Giving Gifts - A Halachic Overview - Rabbi Yakov Zev Smith

[Music] look at my boy Emma shame here and she retired would like to welcome everyone to today's year from vehicles and Smith's lita idea of giving gifts a lot of overview but I like to have the great supposed to sponsor and she called arrogant she retire at seven one eight eight five one eight six five one or email tape Center just even a ton he started this journey with a simple shy that someone got a bottle of expensive wine as a gift it was a non kosher wine and he wanted to give it to a different colleague of his a non-jewish colleague you know what the : English we used that word we gifting take the gift that he can use any I won't give it to a different person that he had to give and this started a beautiful journey that we as well see touches upon six major sugus but that's your side always is but a sham I think we found one one you saw it which i think is the important her logic definition of the word Matano to us Matan is a gift you give a gift now as a nice gesture but as we'll see allow me to explain this Matan is probably more accurately defined as a investment and to use the goomar's lost metonic america and let me explain there's no doubt about it that giving a gift is a very important form of a car Satori and your cars are type as you know is one of the ascites avoid the Sasha it's more than just Manchester kite you look in the Hybris love always he first has a shower Makena where he explains the greatness occurred is Morocco and then following that is if I decide like him when someone appreciates their Venezuela he understands the fee of a car satire and that naturally brings avoid the session and never what's also true someone that coffee Tyva Americas I'll tell a cipher la Barba table sutala cottage borrow who look in the beginning of harshest Haseeno a very devastating accusation neither I'm not Volvo Lloyd Holcomb so rusty they're on Vantage they're their cuff we tithe that's the relation of a person if he's not macro type understandable your gift is a very good way of being accurate type and even to a guy as we'll see there's also an Indian of a curse at time when necessary the safer to see them is cement option member rights if someone received a favor from a guy he's a lot of say about the guise of crying II love Rafa and though they they said it on a living person and the Rye is incredible the Xiaomi and Magilla gimel Zion is the gamma convoy nazar holotype presumably was a guy more so cell to save a caseta miss him and tough since addict if a guy did a favor for you you later Davin visits Locker now diving is a wonderful Matata to give him but that's the point where market type to a guy if necessary I certainly give to his old person's ankles Anthony in a safe melaka mime nyuk was he asked the question we're a gala capris did a favor for he'd is the latter reciprocate by car cetera say says it's a very simple sick in the end of Paris Vegas what's there the classic says the ISIF instituted Rock ad Misaka Hannam like Connor Keith why clicking on him even though he took away the land so most of the trying but the Cohanim and Rashi Titus does not mean a Korean as our hey Luke economy Cohanim is a comer a gala he didn't touch the land of the got lock him why so if you look in the targum your anderson don't forget was at anna he says because when the ice it was struggling with Asia's PT fire and he was falsely accused the golovkin helped him get out of trouble salsa cars are tied to the Chi rim he made a rule that exempted all crime rim and betrayal you see a lot in market ie even to a gala certainly to a guy you should work but then you see another aspect of matura in the tyra which is obviously the rotten hashem the das la Kim to give a worker a gift when he deserves it don't forget we find the Seneca actually makes it alive and I say tough pay Alice and tough pay base is the mitzvah of giving an evident finishes his work hanok tonic light you can send them out to clean and that's alive this emits an ionic tonic suck the cynic why to train us to be good people he worked hard he was devoted so we want him ah you'll say I don't have 'never every today the thinner continues off this man has there a person to learn a lesson someone that worked hard for you show appreciation so that's the Rutzen hashem to give a worker a gift Ohio I also found what what we think is our own idea when you go to someone's house this job is to give a hostess gift is that our own kiddush that's a good more the Kamara Magilla that curve of says that when he even came to our ego the people they stayed Byron on a charge rent but Diwali Barton would Mars lotion is night limba Soraya they took the skin that the people have brought the Gabbana's had from cabanas because it was not it was motive enough and they basically took it from their from their guests why so tomorrow my bias mom you know Iraq era lamb is back in his gopher Oh mr. Bush vision he gave you free room and board with a car so tight so much so you'll now to expect the gift that if he doesn't give it you'll have to take it mamas forcibly take the iris of the cotton because he stayed by you so that's part of the derech Eretz Cosmo Latoya you have to have a feeling of a curse a toy to the extent of night land bizarre you again a lesson in a curse a toy which makes a materna to a worker may be sort of a sea of honey tonic to host to a hostess maybe it's it is Gamora and I must add especially if the gif is expected and especially if you're dealing with a non-jewish worker by not giving a gift that you're supposed to be given could be a very serious collection I always find this more amazing in huland of Zion the Gomorrah tells the story repin says when I was going to do a mitzvah pigeons William but he couldn't travel further because then Harrigan I was in his way there was a raging river so he said split for me and the you know he says why I'm doing them brought to the shame you do the rest on a sham and a whole be cool if you don't I'm gonna I'm gonna split you and as the mayor says he was demanding a nest that maybe was bigger than Chris Yamcha for him himself and the guinot he relented and split some tomorrow Daniel pinnacles I said wait there's another year that has to get across he's also to limit splits for him but the story didn't end there dr. Gomorrah however who tired there was an Arab that was a squirting repentance pannier as he went it doesn't seem like he was his gaba you're helping him they're working together a B'nai in the volume so professor yard turns to the you know it says split like na mila ha why do my leymah that guy since a cop Austin of Lebanon Lavanya imagine the guy he's walking with the Panthers been Europe and also people's been your walks across he splits literally and leave them behind so the go say what kind of what kind of behavior does the