Grand Hakhel for Lubavitch Mechanchim

I'm going to start off the program I'm going to ask everyone blooming to come up to something perverter I used to care for standing behind this whole organization as a hakadoma boys standing at a very special mymodo massive special we all know that uh maybe still wanted to give the Toyota foreign even even only going over so we can only see for ourselves what a special mind we do massive we are in now and it might be the master I just want to tell over a short story that I saw on this language was not that celled Mendel zubustine from uh from from Montreal he said that it was years ago and he was making a Hanukkah event in Brussels and um even though he was coming from a certain organization but he collaborated with their Nash from there in Brussels and his uncle was going back to the river so he asked his uncle to be made of um about the event and that he collaborated with with danaje his uncle came back the the his uncle came back on Tuesday on Shabbos he received and expressed expressed mail from the rabbit with acknowledged the event and Debbie said they had special from the fact that he did with the Nash over there so he was very happy that his uncle gave over the letter so fast he came from bustles to New York and gave it over before Shabbos and he already got back and expressed letter from the dead his uncle came back he thanked his uncle for doing such a quick job and they're giving over to the devil so quick I think his uncle became pale and said I'm very sorry but I forgot to give him the letter so he says that was my turn to become pale and I realized it was already pre sent me the letter back without me before even receiving the letter and writing the great that he had from dhanasha that came together by actors together with him so he said that was a Learning lesson for me for my entire life to realize how much that I've appreciates so no question that this is this is this is an amazing thing before Martin Taylor I just want to say that I felt that that it's Unique and the specialty that when women Come Together by artists and that is which we find something um withdrawal and cyber connected to hakil that is ever points out that while actus is such a great kayak and it even has a kayak of like it says but the de la vlogger that is even if it's against nothing else can accomplish but nevertheless since we are looking to be macability is so if we want to take it the Primus Services connected to Toyota when it's through Toyota and it's with Toyota so that's something special and unique that are always doing that imparting Toyota to the the daylight soil and that's also what hakel is Hashem and like I said that deliver writes that it's it's it's so important that that um foreign to utilize every single opportunity the game leads to his dominance and to create opportunities so this is something that are always doing so it's it's it fits in so well with this Hashem and as the devil says that this is the way that we come to be vocabulous so um foreign call up a known individual who is um you know even foreign and I also want to say a special address [Music] convention in other words I don't want to jump the gun ahead of the to some degree the msrave him to the banana is the mechanical in other words it's not said that are not just they're even maybe the art of goblin and maybe they're even together the hairstyle together of arvos they take it straight behind the Kim of banana foreign okay so the meditation of banana we're all familiar with it and just Hazard so to speak what was the how did the conversation go so they wish there understood that sometimes um we're quick and we over promise and we under deliver so he wanted arvos right but do we mean it and is there going to be a king so he wanted arvos so the Eden were thinking what type of viruses neighborhood want so the first thought was Avis today Mr wasn't happy didn't accept it so they offered higher you know what is Rael foreign so then the Eden went the opposite so they said the fine so benign not even but they know and that was the that was the arvos that sat by the abistor in order so we have to wait the madrish lives by us in a positive even in other words you know that if there's him there if we if we're going to give Torah to children and children are going to be involved in China there's going to be a cue a lot of people understand this madrish the pastors is part of the nikuda of old of of bringing the kids in other words this is that this is besides reliving the moment of our Sinai which was everyone this is the Olive the title where's my order this is that if cities helps us understand that everything exists in its passion as they give even but then everything also exists inside us and I think more than just cities and the rep is Toyota you have very often have it ever helped us and look at things instead of compartmentalizing and say this is this person this is this person I'll be saying it was my father banane was my child over here so a person is made up a person is a structure we're all structures we have different parts and the parts coming together and operating in unison is what creates a person the Adam which the cities calls [Music] the many parts are divided there's the lower parts of the person which is the dragline there's the highest parts of the person which is and then there's higher than the rice higher than the rice casser in avoidas Hashem what does that mean you have the way I can serve the abistair with soil which is like the defeat there isn't a lot of thought it's a motor skill it's a function you have the way a person can serve the English and you have the way a person can serve the image or even higher than Seiko the intuition of a year the nephesh the atmos foreign you're having a person's lifetime in other words now instead of looking physically in the structure of a person let's look in the timeline of a person we have our younger years which in our younger years what's the Eco over there to develop fine motor skills regular motor skills it begins to develop the cognitive developments as a child goes over you have an Allah what a child once he reaches six years what a childish to by bar mitzvah what a childish is able to be noises what a person what an adult is so the stages the younger years are like the naglayim the middle years into Essie Miss and then there's the person that reaches even higher than Seiko so to some degree we can understand the madrish when the abuser is asking us you're committed in which level in other words we want everything but where's the starting point our relationship with Toyota so the first answer that a person thinks fine tairas we're connected to this we're going to study this we're gonna unpack it we're going to understand it says no so we can look higher explains what's Mitsubishi it's that a person can be so connected and elevated to a place that he feels it in other words intuitively we see it we feel it foreign [Music] it's not depends on anything I'm committed because I'm committed so in a Seer a child resembles the Kabbalah cell and again it creates him what's the banana or even but they know that we're committed to title with Kabbalah soil we're committed to Torah with our Seiko and we're committed to a title with everything but the essay to everything is to some degree to add from another angle so you have the the I was mentioned the you have every laboratory is familiar with so even a child and hater that didn't learn this knows what artific is that he's not just a goblin if the loyver is going to default but that the malware can go directly to to this it's a it's a higher level of a commitment that he can be first instead of second he's first which level in other words sometimes I don't know sometimes we think banana was the shanties were out of the picture titles by the kids Elaine no problem talk to the kids it's all about the kids the kids should learn for ourself we Pat to ourselves so keep posture we understand that shots the shot is the opposite that we're committed in other words we're being the the English didn't give the title to the children davidster gave us the title with our commitment that we're going to be my combo to tell you and teach it to the children you can't teach the children if we're not living it if we're not breathing it if it doesn't exist by us and strong it's going to be limited how effective we can give that over another nakoda just to talk maybe a from an angle of it comes up and maybe La creena comes up more the world and maybe us as mechanical we grapple with the question of expectations versus acceptance so before we we explain what in order what I mean is that sometimes we we place a disproportionate load on the talmud maybe as a result of whatever we wanted for us from ourself instead of demanding it from ourself we go to the talmud or sometimes because we demand so much from ourselves we have these high expectations some people counter that and say no today is an era where there's no expectations if you want Kia material by children acceptance embrace Embrace a child for wherever he is more and more people went away from as a result of this interpretation away from giving tests because Tess is a way of setting an expectation I set an expectation I expect you to know it who said you have to know it right so it became Villa of chauvinistloid the hidden or the Hain right the Hain vallav so it's like to some degree I don't know if everyone would agree with me but to some degree what the way you usually understand how these things develop and how they live by different is a lot of times we come at something and we overdrive it to an extreme and when we overdrive something to an extreme we hurt ourselves or we heard the children in the