Hashem Says: Blossom Where I Plant You! - Rabbi Yonatan Rietti

are you fully caffeinated all right if I could just ask you to please turn your cellphone's to vibrate out of respect to those who are trying to fall asleep special thank you to Rabbi Balt for inviting me again for your beautiful series I would like to dedicate an additional dedication to very close friend of mine passed away just this week in remarkable cherish rubber frame Kestenbaum my friend Ben Dov it 92 years old a very special person who saved a lot of Jews his father saved large Jews with him in there in the Holocaust but he also saved a lot of hidden in Egypt and Syria Turkey in in very dire situations would negotiate with the governments to release Jewish prisoners and he would bribe them and any learning tonight you also go to amongst all the others were also to ask us to a fragment of it amania so the subject selected for this evening is alum Hannes Sian bloom where you're planted anyone here had a choice in their parents no okay anyone here had a choice in their siblings probably not anyone here had a choice in their preschool their elementary school yes probably very little most of our formative years are exactly that their formative and it's not really tilled bottom bar mitzva that college bar who has developed our mind to be responsible able to respond to situations where we're held accountable for being a badass but there's a cottage bar who and this is what we're training in every single morning one of the brokers we make its Ali call Turkey you have already provided this is the only broken because of chakra which is in past tense you have already provided all my knee we're training in his reality that everything I need is already in my life in my wife in my spouse in my house in my health in my wealth in every area of our lives Hashem asked me please blossom wherever I plant you so question in the middle of traffic and I'm late oh I should've left earlier and the pressure what does Hashem say blossom where I planted you right now you're on the Li II or wherever else please I'm giving you an invitation blossom what does blossom mean what's the best way for me to deal with it whether it's the traffic it makes no difference what we're talking about it's all the same because this is one long I'll um ha miss Sawyer it's one long test Vasilisa sharm does offer call-in yarn a ha-olam hen this genius love them every single situation we find ourselves in everything that we go through whether it's being single or even harder being married or being divorced or having children or waiting for children or having health issues Ruffman insulin or financial setback it makes no difference which area it is literally a person is getting the same invitation blossom where I've planted you Avram Aveeno it's throne to the chief Shana H and who is behind that Terah his own father ask any psychologist on a 0 to 10 rating of pain zeros at least 10 is most what is betrayal of a parent to a child on a 0 to 10 rating it's off the charts 1012 50s right off the charts Avram Aveeno is betrayed by his father thrown into kif's on her H and what does Hashem say blossom wherever I put you and he won't flinch he will not hesitate for a second to agree to give up a life that's worthless if I have to serve the vedas ARA for eternity to be part of and close to an all perfect creator brahma vena goes through tennis Janice we're going to look at that later on it makes no difference what a person's situation is we all have the exact same invitation I met very recently at what's called a three principal conference it was actually rabbi Twersky from Milwaukee's innate health well-being was it called whisky well but well-being center I think so they did a conference and it was a number of very interesting speakers and I went there and one lady comes up there Jewish lady by the name of Wendy suggests s EG g es e she stands there on the platform and she says I have cancer this is a lady who has stage four cancer 96 you look up the percentages don't believe in percentages every Jew every person has her shikaka practice and every person has muscle and we can change our muscle but she stands there she's got stage 4 cancer 96% of ladies who have this type of cancer once he hit stage for it it spreads throughout the whole body there's known no real cure 96% don't make it off of beyond 5 years she stands on the stage she's in her seventh year stage 4 cancer and these are her words I quote verbatim I have cancer I am NOT cancer my body has cancer I am NOT my body listen to the clarity who are you are you your body are you your family or is your body my body oh there's a mind as a party oh so so your body's not you my family oh your family oh they're not you they're part of your life my house well my house is not that's not me my car my job the real us is never outside of us it's always thought in the moment the OCONUS i''m of all the nice young as possible whether it's a health setback a person always has a choice to recognize I am NOT outside of me I'm over here this is where I live and so if my body's not doing a good job well guess what I'm not my body I'm my mind and with that mindset I didn't go just like this she admitted she was in out of depression for the first few months but with that mindset seven years later she's going around giving kiss up to other people to recognize a very powerful truth you exist over here never outside of you so someone could be having Gehenna in their marriage and they still are happy because happiness is not just a choice it's a thought of a choice and thinking nobody can ever take away from me if I don't give permission the famous Viktor Frankl in his book is in life man's search for meaning he actually was filling every day after the war even though that's not very well known but he's the what's known as the father of logotherapy loca was a Greek Latin word which means meaning and he was someone who helped many people discover to map inmates ooh and survivors of the Holocaust and later on he worked exclusively only with people who had made made attempts to commit suicide obviously failed he only worked with the most extreme traumatized people and he helped people recognize