Happiness, LED on SHABBAT, Holy Music, MENTAL ILLNESS, Fake Convert, DINOSAURS - STUMPTHE RABBI (87)

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bem was a extraordinary launch we launched it with uh eight different languages uh subtitles in eight different languages uh across the board French German Hebrew uh Portuguese Spanish uh Indonesian um I'm forgetting uh a uh what else we have uh several other languages uh there's also Russian and Korean coming too soon oh they also did Turkish so bem they a lot of different languages uh I don't believe that even but even Hollywood movies with their impurity uh uh get uh such a launch usually uh you know these types of launches go into different languages over time gave us an extraordinary team of uh of amazing people that uh made a major sacrifice in their lives and time and efforts and uh made sure that this movie came out uh with multiple languages and of course anyone that saw the movie Saw how much went into it uh the production uh is just uh out of this world and uh really uh with the exception of a [Music] few and to people that didn't even watch the movie but they just simply like to uh dislike anything that has to do with kadus uh the feedback we've gotten from it uh from the people that have watched it has been amazing uh people uh uh said they've already watching it the second time and they're recommending it to everybody uh so uh the movie is is out now for all of those people that uh uh did not uh invest in this movie did not uh you know uh were not able to uh uh donate for for the movie The uh time is not is has not run out it's actually not even close we're still in the early stages and simply because this is not a movie that were looking uh like Hollywood to make money off of it off of a good weekend this movie is going to be a very uh big part of the uh Foundation of our teachings as it has been for the last seven years um uh and uh we're going to do everything possible to Market this movie much more than anything else we've ever done because we know that as we see society today uh there's a never been a better time uh so uh for anyone that wants to um uh invest in helping us Market this movie there is a uh already hundreds of thousands of dollars that are going into it to Market it whether it's uh the internet or it's say uh uh make USBS and uh DVDs and flyers and a lot of other things there there's a new website called tab.org that is uh in the same uh um level of Technology as Netflix where you can watch the movie over there and uh not have to uh uh depend on YouTube or anybody else so that uh anyone that knows technology goes in that website uh we'll see it within two seconds that this is a uh very unique website just like when you see the movie you see it's a very unique movie uh where uh it's practically second to none and uh so to Market it literally there's no amount of millions of dollars that would be enough uh to Market this movie and uh there's really never been a time that it's more apparent than now as uh you know a few people sent me some of recent news uh that's been happening there was a apparently some psychopath uh that went into uh Salon I think it was and just decided to kill the the women there the people there and uh apparently when they asked them why did you do it he said that after watching so much pornography uh he has become addicted to sex and uh he decided that the best decision for him to do is to kill the Temptation apparently there was Temptation in that parlor uh so uh this is one of the main topics that we discuss in the movie about what happens with pornography uh and uh how it's not only the words of the sages telling us that it's going to uh lead to uh a destruction of your uh of your heaven and going to a gome and so on but also a destruction of society at large as we see today uh and we have seen already for decades where serial killers uh Mass murderers are all in they have the same have a common denominator which is the same addiction uh to pornography that uh you know simply is never enough they keep uh going to more and more taboo and more extreme and more violent pornography to the point where they eventually want to act on it and that's exactly what this uh this person did uh and and uh and I think it was in Atlanta and that's exactly what the psychopath uh whether it's uh dhama or uh or Bundi or any of these other Psychopaths some that we feature in the uh you know them speaking in the film that's exactly what they all say it's exactly what they all say where they uh get to a point of such high level of addiction that they simply look at people no different than anything else their human life loses its uh value uh and uh this is in essence what's happening and what has been happening uh for a long time but it seems like um there's a few people that want to do something about it there's apparently a few people in government want to pass a bill that uh would uh automatically force uh or force uh phone companies uh smartphone companies to automatically censor pornography on the phones uh you know and uh but of course you can get out of it this is uh technically meant to sensor kids as if the the filth of pornography is okay for adults already you see that there's problems with the people behind it but the point being is there is a few people that at least are trying to uh have their heads on screwed right and and better Society by censoring the phones I personally don't think this will pass but even you know even if it does again uh the uh censoring a phone uh having all types of uh filters on phones is only a uh you know a Band-Aid on a heartache uh as I've always said when people ask me about these different filters to have on phones whether it's this one or it's that one it's all nice it's it's it's an additional fence that a person can put around themselves but it's not enough because I've met people that have literally spent their life in yeso in learning to but still addicted to immorality uh even when they don't even own a computer in their house uh had one time a guy tell me that uh you know he's addicted to to to this filth and I told him okay so take out the computer out of your house he said I don't have a computer I said okay so throw out your phone he says I don't have a SmartPhone I said so how are you watching this pornography magazines he goes no we don't have the magazines I says what's the what do you do he says once a month we go to a relative's house and in that Rel themselves they have a computer so I wait the whole month just for this sin this unfortunately is the strength of the uh the the tum headed by the Satan's wife that has uh infected Society for Millennia this is not a new thing it just a the only thing that's new is that people have uh stopped acknowledging the problem and actually started welcoming it into their homes uh so the point is is that uh pornography is has been a problem for many many uh uh decades uh and uh the reality is that it's led to a lot of death a lot of Destruction a lot of divorces a lot of bad marriages a lot of unhappiness and one of the main things that this movie does is that it puts everything into perspective both from a Biblical standpoint the rabinal standpoint a societal standpoint a uh Health standpoint everything is discussed in there it covers all the bases as one of my dear friends uh friend of mine told me is like this movie scared me to death but it covered all the bases so for anyone that wants to take a uh a share in this and the marketing of this and to get this movie to every single school on in the world to every single Yeshiva to every single child every single adult married single every corner on planet Earth you want to be a part of it literally there is no amount of millions of dollars that would be sufficient and if the uh the feedback is uh you know and then the uh uh everything continues to do uh uh as well as it's doing I uh you know don't be surprised if there is going to be a sequel at some point in the future but for now there's really no need simply because the uh the main bases have been covered uh the point being is that it's a uh it's a big project and those that have their eyes in their head and understand what's at stake society's uh ex you know existence in essence is uh is at stake here want to be part of it are welcome to uh the other thing is a uh like we do in every holiday like we do every year we are uh part of our organization is not uh just to take care of uh the uh uh the spiritual uh state of am Isel and the uh the righteous among the Nations but also the the physical status of the Jewish people uh so specifically Scholars that live in is and are struggling financially and uh anyone that follows us closely knows that we send many many hundreds of thousands of dollars to Israel to help these people but only if we know who they are and we could verify that it's indeed a need and not just a a want so we have our one of the one of the main things that is most common uh among the Jewish people during the time of PES especially in the preparation of PES is to feed the needy to help feed the needy because PES is expensive between the mat and the koser PES good goods and the wine and everything else a very expensive holiday for everybody but if you're in need if you're struggling already even before this holiday it's a it could be turn into a nightmare so it's very common for organizations to help the needy our organization as bash has grown drastically over the last few years and has helped many many people last year alone we helped over 10,000 people uh and this year we're on Pace to surpassing that significantly we've already sent $100,000 uh to ER Isel in the last week or so uh or a few days whatever it's been and uh to uh to pay for a bunch of uh food chicken and all types of goods and wine and matah and so on to feed hundreds and hundreds of families but uh there's a lot more needed simply uh there's a uh like anything else there's a lot more needed you know to uh because we actually this time around we did something uh different because we've spent a lot of money we made a lot of contacts we actually uh uh made an arrangement with a wholesaler rather than a retailer usually we buy all of our stuff from supermarkets so you pay you know you pay retail price for it once in a while they give us like a 10% discount but uh you know all the savings gets passed to the people they just get more food but it's still retail so now we found a wholesaler uh that supplies the the the uh supermarkets and uh he is giving us all the food for the different places that we're Distributing uh and uh so now the families in essence are going to get double the amount because that's how much the savings is it's about half the price so it's about double the amount that the family is going to get we're not looking to save money we're just simply looking to give the people more food uh and um so this is is happening uh same thing with matot matot needed a different provider but point is is that uh there's a lot needed for so uh anyone that is uh going to a supermarket or has gone to a supermarket and spend three four five 6 8 n 10 uh you know $1,000 $1,500 $2,000 knows that that's normal you know spending $1,000 on for shopping for pesak is normal and spending $2,000 on PES is normal and spending $5,000 is normal why because PES is expensive it's there's a lot of food that's need and you have to change everything sometimes you have to change uh pots and pans and so on it's expensive uh point being is is that uh you know these people also need it the good news is because we're getting stuff directly from the uh the wholesaler we're saving a lot of money to uh sponsor one family is only $380 so in essence each person can sponsor 10 families for less than $4,000 uh if you if you uh have a uh you know good income or enough assets you want to sponsor 25 families you could do that for less than $10,000 so to have the Merit of a of of uh sponsoring families is always good but the zor kados says and I