Parshat Mikeitz: Yaakov Sends His Sons to Egypt - Rabbi David Kaplan

[Music] so Yaakov Yaakov sees that we'd spoke about how Yaakov sees that there's hope he senses that there's some sort of hope in Egypt on page 2 to 30 to top of page 232 they are Yaakov Kia chevre Burmese I'm Yakko sees that there are provisions the art-school translators provisions in in in me trying and Yaakov senses that this is where his deliverance is going to be from from his his life full of grief so he decides to send the brothers down sends the brothers down to Egypt but he doesn't send Binyam and with he doesn't send me to my Yemen with take a look at public dollars there's been yummy and I feel safe with young man yo saves a brother that means as his brother for brothel as opposed to the brother from another mother this is his brother or this is his brother from his firm it's the same mother Lucia Yaakov as if he did not send Ben Yemen with key I'm our penny Kareem to us and he said boy if I send them with maybe a tragedy will take place Yaakov says I can't son Ben Yemen with coz maybe a tragedy will take place so maybe a disaster the article translates as a disaster may be a disaster will happen so broscius what do you mean well maybe a disaster everything around the way to Egypt and forget your can there be any disaster near to Sorella what about what about over here it brings us an interesting subject so rachie says because the Sultan is mccottry DeShazo Saguna the satan prosecutes during a time of danger he prosecutor that means there are certain things that are considered inherently dangerous in life the you Mars's travel is inherent there's an inherent danger in traveling either the either they've travel so in travels by sea travels by desert there's the danger of highwayman robbers somebody costing him and certainly in in in the ancient world where you had large patches large stretches of uninhabited land that people travel there's lawlessness that's why the old days they call it the Wild West many Americans were settling the West there's there there's very little law and order so there's an inherent danger in travel travels because their travel brings a danger with it you know that the or says that the warthogs are different professionally or says merchants see merchants for the most part are righteous what you see see merchants you know we don't think that we think about your drunken guys you know you know while they're raising the masks you know says that merchants are ice upon him Ruben I see them most of them are Hassidim because it doesn't mean they're worse trammels they would blow off into the sea I said it means pious the rubra the the cuts up on him for the most part price you know why what's the danger you're off at sea they're often see so they're always they're always praying they're very connected to God they're great sources I'm you saying it's a joke versus you're very often see also there's a there's a storm at sea and the I once read do you know how many sea vehicles you see vessel sorry sea vessels they estimate since the beginning time to be the bottom of the ocean the various seas and oceans in the world how many sea vessels seafaring vessels are due the estimate to have sunk since the beginning of sea travel I think a wild guess 3 million 3 million I guess I guess since autumn hurry Sean I'm not sure I'm not sure who the first sea traveler was it wasn't Columbus they were traveling before Columbus but they estimated 3 million okay there may include you know canoes out in the island somewhere but they're a massive amount because it was a dangerous profession the sea starts to get stormy and people are lost at sea their shipwrecks all the time that sort of thing so so when a person's in a situation of danger there's a special prosecution against them it means if he be in a normal circumstance he's safe he's at home there then then there's one sort of way that that God relates them a certain way for lack of a better term when he puts himself in a situation of danger so there's a special key trick now we are not allowed to put ourselves in danger for no reason the president certainly not allowed to put himself in a state of fool in a foolish state of danger just for just for the sake of danger we're there the prohibits dangerous activities I like I says you're not allowed to do something which is carries an imminent life threat or an imminent danger of serious injury there are those how logical thirties who there are hollow healers they the downhill skiing is prohibited because of the danger of imminent death which happens or break I don't say everybody agrees with that but I'm just telling you where this could where this could uh where the certainly automobile racing auto racing or anything that carries an imminent imminent danger at least a high percentage a reasonable percentage of death or serious injury would be prohibited according to a llaha there is an exception that a person was allowed to do something for the sake of Pernod so for the sake of Pernod versus not engage in an activity which I wouldn't call dangerous as much as it carries an element of danger if one is not careful so for example could you become an electrician or a lineman you know the guys who work alone I don't mean a football linemen that's really dangerous I know but being an ax an electric lineman you know where you're working on line with