Challenges in Outreach - Rabbi Avraham Jacobovitz

[Music] okay I understand the topic today is about triumphs and trials in Mallen they killed something along those lines what are the answers you know usually answer questions with a question and the truth is and that it's all a matter of perspective just an introduction you know different people have different views and everybody of course presents his side of the story but I've learned it's a matter of perspective you know one of my favorite stories about this fellow who up in the morning in Brooklyn and got into the Belt Parkway the only problem was the enter through the exit so you open up the radio and there's a helicopter that reports on the traffic patterns so here's the following announcement ladies and gentlemen on the Belt Parkway watch out there's a meshuggener going the wrong way this guy gets so angry sees one meshuggener look how many Michigan's all going the long way yeah so it's it's a medal of how you look at things a couple comes to merge counselor I'll start so my wife is great she's wonderful she cooks she bakes she's a good mother so what's wrong she's very baby there's a generic statement to the house at your house how do the express itself so the guy says counselor okay I tell you every single morning she steals all my toys right so where is the power anyway no why am I saying this because you know sometimes I hear ridiculous statements and claims there is that claim that he was because of a million million people and if you take the collective claims of all the organizations that are AIESEC that busy with him you just wonder what my share is not here yet because class or they achieve it twice not once come to the numbers so you have to tell you the grain of salt we have shop real-time relatively speaking to for the depth of this topic so I'd like to really stick to as they call it here tactless everybody knows there are different approaches to to kill you can compare the approach let's say of Asia tour tour Samara not Lubavitch to Belgian and blessed live another all you like it's Hawk everybody has the own Mahalo and again you can hear so many different ways and as long as the legitimate in Baja no problem I can only speak from my perspective and the approach that we took in Michigan Midwest and then involved in in college campuses throughout the states in Canada was going really a way above the speed limit so cup stopped apologize of the United States Sosua success Allah says in Canada yeah anyway so okay so the the groups that I personally was involved in the organization that was involved is basically I would say students of all kinds of backgrounds primarily I'd say over 90 percent form conservative all atheists or humanist whatever a small percentage of more religious students still we also dealt with professionals young professionals that we used to have launched an ounce we used to have in hospitals for Jewish doctors and in law firms downtown Detroit and in Birmingham Michigan different places where we had lunch an ounce for unaffiliated professionals of course we had also older ages but the the target groups or those target groups there's another group that I worked with in the past to some degree and currently more than recently and that is the group of [Music] questioning Jews who are really officially religious but they have a lot of questions kids at risk or like now I work with but if anybody knows you know - the Air Force Base is never team had survey manned places outpost next to Asda and it's an her name with the lady and so on over there obviously the kids come from religious backgrounds but believe me they need no less help than those who come form it sometimes even more those who come from not religious backgrounds okay after this introduction I really would like to focus on four points in the process of Kiev in the process of again it's it's a bit difficult for me to know that it wasn't specific topics that the other speakers spoke about I hope I'm not repeating things and going all the things that were not spoken about well it was poking about okay so the first thing point number one is the creation of interest I mean you come to a community you come to a college campus and you have to create interest honey create interest right number two is once you create an interest you have to understand the audience there is a tremendous difference between one audience and another class sometimes you can have similar to but this Manish day and item in the Army nowadays I could tell you I have a group I called group gimel bet and Aleph I don't want to say which group is my favorite but group game L are soldiers that have zero interest and not happy with themselves and they come from very difficult backgrounds level two is in between they come from a little better background they also join more better units and you can talk to them sometimes they are childish but it's distant then you have the highest group which is the elite units Honeyman others they really is a different volume intelligent interested questioning and you can have a very intelligent conversation and discussion so again you have to know every Jew is an entire wall that doesn't make a difference whether is intellectual or simple over but as far as the individual dealing with that person you need to know who is dealing with or else you're gonna go the wrong way so much mat once itself was asked once fellow he says Shalom we all know that yeah yeah the big Talmud Holcomb Sean Ford on Clinton is a this Chavez choice Malcolm Scholar so that's them but when you speak you speak so simple and you know mashaallah my seller thinks in Yiddish they say surpassed nation you know it's below your dignity why you do that they said I'll tell you what say not so long ago before they came out with the blueberry tasting Tylenol and before they had all the all kinds of flavors the kids don't want to take medicine unless they have the right flavor remember when I was a kid hearing as well I grew up thing medicine was bitter sometimes very very bit less bitter since the mother wants to give the kid the doctor