learned this actually from Ral recently he says that there's a unique mitvah of feeding the poor before P where says when you feed the poor before P you become his partner in essence you become a partner with a you're in business now together so if that means that if you also have another business other than the business of donating to the poor but you also have another business you have a phone store you have a brokerage firm you have a shoe store you have anything else K becomes a partner in that business too so highly recommended to uh to partner with us in this particular field uh you know if you have something locally with your Rabbi locally you know as long as you know that the money is really going to poor people and not to line people's pockets uh by all means you can do that too but definitely make sure that your generosity button is turned on during this time of p uh so that's the second thing there's many other updates but let's move on into the because I know you have I'm sure you guys have some questions and I want to say some uh in the honor of oura Spivak uh Shalom uh to uh to get some uh understanding of this time of year what can we learn it's a uh it's really a uh interesting time of the year where you know on one end you're excited that uh you have a big H you have PES you have extraordinary day you know we went over the of P last week so anyone that hasn't watched it uh I recommend leave your uh uh questions to until after watching the sh don't ask me questions about P if you haven't watched the sh because uh it's it's it's a lot of it pretty much everything you really need to know about this year's PES is covered in that and also other sh that we have but uh you know thing is though on the one end people are excited there's a big holiday time to take off as a side note we will not be having any sh during the entire holiday of PES uh and also not during the it's a Time uh I need to take a little bit of time off uh to be honest with you I was going to take off tonight also I'm not exactly feeling great but because of what happened with UHA I uh in his in his honor we have to do is um but will give us a strength so the point is is that everybody's excited you have a lot going on and another end people get anxiety people sometimes get depressed people get a uh overwhelmed with things so what gives you know how come there's a mitvah at hand here but so many people are unhappy so many people are unhappy so I learned this from from my Rob from yob speac where he learned it from his R and his ra learned it from their ra all the way to as it is with all people that have that uh he says that uh people have a uh confused understanding of what happiness really is meaning that uh when when they look at happiness when they when when they think of it when they when they try to understand what it is they usually want to connect it to something physical they usually want to connect it to to materialism of some kind they want to uh you know connected to some type of goal or aspiration of some kind and uh many times they you know they reach their goals but their happiness is unchanged uh you know sometimes they get joy but that's temporary sometimes they get excitement but that's temporary but happiness they never get and he says that this is actually the curse that gave the snake the the snake the serpent in where after adish sinned and uh due to the uh enticement of uh the uh the snake uh hasem punished everyone said to from now on because obviously didn't listen to Hashem you ate from the Tree of knowledge you will have to work very hard you'll have to work very hard to attain uh Comfort to to to make sustenance to make a living and so on and so forth and of course that's pretty much Society at at hand today even the people that are uh very very well off uh you'll notice that they typically work harder than everybody else uh you know there was a uh video uh uh someone uh uh sent to me one time I didn't watch it but you remember the title very vividly where it says that uh the the guy from uh Tesla uh who became a billionaire over the last few years he's a very very smart guy and uh but he doesn't take any days off he has no vacation now this is not really such a unique thing many times many of the uh uh Amazon of the world and the uh The Berkshire ha of the world and the coca-colas of the world are led by people that are very extreme uh when it comes to taking time off uh I could tell you myself I myself is like that I haven't taken a vacation in uh AEM only knows how many years uh simply because you have a motivation you have a aspiration you you want to get somewhere and uh you know vacation sometimes seems like a uh it's going to get in the way or delay you it's not necessarily true sometimes it's good to have a vacation and to take some time off uh but mentally speaking it's it's very hard for certain people to do that now when it comes to uh to Adar was uh told that he's allowed to take a vacation but regardless of whether he takes a vacation or not he's gonna have to work really really hard and uh the billionaires of today work really really hard the millionaires of today work really really hard the uh blue color workers cleaning uh the garbage driving the bus uh driving the garbage truck uh police fire department all different types of employees of the government all these different types of bluecollar people teachers and so on they all work really really hard some have better schedules than others but nonetheless everybody works really hard especially if they want a succeed in life and uh not necessarily just monetarily but just in their profession to attain some level of success that is in essence part of human nature on the other hand Eve was also cursed that for her to Bear children to raise children is going to be very very hard that was the curse OFA I've never met a woman that had an easy uh Labor uh carrying another human being in your body is never easy Unfortunately today many uh women that are unlearned about the the topic uh simply decide that they don't want to deal with any of this difficulty of carrying a baby changing their body having uh giving birth to a baby raising a child uh you know they don't want to give any any type of uh time to that so they simply decide to murder it uh but that's only because they are misled to believe that it's not really a baby it's like uh a button it's like a little lizard or something in their stomach it doesn't really exist you know so uh next time you think that a baby that's inside the stomach uh doesn't exist just uh you know put a plastic bag uh around your face tie it really really hard and just say no no no I don't exist so I you know I don't need air anymore see what what happens when when that happens it's not going to work out so good why because you're murdering yourself no different just because you don't see the baby doesn't mean it doesn't exist but unfortunately again this is unknown by by society and there also one of the things we cover in the movie tunait uh and unfortunately many women young and older uh murder their babies without realizing the consequences of it the whether it's the spiritual consequences of it or even the physical consequences of it many times women end up losing the ability to give birth as a result of a single time that they had a uh aala they had a Mis um abortion uh so uh it's it's uh sad but it's a reality it's uh and uh so it's very very dangerous and uh that's carrying a baby also is not so easy and that's in essence the curse of was cursed with a uh having a difficult time raising children and so on on the other hand the snake was called ar ar is the worst curse in the Torah and uh this this snake was called but yet says to him that you'll be able to eat pretty much anything meaning that the uh snake is going to be able to not work for his food not struggle for a uh for for Success uh you see pretty much snakes are never the type of animal that starve to death you'll see a lion starve to death from time to time you'll see a tiger starve to death from time to time you'll see other animals starve to death from time to time but you're never really going to see a snake starve to death sometime because a snake can simply eat anything uh in a uh and that's actually the curse why is that the curse it's like saying you're going to get on day one of your birth you're going to get a trillion trillion dollars and Hashem says that's the curse why is that a curse andac Shalom says that the reason why that's a curse is because it eliminates the ability of that person of ever becoming happy because happiness is not something that someone can give you happiness is only acquired as a result of hard work the the hard work that people run away from on a day-to-day basis is the only way they can actually attain happiness uh whether that hard work is the hard work in their marriage the hard work in their learning tah the hard work at work itself or whatever job you have you want to have happiness in that particular uh part of your life you have to work on it it's not something that anyone can give you even if you get a very big salary on day one you will be unhappy with that very big salary at some point or another uh because again it's a uh there's a certain uh part of a uh human nature that wants to attain success and it says in the Book of Job that person was created to toil and uh but in the bigger scheme of things in the in in the Battle of for achieving the purpose of life it's even more significant where a person who does not know how to attain happiness will simply never achieve it they can attain wealth and money and still be miserable and commit suicide like many millionaires do suicide uh uh for uh for you know For Better or For Worse is a rich man's problem if you look at the statistics that were done by the US government and other uh organizations uh they said that over 70% of the people that commit suicide are middle to upper class of society you would think that poor people jump off of bridges but it's actually not true it's rich people that jump off of bridges and lose hope uh so uh suicide is not a uh uh you know done because you're poor usually it's done because someone doesn't understand how to appreciate their wealth and the gifts that they have so a person that uh has money is not necessarily going to attain happiness and could literally kill themselves a person that is married is not necessarily going to attain happiness because over 80% of Western Society ends their marriage that was very exciting with a very and exciting and Tra traumatic divorce 8 0% uh actually uh or actually a little over than 80% actually file for a divorce uh which is a a nightmare of its own uh so you have uh people say oh yeah but once I have kids well what if your kid ends up being this kid that just killed a bunch of people you still happy that you had this kid what if your kid ends up being like Adolf Hitler and kills even more people are you still happy that you had kids what if your kid is uh you know has some other type of problem are you still happy that you had a kid it's again uh it's it's not a uh it's not just a easy thing to say oh kids are going to attain going to allow you to have happiness everything has its cost and people that understand what they have uh can attain happiness as said who is Rich meaning who has attained success who has attained happiness someone that's happy with a share whatever you have you find a way to be happy with it now this again is a uh is not because what you've attained was given to you but rather because you've worked hard for it now sometimes when it comes to K when it comes to serving a you have certain people that do certain things and they still don't attain happiness they pray they learn and yet they don't attain happiness why is this so person came to the ADM mik and uh was was a giant scholar but he was also very uh brutal with his honesty and someone came to him and said rebi look I've been doing T fasting with talking anything that's not