FORGETTING HaShem - Bitachon B’HaShem (2)

[Music] we're back here in Sunny Isles Florida doing our series we started last week uh Lots happened over the last week uh first of all uh I think the feedback we got on the beton series has been the best feedback that we've gotten on a series launch uh uh probably ever uh even though people like the uh the kot series uh and a few thousand people watched the uh first one uh the feedback as far as what people are saying how it's helping them specifically on their life's problems uh has been actually a uh very uh very interesting very interesting very positive um and uh very rewarding because you see that at the end of the day as much as we can talk about allowed not allowed allowed not allowed it's the day-to-day problems that uh people struggle with uh more so than allowed not allowed and as we discussed last week the uh primary reason why people violate the Torah is because they do not have in they don't have confidence in hasem sometimes it's because they don't have in in a sense that they don't think that Hashem is really watching they think well really Hashem is uh cares about me driving on Shabbat Hashem really cares if I eat one cheeseburger Hashem really cares if I just go with one this this girl here if he cares so much why did he send it to me you know that's the logic of the so that's one aspect of the other as of that uh causes many people to uh to fail miserably is that uh they think they need to help AEM they need to think they think they need to help hem where uh happens very often in business that people that F all you know sakes and purposes look like they havea they dressed the part they looked AP part but you hear worse stories about religious people and what they do in business then you do about non-religious people now as a side note there's really uh a couple of reasons for that that has nothing to do with one reason is the fact that a religious person is expected since he looks and represents as if he's an servant of hem at all times he works for he's expected to follow suit he's expected oh you looked theart that means yeah you may work for uh for Life yeah you may work for Goldman Sachs yeah you work for I don't know Coca-Cola but in reality that's Che your day job your full-time job is so act accordingly so when a person that looks religious acts religious goes to synagogue keeps the holidays build a Suka does something illegal in business or unethical in business the make sure to highlight it much much more in the eyes of the secular people that are looking for an excuse to justify their existing Behavior it's not to say that religious people tend to be a bigger criminals Shalom than uh the non-religious people the the opposite is the is the truth uh there are many many more crimes uh per capita and uh in general by non-religious people than there is by religious people but uh needless to say when a uh religious person uh has a Ponzi scheme or some type of uh taking advantage of the poor and the lowly uh where uh let's say uh countless stories of uh Rich religious landlords that refuse to uh fix their buildings and let the people that live in their buildings live in a place that's no different than a rat hole and when people complain said listen you complain get out but they don't have money to go put a down payment on a new house or on a new apartment or even to get rent anywhere else no one's going to approve them they got into this one by mamash Miracle so they're stuck there and this guy knows it and he refuses to fix the sinks and he refuse to fix the walls and anytime somebody goes into the house they don't want to stay there why there's holes in the walls there's a mold everywhere it's completely disgusting but he feels no that's what you get for for the price don't let yourself think that that's true number one don't let yourself think that that's D because that's not true you're not allowed to let people live like that Jews or non-jews not let let people live in a in a place that even a rat gets sick in not allow but unfortunately this happens why because people feel like they have to help a if he's not going to give me the money that I want then I guess I got to help him so I got to take advantage of uh people that can help themselves so that's one of the reasons why you see sometimes the religious criminals get highlighted much more because the yet wants to make sure that all of the people that are not religious all of the secular people use that as an excuse I see you're not going to be you're going to be religious you're going to be like this this guy you're even nicer than this guy you're not even religious and it justifies it justifies this horrible cycle of continuing to go against people blame God for a person's mistake loves to highlight these things which causes such a crime in heaven called that there is the the says there is no way to CH for it there's no way to fix it until a person dies the sin we have a lot of s lot of opportunities to mess up eating non kosher going with a married woman going with a woman that's not your wife the list is endless but every one of these things including murder have a way to do chuv every one of them except is so big that the says that when there is you don't even have to pay any consideration to the to the honor of a rabbi which in other places in the Tor it says if you do not have for the like for example in last week's one of the reasons says that Hashem killed them is because they didn't have why they said listen Moshe didn't put the he didn't bring theban right now to hasem so uh you know what we think it's the right thing to do it now who asked you who asked you if it's now or later he's the rabbi you don't go do anything without asking permission from the rabbi you have to go to you have to ask him allowed not allowed is allowed or not allowed for me to go to this party allowed not allowed for me to marry this woman allow not allowed for me to marry this man you cannot take a step without asking the rabbi but they decided to take it upon themselves says oh you know what happens to somebody have what I kill him yeah but we were righteous exactly you were righteous until you did this so we see in other places in the Tor that hasem gives so much so much power to the sages to the B T he says that if you desecrate that name it's like you desecrated mine but if you're going to desecrate mine then there's no consideration for their name there's no consideration for their name which also answers the question as to all of those people which there weren't many that either said something or thinking to themselves or how are you exposing this or eim Goldberg all these other that we've done over the last few years with no fear from anybody but God how you exposing these people isn't isn't it isn't it everybody knows all the in the world except what they actually say they know the names of the but they don't actually know what they say oh isn't it isn't it isn't it this one isn't it that one first and foremost you should know is only something that other people don't know if public news already if somebody made something public for example if a woman decided to go to her own son's wedding with a bathing suit publicizing it to the world is not why there are hundreds of people there she publicized it in place with more than three people there's no there's no that's number one number two number two in a place where there's there's no consideration for any Rabbi be or as somebody nicely called them very nice name I like this name so the reality is you have to understand is above everything when a person violates desecrates the name of hasem there's nothing worse than that so when a person does when a when a Jew cheats in business even more so if he's a religious Jew when that gets exposed as the M says someone that desecrates aem's name in B in the hiding behind the scenes nobody knows that he owns that building he owns it under a partnership that owns a partnership that owns a partnership that owns a partnership and nobody really knows who owns any of the partnership so he's doing he only shows up for the for the bill for collecting the checks once a month so no one really knows he pretends like he works for somebody he violates aem's name he lets them lets everybody live in mold inside a sewer but he collects full rent check guess what when hasem punishes them the Mna says he punishes them Beal Faria in front of everybody yeah but that's going to desecrate aem's name no no no it was already desecrating aem's name you just didn't know about it yet desec desecration of hm's name already happened a few people knew a few people said it already happened let's just make it big deal why I want to show you what I can do hasem says so sometimes people violate hashem's name in business and the loves loves to expose this to the world because he wants to give all of the non-religious people an excuse to continue wasting their time living a purposeless life and thinking that they have an excuse when they get up to shamine they have a negotiation tactic say listen Hashem yeah I wanted to be religious but then I saw my Rabbi uh go out with some girl that wasn't religious and he was married like these two guys that I overheard speaking in the Supermarket on Friday was a one guy says to the other guy hey how are you hey how are you you're shopping what are you GNA do you hear stuff my headphones weren't working to listen to sh apparently I had to hear this so guy says listen I heard you have a girlfriend yeah yeah I have a girlfriend no I she's not Jewish though right no no I got her she's from Colorado really nice girl I took her to the cotel you should see it three 400 people she goes yeah but she's not Jewish goes yeah yeah goes convert her why don't you have a convert he go what convert we took her to some Rabbi then we found out the rabbi was sleeping with some girl I'm GNA take her to the rabbi in a generation of such lowly people that pretend to be rabbis but then they take advantage of people like this look what happened this guy may lose hisa because of this stupid Rabbi calls himself a rabbi we expose this why because we want to tell you and anyone that's watching today or whenever this is not the face of Judaism this is not D this is not the Torah this has nothing to do with hem it has to do with has to do with evil people they pretend to represent theem but they don't some people wear a costume once a year the Jews they wear the if they celebrate their Christian falsehood they celebrate full of so they wear a costume once a year wears a costume once a year but then there are some people their whole life is one big custom their whole life is one big custom so anytime you see somebody that looks like they're they look like they're a servant of hem they look like a Jew that has a keeper and a beard and everything else but they do something doesn't look right it's illegal it's unethical it's disgusting it's everything in between just remember what I said here this is a custom this a custom that's it don't connect it to a and do not use it as a case for yourself like as if you're GNA go up to Sham and say noem I wanted to get religious but then I heard about this guy that's not going to help you that's just a test you know sometimes you go to a place where somebody's going to talk in a microphone that testing testing one two three that's it testing one two three hem is just testing your can you hear me testing testing one two three can you hear me talking I'm showing you this are you going to say this is me or you going to look at the good people and say this is me which one testing testing your is your receptive to good or only to bad are you looking for excuses or you looking for good you're looking for the truth if you're looking for excuses testing one two3 check okay that's you you were looking you got it if you were looking for good testing no no sound no sound no sound I need the truth oh okay there sh and Sunny Isles every Sunday night at 9 o' yeah but I'm in uh Jamaica okay so you listen on the internet oh okay says someone that comes to be uh look to be purified get closer to says I'll give you a hand I'll send you the internet I'll give you an in a generation where there's so many lowly people and you could still get the truth even if you're in the middle of nowhere today I got an email I got a message from some some guy young guy young man probably in his picture doesn't look more than 253 years old a beautiful says he's done now he's at the point he's doing from all the sh we've done he's doing K himself where is he doing K you think oh he's