process so how do we undo it so we're going to overdrive in the opposite direction so in other words perhaps as a result of certain times becoming so rigorous so demanding such high expectations such high bars that are set so we feel it's it's destroying you want our children to thrive just love them just embrace them just smile at them a child's reading he's reading with mistakes so what he's reading right he's proud he's comfortable reading don't correct him however he reads he's good the way he is I'm not in a position to be my on this question the only thing that I can suggest in this nikodo in the way we place and the way we approach our children in the way we articulate this arvos not just by Martin Torah but throughout the year I think the MS lives in the middle the MS is in the middle in other words the never spoke just the kids so a loaded question and I don't have the answer to it but because you see from the river you find both extremes not both extremes both nakodis and very strong each one to remember especially dealt with certain children with challenges one of the strong emphasis for a child was if there isn't an expectation and there isn't a belief that the child is capable for more the child will not grow so that spoke about islamasu with special children so as we give a label so with the given labels like okay now I can accept them that is what it is they're Limited now there's a belief in a person when you really believe in a person what results is a healthy expectation that healthy expectation is what helps the child grow into our healthy young adults that's where an expectation bills a person when the expectation is unrealistic or the expectation is not driven by my belief in the child but it's projecting my expectation when I want to fix the child Chris I decided this is the sound that every child has to be by so it's frustrating if I came to the standard he's not meeting my standard he's not meaning the standard physical toys so when we want to fix someone and we want to infix them to a standard that's when we destroy them and that's the expectation that doesn't build a person but it it destroys and over the years we're legitimately embrace smile taken through he is foreign like to call upon another manaloconites Robbie Simpson Crown streets I would say foreign however I still believe that it's important for us to acknowledge the wonderful efforts of rebathroom and arranging today's for arranging the fabrangi nation of the past and the Mirza Hashem of the future and also for the assistance that he arranges for the yamintevim to be able to enjoy the yomtith the way the umptive was meant to be enjoyed [Music] I think today you outdid yourself I walked in yesterday on the mission is foreign he has to be there to answer questions together with the red man says [Music] foreign [Music] we learn ourselves we learn with albertim and this is the history memos that we as Muhammed him have and we maintain and we need to feel and experience is necessary albertaph Israel [Music] foreign what did he do but how can his father and also the brothers this is what Joseph did foreign [Music] because [Music] to the bahrim to Those whom we are and we share our ideas with them to see to it that they're going to be London Joseph [Music] because and each one of us becomes ashutif and expresses Israel I says [Music] if I didn't name him for each and every one of us that we are able to be the wounds those feelings that we are able to spend our days and weeks and months and years and our life and our coaches and our efforts to see to it as Maleficent kingdomeness and we and we bring up a deal that we can say that we have we also know s [Music] but anyone [Music] Wasim as it is expressed in our inrino and each and every one of us is here because Isaiah talks about someone whose job is to make sure that the water is divided properly amongst the various fields it's a very menial job is [Music] foreign [Music] and we should be involved to see to it that our commitment get whatever they receive whatever that whatever they need and this needs to create within all of us that we feel and we know and we believe that we are different different in a good way then foreign [Music] foreign [Music] it's not going to work [Music] and that comes with our shame on Friday we're going to find ourselves in the shoe and the highlight of we bring our children to the show and we all out there experiencing my met harsinai in essence every day we have what the kids in our classrooms it's a certain Giver of we're taking Toyota the way it was said by the abistar and we're giving it over to the children right [Music] this is the introduction to the aceres adibres right so there's the Kasha hayudua was a dilemma remained that it's being said to someone who didn't hear by David Hashem tell it to those who didn't hear it my mind is foreign [Music] and you can take it for whatever it's worth yeah [Music] what actually took place at Nathan Theta and the netherish says the Martin trailer when the evening were there receiving the Taylor it was like children tinnitus who found themselves in a day safer Hashem [Music] foreign [Music] so the setting of the mind that is Rael [Music] who gave trailer to the Eden therefore we need to say that there is definitely a hero in the Bible of the chemists foreign we are the Lamers we are the ones who then need to get it over but that is [Music] and now it's our job and to give it to each and every child foreign how do we start teaching children We Begin by teaching the children [Music] and we teach them [Music] and we say why do we have to teach their comments book safer huh Mercedes connected to the comets [Music] evening [Music] results [Music] and we are perpetuating his his Miranda's his teaching is [Music] that they should feel what Taylor is foreign foreign foreign [Music] he's talking to me he means me and when we have this element of where we feel ourselves that we are the Milan day trader and we are an extent we are the extension of hamillah foreign kids have their challenges but when the child feels as that as there is reaching him says it's not it's because [Music] foreign [Applause] [Music] children need to feel special then they will act special um [Applause] [Music] said [Music] foreign [Music] you know [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Applause] foreign [Music] oh we know you do [Music] foreign [Music] who are the way says [Music] of love [Music] I know foreign [Music] foreign [Music] United [Music] yeah yeah yeah yeah [Music] baby [Music] Simpson with environment before we move on to the next speaker you know that was the words back in the day I loved off because foreign I'll try to read it as close as possible for the inside no go nothing go wrong with that is foreign [Music] foreign [Music] foreign [Music] what's your name hazards eBay [Music] foreign [Music] and then ganford the state of invising industry in the Hacked halts and getting based medicine is foreign nothing yeah there's a dish indicator I must say first of all like my fellows have spoke before me I must say grace for Every Blooming he was quite persistent in calling me and nudging and finding me because usually it takes a time a little to catch me and he worked on it and I um I'm very happy that he was persistent I'm able to be here today tonight and also I must say another thing that the fact that it's elevation and everyone's here together damage the night before yantev we know what it means to prepare a house for yont if it's so on so and not only did I salute them alumn but I salute their their wives too for allowing their husbands to be able to be by it by this special Hockey event and and I and I I would like to say one of the things is and one of the things that the the river writes in a mimer it happens to be the mimer that the rep is set for us when we went on I went out on schleichers and cotton as it says from the Shalom for us we left the next day and shush and put him Cotton and they ever spoke to my River look it and uh in the memory when the rabbit speaks he talks about the ikexada of Haman which was on foreign which means as we heard before that if we want to be able to inspire ultimate him we ourselves have to be inspired if we want to give enthusiasm Tara told me them we also have to be enthused so we have to look for the ways of how we can ourselves be inspired and enthused all the time especially that we live in a world that you know especially it's it's a it's a in Hebrew it says it I've lost my English you'll have to please ah what's the word for that it burns you out okay we'll use that it's not an easy task I mean I grew up in a house where my father and my mother they both passed away in the middle of a school year while they were working again they didn't come into school the next day because they passed away so I saw this Mama day in and day out in the house that I grew up in so one of the ways how I work on myself is that I try that the river should be one of my top once a week for me but I try every day and because of that there's those that know if I bring about it I have a convenience every day that I read five letters of the river a day in English according to the Seder I'm now a helicopter base when when covet came around I added on reading their Everest letters in English because there's already a good number of volumes and I started reading the web is in English because if I already know the language I might the whales utilize it for the real reason why I have to know this language and there's something very special about their letters in English I must say for those that the English language is their mother tongue it it's a different style of a letter with their ever writes and talks to people in those letters