From Shame to Joy

he says limits a person is feeling down because of his what we're calling shame his shame about what he likes what he's attracted to yeah right well well like we explained the chapter 3 when we just when I talk about Who I am Who I am means my feelings my emotions what I do are my behaviors but Who I am that means the kind of stuff that I like so he said he's ashamed of that and he's feeling bad about it so we tell them like this not only should you not feel bad you should feel happy why should you feel happy it's very simple there's a mitzvah we mentioned this Mitzvah every time we say SH ma Luisa Soraka laughing laugh I own a tent my shows Tim's a debacle adatom don't go straying after your eyes and after your heart now that's a mitzvah that's one of the 613 commandments specifically it's one of the 365 prohibitions do not go straight after that stuff that you want in order to adhere to that prohibition there has to be stuff that's forbidden they do like so who is that mix for speaking dude speaking to somebody who would otherwise have things that he or she would be doing except for the fact that Hashem doesn't want you to do that so every time you have a desire that is not in keeping with Hashem swell for you you have an opportunity to do a mitzvah that Mitzvah and if you really care so you're here here's the pertinent one if you really care about giving a sham with Hashem wants as opposed to you looking at your spiritual growth as some type of personal fulfillment then what what does it matter to you which means for you do see if you look at his personal fulfillment they sell you the you want to do minsters because you want to grow because you want to be spiritual you want to be holy then yeah I guess it's embarrassing to do the mitzvah of don't go spraying after your eyes in your heart that's an embarrassing Mitzvah I'd rather do more glorious mitzvahs but if it's about giving Hashem when ahem once wash I'm just told me one of the things he wants is that Mitzvah and in fact if I'm exotic I can't give us on that Mitzvah