what I gotta do it alone that's my mission a little the mission a little is a lot to be at UH meme and I'll prove it to you and the person acquires Timmy mood that this year I'm not going down smart you I'm gonna follow your rules I'm gonna make sure that I don't try to to outdo you I circumvent you or avoid you or ignoring you I'm construing I'm subscribing I'm signing up for the HBA Hashem's benevolence Association and I'll are you gonna be with me every step of the way and I'll prove to you that that's what it was all about anybody who ever came to my place especially on Shabbat note that I like to use to utilize a certain methodology called miss pocket and I think I use the last week miss puckett i mean there's no zeros Toph is 400 miss pocket on for no zeros 20,000 is to no zeros well let's stick to with alou and let's do the Miss pocket on a little shall we Aleph is one ramen is three that's four valve is six that's ten Lamia is three that's 13 illumise pocket on 13 they didn't gentlemen let's try it with the word Tamim being simple trust think I put it on top is 4 mm is 4 that's 8 you there's one that's nine and then is 4 9 or 4 is 13 the steam is pocket honest aloo because the mode of operation the gold emission this log is to become a to me to control to sign up for Braille arms prevent benevolent association for his club for his group that they are not going to try to avoid you this year and do it my way I'm gonna sign up for your club and in order you're gonna take care of me even if it makes no sense how do we start this class ladies and gentlemen we said I needed a diva Dodie Lee I needed a diva ee why don't we say ladies and gentlemen hello I am a shoe shining we said that every rose how many pedal does it have 13 petals what do we just say the 13 that we give to God we said we have to give 13 to God and God gets 13 back darts and then it's 26 its rah ha Meem we learned just now that Amin equals 13 you want to know what the Rose is that we give to poor lamb in order for him to reciprocate and give us a ha Meem to give us youth give up kids to give us a year full of compassion of mercy of wonderful things are blessings what is that 13 that rose that we give him it's helping to me it's out being simple stop asking questions stop doubting the driver of the universe stop missing superfluous you know conspiracy theories and he's the director of the world start trusting I shouldn't put up the desired results are going to come that's the Rose that you give - in the needle Dodie God gives you back that Ruth and then you never will Shantanu vomit okay so he's a gentleman we do this every time last night we did it we do it again we give homework okay and that is and once you go home tonight we're ready in the fourth the third day the fourth day of savings already four days behind and I don't want you to take I don't know 24-hour accounting of you Timmy moot take it for our accounting of you Timmy would the first four hours of your regimen every day how much more of it I mean can we become I'll give an example like an example guy goes to sleep gentlemen and sure enough you said gee alarm tonight tomorrow want to wake up at 5:30 because I wanted me silly thought and set up at 5:30 and at 5:30 your alarm rings do I get up right away well depends do I trust it by silicon it's gonna be effective there Bob wants me to cease any court what I start asking questions you know what maybe cityhood to me maybe I'll start tomorrow well then do you trust put it on that what I'm saying I'm waiting to forgive you I want you to come to me I'm waiting to sign up awaiting me to can scroll I'm waving a protector we know you're personally aware subscription I'm going to give you good things I'm going to give you a good life I'm going to give you somebody where it doesn't make sense are you gonna get up at 5:30 in the morning when that alarm wings are you gonna see a bit of court on those foods I can remember to say I don't know four hours take the first four hours of your day and jot down text me yeah boy I found four things that I could improve this a law in the forest for hours every day and by doing that you're signing up what did the benevolent subpoena shadows benevolent association when evidence means kindness we're signing up for gems HBA and by doing that you'll never miss you'll never lose you'll never have any delinquencies deficiencies in the Italian life well let's get started tonight and was that the Sham by doing so we will be in fact and indeed have a Shanah Tovah oh me too I love that I'm in Romania [Music] [Applause]