Every Child is Unique - Rabbi Dovid Goldwasser

[Music] just this morning I went to a simcha and the father brings over to me his young son a cute little boy and he says to me Rebbe please give my son abraha he's been having some difficulty in school he's very well behaved but I don't know if he or she was going to take him back in September could you please give him a Braco I cannot tell you that it tear didn't come to my eye when I gave a brother to that boy so cute so deserving of a Torah he knows the whole ball nicely muda a sham Hashem you smile says that every child deserves the Torah she knows all children are different we have to find a method we have to find the mahalo according to the child's nature is clueless on FS we have to be able to give them a Torah education that is our obligation the great rebel Conan Wasserman this is technically raka once said why does it say ever kokum Assad Russia fo Tom as much a Daily Show one is the wise one is the wicked sensible Colin because why does it say one to let us know that each of the children have to be dealt with in a special way according to their nature according to their konasana fish and he gave over the idea that there was one city in Europe and they sold only one suit size everyone that came into the store had to fit in to that suit well there was some people that came in and the suit was swimming on them there are others that came in and they could hardly fit their arm inside of the suit and when they put it on they were busting out of it oh there were certain people that were able to come in and they fit right into the suit and they just walked out however it says about Kannan those that had this themselves into the suit when they're going to go out and they'll bend over it'll turn this way the entire suit will split in ripped and that will be a youth at risk try to give every child this he know on their own level not one-size-fits-all every child is different well it was very interesting and one of the outstanding achievers there was a class and the class was labeled those boys they couldn't learn rowdy bunch not able to do the work they were always interested in having a good time one Rebbe came in and tried to teach him that year he lasted about three weeks and then quit on the job the next Rebbe came in and he tried with four stronger and he left another Rebbe they were going to give up on the boys they were going to send them all out however they decided to give it one last go a young Rebbe in experience a Rebbe who had a drive for Torah he knows who understood that it takes the heart in the mind to be a revi of children and what did he do he came into the classroom and they didn't say to him one word about the class or about the boys they didn't warn him they didn't tell him about the danger of that class he went in they put it on the top floor they wanted that class away from all the other classes and the Rebbe started to teach the man I thought the first day well the Rebbe is going to come down and say how could you give me these guys these are not boys that can be taught but he didn't come down then I'll didn't go up to look he said leave well enough alone about the second day curiosity got the best of him the minal came up and he looked through that little window in the classroom door and he sees the boys in their learning in despair him are open and the children are following along and they have an excitement and the rebbe use asset question and nobody is talking out of turn and so it continued day after day and the Millau could not believe it the principal didn't know what is the magic of this Rebbe what is he doing as a teacher what's going on in there it came to be the end of the class year and the Rebbe comes down to the manila office and wishes him a good summer in hot glow Corrado the minal says I've got to ask you a question how were you able to teach these boys how are you able to maintain a proper classroom how are you able to develop them that they should actually learn huh the Rebbe looks at him in disbelief I don't understand the now you gave me the top class you gave me me to your name they were all the best the man owl said what do you mean she said when I saw the records in the beginning so I saw each name and one had the IQ 116 117 118 you gave me the best in the world what did you think was going to happen then I'll said that was not the IQ numbers that was each one had a locker number that was the 115 in the 116 it all depends how you look at the Talmud it all depends on the heart it all depends on the mindset it depends on our ability to get through to the hearts and the minds of the young charges the great magician wagon once said the gamma tree of our life in the gamma tree is in the miracle equivalent of rods secrets are the same the one who understands the secret can bring out the light [Music] you