high-voltage electricity if you're careful and you're cautious so then you should be okay nothing you know you if you're a painter and you're up on a ladder you should be okay if you're involved in construction you should be okay if you cook if you're if you don't do anything silly and you take the proper precautions you should be okay now excellence could happen and things could happen but it's that that somebody's I know I wouldn't look at it as saying a guy's an electrician if you get electrocuted much more dangerous being electrician to being a plumber I don't know any plumbers who have fixed the kitchen sink and we're suddenly drowned I've ever there are electricians well have you've been electrocuted that does happen now does that mean it's a dangerous profession I wouldn't say it's a dangerous promotion much as a profession that carries with it an element of danger if you're not careful so the Holika says that for the sake of pernessa you are allowed to be engaged in such a profession I remember in Chicago there was a guy working on the and the on the train track on the website called the the the L in Chicago Chicago we don't have a subway there's no they I think it and then the south side maybe it does but on the north side it's called the Ellis Island or elevated platform and there's a third rail the electric rail now you're there I said there you know don't don't touch the third rail so there was an incident in Chicago or one of the guys working on the on the on the L where I'm page 232 Mike there was a guy in Chicago was working in and the L on the El platform and he bent over one of the workers let me work is he bent over he was wearing a gold pendant he bent over it as he bent over the pendants warming out and hit the third rail right so that could happen you know that you know things like that can happen but that doesn't mean it's prohibited according to halakha be careful be careful so that it doesn't happen to you that's a lot but to go and engage in a foolish activity which is it's prohibited according ilaaha but person puts himself in a situation of danger then he can't turn around and blame God hey God why did you do this to me now you put yourself in a situation of danger what you're in a situation of danger there's a different way that God relates to a person it activates a certain meter a certain TRIZ a strict justice so Yaakov Ito says I'm not sending Ben Ellman with you I don't want to send Ben Yemen with you because I maybe something's gonna happen on the way down to me it's right okay so they come to Egypt and Yosef is the Joseph is in charge and then in plus Exide four lines from the bottom of page 232 by er Yosef SLV akhirin Yosef sees his brothers and he recognizes up now this happens in life all the time when you see a group of people you can start making our faces I've seen I've been involved I've been at reunions have been in situation I haven't seen people for 20 30 years just happened to me recently I saw some Ann's in 30 years and you just don't recognize him but when you see somebody else next to then you can start figuring out who must be whom over here and you haven't seen people others example to me numerous times and in Yosef sees his Brotherhood hope 10 of them they're in Egypt Egypt is a more we find Rashi and bere sh'zazz in Egypt they were a they were actually black in Egypt these are black Egyptian sauce on some 10 white guys all tall good-looking white guys come walking in so yes a recognizes them by East not care I'll lay him he makes himself strange to them via dabber eaten kosher he speaks harshly with them well you know where I'll land me I in Busta where'd you come from well yome roommate Eretz cannot aliciarojo we came for landing on to get food now ya'll say if it put out feelers for this he'll say if it said out the mentor says they did set out if you ever see ten guys coming in through any gate he anticipated they'd be coming down it's all haben admit land like egypt how does he happen to find these ten guys he put out feelers and listen as he heard that these Hebrews from the land of Canaan are coming let me know I want to meet these guys so they bring them over to yo say no the next posting look at the bottom line by yak Yosef is a hug you okay they've recognized his brothers they aim low he kiru they did not recognize him you'll see if recognizes brother they do not recognize him now why didn't they recognize him one of Rashi says cuz he now he has a beard when they left home they all had beards but he didn't he was only 17 and also Neelix got a beard so didn't recognize him other commentaries say well he you know between the beard and the Egypt headdress you know they're basically seeing of seeing a pair of eyes but but even more than that even were that the last thing in the world you're expecting is that this is your brother so last thing in the world you're expected this is actually your brother I mean you're just not expecting that they the brother who you sold the last time you saw him he was a slave begging you sold him into slavery he was begging for his life and you anticipated that you got and I'm saying you're saying in front of it means the ruler of Egypt it just does that make sense it's not it just doesn't it just does that make sense then in a deeper level what does it really mean heõs they've recognized his brothers but they didn't recognize him that means