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The best interviews come from the place
of least expected. I have a letter from
Ammy rejecting my submission that I
wrote for like this is not going to work
for us. It's like a letter of rejection
from the magazine that I've been on the
cover of six times now.
>> None of your business, Oshi. None of
your business, Michael.
>> It's the None of Your Business podcast
hosted by Michael and Oshi.
>> Welcome back everybody to another
powerful episode of the None of Your
Business Podcast. Oshi, I pick powerful
because this man is sitting in front of
us is a powerful force of energy and I'm
going to get into it in a minute. Thank
you to all our subscribers. Thank you to
our listeners. I'm Michael Greenfield.
This is our co-host Lushi Schwarz. And
our guest this evening, and I say this
with a grin on my face late in the
evening, Thanksgiving evening, the
great, wonderful, powerful Rabb Schlommo
Zans. Welcome to the program.
>> Thank you for having me.
>> Thank you for being here. It's amazing.
Um, you know, we've been trying to get
to each other for a while and uh we made
it at pretty much midnight Thanksgiving
evening because was it you missed your
flight or something happened?
>> I did not miss my flight. For the
record, I arrived at the airport in time
for the flight, but too late for my bag
to be checked in with me.
>> Oh,
>> so they didn't let me board. And I
learned something new today. I was years
old when I found out that after 2 p.m.
on Thanksgiving, there's pretty much no
flights anywhere. The pilots want to be
home for their Thanksgiving dinners. So,
usually flights to Texas would be going
like on the hour. Not today. Last one
was at 2 PM. First one is at almost 6
tomorrow morning. So, I realized I was
going to be there. I was like, you know,
let's make the most of it. And I sent
you a text and I said, I'm going to test
your spontaneity. And you passed the
test.
>> Thank you very much. Anything for for
you really. I I've been excited to do
this ever since uh we we tried from
before Sukus to make this happen.
>> I think it's I think it's longer than
that. I think since Pesak.
>> Pes.
>> You know who told me to to to come on
the show?
>> Who's that?
>> Um Israel Hami.
>> Okay.
>> We did Pes together in Japan.
>> Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Yes. I know what you're
talking about. Yeah.
>> So he on Pesaf. He was telling me like
you got to go on this.
>> It's someone I'm I'm literally I love
him and I love a lot of people in this
uh regard. He's a status friend, you
know, like so you know what I'm talking
about because when I say powerful, I
want to go straight into this.
>> You are doing so much. I can't even
catch my own breath watching you and and
I'm seeing what you're doing on status
which by the way for the record uh
you're in the 1% most people it's rides
to my lakewood and bor park most people
it's you know who's going to so the 1%
of people that are actually keeping
people entertained and enjoyed and
educated and inspiring and is you you're
you're I'm I you're one of the only
people that are not muted and I'm
watching you and I see your journey and
it's fascinating to me and I'm loving
every step of
your senior White House correspondents
to to so like the just the words coming
out of my mouth is like unbelievable to
me and um I see how much involved you
are with Tadaka. I see how much you're
involved with Fillin. I see how you
started your own podcast and you're a
force to be reckoned with. It's like
literally watching you is just amazing.
It's beautiful.
>> Thank you. You got him all worked up,
>> Michael.
>> I I'm in awe of this.
>> He's a fan.
>> I'm a big big fan. Yeah. I don't need
chat to say anything about you. I have
it all right here and right here. I've
been watching you for a while and you're
making a difference in people's lives on
a daily basis. You're representing us.
You're doing you're making a kdeshm
every day of your life. It's amazing.
Really amazing.
>> Try my best.
>> All right, we can all go home now.
That's it. [laughter] We're done. Okay,
so we have a sec. Listen, I know that
everybody knows
pretty much, you know, they've seen your
name. They've seen you on a magazine.
They've seen you on on uh in videos and
they've seen you in so many different
ways. out there and they could see a
little bit about what you're doing, but
you still deserve a Chachi PT says what
about you because the segment what we do
and uh gets the people to know you a
little bit better real quick and it also
gets you to know what Chad says about
you.
>> Are you you legitimately like publicly
make this everyone knows that Chad GBT
is is formulating the questions?
>> Yeah.
>> Okay. I love the honesty.
>> Yeah. Yeah. Absolutely. I just got
printed 90 seconds ago.
>> We're not talking about the questions
yet. The Chad GBT segment here is just
says about you.
>> Oh, it's like a summary.
>> Yeah. Okay. Okay.
>> Yeah. This is what Chad GPT has to say
about you.
>> We'll be all out.
>> By the way, sadly, people ask me, "How
much research do you do?" You know how
we were talking before, how transparent
are you? And you're like, "Everything
goes and we're good. We don't edit,
right?" Same thing. Uh, how much
research do I do? I know the person
usually. And uh, I print it out. So,
here we go. Ready? Um,
he's one of the only people alive who
can walk into a conflict zone, interview
strangers in three different languages,
and still remind a million people to put
on fill in before breakfast.
>> Uh, mostly true. I I think I would
remind people to put on fill in before
MKA. [laughter]
>> But other people wake up late and eat
breakfast late. That's just said
breakfast.
>> True.
>> Before dinner time, I say actually.
>> How many? Three languages. Let me guess.
Uh, Yiddish, English, Hebrew.
>> Correct.
>> All right. You're not impressed. You're
saying you're [laughter] not impressed.
I mean, many people speak three
languages.
>> Yeah, that's for a Jewish person. It's
not impressive.
>> Right. Ch picks up out of those three
languages. Impressive. But
>> the truth is you've been spending a lot
of time in like different kind of random
countries, right? So like you haven't
picked up on any of those languages.
>> I know all the bad words in Russian and
uh a little bit of Arabic, a drop of
Spanish. Nothing nothing
conversationworthy, but uh
>> nice. All right, a couple of more. You
ready? Sure.
>> He's a kidic journalist who travels the
world and works the White House beat.
Basically, he's either the bravest man
alive or really bad at staying in one
place.
>> Bad at staying in one place. [laughter]
>> Um, when did you when did you become a
White House journalist? What is that
background about?
>> That uh started just about a year ago
when my uh I should say friend and
mentor Jake Turks, who I believe was on
the show.
>> Yeah, he was. Um he was looking for
other opportunities. He wanted to stay
in the White House but he was thinking
about leaving AMI and they offered me
the gig and I decided to take it.
>> Oh, so you took over his former position
at the army.
>> Correct.
>> Oh, interesting. And he's at the
Mishbaha now.
>> Correct.
>> Yeah. He was a great guest. Drake turts.
>> Yeah. Yeah.
>> Very interesting guy. Very unique.
>> Yeah. Exactly. Look, that's what you
need to take over someone who's unique.
Even someone who's more unique. No, but
he he deserves a lot of credit because
he created that position. Like there was
never before was there a
>> Jew in the White House like that. And um
>> trailblazer.
>> Yeah. And now you're the second.
>> I am the second.
>> The infiltrating the White House.
>> Soon the White House real estate's going
to go up.
>> What about just Jews by the way? There's
not that many Jews.
>> Not not many religious Jews. I don't
know whe there's any apparently there's
a bunch. They're just working quietly
behind the scenes.
>> No, I'm talking about for press reasons.
>> Oh, for press reasons. There's not.
There are a lot of Jews in the press. I
don't know how many of them are
>> observably visibly Jewish would say.
>> Right.
>> Observance.
>> You're not hiding it is what I'm saying.
>> No. Or if I am, I'm doing a really bad
job. [laughter]
>> My question is when you travel to all
these countries and you've gone to how
many countries till now?
>> I think we're at 58.
>> 58,
>> I believe. So,
>> right. So, when you travel there, do you
ever are you ever nervous? You have your
you always with your garb, your pay us
out, your yamaka. How does it work? How
do you I mean like
>> like how does a guy like you walk around
Saudi Arabia?
>> I'll be very honest with you. I I was
just in New York City and I got out of
my car and I was thinking should I be
taking my yam off now? Like I was
literally nervous and I'm like and then
I'm thinking about people like you who
travel to places that what do you do?
What do you feel like? How is it like
please if you don't mind?
>> So I've been to Saudi Arabia three
times. The first time I was completely
in hiding. Um and in hindsight I think I
could have walked around openly looking
like a Jew. just didn't have the
confidence in me, so I didn't do it.
Second time, it was like half and half
and I was there a couple months ago and
I walked around literally wearing this
suit dressed exactly like this and it
was a really nice experience.
>> Wow. The people there like nobody
flinches like
>> you get a lot of looks. Um people might
whisper something about you to a friend
or spouse if they're if they see you.
But I if you're comfortable being in a
place where everyone sees you as
somebody who fell off the moon, then
then it's fine.
>> But you weren't scared. Like
>> No, I wasn't scared. And even if there
was hatred or somebody would want to do
something, like the rule of law is very
solid in Saudi Arabia and no one messes.
Like you're you'd be 100% safe.
>> What's the crime like in Saudi Arabia?
You're saying that it's like you're safe
over there?
>> Very low.
>> Really interesting.
>> Cuz there are consequences to actions.
There's no way.
>> I think Abu Dhabi is similar also in a
way. Abu Dhabi is very similar. Most of
the Arab world.
>> I've been very comfortable in Abu Dhabi.
You're saying you feel like that going
there as well.
>> 100%. I I've said this many times. I'll
say it again. I would feel more
comfortable walking down the main street
of Abu Dhabi in my stramash than I would
feel in Manhattan.
>> It's unbelievable. Ellie Coin sat in
that chair like a month ago and she said
the same exact thing.
>> That's true.
>> Literally that she said.
>> So I'm not crazy. You're saying
>> not crazy. No.
>> But that's cra that is crazy though.
>> It's more dangerous. 30 minutes from my
uh then thousands of miles away in
>> the heart of the Arab world
>> in an Arabic country.
>> Okay, one second. I'm sorry. I have to
back up for a second. I'm a big New York
City fan. So, you got to know that about
me. I love spending time in Manhattan.
I'm there usually once a week.
>> Okay.
>> And I've been doing this already for
over 20 years. I absolutely love
Manhattan. Um I found out recently just
by getting to know you is that you don't
live anywhere near New York. You live in
the other hemisphere. I mean, just for
our listeners who don't know this part
of you, where do you live? Schlommo
>> currently live in Texas. Texas. The
great state of Texas. Just hearing that
come out of your mouth that I live in
Texas is just it's making me proud
actually. I love that. Love that. You
>> been to Texas?
>> I've been to Texas for work. Just in and
out. Nothing come for play.
>> I should. I should. The truth is I don't
only go to work anywhere I go. I usually
play. Uh meaning I probably went to a
nice restaurant there that I think that
you guys had. Um
>> what city were you in?
>> Uh Houston.
>> Okay. That's our city.
>> Yeah. And uh it was nice. We have a
conference there once a year. Um,
honestly, next time we go, let's
>> Yeah, I had my first cheeseburger in
Dallas, Texas at a vegan place.
>> Whoa, you scared me.
>> I know. I said I did that for shock
value. I first said cheeseburger cuz you
weren't sure like maybe he eats
cheeseburgers this guy cuz you never met
me before. So, I could have easily have
been that kind of you don't know.
>> But [laughter] so, so I did that up
front on purpose. I was strategic by the
way.
>> But in Dallas, Texas was the first place
that I uh ever had such a thing. Um,
cheese in my burger and it was very
cool. I felt a little guilty while I was
doing it. like it just didn't feel
right.
>> But uh yeah, apparently it's a thing
over there. You know, you know which
restaurant I'm talking about.
>> No, but we we have uh I mean I in DC the
restaurant has a lot of burgers with
cheese on them. Cheese. And
>> that's not your thing you're saying. You
don't
>> I do like it.
>> Oh, you do like it?
>> Yeah, sure.
>> Oh, I love it.
>> I just I just I don't like it as much
since last week when I found out that
those slices of cheese they're like 150
calories each.
>> Oh,
>> the vegan cheese is really really
>> It's worth it. Best thing ever.
What made you go to Texas? What what
happened there?
>> Okay, so we were living in Israel.
>> Okay. Where in Israel?
>> Um, Telstone. Okay.
>> Telstone.
>> Sure.
>> It's a little town.
>> I love Telstone. I never understood why
more New Yorkers are not in Telstone to
be honest with you.
>> Okay. Well, I I can tell you why more
New Yorkers.
>> I'd love to. I'd love to learn.
>> Telstone is a little town about 15
minutes away from your right next to Abu
Gash, which is a large Arab town. And
it's the roots of Tstone have a lot of
Americans like in them. I I can't
explain why this is. I don't know why,
but a lot of the older folk and Tstone
are Americans. Their kids kind of spoke
English, but they were Israeliized. And
then the grandchildren are just full
full-blown Israelis. So, we went there
thinking that this is like the little
America within Israel. And for people
aged 50 to 75, it is. But in our age
group, not so much.
And eventually my wife was I mean both
of us weren't weren't thriving there but
my wife was thriving less and she's like
we really got to move back to the states
and but we didn't want to be in the
tri-state area. Um my wife appreciates
warm weather. I appreciate warm and
welcoming communities. And we basically
went on a road trip across the entire I
mean we went from we drove from Toronto
to Tijana during COVID when everything
was closed and we started visiting
different communities. We'd been to
Texas once in the past. We came again
and we just fell in love with the place
and we ended up staying for we visited
twice that year. We came once for for
about 12 days and once for three weeks
and then we made a decision to move
there.
>> I'm a little bit blown away right now.
Sorry. [laughter]
>> That's fascinating.
>> But she and I learned to listen. By the
way, it's crazy. Uh 30, 40 episodes. I
would have cut you off three times
already.
>> You have kids?
>> We have three kids. At that point, we
had two children. We had a four-year-old
daughter and a six-month old uh baby
boy.
>> And you're traveling with them. Are you
going from city to city?
>> The smallest vehicle.
>> So, this person who's in our audience
right now who who's here, you know, cuz
we do that sometimes, by the way. So, we
invite people to always come. Yeah. We
love it. But we've had it many, many
times. Um, you met him there when you
were there.
>> I met him for the first time in
>> What's your name again? I'm sorry.
>> Ari Walby.
>> Rabbi Walby who is a really dear friend
of mine now. I met him November 2019. I
came with my wife to Texas for just for
a weekend. A year later in co we did
this road trip and I met him a second
time. We connected much better. And then
in March of 21,
my RV told me, he's like, "If you're
actually thinking of moving to Texas,
then you should visit for like an
extended period of time just to make
sure that you like it." Like kind of
live there, but without living there.
And I called Rabbi Walby and he hooked
me up with a house. She just knows
people. He gave me a house for 3 weeks.
We lived there. And after those three
weeks, we decided to uh to make the
move. How many cities did you visit at
the capacity of actually you know
exploring if this is a place you want to
live how many cities would you say?
>> Um I think if if one wanted to to
recreate this journey like if you really
wanted to get a feel for a city you
would want to be there for Chabas
>> for sure
>> but
>> that's when everybody comes together so
you can see the people
>> but that would be very difficult. We
went to Savannah
>> in Georgia.