doing K maybe in uh North Florida he's doing in New York he's doing CU in uh I don't know some other place in America no English speaking no he's doing kiru from the shim we have where in Russia in Russia he's doing k watching that you guys are over here watching the so you see he came to become purified sent him the sh all the way to his house but he comes not from a house that says no no we we um we didn't keep MIT like many of us we didn't keep mitvah so as soon as we heard something good we got in no he comes from house where his father became a Christian he came from the Tom of the Tom it's much worse for a Jew to that becomes a a Christian than a gentile that becomes a Christian much more difficult why because the Christian if you show him the truth you can get him out the Jew you can showu he may not get out you can show the whole thing you bring him back to Mount saai he I get out why sometimes the t is so strong nothing's going to help so a boy like this got himself out amazing to me it's amazing it's important to know that if you see people cheating lying and doing all types of sleazy things do not blame God do not blame the Torah has nothing to do with it if you want to test it you want to test whether these people know anything or not you want to test these people whether they really or not next time you see him say listen Rabbi do me a favor I really need some uh I need to give a nice K about this week's par for my family can you give me one on the spot why if if he's a rabbi he should have a at all times on his sleeve oh you learned to you learned to for a million years you should have something give me K about this week's par nine out of 10 times I bet you doesn't even know what parai it is say what parai is it well you don't know you're a rabbi yeah you know uh yeah I know I was going to tell you what Rashi said the first page no no tell me something about the end of the parasha not the first page tell me something about the end they're not going to know why because they're not learning to just looked theart it's not a matter of being a speaker no speaker it's a matter of do you know anything do you follow what you look like important to know so many people fail miserably in this regards when it comes to because they do not have they do not think that Hashem is watching them they do not think that is providing so they think they need to cheat the system they need to feel they need to build a Ponzi scheme like some religious people have unfortunately even in Lakewood there was a Ponzi scheme some years ago a few years ago there was a Ponzi scheme inside Lakewood Lakewood the most religious community in America has a had a Ponzi scheme inside it showing that unfortunately the is everywhere everywhere everywhere so a big reason for this is because we do not have we don't think that hm can provide us what we need and even what we want so we decide to help him but the reality is I learned from my R is that hasem helps you as much as you believe in him you believe in him 100% he's going to help you 100% you believe in him 50% he's going to help you 50% how do you show you believe in hasem 100% you go learn T 100% of your time you go learn T 100% of the time yeah but I'm going to make money hey you said you believe in hm 100% yeah but I get worried oh that means you don't believe 100% you believe less than 100% let's call it 50 let's call it 60 it's called something else it's not 100% so whatever percentage you don't believe in Hashem that's how much you have to work there was a article in uh I didn't read the whole article I just read the first couple of paragraphs so I don't know what the end is but the topic of discussion was in mishak magazine about whether the B or need to go work or when should they go to work and really I hope that by the end of the article the rabbi got to the same conclusion because that would be actually that's what says the between and shim that working 100% working is meant for some people part work part learning other people oh 100% learning some people that learned 100% failed and went uh started working some people started learning 100% and stayed learning 100% what does it have to do with has to do with who this person is what kind of he has and so on and so forth the point is is that when people ask what do you do you work for how you work for Depends you could even be working for while you work for UPS while you work for Coca-Cola while you work for uh the ISA while you work for anything it all depends on how you do your work that's why the Shabbat page 32A says there are a few questions that going to be asked to a person as soon as he gets to Sham the first question first question they're gonna ask him first one is did you conduct your business witha meaning did you conduct your business with an understanding that a is here watching you when all the time time so before you decided to keep the extra change that the customer didn't notice that he gave you did you realize it did you give him the change back or you decided to pocket it because you figured ah if he didn't realize it that means he has plenty if he didn't realize it I didn't realize it did you understand that aad is watching when you decided to cheat the government and write that you're like half homeless even though you have plenty of money to to to survive you're half homeless because you want to get all these benefits that are at least 15 to $25,000 a year and you applied I'm half homeless with a half an arm and half an eye because I want to get a bunch of stuff for free oh so you didn't realize that watches this too you're not you're not allowed to lie you didn't realize that okay question number one failed so when a person has it's not oh I believe that hm is going to help me get to work on time yes that that of course too but that's not thear thear is how do you conduct yourself even at your day job and this type of understanding can help a person arrive at a where he could literally become the mosu of the generation without a question why because had no suff had no doubt that was going to bring the Salvation he just didn't know how how you going to bring it AEM how you going to bring the salvation for he was interested show me show me show me show me your your your your honor what do you mean your honor show me how you do what you do show me how you do it what are you going to do what's the end what does the end look like it's like you're not going to understand anyway Moshe why you still here you're not going to understand it's going to look terrible to you show me show me something he shows him RAB AKA sees RAB AKA W radik 40 years old didn't know Al at 120 80 years later biggest Rabbi in the world has ever seen so you think wow this guy he must he may go to walking walking put his clothes on like what does he see the Romans the evil Romans ad take Raba and peel his skin off layer by layer and after he dies they go take all this skin all this meat and sell it in a supermarket starts crying hysterical this is T this is this is the Torah and this is its reward Hashem says shut up quiet why I told you you're not going to understand I told you you're not going to understand you're still here even mosu in his in his level didn't understand so you know that Moshe was not like us as much as we would like to think we're all little mos in reality we weren't why because the Torah says that a Jew is called Adam Adam and mosenu wasn't really considered Adam he wasn't wasn't like us why wasn't like us because when they said who's the wisest man that ever lived who no who wants to raise a hand wake up right okay so King Solomon is what I thought also for a long time until I read this it says over here it says in page 21b says the following says that had a debate they said there were 50 Gates of understanding were created in the world these Gates of understanding are the reasoning the real reasoning behind each one of the laws of the Torah the real sword that none of us know even one so 50 of them were created and everything was given to mosenu except one except one as it says in a [Music] um Psalm uh uh 8 verse number six but you have made him only slightly wanting in understanding in understanding Divinity meaning that you made him missing only one aspect of understanding everything that you created which is another name for sought to find the words of delight meaning also one of the likeu a Heavenly voice came forth and said to him words of truth are recorded properly as it says never again has there risen as it says in a in a Tora in Deuteronomy chapter 34:10 never again has there Arisen from among the Jewish people a prophet like Moshe so they say he didn't get it he didn't get it but then they uh they say wait a minute hold on a second but doesn't it say in Kings 1ter 5:1 that that was a wiser than all men yesu was half halfam half sh that's the level he got to half half sh he got to a level where his body stayed here his went up there when he was in in in uh in Mount sa that's why he says to all of I didn't eat or I didn't drink or I didn't do anything for 40 days what man can do that obviously something changed the nature of mosu changed so in reality the wisest that ever lived that walked among us wasu but the wisest among men was why because was the only one that we compare to us as a Manu something different something different so sometimes you show a person beautiful things like this show them all types of wonderful things and they still don't get it he say wait a minute if you have this level of like figure out you probably realize it right you probably say listen guys don't talk to me that way you relax when you talk to me you have a little bit of a chip on your shoulder but Hashem says no one that ever lived was as humble as mhe what does that mean when mosenu saw somebody with Sarat you know what Sarat is is a physical and a spiritual disease physical and spiritual spiritual where the person is in pain constantly physical where body parts are falling off one day he walks by time he got to the store three fingers fell off by the time he got back the all hand is off give him a week he may not survive one piece at a time whenu saw the B someone had he says he's better than me he's better than me oh he's doing right now that's why he's better than meu he's better than me so we see this is what we had among us this is the level of K we had Among Us you say look this is somebody want to look up to not this no JC peny that looked at girls they compared the to a so when you show a person this type of in our T normal people say wow you know it's very impressive let me find out more but sometimes a person is so full of T so full of sins and impurity that even after you show him the highest level of kadus it doesn't work so what works for such people usually the only thing that's left if it's not too late if it's not gotten to the point where desires to kill them then the only thing that works is if hashem's hand is involved where Hashem hits them where they realize that they're literally absolutely nothing after hasem hits them and their money is gone and their health is gone and their Fame is gone and so on and so forth all the things they held up as valuable are gone but sometimes it's too late let's all pray that it's not too late for us let's all pray that's it's not too late for anybody that's part of our nation that's what we need to pray for but all of this starts with a something that seems like a small meaningless harmless minor imperfection called lack of where a person doesn't have he thinks why it's not a big deal so I so I cheated here I cheated there every cheater started somewhere so that's why the bet that we're reading in this series is a for all of us because this is one of those things where you could learn about it from here till the end of the world and hope hope that you have enough so in bet which I gave all of you a I'm hoping you have it with you if you don't you just have to listen we finished the first part talking about if you're afraid of something when you don't have to be that fear can cause the thing that you're afraid of to happen and he gave us many proofs from the Torah from from uh Isaiah from Jeremiah from Deuteronomy across the Tor within the first few paragraphs of how there's proofs in the Tor where a person person that does not have not only doesn't have confidence in Hashem but actually is worried excessively worried about something the punishment for it because you're worried it's a it's a sin and the punishment for that sin mid measure for measure is what Hashem makes that happen Hashem makes that happen hey