I definitely warmly suggest to everybody on a daily basis is something that you turn the rabbit in being your personal and I see also tremendous as I have this quiz and today in my five letters well it's a letter and also I don't go according to dates I go just read so it happens to me that now it fell out that I'm seven time it was a letter that they ever wrote to all the tailor that was having their yearly convention I guess after she was and there ever writes in the letter that he is that the convention is going to be not conventionally the dinner whatever it is to take a look at the exact lotion everyone is still under the uh of the yante of Shores and he says and of course one of the central parts foreign and most certainly wrath is what everyone's under the impression right now from that erosion that it left them for sure about this and there it goes on Amazon as I know that tonight we're for bringing him and whoever talks about the central issue Central and here here we are as we heard also very nicely put that the banana means that we're the araven for that even because the kids themselves if we let them just do what they want they won't accept so quickly but they know it's us here in the room that are making sure that they should be there and even for clothes so remember it's quite appropriate that we're getting together very very appropriate and just to show you also how they ever approach to the rabbit My Father Allah when he first got married he was teaching in Detroit in the basement Who The Day School in Detroit after that we moved on to Toronto where he taught he came to Toronto to uh for for to be a schlier and so he was involved in labavage work but his main paranosa was coming from teaching even then and he taught in the it's time day schools in Toronto in Beijing Day School in Detroit at that time they were under tremendous Financial strain and they weren't able to pay salaries to the malum and it went about for four months that the malum did not get a salary and my father we didn't have my grandparents from both sides weren't wealthy individuals that they could support the family so literally they didn't have the money to live and everyone in the city knew that base the day school wasn't under tremendous strain and they weren't paying the melamed them so there was a one of the children that my father taught the Father the the family was in business and the fellow he loved he loved my father the father of this one of his my father's students and he told my father you know you know why do you have to suffer not getting paid a salary I'd like to offer you I want to offer you a job I will put up the capital and open up a new business and you'll run the business because I trust you and I uh I want to help you too and we'll split the profits 50 50. it was a tremendous offer somebody coming up with the whole Capital opening of new business and he'll be able to run it and get 50 50 of the profits so my father told them I'll I'll be going I'll be going to the I think it was I think maybe it was time going to the river or maybe this kiss love I don't I don't know exact date but of course it was in the middle of the school year ready my father came to New York and he went into his we're talking about something like you'd give only a dollar one of these years you'd pay you that wanted and he told the rabbit he described the evidence situation what's going on that hasn't been paid salary for so many months and he says I have an offer and he told me the offer of this businessman to open up the uh a business and to split the profits 50 50. without having to put in any capital she says they ever heard the offer as he heard the offer he says the rebel was there ever went like this I like wasn't happy to hear the offer you told me it knows we would say in our language you know everyone like this so my father says to me either I stayed for another 43 years but it didn't finish then you have a turn to my father and he said to him how much did they owe you so he he how much do they owe me the only four-month salary he said everybody said how much is that so he calculated and he said by Eric whatever it was the four-month salary that he didn't get paid Sarah told him when you go out of the room I'm gonna call right now and he'll prepare you a check it'll be a bridge alone that when they pay you for the salaries that they owe you you'll pay me back and sure enough father went out of the room you have a simmer and he went to afghanikov wrote him on a check and he it was able to keep him going until finally they kicked in and started paying him the money the salaries that they owed so the rabbit was quite clear foreign but he also actually gave a personal loan to be able to keep keep him afloat to be able to keep him going in for another 43 years this is just a small story of the thousands upon thousands of stories and also letters and Series has written and spoken about the receiving and everything we're involved in when it comes to now as it was mentioned before I came in for sure I remember as I was as I becameer of it was in tough Shin at the end of this summer of topshin my mouth and shoes came around tough human base and I knew the terebe it called Schwarz hagamatsis and I was hesitating does that mean I should come to New York for sure not I'm just just I'm a rookie I just became a Rove pixels you know take take it easy don't get carried away with yourself so I I went to maimash beer who was a partisan and I discussed with him the issue I asked him foreign never finishes what do we say in Camp learning never ends so learning never ends also that we should carry on have our own and our own um so I went to my machine and I asked him I said to him what do you say about me coming to to New York going coming today was the child I just became a rabbi yeah you start calling yourself a rabbi and coming to New York don't get carried away so he told me like this he said to me there's a Jose goat travels to the river it's when they travel today everyone has their dates when they came today he says but there are times where there ever wants to see you not you going to him as a closet this is has nothing to do with who you are as a closet has to do this is what he wants to see he says that says if the Matas are going to stay home and masses they have to come see you're not coming here is in calling you to come you have to come that's it has nothing to do with who you are and what you are Hashem since instruction base except for the coverage year I I thank God I wasn't able to I was here every year because I know and I once heard foreign of unholous role of all our day schools he came to New York gimmel and he was invited first day of sukkas to the Freedia to be a to be a guest at the Rivers he was invited one of the guests there was a number of people sitting at the table I heard this myself from him we were driving together to visit two schools in up north Israel and I was driving together with himself and also Fryman Oliver he was the mankal of the Rashid the chairman of the CEO [Applause] as we were traveling and if Hansen told over to Maison he was sitting with his sake first day of circus and there was another Edge he saw the kid sitting at the sukkah also and if this other Etsy Soldier asked the uh rabbit what should we do about second day yantev yantev Shane shogolis said often hurts Israel does all are passing him there's a rabbi here you should pass as we were driving he says I'm going to pass it in front of you I just kept quiet so then the rabbi said it a second time started off and there is he says and I kept quiet they represented a third time he says when the devil said it a third time I realized that it is if I'm not going to say something so I said foreign you know keeping one there two day depends on what your career is he says he says have you ever look back at him and you ever told him I gave you a tasks I gave you a a casket to be the head of all these schools he's this is he's telling us as we're driving so I tell them so what did you understand from that I wanted to make sure I want to hear exactly what he took from it so he says to me he says [Music] foreign [Music] those are thy increase is like this it's just this is something as we're all here that we have to realize Hashem all of you are in the room are you binged that you have a Sleepless for each and every one of you but and if you're Oasis I saw a letter in English recently a fellow from Sydney Australia in the I think it's a letter in the mid 70s or something he writes into them but he was active it looks like with college youth and he was being he was successful and he writes into them but that he's interested in he would like to go full time into a coil and sit and learn and he wants to hear what their's opinion is tells him there's no question about it that we say every day in the morning the talmatated Connecticut Cooling so your your desire to be able to that's I mean every day we say we tell them we'll tell you can I get cooler however you ever writes Colonial soul is divided into three halachim this is oil that the main thing is sitting and learning working people that the icky it is is Mitzvahs with communal affairs and then there's a third category those it's very interesting the Bible says three categories oil and the other says if you would come to me with the question what to do as you're beginning your life which Avenue to take we could then discuss which Avenue you could take but you're already involved for a good couple of years in what you're doing and you're seeing success in your work and you're doing a job that not everyone can be doing has dictated what your sleekus is of course debit tries to tell them possibly in your free time and if you can to find