>> Yeah. Um
we went to we didn't go to many places
for Shabas. We we kind of knew which
ones we would be interested and which
ones we wouldn't be interested. We
passed through many cities. But for
Shabas um we did one in Sav uh one in
Savannah. We did one in multip one in
Austin, one in Houston. We did one in
Tijana. [laughter]
>> Where's Tijana? You think of being to
Mexico? You thinking of moving there?
>> No. But I you shave No.
>> I just kept telling my wife I'm not
turning around until we get to Mexico.
>> I love it. Absolutely love it.
>> Interesting. And your wife uh like she
enjoyed this process. So, she was doing
it because you have to.
>> You don't have to. Um, I definitely was
the one pushing for it. The reason I the
way I convinced her to go on the trip in
the first place was during COVID, I
don't know about you guys, but I was
losing my mind. My job involves travel
and I literally lost my ability to do my
job. So, I was traveling 10,000 mi a
month and then all of a sudden I'm
locked into one square kilometer in
Telestone for like 8 months. I'm losing
my mind. So, I'm just surfing the
internet all day trying to plan trips
for if and when the world ever opens up
again. And I came across a video about a
park in the state of Arkansas. It's
called Diamond Crater State Park. You're
not going to believe this, but it's 100%
true. You can check it. Fact check me.
There's a park in the state of Arkansas
where for some reason the the earth
turns out diamonds.
And some of like three or four of the
world's largest diamonds. Largest
diamonds ever found were found in that
park. Anybody can go to this park. It's
like 10 or 20 bucks for an admission
fee. You take a sifter and a shovel and
whatever you can dig. If you find a
diamond, you keep it. My wife is like,
"We got to go to this place and find
some rocks." So I told her, "Let's do a
road trip. I'll drive you to Arkansas
and then, you know, I want to continue
on to Tijana." And she said, "I'll go
till Arkansas and then we'll turn
around." So we got to Arkansas. We did
the the whole diamond thing. terrible
day. I mean, she had a blast, but it was
just like it's really hot. A lot of
people go there for their retirement.
They buy like a a a uh RV and they just
live in the parking lot and they look
for diamonds and then they find them and
they sell them. That's like people turn
this into a living and like dozens of
older people who've retired have heart
attacks and die digging for diamonds cuz
the heat is the sun's baking down on you
and it's it's it's intensive work. It
wasn't for me. She enjoyed it. I didn't.
And then after the park, I was like,
"Okay, so let's go to Tijana." She's
like, "Let's turn around." I said, "No,
I really want to continue on the
journey." She said, "No, let's go back
to New Jersey." And I said, "You know
what? We're going to drive for a couple
hours and then we'll stay at a hotel in
the morning. You decide we can turn
around and we can keep going." And every
day we like we'd have this conversation.
Should we turn around? Should we keep
going? And thank God I I managed to keep
her on board until we got to Mexico.
>> And you were there for
>> for just for chabas.
>> Did Did you or anybody you know around
you during that day find any diamonds?
>> We still have like a huge bucket of of
>> rocks. Yeah. Rocks that we don't know.
We're not sure if they're diamonds
[laughter] or not. Somewhere in my
>> You can tell me it's sitting there.
You're not
>> It's in my in-laws house.
>> Sitting there. Are there not mining
companies that are there that are
professionals that are digging out?
>> I don't I don't think they let the
companies come. I think it's like a
state state thing. It's natural,
whatever.
>> I don't know. It's It's for regular
people like you and me.
>> But you could strike like uh gold, so to
speak.
>> Yeah. A couple weeks ago, somebody found
the one of the top 10 largest diamonds
ever.
>> No way.
>> Yeah. worth probably millions of
dollars.
>> Stephan, are you chat GPing this,
please?
>> This is insane. This is crazy.
>> I'm so curious about this. I want to see
like what it looks like.
>> Yeah. Diamond. Uh,
>> believe me.
>> Yeah, there it is.
>> There it is.
>> Creator of Diamond State Park.
>> Wow.
>> By the way, 100% I believe everything
you say, but you are just unbelievable.
>> Yeah, you understand.
>> Um, Rabuli, I have to ask you, you know,
how long did you live there before
joined?
>> 15 years before he came.
>> 15 years. in Houston.
>> How did you end up there?
>> 2005.
>> How did you end up there?
>> So 17 years.
>> When did you move?
>> Summer of 22.
>> 22. So 17 years before you
>> Okay.
>> Uh I came uh to run a Kiraov
organization.
>> Got it.
>> Torch.
>> Nice.
>> And how many Jews lived there back then
in 20?
>> About 60,000. About 70,000 now.
>> No. How many were then in 2005?
>> Yeah. He's saying this
>> 60,000. So it was a community of 60,000
from Jews. Not from.
>> Not from. So how many from Jews lived?
>> 150 from Jews then?
>> 150.
>> 200 families.
>> Yeah. And now
>> about 700.
>> Okay. It's not crazy. It's not huge.
>> It's not huge, but it's enormous growth.
>> Yeah. It's double. It's more than
double. It's really nice, actually. So
there's more than one jewel.
>> Oh yeah. [laughter]
>> And we have 13 kosher restaurants.
>> Oh, that's nice.
>> We lost two this.
>> What's um what's schooling like uh for
is there vouchers for children?
>> Starting next year. Yeah, really end of
26.
>> That's a big deal. I want everyone
hearing this to like spread the word.
Like whenever I hear of places that have
vouchers and are nice communities to
live, I always want people to learn
about it. You know, people who are
starting off like you have
opportunities. Take a drive to Mexico,
get stuck in Texas, and live your life.
It's not a bad idea.
>> It's a good life, right?
>> I hate that somehow the Jewish uh people
just somehow got situated in New York,
New Jersey, like in this part of the
country. I hate it. I don't know who was
responsible to make, you know, that
started out here and settled over here,
but there's so many better states that
are out there and I feel like we're
stuck here. We can't go anywhere. Your
whole life is here. Like, we can't just
pick ourselves up and leave. Like, we
built a massive infrastructure already.
Like, everything we all know is like
right here.
>> But how nice would it be if we could
live in Texas? How nice would it be if
we could live in like, you know,
Missouri? Well, not Missouri. It's a
cool place. The thing is, there's so
many other places. I'm I'm agreeing with
you.
>> What's stopping you?
>> No, not you. He's already too structured
right now perhaps especially because
work the the biggest challenge in my
opinion why it's hard to leave the
tri-state area or Chicago or Los Angeles
when you're you know is work is you know
you need to make a living and it's hard
to find a new living that will pay for
what your needs are especially when you
have kids that have to go to schools and
private camps and that's why the first
question ask is vouchers so if you find
out there's vouchers I always tell young
people that are thinking not like what
you're saying actually think of going
and doing it but one of the challenges
is that besides vouchers that I've
always heard from people because I I
love this conversation is making friends
>> won't be a problem in Houston.
>> I believe you and I obviously look at
the two of you. You guys are you guys
you can't move without each other on a
Thanksgiving night at midnight.
>> It's really a beautiful
>> No, I really I like it. I like it. And I
I want people to also understand and
feel that that that you know you can
actually move to another town. The
challenges still work though. I don't
have a solution for that.
>> Do you know how many nursing homes are
in Texas?
>> Yes. You know that we on a regular night
if I go into the fanciest restaurant in
town.
>> I agree with you. If you want to get
healthier, if you want to get into
healthcare, you can definitely go to
Texas.
>> All these see them who are just from the
tri city, people who we don't see around
our neighborhood, but they're there for
business.
>> Great point. Any other industries that
are strong in Texas that Jews can feel
comfortable to go? Also regular real
estate. Yep.
>> Um what else do we have, Rabbi?
>> Tech. Technology.
>> Oil and gas.
>> Oil and gas. Okay. Good to know. Good to
know.
>> Guns.
[laughter]
Lots of guns.
>> Do you own guns?
>> We own some guns.
>> I want to take a step back if you don't
mind. Sorry. Did you want to say
something?
>> No, I was I wanted to get back to the
fact that he was in Saudi Arabia like
what the heck was he doing?
>> I know, but it's probably where you're
going. So, go ahead.
>> Yeah. No, it's going to to the place of
Let's rewind a little bit.
>> Let's rewind. Let's rewind. Who are you?
How does a person like you grow up to
wanting to go to Mexico and be
comfortable in Texas and got lucky to
marry a woman that will go on this
journey with you and find diamonds? And
it's very interesting like where'd you
meet her? I'm I'm so curious about your
just where where were you born?
>> I was born in Brooklyn.
>> Okay.
>> Bor Park, Flatbush.
>> My parents lived in Bor Park at the
time. My father is from Canada. So, I
grew up in in Toronto because when I was
almost 3 years old, my parents moved
there. My father got a really good job
there and his family's from there, so
they moved there.
>> And then when I was 16, I was sent to
Yeshiva and Lakewood. 17 got kicked out
of Yeshiva and Lakewood. 18 my father
sent me to Yeshiva in Israel.
>> I'm sorry. What'd you get kicked out
for? I have to ask. Oh, guess you went
to shoot pool.
>> No.
>> Was there something specific that
happened or was like a cultivation
culmination of a lot of things?
>> You were working out.
>> No.
>> No. No. You went to a movie theater.
>> No way.
>> Are we way off?
>> I'm not such a Russia. [laughter]
>> Was it something like minute? Something
like
>> I had a phone with talk and text.
>> Oh my gosh.
>> I was a real bad boy.
>> Wow. And they caught me with the phone
and they kicked me out for two weeks and
they and then after two weeks I was
taken back in. On the first day back
they found the phone again.
>> Why do you need that phone so badly?
>> Because I was like I was like I'm
probably one of the first 10 from Jews
on Twitter.
>> Wow. [laughter] I was like I I joined
Twitter to follow Lepa Schmeltzer in I
think 15 or 16 years ago and and I
needed the phone just in case he's going
to like you know drop an update
[laughter]
>> a new song a new voice.
>> Wait a second. It was a smartphone.
>> It was a Palm Centro.
>> There was TW How many years ago was
this?
>> There was no Twitter app on the phone.
Maybe I don't even know if the Twitter
app exist. I guess it did. It was It was
Twitter through text. You remember this
text hello to 4044?
>> You don't know this. Twitter started as
a text platform. Yeah.
>> Did it?
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. How many uh years ago is this?
What you were talking about?
>> I was kicked out of yeshiva. I Well, I
was 17
and my bar mitzvah was in 2006. So, this
is probably 2010 or something. Yeah,
2010.
>> Can you make it easier for me? How old
are you?
>> I'm 32.
>> Thank you. By the way, I wasn't going to
ask, but I was trying to like [laughter]
I was trying to do the numbers in my
head and it wasn't working.
>> You know, you can get away, by the way,
with looking younger or older.
>> You could be [clears throat] 25, you
could be 40. Like, I wouldn't be
surprised by either answer.
>> I got card of Shabas last week in Texas
and I could not buy wine for Chabas.
[laughter]
>> You don't have a lot of facial hair
>> and I did not have my license on me.
>> Yeah. So, you could look, you know, you
could get away with being very young.
>> I'll take it as a compliment.
>> Yes, it is. It is. It is. Looking
[clears throat] young is always a
compliment.
>> Yes. Unless you're trying to get people
to take you seriously and and you need
like a degree of age to be taken
seriously and then like, "Oh, you're
just a kid." But it's fine.
>> You have that issue potentially.
>> It hasn't come up, but I could see
hypothetically why why like someone who
takes themsel very seriously wouldn't
take me seriously, which is totally
fine. That's the way God God made me
like this is my journey.
>> So, I'm I'm um
>> I'm curious to take it a little slower
because I enjoy this process. I'm sorry
if you don't mind. I know it. Right. So,
so you get kicked out of yeshiva,
>> you're on the phone, you're getting busy
on Twitter for for Lipa Schmelzer
updates
>> and you're getting to know what's going
on in the world in the outside and like
you're absorbing it all, I guess, is
what you're up to. So, you get what are
you doing when you get kicked out? 17
that age alone in Lakewood.
>> Yeah. And it was especially difficult
because I didn't live in Lakewood.
>> So, my parents are in Toronto. There's
nothing to do in Toronto.
>> I just kind of I honestly I look back, I
was like, I'm not sure what I did. I
really don't know. Um, I had a
secret iPod touch which was what I would
use to connect to the internet in
addition to my Palm Centro. I think I
just binge watched a lot of movies and
TV shows. And
>> where were you living? You weren't in
the dorm at
>> I wasn't in the dorm. So my father had a
friend has a friend. the nicest people
and like also this they live in Lakewood
and this family is like really I don't
want to
I'm thinking how to say this the right
way. They're like really from but not
better than thou from just like
genuinely
>> accepting dig from but also very
accepting. And they put me in their
son's bedroom like with their son who
was my age and like and like he's in one
bed
>> saying and I'm in the other bed with my
iPod watching a movie and
>> wow
>> and like
>> I I don't think I would do the same
thing if if I was in his position but
that's what they did
>> and
>> that's very risky from their part.
That's what I'm saying.
>> Shout out to them. Big shout out to
them.
>> Special people.
>> Very nice. And like I was like smoking
on their front porch and like it wasn't
a like I'm I'm assuming their neighbors
weren't pretty happy about it and it
just really special them to take me in
and it gave me a place like a home.
There was food.
>> How long were you there for?
>> About 6 months.
>> Wow. He obviously trusted your father.
He knows him. It's a friend.
>> I knew him also. I used to go for meals.
>> It's almost like you felt like you're
going to uncle whatever.
>> I remember like my I got kicked out. I
called my father. He's like, "Okay, let
me see what I can do." He called his
friend. Yeah, come over right now. I
walk into the house. He takes me in.
He's like, "This is your room. This is
your bed. Make yourself comfortable."
Said, "This is the fridge. This is the
pantry. I'm not showing it to you again.
This is your house. Whatever is here is
yours."
>> Supportive.
>> Yeah.
>> Nonjudgmental.
>> Are you still in touch with these
people? Like, do you
>> Unfortunately, not. But, but my sister
got married two weeks ago and he came to
the wedding in Toronto and I recyc
him again.
>> Yeah. And I and I I went over like one
of the most special parts of the wedding
for me was just sitting down with this
person and telling him like, "You have
no idea what you did for me back then."
Like giving me a place really was uh
very
>> Wi-Fi code.
>> He didn't have Wi-Fi. [laughter]
>> So what' you do?
>> He still doesn't
>> Oh, we There was like a a spot in
Lakewood. Okay. So you'd have to go to
the public library, which is on Clifton
Avenue, and stand outside and you know,
like it it's so shameful cuz you're
standing there with your hoodie. You
don't want to get recognized, but
everyone knows what you're doing. Like
everyone passing every you know that
they know. They know that you know that
they know and you're just it was it was
terrible.
>> But you got to do it. You got to
download that movie.
>> You got to download that movie.
>> Wow. Did you become a fan of any
television shows or movies? Cuz we're
big movie and TV lovers.
>> So yes, but I I don't want to go into
that because I don't want to encourage
anybody to get into that world. Not that
there isn't entertainment value there. I
just feel like we can do better things
with our time. So if somebody if
somebody's there like do your thing no
judgment but
>> let me ask it this way then if you don't
mind. Oh
>> sure.
>> If an actor or actress was walking by
which one will you would say oh I would
love to see meet that person that's did
that happen to you or
>> it hasn't happened but I I would would
not mind having
with Adam Sandler.