there's another one in my bag if you want to grab it the first little pocket over there so first and foremost we see here that it's very dangerous to worry now it's natural to worry but that's why as the as the chosen people hm gave us a Tor the Torah is an instruction set of how not to worry and in reality if all of us take a few moments to talk to every day or every week or once in a while and you do a review of all the things you're worried about write them down after a while look at the records of the things that you wrote that you worried about look at it six months later a year later two years later five years later I'm willing to bet my everything you worried about was complete nonsense why hasm took care of it not because you were worried about it he didn't take care of it because he worried about it but because there was no need to worry there's no need to worry hasem was taking care of it anyway worrying may have made it delay if perhaps not even happened but in reality Hashem takes care of everything fear of man comes from Forgetting AEM it's what the Shalom says to us fear of man comes from Forgetting hasem as the navi the prophet yesah which is Isaiah says in chapter 51 verse number 12 says who are you who fears for man who will die from son of man who like grass will be cut down you've forgotten the shame hasem who made you and you are constantly in fear if a person would bear in mind that everything that exists on this earth is made by hasem he would not be afraid no person has the ability to change hashem's decrees no one could add to them or detract from them even the width of a pinpoint no one can make aem's decrees occur earlier or later even by one second the is telling us something very critical when it comes to when it comes to when it comes to just simply serving there's nothing else but him who's him this is something that you seen a lot of have it on the walls they have it on the sometimes they have it in on the doors they have it everywhere it's a constant steam it's a verse in the Torah which means there's nothing else but him in essence trying to imply to all the attendees the members of the synagogue you see that imprinted into your heart because if you imprinted that there's nothing but a you would never be afraid again why because the vast majority of our fears are fears of people we're much more afraid of people than we are of we're afraid people are going to fire us we're afraid people are not going to pay us we're afraid people are going to steal our business steal our customers we're afraid people are not going to marry us we're afraid people are not going to like us we're afraid of people everywhere so we do a lot of stupid things because of it a lot of women that are immodest are not immodest because they're rash they become rash due to their immodesty according to hm's laws but they're not IM because they want to be she's not wearing a three foot long wig because she wants to go against she's now wearing a minis skirt that practically is useless to cover anything because she wants to go against the no she's a she a good why is she modest because she's afraid that if she's not even modest she's not going to fit in and people are going to look at it's like oh wait you're wearing a dress all the way to the heels what are you from uh the years of anus what are you uh the imam's wife what are you uh Isis what's the matter with you why you look like that look like the rest of us we emulate the green you emulate the green no she does it not because she believes it she does it because she's afraid she's afraid of what people think of her instead of worrying about the she's worried about the instead of worrying about hashem's Glory she's worried about the neighbor so happens sound similar and spelled very similar in Hebrew and Shalom used to say this all the time why are you so worried about the neighbor and not the why you think the neighbor is going to help you in you think the neighbor is going to go up to the Sham and says no no noem I told her to wear the skirt if she didn't wear that skirt I would have made fun of her you think that's going to help her no she's going to get punished also nothing's going to help you but a lot of women make this mistake because she's afraid that people are going to make fun of her her girlfriends her friendenemies sometimes even her teachers our employer is g to fire her if she covers her hair like a Jew is supposed to cover her hair with a MIT or hat so she wears a wig or she wears a wig to our son's wedding even though she wears a MIT the whole year but to the event she wears a wig why because that's the event it's a show and tell wait a minute Show and Tell I thought it's your son's Bar Mitzvah I thought it's your son's wedding what show and tell it's a it's a day of kvah means your son just became responsible for his mitv why are you sinning in honor of him accepting mitv how does that make any sense your son is now getting married your daughter is getting married hashem's present is to bring himself into the wedding the comes to the wedding and absolves him in the kala of all sins why are you making the first sin why are you ruining this wedding you know that if you're IM modest and you do IM modest things guess what happens AEM leaves the wedding why hem doesn't go to a place of of immodesty so instead of your son being clean slated of all the garbage that he did for the first 20 25 years guess what as a mom you give him a nice present what a wedding thank instead of getting a present from of absolving him of all the sins what happens left why because you want to be modest yeah but everyone's going to make fun of me let them make fun of you until uh we see who's right but she's afraid she's afraid of all of her neighbors and all the people that attend a wedding and she makes silly decisions I have a uh woman that sent me a letter she sent to her boss she works for a Jewish company and uh the Jewish company happens to be a Jewish school and she saw a few of our shim and she took off the wig threw it in the garbage and put them she came to school the Jewish school with a the principal of the school calls her to the the office says listen I have no idea what got into you but if you don't take that thing off and start putting a wig go like everybody else we firing you this woman she's married to aik she aik herself she wrote him a letter you fire me go ahead I'll sue you but I'm not putting on a wig ohm didn't fire why hasem runs the world had she passed the test even when the called Rabbi of the School threatened to fire her let him fire her not Hashem fire her so many women that unfortunately violate the sin of immodesty are afraid of other people sometimes they're afraid that if they don't walk around half naked or at least look like they're naked because their clothes are so tight you can't tell whether that she's naked or she's actually wearing clothes because she's afraid that if she doesn't look that way she won't find a she'll stay uh she'll stay single forever well she found a all the find all the they find I never heard of one woman that's SM she didn't find a may not happen when you wanted it but it happened in the end why hasem takes care of his people so what's really missing the is not missing the is missing the that is going to pay the righteous what they deserve the that pays his employees well if you are having tough time that's because you don't have which means that even if you're doing the right thing but you're struggling with it like I get at least a half a dozen messages a week from different women around the world tell me listen I'm doing everything you're saying I'm modest I have a I have this I'm doing everything but I still don't have this I still don't have that what does that mean the answer is very simple it means you're doing everything right but you don't have any when you're doing it you're struggling meaning that you really have a doubt in what you're doing and Hashem is not going to pay you while you have a doubt in what you're doing where do we know this from got to yam got to yam what happened hashm didn't split the ocean he didn't split the ocean nothing happened they all started crying some said okay let's commit suicide the other one says let's go to war commit suicide at least we die fighting screams to says what are you screaming to me for move forward what move forward show me your show me you believe in me don't tell me you believe in me show me something and only until went into the ocean and showed believes in Hashem that Hashem actually split the ocean meaning Hashem requires us to do what he says but do it with 100% confidence not every time you're putting on the skirt or you're putting on this or you're putting on like a this again and you still have the mini skirts from the old times in your closet still looking as like maybe one day I'll get back to you you're one foot in one foot out you know like you just started dating the guy but he still has his ex-girlfriend's phone number in his phone that's what Hashem feels like with you he feels like you're we're we're getting together but you still have your boyfriend's phone number in your phone you still have the mini skirt and the high heels in your in your closet why if you really have in what you're doing and you want to really connect to why do you still have all that garbage why do you still have inside your house there's aah we have foring destroy amik years ago my wife tells me he says honey I'm going to destroy everything I have I said honey this cost a lot of money she says perfect says why she said I'm destroying am she says that's my amalik I'm not wearing it but I thought to myself I didn't even know she kept it but she says I'm not wearing it I'm never going to wear it but I always thought I look at it and I say oh you know this heel thousand heels maybe one day I'll wear it this uh suit this this this that it's nice it's nice stuff first of all it's really expensive second of all it's like it was nice stuff in the old days nice stuff to go to gandom with but nice stuff and you have it in a CL you have a whole closet of clothes you don't wear and a whole closet of stuff that you're starting to wear but you keep it why because it's nice stuff she tells me H this is amalik for me I'm fulfilling the mitvah of destroying amalik I can tell you after she destroyed amalik many miracles happen happened why that's what hasem wants us he doesn't just want you to fulfill the mitvah put some modest clothes on he wants you to walk around proudly as a is I am proud to look modest I'm proud to be modest not by showing your picture of your modest clothes on the internet that's not proud that's not Pride that's ego to two different things proud means for yourself for your husband for your future husband between you and a not all of these women that take a picture of themselves 17 times a day and put it on the internet because even if you're wearing mod cloes it's not modest to put your pictures on the internet so if you're going to do it do it right the same thing goes for B sometimes they do certain mitv and they're not full with it they give a little bit of and said listen I'm giving this m but business is tough I think I'm going to slow down on this oh that means that the whole time it wasn't really myale it was a loan why you are lending money to the kiru organization to the rabbi to some T in return that you thought that hm is going to give you money back that's why you did it you did it for the you did it for the reward he going to give 10% so you get a lot more money back because it says you're going to get a lot of money back but it doesn't say when you are doing it because you thought that the when is now since it's not now ah this is not now the m is not now that is not a Mitzvah that's a mistake you're treating AEM like a business person he's not a person and he doesn't do business like this you want to do a mitvah do it 100% don't give the kind tell the rabbi listen do me a favor Rabbi put my name on the door I donated 10,000 last month my name should be at least at the door but if you want the other 90,000 I want the name on the forehead your forehead every lecture they see Steve Smith on your forehead advertising Steve smith.com I remember in the old days we saw box in wasted our time because we didn't have to and there was new boxers new boxers they uh they came up with a new gig of how to make money because the uh the organization didn't pay them much money to fight because there were nobody so what did these boxers do they drew different companies they got different companies to pay