Jews have I'm walking with them and it leaves me behind so it's Marvolo Ryan that repenteth been your it demanded an s greater than Chris yeah I'm so for a guy because it's unbecoming of a ye to act that way when we do something that the say caisson that's a Kailash M that does is unforgivable don't forget the Amara the Mishna says in a vise and petraea have made to the Kailash L know if a gift or a tip is expected and we don't give it there could be that horrible tine of cowboys and everybody I wasn't sure if I should say this I think it's an important message from the parable massacre model son and Jersey City someone who told me the other day that the said that we're angry at the Jews visited own tip now that's a horrible I'm sorry is to say such a thing you know you don't kill people with a don't tip it's terrible I'm sorry I don't want to mention in base marriages but just the thought that look at the price we pay the sin us yes well because caisson now of course that I'm sure they even weren't they weren't guilty with that but this is the part that we have to have we can't do something that will elicit a response of cavesson especially if we understand that tipping or matanda for work is the - Holly Kim the ruts are not tire so now we have to learn the sugu with a little more seriousness it seems that I'm a ton of sometimes is an obligation what are the outlook is regarding giving gifts so let's begin with a I guess in your honor the argument you have a worker Hanukkah is coming and you want to give him either I want to give him a gift but he's not religious so there's no doubt about its push it you can't go out and buy a trayful bottle of wine and give it him because he doesn't care anyhow he drink straight for wine and I'll say money because traif is much cheaper than kosher wine so that's obviously listener Eva you're giving a year to do an ism now the fact that he doesn't care is his problem but I have to care there's no doubt about you can't give a fry a worker non-kosher food at all but what's what's important we find a Rama and a muhabba that give us a little more insight there arm on the end of cook sama gimble says you now that a give a fry heed the bread to eat if he won't wash the tiller see Italian why that's also listen I even yeah I'm giving you a piece of bread but he's not going to wash and of course the question is washing is only am it cetera Bonham he doesn't do what there are born on and I'm guilty of other eyes of my Eva supplemental spin up and race Lambeth bays yes because if you give bad advice to another eight about Milton in fact that's a to Shana gannis the biggest a to shaker Ganis is you cause a year to do an available so it's not be a very Savoy it's paid to Shana Guinness but be that as it may this is a grandma you can give food if you won't wash the my cabin cooks are mock tests eBay says you can't give food to someone when I make a broke on it rhymed Africa bread to give it back the chocolate or a bottle of kosher wine to a Friday Eid who is no not to make breakfast is that my evil AC thermic so now we once spoke about the zoo giveth neva at times you have to give my marshall imagine have a worker and a religious work to work in your house it it's a hot summer day he's painting your house and if the four hours he gathers his courage can I have a drink of water and you say no so he says I just what is this I can tell you're not gonna make your brother sometimes claim is Salman I'm in force layman okay look Allison Mohammed hey that's making a bigger mixer by not giving him the water if you if you're given the water you may he doesn't make it brocco that's a Mitchell but causing sinners have gas to the extent I asked them for a cup of water didn't give it to me or any time when the keyboard is expected not giving it is a big initial so that's when you have to give someone a drink of any religious relative or acquaintance if you don't give him it's gonna be a full on shem so the solution is a bigger minister but our case you have to give a gift why do you have to give food so what didn't do you gonna give a nice fish he doesn't title it so customers are more maybe that's not as bad it's not enough to be syrup so that same truly discusses it chakra moisture in your a day esteem anion base says oh you can't give someone a nice pen and pencil set or or a putt he'll use it on Chavez but then again it's Tuesday today so that seems a little extreme but one thing we see to give food to an a religious person that lawmaker Baraka is LIF not even so there is a this give him a nice bouquet of flowers or I think it's good I to mention very often the best gift is to give him a book now don't buy in Missoula college but buying something that that might be that the spark that will ignite the upend Allah Eden him a book that's not there you know something down this deal down your throat but something nice something reading you'll see there's a Eunice kite out there but again to give him food if your maker broke up is a problem to give them a Kelly that's not hyvent feel that it's certainly motor but you have to choose the gift properly then we begin sugu number two and that's the following story that happens quite often someone asked me got a very very expensive bottle of wine and he of course you can't drink it it's it's non kosher can he give it to one of his work is who will feel very beholden to him wow you spent all this money on this expensive bottle of wine and the person is maybe that's good Ava's das now this is another big sucio there's no doubt about it can Ava's vast fooling another person even a guy isn't it's a comma as the Gomorrah says the coolants a big Dallas also ignite baths a breeze I feel who died to show a coma but except in the beginning of a comma pairings aliens says there are seven gun of him and the worst is kind of - Febreze ribbon Joyner and Sara to the gimel cook paddle it says the set of gravest us is worse than Grenada by Kozma Israel yang Bianchi's Raja Ashman Rafa biscaia vlog India MSMEs idea nephesh you know cheating is terrible but a breach in honesty fooling someone shows you forgot that they punished Lima same as the tourism as we have to be a mess there's a lot to say but gain a vast ass is the very opposite of avoid accession but with thing sting is the Gemara has in that Segen Hulan has one example of Geneva's das to give a guy me that he thinks is kosher why is that canevas das the crashy because he thinks you spend extra money to give him coach to meet and then somatically Toivo Keenum the guy will be beholden to you hey he spent so much money I mean I feel so honored I'll be a better person now be a better worker so besides the breach and MS in cannabis das there's also Christ in this petition you're getting a curse that type you don't deserve look Annie spent for me and here we really seem at Tonica Mecca because a Matala