as two parts to pain the technical pain physical pain whatever it is that we're going through and then there's the meaning we give the pain and of the two which is the factor that will decide on my recovery the physical pain the illness the financial debt the crazy crazy family I'm part of is it really really all the stuff in my life that's the ick and the tsiyon or is the realness Oy in the real test what am I thinking what am I thinking so Viktor Frankl made the claim that when he was being experimented on by the Nazis in the camps he was six years four years now it's tuna in a sub-camp of Auschwitz six years totaled through the whole war and he continued doing his observations that he started before the war of recognizing that the most likely candidates for survival in the camps were not necessarily those who walked in the strongest and most robust was the most must mussels he said typically was the ones who had a reason to live survive reunite with family or even if they knew they'd lost their family to start life again after the war and in that sense win against Hitler you Maximo we're still here so he said in the moment they were experimenting upon his body without anesthetic removing his masculinity he said he discovered the greatest liberation possible he said it he hopped the Nazis had his body they could do what they wanted with it but they did not have his mind as long as he could choose whatever he wants to think guess who's free and guess who's a slave oh you're following orders Oh see you're not you sure you're not exercising to be free will bashira oh and soon he recognized in that moment of excruciating pain that he had the greatest moment of personal liberation freedom so let's look at missing for a few moments because as long as I complain very dangerous word fetch for the situation I find myself in the family children coworker boss career it makes no difference neighborhood it makes it call-in yarn a ha-olam Henley Stanislaw Adam it makes no difference what they are there every single one of them is the same invitation the same invitation for me Who am I going to become I use my language very deliberately Who am I going to become why am I using that language because that's the translation of heavy you'll find in Pirkei avos all over the place heavy Khatami table shall aaron have a meter meter be from the talmidim of aaron Oh yep Shalom ray the Sun so says rabbit access says the safer cuss her ate him yes sir Oscar II thank you excellent buried right on the caver literally touching the cave of of the arezzo and lived in the same from the cover from the every soul save for her a diem the folk over time gave us a shear and safer car radium every day safer car a team goes through all the mitzvahs not all not all of tario all those are Attali that are still relevant to today it goes to all the tag mitzvahs which are still able to be performed today through the party meaning which parts of the body are used for each of the mitzvahs but it's very instant when he makes the following observation when the when cuz I'll say heavy they're telling you in an amazing lotion is telling us that you can javea you can become a different person and says that's why they'll use the lotion of heavy metal' me - Alana have a donít call atomic Oscars having means you can change it's a it's not I can never say might ever is so ingrained in me I'll never be able to change my nature the actual lotion of the I think I should just read you the lotion so that you you see how strong it is very strong lotion from the safer car ad Americas he offers the following excuse me the Ashley Farish herb a loss of jefe lil Ahmed Lupin AR Tom listen to teach people her time to make the mistake that i'ma say a knuckle limb pileup Lanie I can never forgive so-and-so shahara FLE that really hurt me insulted me really really horrible person the tiffy kasha my tether my nature is very hard look how husky and I can't turn it around I can't change myself oh oh um no yeah liova in my I'll never be the Arve with this person for alpha P shop mhmm Marshall II mean kuvira even if he does make peace with him whom in a sulphur LaHood's is only lip service uber Hillel comes along the great Hill Oh la Hache me know to let us know to hear the following Shane Z Emmett I can never get away with this excuse in Olam haba by saying well I'm I might ever I saw that my father was on configuring my mother was really not easy going and I my sibling I always have a choice of what to think and I could this is not true it's simply not true that I can't change me Ella Hara shusun eternal havoc liebe morality ver every person can change their mind their heart for good from bad Blastoise javea Hadassah and create a new becoming of themselves Aubry ekaadasha a totally new person I have no excuses I have no excuses if I'm in this traffic Hashem wants me to be here the question is how am I going to respond if I'm in this particular marriage or this stage of marriage or with this kid or this stage of raising this kid bloom where I'm planted what's the greatest blooming I can do what's the greatest blossoming that I can do she comes along a vessel of a voice in his hug Dahmer famously says the following he went through all her egg mitzvahs and each one has a limit every single Mitzvah super-goof that is Tolley on a limb has a limit you shake Lula for a certain amount of time and place you your give you a curtsy Shaco you keep sharpest or that's only this particular to Kufa period over here every single Messer has a limit except for the mitzvahs of the mind the Attali believe rabbi Victor Miller of blessed memory always quotes that the word lave correctly translates as das and Hera gosh that's he says that right is beginning of his safer labour Victor Simon Aleph right the beginning he says huzzah used a lotion of Levens Tanakh use lotion of life and it's a reference to two items because they're simultaneously the same thing your mind and what you feel it's impossible to divorce the two we've been hoodwinked by the Christian translations which I'm forced to be stuck with for now at least until Safa Brewer occurs Parker brings in spaniel Parekh game opposite Tess there's one of the new verse that when