Achieving Your Goals - Part 1: Do What You Set Out to Do - Rabbi Paysach Krohn

[Music] I'm deeply grateful to mrs. Porter with mr. sparrow and all of you for inviting me on this great debut meeting of wjx which is women Jewish experience and although today we have let's say 30 40 women I'm sure that eventually that this organization will have a thousand women because it has such a great goal and a great ideal and it's a wonderful thing whoever thought about this idea that women should be able to get together that they should be able to become inspired and grow from each other and to strengthen their relationship with a college bar aho and strengthen their relationship with each and every one of us for those who are going to be listening on video and on CD we're in Brooklyn but really this organization is something that should be started all over the world I want to share with you something very very interesting the tiger tells us that on the first day mihika la kim la are join the a mr. called to light he called the day or the hush of Carlyle of aji era by Boyka there was evening a day game effort day one so the measure Hosmer Emmaus simcha asks a very interesting question he says really it was the first day of many days and in Hebrew when you count one two three you say we shine Shane Ashley she why is it young effort young Mahad means it's like an economy you had a very special day something that's unusual something that's different and the magic Hoffman says something amazing he says that that day was very very special like no other day ever until Messiah why because they light that the image I created was so strong that you could see from one side of the world to the other side of the world from one end of the world to the other but the English just saw that he has to hide that light he could only have that light for that subdeacon so he took away that light and the light that was the second and the third was never like the first thing that's why it's young hug me you had special and that's what I feel our meeting is today this is really so special is an idea that has been thought about a long time there were many many people who came up with this idea nobody ever believed that we could bring it to fruition and now finally Braja shimano straightish kissed over here so this first meeting is something that will never be replicated it's an excitement because it's here it's a manifestation it's a fruition of a creation in somebody's mind that women should be able to be inspired together they should be able to grow together and I think that because if that brute is filming this and this will be all over the world that many many WJ x's will start all over the world and you should know it's all yours cause every single one of you has a source in this organization by participating today and no matter what happens around the world if women will be inspired because of it then it's partly because that you came here today and gave this its impetus one of the things when I spoke about the topic to mrs. Horowitz we spoke about that women come together we have to be goal-oriented it's not just a social event we want people to become close to toccatas borracho to be able to fulfill their potential and a relaxed nice comfortable inspiring atmosphere and if that's the idea then this is an organization of personal growth and reaching goals and I want to show you something that is so amazing to me these type of Limu them that Godoy limb make from a posit that if I would tell you the plastic you would say what is nothing that you can learn from this plastic and yet we're gonna see in a second how the hobbits have learned such an important lesson for life from these tips okay the first one is in practice laughs aha and it seems to say something so simple via a new loleris art suckin on a Brahma veena took his family to go to Canaan via bio art suckin on and he came to keen on what could you learn from that he went to Kanaan his idea was to get the canal and he got there so how much time says hey wait a second let's watch what with tariffs in the parsha before vehicle Tara Tara took his family as a prompt annoying his son Avram we're sleep and harem bambina he took his grandson white Mia Soraka well so he took his daughter las all right and then by a to eat Sammy your costume Velasquez arts a clan they were gonna go to Kanaan you know what happened by Avaya Thorin they came to hora by a shoe shop and they stopped there and they never made it to Kanaan so the hobbits hind says look at that I probably know had a goal he wanted to get to canal and he got there but what happened by Tara he also wanted to get to Kenai he never made it he got diverted he got distracted he got derailed and he didn't make it there so the Hobbit sign tells us a great lesson I'm this fossa combustible hot shower all dumb letters but dark I have wronged each in our own lives we have to be like a prom Aveeno the in makka bell are lots more if somebody is macabre on encephalitis at second on you decide you're gonna go to canal morgue rahul avoid the awesome he's gotta cut the canal he's gotta reach his goal if he's supposed to go from Brooklyn to Lakewood you don't stop and Staten Island and then remain in Staten Island you're not getting to your goal you made up to go to like what you got to get there but little is shining to my house or the sharp em cetera oh yeah you decide you know what now I'll get on the Bayonne Bridge I'll go to New York no that's not you have a goal you gotta get there you can't be diverted you can't be derailed and I'll tell you something interesting it's a great book it's a small book written by a brilliant man from Lakewood it's name is Rob Yaakov rineman he's written number of swaram and he took the speeches of ruff rifle drops llama Frye felt and he wrote the speeches down for publication and if you take a look in this book in search of greatness which is really what each and every one of us should try bleach wanna fulfill our potential and that's how you become great by fulfilling the potential that they wish to gave you so in there a fry felt tells the story it's on page 125 if you want to look it up that the first time this was in the early 1950s that he met the hassanis he was so frightened he was so in awe of the husband she couldn't even speak he couldn't say a