the money to draw the name of the company on their body and they had like uh they draw with paint on their body this company is advertising meaning the guy's fighting but he's advertising for some pet company or some car company sometimes this is what people think that AEM is they think he's a marketing company that wants to uh he wants you to put your name on his forehead no a mitvah is something you do that's between you and a if you're GNA advertise the mitvah without in essence trying to entice other people to do the same thing all you doing is losing the of the Mitzvah the only time you're allowed to publicize a Mitzvah that you did is if you're trying to encourage other people to follow meaning if you give a donation you're saying guys listen I just donated $1,000 to get you do it too I did it for a thousand you do it for something also everybody could do something like some of that on Facebook do every sh same handful of people say listen donate donate please donate the rabbi needs it not for himself but for kiru that's a Mitzvah why they donate but how much are they going to get for 20 $50 $100 $200 in in donation how much they're going to get they're going to get some but they're going to get a lot more if one person listens to them and says you said donate you know what I'm going to donate but did you donate oh you donated too you donate 200 okay I'll donate 20 you donate 200 I'll donate 200 a person that makes another person fulfill a mitv is even bigger he gets a bigger for that than his own mitvah so if we're going to do mitv at least let's try doing them right do it 100% learn for the sake of learning do for the sake of doing be modest for the sake of modesty and you'll see the reward anyway promise you but you'll start seeing the reward much faster that way why because just having that level of alone is a reward W the BET continues and he says the following this is what theim say in the Book of Job seph chapter 23:13 he is one the only Power and who can prevent his decrees as TM says another source 1186 Hashem is with me I shall not fear what men will do to me and a again 34:29 when he makes quiet peaceful who can disturb in essence he's giving you no less than a handful of proofs of why you should never ever be afraid of any human being on Earth why because Hashem is the only one that runs the show if you truly believe that runs the world you're never going to be worried about losing your job losing your reputation losing this losing that not getting something if you have a business and the worst company on Earth opens a competitive business with right next door to you for example a lot of mom and pop shops I used to do a lot of business with entrepreneurs the biggest nightmare for an entrepreneur is if Walmart opens next door why because Walmart is in so many businesses that it destroys everything around them and you cannot compete with their business you can't maybe today it's a little easier because of the internet but not as much you still can't compete if they sell it look for a new product look for a new product why they control the prices so you'll see that anywhere around the country that there is a Walmart there's very very few small businesses and anywhere that there's no Walmart there's a lot of small businesses that's why until this day they refused to allow Walmart to enter New York that's why New York is comprised of countless small businesses because they know that if Walmart comes in half those small businesses go out of business so a lot of these people group together to make sure that Walmart doesn't come in not close not even nearby but a person that has who is not worried not about Walmart and not about anybody why because he knows that nobody nobody can steal your lunch without signing off on it meaning that if it wasn't him stealing your lunch it would have been something else if it wasn't him taking it something else would have taken it the decree was already passed in sh he just made that make it work so when a person understands that a kados who is the one that's running the show the one that's allowing everything to happen he's never worried about somebody taking their job somebody taking their somebody taking their customer no no no this is a maneuvering the world to fulfill his already pre-existing decrees if you lost it it's not because of him Hashem just used him if you gained it it's not because you gained it because of him you gained it because he decreed it you didn't make it to the meeting because the traffic suddenly uh freed up no you made it to the meeting because decided for you to make it to the meeting you didn't get the client because your new pamplets are much greater and much better and your new pitch is much clearer and much uh you know more enticing no you got the new customer because decided for you to get the new customer you having a new pitch and a new pamphlet and a new video is in essence your your effort to make a fulfill his will but it's not because of you and it's not because of him it's only because of if we understand this and engrave this into our heart we'll never have a single worry in our life because you're really going to live the and there's nothing else but him even when a person is being persecuted by a wicked Tyrant he should know that all is coming from hem somebody's torturing you Mal is calling you and hounding you and threatening you and telling you that he's going to do this and he's going to do that and he's doing it to different people in different ways and different messages guess what hasem signed off on this hasem signed off on this meaning you are supposed to get a certain amount of you were supposed to get a certain amount of suffering there's a let's call it 100 pounds of suffering that you are supposed to get you supposed to get it Hashem is going to decide how to give it to you he may give it to you with pain he may give it to you with he may give it to you with uh something else no money he may give it to you with different things he may like you extra give you both but the point is is hasem is doing it it's not him it's not M it's not e Goldberg it's not the local rabbis it's not the competition in business it's not the ex-friend boyfriend girlfriend nothing it's not even the dog that bit you it's a he's the one if we understand it already we can be like when shim cursed DAV in front of all of his students now imagine if your wife your wife or your husband insults you but it's one-on-one it's not nice it's not comforting you don't really want to talk to them again but you're eventually going to talk to them because at the end of all you're married but they insult you it's like okay fine it's over 5 minutes 10 minutes an hour it's over finished we love you I love you I'm sorry I'm sorry finished but if she came to your job and you work in one of these companies where on each floor there's I don't know three four 500 people his Steve you Every curse in the book that was ever written from the beginning of the world to the end of the world curses you never even knew existed sh cursed what's he called them every curse in a book meaning he goes to a womanizer your parents by the way it's not really your parents why your mom cheated on your on on your father and you are really somebody else's child that's M you are a violator of everything in the Tor T you're an impure person that alone is terrible if it's one-on-one you're probably going to kill the guy guess if it's in front of all of your students all the people say kados kados kados every time you walk all the people that love you all the people that admire you they see somebody giving you Every curse in the book how embarrassing is this me I start taking a shovel [Music] and serving I'm buing myself why this guy's buried me with all of his curses I'm burying myself right now I want to go inside the ground the guy cursed me like this in front of all my students what does say when a soldier comes to there says for the why you let this dog talk to you like this let me just take my sword and just chop this dog's head off says no why he didn't curse meem cursed me he didn't curse me hasem cursed me meaning the curses came out of his mouth but they would have never left the lips if a didn't sign off on it mean if he left his mouth and reached here in front of everybody Hashem knows for sure I deserve it I only have to dobon on why I only have to dobon on why I deserve it not why he did it why he did decided why he decided to choose him he has to do on that he has do whym used him to make such a big why is he make such a big sin he has to do with serious problems he has I have serious problems because I got it I have to find out why let this happen the says when saw this he says now you get the point now you get the point and you deserve to be the fourth pillar of the why you get the point of creation that's the point of creation there's nothing else but him you can be just like David if you simply get to such a level where you realize everything The Good the Bad and the Ugly it's all and I can promise you that if you're going to start doing it hashem's going to start seeing how serious you are going to give you tests and more tests and more tests and if you pray to him you'll pass those tests maybe not the first time maybe not even the second or third time but you will pass those tests but you have to Aspire to do it who doesn't want to walk into ganeden feeling like you know what I got to the level of DAV maybe not in Tor maybe I'm not mashia maybe not this and that but in this thing I know Hashem created the world and he ran everything from day one including my life who doesn't want to show up to like this you can do it why it's in the Torah if it's in the Torah that means you could do it that means you can do it the Tyrant is only a staff in the hands of hem with which he punishes the guilty as the prophet Isaiah says chapter 10 verse number five woe to Assyria the staff of my WRA meaning the prophet Isaiah is saying Lord Assyria this is the staff the staff of what staff to hit the prophet is saying ayria woe to them why woe to them because Hashem decided to use them to hit his children woe to Assyria that on one hand they're hitting hashem's children so woe to the children that they're suffering but also woe to to Assyria that Hashem chose them to be the ones that hit his children why CU of course he's going to hit them at the end also you are chosen to be the staff to punish one of my children because you are rash so that was your punishment you wanted to hit them so I allowed you why because now I have a reason to punish you before when you just thought about doing sins I didn't have the right to punish you now that I allowed you to do the sin and you did it now I have right to punish you and destroy you from the face of the Earth and that's why they do not exist anybody went to Assyria anytime soon there's no more Assyria why because they were the staff that hid his children further it says will the axe be arrogant Over The Woodsman who uses it the axe meaning being Assyria in the hands of hem The Woodsman who's wielding it if so if a man only seeks methods of escaping and pleading with his oppressors but neglects the asks of hem to save him he is like a man who is being flogged and addresses his pleadings to the wooden stick this is no greater there's no G greater foolishness than that what is this equivalent to this is equivalent to the foolishness of a dog dogs are smart in a few things but they're really stupid in some but they're dogs so you can't really say a stupid dog that's how he was created you hit the dog what does he do he doesn't H he doesn't bite the the the person that's hitting him why does he try to bite he bites the stick he blames the stick for hitting him he doesn't blame the person holding the stick when a person blames another person that caused them harm oh I can't believe she did this to me I can't believe he did this to me I can't believe they did this to me the prophet Isaiah says you're no smarter than a dog why the dog is biting the stick because he thinks the stick hit him he should be biting the person holding the stick the person that you're complaining about he's not the one that hits you hits you you want to complain complain to Hashem say Hashem why you hitting me oh wait a minute you have some rules probably right oh did I follow all your rules let's see what kind of rules you have you start looking at the rule book you start looking at Shabbat your Shabbat is eh your schom is eh your business eh everything is 50/50 you know what if I was you I would hit me more why once you