what you'll save recognizes his brothers and he's gonna have mercy on them he's playing this out for their benefit they blow he Kira they didn't recognize him as a brother when they sold him that means they they didn't see he sees them as his brothers they didn't see him as a brother they didn't treat him the way you should treat your brother they sold him there's a Yaqui oh yes he does I have named lo he guru now look what y'all save does buy you score yo see if it's like how long was I sure call on line yes every members of dreams and then look at the connection yes he remembers a dream so what does he do but yo Burrell a mere a gleam on time your spies LaRosa's air or it's bustin you've come to see the vulnerability of land first thing his brothers your spice you've come to check out the vulnerability of the land Ian the bender says they came in at ten different ten different gates for whatever it is this is first accusation why does he do that why is it the first accusation towards an brothers your spies what which specific decides are very good which specific defensive doesn't put them out okay and therefore what yes once you're in what you're accused of being a spy so the last thing you're gonna do is anything that is spy like I'm sure when you were in high school Justin and others I'm sure where the teacher said something like if I see anything gets thrown from that corner of the room I'm assuming it's you and then you just sit there you know you sit there like a boy scout for the next hour because you know that you can't if you move you're cooked if you know you if you're moved there certain people myself included who when there was trouble somehow the accusation always came to me I'm sitting next to the goofy is the next to the good guys in class there's there's trouble well why me why are you coming to me well you got a track record so so so so yoseef says you know the minute you're under the gun the minute you're under the gun you're gonna be on your best behavior especially where you're safe doesn't want them snooping around and blowing his cover and so so what's gonna happen is they're gonna go over to it some guys say hey how long how long has this guy been the ruler over here all they got to do guy say hey by the way ruler they've been asking about you oh I said you're spies you see that pulls the rug out from under the car under their under their feet right away now I'll tell you that incredible incredible measures the Midrash says what does the word irva really mean what is the word here of I mean literally airball everybody don't have you ever the idea air but air but means nakedness naked this so when it says they came to see the nakedness of the land when a person's naked that means he's vulnerable so the Torah uses that as voted he says your spies house they are to you to see the lands nakedness you've got what does that mean Fuller boys right why does it our nakedness so what idea here is one idea that all the cabin they say is that that at a deeper level you had to two major sins you have the sin of idol worship in the sin of immorality the source or the the root of all immorality in the world was Egypt it was incredibly immoral country and every what's called Orvis or it's it's the nakedness of the land it's the nakedness of the earth Egypt was a land of immorality that doesn't mean it was the only place of immorality Egypt was let's say the San Francisco of the day right you is it's the source of our it's the it's the the Amsterdam of the day it's the source of the morality in the world it's a root of immorality idol worship which land is the land of the root of idol worship is the land of Kanaan now there was immorality in town and there was idol worship in Egypt but the one that's really the power source of this energy in the world Egypt is the power source of idol of immorality Kannamma is the power source of idol worship you're something in the word canon the word land of canaan which is we're in Ayres Canal where's that land of Canaan I mean there's no exit katanas one of the sons of he's a grandson of not but what does that mean Eretz Canaan the Hebrew word cannon is related to the Hebrew word ha ha it's the same root no no I in Ha Na Kehna and hath knock off none ayan is the root none means submission it's the land of submission if submission is channeled properly in Israel who do we submit to submit to God if you miss channel that that the trait of submission so you're gonna submit who do you submit to you submit to idols so the land of Canaan was the land why is it why is it that we're if you walk into the old city in in an area maybe in a square mile of the old city you'll probably find every major religion in the world represented there right Islam Judaism okay got Christianity he got a Russian Orthodox he got Greek Orthodox he got Roman Catholic he got what did he call the Armenians every every religion in the world there's no coincidence that he get all these religions somehow gravitates you to teach you your silane they grab it like to the land of command it's a land that lends itself to submission submission like anything else any trait in the world if Trent if you know traits are something that we have it's only a question of how you channel a trait what's the stereotype of Jews in the world well we're allowed to say cuz we're Jewish you know and every time you're that group you could