word and he just stood there but the colonists spoke to him and listen to what the husband is told him that this is a young man and he's obviously a betrayer and he's coming to visit the godmother and the fuzziness tells us that you should know that the diagram of previous generations were not geniuses the Cthulhu of premedicate element previous generations were not geniuses now i called rabbi Ryman before I decided to say this in public because now there are three good I hope that I'm gonna mention and I said to rabbi Ryman did rabbi Frye felt gives these three examples or did the Husein ish give these three examples so he said to me when I was listening to the speech that I was gonna write down and I heard it on tape or a cassette from rabbi Frye felt I couldn't tell whether it was rabbi Frye Feld's examples or the house lady but anyway each one of them obviously is great because in each of course the good Ladera or effort was a great person but listen to these three people that we all know and Ron Frey felt tells us they were not geniuses then it sieve enough telex via who the Berlin who wrote a wonderful safe AHA McDouble and he wrote on this shield ice and he wrote so many many swaram and was the Russia Shiva but wasn't for so many is that it sieve was not a genius the second one he writes is our beautiful Hana the Robin Kovner had the supposed to be at the caber of the native and also reputed ohana a missile uninspected the cove near rob he was not a genius but he became the god or and the third one he writes of course more your husbands or your sons would know the crucifixion was very brilliant brilliant a McCallum but he wasn't the genius he developed and he became brilliant and I want you to write this down because these four DS are so important and anything that you want to accomplish even and building wjx these are the four DS how things get done you have to have the desire you have to have dedication you have to have to drive and you have to have determination and I add my own D that's direction in other words you have a direction in life and you want to build an organization somebody whether it was mrs. sparrow mrs. Porter wits all the others that are listed on the flyer they had a desire to create this organization and what did they do they became dedicated to the idea they didn't stop I'm sure their sister-in-law well their cousin said don't be ridiculous you'll never get it off the ground we were not too busy nobody's coming but they would determine that what did they do they had a drive a drive to make sure that this thing gets done and finally the determination and that's what drove try felt said these good islands that's what they had so I remember when I had this hood to be in Volusion I told this about the net sieve and then when I was by his cave and Warsaw I told also the same thing then it seems father-in-law was robbed it's Allah vulajin are robbing illusionist started the first yeshiva his son Ravi Chawla was the next Raja Shiva and remits Allah had a son of Naphtali TV Yahoo to Berlin that's why he's called 'native none sada cured based I've told it's vo to Berlin where drop its Louisville Archana his father-in-law he knows how to learn he didn't think it was genius and one day he comes into this room he comes into the net sips room and he sees a letter that then it's you've got from robbed over Gloria there a doll and Dara doll was for the Kadam of his age and he's writing such praises to than its sieve and he's writing such deep different IRA and Roberto the village and I says oh my goodness he's writing to my son my son is such a genius he's such a victim of haha look at these praises they're rabid Luria's giving him I think I underestimated my son-in-law but the truth is that he really didn't because he wasn't a genius either according to Rupp fry felt or according to has a niche but as a fry felt said he had these DS the desire the dedication the drive and the determination and when you have those four these then is that fifth one that's the direction that's how you could get anything accomplished so anything that you want to do in this organization how you want if you want to make us say there in a certain safer that you learn every time you get together or you want to say a certain Fela or as you sang hallo this morning and you want to elevate the people anything can be done you can be anything you want you know what it cassette sonic says and I'm such a believer in this then sit cassettes attic says there's three things you gotta believe in you gotta believe in Hashem you gotta believe in tear up and you gotta believe in yourself right you have and when you believe in yourself you could do anything don't worry what your mother-in-law thinks or your father-in-law or your sister-in-law or your baby brother or your baby sister they don't really know who you are you know who you are and you know what you could accomplish and you know people ask me how I do all the things that I do one of the reasons is because I had the greatest mother in the world my mother believed that I could do anything and you know something after a while I believed her so you think you know this book that just came out illuminations of the mind and you should all buy ten copies before Hanukkah so I take a look at the back and it has all the other books that I've written and so many times I say to my wife you know I'd love to meet this guy oh is this all the stuff like if you think I believe it I can't believe it I just can't how could it possibly be that this is the ninth margit book and my 13th book altogether borrow Hashem a million times over because if you believe in yourself and you have that drive and that desire that determination and a great spouse who does everything in the house you know I always say to everybody people make fun of me I said my wife knows where everything is and I know where she is and mrs. Porter which if you met my wife you know it's true right you see with daughter come Eva this is the same mold yeah that's that that's the malt that's the mall these capable people and and they're all regular wonderful people but they don't get diverted they don't get derailed they don't get disrupted they do what they set out to do and that's that's the way you're reachable now I want to tell you something that is absolutely incredible