said needs the medication but that's the one spits everything out so what does Jewish mother do a little story tickles it why these laughing but you put the medicine dip in there slowly cantaloupe you said that's what I do I got a tickle them you have to take a limit I my cell ever the stove is something interesting and then I can put the medicine in between and I think it's it's very true especially in the smartphone generation which again I in the beginning of right now it's seven years since I left it got much worse as well as the problem of attention and attention span and so on okay so again as I said before I want to share with you some practical advice and experiences first you know generically speaking you have the food after food that was my policy from day one I don't remember him at any time that I had a program without food hey cuz I'll say get the La Liga majjhima collaborated a lot is nothing I always said that my wife's chalant made many mobile children and all my daughter's put together this is nothing like something really it's two people really relate also they open up cuz I'll say ecology myself but the marshal to get interest again I'm speaking about in early days today the situation is a little different and you have to ask people are currently on campuses because the the the intelligence level and the interest level really vary from campus to campus and from place to place one of the one of the people on campus who I used to go on the west coast to speak quite often you know confessed to me says the lately he says that most of the people applying on are Jewish for by legally a logically the not Jewish it's a huge problem it's certainly what I'm saying is this the audience's change and you have to always you know understand who you're dealing with but it's file in generically speaking how do you pick the interests of those fields against it varies from one audience to another the mercial on college campuses but Allah is to choose a very provocative topic and people responded to it you know most the killings things intermarriage intermarriage I always say the full house every time I used to have a whole play I played out my name is John and and I am the victim of my mother's you know race is more bigotry whatever you want to call it and she doesn't want me to marry my lab partner who is a wonderful Gentile young lady so and it was all dialogue but things like that really will always come out came out always had a full house when we spoke about those things is to bring in speakers you know famous speakers from other places things like that that's obvious I think it's quite obvious for while we on campus when we felt that needed a little bit more firm involvement so week we had trivia games games for money who wants to make a million dollars or the famous thing so who wants to make whatever it was and it was a tremendous thing cause it kinda was very exciting I mean people ran for the money and also it gave us an opportunity to show the kids how little they know about the own heritage my favorite things I used to do I used to ask him I said tell me does anyone here know who Moses's mother was I ain't much emotion I mean somebody says I think he was Miriam I see a very close call but I imagine 50 students and not one of them really knew who the mother of so then I asked him a second question I said tell me does anyone know who Jesus's mother was the hope was Mary I didn't I waited for about two minutes silence I said just reflect about what just happened now you know about the other religions way more than you know about and they were shocked you know so sometimes you have to use shock treatments in order to awaken them when I used to want to awaken parents I have on a video and Machine State University David ben-gurion said David who they've been doing so David McCoy human no no I said don't be going on never heard of him I showed this video to the parents mainly they don't know about Marina Bay no no no that's a gate that's already too much okay so so again you have to use you imagination you have to use your creativity in order to arouse the interest I have listened in France I had the export for conferences about thoughtful rabbi so friends I told them you know if you're dealing about but not not for people FMS ism you feel on me Schmidlapp Mitzvahed how do you move them what do you say so again I'm just mentioning as a topic for discussion because it's really very interesting there are ways to do it it's not the form here that that have the luxury of time to do it but just I don't think what we try to do and function that was very very successful and actually thanks to the Wolfson family because it wouldn't have happened without him but a little bit first did it myself and my staff because we used to get a lot of students involved for one night then he wouldn't see them for half a year at one point we had 250 students but I think I move it we took one not two not to registration yeah but it didn't so I was thinking what what is it what's the problem here why did they seem to like what we have to say but as I said you need consistency so I said with the staff and we walked it out came up with the idea of I guess we used to schlep kids to Israel used to bring a lot of group service or from the state college campuses I said wait a minute financially doesn't make any sense let's let's combine all the powers and make a solution out of it so we came out with the following challenge it's called Maimonides Jewish leaders leaders fellowship ever heard of that Maimonides no okay so the my mother said it was very simple I had a group to the Federation of the toys and every year interns they came to see the Orthodox side of the story used to be like half a day a day and I provided them with all kinds of things experiences to the kosher bakery [Music] no single well so one one day I asked the guys in a sense the middle of this summer it's hot your friends are on the or whatever all over the world why are you doing this so beginning paper okay so we have the idea and we said that we're gonna give every student $500 cash if he or