>> That's a good one.
>> We love Adam Sandler.
>> I would love to put the fill in on him.
That would be uh that would be cool.
>> Um did Jesse Pharaoh get him yet?
>> No. No he has not. Someone else did. He
once stopped I think he stopped at a
fillain stand on on the Hollywood
Boulevard.
>> Why? How did you get so into filling?
But I love that you're doing it.
>> So you also do that filling thing where
you chase people down to try
>> No, I don't I don't chase people down.
My thing is is a little different. I
reach people through their phones. So
something I've I've discovered and Rabbi
Walby can also tell you a lot about this
is that in the world and in the in the
from world in general, there are a lot
of people who are wearing the clothing.
they're not necessarily there
ideologically or they're struggling
quietly with with their um with their
beliefs and their practice. And there's
a lot of people who I know who would
like to put on film every day. It's just
not something that happens for them
first thing in the morning and once they
go to work or they get busy with
whatever it a lot of times they miss it.
So I make a point every day if I
remember which I usually do to like
sometime an hour or two before sundown
to put out a message you know don't
forget to put on fill in today and every
day I have multiple people sending me
pictures of them rapping fillin
somewhere in the world. So like
yesterday we had one from a guy in
Hawaii and the day before was like a guy
in the airport in Qatar and we so we
post this picture every day. It's like
today's strapped photo comes from
Hawaii. Thank you so and so for sending
it in and don't forget to put on film
today.
>> Interesting.
>> And you have no idea how many people who
like look the part. You think they're
regular Yeshiva guys are are sending me
messages privately telling me you saved
me today. I almost I almost missed it.
>> Wow. And this is like a chat like a
WhatsApp chat?
>> It's on my status.
>> Oh, so people see it from your status?
>> Yeah.
>> So you post in your status a picture of
somebody else that puts Fillain on like
something I guess unique like you
wouldn't think they' put Fillain on.
>> It's not It's usually not faces. usually
just like an arm at a landmark or
>> it's honestly it's a very nice reminder
and it works. It worked for me already
in the past and it's like oh my gosh wow
and uh not since I've been at Oshlamo
though I have to shout out to Oshlamo.
I've been there for three weeks. Are
>> you an Oslo guy?
>> I became an Oshlamo guy and the most
welcoming shul in the world for me at
least in my experience.
>> Have you experienced the hal yet?
>> Yeah I've experienced the hal I've
experienced. experienced the but I also
experienced not going there and I
experienced traveling while I wasn't
there. I experienced missing what it
offers but also connecting without it
which is what it's helped me in my life.
But
>> I'm so honest thanks giving I'm so
thankful for this podcast that I get to
learn something about Michael because I
wouldn't know otherwise that you're
going to for the last three weeks and
it's becoming a thing for you. Had no
idea.
>> Yeah. Yeah.
>> Uh that's great. I'm so happy for you.
>> Yeah. It's awesome. I love it. It's
beautiful. I could talk about it all day
but again it's not about me right now
but the tin thing that you do is
awesome. I love it. And um Michael
Rapidport also got involved in the
Tillin chat with Yasu Faroh, which is so
cool.
>> He's sending Tillin pictures from from
Kyifa. Where was he? Not Kyifa, but he
was in Herzel, I think it was. I I saw
the background of it.
>> I sent him a message and I'm like, come
on our podcast.
>> Yeah. Mother Marina. Exactly. It's
unbelievable. It's just inspires others.
You see it and you're like, okay, you
know what? Yeah. And uh it's pretty
cool. But how did you get into it
though? What happened that you got? Oh,
so there's a story. About 2 months after
uh October 7th, I had just come back
from Israel and I was filming some
content uh post whatever happened there.
And when I was in Israel, I had some
merch made. I basically took Do you know
what the fist of resistance is?
>> I I've seen you I know I know your
picture is I've seen your tone thing.
Yes.
>> So there's like this fist that's been
used by like the communists and the
socialists and I think there was some
guy that was involved in some French
revolution or something.
And I basically wrapped the fist in
fillain. And to me it symbolized like
the struggle of of our people in today's
day and age when there's so much
anti-semitism and hatred towards us. And
we're expected to or expected or you
know a lot of us look outwardly Jewish
and walking in the street looking like a
Jew can uh be uncomfortable at best and
sometimes dangerous at worst. So, I
basically created this image and I
wanted people to I wanted to make some
merch to inspire people to be more proud
of their Judaism. And I was wearing this
uh sweatshirt with this logo on it. I
was flying to Florida for an event. I
took a selfie of myself. In hindsight,
it was a little bit like the the wording
I used kind of cheesy, but I made a I
wrote a tweet or what do you call it
now? An X like [laughter]
>> Yeah. And I said something like, "I'm
trying to look as Jewish as possible on
my flight today. No anti-semit is going
to make me hide my Jewish pride." It's a
picture of me with this uh with the
shirt I'm wearing. And
in like in less than 2 minutes that had
100,000 views and some reason all the
Nick Fuentes type people jumped on the
post and it ended up getting 14 million
views and
the the nastiest, most disgusting,
hateful comments you'd ever seen in your
life. Like the one I'm pretty good with
comments, by the way. I get a lot of
hate and I usually just slides right off
me. There was one comment that really
made an impression on me. Someone wrote,
>> "I wish the Holocaust had happened."
>> That's a double whammy, right? Cuz a
Yeah. First denying it.
>> He's denying it happened and saying,
>> if you really think it did happen, I
wish. [laughter]
>> Yeah. So,
>> it's a lot of hate. And when I saw that,
I was like, you know what? I'm going to
double down. We don't run away from this
kind of thing. we'd
go further into it. So I started posting
pictures of myself wearing fillin every
day and people started telling me, you
know, it reminds me to put on fill and I
forgot or didn't get around to it. And
then I as started asking other people to
send in pictures of themselves putting
on fill and it turned into a thing that
we do every day now.
>> That's amazing. I I like that background
by the way that you're saying because uh
I I I'm I'm conflicted. I I really am
conflicted when it comes to going to New
York City and and being proud to be
Jewish and and being nervous and uh but
having a movement and saying something
like that. I'm of the opinion not to
look at comments. I I stopped looking at
comments. I don't know how I mean we
manage our comments on our channels on
YouTube and Instagram, but it's not me.
It's personally I'm saying it's not me.
I I would never be able to go through
hate comments and and and and and take
it. It would be it would be like I
you're doing God's work is what I'm
trying to say. You're doing it. You're
out there. You're fighting the fight.
You're putting it up with, you know,
you're not that 17-year-old kid on
Twitter anymore. You're actually making
an impact. So, thank you for what you're
doing. I wouldn't be able to see all
that and like it would it would drive me
nuts.
>> I eat that stuff for breakfast. It fuels
me.
>> Amazing. Good for you. Then then then
why should we be afraid in New York
then?
>> We shouldn't be afraid. I'm just saying
I I have more confidence in the
government of Abu Dhabi that they Okay.
>> will punish somebody who messes with me
>> over the no cash bail system we have in
New York.
>> Okay. Cool. Cool uh concept that you're
saying. Very interesting.
>> But at the end of the day, going into
New York right now, are we are we
supposed to feel afraid or
>> No, of course not.
>> Not of course not. Right.
>> Right.
>> I mean,
let's put it this way. Realistically
speaking, there's no doubt that if
you're wearing a yamaka on your head,
you're a little more likely to get
punched than somebody who's not wearing
a yam on their head, but you still
shouldn't be afraid,
>> right?
>> If your whole existence has to be
hidden, what kind of existence is that?
Like, I think it's worth the risk. Maybe
there's a half a percent chance you get
punched or someone says something nasty
or throws a penny at you or whatever the
anti-semits like doing and that's life.
But you can't live in hiding. That's
that that would be a really terrible way
to live.
>> Okay, I'm agreeing with you. I just I
want to tell you that for the first time
when all this is happening and it could
be just hearing it from people and just
getting nervous from what I'm hearing
that I thought should I take off my
amaka going into the
>> I understand why you're nervous.
>> Yeah, because I because I started
putting on my yamaka a few years ago
everywhere I go. I used to have the
notion of I'm going to take it off at a
bar or if I go into, you know, a place
to, you know,
>> um
>> but now
>> that's a separate issue though.
>> Yeah. Yeah.
>> Taking it off at a bar is not because of
safety. Is it?
>> Yeah. No, I would I would I would No, I
>> You take it off at the bar cuz you're
embarrassed. You want to fit in.
>> I already I had a story with him. I'm
not going to go over it again. I take it
off at the bar because I know back then
I'm misbehaving. I'm I'm
don't want to have my yam. I want to,
you know, but now I make a conscious
decision to behave because I I have the
Yamakan and that's it. And that's my
decision. I I rather have it on. It's
just that it bothered me that I even
thought about taking it off. That's all
I'm saying. And I'm happy you're saying
this and I want the message to be clear
to every Jewish person that visits New
York. Be proud, be out there, be aware
of the situation, and that's it.
>> Yeah, [clears throat] you like look
around, make sure you know what's going
on, but don't don't hide. Definitely
don't.
>> Right. And don't have as much
confidence, unfortunately, in New York
that you would in Abu Dhabi. Good point,
by the way. Very good point.
>> Yeah. I'm not I don't think for a second
that um the entire Arab world is more
friendly than New Yorkers,
>> but I have more confidence in the
government that they will deal seriously
with
>> That's an interesting point. That's an
interesting point.
>> Michael, can we get to uh this man here
and what he does?
>> Yeah, but I want to go back then. Let's
go. I agree with you. Then let's go back
to 17. I'm sorry.
>> I think we haven't scratched the surface
yet.
>> Okay, good. So, let's keep going. So,
we're back at 17.
>> We're doing a lot of bantering here, but
I I would love to know. I mean, he's
This guy's a famous guy sitting over
here [laughter] like uh he's been
plastered on the army magazine. That's
where I saw you. I remembered early on
we were talking about uh you mentioned
the army. That's when it kind of
triggered for me that I remember like
you were on the army cover. That's where
I think the first time I really saw your
face.
>> Okay.
>> And then I started seeing you
everywhere. Then I just started seeing
all his but yeah let's uh you know get
there. But what were you saying? You
want to go a little bit?
>> Yeah. No, I know. I know. Yeah. It's I'm
curious like if you know uh I I know it
could take a long time to get there, but
I rather go slowly. I I rather learn
about
>> Not too slowly, please. [laughter]
>> I think it's interesting. I think it's
interesting.
>> You got kicked out of the stream at 17.
Yeah, but you would never have heard of
of Twitter and and X and the the phone
the first time if I wouldn't have slowed
down and said, "Tell me about your 16
and 17year-old self. I like learning
these things." And by the way, if the
audience disagrees with me, then they
could write it. I'll never read it
anyways.
>> Let's skip ahead to when things got
interesting for you. I'm sorry.
>> Things have always been interesting.
>> Thank you. 161 17. I know my character
in front of me. I understand what's
happening here. Every day of his life is
so unique. The opportunity to come in.
That's why we woke everyone up. We got
the cavalry. Um, so 17 you got kicked
out of school that you're this person
took you in. Thank you. Amazing. Right.
That's where we're up to. I'm going back
to that page. And then thereafter.
>> Okay. Then I ended up getting a job um
at a electronic store in Bay Ridge.
Okay. Which was owned by a bunch of
them.
>> Did you know what you wanted to do then
or you were just getting a job?
>> No, I just needed money.
>> That's exactly. He's 17 years old. He
kicked out his
>> I actually did want to be a singer at
one point. But [laughter]
>> see what just happened? For for many
years I said maybe he wanted to be a
singer. He said I actually wanted to be
a singer.
>> Can you sing? Is that something
>> I can sing and I've composed over 200
songs.
>> Yeah. For many years I thought that was
going to be my path.
>> Look at that. What's one of your
favorite songs that you composed? Did
anybody pick it up?
>> No. I've kept them to myself.
>> Why?
>> I I will one day when the time is right.
>> Can you give me a one melody of one nice
thing that you've done?
>> I'd rather not.
>> Okay.
>> None of your business.
>> Oh, you [laughter] can use it. You have
one time. He's not going to waste it on
this.
>> What's the Oh, there's You get one
question.
>> I forgot to tell you.
>> No. Everything's your business. I'm just
not [laughter] I'm just not going to
sing. I'm not a singer.
>> Let a puppy. Perform for us.
>> No. No. I'm not looking at the puppy. If
he's a musician, he appreciates it.
>> There there will come a time when when
you'll see it.
>> Yeah. There will come a time that he'll
do it gladly.
>> Okay.
>> Yeah. By the way, I'm looking forward to
that. Is that like
>> I'm also looking forward to it. It would
be a childhood dream, too.
>> A fiveyear plan. Five year plan.
>> Not necessarily. What? Whenever the time
is right. when the time comes.
>> I'm very into like feeling the the
universe's energy.
>> Okay.
>> And when I feel it, I I'll I'll know.
>> Okay. So, it's not really a goal or
something. Okay. Anyway, so Okay. Got
it. So, back then you're So, you're
you're you're writing music. You love
music, but you also need a job. So, you
go take a job selling electronics.
>> I wasn't selling electronics. I was
actually a security guard. [laughter]
>> No, no, I'm not kidding you.
>> Did you get trained?
>> No. They basically It's the wildest
thing. So,
okay. So,
>> and he wanted to skip this. [laughter]
You understand?
>> Okay. So, so basically when Okay. I hope
you have a long I hope you have time.
>> We have time. We have time. We're
trying.
>> Not too much time. Not too much.
>> He wants to get to the hot tub.
>> His shoes are off already. He's trying.
>> By the way, maybe we just move the whole
thing to the hot tub.
>> I am ready.
>> Okay. [laughter]
So after I left this, I was in this this
my father's friend's house for a while
and then I got sick of Lakewood cuz
everyone else was in yeshiva and like if
you're the only guy who's not in yeshiva
it's kind of like kind of sucks. So I
went to Bar Park and my
greatgrandparents lived in Bar Park at
the time. My grandfather when I was 12
years old, my great-grandfather walked
out on a Friday morning from behind a
double parked car. Another car came, hit
him. He was killed on the spot and they
sent him to be buried in Israel. So my
great-grandmother, his wife went for the
Shiva to be in Israel when they and they
buried him and she had some children
living there. She ended up staying there
permanently for the rest of her life. So
there was this huge house four stories
in Borrow Park at 13th and 53rd which is
like
>> it's like this is it's like Time Square
of Borrow Park. Okay. And they had this
house and I had once we had once stayed
there and they made us a key. So I got
my hands on this key and I basically
just moved in.
>> You're kidding me.
>> So I'm 17. I have this whole house to
myself.
>> Two blocks from Amnes basically.
>> Um
>> on the corner of Iklers basically.
>> Yes. Yes. Two blocks down from
>> two blocks down from
>> Shmer Chavez Smer on that block. Wow.
The best place.
>> And Poshkus. [laughter]
>> Poshas. There was a Poshkus store.
>> 13.
>> What?
>> Man, I remember
my generation. Mrs. Lieberman's Cafe uh
up 13th I remember all of Bor Park but
anyways go ahead.