is not just a nice expression of goodwill it's an investment you give him something and he reciprocates but here we see that giving re-gifting like we say might be like a neighbor says he thinks you bought it but we have an important your site at the same Gomorrah the Maher tells a story that Martha was walking one way Ruff's a friend Rover coming the other way and grab the Sutra thought that they had come to greet him sir muchas said very sheepish thing wow you coming to give me such coverage why do I deserve it so says the urs opposite note we didn't come to greet you I don't want to fool anybody we didn't come to greet you were coming our way anyhow why he was concerned about your neighbors fast but said - my brother says you don't have to say that it's like a neighbor's bath we didn't fool them healed the kamati enough say he fooled himself why should he think I came to green I'm walking in the street so the price can say when danavas vast is very serious but if the person should have known better and he made his own false assumptions that's not Geneva's thus that's not fooling him he's acting foolish based on this I think it's push it when someone we gift especially on Purim you get a shower - and you don't know to do it what do you do with give it to someone else it's common knowledge that people read gift the gift so can we say the person that assumes you spent all this money on me is you don t enough Sheikh now Anna Phenom you going to a store and say give me the cheapest damaged safety you have I don't give it missing 50 blood give me the safer you give it to a mixer boy because you think I'll never open I say for anyhow that's gonna versus no one thinks you're buying damage safer or you find the receipt that you bought something else you put it into this this result - or this gift to imply that you are you bought it so that cannabis does but that we give to take a shower come on us to give to someone else I think it's coming out it's done I mean you have to make sure take out the card that the person who gave you but the fact that you we give thing I don't think it is get Ava's as its world it's more likely to beat you that they enough but I think there's a more fundamental head up and that is let's say someone gave me a gift so obviously I deserve it because that one give gives gifts for no reason so if I deserved it and this is worth what it's worth I so I could rightfully give it to you you know this is where metonic America plays a role I earned this gift otherwise I wouldn't have gotten it I could return it I could give it to you so why should the cloud they gave us thus if I take meat that the guys think is co severely trade so that's taka canevas does so we gifting generally it's much unless you do something to fool the other person now we begin our third Silvia and that's based on a pussycat the end of us cannon lysippos la embrace for light state funding based on this the mercenary desert that cuff Lacey tell him madness keenum you now let it get and one of the shot them dig in the insulation Farnum is to give a madness Keenan the main reason for the is of giving a girl a gift is because you are creating a relationship that could do much damage so many things were done to maintain a barrier to erect the the abdill s criminal I'm I'm feeling this Bissell Arkham and pass Arkham and now you're giving a gift you're making in advance to to cultivate a relationship the Skinner commits the top curve of says when someone violates Lisa her name on che cazzo Moy he Siebel attack : Muruga she ain't litter Sluman now even though he's going on a different part of LASIK hunting but it's the same concept but I say Hunnam is breaking that much-needed barrier that could bring much destruction and this is quoted twice in shock American you're a they accrue finality irrelevant face mis Padres time-tested Aled also lead Dane madness phenom lakum so how could you give a guy's worker a gift or a tip what about life's a funny however here we come to another important a logic ramification of materna Kumasi if you look at the lesson of the super nerve which really lost the gomorian of a desert that cuff ass elite ain't mad nasty no it doesn't ask the gift period madness enum why the word madness kina but in the taste after in the end of para gimel of I desire it goes further album highest a night or I avoid I raise a motor share nal occur micro alloy if you have a work up that or a neighbor then it's in that you allowed to give a gift Shana ellika micro alloy we're talking about giving a gift how did the material come into the picture the idea this is the aside of metonic America the gomorian Bava metzia doctors aliens as metonic Kumasi the Eli the terrify artsy Khmer why vo blame Akana the point is people the Derek cloud don't give gifts gratis for no reason you give a gift either is a form of a curse a toy which is the basis of your discard as we said it's a hollow offer or very often you give a gift as an investment and I always say a gift is either ID Oliver or bakasana Austin you have a yeah we have a site for the future but those are the two parts of metonic America and then yeah was called a madness enum you're giving for no reason why are you giving for no reason ye why spending your money the terraces you're trying to create a relationship that's madness Fein about that the tire acid to give a guy a gift as a cursor type is at iris cava we have to be Google to go him don't forget as we said calm Ison there shouldn't be a fill a shell but if you have a Cashman is your neighbor is your work up your mailman if you want but any one case where you feel beholden to him and he expects it that's not the issue the madness phenom is the issue and metonic MF is the Hatter that's why it's not the shot that you really know how to give a gift but if you have a reason here so the reason the benefit outweighs the answer has to show them if you have a reason to give it's not them Isis and if you look at the Tazz and coffin on a loveseat cut-ins if contest the tab says if you know the going it's not a McDonough it's matira sharing a chalet moolah or a crash elem like either it's ride or a larva or it's about kala Austin and the lavash in see if you now spells it out even more bluntly you're giving a gift now kit so connect the he'll be Marcus Octavia or you'll have a different benefit so I think we did say honestly there's very denim a a Magna screener is vada Yasser and a Matata that's expected or needed is not a mattress Kingdom that's my tonic Emerson that's motor if so it should be push it to give a gift to a workup even a guy you should work or to give a tip to a workup is the perfectly mode to whether it's to a worker to a home attendant to an a the cleaning lady it's basically a metonic america it's an important investment and what stay i was afraid to say this because then sooner when is