she signs up for ten weeks of learning which means every week three hours of learning to Shibata name one community service day and a few other things and it was amazing what do we gain we gained that people had a serious structured series of lectures from 810 weeks it was the first hour was lecture and then it was a discussion group and then was a guest speaker and of course food in between it was really tremendous from but we made it very part that's another point when I indicate to you you have to make it prominent you have to make it important so every student that was accepted to the fellowship needed to go through a grilling interview of five people a rabbi and one community member student made a committee it was unbelievable it became a covered by the way from the first group we had 17 students were selected from a lot of students and 13 of them to the shemitah limits 13 out of 17 not bad ok but again there was no preaching though it was little sheep we told them honestly we are going to teach you Judaism because if you want to be a Jewish leader you have to know what Judaism is about there was nothing hidden I think this was very open very straight you know so again I'm just this is a college campus in the city we used to have also very interesting topics in different luncheon loans and handy for us police have like 25 doctors and downtown a very prestigious law firm also about 25 30 lawyers in and emotional over there I love with him PA I bought a text you know and we analyzed it was really beautiful and great again I'm trying to squeeze in as much as I could in the short time but today they came up also by the way this idea of Maimonides it was very strongly opposed by the hills because they said that we are buying them for money and and on and on but bottom we prevailed and it became very popular and other there's over 50 branches and there are imitations for that about took her than the color the I sign a scholarship whatever different people don't talk about other rabid people ask me if I mind I said okay more the merrier the less pressure on me do it and wonders itself success okay that was an and new life and the Wolfson family took it but the same idea that the basic idea born was that to come up with that with that combination so nowadays again the different things of work sometimes it's different cover your different experiences Shibata name traveling became very popular not only to us all I remember target doing the Intifada one that parents refused to allow the kids to come to Israel so I took them to California right community effort what can you do I mean and bortion tremendous results a lot of my friends now on campuses tell me that they take kids to Poland to England the given fun and sometimes to Costa Rica whatever Joseph's innovative and bourgeois of options and and it works very very well there's a student of mine actually now is involved in project which is very very successful it's J internships and that is that you offer students young professionals an internship in SL and you connect them with Israeli companies with high tech whatever and they have some things they have to do as part of the program and it's really a tremendous impact the other thing that works sometimes intriguing young man is to be involved in facet projects that's a tremendous thing a lot of kids that very interested in in Detroit we had other people came and and it was a tremendous thing that they want to fill they give something and once they get to know Jewish people and religious people they connect it's it's because it's an automatic process of getting to know each other getting to know the community mmm okay I'll move to point number two and that is understanding the audience and sending the the type of people that you want to attract so again this is also a very very deep an extended subject but I will try to stick to the basics many people you know you you you you paintball that you in a generic group but everybody here I'm sure knows the Macias is that everyone is definitely some some people come to English because of intellectual pursuits some people come from emotional events in their life some people come to as you know they look for crutch a mental coach there's all kinds of people and again it's so important I can emphasize enough both to know who you're dealing with sometimes if you know you don't stand the individual coming to you you may give them up absolutely wrong advice and sometimes they need a psychological evaluation sometimes they need they need philosopher to deal with them yeah there's all kinds of different backgrounds and it's extremely important to to understand that okay so I would break this into three categories one is emotional intellectual and philosophical I'll give examples of each kind and simile I mean I had a fellow once in the [Music] Michigan that was one of the top law students and the entire ceremony I think it was number four lady number four so someone the felon to me and he came he was completely unaffiliated so a few months he came to the show you liked it so one day he says to me rabbi okay tell you I love to come to the classes it's you know it makes a lot of sense to me I know this old Jewish think it works me something doesn't sit well with me tell me give me an example what really irks you what bothers it says cities citizens why is there those things there's some experience things you know I see those who Shiva guy is going it's going all over the place that makes you spiritual it's it's ridiculous I look to them and I think what does bother you okay so kindergarten elementary school middle school high school college I'm now about to graduate law school honestly question what did you will doing graduation starts laughing along Cortland I said like a faucet right yeah so why did you will it said no cool I'm like everybody else what this one okay what did you wait on your head there was really funny it's the squirrel head anything tell me what was on top of that you know that chip Chico that thing the tassel on the side I I saw pictures I never got there's a witness he says Wow tell me