>> So I had the that was the house and I
used to like have friends over and and
make parties. That's where like it
started costing money. So I had to get a
job. So one morning maybe it was the
afternoon I was woken up by the sound of
my cell phone ringing in I'm in the
house and a friend is on the other line.
He's like um Schlam are you looking for
a job by any chance? I said yeah sure
why not. So he says, "My grandfather's
opening electronic store in Bay Ridge
and they need a security guard. Can you
come?" I'm like, "I have no background
in security." Like, "Don't worry, you
don't need anything. It's just just a
buzzer. We're going to give you a buzzer
and you're going to decide who who gets
to come in, who doesn't get to come in."
Like, how much are they paying? 10 bucks
an hour. Be there in an hour. So, I just
I took a bus down there. They gave me a
vest with the logo of the of the store.
I don't know if it said security on it
or not. And I just I would like stand
inside and if somebody came in, I had to
profile them and decide whether they
should be allowed in the store or not.
>> Did you ever stop anybody?
>> No. No one came in. [laughter]
>> Easy job.
>> Yeah. So that went on for a while.
>> Keep going.
>> And then and then eventually like two
like probably three or four weeks later,
my father called me and he said, "Uh,
you know, I want you to go back to
yeshiva." I wasn't really interested. I
was I felt like I was done with the
system, but he managed to convince me
and he they sent me to yeshiva in
Israel. I actually really liked it. It
was one. It's called
>> Aradashadesh.
Okay.
>> Um it was in Talstone.
>> Oh,
>> it doesn't exist anymore, but it was a
very special place.
>> That's how you found out about Telstone,
I guess.
>> Yeah. It was a really special place and
I was there for three years and then I
got married.
>> Beautiful. In Israel?
>> No, I got married in the States. the
states
>> to a girl from the States.
>> A girl from New America, whatever.
>> Union City, New Jersey.
>> Oh, okay. Cool. Wow. Fantastic. And this
was a shock, I'm assuming.
>> Very much so.
>> Yeah. Yeah. Wow. Very cool. Okay. So,
continue.
>> So, then um I was very idealistic at the
time and I said, "We're going to live in
Israel for the rest of our lives." So,
we moved to Israel without a plan.
>> You basically fell in love with it when
you were there in Yeshiva.
>> I couldn't I couldn't see myself living
anywhere else. It's beautiful.
>> We lived in your shell for two years.
Got very expensive. So we moved to
Tstone which was cheaper. But then like
you're not in Shalime anymore.
>> And during this time what are you doing?
>> So in the beginning I thought I was
going to be in Kyle.
>> Okay.
>> But turns out that's not my thing. I I I
love Kylo. I support Kylo, but I I don't
belong there.
>> Okay.
>> I I don't think God wants me there
either
>> to be honest. No, I'm serious.
[laughter]
>> Get out of here. I know a lot of Russas
that were not going to like what they
just heard.
>> That's okay. They don't listen to your
podcast. [laughter]
But are you kidding me? The prophet
wants you there.
>> No, no, absolutely not. Absolutely. I
will go I'll fight to the death on this
one. God doesn't want everybody in.
>> Okay, I agree with you. I'm just saying
that, you know,
>> it's You want to hear something crazy?
>> Please.
>> When I was in yeshiva in Israel, um I
have a very hard time with Gumarra till
today. My father told me that I should
start learning agata which is like the
easy readable story parts of the garra.
So I started doing that and I got into
it and one day I was learning something
and was it I think so and the garra
talks about a
it says that hashem cries for three
people he cries for somebody who can
learn well but doesn't somebody who
can't learn but does and a asken a
community activist who is corrupt and
the mafaram ask why would God we
understand why god would cry for someone
who can learn but doesn't and why he
would cry for somebody who is corrupt
using community funds. What about a
person who can't learn but does learn?
Why would God cry for someone like that?
And the answer is because God feels his
pain. And I repeated this to a friend of
mine. He said, you know that there's a
different answer. A different rabbi says
God cries because if you can't learn,
what are you doing yeshiva? You should
use your talents that God gave you.
Didn't didn't want you to be the next uh
rabbi. He wants you to be somebody who
uses the your, you know, use the
strengths that God gave you to make an
impact on the world in business or in
charity or some someplace else. So, God
didn't create you for that. Of course,
he wants you to partake in the Torah,
but to be learning all day, I think not.
>> Makes a lot of sense.
>> I I'm I'm listening to what you're
saying, I'm not disagreeing with it. Um
I I'm just what I'm thinking about when
you're saying that is then if you're in
Ko and um and you're not becoming
someone that making an impact then then
what are you doing in Col?
>> That's exactly what he's saying.
>> See I can't judge for anyone else. I
would tell someone like that, take a
good look inside your soul and if you
have a rabbi who you trust to help you
to guide you to make a decision, then
say to him, listen, I'm in K and I don't
feel like I'm living up to my true
potential and should I continue or
should I leave? But don't just do it cuz
it's the end thing.
>> Okay. So, if someone feels their
potential is to learn, then that's of
course and that's it. Of course.
>> Yeah. All right.
>> Got it. I'm not going to beat this up
even though I'm curious about this
topic, but it's another time because
>> we're we want to move forward and again
I could do a whole podcast on that topic
and we'll hopefully we'll have time when
the energy in the world allows it. We'll
do it another [laughter] time but for
now continue Ver.
>> So I thought I was going to be in
>> look at me speaking of this
>> um that did not work out. Um I started
looking for like odd jobs just to pay
the bills. I was I worked in a bakery
for one day until they found out I
wasn't Israeli. They had to fire me
because I didn't have a work visa. I
also got burned that day. Um
>> physically burned.
>> Yeah. Like I they they like they
literally brought me from Kylo to and
the next thing I know I'm in an oven.
Like
>> Right.
>> Yeah.
>> Um don't ask. I did I did like anything
that would pay the bills that wasn't
immoral.
>> Okay. That's a lot. By the way,
>> I I Oh my goodness.
>> What pops into your memory? What other
What other
>> I worked in a restaurant. It was just
the worst. They they they told me I was
going to be like at the front like
taking orders from people. I ended up
washing dishes in the back. And then
they made me take out the garbage, which
I didn't mind. But one night, it's a
whole long story, but one night these
workers, they were closing up and they
said, "Can you just take this bag of
chicken wings, chicken wing bones to the
dumpster?" I'm like, "Sure." And it was
a little odd because it was never my
responsibility. Someone else would do
that. And they locked up and left me
with this bag. And just, you know,
dumpsters around the corner. When I
picked it up, I realized the bag was
torn and that's why no one else wanted
to do it. So, they gave it to me and I
the place was locked. It's midnight and
I just picked it up and all like 4,000
chicken wing bones just fell down the
stairs leading up to this restaurant.
>> I didn't even have a way to clean it up.
>> And I was just like, I'm out. I
[laughter] just left the beer. You
>> left it. Left it. Walked away.
>> You said your moral. I'm kidding. I'm
kidding.
>> They set me up.
>> They set you up. You quit though. You
quit your gun. Oh, I came to back to
work the next day.
>> Oh, you did? Yes.
>> So, who cleaned it up?
>> I don't know. But when I came back to
work, the boss is like, you know, I
don't think this is going to I don't
think this is going to work. Oh, really?
Okay. And that was the end of that.
>> Oh, okay. Cuz you got fired then.
>> I got fired for for
not passing the test with the chicken
wings. Yeah.
>> Okay. Beautiful. Beautiful. It's
experiences that you're going through.
By the way, this is the greatest thing
that ever happened to me cuz what after
that chicken wing thing, I realized that
I wasn't meant to work for anybody else.
A, and B, I wasn't in stuff that I was
passionate about. I was like, I'm never
doing that again. I'm not taking odd
jobs anymore. I'm going to find my
strengths, capitalize on them, and build
an empire out of them.
>> How? So, tell me what you did. What
happened next?
>> So, then I started pursuing journalism.
>> How did that come to you? From where?
>> Finally.
>> Okay. [laughter] So,
>> okay. It only took us an hour, an hour
and a half. Finally. All right.
>> I'm sorry. I'm loving every part of you.
>> I'm tuning in. I'm tuning in. You have
all of my attention.
>> I've always been a a big reader. I love
reading. And I knew that I'm good at
writing. I just No one else knew. And I
had to convince people. So, I started
like reaching out to different
publications and trying to submit my
work and nobody gave me the time of day.
I even have a somewhere I have to find
it, but I have a letter from Ammy
rejecting my submission that I wrote for
like this is not going to work for us.
>> Please find it.
>> Please. It'll be lovely for us.
>> I'm going to You know what I'm going to
do? I'm going to I'm going to I'm going
to find it. I'm going to blow it up
massively and frame it in my office.
>> Please.
>> It's like a letter of rejection from the
magazine that I've been on the cover of
six times now.
>> That's great.
>> So beautiful.
>> So
>> So what did you want to start writing
about? Like what was your
>> I didn't know. I just want I knew I
wanted to be writing and talking to
people and interviewing people. So I
would send them these things like just
cold like cold submissions and everyone
was telling me no. And then I bumped
into Turks at a sima. And
>> how many years ago is this? At what
point is this?
>> This is less than a year after I got
married.
>> Oh, so this is you're like 21 22 at your
time.
>> I was 22.
>> 22 at the time. Okay.
>> So
>> this is like 10 years ago. This is 10
years ago. Yeah.
>> So, I bumped into Turks and I was like,
"Hey, aren't you Turks?" He's like,
"Yeah." And he was very nice. He gave me
the time of day and I said, "You know, I
really want to get into this line of
work that you're in. Like, I want to
start writing for magazines. Can you get
me in?" He's like, "Yeah, I'll make some
introductions for you." And um he made
an introduction for me to a couple
places. One of them was Ammy. And then
they started taking me seriously. So,
like I would they they weren't asking me
to write anything, but it's like they
you pitch us an idea and if we like it,
we'll we'll we'll greenlight it. So, I
would pitch them ideas and most of the
ideas they said no to. Like, you know,
like I remember one of the ideas is
like, "Why don't you give me $600 so I
can go to Jordan and I want to go to the
caver of Iron A on his yard sites and
write an article about it." They're
like, "No." And then years later, that
happened.
>> Yeah. That's a pretty good idea. That
that's
>> Yeah, it was a great idea.
>> That's not something people would read
about, you know. Yeah.
>> But no one no one I guess at that time
no one saw my vision. there's like like
it's just like this kid who wants us to
pay for his travel. I was like, "No, you
don't you don't understand what I'm
going to build." But they didn't see it.
I saw it. So, I just kept trying. Like
every year around the yard site, I would
I would call Mrs. Frankfurt or from
mommy. He's like, "Hey, you know, it's
that time of year again. Should we do
it?" And she's like, "No, not this time.
Maybe we'll think about it." And then in
2017, so I guess it's just about um two
and a half years after I got married. It
was literally this time of year. It was
end of November. the labavage
was taking place and I don't know how
but I convinced someone in Kabad to get
me a ticket and I went to this thing and
I noticed that the all the rabbis were
walking around with power banks. I was
thinking like can't you just like get
off your phone for 3 or 4 hours? Why do
you need a power bank? And then I
realized that every rabbi
is like a rabbi, a therapist, kadisha,
suicide helpline, anything that needs to
be done in their community, it's all on
their phone. So they absolutely need the
power banks. Little epiphany that I had
and I I wrote a word like a little piece
like maybe 150 words. I sent it to Amy.
I was like, "How about this? Would you
print this little piece?" Like actually
it's really cute. We love it. And there
boom, they printed it. And once they
printed one piece, then they just
started coming to me like, "Why don't
you do this story?" And that story and
started sending things my way.
>> So that was your breakthrough story.
>> It was like a It was like a footnote at
the bottom of an article that someone
else wrote about the Kenneth.
>> Wow.
>> And they spelled my name wrong.
[laughter]
>> Interesting. That was your first like
>> There were other Sorry. There were other
articles that you wrote that were not
submitted besides the one that they
denied?
>> No. Yeah. There were some things that I
submitted that that they denied. None of
those have ever been printed. Right.
>> But there were ideas that they didn't
greenlight until after that happened.
>> Tell me about other ideas that you
because you're not just a writer. You're
like a walking uh storyteller.
Like you're not just writing a story.
You're creating the idea, the concept.
You're there. You're vis. It's like, you
know, I I guess I you know, I'm just
comparing it to let's say my life and
I'm walking around. I put on something
on status. You know, you think of
creative, you put it up there, but
you're taking it in. You're you're
putting it into a beautiful story.
You're taking the thoughts and you're
putting it out there. So, that happens
to you a lot.
>> Yeah.
>> So, what happened after that? How tell
me more stories that happened. Like,
what are the stories?
>> I So, I I remember after that, I was
>> Tell me when you really impressed them
or impressed the world.
>> I didn't impress them. I So, basically
after that one, they're like, they're
starting to take me seriously. So, I
asked for a meeting and I walk into
their boardroom and it's like this big
conference table and the publishers
there and and all the editors and I
said, "Okay, so I have this crazy idea.
Okay, so here's what I want to do. I
want to travel to let's say 50 countries
and we're going to do a story about a
kabad in this country and in that
country and every week we'll have like a
column about kabad in this place because
I figured this is a way I could like
travel the world and mix it in with
Judaism and and it's going to be great."
And they're like, "Cool idea." No.
It's it's just not going to work. We
can't do Kabad every week. You know, we
could do Kabad some weeks, but there's
so many other groups that that would
want to be featured. And it's just
logistically it's going to be very hard.
And so
that was the end of that. But and I
ended up getting a column that was a
weekly travel column that I did for a
bunch of years. So all these ideas were
changed a little bit, different
iterations, but they ended up working
out in the long run. I've seen someone I
I don't know if it's on me or someone
that does uh traveling when they picked
a a city and a town and they highlighted
all the things about the town. How is
that is that what you guys were doing or
is
>> it I mean there was there were a few
years that I had that Yeah.
>> Yeah. Where is the Ammy headquarters?
Like who are these people that are
making these decisions to green light
not to like this sounds like a really
big business. This sounds like they're
running a big corporation.
>> Amy is is a big corporation.
>> They're a pretty big Jewish media
outlet, right? like they're responsible
for a lot of the news that gets put out
there and they're a reliable source,
right? Like if they post it like you can
has credibility. I mean it's a pretty
big deal. Is that right?
>> I believe so.
>> So where are they? Like where's their
headquarters? Like where
>> Barab Park
>> in Bar Park?
>> Yeah. Now recently they opened another
office in Lakewood cuz a lot of it's
interesting but you know New York is
kind of like Brooklyn is losing its uh
it's not what it used to be.
>> No for sure not. It's being taken over
by cameras, by banks, by it's not, you
know,
>> Monti.
>> Yeah, the Brooklyn stock is certainly
declining. It's, you know, it's not what
it once was.
>> I last week I said, you know, I was
talking to somebody and I said, I think
within like 5 years, Lakewood might
overtake Brooklyn. And everyone in the
room was like, that happened a long time
ago.
>> Exactly.
>> Really? [laughter]
>> I knew they're paying you a salary. Like
you're literally on working for them
full-time. I don't I to be honest, I
can't go into specifics about that, but
at this point I I do have a full-time
thing with them. Yeah.