it awesome almost never but I found that Pella yeah it's an area boy he first says the we have to make sure we have good relations with the he says it could be dangerous and then he says are a whole presentation if the Burslem gives you money make sure you give gaudium gifts even use the loss and give them madness Keenum that's an investment / laughing okay I'm lying keep your over youngnam Tim Serena he says you have the extra money cash I say Java in a in a hem and it's a good investment he says it give a Madness Keenum isn't that the issah the terraces he understood better it's not madness Keenan it's a wise investment to maintain good relationships now in those days of course there it was push it also question of a relationship that could be dangerous otherwise if you don't have a you know a good relationship with the but today there's still that very important objective that it shouldn't be kalila Ava a reaction of cowboys and that's the way the Jews act so of course on the guy you should hug the day itself the muhabba says here a day a crook member says hey we don't give gifts so you'll be z-zaman be my limit so to give it a few days before or I'm doing a GU paper on Islamic diamond give it afterwards not on the same day but definitely to give an expected gift should be done a tip I saw both the bare moisture and giemo cook with Zion the Dragomir giant Kaufman hey there's no no Schuyler whatsoever that's not my second name that's a year acting with the darken I am that typical event now we begin our fourth Sevilla and what is what gifts should not be given to a guy we celebrate to a friar you can't give food if I make a Brava we can't give non kosher but could I give any gift to a guy so one thing it should be posh it think that re Surya I know you can't give because that's Hannah I'll give you an example you got somehow someone gave you bus to the Hall of you can't eat it and you can't give it you can tree gift it because we gifting is a form of I know the asanas Lebowski eating or selling is any unknown but we see it's what should be push it to buy is Surya not to feed your pet pet adios that's it nice of their eyes sir like Savannah could be Bajal ad my air conditioner but what sometimes people don't realize mr. Burris says is in her space a tough time has it gotten Cobb has people go to the zoo and on come on my face if they buy pet feed that's orphan comments so after mr. Murray even if it's not your animal but the D honneur that you get you feed another an animal you know you see people spend money on Pecola i-it's not theirs so when summer goes to the zoo even if he doesn't pick it up he kicks the comets closer to the to the animal that's a form of odd that's awesome my sister Holly doesn't happen often but a rub gets too shy occasionally somehow that mix-up that we learn about in your day you happen milk fell at the challenge and there's no shishun now this show is bust beholder icing right you can't eat it you have to cash to the pot and don't give the challenge to the grater that's it it's at the ricer of Han oven Buster bacala so to be gift that is certainly awesome the question is let's say I buy a nice package of dry meat today you can't give gift that's nice and meat but the dry meat is a it's considered a special gift but it straight it's not not this sub no it's novensys traceless can I give that to a girl you should acquaintance or colleague or workup you wondering why not I'm not eating it and there's no restaurant no unable to trace this and the heart is a plastic in the tire in parishes we a bycicle called availa don't eat it la guerra de basura basura it Nana varkala give it to a Gare and Garrett ice shop or you must follow the nakri now the interesting the Garrett I should you give a gift and the guy you sell this is why there are some Regina based on a Gomorrah if I desire that huff and I'm some sub saw him that cuff Aleph that learn this is the Makar of the east of madness clean up to a go because there comes to a garret I see if it says give a gift when it comes to a guy it says sell it why not give to a gift because you can't give a gift to a guy if there's no reason so Garrett I see this mother gift for a guy you have to sell but be that as it may in any case the plastic allows us to have our not from the veil so trayvis does that mean I could go out and buy non coached to me to give it to my guru workers can I go to a business of selling the bells of traders so now we come to a Michelin severe spirit Ziya mission agimo a nice and square up and the mission has a long list a month these on the list you can't do business with novellas like trade fairs like Scottsville every Muslim I fail citrate fizzes motor behind no the parrot is Hannah is not a hundred percent but to do business is what's known as the ISA and most price rolls of the riser of Skyrim in fact Dammam second cuff gimbal seems learn a lot and very super sick check its you lock em welcome it is for Hannah but the square up shake it till the cars in the beginning of your idea says you can't be making with this instance and it's at their eyes based on a passing so we see both helices are true having her nothing about the traders is perfectly motor but to do business is innocent ERISA now the big question is so one second so why could I sell or give sell VB Nevelson trayvis to the guy the pastas is motor i what about the SS fire so for that mother in the next mission she is see they fire for voice the doggie machine is damn go ahem mean him Tamilian boot arm alarm I'll come a-knockin in other words as the gamer explains you can't do business with novella trophies but if the veils of trade this came into your possession for example your you set out a big net you caught kosher and non cosa fish you didn't buy the command cosa fish it came away you'll have to throw it out you could sell it even for profit there's a fundamental difference between doing business and something that came into your possession you allow to sell it to realize a profit business is also nice demand is motor the same purpose to sell it as a business is awesome if you got it you allow to sell it that's miss diamond has moto dr. bass Yosef this hectare of this diamond Mick Ramallah it's a fair suppose ik which plastic a muckle denarii so here we see fire is an acid ERISA and this Batman is Motum now this is all in chalk on earth the beginning of coffee Italian the muhabba says isn't it sir Patterson it's a derisive of Spira in this domain is mortar but in its there are bonds octaves muhabba there's no problem of spiral the subscriber is only by isset ERISA so someone who wants to open up a big supermarket aquam we'll call it he's selling Bissel pass and Hall of Occam perfectly motive no Shila coz Firebird Varma surah meter important is mortal but the cell tower first ERISA is the Assaf spiral now the question is can i buy gifts