Are You Attracting or Repelling?

Let's take two magnets that are completely identical. Same material, same size, same strength. Sometimes they attract each other strongly [music] and sometimes they repel each other strongly. What's the difference? Just one [music] thing, the direction. How they are oriented toward each other. And the reversal is dramatic. It's enough to rotate one magnet and [music] the repulsion instantly turns into attraction. Exactly the same magnets only the orientation changed. And let's admit it, we have relationships like that. People with whom things always explode. The same argument repeats, the same repulsion, and we're convinced the problem is with them. They're unbearable. But maybe, like with magnets, the problem isn't who we are. Maybe it's just the direction we're facing each other. King Solomon wrote a statement as precise as a law of physics. As water reflects a face back to a face, [music] so the heart of a person reflects back to another. Just as water returns the face that looks into [music] it, so the heart returns what is directed toward it. If we approach with warmth, we receive warmth with coldness. Coldness we determine the polarity. Science has proven that direction determines attraction or repulsion. Solomon knew that the heart returns what is directed toward it. The Holy One, blessed be He, did not create repulsive people. He gave us the power to change direction and turn rejection into attraction. Let's not blame the other person. Let's change our own direction.