>> So, you have a contract with them,
whatever that is, and and you have an
arrangement
>> and you're dedicating most of your time
to work for the army and to find stories
>> or your writing time, not write about
it.
>> The the writing doesn't take so much
time.
>> I mean, it takes time, but building it
out.
>> My week is built around what happens in
the White House and in Washington, the
president.
>> Well, we didn't get to that point yet,
so we got to rewind then a little bit.
So the beginning of your role was to
just find different interesting things
>> and then you know put it together.
>> Anything that you wrote I'm curious
about that journey that was that stands
out unique controversial something that
got you in trouble throughout all those
writings. Any any of those type of
things happened to you.
>> The most memorable piece that you put
out that was like interesting.
I think the fav my favorite piece I ever
wrote um was an interview with a guy
named Yoish Krauss who is a quasi member
of Nur Carta but he doesn't doesn't go
to like he doesn't partner with the
Arabs
>> he just has an issue ideologically with
the state but he would never go with the
enemies of the Jewish people so he's
like it's an interesting balance and
also the craziest thing is that every
Shabas he has meeting at Shabas
Where does he live?
>> Mear.
>> He's not the guy with the Palestinian
flag, is he? So, there's other people
there.
>> There are some people there with
Palestinian, but this is a guy who like
loves every single Jew with his entire
heart. Also is ideologically opposed to
the current government in the state of
Israel, but he pays taxes
>> and he's okay living in Israel,
obviously. I mean,
>> yeah, he never left,
>> right? It's interesting. A lot a lot of
people all the conflict you could all
these people they they they understand
that the land was given to us by God.
>> No, I get it. I just thought a lot of
nut people live here in
>> in my
>> Yeah,
>> there are there. Yeah, there's a bunch.
>> I thought that's where most of them
lived. I didn't know
>> the the noisy ones are in my
>> I see. So,
>> don't most of the real believe that like
have that type of model that that
mentality?
>> Most the mainstream that's their belief.
There shouldn't be an Israeli state.
They don't support it. They're not
against it. They're not going to
vehemently go and protest and side with
the Palestinians. They would never do
that. But
>> siding with the Palestinians is I don't
>> That's what character does. They're very
extreme. Crazy in the head.
>> I don't know of any uh rabbi who I
respect who wants us to side with our
enemies. That's that's a crazy thing to
do.
>> But it sounds like this guy is not
siding with the enemies, right? So
that's most like this guy. That's what
they
>> No, no. Most you know how many there
there are hundreds of thousands of them
who vote volunteer for national service.
I was in Benedra this summer um was
doing a collab with a restaurant. They
asked me to come in. They wanted to show
me so I could show my followers whoever
were sitting. They accomplish this meal
and all of a sudden this huge group of
them walk in talking probably 30 or 40
guys and all of them are have these
lanyards hanging from their around their
necks and the owner of the restaurant
nudges me and says do you know what that
is? I said looks like a bunch of them.
He says you see the lands where do you
think those are? I said I don't do they
work for some for a company they're all
like it's like a corporate lunch and he
said no all these guys are in military
intelligence.
You're talking long pis, long beards,
the long suits and is all of them are
giving their heart and soul to this
country and they eat here for free every
day.
>> Wow.
>> So there's a lot of a lot of big rebas
tell their to vote and be there's
basically when it comes to Zionism in
theish world there's two different uh
two different ways to go about it. There
are some who believe that the state is
no good, don't want to have anything to
do with it and they even believe it's
against to vote or to be a part of it in
any way. And the other I think an even
more common uh practice is for people
say listen I don't agree with everything
the state does but it's here it's not
going away and I have an opportunity to
influence the way the state goes based
on voting and and being involved. So
that's the practical approach that most
people take.
>> Let's go back to your writing. So you're
writing and by the way thank you for
that story. I love it. I love I wish I
could see them and and experience.
>> You can I'll tell you where to go.
>> Please do. You're saying it's a specific
restaurant that they go to every day.
Where's the restaurant?
>> Um Oh, this this could be an
intelligence issue.
>> I'll tell you off camera.
>> Yeah. Yeah. By the way, if anyone wants
to know, they can DM me and I'll I'll go
with them. How about that? You know, but
but that is a place I would love I would
be proud to see. And uh I've heard of
this things, but seeing it is next
level, which is amazing. Um, someone
just told me there's a software engineer
that he's hi hiring that lives beyond
the gulan. You know what I mean? Like
someone like and there's a whole team of
them and he's like, "Oh, hold on one
second. I might have an intruder. I got
to I'll be right back." You know, put in
the middle of a Zoom call. Um, so these
kind of things, they they're amazing to
see. Um, go let's go through the
journey. So, what happened after the
writing and you're doing the columns and
it's going well for you and you start to
get paid, I guess, right?
>> Yeah, you get paid,
>> right? So, that and that becomes your
job. That's
>> becomes my job. But even more so, I
started doing travel pieces.
>> Got it.
>> And
>> by the way, you've done things on
YouTube and stuff that I've seen.
Incredible. Nothing to do with any of
these things, right? I mean, that's a
>> what what did you see on YouTube?
>> I've you were in a in an Arab country
somewhere and uh you were in a hotel
room and you were videoing uh
>> so so I'd say a lot or most of those
trips were funded by AMI.
>> Okay.
>> They would send me on a trip to write an
article and while I'm there like I may
as well take some footage.
>> Got it. So you're building your brand so
to speak as you're doing your thing
>> and als
>> Sure. Of course. Of course.
>> Yeah.
>> That's awesome. So you have experience
and all that coming together, right? So
you did that in the magazine. In the
magazine you did those stories. Then
what happened after that? Eventually, I
think my my really big break um when it
comes to social media and like being on
the internet was when I reached out to a
YouTube vlogger named Peter Santelo and
I invited him to come see the community
in Brooklyn. This was in September of
2020.
>> This was Williamsburger.
>> We did Burough Park, Williamsburg, and
Crown Heights in one day.
>> Wow.
>> And he recorded this video. It got over
a million views like in the first 24
hours. And then I spent a couple hours
convincing him to come back and we did
like a series of 15 videos which now
have over 80 million views on YouTube.
>> Wow.
>> And and Facebook combined.
>> What made you think of that? By the way,
>> I always my wife tells me like the the
most common thing that comes out of my
mouth is I have an idea.
>> This is like 45 times a day. Most of
them I forget about, get lost, I write
them down somewhere, nothing happens
with them. But there's always ideas. My
my my brain is like a like a dryer just
always spinning with with stuff and you
can't turn it off. It's it's like almost
a problem cuz I don't I don't really get
any peace of mind. Um so I'm always
shooting out DMs or random texts to
people. Oh, I just had an idea and I
sent this off. Didn't think anything
would happen with it. And within a few
minutes the guy gets back to me. He's
like, yeah, let's let's do it. I he he
saw it as the opportunity of a lifetime
to get into community. Being honest, I
can't imagine if a person like you were
saying that it's hard to get a peace of
mind and then you're blowing up and it
goes even crazier how your life must be
now.
>> It's hectic.
He knows I don't get any peace of mind.
>> I mean, you say peace of mind. Are you
using those words on purpose or is it uh
just coming out of your mouth meaning
quiet? Is that what you mean?
>> Uh you know, time for yourself. Like
what do you actually mean when you say
peace of mind?
>> I have a turbulent mind.
>> Right.
I I just I don't there like I could
think of maybe three or four instances
when the in the last five years when I
had a few moments that I my mind was
relaxed that it just turned off and I
was able to just be 100% in the moment.
>> Right. Wow.
>> You know they have some drugs for that
that I can introduce you [laughter] to.
>> I I prefer to stay away. What What would
you introduce me to if I was into it? I
have to tell you I would 100% recommend
to you and this podcast has been
changing my life for the better and it's
been helping me grow tremendously. Fall
Klein
>> Phi Klein was on an episode that we had
here and she spoke about breathing and I
took one of her pieces of advice and I
did it and it was very very helpful for
me
>> after we had her on.
>> Yep.
>> What's Do we like have [laughter] a
relationship at all?
>> Told you I don't see it anymore. We're
literally like
>> we're dividing and conquering. You're
living a whole life outside of
>> and conquering. [laughter]
>> I feel like you're like betraying me
like you're
>> What's going on over here?
>> Anyways, I'm telling this episode.
>> How was that? How was that experience?
>> It was great. It was great. It's It's
another episode.
>> I would have I would have done that with
you.
>> I'm going to talk about it when Ezra Max
comes on. That's the person that she
recommended. So, when he comes on, I'm
going to tell him about the experience
cuz he also knows about this world. But
I'm recommend you would have done it
with me. I would not have done it with
you. Not because it's you. I don't like
working out with other people. I don't
want to do as I did this with other
people. So you did this yourself as
individual.
>> Yeah. Myself. Intimate. A guy. A guy.
Intimate. Aid. Shag guy from Monroe who
is a superstar.
>> Really?
>> Yes. Superstar.
>> How long was it for? How long did it
take to hold?
>> It was uh 2hour uh event.
>> I think I know who you're talking about.
>> Yeah. I don't remember his name. Say it,
please.
>> I don't know his name. I just know his
face.
>> Oh, he's a wonderful person. He also
does uh consulting for businesses.
>> I was in with him.
>> Yeah. So, um, what I the reason why I'm
saying it, by the way, and again,
another podcast for another time and
it's a whole other world is the concept
of being present and having peace of
mind and, you know, and and and being
able to internalize what you're going
through in life and appreciating the
moments. And not saying that you're not
appreciating it, you're just recognizing
and you're conscious about the fact that
your mind is a is spinning. But, but
different than most people, your mind's
not just spinning. It's spinning with
amazing ideas.
>> Yeah. and he's a content creator, so he
has to have these ideas all the time.
He's got to keep think of fresh new
things
>> that he's going to do.
>> People interested by I don't necessarily
see it as a problem.
>> Yeah.
>> It's just it's just my reality. Like I
my mind is really busy.
>> I'm not saying it's a problem. No, I'm
just saying I can't imagine how the
dryer is spinning and spinning and
spinning. What it's like to be in your
shoes right now cuz you have ideas, you
execute and you do it and you move
forward. No,
>> 99% of my ideas go nowhere.
>> That's how crazy it is. the 1% is so
much that you're doing. That's what's
wild about your lifestyle. I've been
watching you. You can't hide it. I've
been seeing it and it's amazing. So,
it's just Yeah. So, not saying it's a
negative thing, but it is a positive
thing. It's a positive thing to breathe
and take it easy.
>> I think it's called ADHD.
>> That's exactly what it's [clears throat]
called.
>> Yeah.
>> I think some people have more worse than
others. What What happens? So, now you
are
>> you're blowing up. You're blowing up.
You have getting, you know, notoriety.
People know who you are. Your face is
out there. We're not up to the White
House yet. We're almost there. So, okay.
So, then I decided like I don't want to
say I'm going to go all in, but I'm
going to invest a lot of time and energy
in social media. So, I started um making
a lot of YouTube videos. I know you guys
commented that I don't have that many,
but 128, which for me was was hard. I
have over a hundred travel videos from
some of the craziest places on earth
that are in the bank on my hard drive,
never been released because I haven't
gotten around to editing them.
>> Give me some like where. um from Saudi
Arabia, from Afghanistan, from Lebanon
was was on my hard drive for like for
over seven years until I put out the
video. It did very well even seven years
later.
>> Um
>> which one do you feel like you need to
get out soon?
>> Um I went to prison with Nissan Black in
Texas. We visited a p uh prison to
there's like a bunch of Jews in this
prison. He went to sing for them. We we
filmed a vlog and we got special access
to like bring cameras into the prison.
>> Really?
>> I should put that out. That's awesome.
What do you typically do when you go to
a place like you said Afghanistan
before? Like how long are you there for?
What what is your agenda? Like what is
your what's your steps? What do you do
over there?
>> So it really depends on on what the goal
of the trip is and
who the trip is for. Most of these trips
were done for Ammy Magazine. So the goal
is to have an experience, interact with
people, find some Jewish history,
interact with some Jews who might still
be left there and tell the story very
visually. um both like visually
descriptive and with nice pictures
>> in Ammy magazine and in addition to that
I was filming you know why not if I'm
here anyway and we can promote the
articles by posting on social media and
showing little clips and I started
putting together vlogs based on my my
experiences all around the world and a
lot of them have been very very special
very meaningful especially in the Arab
world like I made a lot of nice
connections with people and I before
October 7th had considered myself to
have a lot of friends there
>> you got Tell me what's something that
surprised you when you went to visit
these countries or something that stands
out right now in your head.
>> Um
I feel that the Jewish people and the
Arab people, Muslim people have a lot of
things in common specifically challenges
for example with the youth. A lot of our
youth are not connecting to our heritage
and they feel like there's another way
and maybe they should be looking
outwards and the Arab world is
struggling with this as well. And to see
it happening and to meet with people who
are like outwardly they look like very
religious Arabs, but inwardly they're
completely secular. It was just very
interesting to see
>> the commonalities. Yeah.
>> Yeah. And I I feel like
>> the struggle is universal. It really is.
>> Yeah.
>> It's it's a I think there's a big
struggle in people who want to
stay rooted in their past while moving
into the future. And what's the right
balance of that?
>> Yeah. It's funny. We had a pastor on the
podcast like four or five podcasts ago.
We did. Yeah.
>> Pastor Graham, he was appointed by
Donald Trump as the uh as the pastor of
America. Very interesting guy.
>> He actually is part of the White House
uh administration. So he has a what was
the thing he said? It's called the
president.
>> The president has a book to fill
>> to fill a certain amount of jobs. The
plumb book.
>> The plumb book or something. You know
what I'm talking about? No.
>> He mentioned that. Anyway, so he's he
had that role. So he actually said that
he's seeing that the younger kids in
Christianity and their faith where
they're actually reconnecting more than
than it used to be. And uh like the
conservative movement like is growing
you know and uh the traditional movement
is growing. That's what you know he felt
like. I don't know.
>> Yeah. I think I think Trump ushered that
in
>> for sure. He got them much more into
politics. got them much more in tune
with the world and the country, you
know, became more nationalists and
became uh more respectful to God and to
the faith. He definitely was a big
driver for that.
>> Charlie Kirk also had a big big impact
on Christians in this country.
>> Take us there. Take us to how you got
involved in this side of the world
>> in Washington
politics. Yeah.
>> What how did you get into the whole
world? Is it just Jake saying, "Hey,
there's an opening." And
>> for years, Jake has been telling me that
if he was going to give up his job, he
would want me to take it.
>> Perfect. Okay. And I kept telling him
like, "Not going to happen. Not my
thing.
>> I I like to travel the world. I like to
hang out in the Middle East. This
[laughter]
just leave me in, you know, in Syria
with my people and then you do
Washington. Everyone's going to be
happy." But he decided to leave. And
Ammy was like, you know, he also had
gone to Ammy and said, you know, we want
like you should you should you should
convince me to take this. So, I went
there to meet them and they offered it
to me and I said, "No, thank you. I
appreciate the offer. It's like I I'm
honored actually you want to put me
there, but I really like what I'm
doing." And they said, "You don't have
to stop what you're doing, but we want
you to add this to your portfolio." So,
I'm like that I can do.
>> Yeah.