non-kosher meat to give my guys to workers so of course if you have even one fryer person at your company then a slaver I'm talking about if it's all going say one thing why not I'm not eating it and I'm not selling it so it's regular hang up on the veil Sartorius proposed a for us it's more Sigma divided this is a primary example of a tonic America I'm buying a gift to give to the work is either a dollar of our cup or a Kabbalah asset that's an investment and it wasn't as diamond I went out to buy the meat so for two reasons buying gifts to give to work is is us number one it's not nice diamond and number two it's a wise business investment that's like Metallica Mecca and if you say that berkshire Covanta cuz i guys Miami in the end of per customer hollow sorceress he says likhna is the I Anessa a dog Tommy or Sharda vasa but littler the gallium is awesome you can't buy assume to give a good now there's a plea here cuz the I&S sir why is that together with duct Tommy dog Tommy is what I know yeah that's awesome I know we'll get back to that but but the but we've seen a guy's nominee to buy typhus to give to a guy is awesome threat the base the i-77 cookin sighing why is it also suck the bass the I said nearly item which about Tonica Massa if you get an item if someone gave you a bottle a piece of meat to regifter this much why because you didn't buy it that's miss damning we gifting tariff is is okay it's only huh no but to go out and buy it that's viral are you not selling it you're giving it as a gift but that's my tonic America and if you're looking at as and also cook Italian on a very fundamental finish of the Rama there are more says if someone has got used to work is he shouldn't buy power fist to feed them for lunch why that's a form of Slayer dr. Todd's and besides that trade for food is much cheaper than kosher food she's saving money on these purchases so that's another reason why buying tray for gifts to give your work is is my tonic America and also you're saving money on the deal and that's why it's awesome so to buy a corporate gift of the veil of the veil so trades is to give you to give to your work is would be awesome now consider the following questions but think about it someone was old big money buy a certain business that bankrupted but they said we have a big shipment of non-kosher meat if you wanted to tours you could recover some of your losses could the e take all that meat and sell it for a profit so that replaces the first of plastic in the Thalia that is a classic example of Miss damming he didn't go and buy it it came his way and who says this not me Diego is mine is that I big I said earlier in the beginning of the stick Elise's McConaughey's here all of them say you believe I you latter collect a debt with the volume to Mayim and you'll add a sell it why is it what's the feel like push it to go buy gifts to give us awesome but if you getting this it's coming your way as a form of payment for a five that's this domain and it's mostly even to sell it so both halves both are a parsec in the tire so we see it's a square is that their eyes surpass this and this damn name is Nicola more like that it's mortem now are you bozo if you get an expensive gift to be gift it is perfectly more - even if it's the veils of APHIS I'll say wait a minute but if I throw it out I'm not really losing because I I didn't pay for the gift I got it for free so state troopers with over first of all it was Dominus look - who cares how you got it and also it's not even true because if you got a gift you deserve the gift you invested to get that gift time or money whatever it is if the guy gave you a gift you deserve it so my time at commercial look cooler and if you could take it and give it to another worker so definitely - we gift a veil suit Reyes would be Musa and out of this diamond now we start out fifth so again that is the question of wine today wine is a very popular gift can you buy non kosher wine to give your non-jewish workers again we're not talking any for a FRA eaten in the business so the higher up what's the problem it's stampy item is a thereupon one you could have enough prominent opponent of Spira but here we come to a very important you deal there's a Nyssa derisive yayan esse to make a very long story short i Anessa that was part of our desire of is Ossabaw not just the drinking is us at us about no in fact the gomorian of a desire that cough testament BAE's compares it to as ever to meet that was sacrifice of our desire which it would clearly eat that so the mother says yeah leonesse that has also attacked reverse of I deserved it was sacrificed for my desire so yeah and Esther Kazan is so hominoid even a coal chute is Marcos know if you have the iron Esther of course you can't give it to a guy you can't have any drop of an arm giving to a guy is a form of are not so you're not to come on to this is Clara it's a yeah you're nesters us about no but I'm not talking about yeah Nessa I got a bottle of wine for my mama geyser acquaintance I don't think it would have a desire I don't know so this is another sugar called stamina stamina is Gaius to wine that is really undefined we don't know what he did with it may be served sacrifice maybe didn't so the Gemara says the the mere fact that it might even use of I desire of its a Suffolk of our desire we have to treat it like of our desire also don't forget minimally just like we don't eat bishop or past Akram al khalili coming to castles with intermarrying wine is more of a relationship former so therefore besides the concern of Ida's ara there's also the concern of Costas so there are two reasons why we don't drink tambien them either the Keshava desire or minimally fastness so tasteless and my desire that cough testament base why do you need two reasons the price is beautiful if it had only been the insta fastness it would be motive on know just like Bishop octoparse alchemist looked about no but now that it's also a concern of a desire of Tommy enemies are subhan no sir I buy say for all practical purposes whether its yah NSF or spammy haenam you can't be gift it because minimally it's a serb ahaha and you can have a love from stamina and that's tackle why we don't we give stamina the question is today in tough shinpei is it really so true that stamina might even use of I desire I mean today no one is in tough odds our people are into wine magnify desire what are the chances of a bottle of wine was sacrificed so this question is not just again a tough son pay the restrainer speak about it because going down already you know there's Scott motors my guardian and they don't please have my desire and Sammy annum is no longer sacrificed so if you look in the tour in the beginning of cook off Gitmo a number of assignments ace Tommy a num today is not suspect of I desire you can't drink it because it's not different