Machir comes the whole world will speak Russian okay - look at the reductio agree it's Donna Thurber ah okay halfway I will switch every lotion to a lush and brew suffer Brewer and all the Armand all the nations will serve me with this lang Safa bro means a language of clarity it's a perfect language I'm afraid to tell you all all translations will be put in the Ganesa and we will only be learning inside the reals forum the word lave means both mind and emotion it has to and that's why you won't find any word for emotion throughout Tanakh there's no such word did you know that think carefully if there's no word for something in national kodesh that means it doesn't exist I don't mean to say your emotions don't exist Tanakh uses the same word for both rubbish mahashiv / lave each where dude you're thinking in your heart or your mind or in your mind the word lathe means mind and heart because the moment you think it you feel it the moment you think it you feel it it has to you couldn't have a separate word for Harris because this is the source of Hara gosh this is the source of feeling if you're thinking angry that's what you're gonna feel thinking frustrated I'm gonna feel it but it goes the other way as well meaning I gotta Sparkle created us so that we can pay more attention to what we're thinking by noticing what we're feeling so if I feel angry but the purpose of my heritage the purpose of the emotion is to point an arrow to its source where is it coming from so of course I'm gonna say you make me so mad but that's exactly the same as saying ha Keesha that woman ash in art art I'm Adi that you gifted to stand by me Akash Baku did not give Adam Harrison aina sh for eating from the tree until he was kite fare time that really pushed Hashem over the edge when we were I've on the theta angle that did not tick off a college bar who until the Marah glim said loshon hora against the Madonna of Eretz Israel and says you're complaining again and again and again nothing else oh I see don't test me with complaints because I have no right to complain I'm too blessed to be stressed too much good is happening in my life for me to complain so comes along huzzah and helps us understand that the word lave correctly translates as thought the moment you think it you feel it it's impossible for it to be any other way which is amazing because if that's really true then what happens if I don't like the way I feel after think differently so here's my question to you where do we find in shulchan aruch which is essentially a book of instructions how to be a Jew how to serve God's bahu how to give knock us work through the tankmen supply to us nowadays how do we do that so comes along Rubino Bahia in his hog Dhamma and he offers that all the mitzvahs should be goof have a limit except for the mitzvahs of the mind are unlimited how much am owner can you have in your lifetime unlimited how much a Vashi stroke can you have in a lifetime unlimited how much a verse a sham can you have in a lifetime us a sham how much can I be done Huff's us well how many interactions do I have on a daily basis with lots of different people my mother-in-law father brother sister cousin uncle own wife husband children grandchildren neighbor we're interfacing with each other all the time and I'm constantly thinking judging passing judgment and God says to me control my thoughts that when I get a thought of interpreting your behavior in a negative way what does Hashem tell me to do omits of a seder i sir but said 'ok tishbite army TECA if I really knew what my wife went through what my husband's been through whether it's today or whether it's in their childhood if I really understood then challenges my own child has had in school maybe I would not only be less judgmental about these people in my life maybe I would be in admiration and drop the judgment because I start to realize I had no clue that's how much you've been struggling submits with their Isis to be done the cops course where does that take place your pinky your elbow your kneecap your stomach it takes place oh here says rapini bahia the Mitzvahs of the mind are unlimited we know there are six minutes was Tommy Diaz I'll be very honest with you if you look through all the money how mitzvahs you'll see that there's at least forty at least forty mitzvahs that apply every waking second of your life but static despite a meter of ass you throw harvester Shem yearís a Shem lotta to Rua Hari Laval cam don't follow after your thoughts follow Hashem thoughts now hurry nation don't believe everything your eyes tell you because you and I looking at alarm her share care a llama Demian it's an illusion you and I never have the full picture of ms till we arrive in a llama ms o le man is Sian is a deliberate illusion it's a divine illusion that you and I are living inside all the time and every single situation is an invitation for me to blossom what's the grace greatest blossoming I can possibly do comes along Shelton Eric and tells us rage cough base in our crime SIF Kimmel it's really quoting from the Mishnah at the end of Broca's the lotion is added on slightly from the tour but look at the lush and very powerful ocean high of Adam doesn't say it's Arctic Dan say Hoss it doesn't say Ballmer dräger Don say Eurasia maíam any specific description hi of Alden lovara aha aha when things go wrong at least apparently in my mindset traffic children health finances or simple irritations on a daily basis when things go wrong hi of Adam the virus olara badass Shalamar he's not high on any drug he's not some an illusion he's 100% sane in the moment but - Elena open effort our fates are with absolutely willingly he isn't nope outside pressure is making him respond differently but - Elena punish her Pizza commotion maverick a lotof the simcha just like when we make a broker - I share my totem ate it when we're happy oh that's what I should be doing the same way over here when things don't go well at this point I want to share with you an extraordinary book it's so simply profound it's simple but that's its profound T it's one of our buyer Russia's books you know for the serious garden of Amun that this one's called garden of miracles say thank you