talk about yourself what is what is the stereotype of Jews how does the world see us smart for sure we are right we're what we're bookish and we're by Shirley right we're the book people it reminds them yeah we weren't the money why does the world see us that way because we are we are you know banking a finance of saving yeah Jews are into money Jews aren't the money no when just get money what do they do with I had a kid here once a nurse's math I was talking about his future I said well you know do your parents have money too I think he wanted to go to school I said are you gonna pay for it I said how you paranoid want to go to businesses are you gonna set up in it I said do your parents have money does VA says listen they're Jewish there's always a savings account somewhere you know oh yeah you know Uncle Harry set us up with something there's always a savings account Jews save their money what do guys in the NBA do let's focus on saving right Jews are always Jews are always saving their money are we saving their money so why are you saving my tastes are they very deep why are you save Jews save where I save you why do we save you see there's a trait that we have we have a trait our trait is to be focused on the future we're focused on the future if channeled properly which future should we be focused on the world to come if slightly miss channeled it's the same energy as the exact same energy where do we channel it we channel it into this world but what's always a focus on the future in this world we save for something that's coming later it's the same energy a Jew is focused it's always gonna be the same interview what's the stereotype of Jewish mothers God you could say overbearing pushing the pushy Jewish mother now they don't have to even be annoying about it they could do it in a very subtle way can be a guilt trip you look very few Jewish mothers push their sons to be truck drivers you ever notice that you're gonna be a truck driver one day it doesn't work that way it's usually either a professional symbol is that true you're going to be either a dentist or a doctor or a lawyer did the evidence or an accountant and no way a truck driver that is the Jewish mother no that's an energy that she has there's an energy to the story the Jewish woman is walking with her two kids little kids though she says hey guys hi ma'am how old are your children she does well the lawyers fives of doctors three that's the Jewish mother there's no question about it now what is that energy really meant to be used for it's been two boys Jewish mothers are gonna one way or another they gonna push they're going to push at the time of sorry may no they're gonna push they're meant to push their menfolk into achieving in the spiritual realm Torah become a Thomas Holcomb study Torah do mitzvahs get up for minion they're meant to push one way or another they're gonna push if they don't push this way they're gonna push you the other way why is it that Jewish parents are always so focused on education get a kid I've met kids who fathers fathers have businesses they're ready to the father could retire 20 times over kid is 20 years old he could step right into Tottie's business you know have to be a genius to sell shoes he gets all right into the step writing the business run the whole business where is he he's going to college why I have to get an education sure it's like you said user Jews are into the books if you channel the energy properly which books is it gonna be it's the ones that read right to left if you miss channel the energy so it's gonna go left to right doesn't mean you shouldn't get an education it doesn't mean it's sometimes you don't need college for the sake of getting your degree you don't need college for the education though we have an education we know what our education has meant to be it's always going to be the same chair the same energy it's going to come out one way or another it's going to come out okay so the the energy and aerosol is the energy of Hucknall submission one way or another in Israel you're going to submit why is it it's no coincidence the Bulge of a movement began in Israel didn't begin anywhere else why did it begin in Israel after 73 were desert about children people Jews we're coming back to their roots in Israel long before and much longer then it caught on and it spread to outside it secured our outreach organizations were you know why did it begin in Israel with such a rush it's a land that lends itself to submission it's a land that levels of the purpose in searching that's the land of connect Egypt is called an air vessel arts it's the land of immorality yoseef says lyricist Airbus words mustn't know this is really magnificent there's a meddra it says the brothers came down to Egypt and they were planning they had regretted what they did they're planning on finding Yosef and even says they came down to kill or be killed but one way or another we're taking us safe out here we're going to do everything if it means dying we're gonna die for the cause of getting you a safe out they said Oh save off good-looking boy beautiful beautiful boy business Poti fire has a crush on him everybody beautiful guy so they come to Egypt where do you think a guy like that would probably if he's still alive where would he end up was that in a brothel right exactly the bendrix says they actually went to the red-light district