somebody in certain things that you're involved in to have a substitute but you have to make sure you're over seeing the substitute to make sure that it's done improperly etc etc tries to calm him down from it from his desire but the fourth is that he ever says karate Soul divides itself into three categories is dictated what your sneakers is everyone in this room Hashem foreign [Music] into business as they say and reading the letters we talk always about Google there's a letter from the evidence he writes to in the sheikhabad convention you know it says so the other says there is nothing more that's movable the sibis a goals that those that are involved in China because nothing more you can be involved in to be revitalis as those that are involved right because in another whether they have a right [Music] said there's enough yeshivas out there yesterday Yeshiva that not only that we should be strong eating ourselves but to be able to have that responsibility to be a narrow lawyer to enlight to give light to illuminate wherever we go and there you have a rights in a letter that there's no other toughkeep there is a meal of her on a constant basis hours upon hours each day like those that are always because they're sitting across from their tall medium and they're Illuminating and enlightening them and being mechanic to them hours upon hours every day even people that are always do not have that opportunity to be a male or her like those that are involved in general the hours of being a mere lower devices is when you're involvedic is more than any other topkin is I always I said it before I I participate in different conditions but I must say whenever I participate The Killers of makhandram the atmosphere is a lot more of a sedish atmosphere fundamologist and I'm always excited to see it because I know that means that all of our children and our grandchildren are in the hands of people that are interested in giving them and your success is all of the success in the Next Generation and the Curious of where the river is for us is when I think back to the different that I had growing up and the impact that they made on my own personal life there are certain things that come to my mind one of the one of the teachers that I had one of my roshishivas I had this truth to be able to learn for a short amount of time but very qualitative time for me I learned in Brunei in the Yeshiva and our sushiva that I had was abusive Goldberg and I had teachers before that and I had teachers after that one of the things that stood out about abusive was that we used to have everyday used to give us a pimple share every day for uh two hours every day he really wanted to do it also on Shabbos but uh we told them you know take it easy so we weren't Caleb for it but Adam Shabbos two hours a day a pill with you and that was the morning hours he would come back into the zal in the afternoon and he would walk from he wouldn't let us stand up he this is it with us to sit and he would go from synopsis of the sheer and to make sure that we understood what the nakutas are this year every day he is his massless his devotion and dedication to us is tell me them and then he completely floored me one day when he called me over and he said to me I have an offer I want to offer you something yeah he says what about from five to seven in the morning next to the Shiva was a stickle Forest he says what about from five to seven will learn together I was I was I was 17 years old at the time five to seven in the morning in the forest just right I'm telling you might get into trouble for that you know you got to be careful but anyways so he floored me here you talk about are you talking about her she's a 70 whatever whatever his age was at the time he it wasn't he wasn't the spring chicken and to turn to a talmud and they say let's sit together and learn she might said from five to seven in the morning I I I I I turned it down because I wasn't shy five to seven in the morning I I didn't see how I was able to do it so I didn't have the opportunity actually to learn in Mama's private but the fact that she'd even offer such a thing and ask for such a thing shows you how dedicated and devoted and the love they had for tell me them it was something special and because of that whatever he said and whatever he taught and whatever he stood for I was right there day in and day out cane leave all them love them I knew that he loved me and I loved him back I knew that he cared for me and I cared right back for you and his words were precious every word and his example and being the role model that he was stayed with me all my life after that and I had I was a little spoiled after death because I would go to other yeshivas and I would see the other Russia she was with all due respect I did not see that kind of dedication and devotion and love like I saw by him so I was a little spoiled but it was a role model to stick with me what it means a real person that's involved in this he was an example for that at the same time we were learning receives with reminiscent and he was teaching us during the weekdays and Shabbos an hour before me and as we were learning we learned the mimer where he talks about Jesus or English and how it's because it's legarme person fears punishment he's thinking about himself he's not serving Hashem he's serving himself but says to get yourself out of the out of the mud to keep yourself afloat you can use foreign I was very very caught and just it took me like I I know I grew up in a place like Toronto Canada and I don't I didn't only learn in laboratory moistness because we didn't have the time Allah when I finished grade three so we had to go to the other moisters and I knew how much eurozoneish was you know a main message and all of a sudden this mimer comes along and he says and you could use it to be able to get you to save yourself over don't stay in that level it's only the first level we're looking for upgrades afterwards and it would just it was I was starting to spoil that I knew how much is built on Unison Etc and as I'm being always spoiled from the gdunk in front of my face reminiscent birth center tears and can't control himself and he's crying away I looked at him I was sitting across from him I looked at him says what's he crying about I mean it's an icy it's stimulating a concept the universe and it's not tell him to do but the then I realized he takes it serious what he's learning it's not just an interesting concept it's not just a sentence these guys living living with what he's learning oppa it was a that was another message in front of my face and if you ask me there's two sure that I remember from this and that we learned this is one of them and then he couldn't survive him when we were learning about Jesus and it leaves scars and leave scars all of a sudden this in bursts into tears and else he can't control himself for a couple of minutes he couldn't stop crying and I again I looked at him I said what did this guy already see in his life I mean he he was Yeshiva most of the time and even when he went to Paris in a car with his head down saying about positive listening is in you know we we say that what he called that what what a 10 year old kid sees walking down walking down a block here in America United States the bill didn't see it for 80 years I mean it's unbelievable and here he was bursting into tears crying away about yeah he is Breaking Bad to my nephewish again I hope uh this guy he takes life serious he's not just learning he's living what he's learning those are the two things that I remember for me shoot him those two things were the major things that I remember when I saw that he wasn't just learning it was part of it was the game it was his life against dimension we come across our kids our students our communities they pick up how much remaining this me Dynamics how much is it part of our lives how much we really live with what we're talking about that's why it's so important for us to keep on rejuvenating ourselves learning ourselves being the Hanukkah ourselves all the time that we shouldn't just be giving over Concepts knowledge I remember once I was speaking to one of my favorite it's a manal of a moist and I asked him do you have in your in your moisture and he said to me well we have three-year-old four olds he starts counting and he says and we got 11. so I told him I didn't ask you how many Milam did we have so he looked at me and he said to me two and a half that's what he said to me is that two and a half yeah you see okay you know three so I said to him okay so that means we have to work as people that have that should also be enthused and inspired that they should upgrade themselves also to become them meaning to say they were not just giving over knowledge we're not just teaching but we're always sick in avoid this Hashem as we heard before that were just conduits of varashem and the more we work on ourselves personally the more we have a chance and then there's another thing that I picked up another Mahana he taught me something else I was learning I was in schleichers and their mental foot of us would call over sometimes a book or in the morning one morning he called me over 7 30 in the morning what does he tell me told me three things first first thing he tells me he says to me there's a bar in the soul that he's uh he's a yawson and he tells me the fellow's name and he says to me I know what it means to be a yasm he says my name is I never knew my father I was born into being a Joseph and he says to me the feeling of aiasmus stays with me all of my life this book and he tells me the name he needs to be befriended I'd like you to make a cashier with him and to be a good friend of his and he mentioned to me as he said to