related to already for 40 days and I do fast and I learned this and I learned that and still I don't feel any of this sweetness of tah I don't hasn't come to visit me hasem is not talking to me why is this so the ad mikos says to him come come I want to show you someone that's even more moread than you oh wow okay takes him outside you see that says who say the horse yeah he says that horse he's 20 years old 20 years old and he has never said a single word he has been a t he has been fasting talking for 20 years and guess what didn't come visit him and he's still a horse the guy is confused why is the r compare me to a horse the r explains to him because just fasting just learning just doing not enough you have to add special seasoning to all of your servitude of what's that special seasoning self sacrifice self-sacrifice how is this self-sacrifice self- sacrifice of taking the tah and applying it to your life in a way where requires you to make major changes in your life not just learning what to uh what it says but doing what it says not just doing what it says but doing it with excitement doing it even if you don't want to doing it even if it's inconvenient doing it even if it's hard and not just doing it because you heard about it somewhere or you think it's going to be good but rather doing it with full force you have to make sacrifices or else all of your learning and all of your praying and all of the things that you're doing will keep you the same animal that you began nothing's going to change now in his he has a called and uh he said once that uh years ago someone translated that to English and sent it to the pope sent it to the pope and after some time for the first time in history the pope of the Catholic Church recused himself in essence quit being the head of the Vatican head of the Catholic people surprising the world usually Popes are people that stay there their whole lives until they die no not in this case and the people that were familiar with this issue said that it had to do with the book once he got the book from rakes and there was a few conversations exchange and learning and so on that's it he left so says what do you think that he saw in this book what do you think he was talking about uh uh anti-christian stuff or anything like that says that's not what caused him to leave no you know what caused him to leave he says because the pope like all other good Christians and Catholics is committed to his work and his whole life he doesn't realize it's fake he doesn't realize it's a uh idolatry thinks it's real so his whole life he's been told that if you make such and such sacrifice such as not getting married reading this doing this you will have a feeling like you're on a different planet you're going to have a feeling of exalt this you're going to have a feeling of goodness you're going to have this feeling physical feeling not just recognition and scholarship and and wealth no no not just that you can have a feeling a spiritual feeling that turns into a a physical feeling that is like no other and this Pope I mean if he's not committed to uh to to learning the falsity then who is he learned it and learned it and learned it and he made different sacrifices that the books of the of their false sages say and years and Decades of commitment and guess what he never felt it he never felt any of that stuff and what he found in my book yob says what he found in my book is that any person any Jew that does what is said in the Torah some of the things that he mentioned in the book anyone not the biggest scholar in the world not the one that has the best memory not the one that's oldest anyone that makes these sacrifices can have a extraordinary feeling within a short period of time we're not even talking about making sacrifices for 10 20 30 40 years and then maybe you're going to get something because that's really what the church is in essence saying if you do this for x amount of time you'll get it okay so you pass am time oh no no you have to do something else okay you do that too oh no no you have to do something else you do that something else and the pope got to point where he said I did everything and still nothing buiss he realized the whole thing is fake why cuz once he saw what's written in the book ofes he said anybody could attain this shortly apparently he did a few things and he felt a spiritual elevation to the point where he realized the truth only stands in T is and no one else now of course this could be attained by you or by anybody else but just like the ad mik said you could learn toah but still remain a horse so what is this what what do you need to do about 700 years ago 430 asks why is the Shabbat before PES called Shabbat why is it called Shabbat now this year is an exceptional time where Shabbat is actually the same day as P usually it's a week before either way it's called shab so says why is it called answer is because of the miracle of the where the Egyptians were unable to respond to because of the fear that was instilled in them despite am slaughtering their God to give you a little bit of background in seph the book of Exodus is is commanded right before they leave Egypt is is commanded to slaughter the god of the one of the Gods of the Egyptians in 12 verse number three says on 10th of this month they shall take for themselves each man a lamb or a kid for each for each father's house then it says in verse number six that will be will uh keep this goat or sheep until the 14th of the month and then on the 14th of the month they shall Slaughter it in the afternoon and take the blood and put it on the door poost so now part one is what's the deal with this whole thing now everyone knows or should know that one of the false gods of the Egyptians was the goat they pray to it so here says you have to kill this goat but not just kill it take the goat tie it to your beds for four days what's it going to do for 4 days scream and yell well yeah but it screams and yell is going to get the attention of the Egyptians exactly yeah that's what I want I want the Egyptians to come see it and when they see it I want you to tell them what you're doing you're going to slaughter their God now when the Egyptians saw it they weren't able to talk they weren't able to respond and this was a miracle and says this miracle of them being scared of that's the miracle that's says why is it called shabb because the Tora says that it wasem commanded is to do this on the 10th of the month and to keep the uh the uh the sheep or the goat for uh four days so we know that in the in uh chapter five P 5 it says that the uh this day this 10th of the month was actually Shabbat Shabbat keep this goat for four days Slaughter it that's the P that's when these That's when after that is going to kill the first born of the Egyptians and then Amel left Egypt the following day which was a Thursday so the question that bet asks is how come it's called Shabbat even though it was really why you know the first day was Shabbat but really they kept it for the fourth day for four days why why didn't they it was called maybe uh you know Sunday the big day or Tuesday the big day or Thursday why the Shabbat so the BET explains that it was because on the biggest part of the miracle was on the first day because am was petrified to do this whole thing was petrified to do with this whole thing why they've been slaves for 116 years and they've been tortured they've been murdered they've uh they've been uh done all Nightmares on planet Earth Earth happened over there now you're going to turn around to your slave master to your boss for the last 100 plus years and Slaughter his Idol so they were scared to death but the biggest fear was on the first day after the Egyptians saw that what was happening and still did not react miraculously the Jews calmed down and it was easier by the second day when the Egyptians came around the second day and told him what are you doing say oh I'm going to slaughter your God over here oh that's what you said yesterday yeah oh okay I got it and it was easier by the fourth day was not even a big deal that's why it was the first day is the day that's celebrated now interestingly says look at the M that you can learn from this has been fighting for the truth since we received it at Mount Si but even before it from our forefathers Abraham and yob and even before them from Noah and even before that but nonetheless we received our Tora we've been fighting for it and that's part of the reason why another name for the Tor isph which is the book of Wars the war of god the war of the truth and the the signature of hem is a is a is truth and has been fighting for this truth against all enemies that ever existed and the bigger they are the more likely they are to be our enemy and that's just the reality am is has been fighting for that truth and even though you'll have different parts of am is uh recus themselves from become from being part of not stop keeping t stop keeping some even join the enemies join the other nations but the point is that the foundation of am is the people of is still alive and well as as promised the idol worshippers on the other hand without anybody fighting them without anybody fighting them abandon their own Gods like people throw away food look at the Egyptians Egyptians were at one point not too long before this uh this this whole event were the most powerful people in the world and after one day of seeing that their God their Idol is about to be slaughtered did they come to terms with it already one day is all it took for them to give up any respect any care any concern about this false god of theirs just one day well I'm is has fought all of the Heretics of the world all of the aim all of the atheist all of the false religions and everything else we still fight to this day the idol worshippers abandon their gods in a second just give them an excuse to do it and they'll do it and that's actually why it's easier to make a non-jew into a Jew than to actually help a Jew Dua it's easier to help somebody convert to Judaism than to actually help a person do chba needless to say we do both but the point being is that's just the reality it's the reality when something is false you don't need that much to remove it if the person is a person of seeking the truth but here says our own dear says look in one day the Egyptians abandoned their false god and got used to seeing their God being insulted being destroyed being slaughtered now the about 400 years ago he says how come it says that the Egyptians were shocked how come it says the Egyptians were shocked say says because the Z in page 39b says that is was commanded to do something that required them to put everything on the line put everything on the line what is that came to and he said Moshe you go to am and you tell them that I said they have to take this sheep they have to take this goat they have to take this false god of the Egyptians and tie it to their beds and make sure that it's they're not hiding behind closed doors make sure they're not trying to suppress the noise in fact make sure that the Egyptians know what they're doing and when the Egyptians come says the b in the name of the and ask you what is it that you're doing what is it that you're doing with my God the Jew has to tell them this God of yours Our God has commanded us to tie it to our beds for the next four days because in four days from now we are going to take your God your false god and we are going to slaughter it and then is going to take the Sal the angel of Egypt every nation has an angel has a Sal he's going to take your your false God and he is going to also tie it up for four days and in four days he's going to lay it up like we laid the Sheep and then he's going to slaughter that sound and destroy all power that Egypt has all the false beliefs that you have is about to slaughter it just like we Slaughter it and we're going to slaughter this and this is your god started crying to saying to there's no way they're going to