and see miracles he's got a hundred and ninety stories mostly stories fascinating some of them are like ridiculously out out of the box miracles where people he's telling them just follow shelter Nora say thank you you don't even mean it right now but this pain is really really hot in Korea thank you thank you thank you thank you there's so many things to thank for Rabbi Victor Miller was a big heart of gratitude in his old later years he was on occasion in hospital that was unusual for him he was he was very careful about his health but on one particular occasion a nurse brought him a little container he asked what's his forces for your dentures so I don't have any dangers now he's in his late 80s or so and she said it's impossible said no no I've got all my teeth she was she couldn't believe it so he said to her madam let me ask you a question how many times in your life did you thank God for all your teeth she said said well I thank God every single day for Almighty should I say thank you to wash em when my brakes work on my car do I have to know is it a good idea well I might not have thought of that but how about this is a thought I think this is a very interesting thought how about saying thank you for the guy who's behind me that his brakes also work ha ha ha how many people are behind me in once in one journey could be dozens or hundreds or even thousands of cars now my mind might be somewhere else I might be listening to an interesting shear or have a very interesting conversation with someone on the phone or or or or in the passenger seat but are there always more thank yous than I could even ever thank you a goddess bar who for Elam Hazare is one bigness Sian and comes along she Larkin tells me guess where the real test is you'll find this also in chapter 19 mrs. joram mm-hmm the rom-com he says himself her move Khan the real test of this Ava's a sham is the shah's Sarah it's when it's really hard oh butter cake and when there's pressure am I going to say thank you for the problems with my eyes with my lungs with my liver am I going to thank you yeah doesn't doesn't take away from me what are the three parts to tiller what are the three halacha muffed villa villa was not invented by castle it was it's one of the tiger mitzvahs I've died Bacall Laval camp love Hashem with all your thoughts a day who Aveda Schiphol a how do you love a shim with your mind Oh su it's filler that's talking to a kind of sparkle that myths was given 3331 years ago 1700 years ago give or take a few years now I'm checking a sequela legislated probably close 1900 legislated that you and I say these words in this sitter three times a day so what we'll be doing for 1300 years before the Antechinus a Camilla and the answer is 1-800 Almighty it was a free call and you said what was on your mind what was on your heart what was going on in your marriage what was going on with the / NASA with the family extended family and those there were three kalach him claimed cos all are part of Villa what are they for those still awake what are they hey da what else schmuck prays and lastly focaccia of the three you and I spend a long time every morning afternoon evening chakras min Kumari good hour and a quarter half a day you do as a statistical analysis I'm serious count the words in your sitter there are Hadar Sheva and Picasa and put them into three categories which to think of those three has the most you if you if you're if you're doubling very quickly and you come late and you gotta go quickly from because a shocker to Bob Hummer and usher a right into you stir bar so you'll come out with a different statistical number but seriously speaking is about 96% of darkening is thank you and gratitude most of the Prakash's you will find only in and not all of the 1213 middle brothers of show - ray but right somewhere in a quick one liner the most powerful component of Tefila is thank you what am i thanking you for the biggest test of my love to a cottage bar who is Bashar Assad Sarah but Dokic says them Sitaram when it's not easy how will I respond and if we really love Hashem the first thing will come out of our mouths with filler before we say please take this away is I love you thank you and we're practicing every day says them sorry what's the Pasig nimmakur that the milk on the real test of my arm assertion is Bashar SATs Arabic Shamima there are hasta as she say right they are hasta - ma la queja and you shall love Hashem per call live on with all your thoughts what are all your thoughts what does I'll say submission ur right in the Broca's fishnets Arika yeah it's a tie even y8 Sahara good thinking not good thinking how do I serve Hashem with my not good thinking well the moment the thought pops up in my mind cuz that's what thoughts do they pop up you and I very very often don't have that much control over the pop-ups you always control the next thought always so when you get a pop up thought that person I don't like that person oh there's a missile I have a seesaw okay okay Thank You Hashem for the pop-up Thank You Shem for the knot nice thoughts because now I can serve you with my Yates Ihara D here oh thank you for the pain of this marriage because now when I turn to you and thank you I also help ask you to give me clarity to to be a better husband a better wife a better father a better mother where the fact that you're giving me this difficulty is making me turn to you and so it's the difficulty that's making me closer to you you go through Casals it look at you'll see it spelled out all the time OOP Aarohi crib when pyro arrives at the yams earth it should say power of care if he came close but says he crave means he brought clothes he brought something else clothes to wear - what what is he bringing clothes some and responses on the grammatical inconsistency of the wording and says what did he was he Maghrib says hazael par a was he crib Panisse rel Licata sparkle holiday teshuva sha tsui par a when he when we see him at this only entrance to this massive beachhead on the young hoof and we're trapped mountains on both sides there's no way to scale them and the only entrance is this narrow canyon pea hockey rice and the Perry and his men are right there