>> And then I stopped what I was doing.
>> I like doing this full-time.
>> Yes. I I I don't travel the world as
much now that I'm in Washington every
week, but I decided that I have to also
do that more. Like I I really I miss
traveling all over the world and I'm I'm
going to be doing that again.
>> So you are in Washington now? Like you
go there
>> every week?
>> Every week?
>> Yeah.
>> You're in the White House once a week? I
>> was there yesterday.
>> And you're really? Yeah.
>> Oh, wow. So you're like part of the
press corp?
>> Yeah.
And you're asking questions like at the
to what's her name? What's the
>> I'm trying. It's very hard to get a
question.
>> Have you gotten a question yet?
>> Not from her. No,
>> but I got a question from the president.
>> Did you?
>> I did.
>> Is that Is there a clip of that?
>> There is.
>> What did you ask him? What was the
question?
>> It was the day after Charlie Kirk was
killed. I asked him if he had a favorite
memory of Charlie.
>> Okay. What did he say?
>> Basically that Charlie brought in all
the votes and he really liked that.
[laughter]
>> Now, how does
>> What else do you expect Trump to say? I
guess who decides who gets to ask a
question
>> in the press?
>> Um, well, in in the press conferences,
the press secretary, Caroline Levit,
would do that. But if you have an
opportunity to meet the president, for
example, at an event or if he's getting
onto the helicop to to Marine One before
flying out or when he comes back from a
trip, you can just stand on the lawn and
if he if he walks past you, you can ask
him a question.
>> So, he literally just picks who he wants
to, you know. Yeah. But if he doesn't
see a familiar face, he doesn't know who
you are. He doesn't want to take the
risk of you asking a question that he
probably he probably won't like and
probably won't pick on you.
>> But he took the risk with me.
>> He took the risk with you. Interesting.
So Karen Le never yet asked you for a
question.
>> I've asked her questions in private like
I I've met her, been to her office
stuff, but at a press conference. No.
>> I I'd like to hear about that if you
don't mind because I look at her as also
a very powerful person in general. I
mean it's like
>> I mean she's got the most direct access
to the president. The craziest thing
about her is I forget the name. I'm
sorry. But the one before her,
>> Kayie Mcini.
>> Yes.
>> Amazing. I thought when I was watching
her, I was like, "Wow, I've never seen
anything like this. I don't think
there's anything." And then suddenly
someone who came on, I'm like, "Wow."
Respect.
>> Yeah. You She was really good with the
um Kaylee was really good with the with
like the facts.
>> So like she would just do these mic drop
moments and then the you know, you hear
the thug life music and the glasses fall
down, the the joints in her mouth.
>> Yeah. Yeah. Of course. Oh my god. But
they're both great by the So tell me
about her. Like I'm just curious about,
you know, when you're talking to her,
you ask her questions that you can
cheer, like things that you've wrote
about.
>> So the way it works is if you have a
question, you can go to the press office
and submit the question and somebody in
the administration is supposed to get
back to you. Obviously, they're dealing
with a massive uh load of questions. So
you're not always going to get a
response, but
they try. They try their best. And you
can also ask for a meeting with anybody
in the in the administration. You're not
necessarily going to get it, but you can
ask. But over the, you know, over the
past year, I've met with a bunch of
different people and um a lot of them
are really nice.
>> Who else have you met like one-on-one?
Who have you interview? Have you
interviewed anybody?
>> No.
>> A senator or none of that.
>> Oh, so sure. I So that's a different
part of my job. I hang around in the in
the capital. So go like to the House
floor, the Senate.
>> And you could roam freely over there.
like you can knock on people's offices
like you know
>> anyone can knock the the offices are not
in the actual capital building they're
in office building surrounding the
capital anybody can go you don't have to
have any credentials all you have to do
is walk through metal detector and
you're and you're good you can knock on
anybody's office
>> to which office where is this building
what
>> so let's say you go to the Russell
Senate office building
>> okay
>> and senators are usually working there
throughout the day
>> they're coming in and out of meetings
and committees and stuff so if you walk
into the office you're going to be met
by a receptionist or aids And then
within the office there's like an inner
office where they get caught in the
hallways and that's where that's where
all that happens.
>> So you can anyone can hang out there but
what I'm allowed to do is go into the
capital and walk pretty much anywhere
and you can interact with them because
they're always coming and going from
votes and committees and so you know
>> what's your favorite room in the White
House that you uh
>> my favorite room in the White House
>> that you appreciate that you have access
to that you could see
>> the press generally has access to one
room which is the press briefing room.
That's where um the briefings happen.
And then behind the briefing room, there
are a bunch of smaller offices where the
large networks have like a little office
within the White House. So CNN has one
and Fox has one and AP has one. And um
so the large networks have offices.
There's a couple desks like kind of like
a co-working space that anybody can work
in. There's a little like break
room/coff room with a couple vending
machines. There's large uh outdoor area
you can hang out at. But then when
there's special events, which are almost
every day there's something going on,
they'll give not all members but many
members of the press access to a
specific event. So let's say if BB's
coming to the White House, they'll do a
joint press conference in the Easter
room. So I was in the room when Trump
announced that he was going to take Gaza
and own it and do a job with it. It was
like a very interesting day to be there.
Um
the the helicopters coming and going is
also a very interesting
thing to witness. There's the Rose
Garden Club where he Trump likes to play
DJ and there's always things happening
like you know he put up this
presidential wall of fame with all the
gold pictures and then with the auto
pen.
>> The auto pen ultimate troll move by the
way.
>> That's right there.
>> We we have access to some parts of the
building but not all of them. So your
job is to [clears throat] just be
around, be there, and report back to the
I mean, write an article about the
interesting things that happened. And
that's what the reviewers, the readers
want to know is your perspective and
what's going on in the White House and
>> try to interact with with the leaders as
much as possible. Um, obviously we
understand that you're competing with
every other news company in America and
a lot of people have been there much
longer than you. So, you know, you got
to
>> I got to tell you, I I I'm being serious
when I say this. I could be wrong, but I
really believe this. In the firm world,
no matter where you are in the world, in
the firm communities, I think the ammy
has the most clout. I think the ammy is
the is the number one source of where
you can trust information. It's coming
from. Am I wrong on this?
>> You're not wrong, but there is a
mishbaka also. I'm saying there's two.
>> Not more than the mishbuck.
>> I don't know. The mishbaka was first,
then came ami. So, you have two.
>> Mishbaka was first. My understanding is
that Ammy sells more copies.
>> I would think so. Again, I think they're
both headto-head. I don't know. There's
no way to chat GPT this, right? So, but
they're both out there tremendously and
they're both doing these
representations.
>> But I'll tell you what, they should do
they have like a like a digital social
media platform, Amy? Like, are they out
there? They're not doing a great job
with that.
>> They Well, that's not their focus. First
of all, it's a from magazine. The focus
is is creating something that is
printable that you read once a week.
>> The digital there is a digital version
that you can get of Ammy. So, let's say
you live in Timbuktu, you can get the
ammy and download a digital digital
version.
>> I'm not talking about that. I'm talking
about like a social media presence. But
the social media present that they're
putting out.
>> The social media presence at this time
is to let people know the magazine is
out. What's in the magazine so they can
get the magazine?
>> Boring. I'm saying could they do
something like they have a platform now?
>> They definitely can. We talk about it
sometimes.
>> Somebody's dropping the ball on this
like they're making a decision not to go
social decision.
>> Why are they making that decision? They
got to play in this arena. It's out
there. Too bad. The army needs to be out
there making sure that the right
information is being spread and it's
being controlled and someone's got to
get ahead of it or someone's going to do
it and go rogue and then it's going to
be, oh, we should have done it. It's
going to be too late.
>> You do understand that a large part of
the Ammy clientele is not on social
media. Doesn't want to have anything to
do with social media. Well, let's extend
the clientele beyond just those people
because there's a lot of people like me
and Michael and I would be interested in
watching and listening to a reliable
source like this and hearing their
perspective and their views and getting
some analysts on of people you know
amongst our like we don't this is
probably why Israel by the way has a big
problem in the social media presence and
we're hated universally unfortunately is
because the the wrong messaging is
putting out there. we're not doing a
great job at portraying ourselves and
delivering our message. Like we're not
doing a good job at it.
>> I would respectively uh have to disagree
with you on that one. I think Israel has
issues uh with the way it's being
portrayed and the way that things went
after the war. But Ammy and Israel have
it's two completely different things.
Ami is a magazine that is that wants to
be in your home and sell you a magazine
every week. Israel is a country that's
fighting for its existence. And Ammy has
not invested a ton in social media,
although it's something we talk about
from time to time.
>> Like you have Ben Shapiro, he's got a
big platform and he does this, right?
But other than Ben Shapiro, like you
know, I could list you 30 like, you
know, with the Turks, you know, the the
other side of Ben Shapiro. I can list
you so many of those other channels that
are out there that are making waves and
that have a big voice that are out. But
on our side, how many of that do? I'm
going to I'm going to clarify I think
what he's saying if you don't mind
because I actually agree with something
that you're saying
>> and uh maybe maybe it's clear to you and
and you just don't agree and it's okay.
But I think what Oshi's also saying is
that if you have a magazine that's
putting so much time, attention, money,
and effort, and resources into
representing the Jewish, you know,
people and what what's happening in the
world, you almost have an obligation to
put yourself out there more because
you're the people that are helping us
represent who we are as a people. So
therefore, you're just hurting us in a
way. Not you're hurting us, but meaning
you're not really doing us people who
are on social media all day a favor by
because all the work that you're doing
all week is all that's fit to print for
Chabas. That's what it is. It's not like
you're reporting every day for I'm here
live in the White House. That's what
you're doing on your status. That's what
you're doing personally. That's your
brand and it's okay. I think what you're
saying is that it's they're missing out
on a very important but they have to
make a business decision. This is not
their clientele.
>> Don't defend it first because you you
actually articulated it very very well.
I feel like you guys are missing an
opportunity. Like you're on to something
and you you stop.
>> Make it closer. Why not make social
media because we need more uh we need
more voices to be heard. Not just from
us, but by the Yes. Even from us for
reinforcement like you know guys, we
also want to see that stuff. It's
inspiring. It's great. It's nice to see
you know that you know somebody's
representing us well and he's doing a
good job and and it gives a lot of you
know but even for the other the non-Jews
of the world and the people that don't
know a whole lot about us, why should
they only hear the other side? right?
And we seem like we're awful people when
there's so much beauty to it and there's
so much nice things about our
communities. Let's showcase that more.
And we need guys like you that are like
somewhat of an influencer that you're
you're you're bringing in a lot of that
that fun factor and you're doing it in
in a cool way. You know, guys like you,
let's promote this. Let's do more of
this. Let's invest in this so we can get
a better messaging out there.
>> That's what I'm saying.
>> I I think I agree with what you're
saying. We definitely need more voices
and it's something that I've been trying
to do on a personal level and I think in
many ways I've done with my platform but
I don't know that Ammy necessarily sees
themselves as having to solve every
problem. They they got their magazine
locked down. It's the number one
bestselling magazine in the room world.
They are very happy with it. Everyone on
the street loves it. Um they're
constantly making news having interviews
with the biggest names. We've had Trump
on the cover. Trump's children have been
on in the magazine. um heads of state
from other countries,
big people in Israel, the the greatest
rabbis that we have today, they're all
on AMI. So AM is doing is totally
killing it in the magazine department.
And when it comes to social media, I
don't think they see that as their role,
but we definitely do need voices in in
more voices in our community. Yeah.
>> Right. It's interesting.
>> All right, Stephan, you ready to start?
Stephan, we're going to Let's get Stefan
on the case. Let's start let's start a
channel. Let's start some type of, you
know, Are you thinking that the only
thing There's a lot going on, by the
way, on social. I'm not on social media
so I don't know but I know I mean
personally who and exactly what but I
see what you're doing through your
status and I see that the promotion of
good things that are coming out of a lot
of people and uh the world can use more
of it
>> one big massive very wellknown no not
social media influencer that's from and
that's that's a Jewish person
>> so you said already Ben Shapiro which
was a big one
>> Ben Shapiro is the biggest one it's the
only one and you know what Ben Shapiro
has his style and it you know caters
towards you know certain demographics
and certain but will tell me a little
bit more diversified than just Ben
Shapiro.
>> Ellie Zyler,
>> I don't know who that is.
>> She's this girl from California who
recently I don't know the past couple
years became from. She has over 10
million followers on social media and I
think on Tik Tok and she like stopped
everything, went to seminary for a
couple months or for a year and she's a
very powerful voice. I haven't met her.
I have nothing to do with her but I know
that she exists and she's doing
wonderful work. Love this.
>> Yeah,
>> this is what I mean. We if this is
exactly what I was saying. 10 million
followers, right?
>> She has like a huge jewelry company.
>> Oh, you know who she is?
>> I know who I know who she is. Yeah. She
she shared her story on social media
going to seminary and like going through
her whole journey. At the same time, she
also has this huge jewelry company.
Yeah.
>> That she promotes on social.
>> I think she was on a podcast.
>> She was on Yakov Linger's inspiration
for the
>> living. Nice. Yeah.
>> Okay. So more people like that. So we
could combat what's happening.
>> It is interesting though. I'm buying
more into what you're saying because
imagine if like you know all the people
that are like can't go out to social
media like I don't know who they are but
even ama whatever it is starts blasting
all their efforts on social media but
it's a challenge because it's
>> in a way the the the future is going to
be you know ready is here but it's going
to get even worse is digital warfare
right eventually you're not going to
even have to send soldiers into other
countries.
>> I know but I rather my kids
>> cyber warfare right that's coming. It's
the wave of the future. So unfortunately
there's going to be a whole digital
world out there as well and that's going
to hurt or help the Jews and we want to
preserve what we have, right? We want to
stay relevant. So we want to stay ahead
of the curb. So this is something where
I feel like we're sort of dropping the
ball a little bit and we don't like it
and it's it's not preferable to do it.
We want to get involved in that, but we
may have to. We may not have a choice.
Wake up.
>> It might be too late at some point, God
forbid. And if it can help.
>> You don't feel like we're dropping the
ball?
>> Not at all. I I'm very involved in the
social media space. I know
>> pretty much everyone in social media and
the from world um a lot of people are
working on a lot of cool projects. I
would say the I don't know I don't have
exact figures but I can tell you that
tens of millions of dollars this this
social media economy in the film world
is worth tens of millions of dollars. A
lot of people are working on a lot of
cool things myself included. I have
something that I that I think is going
to address exactly what you talked about
earlier and I don't think we're dropping
the ball. I mean, you could share
already or it's not you're not ready for
it?
>> Um, I guess I could share. I mean, I'm
I'm working on a podcast that's going to
be unlike anything ever that has ever
been done in the front world and
I recently launched one in Yiddish, but
this one is going to be English
language.
>> Your Yiddish one is called TIF.
>> TIF.
>> I love it.
>> I see I see it on your status. So, I I
love the people that you're bringing on.
You're filling that gap for people that
need more podcasts for Yiddish speaking
people.
>> Yes, for the It's also in Yiddish.
There's nothing else like it. It's like
it's a it's a platform where anything
goes.
>> So, you're going all English now.