be able to do this they're SC to death of the Egyptians says said to M I swear on my name that if they do not do exactly as I said and TI the Sheep to the bed and tell the Egyptians that we are about to slaughter it because our God said so and is going to slaughter your your s if they don't do exactly what I said I will never allow them to leave Egypt this was the Commandment of a only way to get out of Egypt so the B says the Egyptians were shocked number one because of not only what they were seeing but also what they were hearing the Jewish people say second condition the B says it's also because it wasn't too long before that that the Egyptians saw that the is was also praying to the same Idol they were also Idol worshippers they were also going to church what are you doing slaughtering Our God our mutual God they said so that's where they were shocked why did want to do this why did we need to do such a big thing what's what's what hem is uh jealous of this a false god of theirs to that extent okay you f you jealous of it you don't like it fine just destroy yourself why do you have to put to do this says that p p is not just another holiday it's not a custom you see this whole thing has an extraordinary lesson for life why if you notice if you notice that after it says about this mitvah of slaughtering this this sheep if you fast forward a little bit it starts talking about P the talks about P how PES you have to a uh keep this commemoration of this whole thing that happened anyone who eats on P is it says in chapter 12 verse 15 any any person that eats unleavened uh leavened food shall be cut off from am is whether he's eating the on the first day or any other day until the seventh day so for a week and for people that are in the Exile like us eight days cannot eat you eat it's that's what it says in the Tor it says in verse number 17 you keep these and says don't just think it's just it's also spell the same way you observe the MIT and this holidays they don't this holidays for all the generations until the end of Eternity it's forever this holiday not one time now in verse number 26 says when your children say to you what is the service to you you shall say to them it's a PES offering this is a PES offering when you have the little your kids ask you what is this say this is P what's this PES what is this PES PES what happened to us in Egypt we were we were slaves of the Egyptians eventually we got out but we didn't just get out quietly we get out with a lot of noise and we destroyed their God in the process but not only did we destroy their God you have to know that if a person is someone that has the someone that has the he's called someone that's uncircumcised someone that is uncircumcised cannot be part of this PES cannot be part of this celebration what does one thing have to do with the other what does being circumcised have anything to do with this what do I have to do with it okay you want me to eat I won't eat you want want me to have a Corban theban now not allowed to eat Corban by the way the side note the lame shank or anything that you cooking on on uh that's a special commemoration of the uh of theban you're not allowed to eat it on P only on the next day because there's no while there's noash so anyone that's making a l shank as a special commemoration of theban don't eat it on uh the first the S night you have to eat it the next day uh uh but the point being is is that what does p thean the sacrifice the destroying of the Egyptian god what does it have to do with being uncircumcised she saying oh we don't want the G to celebrate PES yeah but it's not enough it's not enough why it's not enough because it's not enough it's not enough of an explanation so comes the and explain to us and recently spoke about this he says if you look from the time commanded us to do theban p and destroy the false god of the Egyptians until the time that he tells us that someone that's uncircumcised cannot be part of the S cannot be part of thisan P what happened in between gave the strongest plague which is the Mak killing of the firstborn and he told us if you want to be protected when I am myself I am not a Mal me and not an angel hasem says when I myself come to Egypt and I kill the firstborn in the animals and the Egyptians and and anyone that does not have this protection I myself not the angel of death not a helper I myself will kill this you want a protection you're going to have to put blood on your doorpost two sides two sides you have to put what is this Blood us one p one piece of blood is coming from the slaughtering of the sheep and the other one is from the that was required to do during those four days stop doing even though was the first one to doob all of his sons everyone is doing for a long time but once we became slaves no moreit for Generations says to if you want to leave this nation ever you have to kill their God and you also have to do what do the two have to do with each other I want their blood on the doorpost I want you to be proud of this why do you want me to be proud of this what's so proud put some blood wow is anybody going to be able to tell whether it's the blood of the Brit mil that my husband did or my son did or or or it's the blood of another sheep that I killed or a mouse what is this says no no no it's not about what's this and what's that it's what they represent you see there were two things that Amy failed that and put themselves in a situation they were in and unfortunately why they're in a situation that they're in today number one number one they were not protecting their breit no bre no how you going to protect the B there's no you want to become a Jew you have there is no such thing as Jew without you have to haveit needless to say if you had AIT when you were days old no one even asked you but now as an older man you're 15 you're 20 you're 25 you're 45 you're 55 you're wasting seed you're promiscuous you're immoral you're with your wife when you're doing all types of things and wasting seed you're not protecting your bleed you are bringing yourself back to Egypt why that's why we were in Egypt in the first place second reason a idolatry idolatry you want to leave Egypt you have to kill the idolatry most of you going to say I'm not an idol worshiper I never worshiped Christianity never worshiped anything else I'm a Jew from birth or I converted already from from from Christianity to Judaism or I left Christianity and I'm in the process of conversion or I left Christian Catholicism and I'm righteous no height so I'm not an idol worshipper maybe so maybe maybe not why all of us have a little bit of idolatry in us all of us why it may not be Yos it may not be Buddha it may not be some statue or some cow but how many of us worship money and start crying when it runs away from us as if we just lost our life how many of us worship people oh he's my idol I look up to him yeah why don't you come toste no no he's my favorite guy he plays basketball and football and all types of sports I got to go see him yeah but there to go find out about hem yeah no no I'll find out about it in YouTube tomorrow how many of us watch stupid sports or news or stocks and CNBC and Bloomberg how many of us worship all types of things worst yet how many of us worship our own flaws no no no I'm just an angry person I'm never not going to be angry no I'm just a sad person I'm just an arrogant person we each have bad character traits those character traits can turn into one 100% idol worship and what a is asking us 3,300 years ago is the same exact thing as he's asking us today for this PES you want to have a good P you want to have a good life you want to attain the happiness that SPAC was talking about that requires toil then you must start toiling to not only protect your bleed protect your modesty as a man or a woman protect your morality and your kadus but you also have to abandon all idolatry not just the apparent idolatry the obvious ones of statutes and false beliefs but also the idolatry of bad character traits stinginess arrogance anger all types of miserable Horrible character traits that are destroying your life you have to abandon them and you're going to say it's hard exactly that's the point that's theban P it's hard because when the Egyptians come and they say what are you doing when the comes to you and says what are you doing you've been angry your whole life how can you leave me I like when you're angry You Break Stuff you hit your wife you hit your husband you hit people you steal you do all I like it you're GNA say no no you and me finished what do you mean finished I am slaughtering you and he himself also Slaughter you and for that I'm going to sing the end of the song people don't know there's a very big cabalistic meaning to this song who says he's going to come and Slaughter the who is this each one of us has a each one of us has a yet bad traits each one of us has to destroy them you want to celebrate P the right way pick something that's going to be yourban pick something none of us can change overnight but each one of us can start somewhere pick one thing to make your sacrifice sacrifice all your Imus clothes sacrifice your wigs sacrifice your uh addiction to sports video games sacrifice your addiction to money sacrifice the time that you waste and spend it on learning toah sacrifice any type of bad character trait that you know is destroying your life sacrifice it that's the sacrifice but remember you're not going to have the strength to do that sacrifice until you do something that's even Supernatural which is protecting your bleed the reality is when a baby has a the laws of the world say that baby's supposed to die why it's not normal baby just born a few days ago 8 days ago you're going to cut him already it's very dangerous the baby's already at life risk just by the fact that he was born you're going to cut him you're going to put that baby's life at risk but a who makes one day one day in entire human life be a day that he sends extra vitamin K to make the baby superum heal faster than any other time in his entire life even if he would take those vitamins throughout the rest of his life he would never attain the level of vitamin K that he has on the eighth day where he's supposed to do and therefore his life is not only not at risk he goes to sleep within a few seconds after having a he doesn't care he's good happy to go as adults had a they put themselves and their lives at risk in Egypt who says that's what I want I want you to put your life on the line for me put your money on the line put your time on the line put everything on the line for me something that hurts one of the most painful things in the world is to overcome the addiction to pornography immorality and all of these different filthy addictions it's very very painful chuva but when you do it says that's theban I've been looking for you combine thatan with the other you're going to have a spiritual elevation like no other why because you've made a physical sacrifice and also a spiritual sacrifice and when you combine the two as said you combine the two you're going to reach a spiritual elevation that would even make a pope into someone that wanted to become a Jew it would make someone that lived a life of falsity into a person that's changing the truth in a day one day you can change all of that and every single person can do that but you can't just sacrifice anything you want it has to be what hashem's asking what hasem is asking is a spiritual and a physical sacrifice this is the way to attain happiness I can tell you for myself there are times that I'm happier than others at time that I'm less happy one common denominator is that I always make certain sacrifices always work a lot always do a lot of different things but working a lot and answering calls or or or messages at three 4 5:00 in the morning is not enough dealing with the organizational issues not enough dealing with 50 60 70 different employees and contractors not enough why that's just a physical