Did I Marry The Wrong Person?

About 6 months after the wedding, either he or she, sometimes both, wake up one morning and say the words "Oh my goodness. Oh my gosh. Oh no. I made the biggest MISTAKE IN MY LIFE. I MARRIED THE WRONG ONE." And it's not that they married the wrong one. The infatuation wore off. And then they discover that the person that they're married to is not perfect. It's okay. There are a lot of Milas. He's also got some shortcomings. She's wonderful, but she has, you know, sort of things. And I believe this is the first really dumb mistake that very smart couples make. They mistake infatuation for love. Infatuation has a shelf life. Infatuation is the husband looks into the color's eyes and he is gone. It's automatic. It's instant. It doesn't take work. But it has a very limited shelf life. 6 months, a year, but that's it. Then it's gone. It's kind of like the sulfur on a kitchen match. You're supposed to strike it so it flames up, but then the wood has to catch. The job of the couple is then to work on the bond of love, the bond of respect, the real connection between husband and wife. And many, many couples make a fatal error early on in their marriage. They wake up one morning, the infatuation's gone, and they assume that this is it. And what they fail to realize is this is it. It's time to get to work.