than pass or Bishop Arkham but some Yanam today is not a Savannah of course the primer this is can we change a gizzard are born you have to have a minion Ancelotti right and also we're talking about a Suffolk in a void desert and this is why the mohabbat cook of gimel says Tommy aina of today is awesome no nothing has changed its hasta banner or beard media Bonin but if this is reborn of stamina hasta by now and certainly steel so according to the macabre and that acaba hain was fired him a bottle of wine today is regular stamina that's hasta bono and certainly you can tree gift it however there are more I think leave somewhat of a mixed message this man Isaiah some say is motor but LeMay sir he says yes lajas Amir and then he says Malcolm have so you could be Mako but yes Makela the table Hoffman there are more seems to be make America the den he writes for her pillow also like look nice a table - here in fact the house must all the man died and hey you Dalit says summer maker with Asami and I'm to have hard to have our knob but about nefesh should be marked neviutz Leah you have a Brock of the cosmos or them the moms shake and a very interesting Tuva and Simon cooked nani or a day was asked a Rob told someone to spill out stamina and someone accused the rub of wasting money either she guilt because there are more holes that's tambien impatient looked about no I get to spell out give it to a guy as a gift so yes the moms trick that I do something wrong sometimes exes no you do anything wrong hyeri is the virus Yemen but I'd pick the mitzvahs and it's not a big half Syd should be fascia stats Tommy a numb today is awesome like the macabre like there are monsters type aha so I can't say it's wrong to have enough from it but it's not wrong to be mad mezes optimum shape so the drinks tambien him today all agree is awesome to have her nor from stamina today formic uh purpose Arden the macabre she did tell us sir the remorse says it might be motor type lejana now let me ask you a different question so I bizarre could I go out and buy a case of non kosher wine and give it to the guy you see workers and I'll savor probably a nice amount of money on the if by not buying the kosher brand so here we come to an interesting question is there an it's a spoiler by stamina I wonder what's the Shila we said there are three favors by history department there's no spam you know it's a spiral you'll at have a napkin store so what's wrong with stamina dose don't only be drought boredom true but then again the stymie ennum originally was austere by no different than all of history Gabbana and her voice you know who says that there isn't is subscriber vice Tommy annum the original how goriest mind that my meter we began with the course magma that we began with says you're allowed to collect a hive of prey for meat and yangshou guy or char drum - Miriam right you gotta collect I will lick my CI Anessa a dog Tommy a shard of Awesome bullet leg I am is awesome he puts together I in SF with the dog Tommy sup T man passive and the children Ximena involved yes he's not talking about yaya Nessa it is times was neo stamina stamina is like any other is that there is an issue of soil and the rav in the schnoz via specs I admission agimo and I saw the topic I am your idea could Zion ifs called other cities that hold that by stamina there is an is soft soil even though it's only with the opponent and and besides the issue of I know like the macabre even like the Ranma perhaps there's no Easter Hana but square is us now to me is all of us here the scooter mom self says summer makeup to buy it but yesterday Hoffmann the Pisgah children's if cotton base and darker to visit cotton gimel say the mid Minich in the and their day was that even did sell stamina that would seem to be a leadership business factor mom shake also acknowledges that Yeadon sold star me annum they weren't max me but we could say the Fallon let's be very clear if someone has yeah NSF which is very weird they of course there's nothing to talk with us about North Star me a dime today to go to if someone got it to regifter respire the miss vada your sub freshman Azam toy the hakama a kid had in his motor to go and sell to buy and give away or sell star me a num there as many pay scheme that whole dancer it's a square which is independent of yourself of her knob and that should not be done imagine the following Schuyler the guys in the house poured wine whatever case was but made coaster wine into stamina so you can drink it can you tell you know what you took you made it take it you know like rate the Niska you made my you mine shape doesn't they take it that's a problem because if this would be of concern of stamina maybe even yeah in s you don't know our intentions but definitely this is real stamina so we have to really close to the macabre this is a savanna liked arm or they might be us it might be to be make Alif it's just ambien without the concern of a desert but one thing I will say any situation that a person has a history huh no it's not after the gift to a guy almost someone by mistake bought how much ever Pesa a few years ago there was a tunnel about the beer or about the schnapps so he can't drink is a 702 give it to a guy isn't it sort of I know and without buying it to give just the mere Matala of a sewer annoys us now the myself if if they would make a yarn reversal made by LeClair that would take away the problem of stamina but it's almost impossible I'll tell you why because when the guy starts to make the wine at the first early stage it becomes yaya Nessa then you cook it afterwards you can't reverse the ISM when do we rely on on Bissell when a Yiddish accompany makes wine but taxes are conscious and they plug in the militia which circumvents the any foreseeable lists of the VIU Nessa but if a guy makes wine it's the inss probably before the Bissell sets in so it's just not practical and also be cloud Bissell is supposed to least ruin the taste of wine and grammar not going to make my bushel just to satisfy a potential one or tweet us your customers wine as you see is not a good idea to buy as a non kosher wine of course to buy as a gift yeah I'm a bushel and give the friar person is a much better option again on you have to be concerned about the lack of brocco what is a good idea to give to my god you should welcome I can't give more Judaica book or something so anything that's is there a bottom now I'm giving examples with and being very careful whether it's chocolate or any other foods if it's only an issue the report on whether it's all about compassion Bissell Ockham if it's only innocent there are born on you could give the gift look I told you could buy it and give it there's no problem of square is no problem of history unknown now summer says but how about if it contains gelatinous and if gelatin is all starts there so there