sacrifice if my physical sacrifice is not met with an equal amount of learning toah I start becoming depressed I start becoming weak both spiritually and physically a day that I don't learn to is a day that almost was better off it didn't exist why it's a day that I've declined and this applies to every human being it can't just work hard physically and expect you to be uplifted spiritually you can't just work spiritually and expect everything to change also it has to be a combination of the two has to be a combination of the two when you do it you will attain that happiness you will attain that happiness that all of humankind is seeking and every single one of you can do it we'll use the tools that we learned from from the rest of the to do what we need to in order to make the the way desires with that being said who wants to start Wells does toothpaste have to be koser for p what about medicines uh no toothpaste is not something that you consume uh you does not need to be Kos p uh as far as medicine if it is a medicine that has good taste like for example something that's those jelly candies that also have medicine in them sometimes it's for kids or it's vitamins that have a good taste like sweet taste then yes it has to be kosher P but if it's a pill of of some kind that either does not have taste or has disgusting taste like antibiotics usually have disgusting taste then it does not need to have a Kash at all all our k p oh also big uh I'm reminded now also a big mazal big mazal to my dear student and very good friend and partner uh Michael Weaver and his family for completing their conversion uhem this this week at the bed uhem one of our dear students uh just completed the whole family it's a uh amazing amazing achievement after so many years of trying and unfortunately meeting a lot of false rabbis until we met uh and got together to the promised land so we have a another four Jews added to the people just this past week and we also had uh several different families that uh we uh completed conversion over the last couple of months with one couple in December another uh the following month we had I think maybe another 10 15 maybe 10 12 people that have converted in the last couple of months but don't think it took them a couple of months took them some time but and a lot of effort and a lot of sacrifice but apparently wanted everybody to finish their uh their conversions and everything before PES because he wants more to celebrate this p Jacob uh movie okay thank you glad glad you enjoy the movie uh okay Ethan is passing an LED sensored light on Shabbat permissible or considered breaking Shabbat if that led light is your light and uh you own that light and you are turning it on and you know it's going to turn on as a result of you passing it yes it's Shabbat uh although it's rabinal nonetheless it's considered shabat there uh uh there are some people that don't think it's a big deal at all but it's wrong it is considered if it's owned by somebody else let's say it's a uh next door neighbor that there's no way for you to avoid it you have to pass by his house uh then and it turns on then it's not your problem but if you have for example you live we had actually this question from another T of ours uh ask this question he has let's say a um staircase he lives in a building he's on I don't know third or fifth floor or something like that and uh so he has to go down the stairs for Shabbat but the problem is that the uh the every time you open the door every time you open a door on uh on you know for the staircase it turns on one of these LED lights so this is obviously not allowed so what do you do I told him we not allowed to do it he said yeah but there's a lot of Jews that are doing it I said well they're making mistakes they're making mist mistakes and uh you know it's a uh it's a problem for them now number one if they're making mistakes because they think it's not a big deal it's not even a sin technically you are allowed R says you are allowed to benefit from that mistake where they're thinking it's a uh it's allowed so it's in essence it's an accidental sin shog you're allowed to benefit from that sin so you see a Jew going into that staircase uh not that you don't you know you're staying quiet and you're benefiting out of this every week from the same guy poor guy but one time you saw somebody pass and he already opened the door and he turned on the light you're allowed to follow him and uh you know and benefit from that light uh otherwise you're not have to benefit from another Jews violating Shabbat for you uh like if another Jew wants to drive on Shabbat he can't drive to the store to go buy you something that's not allowed but the point being is is that if he makes an accidental sin uh you're allowed to benefit from that but that's again you can't stay quiet you have to tell guy you're not allowed to do it so what do you do moving on so the best thing to do is uh you could uh hire a uh nju uh either someone that works for the building or somebody else before Shabbat make an arrangement with them to come uh pick you up at your house at a certain time and uh and uh drop you up at a certain time meaning not pick you up in the car or anything but he will go and uh come with you and then you'll follow him he's going to be the one that opens the door uh to to leave the uh uh to go into the staircase in essence he's turning on the light you're just following him and the same thing on the way back you have preset times it's annoying and uh definitely not a convenient situation uh but nonetheless it is allowed it is allowed as long as you hire him before Shabbat and you pay him uh on any other day not for Shabbat that is allowed to also do uh so that's another thing that you can do technically you can even tell a that's on uh on Shabbat to walk with you but uh it could become a little bit more complicated to do that why are they walking do you really know them point is do this all before Shabbat and you can make that Arrangement now both of these arrangements are not easy both these Arrangements could perhaps make you feel uncomfortable uh so my student decided you know what I'm moving to the first floor so we ended up learning as a result of it what's allowed what's not allowed but nonetheless most people don't want to deal with this headache so they end up moving you want to move move that's my my recommendation is to move that's the easiest uh thing to do but either way turning on LED lights if it's your lights or if you know they're going to be turned on as a result of you is uh problematic problematic uh next question is cremation allowed for noahides uh to my knowledge it's not allowed for anybody because everyone was uh in essence created in the image of God and cremation is desecrating the body it's even more uh uh significant and and terrible for a Jew to do it but nonetheless uh uh to my knowledge noahides are also not allowed to do it uh Dennis uh I have a couple of questions about music a person cannot listen to this music of cursing and about things that are not exactly to like guns music IM modesty all that but isn't allowed to listen to instrumentals like class class and Jazz also what is the uh what if the author was an idol worshiper but his music wasn't for the purpose of idolatry and some other bad purpose okay so in regards to music uh if it's instrumental uh you're uh you know it's you're allowed to listen to it uh I uh myself uh anytime that uh you know that uh there is music on generally I don't listen to lyrics of uh music so if there is every music on it's just usually instrumental classic type music that's perfectly fine uh even if the person was an idolator as long as his music was not a part of his idol worship as a sacrifice to his Idol or something like that you're allowed to benefit from it with no problem uh yes you're allowed to listen to such a music uh so yes as far as playing music composing music that's also allowed David uh King David had a special instrument that doesn't exist in the world today because it had an eighth note he had a eighth note and he uh the combination of his music in his Psalms reached the highest level of Holiness in the heavens uh in fact music is if it's done the right way music is a way of connecting to Hashem in the highest level in fact there are uh some stories from the bmov and other sikim that uh discovered certain types of music that uh were uh taken by the Satan from uh from from the time of the BET mikash where there was one time the B was a walking with his students in the uh in the woods and uh suddenly he stopped and uh you know the students were dumbfound not sure what was what he doing he was listening to something he was and he kept telling to keep getting closer and closer and eventually they started hearing this uh this tune this tune that they were hearing and uh they uh kept following this tune and the B kept getting closer and closer and closer and uh it was a unique tune but nonetheless it was just a tune of somebody playing the flute So eventually they saw that it was a uh young man that was a Shepherd was playing this tune over and over again and the B and his students will listen to it from afar and and uh eventually the uh the B came up to this person and uh gave him a coin uh to play it again and he played it again and he said play one more time and he gave him another coin and he played it again and uh then he gave him another coin he said play one more time and suddenly the person forgot it he forgot this tune and he's like I don't understand I forgot how to do it I've been playing it for years he says my dear son this tune that you were playing was actually a very special tune that they used to play at the BET mikdash and it was in uh the words of the cabala was captured if you will it was captured in the Exile uh for uh you know 1500 years until you freed it as a result of your playing and now it's back to where it needs to be so when the bet mikdash the third bet mikash uh comes back to the world it's a uh you know this tune will be played again so there is special not only music but there are special Tunes there are special Tunes special music if you will uh that uh the sages uh you know that are very well learned uh can tell that this is something that is part of the exile's punishment if you will but also is part of what we need to do uh to uh to bring the mhia uh that does exist I I've heard of one tune of my life that someone told me this is it again I don't know very much about this stuff other than what I'm telling you uh so don't think I'm a cabalist or anything like that but nonetheless this does exist music is very much a uh uh a real thing in the world it's something that can be used for good but of course it could also be used for bad for Tuma for impurity especially uh the aggressive music uh the music that uh in itself in its own nature is aggressive and uh and uh violent in some cases that surely is not good uh and uh some music that's uh together with uh uh with uh with vulgar words for sure is a not only a sin but the says someone that does such a thing uh you know curses and things like that can lose an entire lifetime worth of blessings because of a single curse so uh it's very important for a person to be uh to use this mouth that he has or she has uh to praise hem to pray to Hashem to learn about Hashem to speak to Hashem uh to do good things with it and not to do bad things with it because when you do bad things with it while doing good things with it the the the bad ruins the good it's like someone that cooked a very fancy dish took three four five six seven hours to cook this fancy dish and somebody uh just decided to put some sewage water on top of it as a seasoning surely that good dish is now completely filth even though it's only a little bit of sewage it's already turns the entire dish into filth same thing with cursing foul language uh and uh inappropriate behavior even if somebody learns to and does does good things a little little bit of Filth