>> I'm doing I'm going to keep the Yiddish
one, but I'm going to start something
cuz my my English language audience,
which is most of my audience, is
complaining like you're putting so much
effort into this.
>> What are you doing? I love it.
>> I don't want to share exactly what I'm
doing, but it's going to make a lot of
noise. It's going to be
>> Oh, I could say none of your business.
No, it is your business. Just not
>> Is it going to be controversial?
>> It's going to be controversial. Yeah.
>> You ready for that?
>> All my life, baby. So you have uh like
you're you're a free agent like you you
beat to your own drum like you don't
care what you know.
>> Does your does your friend will be here
know what you're doing? Does
>> he know what I'm doing?
>> He knows. I see him smiling.
>> Will it be like your
>> He's very soundly what we go on walks
like at 2 in the morning sometimes.
>> Really?
>> Yeah. And and uh
>> Can we go on a walk please and just tell
us what's going on?
>> You don't like to walk with other
people.
>> I love walking with other I don't like
exercising with other people. Half my
conversations are on walks with people.
a pacing up and down. Um, you have to
tell me a little bit more. I mean, I I
love this stuff. I love creativity and
and new ventures and entrepreneurship
thinking and
>> Well, I'll say this, okay? It's going to
make a lot of people very
um
concerned. It's going to make a lot of
people think like, what is he doing?
It's also going to make anybody with an
open mind who's willing to listen to a
few minutes of of what is going to be
happening on my channels is going to
say, "Wow, that that I did not see that
coming. That's something unique. We
actually haven't had something like this
before." I think it's going to be very
refreshing, but it's going to make a lot
of waves, and I don't think everybody's
going to be happy with it.
>> I'm excited. Is it a weekly thing you're
going to do?
>> I'm excited. Like podcasting,
>> my goal is for it to be weekly. Okay.
Okay. Um, in a very powerful lesson I've
learned after my whole in like when
after Peter Santella when we could say I
quote blew up. Um, I jumped into a lot
of things way too fast and then I
crashed and burned. So now I'm in this
mindset where I know how to build things
and it's done in silence and you don't
talk about your plans until they've been
done. You don't say I'm going to do
this. Say I did this.
It's so interesting to speak to someone
who going through that process and now
you're doing it the smart, thought out,
methodical way, but you're dropping
hints. You're getting people curious,
which is a good thing.
>> This project is something I've been
working on since that house he got me in
2021, March of 2021. That's when the
concept was launched. And I was telling
people back then, oh, by by April, it's
going to be out. It's going to be on
YouTube. And it did not happen.
>> And I learned my lesson.
>> And now I know how to build things
slowly. And I'm also so thankful it
didn't happen back then.
>> So getting a time frame. When do you
think it's going to happen by?
>> When it's ready.
>> It's a regular podcast model. Just
you're saying the topics are going to be
>> the conversations that are going to be
had are going to be newsworthy
conversations that are going to make a
lot of people uncomfortable, but also is
going to open our minds to I think in
the in the big picture make us expand
beyond ourselves and and make ourselves
beautiful. By the way, it doesn't go
back to what I mean it doesn't take away
from what we were saying earlier. I'm
with Oshi on this. I think that you know
>> I think that people are comfortable
doing what they're doing and they don't
want to go too much out of their comfort
zone because they don't want to risk
things. It's like until competition
starts so to speak and then you know
it's like someone told me recently that
the local supermarket here in Muny used
to close 1:00 on Friday. Now they close
10 minutes before Shabas because
everyone else closes 10 minutes before
Shabas. So like you know
>> you got to pick up on it. So, I hope
that more and more people uh come to the
realization that if you have the
resources and you're doing it, put
yourself out there more. Take the steps,
take the bold steps, create that other
competition so that people can wake up.
>> Okay. I assume we're wrapping up uh
shortly. I want to get one topic in
before we wrap up. I just want to get
you guys opinion on it because this just
happened last night.
>> Oh, I'm involved.
>> Yeah, both of you. I I want to take a
little poll in. I'm sure you know some
of the viewers are going to hear this. I
want I want to hear from them as well.
>> Uh and this happened last night. It was
a debate between 10 of us. 10 of us in a
room.
>> It's unbelievable. By the way, 10
friends hanging out in a regular night.
That's all she
>> What room is this?
>> It's somebody's house. Friend of my
house. We're in, you know,
>> drinking or we were playing all the all
the above.
>> Keep going.
>> No, I'm going to stop there.
>> At one point, we said we we got to order
foods.
>> Okay.
>> So, one guy whips out his phone and
places an order on Uber's on Uber Eats.
And uh you know, somehow he mentioned,
you know, oh, they ask for a tip. Now,
I'm not tipping. Why should I tip the
driver? It's on Uber. What am I doing
that for? No, I'm not tipping. And I'm
like, what do you mean you're not
tipping? What? Why aren't you tipping?
Wh why is this any different than
anything else where normally you would
tip? Like why what? It's not even like
the driver like doesn't know who we are.
He's not going to see us. He's dropping
off the food. Like what's the point? Why
should I tip? And you're like all of a
sudden it became a conversation amongst
everybody. And half the room agreed and
half the room didn't agree. But I
vehemently didn't agree. I was
mortified. I almost lost a little
respect for this person. Like I don't
know if I can still be so such good
friends with you anymore. Like like I
want to understand like you you're not
tipping because you think you can get
away with it or because you don't think
he deserves it. Like what's the reason
you're not tipping? And as I'm hearing
more the way he I'm understanding from
him is he doesn't feel like he deserves
it. He doesn't feel like he should get
this guy's working for probably $8 an
hour, $10 an hour. This guy's hustling.
I promise you he's a lot less fortunate
than you are. And he's he's going phase
dollar. He's going where he is to the
store to pick up your hot food and
deliver it to you all for like why
wouldn't you give him a $3 tip, a $4
tip? Why wouldn't you do when you go to
a restaurant, you tip your waiter? Yeah.
Because that's you know what's Yeah. I
said basically if there's an industry
standard to tip, you should tip. And if
you don't, you're a bad person. Now, if
you can't afford is another story, but
just out of principle, you don't tip. I
was so angry. I was so angry and like I
don't know if I could I like I think of
it the same way. I want to hear your
thoughts on this. Is he are is he wrong
for not tipping?
>> I have my instant reaction answer, but
I'm curious what you have to say.
[laughter]
>> Do you have an hour?
>> An hour?
You touched on so many things. Number
one, you're like he's a bad person.
Unless he's poor. If he's poor, he's not
a bad person. But anyway, let's let's
take a step back. Why do we tip people
>> when there's an expectation to tip? Why?
Why does somebody get a tip?
>> Cuz they're not making enough money from
what they're doing and part of their
income is coming from tips.
>> No. If somebody does a good job, they
get a tip. Imagine like imagine somebody
has a spear.
>> What goes on top is the tip of the
spear.
>> Okay. So, they get some kind of base pay
from Uber or for the restaurant they
work in. And if they exceed and excel at
what they do, then of course be nice.
Give them a bonus.
>> Yeah. The problem with tipping culture
is that today when you order food with
one of these food ordering apps, they
ask you straight away, do you want to
tip before the food comes? Let me Is the
driver going to going to spit in my
food? Is he going to take a fry out?
That's people do that. Drivers are are
siphoning off food from from orders.
Drivers are nasty. They drop the food.
They leave it not under the awning when
it's raining. So tipping is a wonderful
thing when it's for somebody who needs
it or deserves it and they act in
accordance with somebody who deserves a
tip. But just there's something wrong
with society today where you go to
you'll go to like SIBO in the airport.
Okay, this literally happened to be at
Newark airport. You know there there's
these stores called SIBO where it's just
a big fridge. It's just a big fridge.
There's nobody there.
>> Nobody there. And there's bananas and
snacks and magazines and whatever. And I
take a bottle of water and a banana and
I go tap my card and it says, "Would you
like to leave a tip?"
>> Now that's crazy.
>> For who?
>> Yeah. For who? Yeah. For
>> for Mr. Sibo. Absolutely not. That's why
I bought the banana from you. So, no,
I'm not tipping you. But then there's
times when like you go to a fast food
place and
this is already like going to get
controversial, but like somebody packed
your burger for you and put it on a tray
and then you had to go pick it up
yourself from the counter. And when
you're paying, they do that casual thing
where they flip the thing towards you
and they look the other way, but they're
kind of like their eyes are like on the
screen to see whether you tip or not.
What's that all about?
Why are we picking up the slack for
restaurant owners who don't pay enough?
I have no issue if every restaurant I go
to raises their prices by 30%. So they
can pay their workers, but don't
Basically what's going on is restaurants
are like, "We're going to be cheap, not
pay our workers, and then we're going to
guilt the customer into paying the tip
cuz we're cheap. I want the worker to
get paid, but don't guilt me into it.
Take my money by charging me more money.
>> Pass the buck on to me." Yeah.
>> Yeah. But my issue with this guy, I want
to clarify, is that he You're right. It
was I don't know why Uber Eats does
that.
>> That's what my answer was going to be. I
love tipping. Why do they make the food
has this ridiculous thing? I that's what
I was going to say.
>> If the person deserves it, they should
get a
>> tip. But let's just say that let's just
say that uh you order the food, you
expected it to arrive in a half an hour.
It arrived in exactly in half an hour
and the driver left it there by the
front door and everything, you know, he
didn't do anything spectacular. He's not
curing uh cancer here. He's delivering
your food, but he did exactly what he
should be doing. Everything's correct.
And then afterwards, it pops up. Do you
want to give him a tip? This guy also
believes I don't I wouldn't tip He
wouldn't give him a tip. He would person
No, no thank. That's what bothers me. I
want to know if that is okay. Are we
okay with this? Or should he have tipped
this poor guy $5 for delivering his
food?
>> You get Go ahead.
>> I was going to say I need to hear his
version. I don't know why would anyone
say, "I'm not tipping a guy." Middle of
the night, cold coming out doing his
Yeah, it's doing your job, but still,
you know, he's not making a lot of
money. Of course, you tip him. What's
the question? But I want to hear his
theory. He must have something. Maybe he
was saying that
>> that he can get away from the fact that
Uber pays a lot and they take half the
tips or whatever.
>> No, that's not what he was saying. Just
simply I don't need to. Why should I pay
you? Like why should I pay him for what?
What did he do for me? He did his job.
That was not what he said. That's what
he said. He did his job. I'm like, what
do you mean? Everybody else that you tip
in the world did their job. That but you
still tipped them. Your barber gave you
a haircut. You still tip them.
>> Do you tip your airline pilot?
>> No. There's no expectation in the
industry to tip your airline.
>> Why not?
>> Cuz there's no expectation in the
industry. We all know which industries
which type of jobs you're supposed to
tip. We know.
>> Why is that?
>> I I want to get to the figure. I'm
>> asking a great question.
>> Why in certain industries do we guilt
people into tipping? And
>> social standards became that you have to
tip the the guy in Uber, but you don't
have to tip.
>> You tip a waiter. Uh you tip your
steist.
>> You tip your your
>> steist is a is a waiter on the plane.
>> Literally. Why don't you never tip your
stewartist?
>> I hear.
>> By the way, I know people who do that.
>> Really? I don't know if they can take
money, but you want to want to get a
real insider tip. If you fly a lot, buy
snacks for your flight crew cuz they
have the standard issued snacks from
their airline. They never get anything
else. So, if you come on the plane and
you're like, "Hey, I got these chips.
They don't have access to you made their
day."
>> Great idea.
>> What do I What do I need to make their
day for? What's that going to serve me?
>> It won't. It serves them. [laughter]
>> A and B, if you fly a lot and you have a
status airline and you're seeing the
same flight crews regularly, it's going
to serve you as well.
>> That happens. Do you see the same like
you know?
>> Yeah, I see the same people. Yes. Going.
Yeah.
>> I don't think I've ever recognized one
flight crew ever.
>> Okay. He's on a plane every week.
>> I multiple times a week. I know I know
some of them by name. There's a there's
a You're not going to believe this.
United has a
set of twins, identical twins who are
stewardesses. They're they they're
definitely in their 50s, probably 60s or
higher. Brenda and Glenda. I've bumped
into them a bunch of times. This cute
set of older sisters and they fly
everywhere together. They've been
together for like decades on the same
plane every day.
>> We got to have them.
>> That's hilarious.
>> That's very cool.
>> Do you get this worked up about other
people
not doing things your way in all areas
of life or just with tipping?
>> It's a great question, by the way, and
you only know me for like a couple
hours, but I get very passionate about
things that I believe in.
>> Okay.
>> Um I don't get like if I see something
that I don't think is right, I feel
compelled to say something. I'm not I I
can't hold it back and it gets me in
trouble a lot. It really does. Like I
should mind my own business, but like I
just I feel like I should set the world
right. Like this is not okay. And I I
hate to stand up for what's right, you
know? So it really bugged me that this
guy just like doesn't want
>> What's your ultimate answer? So I'm
curious.
>> Well, I want to get to the root cause of
tipping and try to figure out why
someone deserves or doesn't deserve a
tip. Why certain industries were
>> He's saying just random social standard.
That's what you gave the psyche of
tipping and why it's okay. Of course you
do because
is it mainstream to tip your delivery
driver? That's what I'm asking. Is it
the norm? Right? Like if you had a room
of 10 people, would eight out of 10
people tip this delivery driver? Could
we all agree that he is outside of what
the mainstream would do?
>> If the man deserves it, you give him a
tip.
>> No, he did his job. He picked up your
food and delivered it timely, normal. He
didn't come in late. That's it. Does he
get a tip?
>> If you can afford it, sure. Assuming you
could afford $3 for all How many people
out of 10 people would have pushed the
button $3 tip?
>> Probably most
>> most, right?
>> Probably most
>> only tipping is only an American thing.
If you go to Europe, most of the time,
especially in restaurants, when you give
a tip, they actually sometimes they look
at you like,
>> do you know that
>> in Japan it's offensive to tip people?
If you give a tip in Japan, it's like,
how dare you? I gave you this service
from my heart and I gave it to you
wholeheartedly and now you think you can
buy me with a tip.
>> Will your friend
>> I'm not trying to buy them. I gave you
money after the fact. That's not
>> Will your friend say thank you to their
housekeeper
after they paid them? Meaning they
worked for me, I paid them. Do I also
have to say thank you? It'
>> be the nice thing to do. Yes.
>> Right. But but I paid them. Like why do
I need to say thank you? And I've I've
had people actually deal with this like
they're like struggling. I paid them
like I don't need to owe I don't owe
them also a thank you.
>> And I I believe you do. And I think the
tip is the tip culture is more a thank
you than giving them something. It's
it's acknowledging their existence and
their humanity. And yeah, the guy slept
out and did his job. But it's a it's a
form of thank you. And it's not like
you're giving a lot of money. You're
giving $2. Now I know why you hang out
with this guy at 2 in the morning. By
the way, kudos to you. And I am going to
from now on when I pay my housekeeper
every week take my time out and say
thank you. I've never done it before and
I think it's a great idea. I don't I
don't ever do it. You pay her. Here's
your We leave it on an envelope. It's on
the counter. She takes it and she goes
stop for two seconds. Say, "Thank you
for working so hard this week and
keeping our house so clean and so shiny
and so nice."