there's nowhere to go Sarkar alayhim amid bar we're locked in by Sark open al-alam we screamed out wash em and says Hazael on Perot he craved is that Peru's arrival brought us close to Hashem because the next thing we did after we screamed was Oscar Shem to save us oh so the purpose of the messiah is always to help me get the neck thought I love you please help me I can't I can't do this alone I need you but what's getting me there is the sinner the hatred fought in the first place is what now I'm serving you with when I say oh that's not you don't want me to have seen I've seen them that's why we're still in godless oh so let me turn into a ver please Hashem please Hashem thank you for the sinner thought because now I get to be closer to you by saying I'm not gonna think about it I'm gonna struggle because the struggle is worth more than their the problem itself the sincere honest struggle is worth more it's worth it why is it worth it Ron tell us that one flame in Jahannam is worse than the entire suffering the e I've went through horrific suffering but that what that didn't equal one flame in Gehenna so if a person hospitals done terrible of a rose but guess what the worst a Russia could ever get out of Gehenna miss Howe how long was the biggest longest period 12 months after that what's that what's after 12 months gone Aden for what for the Mitzvahs he did he's a healer of teshuva a mitzvah yes or no if a person came down to this world and the only thing he ever had was once a hearer of teshuva that's enough to get him eternity he might might be the smoking section they might it might not be very in my quality wise I don't know what it would look like but it's worth listen very carefully because what I'm saying is so simple it's worth coming into this world to go through the worst suffering and Haram even be a Russia to have one here who of teshuva because then there's eternity for that the worst can ever person have is 12 months of Gehenna that's the worst I'm not belittling it but I'm just bringing out why ekkada Sparkle was McCrea in the malaika's sha mayan hello debating should hash em have created us or not mutters me fried motive shall light nefra after tune of years they finally agreed natasha Lyonne infra it would be much better if we weren't created but I'll shove now that we have been created you fashioned fish myself let's do teshuva let's let's look at what we do what happens in our lives let's do teshuva the obvious question is why are you debating it goddess bar who obviously decided upfront it's better to create you and the simple answer is a very simple answer clap a asks it's worth more coming into this world because I'm probably gonna complain I'm gonna make so many mistakes who knows how many of Ares I'm going to do but clapping schmeyer one hero of teshuva makes it all worthwhile one Mitzvah one puts it to soccer want filler in a lifetime makes it all worthwhile and what makes it worthwhile who makes us great and the answer is whatever is hard for us even small irritations is what's making us great as rabbi victor miller of blessed memory used to say who made of rama v no great and his answer was nimrod forced him to make a choice between death by burning or bound down to name right as the acclaimed creator of the universe nimrod made him great who make all you saw a great well amongst our enemies you got harm on par a because they force us to make a choice will I remain loyal to our chefs tara or not and the greatest demonstration of our love to wash em is Beshara Sarovar Dokic it's when it's not easy hire vitam lava rock a latoya maverick al hurrah - a lemur nefesh kapitsa / simcha also similar dark racial armored right at the end la ila Allah notion of consistently low a Lemieux hey Adam kolima Cole the avid rock mana the top of it oh so I should get the habit that when I do get irritated at home by my mother-in-law my brother-in-law my father-in-law my wife my husband I have a friend whose wife wasn't talking to him for two days finally got out of her she said you ruined my birthday he said that is so not true I don't even know when your birthday is come along cuz I'll and tell us whoever it is that's imitating me whoever it is that's upsetting me whatever circumstances I'm being invited to think differently and what's the first thing I should think thank you I love you please help me comes along Robina barkya and says that when the Mitzvah of the mind have no limit so let me give you a glimpse of good an example how many mitzvahs does a person get when they say gum Zulu Tovah how many mitzvahs dear ricer does a person get in the moment they say to a college bar who I love you even even though it's still painful do they get the Misbah Pomona yes or no yes why uh I'm increasing my mana through the difficulty so by saying thank you in that moment you get misrata Munna do you get the other Mitzvah that huh gosh Bob gave us at the house tonight Loyola file oh he my Harry my upon I don't follow the crook translations we says don't have any other gods besides me that's not the correct translation no yay laughs ha Elohim are Hiram L means pal Elohim a herring with other powers don't turn anything into another power whether it's real avodah Zarah doesn't say about us are there says any other powers or I turn you into a power you make me so bad well one second if you make me mad I have just said that you control my mind and my emotions so I've turned you into a Power greater than myself and now you are Elohim ah hey rim did you follow the logic here no wonder cazali quaked anger with a very to Sarah this is it's the same thing did you follow is that ke Lu but it's it's it's the same concept because the Vedas ara is ignoring a cottage bar oh you're the only one power and now I'm suggesting there might be an emissary something in between but when I'm when I blame my boss and I want to sue this client or it is am I mad at you even you missed I gave you the best years of my life and I'm so upset well when I'm doing that am i admitting a car Sparkle you are the only one power behind everything Oh am I saying well Rachel I'm on this I'm pray to you don't you're not in this equation it really is my husband it really is my wife it