really see what you're doing versus what the instruction say you understand why he's hitting you but if you're going to start blaming and pointing finger at the journalists at the children in the yard at the uh Neighbors at the local Rabbi at the local is that all these different things you're missing the point to such an extent that the prophet the Nai the na'vi is calling you a dog imagine you go up to Sham say oh hey come hey doggy doggy come why like that's what your whole life was your whole life you were like a little doggy you always blamed everybody else for your problems why don't you ever look in the mirror and look at the reflection and then talk to okay you have problems no problem everybody has problems that's what you're alive if you don't have problems that means you're already in problems everybody has why don't you look in the mirror and see oh the problems are the fault of the person I see in the mirror oh it's me okay so who tell me why I have these problems why I have pain why I have suffering why lost this why lost that talk to don't talk to all those people if I had them Merit I'd have this and this since I don't I don't have this in this as the PUK says the prophet Isaiah again he uses Aram from the East and a Philistine from the West they were consuming Israel on all sides and the nation did not repent to the one who smote them they did not seek AEM meaning that even am is as a nation they got a attacked from the Philistines they got attacked from am from Aram but it doesn't say oh they didn't fight back what do they say they didn't do chuva why because the chuva is not has nothing to do with war has nothing to do with the Iron Dome that you have and the uh the weapons and the planes it has nothing to do with the money you have where you don't have the defending for war is Chua you want to win the war you have to do Chua so that's what Isaiah says you are worrying about what weapons and what kind of technology and what kind of satellites the Philistines have you're worrying about what kind of bombs and what kind of soldiers and what kind of Tanks the the the uh the Russians have the Aram has this one has you're worrying about that stuff instead you should be worrying about doing chuva why because the one that controls all of those weapons is not the russan and the uh other terrorists that are out there the uh Cubans and the uh Iranians and all no it has nothing to do with them Hashem is just using them to get your attention and you're still not getting the point you're acting like a dog the supplications to the stick did not help the same is true regarding one's livelihood one's toil and effort will not help at all to increase that which is decreed for him as it says in the book of Exodus chapter 16 verse 18 those who gathered more Mana did not increase their amount and those who gathered less did not decrease their amount all ended up with the same om measure the Mana was a model for all generations that our efforts won't help at all to increase our portion to more than Hashem has a lot of for us no matter how much you work whether you work 9 to 5 or you work from 9 to 99 or you just never stop working the amount of money you're going to get will remain the same what does that same mean whatever decided that you're going to make yeah but I had a project that I really need to meet a deadline okay nobody says don't meet the deadline but no one said that you're supposed to sell your soul to meet a deadline this is so critical because when it comes to money this is where people sell AEM for nothing they sell him like the brothers of YF so sold YF for shoes they sold YF what was the biggest case against the brothers of ysf the case against them was because they sold YF for a price that was value of a pair of shoes even if you sold them as a human being you'd get more money meaning you had such disrespect for him as a human being as a brother as a righteous person as anything that you completely desecrated even the Creator with this sin we unfortunately do that a lot why we sell AEM for nothing somebody tells us something instead of asking the rabbi what should I do what shouldn't I do where should I go it's like you know what what you're saying sounds right just follow right away somebody gives you advice ah it sounds right I'm gonna do it I'm gonna do it right away change but Rabbi tells you listen by the way you're supposed to keep Shabbat supposed to do this supposed to it says in the T ah I'm not so much not so sure not so sure why not so sure when that guy doesn't know what his left from his right he said something you listened right away when the rabbi that studied for 20 years told you this what it says for 3,000 years I'm not so sure how come how come we go to different types of seminars and some slick speaking guy or woman gives you some Pitch of why you should do this this and that you're like you know what I'm gonna do everything they say I'm gonna follow the program to the tea he buys the CDs he buys the books he comes home with like a little kid first day of school 75 books honey what is all this stuff will you going back to school no no I just went to seminar what happened to seminar they sold you a house almost almost that's the only thing I was missing I bought everything else except the house he buys his CDs he buys everything and nine out of 10 times by the way all that stuff goes in the closet he never reads anything because doesn't have to buy anything doesn't have to about anything just do what the shield says just do it the sh say for free not even asking for donations ah he's on to something I'm not really sure I don't know if he knows what he's talking about well but he mentioned verses but he mentioned sources but he mentioned Al yeah I don't know you know the 70 faces in the Tor all of a sudden he became AES became Rashi ah you know maybe he says this maybe he says that yeah but at least if you can say maybe maybe bring something bring a source that justifies your maybe why is it so easy to dismiss the one that has experience and not dismiss the one that doesn't this is the at his best now in last week's Paras we have a secret of one of the primary reasons of why we tend to not want to listen to the rabbi we tend to not want to listen to the Torah in chapter 10 in The Book of Leviticus VRA first verse one of the biggest one of the biggest tragedies that ever happened to happened here to to Giants thatu understood to be bigger than him and Aon were killed by doing something that we innocently would view as they serving says here the sons of Aon each took his fire pan they put fire in them and placed incense upon it and they brought before Hashem an alien fire that he did not command them a fire came forth from before Hashem and consumed them and they died before hasem page 52a says that killed him in such a way that their bodies and their clothing stay in fact as if nothing happened because the Heavenly Fire entered their nose and burn their burn the on the spot meaning they all just fell down like that they look like dolls like you didn't see any like blood anywhere broken something broken neck nothing just of you here of you laying down as if they're sleeping but they're dead burned the for what debate different reasons of why killed them some say is because that they came with a foreign fire like it says here what doesn't mean a foreign fire like we said before they came with a fire because they saw that mosu didn't bring theban so they took it upon themselves say m didn't do it ah he must have forgot he must have forgot to bring the Corban we have such a happy event happening right now all theim are becoming we have big K big celebration so Moshe is so busy he forgot so we'll do it the rabbi for got to come for the shoe he's already 15 minutes late let me start the shoe action starts giving a shoe another reason is they brought a completely different incense meaning the Hashem gave a specific instruction set of what kind of incense to give you have it in your uh well have it in their you just read it a little while ago from we get it from Exodus The Specific Instructions of the what you supposed to do what you're not supposed to do how much who what when and how and if you mess it up death penalty in essence who got a death penalty for it every day you read it you you reading about who you're reading about every day we're reading about a sin what they're saying if he messes it up both say death penalty who's going to get death penalty for this oh you exactly to teach you that if a was so stringent with the needless to say he's going to be strict on the ones that are the small ones why the can say listen we have many many merits that should justify okay we messed up once this guy this little guy barely even learns he has no marriage kill him for nothing so here we learn in this another lesson is like listen if Hashem is going to judge the righteous that are doing everything right except one thing so strictly needless to say no one no one can escape his sin his judgment and it says in the book of Samuel chapter 2 verse 14 it says God spares no one let the king therefore Ponder thoughts so that no one be banished from him hm does not want to destroy anyone but he has to make sure that you know no one is spared no one not the Jew not the Gentile not the adult not the child no one there are sins in the Torah that are forbidden for everyone one example is causing other people to sin doesn't matter if you're a Jew or a gentile you cause other people to sin you have a very serious problem with a Col another example is wasting seed wasting seed is a sin that says that even a child before Mitzvah he's 11 years old he gets punished for it yeah but he's only 11 he's before Mitzvah yeah the other MIT this one from birth well how is he going to waste it if he has no sperm well you have to think about the question before you ask I'm saying but he can still commit the ACT how though he it's like saying I commit an act of flying without having wings no but I'm saying the person then he didn't waste seed sin is wasting seed sin is wasting seed now a person needs to know that does not want to punish you in essence Heat created you in order to give you a reward and the punishment for a person that sins is because in essence when a person sins he causes hem to not be able to fulfill his will which is to reward you so the punishment is because you caused theem not to be able to reward you that's how much he wants to reward you but if a person makes such sins then the Torah says no one will be spared no one now and were giants but say they made some mistakes which many of them to us would seem like not even a mistake they decided to bring a incense offering but it wasn't exactly the same formula wasn't exactly the same formula as what said why he said V listen I know there's a way to do things but we want to make it extra nice for for I know there's a a way to pray but I want to pray extra nice for I wna you know do it during sh I want to do a uh at time of I want to do I want to pray on the beach even though everybody else is naked I'm going to pray on the beach to bring K to the beach I want to go do kiru at a nightclub where there's everybody's naked I want to do kiru over there who asked you to do K like this who asked you to pray like this who asked you for this incense offering there's instructions why didn't you follow the instructions we'll get to that they also did not get married say because they figured in reality let's look at our life nobody can marry them why who has the like them who has the the lineage like them their father is the first all theim the real ones that are still left in this world are all his descendants anyone that is going to be absolved from sin when they build a third bet mikdash guess what has to meet why is gonna bring the and springle sprinkled everything is gone you're gonna get to meet that's his kids people get impressed by uh pictures they take with Donald Trump's kids oh look I took a picture with uh whatever their names are or some other celebrities kids because the guy made a movie or the guy has a million billion dollars or the guy's a president of something people got so impressed by people's kids guess what they are's kids and if that's not enough their Uncle ISU the one that we just talked about earlier is not even full man is isim they called them men of God not Shalom is's God like the Christians men of God meaning AEM put him in a different level different class that even his wisdom did not match but there was no competition why he's missing only one thing from God who can understand