me his name is he mentioned to me how old he was remember he said to him I am and he said to me is age I don't remember right now you have to ask the family who's in tops hey so they can tell you I am and he said to me the h and a day doesn't pass by they don't have that gush of yasmus and you know as he said it I think to myself boy you're mental The Giver one of the running the underground in Russia getting so many people out of Russia with false passports sitting in jail solid and confinement The Works what he went through The Giver the strong courageous and he's telling me that he has every day of feeling of yasmus first of all to to to to speak so openly to me in such a way that was the first detail second thing he told me he said to me you know when I was in jail they put me in solitary confinement I don't remember how many months he said six eight months he says he was in solitary confinement in this little little cell he says to me and and they try to break you because I mean it's solitary confinement and you don't see you don't see the world and you're all by in its place he says I divided my day up into three parts one part of the day he said I knew the first relic of Tanya balpei so I would be misborne in the program of Tanya and I would be misborne in parochim he says a third of the day I wasn't in any Rush and Authority that he says it over Allah for my life and I pictured the fabranians where they sat how they sat who spoke who said this who said that anyone that knows he would describe the room and also yeah she says that's how I kept I kept my sanity he says the thing that kept my sanity was the tangible pair that I knew until finally I got some papers and I started to write down on the block him to be able to learn from paper but that's what kept my sanity that was the second thing he said he didn't even tell me his name is he just told me this mice and then he told me the third thing three thing he told me was that recently he says I went to ahasna here in fact and I found there a fellow that we learned together hey there from Russia 60 years ago and we we were so excited to see each other we hadn't seen each other over 60 years she says we reminisced about everything that we about our lives When We Were Young and we're together and this is he left everything now he came there to Seoul recently and he was describing to me as a life and he's finished describing to his life he finished with a big sigh class en I feel okay live the life not even one day did I have I know from William has it this is what the fellow says Mendel says to me when he said it I had a flashback for bringing with the Garrison bear never he says objection Berry says was a shuffle he was he was big and negative see there isn't Dominic but he was a Shuffle by announcement very very humble and very of zika Lane he was very harsh and he said he was for bringing and he said to us in the middle for bringing ah yes you bear voice since it was going on himself like criticizing himself all of a sudden he says his eyes lit up he said [Music] foreign kids weren't well his wife wasn't well he was living one in this in the slums in Neville in the slums and them so he says what he called he says it [Music] sir Mendel tells me here I'm sitting with a guy in basement foreign [Music] if there's one thing he has in life he said what'd your mental tell me after he says this tells me you know where such a thing can be coming from see this and you take everything in the right proportions this is the conversation that I had with three things we finish the conversation I went back to my seat he had a personal conversation with me it wasn't the sheer it wasn't even a fabrangian it was a personal conversation and that personal conversation stayed with me till today because it was a personal conversation we heard before from Rabbi Simpson foreign talk to me personally he had a personal conversation with me you talk about such a personal conversation I was invited a number of years ago there was a dinner for the khabar of Toronto and they were honoring posthumously my father elevation there was a fellow for such tickle family you know core gracievir but you know and he said to the hater to the and hold the Creator why do we have to find somebody that's fry that will give eighteen thousand dollars so that we should make him a guest of honor I'll pay this fellow is one of the balchuvas my father made him from he says I'll pay the guest of honor should be Rabbi glakowski all of his shoulder and let his son Celine Dior come to speak put him in his shoes so I came to the dinner and as I came into the dinner I said they sat me down at the head table and sure tells me you know the manal I now gosh me everything he tells me guided sitting next to you is our biggest gavir us okay I look I looked to the night to my side I see this they say you know about the boss is a man mid-30s tops him my name is my name is glockowski oh he says to me you're Rabbi glukowski Oliver's son I said yeah he says to me oh I wanna I'll tell you something about your father I can't tell you Nissan employees about your father but let me tell you something I I was a talmud of your father oh I looked at him I didn't I said you learned to need time he says yeah he says always tell me this is a fellow that one of the businesses that he has is 3 000 franchises of frozen yogurt stores in North America one of the things they have he says to me I I I have ADHD I'm a hyperactive individual as as he was saying to me 3 000 franchises of frozen yogurt for statement the hyperactivity is doing pretty good and and he says to me and as being a hyperactive child a student he says most of the day I was in the hallway or in the playground it was very very hard for the teachers to handle me he says and I I came to your father's class I think he told me it was grade seven so I walk into the class first day and I see a fellow that he used to have a red beard used to have a rip maybe you could see a little trickle left an older person and he starts to teach I'm daydreaming like usual daydreaming fidgeting a little she says after a couple of days one day your father tells me Cho I'd like you to stay by recess I wanna I wanna I wanna talk to you oh he says I was getting ready already you know he says and I stay in the classroom we sit down together and my father says to him he tells him I saw your your last name he says his last name he says I know I know a family like that there's a big family in the shower in Toronto and he says yeah yeah those are those are my so so he says to me so dovet and and shiman and Yankovic saying his names they're your uncles he says yeah those are my uncles my father my father says oh so if that's the case he started talking to me about my family through the 15-minute recess and the recess finished no next day he asks me again to stay and the next day again he schmoozes with me this time he started schmoozing me about what kind of sports do I like and we had a schmooze about that and your father told me he grew up in the United States he was more in baseball in Canada it's hockey Indiana about that and he schmoozed with him a full week one recess about door he says by the end of the week your father told me towards the last minute or two he says to me Nicole I noticed it's not easy for you to to concentrate so much into try your best he says I want to tell you something it was my best year I tried my best I wasn't a 90 student and I wasn't an 80 student but I was a 70 student that whole year and I said this fellow loves me he's not just a teacher see he tells me that's what I can tell you about your father and I sent him back you don't have to tell me more you said to me you're not going to tell Nissan Flores you yourself said to me that most of the year you were always in the hallway or in the playground and you said it was your best year and you were in your set you got your 70s and you tried your best and you say it's because of how you felt towards my father I said that's enough that's a very important message we heard from Abby Blau before there's expectations and there's expectations he said your 70s for for the difficulties you were having then was tremendous and I'm happy that you told me that story so here we are every one of us in the room if we ask if we're asked as parents and also as teachers what do we want from our students and for my children there's a whole checklist we'll give the checklists oh you're all checklist the question is always how do you get to that that's what we want to get to foreign we know where we want to get to but how do we get to it how do we get to the hearts how do we get to the hearts of all of our tall medium to instill in them ES of Taylor mitzvah's cautious and all those things that's who we are as individuals and that's how much we invest in ourselves also and how much we invest also in the eburgite the dedication and devotion and the Aaron's kite and also taking that personal connection also to our talmudim all together and to constantly keeping mechanic ourselves foreign it's a very very challenging task in our generation our children are exposed there's no more walls there's no more walls in our buildings there's no more walls in our homes technology has made it that everything is transparent and there's such out outside influences that our children are exposed to whether we like it or not and Suzuki and zikr as the replicate myth and it gives us the correctness to be able to be successful and he knows all the difficulties that we're going through and he he's with there all the time to be able to help us so Davis is foreign [Music] to you [Music] [Applause] [Music] I am [Music] yeah yeah [Music] yeah yeah [Music] thank you [Music] foreign New Hampshire [Music] thank