really is my mother-in-law it really is my farm Lord they really are tormenting me what I'm going through and the cottage bark was saying how are your lungs how's your spleen how's your eyesight your teeth are okay your tongue the brakes in your con the brakes of all the cars behind you Oh what else are you saying thank you to me because if it's big if big if mega if if I have a right to tell God what's not right about my marriage then I should at least be consistent with my old logic Italian what's right in my spouse if big if if I have a right to tell the remote alarm what I don't like about life I should be consistent with my own logic and least tell him what's good governor mara had this dilemma cuz every time he would speak about the pain in his life dolphin off Shima toga parrot curfew test if you're never sure about which capital always say cook for your test you got a pretty good chance of getting it right says Davin I'm Alec my soul drips with agony dolphin a FEMA Tucker you don't even have English words for the the the beautiful poetical language that he uses but he always comes back to the same default hi do lush em Zi yang this is not an easy day no say stuff in a matter ji-yong Asajj em hey yeah but you have no idea how you have no idea what a difficulty I had today with my carpal you have no idea dealing with the rabiot tomorrow or the from inaho the principal today you have no idea what I went through with my coworkers abuse I take from my boss and cut I got a sparkle threw down a mouth is saying say how you I saw a sham oh really you made this day oh oh so if you made this day it must be pretty good there's got to be some good in it right nagila let us rejoice let us rejoice giel is a lotion of Guillory let us reveal the hidden good that's already in my life in my wife in my spouse in my house in my health in my wealth I'm a poet and I know it comes along cos all and wants me to train in God's reality called Ovid Rahman Allah top of it when you say those words comes with over thank you show my love I love you just say I think I love you I thank you simple cheater streamers nothing sophisticated you get the Missal of the mana you get the mitzvah of loyola highly marketing my pan I you get the mist of a car - my Easter I'm looking to shimmer hard web training every morning every night you are Shem you'd keep off que Ella que no you're the God who is you'd keep off K always was is and will be has said and you also L like a Noel Kim you also God of din a hard but you really are the same one God there's no real difference between them that's the ultimate - Oh see you're getting the mitzvah of saying Hashem your effort every time you say I love you when it's not good here the logic three mitzvahs two media's so far I've got 40 but I won't have time to go through all of them luta - raha real evolved give me a rain a time do you get that Mitzvah every time we say thank you I love you do we get the atmosphere yes or no yes what's the logic because instead of me following oh it's the boss oh it's not you again Oh the cashier so rude I come in so impertinent no no manners in this country and what all my complaining is focusing in the moment is my thoughts in the moment focusing and what's not good in my life and in that same moment Hashem is giving me a very simple test blossom where I plant you right now you're in traffic right now you're in the showroom right now you're in the classroom right now you're in the staff room right now you're with the kids right now you're with your spouse blossom where I plant you but my mind is keep saying you know I got to get to the office and Here I am playing with my kids and where's my mind in the office Here I am at the office but I'm not really focusing because I'm worried about my shot and bias so where am I wherever my mind is Here I am driving with a cellphone cup of coffee changing radio stations to hear about the thunderstorm and maneuvering the steering wheel where are my well I GPS says now I don't mean physically where are you I'm in the car no where are you yeah no the real you Oh thought am i drinking coffee listening to the radio talking to a friend driving a car where am I uh yeah uh where am I how far am i away from changing my mind he her of teshuva tissue the ACO tissue has believed in the mind brought all over in many sperm a Kurdish oeuvre is believe how far is that Mitzvah so Irish on him tell us that the following posture came about to quote you is going on Tara and teshuva ki Caravela I divert my eyes this item is exceedingly close to you para climate possibly talent and varam cacao vltava a la cama y this is exceeding close to you but fika in your mouth I love you thank you sorry help Whoville vodka in in your thoughts la si site to do it teshuva is not complicated it's not months and years it can't be but it doesn't have to be because a rush of gamma in one moment of saying almanach on each sorry gamma make who - yes but he's in Russia gamma know in our shams dictionary the only one that's real thought counts all the way and so based in who see this Russia gamma give a puta - Anisha and says around my condition see Berta Basu almond ishani tsadikim or make a gaseous why say show Senora Hezbollah mattress Lama Dalai Lama Dolloff Gemma he her to Shuba Burley PI because perhaps he had a thought of teshuva in his mind change is everything how long's that take one second kicker availa heard of a night oh so when we're saying thank you hm and it's not easy it's not easy do you get the mists of teshuva and if you're doing it me over is that different from yireh yeah because if it's from Yura well any of our I did connects to this gets kind of canceled but if if I do it mama what happens to the Avera what happens to the sinus they've come a slice whoa oh the babies like you're so good to me you love us so much do you get the myths of your mind you know session when we say hello ahem thank you I love you do you get mister Bava half direct America that instead of me having sinner or natira natira means I'm being Shimer the raah the Li boy about you in English we say bearing a grudge Rashi says Shalom I see a mad dash line right at the top of the page Kafka Muhammad Allah in nuuma