does it look like a little bit like it's it's this you know you won't see us on your head and one of the happiest days of your life and it didn't bother you but been a shiv above the waste cities that got old into will you you feel funny you need a psychologist not a rabbi something wrong I told up of course in a very friendly fashion and you know and he was shocked this is you know what you have a point a few weeks later he came to show them which cities himself today but Hashem is channel Shabbos Chantell mitzvahs his kids are going to Jewish day school because again he realized that he had nothing really but he looked down at everything religious I remember one time I a Russian stood and brilliant student was in their dental school she don't have I I love I love what I hear but I have a problem what the promises I have a spiritual scowl so what's that he said that it was what I'm in the Soviet Union and every time a kidney class made a comment about religion spirituality it was ridiculed I push it I can't get over it did not become this because it okay he struggled with it it's right [Music] and then you have something which is moved you know that sounds logical also but it's already I'm a drag one step up one time I took a group of students from the States for visit I take it to a big achiever well in the Ishrat machine and there was a few hundred bottom learning learning mother was very beautiful I talked and it was in the evening and then they wanted they took the the jackets and the heads and they learned muscle before malov and that they would have me Molly so they came to my soil they searched my soul the walls were shaking and then comes to Anessa and they shake and this so one of them says to me and tells me says oh this is crazy people are fanatics what they do they say mr. Schock albania and they and they scream and it's that's Judaism Meister stuck it looks crazy for someone who doesn't know the vendor say told him listen I mean it's really I don't know anything about sports but my kids start explaining about 2000 times about baseball other image I don't know exactly what it is but I know one thing I know that they explained me that there's a guy this is a big deal of that it's a big guy and he holds this market by partition this this bad and there's another guy and they thought yes desert said it and something called a home on home on that's the home I guess that's what the they live so the home on okay so I talked what happens when somebody hits a home run oh are you gonna ask he says says I know because my kids told me my kids did go to this big job gave assets and the zetz mob is that it the floor magnetic I said who's this guy would you want your daughter to go out with him this no so what all the professors in your college about the game and they stood like little giddy should I mean that doesn't bother you what's happening those guys are speaking to God you know do you understand it's not to Donald Trump Oh Obama they stink to God you know it means the excited the after the shock a solid aa you you may not get it because you know I'm holding them but you're laughing at them because they do something crazy you do much crazy of it okay yeah I'll give you now an example of more philosophical I was asked to give a class of Michigan I am I I'll do it early I did it and I started to learn pickles so much in Kyoto and sin I explained them things but relatively well sometimes very well and then we got into a mission I'll tell basic hi Misha be stumble called Mohammed vegetable Oh Makana whoo ha ha Meem call our basis I'm a Charlotte salsa for you why you should have seen the room it was bubbling the walls like was like caving in and one young lady gets up and she says to me bye-bye if that's what Judaism is deserve our women I'm out of here for good and she starts walking on ok so free country I said lady I'm gonna ask you are you are you a liberal I said okay so liberal people usually give a chance to the other one to respond all right what do you want me to respond to your criticism nothing don't sponsor says aren't a liberal oh yeah okay yeah what do you have to say this is nothing I'd like to ask one thing come back come back to you open up the book and yoga didn't you translate so nice intelligence just it sound more awful than before I mean listen did you did you analyze did he think of what he's saying to home to the sages Spector again intelligent oh she says I said two men or two women two men I said so why you're getting upset all the men should walk down here what was there to do with you I said listen you know what the boy the boy means excessive you know a husband comes home at night and he has excessive talk seha anyone that knows the malla knows that Sakai is always a light talks he had a hole in him you know so yeah small talk he comes home and he speaks to his wife small talk notstung malbet excessively what does it mean as far as this outlook how does it look at his wife little kids based on mo if you mistreat your wife like that that means that you're bummed but they should have it's inappropriate behavior this of Charlotte's mother so for you I said he belongs in hell he target belongs in hell a guy who has that view of women belongs in hell you don't think this girl stayed in I'm telling you said nicer sugar aye aye she ended the semester I didn't have a say I dealt with many students I didn't have him this young lady for a long term maybe 15 or 20 years a few years ago Kippur I get a note and note I am so I don't know if you remember me La Bajada you know some things stick to you I says I I feel guilty I didn't tell you what happened after the semester I went to his religious kyboots from there I ended up in the very line and then I moved back to California I married a religious guy with three children and we are very very happy and it's all because of you she sends me a check for the organization whatever I so later on actually when I came here something else with the speaking one of the emotion I was speaking and this lady comes over to me she's alright remember way many years yes that's me just three