can ruin an entire day or even an entire lifetime sometimes worth of work hence the reason why the the sages were very very critical of people that did not take this stuff into consideration and uh actually welcomed the impurity into their life by be you know being friends and associating with things and people that were uh vulgar on a regular basis not that somebody occasionally gets angry and loses his temper but rather someone that on a regular curses and and and does all types of things that are disgusting and you're welcoming this person you're you are that person that's not a good thing uh so a person needs to use the mouth that hasm gave him for for for Holiness and not for impurity uh let's see if a person converted in an orthodox Bine with his parents when he was a small child but his parents didn't necessarily raise him in a completely proper Jewish way is heally still considered Jewish If the parents were weak in observance uh now if the parents on day one of going to the bed Dean they had the intentions of keeping Shabbat in the basics of mitv and uh the son converted with them then yes he is Jewish as long as when he went or she went to uh the bed or in front of uh several Jews when they became Mitzvah Mitzvah age uh and they were asked if they want to be Jewish they answered yes then they have the kazak of being Jewish even if their parents uh later on became weaker and uh practically secular uh but if on day one you know the parents you know they converted or the mom converted but really she didn't never kept Shabbat she didn't keep Shabbat even from day one she doesn't even know what Shabbat is uh she is converted for the sake of marriage convenience money or all types of other reasons that child is not Jewish and never was Jewish because the mom was never Jewish because she never accepted upon herself the MIT one of the conditions of becoming a Jewish convert and what they ask you at the bedine is do you accept the mitv on yourself if the person says yes but really means no in their heart but they're just trying to fool the bedine they may fool the bedine and get themselves a little piece of paper that says that they're Jewish but hasem in heaven says that person is not Jewish so if the person from day one did not keep Shabbat that person is not Jewish and the kids are not Jewish but if in the beginning they kept but later on even if months later later on they started getting weaker and and so on then uh this uh you know the the Judaism is not in question there are somee uh that are more stringent that say even if it's a if the person goes back to idolatry within a year uh shows that the entire conversion was fake uh even if they initially intended point being is it all depends but generally speaking if they kept mitv in the beginning uh then the person the child is Jewish if they didn't from the beginning then the child is not Jewish question are we allowed to use programmable smart lights that can be set before Shabbat to turn on and off at certain times during Shabbat uh yeah this is a uh uh sha Shabbat it's it's called or a Shabbat clock or timers where they have certain timers that turn on and off lights in the house already pre-programmed before Shabbat this is used by uh by Jews around the world I personally do not use them uh but that's because my nature is a little bit different I'm not really so particular about my lights being on and off uh nor do I believe that uh the electric being on uh for an extra 25 hours uh or at least part of those 25 hours on Shabbat is really going to change my electric bill so much uh so I don't use them and I know a lot of people don't use them but there are some people that use them and they program them and uh a few of them have complained that it's a nightmare to use them because sometimes you have this programmable machine tells you it's going to turn on and it's going to turn off and everything is great and you have it all turned on and you're all psyched up and you spent a bunch of money to do it and everything is great and then all of a sudden you're having K on Shabbat and it turns off early and now there's nothing for you to do you have to eat your K in the darkness uh so that's not a fun thing and I don't think that that uh is worth it so if you already have it you can use it but remember that if uh the the light turns on or turns off when it's not supposed to uh don't even think about violating Shabbat but the reality is that sometimes these things can lead people to violating Shabbat where you know like I said something bad happens where the uh the uh uh the light that you need the most is off or vice versa and some people fail at this test so I personally don't think it's worth a test you know that your bedroom is a place you're going to sleep in so turn it off for the whole Shabbat the kitchen the dining room area you're going to be there most of Shabbat keep it on that's my personal preference if a person is more particular uh and uh a little bit more frugal than I am uh in regards to that you can use it but uh be careful that's my that's my uh suggestion Leah is asking if wasting seed is one of the worst sins in Judaism why is it not K bearing sin uh the K in essence is one of the 36 sins that a man mentioned in the T but says that there are 48 so some actually do say it has a but nonetheless it's a uh it's one of those sins that creates the reason why it's called the the worst sin in Judaism is because even though it's not K uh as far as a spiritual excision from Hashem on the spot a person that Wast seed uh and does not do cha goes to the seventh level of Gom and does not come out it doesn't have to be K in order for a person to go to an eternal Gom uh K is just a certain title for a class of sins and but the reason why it's called the worst sin in a Tora I heard once explain it where he says that is because uh it's very logical that it would be the worst sin in the Tora because it creates the most amount of maikin the most amount of demons whereas when a person let's say for example violates Shabbat he is in essence let's say every action that he does let's say he turns on the light created a demon turn off the light created a demon uh you know he uh did certain things he's creating a certain amount of demons for each action but whereas a wasting seed in a single act in a single act a person is creating hundreds of millions hundreds of millions of demons that no other sin can compare to so it is considered the worst sin because it has the most amount of spiritual impact on the person uh to the point where it impacts everything else in his life including his understanding of tah her acceptance of the mitv suddenly if she's promiscuous uh whether it's with someone or with herself or she's immodest or he's immodest and he's promiscuous is any of these things lead a person to become to develop a very thick kipa uh as a result of all of these demons that they're creating that makes them uh simply reject the mitv reject Holiness reject the good and start not only tolerating but welcoming the bad they welcome homosexuality suddenly they want to befriend this homosexual person they welcome uh immorality suddenly they want to go to nightclubs they welcome uh you know unethical behavior all of a sudden they're willing to work for a company even though they know that that company is stealing from people they welcome all types of things that are technically against logic but nonetheless they welcome it as a result of all of this kipa uh from these demons that they're uh that they're producing from a single sin where someone that's sinning in other things uh doesn't create anywhere near as much kipa or demons uh that which are not the same but nonetheless coincide with each other uh there is uh nothing else creates that much nothing else creat that much s when it comes to modesty let's say someone started becoming modest and it wasn't like pants but skirt length uh if they did CH and became modest is it complete even if it caused if they didn't know or did know I have to read the question again let's say someone started becoming modest and it wasn't like pants but a skirt length I'm not really understanding what that part is if became modest is it complete even if they okay I'm going to try to answer the question the best that I understand it if a person did chuv for modesty uh is it complete CH even if they caused if they knew or they didn't know okay so first and foremost you have to know that when it comes to all other sins uh if a person does something on purpose it has the highest level of punishment if a person has does something accidental has a lower uh state of punishment but when it comes to there is no degree everything is the worst everything is the worst is the worst that's why a person needs to do a lot of for for whatever they did purposeful or unpurposeful they have to do Chua for it the best way to do Chua is to do K and the best form of K is to do K to sponsor K to help people do chuva that's the highest level of of of Kem and what a person can do now if a person did Chua for modesty in itself that is K that's a very good thing that you're you're showing that you're standing up for the Torah it's an amazing thing and uh to complete that chuva just add a little bit of K to your life every day and you'll have complete sh so not only are you modest but also you're helping other women become modest by Leading by example leading telling them listen I changed my wardrobe I threw everything out because I believe in God I believe the uh that there is reward and Punishment as it says in the books and so on and so forth you share our lectures with them or anybody else that inspires you and you'll be able to uh make kiru your ongoing kashem vehicle uh and and uh your chuva will be complete as a result of that uh coinciding with your new uh high level of modesty uh sh is asking if a Jewish woman gets a donated uterus from a non-jew and she birs a baby from it will the baby be Jewish or will it have to convert also do I fix a muuza to a 10x4 closet well two very interesting questions uh as far as a woman accepting a uterus from a non-jew that uterus becomes hers so the baby does not have to convert uh because I mean I don't know how often people do that type of a surgery but in order for that surgery to actually produce a baby that utery in the uterus has to in essence become part of her body the body has to accept it um uh and uh you know that Essence becomes part of her so there's no problem of having a baby and that baby would be a Jew uh as far as mza to a closet generally speaking closets are not a place that you put a mza sometimes there are mza uh sometimes there are in certain certain people's closets are like uh rooms uh but uh it all depends on uh on not the size uh only but also the the door if it has a mask and so on so uh you'd have to send me pictures of the door uh and the room and then I could tell you uh if it requires a muuza or not the size in itself is not enough what should a 19 to 20 year old guy do when his parents constantly fight verbally um sorry about that uh they constantly fight okay the father insults and brings up the mother's past sins making her very upset often crying and the mother responds by fighting back verbally and constantly threatens to leave but never does how should this guy go about this situation without transgressing the prohibition of kib uh if this 19 or 20 year old guy even if he was a 19 or 20 year old girl uh doesn't really make much of a difference if he wants to do kib then he has to stay out of it let his parents do what they do they are his parents he's not their parents a child should never get involved in the discussions or arguments of the parents uh it is a bad mistake that a lot of people make and they end up transgressing the uh prohibition of K of honoring the parents therefore the best thing to do is to stay out of it if they're arguing leave the room go somewhere else go learn Torah go to a Tor go somewhere else do not be part of it uh I