you [Music] no no yeah [Music] yeah yeah yeah yeah [Music] did it [Music] I need to go together [Music] hey John and you don't remember [Music] foreign [Music] foreign [Music] foreign [Music] will we ever died [Music] thank you foreign [Music] my life [Music] they don't understand [Music] [Laughter] foreign [Music] come on [Music] good enough foreign okay Maybe guys can get it get a little closer [Applause] I think no I think the mic is for the uh I don't know okay I'll keep you guys awake with the mic there's enough for bison at least till tomorrow at least okay okay one of the nakudas when we talk about did you ever maybe a stand for the table say hey there just to hold on to it foreign yeah okay one of the when we talk about Hackle they're talking about hak Hill so one of the things it says about hak Hill is that it's reliving reliving our Sinai it's creating an atmosphere a minded of millions of people and once in every seven years it's to leave that kind of an impact do you have such a moment in in other words we could say that there's two things about I mean in in the Morgan of Rome then when we say because he says and he says to Martin Trader volcano foreign parcel and nevertheless it says you have to remember both of them remember Martin Taylor and remember as we sit out of Schwarz it takes on much more uh it has it it's much more profound because we're talking about two nakudas we're talking about Martin Taylor and we're talking about the moment of our Sinai and and I I drawing from different things that there ever said in different Secrets which I'll touch in a minute I want to give an example where you have mutton tater and also and this this this goes back Ed when I was sitting shiver for my Father Allah so people would come in from all walks of life and all ages which I didn't know and I would ask them when did you when did when from when do you know my father were you a student were you a colleague as a teacher where'd you get to know him [Music] and there was one fellow that walked in on the first day of the Shiva and he said I happen to be here in Toronto and I heard the news I'm from Detroit and I worked with your father in Detroit and basically the day school he says I want to tell you a story of what happened one time as I was substituting for your father he tells me like this your father went into New York for youth he was teaching grade three and he asked me I should substitute so I substituted for him and they were learning parishes by yatesi and I told one boy to say Apostle again it's another boy I'd say a and it came to the last Posse parishes and I told one of the kids you say the last person and the whole class piped up and they said we don't say it the last Posse in the parcel like that so he said I mean why what do you mean he says it's a c impartial see him so he says to the kids so if it's a seam how do you say it so he said I really auctions off this house to say the last pausing and the next day the person that bought the last boss it brings the money and we go as a class to the bakery next door and to the supermarket and we buy cubwood refreshments mitzvah and then he gets up in front of the class he says the last Posse and we have a this is grade three so I would never auction off they insisted they said that's how it's done so he says I held the auction I think he told me he was in touch I just remembered he says to me it went up to a dollar 77 cents which was a lot of money in Tufts he said I still remember the two boys that were fighting to get discuss he joked with me and he said to me those two guys are today manhegan in the the greater Shaquille in Detroit and they're still slugging it out that's a joke to me he said he said the next day the kid came in the talmud with the money he says we went and we bought kibbard it was also left over to give Tito and he said he got up in front of the class he said the posseck and there was a bit he says your father was sitting in New York but he managed to instill in his tall medium sassian I see him is that stuff maharash my mom in her Sinai there was coils who broke him it wasn't just given cut and dry it was a it was not only a learning experience it was a living experience it was a A Gunther a gun's experience it's like one of the way what's one of the things that cat captures a lot of times and and brings that slogan certain children when they're in Camp because it's not just the learning experience but even in our classrooms Even in our Clinic that we give to enrich to find ways of how to be how to be my husband how to turn things into much more of a of a an experience not just of learning here how many after when this fellow left the house after he was menachemoval I said to myself how many parishes did my kids finish the hey there that I I never I never made any fuss about it how many problems did they finish learning no fuss how many programs where was I as a parent to to make a sturdom last ignition to think of how how to enhance it in the nemesis the river has two places where he talks about often hate one place he talks about it is and he speaks about him and this is and he says the actual the actual house or home that's built it has its bricks Windows Doors floors roofs Etc that's the basic that's Toyota omitzes but the interior decoration in the house the king Beauty in the house when you walk in the way the house is decorated the furniture the color schemes all that the pictures on the wall etc etc which turns it into a dear to Noah that's my heaven thereby says he says just like the interior decoration of of a physical home is be icker in the hands of the noise Israel that cares abides he says also the beauty of Taylor mitches which expresses itself in highest enthusiasm his slavus Joy all that he says that hammock of the in the house the highest hang the slavas de simcha that's in the hands of the Curious advised there's and whoever brings it out in the Seahawks and parches Ember when he talks about the hazard says should have been written already it says the difference it's a basic tenant so what is he says to say what's right and what's wrong that we already know foreign not just what's right what's wrong yes and no limitations is important in in is the famous vort with with we go into the tables of Titans adds on it's not enough just boil a table it has to be saw your tacitated the tables have to be lifted they have to be enthused they have to be fused with light with enrichment and so on this is to find the ways of how to turn things into much more of an experience to enrich it finishing a passion becomes a seam at the you know I remember once as a child we were going Friday once to the Mikvah and outside of the Mikvah all of a sudden a fellow comes out of them a young guy with a box of Calum it came out and it's a fellow that was a former talmud of my father but he didn't teach my father taught sigh in day school and also night school for the boys that went to public schools and they came for three days a week to three times a week in the evenings and also on Sunday a little this was a guy was a talmud from night school and he had learned in night school until he reached the age of bar mitzvah usually the compartment and he was walking out of the mick with Caleb to understand his background and he sees my father and my father sees him yeah they embraced and he says to my father I can't believe I can't believe that we're meeting right now as I'm leaving to make Caleb he says you know I just got married I got married a week and a half ago he says and these are Caleb they bought for the house and I brought them to him and he says and I want to tell you what I'm doing here in this speaker he says in grade three of four in night school you taught us about Phyllis Caleb and the school was in the same building where the mcviz the basement he says you took us down to the maker and you took off your shoes and socks rolled up your pants and you took a Kaylee and you went into the water and we stood around the and you explained to us all about Felix Calum and you said to us how you have to make sure that there's no glue on it and you have to clean it and so on and so forth and you showed us how you're toifling the Klee in the maker he says the rabbi was standing in the water and and he's talking doesn't tell us we're all standing around he says that day I said when I get married and I have my own Caleb I'm gonna come and travel to Caleb too and he came to the microwave and toivo to Caleb and we made him outside of him protest to see that the vort was also as I think back I say to myself those haste to to turn foreign they don't even see the experience the midst of it feels okay they don't see it why are we robbing them of opportunities emotional baking matses baking matzo should be just you walk into a store and you buy you buy matzas don't say is kids come to the bakery and they see him alive and you speak about 18 minutes and and cleaning the tables sings believing you turn it into a in Turkey shift you don't tell me there's parents there's fathers that when the kids are having the bar mitzvah they take their children to show how the surfer puts the parishes into the bottom you should see we let things pass by hop up without giving it its proper respect and and to dignify the things that the mittens that we're doing we have to think of all kinds of ways while the vault The Clash the Clipper is there The Dazzle of the world there is why why can't we have that same when it comes to these things to work on it that's the coinless my grandmother Alicia she left in her Savoy she had five daughters she left in her Savoy that she's asking her daughters to be Michelle to try their best to light candles at least Shabbos candles 10 minutes before Luke Benjamin