such a thing if we had one out of the 4050 it would be good he's missing one if we have one we're already good so they said who we're going to marry father Aon Uncle Moshe and if that's not enough our Aunt Miram she's a prophet she's one of seven prophets mentioned in the Torah as women nobody has nobody has like us my father's a rabbi my uncle's a rabbi he wrote a book he wrote a book he wrote this he has a he has a he has he has a lot of different things I can't fight the right girl why what what you gonna tell me that I father's a rabbi your father's a rabbi good for you my father's what's the my father's so they didn't get married because of this today we have a crisis they call it a shid crisis why because of the silly stupid things that people put into their head of thinking that no one is good enough for them I heard this recording in a show a religious show where even the uh the interviewer was I don't agree with some of the things he said but he's nonetheless comes from family he was baffled he was talking to a modern day sh this is just a few months ago maybe less even a month and a half ago and interviewing her and she was telling him what's going on in the religious world of shim it says the best of students the best of students best are telling them how and who to marry based on what what looks who her father is um what what who our brothers are what what what what are the Bas on what how much money they have to give Excuse me yes you sure this is a religious people the most religious if he's the best top student million dollars or million shekels million sheckels million shekels million dollars same thing for somebody living in Israel because if he's the best student best what his father's probably also a best student and if his father's the best student he's probably making also 2,000 shekels a month he's also probably poor as dirt and if he has 10 kids he has to be Donald Trump to marry them if he's the best student a million the family of the girl has to have a million shekels to give him if he's second best 800,000 if he's not so much 400,000 that's like he's like half meaning that if a guy has 10 daughters don't marry them why you have to be a billionaire you have to be have a billionaire if you have if you have 10 daughters you have to be a billionaire to marry those 10 daughters away because it's the family of the girl that has to give the have to make why do you need to be a millionaire to be the most they're turning into prostitutes but who is this by it's not the families that are pushing for this the family is just agreeing because they don't know better it's the they say says every time I get a real where it's going go smoothly and it's top dollar I know where it's from says what do you mean you know where it's from I know that the daughter is A's daughter he says how could it be how what do you mean the's daughter is able to pay this insane prices for this future husband she says yes how because apparently the they getting rich off of this so when you give money to a call unless you know who it is and what it is just so you know a good portion of the money goes to the doesn't necessarily go to the it's if this not what is not crisis if this not crisis what is you have to be you want to marry somebody good but no no he can't be good he can't learn at a top level without being a millionaire where do you see this in the Torah if the mashia doesn't come soon I have no idea if he's gonna have anybody to save so unfortunately they thought they came from this generation apparently a little bit CU they didn't want to marry anybody yes another aspect of what failed at say is that looked again at Moshe andon as yes we love you yes you mhe beston best but when are you going to die so we could take over who knew this they didn't go out there and say listen guys Moshe is the best right my father is the best right but don't you kind of wish they're gonna die they didn't say that what do you think they went and said that no so how do we know knows what's in your heart knows what's in your heart you're looking ab ab ab I can't wait till he die I have your inheritance looked at M and and says you're in my way I'm already big I'm already strong I'm already I want to take over you're in my way when are you gonna die even you know I'm good even you said I'm they forgot where they stood person who knows this place they forgot their place says that when they decided to bring the incense offering on their own they've committed a sin of deciding an in front of the rabbis somebody ask the rabbi a question and somebody else answers Tora says death penalty Heavenly death penalty if somebody asked the rabbi a question you're not all it's not a matter if you shouldn't answer it you're not allowed to answer it why it's not a matter of whether you know or you don't know no one's testing your knowledge but if you answer the question even if you answer it right you're bringing a death penalty to your life from heaven why because you are disrespecting the rabbi because the people that are getting the answer instead of thinking I asked the question I got the answer thank you very much this is a great place it's a great shield no they're not going to think that they asked the question you answered they're gonna say wow that Rabbi is pretty lucky that guy answered for him the rabbi is lucky the guy answered for him why obviously he didn't know so Hashem didn't want him to be embarrassed so he sent him this guy to answer the question he sent him this girl to answer the question terrible situation disrespecting hasem soldiers not a good idea RAB elzar RAB Shimon hos I'm sorry hos says that this type of sin is what hasm killed for they decided in front of their rabbis yeah but the rabbis weren't there m wasn't thereon wasn't there so what are you talking about yeah but everybody's going to know that they Moshe and didn't allow them to do it they didn't say to go do it and they decide to violate it which is in essence the same thing the last two and then we'll get to the ultimate point of what it has to do with and where we're at if somebody says that they came into the KES kesim without getting a haircut and theim had a specific commandment of how they're supposed to look how often they have to cut their hair what kind of clothes to wear and so on where each one if you don't do it death penalty and they were too busy to get a haircut like some people say about the RBI why he never cut his hair some say because he took on himself the but that doesn't really make much sense because every morning his breakfast was two uh grapes and a milk and a nazil doesn't eat grapes or drink wine some say he had a special tun from heaven where even cutting his hair hurt him he had so much pain in his body especially towards the latter part of his life that cutting his hair hurt him so he never cut his hair and some say he was so into T he just never had time I kind of lean on the last one he was so busy with to he never had time it's very likely that also never had time why you're two of giants among the generation imagine there's millions and millions of people and you are one of a few that are the leaders your schedule must be swamped who even has time to to get married who has time to get a haircut who has time to eat and sleep so you probably didn't have time Hashem has rules you didn't get a haircut that's enough for him to and last but not least it's the most common reason because the very next section in this Paras after die is AEM commanding Aon not to become intoxicated by wine so kazal says that because this is connected to the death of nadav from there we learn that the sin of nadav is that they drank wine before they went into Kash that's not allowed says I'll kill you if you do it we understand now I learned from was the son of theam and he goes into this Su into this question what really happened here why were ask why were really killed for drinking wine why would they killed to for drinking wine I mean why were they drinking wine let's asked the question before the question why do they drink wine they drank wine because they wanted to fulfill the mitvah with happiness they wanted to fulfill the Mitzvah with happiness because we we learn from that hem one of the reasons why he punished and punishes us today is because we fulfill his mitv but without happiness we do it but like eh we don't really feel like it all right Shabbat again or like I heard in the store I heard a lot of things in this store I don't know why every time I go to the store it's like a tun I go to the store two women are chitchatting yelling and screaming at the teller of the store why why are you screaming ah why' you guys make a whole aisle for PES you're bringing PES too early on us it's PES P not complaining the holidays a month from now they're already complaining about now we celebrate but unfortunately we're not so happy part of the reason by the way why some people are so unhappy is because they don't know how to celebrate the mitvah the right way for example just as a side note part of the reason why a lot of women hate PES is because of the cleaning but it's not really because of the cleaning it's not really because of the cleaning because if they knew the real of cleaning for p they wouldn't be so unhappy because they would complete their cleaning no more than two days maximum two days all cleaning for all PES I don't care how big your house is two days max how right some houses one day all day but finished some women spent a month cleaning the house I heard some person that's I don't know I don't know whether he's a rabbi or not but he gave his shield in Hebrew and somebody sent it to to me and uh I had to correct him because what this guy was saying was complete nonsense he was saying how do you koser your uh stove and your dishwasher and he says oh your stove you have to uh take a uh you have to clean it take a uh because you can't uh technically make the the stove you can't clean because the there's taste on it but the taste gets destroyed so in essence if it's let's say a pot if it's a pot that had non nonos P food in it the way that it absorbs the uh the actual uh uh not during the year is the way you would clean it so aart the way it absorb it is from heat so the way to clean it is with fire but if let's say for example it's a uh let's say a plate then you would do it hot water water but with the uh stove stove top the grill part you can't heat it because it goes on heat all the time anyway so just for the sake of uh stringency you put it into really boiling water if you want you want you pour really boiling water on it in your uh kitchen sink or whatever it is but he went above and beyond that in essence even if you don't do that you're fine because it gets burned constantly anyway it never has time to absorb any of the T any of the on it throughout the whole year because it gets burned immediately when the sauce falls on it it gets burned immediately so it never actually has taste and anything that does not have taste or has bad taste that even a dog wouldn't eat it is not considered not not nothing it's considered zero it's considered garbage but he went on to to say that it's not even enough to do this extra KRA what are he saying you have to clean it with Q-tips clean it with Q-tips and also clean your dishwasher the the bands the rubber bands inside clean a dishwasher bands with Q-tips like you're supposed to he says yeah which book is this which p is this Shalom was not lenient about it at all never said such a thing all the thing Q-tips to the to what are you talking about he says put a special chemical in the dishwasher what special chemical what are you talking about we you could put gasoline in there the so you put into the dishwasher is enough why because like I said it destroys the taste of anything that's in there that even if there's a whole loaf of bread inside your dishwasher after one wash it's not edible it's no longer considered a loaf of bread it's no longer considered because it's not edible anymore a dog wouldn't eat it it's full of soap it's disgusting but people hate P cleaning why because they clean too much no one says nothing clean but you have to know what you're supposed to do what you're not supposed to do I highly recommend if you're spartic even if you're a skazi to subscribe to I think it's it's called Uh he sends you one every day and it discusses this stuff and every other in regards to specifically the timing of the year and it gives you the bottom line if people only knew the basics of the mitv they would love Judaism because because the reason why