talking about natira natira means resentment oh do you know how many people I resent just just say their name and guess what pops up in my mind that's an invitation for what will I think in the next thought and when we say I love you I am thank you for the natira that just popped up because now I get to say I love you with my y8 Sahara mission a it's a rare car it's not complicated that is the beauty of Judaism is not complicated when we look carefully we see this is where you and I function all the time over here you and I function between our ears all day and not all every single waking moment of my entire lives is experienced over here and every time we say I love you thank you hm we are turning our muzzle around that's why rabbi rush had to commit to writing 190 of of the stories of where people say thank you and again and again and saw miracles take place in front of their eyes where there was severe debt whether in some cases very serious cases of terminal disease do you and I get the mitzvah of like I don't want to take revenge on others when we say thank you a Shem for that for that much offer we turn it around say a sham I love you because now I get to be daughter to you oh boy kids buck is that a mitzvah dear ricer yes when the tiger mitzvahs according to say for hurried him the schmuck oh boy did but we don't talk got a sparkle so the run bomb explains it to be double to Tom Dale hum him and that's how your topic talk on sparkles say for her radium and others say in addition to that you are done workers Barca when your mark Shover is on Hashem oh so when you say I love you a champ thank you hm for the rah higher bottom live Iraq al ha ha thank you oh you get the mitzvah of boîtes buck you get the mitzvah of judging our Shem righteously in the smug remotion of Coucy one of the one of the poly toys for us he writes that one of the targets verse is to PT is to be done done hums goes on a car Sparkle that when things go wrong judge hashem favorably I know that it must be a bigger plan I don't know what it is I love you I thank you safer hooray diem and smug but both bring the following whom ultimate or last leave of him now the word lave really means mind or Allah means extra sets the lotion of the reduc is me you sir it's more so if ma if LAIV means mind or thoughts who mount him cut off our last leave of him remove the extra thinking what's the extra thinking I can't stop thinking about this person nuts this child why me so I'm gonna share with you a very simple muscle here's my pecker this is - Sian I have to Hashem has designed it that it's not too heavy it's not super light but it's not too heavy for me to carry throughout my life so contained here is all the difficulties that I go through on a daily basis so why is - science so hard I cut is parking you designed it perfectly for me well I'm looking at other people and it looks to me they don't have I'm carrying with me I can't help it my kids then the sign is not the problem it's the overweight thinking that is destroying my mind I am the problem it's not my wife it's not my husband it's not the kids it's what I keep thinking about I'm gonna prove it to you you and I have whose DNA Avram Aveeno Sara amino Avram Aveeno say Hazael Pirkei avos para que Mishnah gimel Basara nice yo nice new NASA aroma vino of course Bob who put him through ten tests the armored Pakula Wow he stood up to all of them what's the obvious question you know I want to know the answer to what's the obvious question if you couldn't if you could ask only one question to avril lavigne who's standing here tonight what would you ask him in relationship to this mission er what would you want to know how did you do it you chose the kitchen IH over him right when you arrived in to Eretz Kanaan promised to you by course Baku you right there and there's a rat of you come British guard over the tremendous amount of wealth and within three months what were you doing no you did not do an le Malik and go to my earth what did you do for three months read the mad Russian there parakeet base unbelievable a vermin and Sarah started shifting all their animals to give food to everybody and who was everybody monotheists believers in one a sham nah [Music] these were the lowest people Kanaan cuz I'll tell us can Annie Kanani is over here is poverty true poverty is not financial true worst poverty is poverty of the mind poor thinking like rabbit victim NSS under an apostle initially call you may her on e row him all the days of the poor man a bear terrible us forever victim alone so why do I need Shama Malik how come we call Adam to tell me all the days of poor man a bad finish the boss ERG the toy lave mich debt are made a good mind is that a constant banquet Oh the Arnie is not talking about finances materially is talking much worse poor thinking and I don't mean unintellectual it doesn't mean doesn't have a PhD and a good grade from high school poor thinking you can have four PhDs and still be poverty-stricken cuz poverty of the mind means I live a life of being ungrateful is the worst so comes along cuz I'll and says Kanani can Arnie the people of Canaan were poor over here and Al Rahma vino sorry may know our sheykh ting all the animals then he sold all the jewelry all the gold all the silver until three months I'm know how many hundreds or thousands of people they fed the rough didn't stop what did I Rama bean to do next goes down to mitzraim he's forced he has to and then his wife is kidnapped by Paro and what do cos I'll tell us you've only got three words you know look at the Rashi and Robin Elena on the Mishnah para que Mishnah gimel perky a voice three words answer the question how did you do it everyone I mean how did you do it when you're told to sacrifice your son your only son the one you love what were you thinking Roberto shillelagh 67 years ago you promised me a son 37 years ago he was born I waited 30 years my wife waited 90 yes every month for nine decades and now you're telling me to sacrifice him listen to what cuz I'll reveal three words how did you stand up to all those miss Janice shall I hear her of he didn't think after him or after it he wasn't thinking about the runoff he was thinking oh you're