that's what I'm being careful you have to buy a gift that you know the Macias the current let's see is that this item at worst is only sewage or bonham then you allow to make sky with it you laterbye it to give if you find a wine that was manufactured by Muslims then that wine you could probably give as a gift because Muslim wine Baba says even the harbor's maickel that they definitely don't do if I deserve like the atheists of them harvest times there's no it's of no Akash of I desire there's only regular typhus and if the wine and whiteness harvesting the wines only there are born on that would be a gift so you know I drink it you know I drink of course a lot of drinking but to give it as a gift is look and I like to leave them with two fascinating childless and hopefully they'll all come back you might I'll get some feedback with both of them I have I hope I have a clarity here's the question someone gave you your your gracious acquaintance gave you a gift of the surah anaam whatever it is a bust of a call of item very expensive you can't use it you can never know can I go to the store and get a money back with refund or exchange it for a co side or a you know a non-food item so this reminded this someone asked me to remind me of a more common question what happened a few years ago when there was a whole tumble about the schnapps that was found out to be how much of a pass out someone bought schnapps if the pace up and found out that this particular schnapps was how much of a passer so effectively it's a sabana so now he has a son on his possession can you go back to the store and demand a money refund or some imported which he didn't realize there was Vasa bahala that was cooked together so can he return it and get a non bust of a call the pet food so the only easy Schuyler is if you bought comets so I passed by a Yiddish chef sofa that was unaware that have come with us obviously so that's a bona fide Mecca toys he's now on a salad no I buy it if it's a mecca choice it wasn't a sailmaker so now let's think I have come aside on my hand if I return it I'm getting money I'm getting I know but that's the catch when you read return an item that was a mecha toys retro actively it was never mahira so it was never a machine er I'm not having enough I'm a it's enough I'm just reversing all the fear so when it's a mecha toys you're not reselling it to the to the the seller you met your invalidating the makeu makeup so I'm not having enough um from any history unknown so that is easy to me to say it's perfectly mortem but the questions that other two questions the gift that was given the sewer I know it was not a toy it's nothing wrong with it's not defective or you bought pet food in a guy sister so why don't you check it look at the label there's nothing wrong is nothing not defective item so you want to sort of sell it back who said that's what them so that's what I would have thought but I saw in a wonderful safe four cameras and history notes page 54 quote syrup soy vanilla vanilla says that since theory is in the business world a return policy so it's also what did return it they give you the rights to return it don't ask questions you lateral turn return it now what I first I could understand it but he even added a little of a Ryan a friend of his told him the fact that you returned the item and you get back even the sales tax is there I you're not selling it back to them you're just invalidating the home ethereal now but I in the study afterwards is that you're right LP Tyra when you buy pet food it's not a matter of choice there's nothing wrong with the patent bill with the pet food but the the wonderful country you live in a very generous and they give you a right to just hit the cancel button so it's it's a bit though Mecca even though it's not a matter of choice so what's the Stephen now my muscle is that some people sell things a seven day trial basis yes return it with no unconditionally you know people they buy a gown that their vikas gonna use it for the 60s era breakfast and they return it because it's wrong but you know that that fits into the to this mold you allowed to make a bit o Mecca so the point is if they give you the rights to make a bit lament that so you're not selling you back your invalidating the material now I want to make a point to make a little clearer someone told me a true story he went to a store and instead of buying the red milk the regular milk he bought a blue milk you know the the the fat-free milk and they have a very strict return policy but he found out the milk costs the same red and blue so he went into the store he's gonna teach him a lesson and he took brought that red mokey bullet and put it back and took the blue milk and walked home and he returned it so now the store has his milk and he sold the blue milk why because you bought the milk you can't change it if they allow you to change it so that's fine but you can't just change things but when it comes to a policy of 7 days whatever it is return policy they're giving you the rights so to return something even if it's not a bit them even if I don't make a choice is Bittle Mecca so I buzzed oh can I take the gift that someone gave me the busiest or enough and change it to get back money or an item the answers cos for Shaolin why because then I'm benefiting directly from history I know I had nothing a guy gave me a story I know so I'm getting something instead so I'm getting her not for me Serrano the other case that I bought pet food I put my money down so I'm getting back money for I put them so that's not ha no that's just below Mecca he has a big it's no Mecca here I'm using the 3 I know to get an item I think that's partially I hope that's and I can probably imagine the following thing a person once looks did some research what she bought his godson welcome he says you know I don't know buy this buy that I'm a Betty I'm gonna give him $100 gift certificate to his local supermarket let him buy what he wants and I'm a loser as ice but you know he's not a very rich fellow he's gonna buy basic staples he's gonna definitely buy navale suit Rafe is with part of the gift certificate is that your problem is that herbert varma Suren in other words if you give a gift certificate that he will probably use for the veils or a phase is that your problem and I guess the same question is if you use a sureno so the truth is this is push it if I give I work a hundred dollar bill say you know what buy what you want even though he says great I'm gonna buy you steak for supper there's no shy love whatsoever it's mutter because I didn't buy a suit identify in the veils of Dreyfus I gave him money but consider this question you tell the guy you see worker you buy in your supermarket and I'll foot the bill I'll pay the hundred dollars whatever it is is that worse or how about in better you say no I went to the