they went searching in the red-light district for Yosef and that's where they were found that's where they were found now do you know according to in world history the world history where did spies often go you know anything about French history where did spy spy they would go to the brothels because because the the right they figured they would get information from the ladies because the ladies were involved with and sometimes a lady served as spies and they would go to the red-light district because sometimes high government officials to spend time with the with the with the with with the workers the customers sometimes gave over government secrets so a spy would go over and speak to the ladies and maybe pay them whatever it was in order to get to get the information so now this is how this works out so nicely you'll see says that her brothers your spies and I can prove it to you leo says service or it's busted you came to see the nakedness of the lane yeah I caught you at a red light district what were you doing there you were there naked your spices or spies go all the time that's a yes its underlying yet no no no no and now he pulls the rug out from under them no they can't go around asking questions anymore now you all safe plays out this entire thing what is the entire purpose what's the entire purpose of this entire charade what did yo save wanted to do and that's a creative situation where there's going to be a fulfillment of the dreams so but more than that what does Yosef want them to do music once they hear it and their part there's regret there's remorse for what they've done yo say it says listen you're not leaving until you bring your younger brother down here and then he says the following this is a puzzle 69 lines from the bottom eight lines in the battle show who beat chemical send one home the e kakizaki chem you know bring your brother the at em hey uh sir the rest of you will be in prison you'll be kept in prison here the Mahanadi break a Miami system you're telling me the story you got a younger brother at home let's see if you're telling the truth so send one brother home the rest of you going into prison I'm locking you up till he comes back the email oh if not I pyro keep bragging of them then hey pyro by life of pyro I swear you our spice now go down to verse and then what is yours they say in Canaan at em if you are truthful IDL survivors write him one of you will be locked up keep him as what's it called that ransom what's it called a collateral I keep one of those collateral there are ten look who love you Sheva album go take him what's the call there's another word we take a hostage I think one of them hostage and the rest of you go home so what does he uh safe do within three pursuit could he changes from you'll all be locked up and one will go home and he says you know what one of you will be locked up all of you go home why does they've do that now we do save to the think to yourself here yo safe what do you also do that trying to make it easier for the brothers what's he trying to do show them yeah yeah but he they also they call convinced a father okay okay could be good me okay you'll say you'll say oh very good usually the commentary say ECL so he wants to show them you can admit you could change your mind unless you couldn't make your made a mistake you know I thought that I would lock up all of you you know I even I who am an emperor I'm a king I'm a Viceroy in Egypt I can make mistake I'm not I'm not I'm not infallible you know I thought that was a good idea I changed my mind I'll only keep you one of you here this is all to soften them up to get to a point where they'll be able to then admit you know oh you know what maybe we shouldn't have done that so he also sends them off and on the way home he fills there he does this whole thing to frame them you know what do you call it the he puts their money he puts their money in their sex now this is a very interesting insight in human nature what are they one of the commentary says like this I'm paid to 36 they're on their way home and then valve taka Akkad s Sacco one of them opens up his sack las seis Obispo laka Marber Mon to feed the donkey in their hostel where this thing at the hostel he takes out flip the sack because gotta feed his donkey vrs Kasbah vnav PM taco his money is in the top of his money is that his in the sack he's got his money he's got yeah but he paid for it now his money's back in the sack by Omar luck off he says his brothers who shove cast me my money's big given back their guy me name back I'm Takhti it's in my sack you they no they didn't take it there's obviously a frame-up but Yates say leave Bombay after delisha Luffy's they get they become afraid lay more Mazo so silo kimono what is God done to us what is God doing to us so they're nervous and then they go home and open up their sex they see the Mormon everybody's got their money back I mean gentlemen what would your reaction be if you bought a product if you bought a new washing machine took it home and when you open up the box you saw that all the cash you paid for it was back in the washing machine who made a mistake I mean if my first reaction is oh good money money makes me smile first my first oh good maybe I'd give it back maybe I wouldn't give it back I'd start thinking about what the halacha is what the hell laka says do I have to give it back you