most people become anti-religious is because of these minim that are not really minhagim it's the extras that some crazy person invented to make themselves look righteous and then he told everybody else if you don't do this then you're R and in reality it's not even it's like said listen you have to give for salt so if you're going to clean for PES learn what you're supposed to do do what you're supposed to do nothing extra nothing more nothing less if we only did that we much easier time to clean much easier time to do everything Judaism is not even hard if you want to do it it's only hard if you're not doing it right now wanted to fulfill a mitvah extra what extra they said listen we wanted to make aah bring the the the incense offering to The KES and we're going to be happy during this mitvah why because hm says if you don't perform a Mitzvah with happiness it's no good so we're going to be happy how we G have a nice nice little wine wine of those days all you need is a shot you're done hasem killed him for it but the says the following he says wait a minute what did they do after all they drank wine to fulfill a Mitzvah better is that a reason to punish somebody that they're trying to do better is that a reason to punish somebody that he's trying to do kiru at a nightclub because nobody else is doing kiru he's trying to pray at a nude beach no one else is do is praying at a nude beach so what he's trying to do a mitvah no gives us an answer of answers is telling while killing them a lesson that we need to learn why are you using external things in order to become happy doing my mitv why are you smoking marijuana to become elevated spiritually like draso says why are you drinking a few drinks of alcohol before you go to synagogue to get into it why are you going into the middle of nowhere to get close to me who says you need to why do you need to do all this external stuff to enjoy the Mitzvah the Mitzvah itself should be enough if you know how to do it the Mitzvah itself should generate an endless amount of Joy by itself if you're doing it right the fact that you are using external remedies in order to elevate yourself means that not only are you not who you think you are but you're not who you're supposed to be because you don't even understand the basics of fulfilling my MIT which if you did you would enjoy them just by themselves without adding any fruits without adding any roses without adding any special dances just by itself the fact that you're adding something external means that you are not enjoying the mitvah you're enjoying the external remedy and you're blaming the mitvah for your externals you're justifying your smoking kashish by doing a Mitzvah while you're doing it you're justifying going to the beach by praying there what is that like somebody goes to a he says am I allowed to smoke a cigarette in synagogue he says are you crazy what kind of generation do we have okay okay I just want ask want to ask sorry Rabbi I didn't know I just want time I'm new here it's Frist then that's how you ask a question that's how you ask a question let me show you ask a question Rabbi Rabbi yes when I'm smoking a cigarette am I allowed to pray yeah of course what a generation we have even when they're smoking cigarettes they want to pray to why this guy asked the question this guy asked the question in Ence they both ask the same question but this one maneuvered the question because he already know what kind of answer he wanted a couple went to and said I want to get help from you for bite he's this she's that he hates her she hates him they don't want to get divorced because they have kids so please rab you help a lot of people please help us help us help us okay okay let's start talking talking talking eventually says first time in his life I quit why he says because I discovered that your wife she not looking for a rabbi she's looking for somebody that agrees with her and as soon as I don't agree with her I'm not going to be the rabbi anywhere so I might as well quit while I'm ahead sometimes you ask a rabbi a question but you're not asking the question you just want to see if the rabbi agrees with your predisposition with what you already think what you already want if he says yes you're giving yourself a nice look yeah RAB I knew that I just wanted to check I wanted to check if what I was thinking was right like making yourself like as if you're extra righteous why not only I asked the rabbi but I already knew and I want to check myself if I really knew in reality in reality if the rabbi would have told you you're completely wrong in fact what you're saying is it's heresy okay thanks Rabbi yeah listen this Rabbi has no idea what he's talking about I think he's as not only I think he's as I think he's as and K and yes he doesn't know he's we gotta find a new Rabbi this Rabbi we gotta fire him we got to fire him you got to put him on block we got to complain to YouTube we got we got to put make a p you know what I'm doing a page on him right now what happened what happened yes nobody's talking what he gave you an answer he didn't like was the answer from the tah so you don't like the tah but you blame the rabbi sometimes that's what people are I had a few students like this I had the Merit to have some students like this where they agreed with everything that I said one of them was a whole family Bon M for a while the chip on my shoulder got bigger than it could possibly be why they started they hailed me as if I was mashia himself for a second I had to ask myself are you really mashiach no you really mashiach no you really mashiach no then I ask a f mashia goes no I said okay I'm not mashia but they said mashia this family says yeah they're a little crazy they're excited about you they're like the way you talk so I felt like I was mashia for a little while when did it stop the one time not many times one time one time I mean I must have given them I don't know how many answers for for everything anything you possibly imagine I was like R by Google question answer question answer question answer slite answer this pump answer answer answer answer answer answer non-stop answer one time they asked the question and the answer wasn't to their likings why because says that what they did is wrong what they did is wrong so what I say you're right no you're wrong I turned into antus oh how much hatred I mean I I had Wall Street enemies nicer than them unbelievable why cuz the whole time they were playing me like they were playing themselves thinking I'm the rabbi when in reality all I'm doing is just agreeing with them because they happen to read the answer before they ask and just want to see if I know it that's all it is or the answer that I gave them agreed with their logic what I said agreed with them so they said okay this makes sense okay I'll do it but the minute it didn't make sense the minute it disagreed with their ego finished this is what happens when a person lets his ego in the way what was really their sin here what was really their sin drinking wine you really think hasem is going to kill two of for drinking wine when in reality they're drinking wine for the sake of the Mitzvah okay so they were wrong of how to practice this mitvah but hem is gonna kill you for it no before I give you the answer I'm going to give you an understanding I learned from of how deep this is that what happened here with the so-called mistake of drinking the wine and hasem killing them for it is no different than what happened with Jesus no different all right before they put me on a cross right now I learned this from my Rob so I'm allowed to say it the page 107b is a story about Jesus in today's modern garot many of them was censored so his name was removed but anyone that has the old gar that just knows what they're talking about knows that this is one of the handful of places in the gar that talks about him and the gar talks about the story of Jesus and what happened to him which all started when him and his Rabbi RAB Yeshua Baka went back to aanya is a place where they were going on the way back home they fleed the country because people were being killed in the streets but then when they got news that the killing stopped they started going back and on the way back they stopped at a place called and paraka was one of the Giants of giants among our nation of all time not just of his generation he is the sixth in our M meaning he's one of the zot before the the rabbis of the rabbis of RAB AKA we talking about couple Generations removed from David a few Generations removed from mosu there's a night and day difference it's a few hundred years after alai we're not talking about this is a uh last year couple thousand years ago only well you guys remember that far so sees the place itself is beautiful the way they're treating them is very nice and accommodating and he says to his student oh how beautiful is this and yes Jesus says bie what beautiful her eyes are circular around like a sheep she's ugly the rebi looks at him he says this is what you think of get out of here throws him out throws him out he comes back Jesus comes back one time throws him out again doesn't let him in comes back again throws him out again he want to see if he's serious about his Chua so the third time he would come back he was planning on accepting him but Jesus had such a huge ego that he wanted to come whenever he wanted to come and he came while yes was doing which we know from you're not allowed to talk during you not talk to unless you have a somebody's gonna kill you a king walks in says a king walks in and you know this King if you don't say hi to him he's gonna kill you you're allowed to uh talk you're allowed to say hello to him if a snake goes on your leg not allowed to talk why because a snake is not going to kill you 100% of the time sometimes they're not venomous but if a squir scorpion goes on your foot you have to talk you have to move you have to do something why because scorpion they're always poisonous there specific Al in regards to one you're allowed to talk not needless to say when some Joo come says Hey Rabbi you want to come back you're have to stop but he knew that this is the third time so when he was doing he couldn't talk but he didn't want him to run away so he went like this to him with his hand like wait a second yeah yesu didn't like this thought that he's rejecting him again and ran away and decided he's going to declare war on the rabbis he's going to declare war on the rabbis that's the story says because what happened really here you really think the yesu threw out one of his students for looking at a girl a lot of guys look at girls you don't get thrown out of Isa for looking at a girl doesn't say if your student looks at a girl he throw him at Yesa especially somebody in that generation Jesus until that point was actually he had a lot of potential became that has no no share of the world to come no end to his gay but he had a lot of potential so how do you just throw somebody like that out why because you looked at a girl a lot of people so what's really theat here here what's really theat says this he says look said look how beautiful this is and Jesus said she's ugly meaning that Jesus in his mind he figured he's saying how beautiful is this so he must not mean how beautiful this place is because I don't care about how beautiful this place is he must mean how beautiful is the woman running this place why because I think that he means the woman because I'm thinking about the woman and the rabbi is just like me why he's human I'm human he has a brain I have a brain he puts his pants one leg at a time I put my pants one leg at a time so I'm going to answer the question I think he's asking me meaning how beautiful is this place what are you talking about she's ugly she looks like a sheep so yesu was telling him what you're looking at a woman it's not that the woman is the problem is that you think I'm like you you think that the rabbi is like you you think the rabbi thinks like you because you are weak you think I am weak because you don't know you think I don't know because you're struggling with your you think I'm struggling with your for that that means you're not my student that means we have no connection that means we have nothing you've learned nothing from me because you think I'm just like you and if you think I'm just like you if you think you're just like your Rabbi guess what he's not your Rabbi because your rabbi has to be somebody you look up to to an extent that you know you will never be like him ever he might as well be like mhu to you if you