inviting me in a situation where I'm going to prove my mana I love you Hashem oh I get to do a tremendous amount of care said now I'm now I'm serving you with everything because I've got nothing left I got to go down to mitzraim with a little bit of real cush that's left to bribe my way in and take care of myself there Sherlock heheheh ruff that's why when Masha banal as Lama hirato llamas their parrot of beginning of purchase for era and RM says why are you asking me that Avraham Yitzhak and Yakov saara I'm wrong have you had nowhere to bury his wife Sheila here a Crematory sigh he didn't even think it's here that I go through than the Sian I prove it to you everyone here how often do you think on a Friday should I keep sharpest this job or not so I put on tefillin this morning it's not an acai unto you do you know why because you don't think about it someone who's thinking about McDonald's beef burgers or whatever they're thinking about it it becomes Anna Sian it's the thinking that's the new Sian it's the overweight thinking that's the new Sian I saw once someone who'd been through 13 rehabs for heroin he said the only thing missing in his life was a death certificate it was the only thing that his entire family and himself knew was coming that's the only thing missing his whole life because it's just a matter of time 13 rehabs is still alive and he keeps going back until unbelievable insight he had he said I realized I never had an addiction problem I never had an addiction problem I had a sinking problem I thought that this drug would get me out of my pain escape from my reality which I didn't want to be part of when I realized the problem is not the addiction the problem is what I'm thinking and now he goes around the country helping people in rehab to recognize that it's the thinking about the drug getting me out of pain that is the problem start saying thank you for the good that's already in one's life and I don't need to turn to other staff of Malvina Sheila here aha sorry Manu 127 years Mayor Shaun of SM Sean of a seviche on him say Castle why why does the PASOK start off ieu hey Sarah tell us the number of years she lived and then offer and snake hey Sarah to tell you it makes no difference when you look to her life it was cool on shavon 'let iva all equally good rhubari shall i love how could she say that kidnapped twice bad 190 years she went through the same raft same families are from Aveeno when he was orange that keeps on the a she was married to him what was she thinking by saying cool on Charlotte IVA and her answer is so simple either I read my life based on what happens to me from people and situations and circumstances or I tell you what am I thinking and she said every time another month will go by I cried and then I said I'm gonna pray more and I get to be closer to you by thanking you mourn saying I love you no matter what oh so what brought you closer and closer and closer was every single disappointment you then said thank you I love you and to show you how true this is look at the first Russia Tabas of : shavon Latoya spells the word sake all because where do you experience life you're never I'm about to something that sound shocking it's not to shock you it's true though you're never married to your spouse ever you are only ever married to who you think he is so if you really want your spouse to change where should we begin what am I thinking here's a hammer this is my anxiety you know when I think about my boss oh my gosh you know I have to tell you about this I got my kids in my life and these are all thoughts I keep thinking it's the things outside of me that's causing it but I've got a lot of anger I look at my life I'm really I'm worried about my health and between all thank you very much about four more credit cards to roll over my debt that'll be the moment I realize the moment I realize that it's not the hammer that's bang on my head it's the thought that's inside of me that I'm entertaining and the college bar who says I I'm giving you choice Patera in your next thought you want to carry on with the anger frustration debt my boss fear anxiety or the moment I realize I'm doing this to myself guess what I do next guess what I'll do next you drop the thought why should I go there and the Cordish bar who tells us para good possibly possibly chemo in forum room ultimate or last leave of Khem cut off the extra thinking says Rashi Orla is a Tim Tam Helene it's a blockage I'm blocking my muscle a flowing of blessing that our Shem wants to constantly the tap is open I'm closing it because Maya Sharma is over here the Saito is your neshama it's in your my earth that's in Perak not peg and Cyril it comes a sieve hey in short an arrow or if I am your fill in our connect it your Maya what that because that's where your neshama is oh you are neshama I am hurting myself with my thoughts my sake hole and that is what I'm gonna take with me to lmms in the source of knowing that life is a lot simpler than I think when I stop thinking about the stuff that's hurting me and start thanking instead of thinking and thinking and thinking and then as we start thanking and say thank you I love you because that's a mitzvah dear writer which you get about 14 mitzvahs their rights at every single time and that's why Robin Newberry is saying there's no end to the scar of mitzvahs done with the mind because in one thought one thank you you're getting so many Mitzvah simultaneously in the source of knowing - em wants us to live there after supper call live Alka in the source of knowing that we should all be soca to pay more attention to our thoughts and see that simcha is more than a siesta Shem is with us all along and we should carry that with us to come and be me know I may tell you unless enough to a bigger shaker too rubbery Eddy inspiring Russia by said one another mid so you don't have to think about is micelle Bihar boss the stared to rob him to sponsoring one of the agency retire and call the agency retired seven one eight eight five one eight six five one or email tape Center at yeshiva Netcom back to the biggest require to mr. belman Perlman for sponsoring tonight's show 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