store I prepaid your purchase pick up what you like it's on the house I paid for it already so that's not like giving money the question is is a gift certificate similar to I'll pay later or I pre-paint suburbs have a right to tell all our three styles are am a pharisee macabre and tough non the sieve of the macabre says if you have unpaid stuff if you have a a worker and ever even your ladder given money say go buy lunch even those are my comments I come at us if I'm not but you're not buying climates so that's fine then the macabre adds Ivalo you I am a light save our coil bunny pariah don't say go buy and I'll pay for it why because you having are not from comets ah you didn't touch the comets something mr. brewer - sleepless you tell him I'm gonna pay for it like I'm buying it but the macabre says the estimate theorem Gambas ER there Mac even let's go to mr. Gura postions why because the end of the day I didn't buy comets he bought comets for himself I'm paying for him that's like I'm giving him $100 to buy you but he bought it I have nothing to do with the purchase so the yes might theorem holy I didn't buy the plummets he bought the comets I'm giving him the money to pay for it that's not any worse than if I give him the money upfront la la fleur mr. Burris says you should be Malcolm air but it's mutter but listen to the punchline it's mutter to tell them by LEM can dig them dinner if you went to the store and you prepaid his purchase all agree is awesome in fact mr. Brewer says even was only a Suffolk if he buys karma it's awesome now what's the logic beautiful if you prepay his purchase that means you bought his purchase so if he doesn't end up buying comments here okay but once he bought home it is llama Freya what what did you buy when you prepay for that purchase you bought hummus that case all agree is awesome so now let's look at a gift certificate what is the mechanics of a gift certificate it's the simplest prepaid item you bought a hundred thousand merchandise in the store it will be the spiral what I bought when the guy picks it out but then it comes out that what he bought I originally paid from I bought so the color day is that would be uh sir I wouldn't talk [Music] I mean Shamy you should tell like two biggest Ricardo's mr. today's share like to mind item to do schedule schedule for the daily serum is on the Beamer the next few weeks tomorrow's a guest speakers master saw of pimples Friedman specials Australia Hanukkah is Musa Verity sir I'm supposed to say the cecum five minutes [Music] before yep except using my demon or [Music] Hey [Music] No I was out [Music] they come quite often back to my serum yeah my antlers [Music] and I would see [Music] you don't say [Music] that's all simple not [Music] with thank you yes we exit yeah [Music] it doesn't mean nothing today but love them in tonight they don't believe me they don't know [Music] wasn't about more difficult to church they don't even know when out of place [Music] okay but I was gonna say it's a special gift another Smith but its usual weekly gift of the cecum just learnt a bad session we saw that gifts are a very important way of expressing cars at Ivan it's a it's a thing that hidden should do it's a car that type is the base of your disguise and gifts particularly as an investment for the future it's a side all of our Kosala acid and a courser type should be shown even to gallium for character in the china of course we have to be careful that we have to act with the dark Canadian that is our greatness and a gift is a wonderful way of expressing that occurs a toy a tip we found the macaron Atari that's the MIT subhanaka a hostess gift is a macaron Gillick evolved that it was almost demanded but certainly we should do it with a sense of simcha and avoid and any cost a a reaction of choc ice and that's the way he didn't react that's a gruesome colostrum that has to be avoided giving a gift of non kosher food to a fryer person of course is absolutely also that's not a Eva even if he doesn't care we have to care give him food that he won't make a brothel on or bread that he won't wash until Co diam is also lift Nativa better give him either a non food that's not does not require a tila or give him a book on his level something that again is not provocative it's something that he'll feel you know honored to get but those things will avoid any listener any question of of me Eva Geneva's das is a serious issue because I'll say it's worse than Geneva but we gifting what you received is not a concern of neighbors das says you the oddly enough say unless you do something you that try to give them person you bother you put in a receipt or you say something but stomp you doctor now say is a heckler in this situation there's an is the rights of giving a mountainous FINA but it's precisely those words Phenom if you our cars are tight you like to give a gift if you have a vision for the future you'll work better it's also Mota a tip that's expected is mutter it's only a madness Kingdom that it's all the only intention is to create in goodwill and a relationship with with the non jewel a soui I know is surely us to give or exchange that is Sahana the valence it refers on both the banner but the delicious flavor that's the use of the rice pastas of Spira but if you got a gift of of something it's also it's a Safari gotta give the veils of trifa's that's not called star to be gifted that's this domain this domain is mutton anytime that you didn't go out and buy it if you got it even you got any rooster somehow or you got it from a bankrupt company you allow to use that money you gotta use that and trade meat and sell it that is miss diamond not Skylar yeah your Nessa is absolutely awesome even bageno even a coal show and Stan Vienna always was us about today's stamina and aspired them huh maja behold there's no difference it's still awesome another I'm all gives gives us a smooth to make it in but you should be math clear but stamp it also could be the use of spiral so what buying tray for wine is not a good idea Sam that's Tammy a numb and giving us a gift that would be a problem even to be gift a wine that you receive that stamina is itself to be mass mira la laaaa this is what to be makeup a guy you sure made gracious a person that made Tam llena it should be considered I swear not like many cheetahs and should not be used my bushel is not practical by a guy but if it is am a bushel that's kasha that would be an idea returning a gift of is Surya no we said is our Sultana but to returning a purchase of is Surya know that you bought if it's within the return period that would be a bit low Mecca and it's okay and be giving a gift certificate that you pre paid for the item that guy will buy even it's only a Suffolk then I'll biographers if he does by typhus that would be your problem of Saira but for my service you [Music]