and that they should startled that they should be wearing big day Shabbos when they do it and I used to watch her as a kid after the Maize passed away he passed away at a young age she lived many many years by us because my mother was the youngest she helped with taking care of the kids and I used to see her every Arab Shabbos she would come to the table I would watch from the couch I would see how she would light and she would stand there between and she would misspell and misspell and misspell with such a awe and I and I every year by Nila I always say to myself by the lift every year of Shabbos turned that look is natives into something much more than just the actual lighting of the candle she she beautified the mitzvah she glorified it afraid but color she takes off halofrocious color why shouldn't the children be around when she's taking off the hall why shouldn't it become why shouldn't it become something to make it serious about this is the kind of inyanum and we talk about foreign with the whole books because it's not enough just cut and dry we're talking about a the broken moment the highs of Mante ment it's the chain of the deer this is all part and parcel when we talk about so this is part of of you talk about like I say in order in order for us to be able to to be matsular that the the knowledge that we're implanting in in our tall medium should not just remain as knowledge it's when it's spiced up with the highest with enthusiasm with inspiration it it takes on a different dimension it makes a greater impact and it stays there I mean that's why I always tell when you know it's a soul when I first came there to Seoul years ago there was there didn't exist camps there wasn't camping this summer because first of all there's no there's not a long summer they finish around next to tishabov and then but I can tell you that the first when they started making camps and I had still leaving for two weeks I was from the first ones that sent my children and I also I also encouraged everyone in our community to send even though it was expensive and I told them it's worth every day just for the ex experience the Yiddish kite becomes uh also a living experience and not just a learning experience that's one of the myelism also take for example sometimes parents they asked me about sending their daughters to Seminary it costs so much money and and is it really worth it and I tell them every moment of sending them away for to a good Seminary is is because over there it's not just that they're going to learn they're going we have Alum crime title so it becomes a holy living experience it's a completely different dimension so in in a key to when we're teaching day in and day out the icky doggish is under learning but we have to always try to find the ways to spice it up and you know we're not alone we're not living on an island you speak to you see they're successful that they have years of experience ask them what are the things that they're spicing it up with how are they making it how are they enriching things we hear ideas come up with more ideas that's one thing there's another thing also it's a very important thing too one of the things about Martin Taylor it says the famous secret that we always quote when we go out and speak in different places the seek of cold Godly Joseph that there wasn't the echo and thereby says what's the significance in the Bible says because there wasn't the rebound it you know one of the words you learn even if you go to all Traders permeated until you permeate it into the stone so there wasn't the rebound no Echo when you think about it for a minute the in the cold God of Joseph that there wasn't a rebound has another message to it yeah I'll I'll I'll uh the message that it has you know a lot of us can be very very strong in all the Mysteries cautious we can be strong in our super duperate villain let's sewers black on both sides not black on both sides had the whole of a Hulu this bottom that bottom sits his hand we can go on and on and he do him all of a sudden sometimes if somebody if we think somebody did something it wasn't right a teacher somebody in the community we could sometimes or a student that we feel that the student's not acting right the way we can express ourselves sometimes not only is it not glad kosher but it doesn't even have a hectare like you know like we would say in Israel do what with the way we expressed ourselves in other words there's an echo foreign tables can sometimes turn into a hospital room that we're making biopsies on people we could all of a sudden talk about somebody in a in a not not the right best way possible a Arabi could sometimes lose it and the children are watching and they're saying they're not verbalizing they can't even verbalize it they're not saying it because they don't know they don't know how to express it but it's what's going on in their minds some things that matter with my teacher if he's if he's exploded like that and what happens is is that once they see it as an echo in one aspect so uh if they see that there's certain things that are not congruent to them so they round other corners in respecting a talmud in in being careful not to be Messiah somebody brought up him I had once a story a 16 year old girl the parents came to me and they told me that she's she's she's slowly sliding away from everything and she's completely not learning this year she was a good student until this year but she's out of it and they started to talk to me about adolescence and you know sweet the year 16 it's called teenagers I said if if you tell her I'd like to talk to her will she come she said she'll come if so he said to tell her I want to talk to you so she came and we started to talk and I and I and I you know in the conversation as we were schmoozing I directed it towards the fact that I heard that she's not having a good year school and she's and she said to me yeah so I sat there can you tell me what what's the reason what ticked It Off do you know what made you all of a sudden just because I understand till now you've been a good student you've been learning well is there what is it is it a friend is it this is it something else yeah I thought you could be open with me I'm not gonna it stays in this room so she tells me I'm uh I'll tell you what happens she says I I'm chronically late I don't have a built-in watch I don't have a building clock in my system if if something starts at eight I'm eight ten eight fifteen I'm not I'm not a Time person how much I try it's just not she says I ended up one time I gotta I got a ride to school and it ended up being early and so I was in the class when it started and the teacher you know she takes attendance she calls other names and she got to my name she called out my name and I said I'm here and the teacher looks up let's give honey a round of applause she finally made it on time and everyone started to laugh and everyone was round of applause and she says and I laughed too I laughed outside inside I said to myself how could she do that to me embarrassing me like that and so public making a laughing stock that everyone's applauding that I came such insensitivity she tells me and she says to me I said from this teacher I don't want to hear a word and she just close yourself up this is what she tells me so as we're sitting in a classroom and we're dealing with talmudem and tell me this whatever we have to remember their their human beings and we have to try to protect them not to be advised even if we have to rebuke it's got to be done in the right way you know sometimes one of our kids comes home and he comes up with a note a note you know something that he did what happens is all the family has to hear it why why does all the family have the Earth he came up with a note take the note you read it you want to talk to him about it it doesn't have to be at a separate table the whole note we don't realize becomes public consumption and it hurts so that's one kind of an echo there's another kind of an echo that's the echo of Technology that's the echo of literature in our homes books newspapers magazines technology that's also echoing and yo you know some someone sometimes you know you come to come to a house and you have to use a washroom foreign if you go to a bathroom and in the bathroom you have literature that's in the bathroom it's not massive not the pictures we're not we're not from Simpson the bathroom even though it doesn't have a mezuzah it says hello it's not off limits permeates there too or technology people ask me what's the minig in Lubavitch where you like Hanukkah candles by the window or a person basin we're by the door but there's a third place where today where everyone could like Hanukkah candles it's almost third place is it about 15 years ago I would tell people if you have a computer in your house without a filter you could put the mechanical uh next to the computer today you don't have to do that even just put down the phone if you don't have a filter put down the phone put down the monitor you have pencil basic records right so in other words is echoing it's rebounding of Technology it's rebounding off literature it's rebounding off sometimes the way we act like and our students watch the rebounds and they pick it up that if it could rebound off this and rebound off that I'll rebound it off other things the mainland that's for sure that we have to try our best to instill cuts through and gets into everything and if it's not there if there's a rebound it has to be changed and this is something that we have to work on in our own houses and also in all of our tomatoes foreign sees here closed the calm itself when you when you want to take it you'll take it okay the atonement sees that we're not being congruent