understand that you're you know you feel maybe perhaps protective over your mom because she's crying or you're upset because your dad whatever the case is it's definitely not comfortable it's a nightmare if you will but it's not your business it's not your business they're adults and they can handle themselves they don't need you to tell them what to do or what you think they lived and existed in the world before you came to the world and they managed just fine uh they will continue to managing just fine and uh you don't need to get involved and you should not get involved uh truly disturbing news coming out of Georgia today mamash word for word what the movie predicted yeah unfortunately the are are uh you know they what can we do T movie came out the same night this Abomination known as the Grammy air of national TV what a star contrast between K and Tuma thank you uh next question Adrian is asking if a mother converts to Judaism Orthodox with her six-year-old son but after marriage that followed the conversion with the Jewish father of the kid she decides to leave it uh and and his conversion is not valid by the raban the question is is the child's conversion still valid she lives with the kid also if the woman converts because she wants to marry a Jewish man but after one year of marriage she starts little by little leaving the MIT but stays with the minimum is she still convert conversion still valid okay so this is a problematic convert that you're uh referring to simply because it seems like this person never really wanted to convert now if somebody genuinely wants to convert at the time of their conversion and they convert and then at some point in the future whether it's a year later or five years later they uh get weaker and they abandon Judaism then her and the child are still Jewish they're just you know she is a wicked Jew and she's also stupid because she was better off staying a non-jew and at least she wouldn't get punished for driving on Shabbat so this shows this person is uh either stupid or is addicted to sins of some kind uh to the point where it's making her spiritually stupid but uh if she uh um stopped keeping me from the start then obviously or she didn't keep me from the start and obviously was never a convert now uh as far as um you know as far as the child the child If the child is still keeping its still eating kosher still eating everything else and when he comes uh to the bed they ask him do you want to be a Jew and the child says yes then yes the child is still Jewish uh but again it all depends on whether the mom uh stopped keeping the twot right away like I explained earlier or later on which it seems like what you're saying it's later on now if somebody converts only for the sake of marriage only for the sake of marriage meaning she doesn't believe in God she doesn't believe in the Torah she uh believes in Yos okay and but she wants to marry this nice Jewish boy or vice versa he is you know then she is not Jewish you know she's if she doesn't believe in a t and she fooled the bed the bed de will give her a certificate but she's really not Jewish she's really not Jewish now uh again this type of person will usually not keep mitv so it's easy to identify that they're not Jewish from the start but typically when somebody is keeping some mitv especially the main ones like Shabbat from the start even if they were influenced by their uh spouse or someone they want to get married uh to uh to convert usually there's a part of them that uh is genuine it's not a 100% fake uh and therefore that the conversion would still be valid but again it has to be evaluated on a Case by casee basis it's not a one-size fits all uh and uh I could tell you for sure that the same Paras that we discussed today parat that talks about the uh uh how am Isel had to uh uh make a major sacrifice make a uh major change destroy idolatry and and so on and so forth this is the very same parasa that we uh also left Egypt and uh in this Paras it says in chapter 12 verse number 38 that the the mixed multitude also came with them came with am who is the mixed multitude the fake converts the fake converts also came with and unfortunately they've been causing us trouble ever since so there are f fake converts in the world bad converts like Asher Mesa and uh I would say the overwhelming majority of his students are all bake bad fake converts uh and uh people like him are all but uh there are many that are good that uh were just misled or uh taught in a in in appropriate way uh and so on but point being is is that is requiring everybody to celebrate PES and he includes the converts there a special uh uh verse that says not just a regular Natural Born Jew celebrates PES and has to make these sacrifices but also someone that converted has to do it don't think that just because you're a convert there's less required of you just as much as required of the convert whether they're new or they're old they have to comply with the entire to like the rest of am next can Noh High wedding Wipe Out the sins of the couple and give them a new if the wedding is done right or this is only for Jews to my knowledge this is only for Jews everyone please share do not forget yes thank you very much for reminding everybody to share yob is asking from learning to line my friend calls and I know that 90% of the time when he calls it's because he wants to tell me a he has may I answer the phone uh if you feinste Shalom said that when a person starts learning and he knows that it's likely that he will get interrupted then he should already take into account from the beginning of his learning that any time he stops learning that's actually when he intended to stop because if a person just uh simply uh does not do that if he just interrupts a studying and it ends up being something mundane then in the name of Rish Shimon it says that they will feed him which is coal that is uh heated and is never cool it's a coal of fire that never cool that's what they're going to feat somebody that uh that uh disturbs his uh teachings with mundane things and treats the Torah like it's mundane so you have to be very careful to not uh interrupt your teachings uh with inappropriate things and uh needless to say you know save yourself from even failing at this by doing what the ra Mosin Feinstein suggested which is already taken into account that anytime you're stopping your uh learning whether it's for this or for that you really intended to stop at that point but you have to take this into account beforehand why is thees the place where urine exits the body and urine is not considered clean uh well I mean the body is the body your entire body is full of different things that uh you know that your body needs I mean everything that you eat uh you could eat something that's a in the BET MD one of theim or the people that would eat some of the things that were sacrificed that would eat these kot when you ate it it was kados but when it leaves your body it becomes uh you know something that's uh not only not kados but if it's next to you you're not even allowed to uh pray or or learn toah next to it you know hem combined the the Holiness with the mundine uh in order to make it a natural world and not make it into a miraculous world uh so we have to combine the supernatural the the extraordinary the uh the Kusa and Holiness of the world with the uh uh with the uh uh the basics of the world and uh you know the way your body functions is the way your body functions it's part of it why was a snake punished if it just followed What told it to do Hashem did not tell the snake to make Adam and sin he allowed him to do it but he didn't tell him to do it just like someone that murdered uh the people today Hashem didn't tell that person to go murder those people today he allowed them to do it and because that person wanted to murder and those people apparently in sham would decreed that they deserved murder uh then hasem allowed him that wanted to murder to murder people that deserve to be murdered uh as it says in now uh the thear says that in heaven it's decided who the one uh that uh is uh meritorious they Hashem gives him opportunity to earn more merits with different things that happen in his or her life someone that say has an obligation meaning they made many sins so gives that person opportunities to make even more sins as a result of his sins uh and even more so someone that has a uh sins that have reached a certain Peak uh where it deserves a uh a punishment for it then Hashem is going to allow a person that is a looking to sin to be the one that is the Stick of Hashem to deliver that punishment that's in essence the tools of AOS sometimes he'll use Nazis sometimes he'll use uh Jews sometimes he'll use homosexuals sometimes he'll use politicians sometimes he'll use a dog sometimes he'll use uh a snake and sometimes you use other things sometimes use earthquake uh there's a lot of different tools infinite amount of tools that Hashem uses uh and each and every single thing there's a reason of why he used it uh and don't just think that just because because it's something that is uh not human uh there isn't uh something uh connected to that uh tool meaning that sometimes there is a uh a soul that is reincarnated in a rock and uh that rock is allowed to kill somebody uh why would AEM you know have that rock kill somebody because that rock apparently put itself in such a condition when it was human uh when it was that n was inside a human to put their in a condition to first of all become a rock which is already terrible in itself and two be such a tool because apparently it was such a tool when it was alive but this is very deep part of uh Judaism that uh you know we have we'd have to uh uh make a differ Sho about at some point maybe how is mental illness related to spirituality uh the Aral says that uh mental illness is completely because of spirituality and at the time of the he would actually heal uh uh people that were severely uh severely uh uh you know uh ill mentally and put in mental institutions and were not able to uh to cope with Society we not able to function talk and so on and Shalom knew the different unique names of a and different that were uh leading this person to have this mental illness and he would do it and he healed many many people by using these holy names in kavanot uh because he said that it's a mental illness is uh uh 100% to do with spirituality it's not uh related to it only but more so uh seven-year-old daughter asks how uh where the dinosaurs were destroyed that's very good question I love questions by seven-year-old kids because they ask questions that are better than adults sometimes uh they they go directly to the meat uh so in seph uh in Genesis it says that hasem created the animals he created the birds and so on but he also created the tanim tanim is giant reptiles which is what the dinosaurs were so we already see in the Book of Genesis that there were dinosaurs in the world and it is mentioned in the Torah uh now uh most of the dinosaurs were destroyed at the time of Noah when Hashem destroyed the world uh destroyed the world destroyed there were also giant people not just giant animals there used to be giant people uh that were called anim and neim all types of giant people only one of them survived uh which actually repopulated the world with other Giants uh like uh like and his brother and his uh son I believe was also Giant and they had a whole Army of giants but there was a whole world of Giants at the time before Noah and destroyed all of them and also giant animals and destroyed most of them there were a few uh that's survived uh one of those dinosaurs was an animal called is an animal that looks like a uh combination of a bull and a uh maybe a deer uh but it is uh a giant uh it was so big that uh two of them had to uh uh follow uh they were made into the Noah made them a special uh hole in the uh in the for them to be able to uh to eat for to feed them uh and he connected them to the T but they