>> Can we take it a step further?
>> Yes.
>> Should we tip our wives for doing the
laundry? [laughter]
>> They did their job.
That's controversial. People, oh, how
dare you say it's her job.
>> I believe they should be acknowledged.
>> I'm a fan. [laughter]
>> But how about how about tipping?
>> Is this going on your podcast? This
conversation is that conversations going
to be dish. But it happens to be that I
I just last week spoke to a restaurant
owner and I said to him, I go to your
place like tell me like what am I
supposed to do? Like I'm there. It's a
fast food. He has a sit-down restaurant
next door. I understand that when you
when you order at a sit down restaurant,
you give a tip. That's obvious.
>> But at a takeout, like what am I
supposed to do? He says, "Don't tip."
But if you Uber and you want to get your
food, I recommend that you tip
>> because it's an advance, but it's also
standard. It's like almost a minute,
right,
>> of like, you know, it's it's the becomes
like a
>> By the way, shout out, you know, shout
out.
>> I was going to say my dad taught me.
Shout out to my dad Aba who taught me
that when you throw a party, you throw
an event, you're spending a lot of money
and you know you're going to tip the
person at the end after the service,
give the person a tip in the beginning.
Whatever minimum you think you're going
to give them, split that in half. Just
[clears throat] give them something.
Here's something I just want you to tell
you. Thank you for being here tonight.
>> Give them a half up front.
>> Something up front. It makes the service
that much better.
>> Romo, it was so nice having you here. I
really appreciate Oh, what do your
friends call you?
>> Schllemi.
>> Schlley.
>> Yeah.
>> Thank you. Can I call you Schlimy? Sure.
>> Okay.
>> You're my friend.
>> Thank you, Schlamy. I appreciate it. And
Rev Schlamy, because I learned something
from you today. Um, I learned what it's
like to live your life a little bit. We
got a little bit of a glimpse, but I
learned also what it's like to be MS, to
be truthful, to be honest, because
that's who you are. You're looking for
truth. It's like almost like every I
feel like that's a common denominator
where everywhere you go, whether you're
in Syria, whether you're in uh Saudi
Arabia, Abu Dhabi, New York City, Texas,
you seem to be to me to be a person
that's searching for always truth and
the realness of what's happening around
you and I appreciate that very much and
I know that everybody's listening also
appreciates it. So on behalf of all of
us, thank you for all the work that
you're doing. Really, it's amazing. It's
beautiful.
>> Thank you. Words and for for having me.
>> I love what you're doing. I love your
brand. I love everything you're about
you and how you're growing so much. Um,
we two questions before you leave is of
course, do you have any questions for
us? And then we're going to finalize our
We're going to finish our podcast with
our famous question of who do you think
would be a good person on the podcast,
but because it's past 1 in the morning.
I don't know if we're going to be able
to call them.
>> I'm I'm sure I have someone I can call.
>> Oh, really? Yeah. I like that. Okay.
What's your question for us?
>> Okay. First question for you. How do you
get such great hair? [laughter]
First of all, please follow me around
more often so you can ask me more of
these questions because uh this is great
for me. I love it. Um I don't know I I
don't know what like good hair. Um I
make sure to comb it in the morning.
>> But that's it. I I don't touch it beyond
that.
>> You have a skinare and I eat a lot of a
lot of pizza. I don't know. I think I
think that might have something to do
[laughter] with it.
>> That's definitely definitely uh going to
help. I think I think in general it's a
good advice for life. Like eat a lot of
pizza. It's good for your health.
>> Love pizza. Any excuse pizza. I mean, I
had pizza tonight.
>> Nice.
>> On Thanksgiving. Can you imagine?
>> Was there turkey on the pizza?
>> No, no, just just just good oldfashioned
cheese pizza.
>> I had I had turkey. I had stuffing. I
had cranberry sauce. Shout out to people
that joined us for dinner.
>> And I probably had uh I would say out of
365 days in a year, I probably eat pizza
250 days a year.
>> Wow.
>> Wow. Yeah. I mean, I don't go a week
ever without not eating at least once or
twice a week pizza.
>> So, one second. Mr. Jewish world needs
more voices. When are we getting a from
Dave Ram uh Dave Porter style pizza? Go
>> to do that.
>> What are you waiting for?
>> Dave Porner does a good job. I don't
need to steal I'm not going to open a
competition to a fellow.
>> I want you showing up to Mendelson's
giving them a 9.9.
>> Yeah. The hala question. Can you say
that their pizza is bad publicly?
>> Oh, I could technically, you know, hurt
somebody's business if I give him a 5.8
on the pizza score. You know, it's not
>> Here's my I have a I have a solution to
that one. I've dealt with this many
times in the past.
>> If I go to a restaurant and I have a
great time, I'll tell people I really
had a great time here and you know,
highly recommend. If I go to a
restaurant and it's no good, I just
won't post about it. So, I'll tell you
where the good places are, but I'm not
going to put anybody down.
>> Interesting. Okay.
>> So, if anybody goes below like a six,
you just
>> don't don't post it. But how many Jewish
grocery pizza stores are there? like
I'll be out of business afterwards.
>> No, you won't. Once you get to Israel.
>> Oh, Israel is a whole story.
Anyway, uh, next question. [laughter]
What is one piece of advice you would
give to
somebody who's in the content content
creation world that you've seen uh,
brings you success in general in
business? That can be applied to the
content world.
I love how I got the how do you have
good hair question and he got the like
the intelligent, you know, give me
advice in the stat
contrast of how you look at the both of
us. By the way, I happen to agree with
you. I am a, you know, a shallow person
by nature and and [laughter] he's he's
certainly much more eloquent than I am.
So, so it makes sense. But it's funny
that you like picked up on this in just
two hours.
>> He's a smart guy.
>> Yeah, I see that.
>> I was also going to ask him where he got
those boots. [laughter]
>> Marshalls, baby. Go ahead, Michael. give
you advice. [laughter]
>> I'm going to say two things. Uh number
one is consistency with whatever it is
that you're doing. That's like, you
know, I heard this from Yakov Langanger
when I first started and I asked him and
uh but I don't know if that's the answer
that you're looking for or or answering
the question that you're asking. And and
that's not the answer I really want to
give you. The real the real answer that
I want to give you is that you and this
is something that I learned after
eliminating social media from my life.
So I'm in a different position than you.
So 5 years ago I used to fall asleep
with uh it was Facebook and LinkedIn on
my nose. Like literally
>> it happens to me. [laughter]
>> It happens to you. You know exactly what
I'm talking about. The beginning of that
journey. So
>> meaning and you're living in that world
and kudos to you for doing this. I'm
telling you I the the amount of strength
that you have. It's amazing. It's really
really amazing. It's inspiring for me
and for many others. Um I I learned how
to control it and not have it control
me.
>> And that's something that it took time.
But of course, because I eliminated
social media, it hap it helped me
tremendously.
>> But is that something you took from your
business life that can translate into
your content life?
>> Um, no. It's something that I learned
from just living life and it's that if
you Okay, so here's what happened. I'm
just going to be vulnerable with you and
tell you uh before the podcast happened
um I knew I wanted to promote it and
therefore I opened status to the world.
It used to be for 17 people which are my
family and closest friends or you know
it jumped up to 30 people and after
years my marketing department is like
maybe you should if we're going to do a
podcast open it to the world and it
would be cool and I'm like oh my gosh
cool anyways I went into this world of
status and I realized that it was
controlling me and what happened was is
every time I would go into a restaurant
or an event or automatically I was like
okay so we're here and it was too much
for me so what I did was and I shifted
and thank God you know the podcast grew
and it allowed me. I had the ability to
do this is that I would experience
something that I'm experiencing and I
would record whatever I want to record,
you know, quietly myself and then
afterwards I would write the story. So I
controlled the environment as opposed to
it controlling me. So I walked into a
restaurant brand new and I took it all
in. I didn't have my camera on. It was
just this is the way I do it now.
Anywhere I go, anything that I'm
experiencing, I saw cats in Manhattan
today and I saw them out there playing
and I was like, "Wow, this is amazing."
And I went to them. I played with the
cats for five minutes. I spoke to the
guy and say, "If you don't mind, I have
the camera. I'm just going to put it
back on. You know, I want to put it on.
I just to record." And he loved it. And
I said, "Let's repeat again. How what
are you doing, man? My cat caught 19
rats today on in New York City streets."
I'm like, "Wow, that's amazing. And this
cat had world record. He's breaking 13
kittens. He just had and he just told it
to me already." But the fact is that the
audience doesn't know he told it to me.
And that's what I think that is helpful
in my life that I hope that it would
help you in some way.
>> Just experiencing things first and then
share it later.
>> Exactly.
>> Nice.
>> Yeah. Yeah.
>> Yeah. We're good. Okay. I have so many
more questions for you, but we're going
to have to wrap it up. My final question
is, who would you recommend to sit in
your seat on this podcast?
>> Let me let me see if I can make a call.
>> Oh, you're not even going to tell us who
it is first?
>> You want me to call the person on here?
I definitely want you. I'd love to hear
>> usually uh people tell us who it is, who
they're calling.
>> You're already ready to call.
>> Well, I like this. The spontaneity.
Yeah, this is great. Yeah, this is even
better. The the thrill of who the you
know this person is that it's going to
it could be anybody.
>> Watch. He's watching.
>> And now we have to get him on.
>> Wy's phone is going to ring. Watch.
[laughter]
>> Is that what's happening? Oh god.
>> Get out of here. Is that true?
>> That's 100% true.
>> He's in the room. I'll just get up from
the chair and you you he can sit down
right now.
>> Yeah. Yeah. Sure. Sure.
>> He's not answering. I don't know why.
You live in Texas.
>> Hello. Oh, long [laughter] time no
speak.
>> Yeah, he's here. I absolutely. You
should totally have money. This is an
incredible man. Um,
>> do you come to New York often?
>> Yeah,
>> I can let you in on a little. He's here
till Monday morning. So, if you guys can
get him tomorrow or Matzah Chaveis or
Sunday night, you have a wedding Sunday
night.
>> Yeah.
>> But if if you're down, get him while
he's here.
>> Wow. Okay. So, tell us a little bit
about him and why you think he would be
a good fit.
He is a powerhouse of outreach.
He has an amazing way of connecting with
people and he is like the big him and
his wife are like the big brother and
big sister to like the whole city of
Houston. It's it doesn't really make
sense but everything going on the city
passes through his house
>> and they're very special people. the
Askin of Texas.
>> I think Askin is like it's almost
derogatory at this point. I know I'm
going to get flagged for saying that,
but like I'm actually agreeing with what
you're saying. No, it's meaning people
look at it maybe as a
>> Askin is like a guy who wants
he has four radios on his belt.
>> A few of the ask for everybody usually
asks are good.
>> This is like moving in silence quietly
doing what needs to be done. special
people.
>> By the way, I accept and I love it and I
appreciate it. I don't think we'll be
able to have it by the Sunday night, but
we'll do it next time you're in town.
But before I let you go, do you have
Jared Kushner in your phone? I'm just
curious because I'm trying to get him.
>> I do not.
>> No.
>> What about the press secretary lady?
What was her name again?
>> I have her in my phone, but I can't
share her [laughter] number.
>> So, you can't call her, right?
>> You have her cell number?
>> Not at this hour.
>> But you have her cell number.
>> I do have her cell number.
>> You think she's a person that would come
on our podcast?
>> I think it's entirely possible. Don't
take us in the wrong way. Highly
unlikely, right? cuz she's I mean she's
not even go like she goes on Lara
Trump's show,
>> right?
>> Very rarely does she do it's a very high
pressure
>> the highest profile person that you know
period
>> in the world.
>> Yeah,
>> that's a great question. Um
first of all, by the way, I I don't I
don't feel like I I know that many super
high-profile people. So the few people
that you know
>> um I would have to think about that
because I don't I'm not sure what kind
of high profile you're like you're
referring to government referring to
>> referring to someone who's making an
impact and the world knows who he is
like a Ben Shapiro
>> he's in my phone
>> is great by the he just did a podcast I
don't like recycling people from podcast
so Mit in a few months from now I'd love
to get him but yeah but someone yeah
someone that's impactful in the world
that's high-profile
was your your OG he was the one you got
kicked out of yes yes for
>> well I didn't get kicked out for him He
got me on Twitter. Yeah.
>> Yeah. So, you know him?
>> I do know him. We traveled to Iraq
together. Uh we went for a week uh to He
wanted to
>> make music.
>> Really?
>> Inspired by Talmud Bavi. So, he wanted
to go to Bavl and And there was no one
else. He didn't trust anyone else to
take him but me.
>> And you did it.
>> Yeah.
>> And it came out.
>> He made a whole album. Yeah.
>> Oh, beautiful. Okay. I don't follow his
music so much, but he I love some of his
songs are my favorite. Mhm.
>> So, um, Hidden and America, you know
what I'm saying? Like, uh, I know that
was done with other people also,
>> but would you like to have a guy like
Schmatzer on a podcast? What do you
think?
>> Uh, sure.
>> Yeah. He's not thinking high profile
like he he wanted a Jared Kushner or a
uh, you know, one of the Trumps.
>> Yeah.
>> Can I share with you one little piece of
advice that I've learned? I don't want
to say the hard way, but from experience
over eight years of interviewing people,
I think the best interviews come from
the place you'd least expect it. Not the
the high-profile people. There's some
superhero like superhero of a human
sitting somewhere that no one knows who
he is and no one will probably ever
know. And if you somehow manage to pick
that person out of the crowd, they'll
probably never agree to come on the
podcast. But there are some really
highprofile souls running around this
world that under the cover of night
nobody.
>> I love uncovering those and we get them
on our podcast by the way.
>> Yeah. Sometimes we realize that you know
we're talking to someone like they're
special.
>> Yeah. And just like out of the blue like
will surprise us with things and it's
amazing. It's amazing. I was just
curious who's in your phone like you
know if you had a if you were in a
situation and you were someone you knew
was getting in trouble who would you be
calling? That's what I was asking.
>> Let's put it this way. I am connected
with people who are connected to people
in really high places.
>> How many calls are you away from Donald
Trump realistically?
>> Um, one.
>> Okay. Okay.
>> And multiple people probably
>> multiple people who I who I could call
who are who have a cell phone number who
could call him. Yeah.
>> Who would be able to actually call him
and get him on the phone and
>> people who work for him?
>> People work for him. All right. Who will
be able to get him within hours? I guess
>> I think uh shorter than within hours
>> within minutes. Unless there was
something massive going on at the time.
Yes.
>> Wow. Okay. I look forward to hearing
your voice more. I look forward to
seeing your face more and uh to seeing
you impact the world and keep growing
with us and we really appreciate you
being here. Thank you to all our
subscribers. Thank you to of course the
Prime Source production team and uh to
all of our listeners. We are growing
Goshi. It's happening whether you like
it or not.
>> I'm not paying attention. I'm just
[laughter] I'm just doing my thing. It
is what it is.
>> Okay. Good. Well, thank God we have
Stefan and Will and the whole team
behind us who does their thing,
responding to every comment and being on
top of it and sharing it with us. All
the love. We really appreciate it. Thank
you everybody. That's a wrap.
>> That's a wrap. Wow. Wow.