might am i obligated to give it okay could be but first thing is hey hey money hey money who Rosie you know what we got our money something good happen oh oh there's our reaction in life is when something good happens yeah yeah something good yeah how do you know it's good for you there's an expiry of ursa it says oh sure genre the Battle of the row so wealth can be maintained for a wealthy man for his downfall I know two wealthy men and of two cases of two wealthy men probably more one in Chicago one in Mexico two very wealthy Jews one hand in private plate the one had a private was in a private helicopter and both of them were killed when they're in their vehicles when the wealthiest man in Mexico wealthiest from man and melted Mexico was killed with his wife and a son and a daughter in law in the helicopter and I managed your cargo who is wealthy man he had a head a what he called AE at a private plane he was killed with three grandchildren in a plate a friend of our families three years ago and I remember thinking you know how do you know that wait wait the blessing that you got is so good for you maybe this is the blessing that's gonna destroy you how many people I know got divorced because they made a lot of money people who were happy people they ended up getting the word they made a lot of money they just freaked out because of the money the husband's usually the husband fault always the husband for you got all the way just to not handle it he just ruined him Fred you remember Freddie Prinze you remember Freddie ever hearing Freddie Prinze with Chico and the man on TV it was he Freddie prisoners was it was argued Chicot in the man it was like there was beck anemic in the 70s Freddie Prinze was arguably the funniest guy that I've ever seen on TV other than Robin Williams as far as as far as improv are you very prison was 21 years old he was good-looking heba's on The Tonight Show he had his own show it was doing great no one's really Freddie Prinze killed the committed suicide and he left the suicide notes the notes that I couldn't he boy it became a catchphrase am i me and my friends well we were earning minimum wage working a job loading boxes on a truck we look at each other I couldn't handle it right and everybody says you know bring it bring it bring it bring I'll handle it I'll handle it you see these people are thinking a handle it wouldn't be wouldn't been you know so why is he committed suicide because you don't know you look at the blessing sometimes it is a blessing sometimes it's a very big blessing I don't say no but they're telling you keep it in the perspective we found money oh hey what is this gonna do to me now what is this money gonna do how many families have broken up many families have broken up specifically when they came to money they broke up you don't make families have been closed the father the patriarch of the family dies and then the inheritance fights and people stop talking to each other for us their life you how often in heaven after they happen because something good happened how are you how we're gonna divide up the pike do you know my mother-in-law and I once in Columbia are in Ohio we're staying in Columbus and they had their house state lottery they have like that Powerball so I think was about 80 million dollars so my mother-in-law and I decided we're gonna go buy a ticket together all right we made sure my wife didn't find out because she wouldn't let us buy a ticket so she's okay dumping you go out and buy a ticket when my wife was Russians go out and buy us to take it we'll split it so I said they're okay how are we two million dollars like yeah I said how are we gonna split it she said what was split it five ways because it was three ways because she's got three children and she got to buy me I got two brother-in-law's and my wife said we'll split it three ways I said uh-uh we're splitting it two ways you know you do what you want with your half I'll do it or invite him we already fought over the 80 million dollars that we never had so I never bought the ticket right because and there's somebody out there with my 40 million dollars right now could you imagine okay so we we thought we had we couldn't even agree how to split it we didn't have the money can you imagine what happened if you had the money so that's about the tourist I keep it in a proper perspective that's a tourist teaching it okay now take a look there's another life fundamental over here they go back and forth then they come back to Egypt and at a certain point they find skip on ahead and they start wondering why is this happening biyo Boresha look they sent each other a volley Shamy Mahakala we are guilty Allah he know I share a note Sura snaf show beasts on an orally no we are guilty regarding our brother they're talking to each other now we're guilty regarding our brother when he pleaded we saw his distress when he pleaded Veloz shimano alkane bah Elena rots Arles that's why we're suffering right now we're suffering right now because we were told we saw her brother pleading for his life and we didn't have mercy on it say commentary say the commentaries say they didn't say we did wrong you know they didn't around say you know what we made a mistake we should have never sold it it's not what they said they didn't say we you know what we got this you know why we're suffering now we're suffering now with this these