children while Basham flume and her husband it was a number little thing because people it was heavy action was really intellectual she really she thought she thought for sure that the Sade's of thing saying horrible things and a similar experience in similar expense in downtown Detroit lawyers I spoke though and also a lot about so I got the Mishnah it's a mystical shot valium theater baladeva Dharma lamma lamma ha I know ah I was in Jamaat I finished explaining this and one of the lawyers a young brilliantly sesame rabbi that's horrible he says you mean to tell me that I have to behave because somebody is like a mushy on me all the time he watches well it's like I'm in jail and everything I have no privacy everything that that's what Julian says I said listen everybody can have their own perspective but let me share with you my perspective on it sittin know John Kennedy was a very popular president many many books were written about young Kennedy but who wrote the books people wanted to make a quick buck or whatever how well did they know John Kennedy spend with him an hour probably not two hours five hours awake exaggerated right so but they'll all about him and very shallow this is imagine you I was so prominent in the eyes of God that he wants to see everything you do he wants to listen to every crouch to every every problem that you have the whole Marcela by 7f you know who the author of your book is the creator of the universe nine New York Times you know quick buck hungry fellow you know can you imagine da Mala Mala mean car no the elevation I'm Allah I in wife was all my 707 aestivum that means that the ateb a leader how can you sing if you understand our planet you are you just can't even come to sin so again the same same reaction people when they are being given a different perspective then they gain something which is is really may change the entire life give you another example [Music] okay tell you I'm sore all night you said something terrible last night what did I say said learned as I'll say this oil amazi boys hey now said but also kalila the light a light it's easy to pronounce her this entire enterprise he says and then you told us all the time how prominent we are we are the eyes of a shin-hye ever damn lama by Fellini viola the center of the universe if the entire creation of the world was nothing but a hat Hashem how important can I be I'm talking about the galaxy's magnitude is unbelievable so coach Bob puts a Michelle reminder system see something how old 18 how much money did your parents really investing is so far not figured maybe 20,000 tuition for trips okay I said oh no something do parents love you oh my gosh my mother every time I were a little culture comes after me the chicken soup and they sure they love me they said I won't ask a question again it's it's an unconventional question but being that you triggered me I said I'll ask you some very perhaps inappropriate question what is it I said tell me how much effort did your father exert in order to cause your creation nothing doesn't normally happen so what he loves you right what does one have to do with other the the the fact that was not difficult to create something says that there's less love because both who loves you because of who you are you're part of him yeah helical I tell him and I came senator Kim what suppose well what kind of course loves you what does it have to do with the effort of creation and he got it again this guy young man actually lives in Modine and we spoke about the category of philosophical questions questions really need to be taken seriously people really deserve attention and they definitely react very badly when you shrug them off it's inappropriate it's not it's incorrect and I think it's very very long too one of the things are much there's a simple thing something simple thing about people wanna events us I mean I I have this thing in college campuses where I speak just about you we go in you know Michigan I know that one so else's pleasure started I go to other colleges also anyway so there was about 40 kids in my man in this program and would you know place where the whole thing started and somebody asked me a question not exactly what was and I responded and I by the way throw in something that I occasionally said that if I feel that it sorry flu and I said yeah give me any intellectually honest atheist you know pill this problem within 20 minutes or less sounds a little elegant I but after they say sometimes controversial things and it gets the attention so I continued with the closet I forgot about it after the class six guys two girls and for guys their poetry says rabbi you said something really very bad some twenty minutes or less you can you can prove to us there's a gun I said give me 20 minutes yeah sit down and so I I guess what I always use again I don't know but I'm sure this is all of this to you but it's AII I use a muscle of museum with a beautiful painting and and I make them think of I said that it's beautiful thing and the guy is very impressed by it and then he asked the curator of the guy in in the museum what's what's the history some some say that there was none before picture it was something that a rich man went to paint his house was his hobby I know the protect his carpet he put a canvas on the entire room I started painting when it launched and it's the cat came in and there was saw a mouse on the other side and went through all the containers of manga and became this painting the guy came out running he so he held the commotion and he looks at and he says wow this is nice my cat did this animal and therefore I decide to donate it to the museum so ask them how many think it's it's rational so they're all this government I can I go I don't wanna bore you with the details the bottom line is they say everybody says no it's not logical not you know so set them you are all saying listen to what he's saying now because I'm gonna ask you more questions okay next question ask them tell me who is more basically you said that this thing looks planned the eyes are in the right place that knows that I