ourselves we have to realize that towards in our own homes and also we have to speak to our students and we have to also speak to the parents also that they should realize what it's doing to their own children if they're seeing compromise if they're seeing coroners being rounded what it does to them in their own because they begin to see that not everything that they're learning is taken seriously and thus that's a that's a very dangerous message message for such a thing and there's one more thing I would like to add on and that is as melamed him how important it is that you know one of the Calum that we have tools that we have is is the famous vort from a rebuild part if he ever brings it down in the it's a marcelic would send talmidim to to be by a blue parts for a couple of years to get and repeal had a Seder that for the first month when a new talmud came every Shabbos he would tell by each student he would tell a new story The Covered denied talmud and during the week the first month of this new talmuds being there that other tomidum would sit with this new talmud and the River today they would discuss the stories that bill told look covered in New talmud and they would analyze the stories and dissect it from all sides these stories and these stories that he told for a new talmud even got a name like you know this is John Goldberg's first mice that we heard when he came second my spirit was it was it's like it was like named with that name and they once asked the pill what's the shot in his Stadium that a new talmud comes and he puts such an emphasis on telling stories and how they analyzed the stories and take it apart Nabil said for you give me writes in the letter he said in Taylor statement the first two Isis should be able to become a mensch so the Kia of me came that you should be able to start being miscarried after today he has to know how analyze the mice and take him ice and that was part of repeals for every Talent it came one of the historic Caleb that we have in our generation is we've been blessed with an abundance of support we have this we have say if I told this we have all kinds of the Elder Sedum they came out with different mices we have stories from the Arabic Galore thank God and when we sit there with our tell medium one of the Calum that we have to instill with them foreign and to do it in a pleasant manner in a manner that they enjoy am I we should be always we should have in our Arsenal mises and we should be telling mice and if we have something that we're learning that we can match a mice up you see from the Freedia Seekers that he says when he used to learn with would give him examples from what they're learning from elderly and you see from the freaking Secrets full with these letters also how he's telling amazing to give an example to the thing to show the Indian you see when it comes to that he's using dark Exodus and and my citizens he put him at alter exceed him and everything full full well and today bit and vices foreign we don't have to in our days as I was growing up the only thing that was printed was talks and Tails all of our mices that we know was talking Tales foreign would always tell stories to her spirits in front of Seven but a shop is told medium my father passed away that was the safer that I asked my mother that I want to take because I remember how he would sit shabbat's table not every mice he told Volpe he would open up to save her he would tick off before Shabbos smices that he felt that were more for our age and he would sometimes tell the story reading it inside that's how he told the story became part of our what he call and that's a a starkically I'll share with you guys of Isaac freesia that I just heard last week we had a hanuka sabai's in a place called kvar Truman it's across from the Airport it's it's acquired it was established in and it was named after President Truman in his honor for a United States in supporting the the establishment of uh in the U.N of the state so it's called cartoon it's not a true place there's a group of Allah's Troopers that live there there's one couple that are very very Stark the lady behind it was a driving force behind this getting a Mickey built the fry plots and the bill Mick was built gimbal is a lately that's how they build mixers you saw a lot of makers gimbal sheets so it should be good for everybody so there was a big looks of eyes nice and a very nice mix well done it took many years but thank God it's finally done and there was all types of people and there's an organization that builds mix and adds a soul it's called America's attire there's three four organizations in areas of soul that are really heavily involved in building big fish America's Taurus is a number of and we work with all of them because we when we put mcforest Kebab in Amigo it's like they're the ones that are really or there's contractors that are building and we join them for supervision for adding angle above Etc so at the end of the whole the minister religion was there at the end of the whole uh everyone left and the the uh the manal of America's attire younger man he uh he he was there he doesn't want to tell you a story what's the story tells he says a good couple of years ago he says there was this Paul Trooper American Booker they came to my house on Arab Shabbos and if he came to clean my house and I saw the book and answer the book her and find a Booker I said that when are you coming cleaning houses Tamika she says my parents are very angry that I became from he's from Great Neck man and he says and they estranged me I didn't have anything to do and they don't they don't support me at all they're against what I'm doing so to be able to make a living and also to pay for the Yeshiva I uh I clean houses on Fridays until I make money so the government tells me it's manal the girl Jose I saw it was a fine about her answer Booker since cleaning house so come to my house stop cleaning houses I'll take care and he adopted him like a lone soldier and he became his house he took care of him he says after about six years that he's learning and everything gotta find him looking around I found a nice family very very fine and Maiden notes here's the Booker a massive Kendall good learning you're shaman right family says to me they hear very good things about the boy but they have one condition he has to be born from they want to know if he was born from Taurus so he says as far as I know them not the parents are anti-religious they they disowned them so to speak he says you know what I'll call up the rabbi that Aryan Great Neck ask them about the families that he says them do you think it's possible that entire summer has kept over there it's a secular family that completely not interested in another one thought okay so it comes back to uh comes back to the uh he says to the family doesn't look like it this is if that's the case they're not interested foreign so they took him up on it and they went to the behind kanyevsky and he heard the whole story and he said you know what vehicle go on it find a Booker simply said no he said to go on and said he went he came acrossing Cal M can I get married how's it they set up a date for a wedding his parents are not going to come to the wedding so he says I called them I called up the parents to try to get them to come to the wedding why he already chose his life you see so many years what's so traumatic what did Yiddish guy do to you in the past that you should be so traumatic about it that you're not interested they won't come to the wedding of his son Jesus you want to know what this guy did to me by dollars and he told me to keep cars and I went to the mixer and this boy is born from that and look what I'm suffering from oh he heard that Kim might just show it off went back to the family I got great news and when the booker heard it after they got married for his son because she might be so Menachem the name of the rabbit he realized he realized who he owes a lot to where he ended up amazing was itself over yet the Maison and today this this forum that came out to be able to tell stories because in our days we can't come into 770 we'd see there but today how are the children going to be able to relate to their in a very tangible way are talking about are enthused about the hip are completely safug urem that's how the children will be able to relate to their habit so we got to take them off the bookshelves and put them on the table and to talk about it and when you talk about him he becomes tangible and then our children are able art tell me that we're able to relate to it and we have their eyes Hashem is and that's what makes him a part of our lives and every new story commits a shower of amazing it's fine and so recently there was a hole up to ipsa my sister I've had enough in some Isis tonight it's like I say I always joke around I say this depends how you want to Market it is but the bottom line is with us that's the bottom line and when you see a mice you hear a mice and you see in your name is I read my five letters in a day I'm on the plane reading my five letters one of the letters he ever says about you're making you see now and you'll let me know what's going on wherever you go what happened on the plane before the plane takes off leave it in my pocket shouldn't talk about it should mention it why if I can't foreign and anyone that knows if you take a look and time him and argument bring this down there's two ways how you know placement I tell you one of them it says in this room that you learn Ed foreign [Music] and these are things that we should be sharing to our tal medium because that's part and parcel of the clinic that we have to be giving them it says um stay up a whole night the night before that is foreign