weren't able to go in the T they were almost as big as the T even though they were both a week old they were weak old and they were almost the size of the they were giant giant animals there's also is mentioned nine times in the tanak nine times in the tanak don't think I'm such a genius because I know how many times the word is mentioned in T I only know this because as part of my investigation about Christianity one of the funny things that I found out about the New Testament is that the New Testament that's full false falsehood and so on also has the word in its uh you know Old Testament they call it uh nine times but they translated uh to English and uh but their English translation is not for what it is but rather a unicorn like a horse with wings uh that's what they have a cartoon in their in their new testament so I actually found this very humorous and it's nine times in the New Testament King James version uh anyway this was one of the dinosaurs that survived there is others that existed throughout history at the time of David there were other dinosaurs that are mentioned uh where there's one time in t in Psalms it mentions that DAV was uh with his sheep and he was climbing a mountain but all of a sudden the mountain started shaking and he realized that something is wrong what was wrong he was actually climbing a dinosaur he was climbing a dinosaur he was climbing an animal that was so big he thought it was a mountain but at the bottom of the mountain there was a lion and there was a bear he ended up fighting them beating both of them but the point being is it all started by being him being in a situation where he was he had to leave the mountain because it wasn't a mountain it was a dinosaur now another time that there is dinosaurs mentioned in the uh in the Torah is actually in uh last week's Parish the Mish is actually I just learned recently from who has some extraordinary but he actually brought a Rashi he brought a Rashi that I didn't know and I don't know a lot so that's not necessarily such a rare thing uh but uh he actually brought a nice K where he said Rashi brings that uh the mishan in a desert that mosenu had uh one of the conditions that Hashem made was that the cover for the entire mishkan was to be of a single piece meaning they weren't able to sew this uh you know these uh these parts I mean Mish was big it wasn't like a little tiny room it was huge so they had to have this leather but be of a single piece without sewing it it wasn't like a bunch of people sewing things you know one box at a time you know 3 feet by six feet no it was a single piece covering the whole thing so Rashi brings over there where he says there was an unusual animal at that time used for it where this was a single animal that covered the entire Mish single animal so obviously is a dinosaur so there were different times that dinosaurs are mentioned also mentioned mentions a few times where there was a couple of they were walking and suddenly they found themselves walking inside a skeleton skeleton of a ancient animal so obviously if they're walking in it without even realizing shows that it's very very big even bigger than what the uh the movies uh say that's Al also in and there's other place point being is dinosaurs are very much a uh a part of of the world uh perhaps they're not like the movies portray them and the scientists say they are but the big animals and big people did exist in fact even the scientific world uh knows that they don't know any honest scientist that have explored this will tell you that just recently I believe in the last uh maybe five years or 10 years uh scientists uh themselves came out and said that everything that they believed about dinosaurs is uh unsubstantiated number one because they don't have any human remains whatsoever uh that uh are complete the models that you see in museums are made by people that's number one uh number two uh the uh the way that they're uh uh making you think that's you know dinosaurs look is the way that they're theorizing that it is but now the new theory that they have over the last five or 10 years is that actually the dinosaurs did not look anything like what they've said for all of these decades but rather didn't look like uh little lizards that you have here in Florida in every corner and uh iguanas but rather they look more like a uh you know Lions you know they looked had a lot of hair on them and so on and so forth which is again you know if the the Jurassic Park the movie had this uh into account it would be a completely different movie but the point being is that big animals whatever you want to call them big animals and big people call them Giants if you want it's a very uh appropriate description did exist in history uh and uh AEM removed the overwhelming majority of them uh at throughout history when there was no longer need in his world for those people uh do uh some some of them exist still today at the very least there is one there is one in the world called the Levan and the latan is the biggest one of all and that one we know exists because it's prophesized that will uh Slaughter this latan uh when the mashia comes and use it as a feast for is the righteous people uh to celebrate when mashiah arrives uh but this is a uh originally AEM created two a male and a female but uh saw that if they were to procreate their existence would destroy the world so he actually excuse me slaughtered one of them uh and therefore there's only one that exists and it's actually mentioned in the Book of Job that uh that this Levitan exists it's aem's pet he plays with it it's also mentioned by David point being is that it does exist in world are there others uh I haven't checked but uh I know a bunch of conspiracy theories do have pictures of them so if you want to believe that you can I personally uh just focus on what it says in the Torah because that's the only thing I could substantiate uh everything else you know could be uh CGI could be uh you know a lot of things but nonetheless dinosaurs are very much a part of the world and and uh like anything else it's aem's world and when he wants something to exist it will exist when he doesn't want it to exist it doesn't need to exist also as a side note uh there were also dinos there were also dragons dragons that you know also existed there's a lot of really interesting animals mentioned in thear in there's a lot of interesting animals there was a uh uh animal called the salaman I believe it is uh translated salamander or something like that that it is an animal that is created inside volcanoes created inside volcano last chapter last page last Duff uh talks about this special animal that's created in fire uh and uh it's uh you know even tells you how to create it if you want if you want to if you want to give make yourself a a pet uh a pet uh um Dragon uh thear discusses it if you want to make one for yourself only problem is that uh you'll have to find a way to live inside a volcano for a little bit but they did some of these things that uh did exist and in fact many of the things uh that are mentioned in uh Supernatural type of uh books and films uh were really uh you know not inventions uh but rather Innovations of the words of our sages uh and if you look actually in many times the stories uh themselves come from uh you know a Jewish origin either it's a uh young man that used to go to Yeshiva but then you know decided to become a uh movie producer later on in his life uh or it's a uh his father used to be a uh uh a rabbi or a religious Jew and he heard stories growing up many times these people that are coming up with so-called Hollywood stories they're not really Hollywood stories they're just their childhood stories that they heard from their parents or their rabbis uh that they rabbis or parents hurt from thear or from the Z either way it's from the Jewish uh from the Jewish teachings uh anything that's of any Valu you'll find in the Torah and uh the reality is is that many people don't know this and you find out that many of these things exist in it and uh one of the one of the ones that uh I I found very uh interesting is the whole story of Arthur you know Arthur uh uh uh you know the story of him being the Knight and him taking out the the sword out of the rock you know Arthur is really in real life M that's actually who Arthur is really portrayed after it's the story story of mosenu when mosenu uh left ran away from Egypt he initially went to the land of kush for 40 years he was the king over there eventually he left because he didn't want to marry the uh the uh the kushite woman over there uh the the the queen over there that uh uh and he left he went to midan in midan uh he first met thought that he was a criminal and put him in jail for 10 years uh Tora saved his life and fed him for 10 years after the 10 years uh when he saw that he's still alive he allowed him to leave the prison and work for him and when they were walking in the field uh mosu saw that there was a staff stuck to the ground and he just took it out the staff was huge according to the m it was of Ruby color and 674 lbs with a engravement of the uh names of the uh forefathers the plagues all types of interesting uh things on it uh that Hashem used to create the world but uh the uh this special thing was stuck in the ground for many many uh uh decades uh because no one had the Merit to take it out and even though had a competition for all of the uh strong men to try to take it out and and and win one of his daughters uh none of the strong men that came from around the world were able to do it but mosenu was able to take it out like you would take a hair out of a cup of milk why because it had nothing to do with strength it had to do with Merit this was a staff that created in an Essence that's why he was able to take it out and again this is what the story of Arthur that most of us or at least people that are my age or older learned when we were kids the story of Arthur taking a sword out of a Rock and so on and so forth that's just an innovation of the story in a mid about mhe Ru uh and many many other things that you'll find in uh Marvel Comics and other types of comics you will find some version of it sometimes exactly the same sometimes a uh you know more original version obviously uh in the tah itself in the Z in the mid in the our Torah is endless endless literally endless if you were to uh find a way to read from day to night day to night 24 hours a day without eating drinking or sleeping for a million years you still would not be able to scratch the surface on how much Torah we have in the world and this Torah that we have in the world today is not even the scratching the surface of the real Torah that actually exists uh that we will get to study when we get to G and so I had fun with these questions especially the question by the seveny old and may this again be for the marriage of all of our supporters all of the people that are investing in is either to help us do K or to help us doid and help the poor or to help us do both or to help us get their friends to do it uh or or any way shape or form if you yourself are simply just studying with us that's already more than enough of a reason for us to be grateful to you and may all of the merits of all of the Torah that's learned here today uh go to our uh dear Rosa ra yob spe mayem bless him and Elevate his for all of the good that he's done for us and for am amen what can I tell you I can tell you about this person yon ru [Applause] I first [Applause] saw I first saw him on television on the internet none of them is good to say that but I first saw him he speaks he has anything that would describe is that he's been there and done that nobody no matter what in business or anywhere can that you don't know you don't understand and that makes him an incredibly compelling speaker all right and I and is my great I can say more and more but it is my great pleasure to [Applause] upon and your father made him see him ascept br every e [Music]