place everything is so basically saying this this is really a plant this is something engineered so I want to ask a question a person the little person the subject of this painting is he more engineered them to picture us a thousand times of course he's a lab where you eat and those enzymes and vitamins is a brain hopefully and he has yeah yeah of course so I said to them I don't understand you guys professor stand in front of 400 students in college and says to you all the stupid things about the old everything came out of explosion and you not with your heads what are you a bunch of idiots you can argue about God who God is what a guy would say a lot of things I'm not answering anything just one basic question is the designer to this design if the answer is no then I know what to do with you then intellectually dishonest I I was 10 minutes in the discussion and the head guy or the globe says to me rabbi I'm not so sure I'm an atheist anymore so I don't thank you very much you saved me 10 minutes 10 minutes of the conversation so you know by the way it is actually about two three months ago a young man came to me initially now and to my great surprise he says rubba remember me look a little familiar is I'm the guy I think the guy did ask you this question and then after that like I changed my whole vision line she became to me for Shabbos but a whole bunch of other students but again it's not I don't want to point out the great success stories I planted failures I just purpose of me sharing those things we feel peace to know that people are really bothered with legitimate questions and you have to relate to them in a general way and to study and to know how to had to answer them the the next point was the unknown the dosage the dosage again the dosage suddenly again a kid on campus man services rabbi I see what you don't but it's really not fair because you are just presenting Judaism in the most beautiful way but you don't tell them about difficult things that you have to fast on Yom Kippur tell us about you know there's a lot of things that you don't tell him you have a good point I told the story of so that we mourn getting sonic sonic festive for the earth and then we attack him out and he asked the the Roman Emperor to be for three things and they gave one of the things was to heal up sorry Moses had to heal him they came to give him a little nutrients and then they look at the silver and he finally the elder was able to I said I understand the man fasted for forty years a mistake was over by it's gonna kill him I said exactly listen to what he said I said in the Holocaust right after the Holocaust fortune my mother knows bergen-belsen so you know the stories the people were so frail that they had to you see the pictures you saw the pictures so the American soldiers were very very monastic that they felt terrible ah journalist and they gave him chocolates and they gave him steaks and thousands died after the Hocus they never made it through they died because of wrong nutrition I said do you know why deal with I deal with and make sure that feel spiritual for three four five seven six you want me to give him a spiritual stake I could do it I could kill the but that's what you want me to do I give him small right now if somebody asks me a question directly never I can say Hashem never ever did I not share within the truth if somebody I said directly a question you have to respond of course in in a wise way United but you know out to be Masonic could say shield and perhaps this is a very important message I always in the office it says heavy metal metal shalalala Korean oh you're following the weight of Shaolin right love peace I'm good I said why are we doing this to have long Aveeno you should step every bit of it it was the first one to in the core of the world right shot is I've la Movida was McAuliffe non-jews I've Rama V no one of them kind also more advanced I wanna claim is the first one who was become Jews in I wanna claim has I'll say ballast missionaries it says via asking now and Milani solution has that one understand when you do kill vivec him mallamma Chile she no love America and he was I of Sholem who make carvanha terror he was McCarran to turn not vice versa the famous story from becoming etske he came they wanted him to an education institution there's a kindergarten and in the kindergarten oh and I wanted my kind of the kids so kids are very young and not so tall so they put the mezuzah in the bottom part of the of the entrance so the kids can come in the morning in kiss the mezuzah the vehicle came in and he saw this it was what is that he says what get a letter get a child let the kid come to the tailor and not the tailor lowdown to him what a beautiful lesson ok I think we're running out of time so in conclusion I just think that if we spend time focusing and understanding and studying this is something awesome elephant is a beautiful job I come here to teach and there's young people young rabbis come and they ask the questions and they think about it the next week they ask questions about last week's sticks sometimes in in any it's like any you're dealing but didn't a fascist you're dealing here with marriage Delaney for short you know first class and in and and and and blows my mind how many times we were going to kill they have no clue what they're doing I had I must say but I I told I love you I love what you extensible but change change your message don't say that every Jew can do kill the it's not wrong but say that every just can't illegal kill the every Jew should have in his pocket a business card off a Macau someone and also the ends of the questions I agree with you we have to have a campaign but I have seen people who manage they had no clue no idea and they did more damage than good that's not a way to do it Al Capone team I think that the oil um here is people that don't really need much to hear from along the Comets I wish you all at slaughter in your new journey and bezels bar I can be any help in the future I would really love to I believe in the cause thank you very very much [Music] [Applause]