obvious these trumped-up charges we're suffering now because we sold our brother when they have been the logical thing to say that what they said they never admitted what we did wrong they said we're suffering now because we saw him pleading for his life and we didn't have mercy that means there are two things in life there two there are two levels of mistake there's an inherent mistake I judged wrong I made it I made a mistake in my judgment there's a second level of mistake I judged correctly I judged correctly but you pleaded that's a new level it's one thing that if a person I you know I punish you guy says ok he goes off to prison in Judaism when a person begs and pleads we're meant to activate it doesn't mean to be foolish it doesn't mean just a free a guy who was murdered and that sort of thing but there is another level of consideration when somebody is begging somebody's begging so we've had this we've had this in your Shiva I've been initiative where boys have to be expelled for for doing things that are simply not acceptable in each ship and they brew another boy there are situation we just have this to the other each of there's a boy who the entire administration agreed this boy has to go boy yes yes the best to be expelled from the issue that's unfortunate you know the famous story about a boy who did something wrong in you Shiva so the receiver says we have to expel them from the issue of it so the mother comes to the Russia ship and she starts crying Jesus please keep my son Indonesia if you send them out each other who knows what's gonna happen is was gonna go and Shiva maintained his should maintain the stands he wouldn't he wouldn't Bend so they came to him they said how could you how could he turn down a Jewish mother who's begging and crying their son should be kept in the issue of it so he says because I pictured the other 200 Jewish mothers who would be crying if his son did stay in the issue that's a difficult thing to the side it's a very difficult thing to the side but we just had a boy in are you Shiva who for whatever reason was that fitting in the administration had decided yes to leave and I came back to Jimmy still there so I said to one of the I said to one of the other teachers or the why is why he's blown he's still here is that he begged you begged that's if it when you beg you show you cared you begged we have to activate a certain a certain a mercy for somebody who's begging and pleading so yes a brother said yeah we're guilty we did run we're guilty on the other hand on the other hand were were it you know which we should have bent a little bit once we see him plating how could did you turn down somebody who's crying now this applies in other areas of life by the way waiter they're there in Jewish in court in Israeli secular law by the way you have to show remorse in court if you show remorse I think it works in American courts also if you show remorse for your crimes they they go there they're more lenient on you which I never understood because anybody could fake remorse but being that Israel is with Jews and Jews won't show remorse unless you're really remorseful you know so they get a look at a Jewish guy who eyes who shoots up a bunch of Arabs and they'll take in the court you know and as they as they okay are you remorseful I'm not remorseful at all I just wish it was more of it you know and oh they'll totally you know they won't they won't Bend an inch how long could recognize it I love to recognize that person is remorseful person certainly he's begging and pleading for mercy then we're supposed to activate a certain degree of mercy now the parsha ends this is where we're gonna pick it up tomorrow so show the parsha ends with yo safe again frames them by putting his goblet in Benjamin's binyamin's what do you call it he puts the goblet in minions bag and the brothers are going back home and they open up the bag there's been Yemen's got the goblet yosef sends somebody to follow them I'm missing my goblet and they open up all the bags Ben Youngman is the one who's caught with the goblet so then Yosef says to them at the end of the parsha you hooda steps forward now you're just taking responsibility you heard of steps forward and Yoda says listen you're right we should all stay here and be slaves you've caught us and you had his line when he says the others line is listen the law is if you catch one guy with illegal contraband catch one thief with something that he stole everybody in the room is guilty there's a law if you're in the same room as the guy who stole or the same car so this guy's a car who's got drugs and you're in the car with the guy who's got drugs your your die your down also you're part of the group so Yoda says you're right you caught us you caught the whole bunch of us you caught one of us with the stolen contraband it was a group of 10 people a whole other Joe's you go to jail so what did yo safe say yes they says no oh look at the last last line page 248 page 248 yes it says but yo mercifully lowly man says that heaven forbid I couldn't do that ha yosher neat saga via the other the man who's got the good the what he called it the the goblet whoo yeah Liev it he'll be my slave got to Emmylou lishala malavita you go home in peace that's how the parsha ends we'll pick it up tomorrow with what triggers off you hooda at this point why you hood of steps forward [Music]