think he's like you and thinks like you and acts like you and gets angry because of the same reasons you get angry he's not your Rabbi so he threw him out why you're not my student there's no point I can't teach you anything because anything that I teach you you think I'm learning at the same time anything I tell you you think I'm telling you it's don't we're the same thing we can't learn together why did Jesus get to such a point because his ego did not allow him to think that anyone else is more than him if he thinks a certain way so does everybody else this was nadav did not sin because of the wine per se hasm did not kill them because of the wine it's the thought that goes into it it's the ego it's the Gava that was behind all of the actions that everybody mentioned when it came to the wine they figured we have to honor hasem yeah we're not allowed to honor hem with wine but that's for everybody else we'll figure out a way yeah it says you're not let to drive on Shabbat but we'll put a sticker on the little golf cart and say it's koser for Shabbat why we'll find a way to figure out what AEM we know like from from California he's tells the people you want to know what's K or not just ask me don't look at the label here has a whole web page about this he tells people just ask me what's K don't look at the label meaning that every single person that's following him right now is going to get for p every single one of the people that follows him is going to get death penalty after death penalty the entire P why he says don't look at the label I'll tell you if it's kosher not only kosher Kosher for p it's bad enough you tell them if it's kosher or not Kosher without a label throughout the whole year needless to say it's much worse for p because if you violate kosher laws during the whole year it's horrible but not death penalty if you violate K on P it's death penalty it's correct it's coret no he's got big shoulders he's got big should takes everybody's car on himself says you missed the point with all the Torah that you have with all of the uncles and the father that you have you missed the point you had an ego that was too big you decided that you're going to do things your way not allowed to drink wine before you go into Kash you said you're gonna drink wine why because you're using it for mitvah you're using mitvah so therefore it's allowed you're not going to get married why because nobody's good enough for you nobody's good enough for you you're not going to get married you forgot that you're still human you forgot that your Torah is worthless without a wife you forgot that a man cannot fulfill theah the first without a wife you forgot that a wife is the reflection she's the reflection she's going to either help you or destroy you based on how you treat her based on what your tah you have you cannot fulfill the will of hem being single for all those guys that are delaying their wedding delaying their because they want to learn more mistake of mistakes why that's not that's not says the Torah that you learn before before uh you get married is almost worthless in comparison to the Torah you learn after you get married almost worthless in practicality and spirituality but where does it come from big ego that's also the reason why instead of saying when are the going to die they said when the are gonna die so we could take place instead of what maybe we should ask the what they think of what we just did maybe we should ask the maybe we should ask the rabbi what we should do maybe we should ask the rabbis what we can do you're celebrating that their uncle that your father that the rabbi you go to the sh everything why don't you ask him some questions and listen to what they say not what you want to hear but you can't why because the root of all ego is the fact that you don't want to listen to anybody the people that don't want to follow tah because they claim to know too much they don't know too much in fact they usually don't know anything they don't know anything they just know enough to get them a death penalty but they don't want to listen to anybody because their ego won't let them because they can't allow themselves to think that somebody else read the same book as them but got a lot more out of it they think that they read the book and the rabbi got the book they both have the same book therefore they arrived at the same conclusion this is 100% ego and it's as far from the truth as possible you could read thear anyar you pick a thousand times your Rabbi is going to read it a thousand times it's not the same it's not the same it will never be the same why he's the rabbi gives him to make him the rabbi assuming and so on and so forth you're never going to be like him why that's why he's the rabbi you may be a you may be great but everybody needs to have a rabbi and if you do not have it's only because you have ego instead a made the mistake of their letting their ego in the way to the extent where they thought that because they're related to mosu anden therefore they could be their own rabbis they lost the right to live because of that thought because everything they did was based on that thought whether it was deciding to bring their own incense because they figured they could do it better or the wine because they figured they could do it better or bring the incense at a specific time because they could figure out a better way than Moshe if Moshe didn't bring it he must have forgotten so we'll help him out why don't you go ask Moshe if he forgot why do you think he forgot because you would have forgotten what makes you think that he would make the same AK as you why do you think he's like you ah because your ego because your ego thinks that everybody's like you and if you don't know it it's just because you didn't get to it yet but if you both study the same book the same Yesa same everything else everything you be on equal grounds wrong wrong a student that thinks is rabbis like him is not a student in fact he has to look for Rabbi he has to immediately exit that relationship and look for Rabbi why because the first aspect of make yourself a rabbi it says make yourself a rabbi which Yeshua said in M make yourself a rabbi meaning make yourself a rabbi make somebody get somebody that's you idolized this is a person you look up to if you're going to make something you're not going to make make something like you you're going to make something better than you that's who your Rabbi should be and then find yourself a buy yourself a friends get yourself go buy something just like you why you can get in every store but the rabi that you get has to be somebody better has to be somebody better than you why that's the only type of person you can learn from if he's not better than you if you talk to him like you talk to one of your friends he's not your rabbi when they decided to do every move that they made it was all based on Gava it was all based on their own judgment and the way all of this connects to our shu is that when you have GAA when you have pride just like is the cure for Spiritual cancer is the Kryptonite for you cannot have in so long as you have GA why because by default means you believe in something greater than you you believe that a is greater than you and can do things better than you and does things better than you directly and indirectly through his Rabbi or through a million other enemies that you may have whatever it is runs the world and you submit to him Pride does not allow you to submit to anybody not the rabbi not the enemy not the friend not your wife not your best friend and not not even so if you want to get to the next chapter of You Must Destroy All inklet of Gava because if you have Gava you have this Pride any you think you have is fake because when push comes to shove you're not going to really believe it you're going to believe small little things you're going to blame on it but in reality you're rationalizing iton is in essence something that comes as a result of you submitting to something greater than you you're submitting to a greater power you're submitting to the fact that you don't know and he does this was the mistake of this was also the mistake of they got another chance the mid says that they both came into the into the body of p p why because they really meant for sh it was ego they meant well but did wrong Jesus on the other hand got his chances here and failed anyway he got his chances here he didn't get killed right away like he was supposed to he got his chances multiple chances and still no and even after he got he ran away from his Rabbi Yeshua parak on the third time Yeshua the one of the biggest people that ever lived in history went to him chased him down found him sinning with everybody with girls with boys with people people all types of garbage the worst of the worst found them in the gutter says come on do chva he says no Raba you told me that somebody that makes other people sin can't do chuva I'm not going to do it oh you using an excuse oh you going to use the excuse of what I taught you now now you want to listen to me as a rabbi before you want didn't want to listen to me as a rabbi but now all of a sudden you might tell me all of a sudden you going listen to what I said you pick and choose pick and choose that's what you have gained them from forever any questions yes questions why doab that Jesus because there isn't no we talking about evidence outside of the the the Christians and the uh missionaries sometimes are Jewish they their biggest argument with the tah is not the written tah even though they don't follow the written tah either but they claim that they have a case against the sages which means the oral tah um so this is a technically a argument for a couple of reasons number one the written Torah would not be legible or understandable uh if it's not for the oral tah because the oral tah has many parts one of them being the Nik The Vow systems which if it's not for The Vow system you would not even know how to read a single verse in the so imagine reading Moses without having the vowels of AE I O U instead of Moses you would get miss you wouldn't be able to to read a single word a single sentence without the vow system that's part of the oral toah but the other reason why it's ridiculous that they don't want to believe in the oral toah is because the oral to is actually the only real evidence the only real evidence that mentions a person by that name uh at the time that he lived all of the other things that mention Jesus are biased and not at the time that he lived meaning the first time it's he's mentioned by anybody is the New Testament and the New Testament wasn't written at the time Jesus was alive It Was Written between 70 and 300 years after he died meaning that the authors of the Testament never knew him never saw him and in essence they're relying on Word of Mouth of what happened they never actually saw it they were relying on whatever nonsense they were relying and in essence they're saying that he existed and all the stories but they have no proof that he even existed if they don't use the talud if they don't use thear so when Christians today say they don't believe in in AAR it's only because thear obligates them and people are stupid and don't realize what just told you and they think that you can believe in Jesus without believing in the oral Torah so as far as that is concerned yes ra mrai and anyone else that says it 100% right there is no other proof of Jesus's existence at the time he lived other than the gar other than the mishna this is actually a mishna that mentions him not even AAR which preceded thear so the uh the fact that it's a uh they don't believe it it's just because they themselves don't really know very much they don't know history they don't know the the lineage uh and they don't even know the authenticity of their own document uh as far as whether he existed or not according to our Torah and sages he did exist uh but he was a rash according to their to the Christians and the missionaries and so on uh the Messianic Jews they call themselves uh he uh did exist but he was righteous obviously were Worlds Apart so if you actually look at objective evidence you're never going to arrive at their conclusion you're never going to arrive at their conclusion I like a private investigator that let's say tries to like solve the murder of Jesus is never going to arrive at their conclusion you're only going to arrive at their conclusion with what we call Blind Faith blind stupid deaf and dumb that's the only way you're going to arrive at that conclusion and that's proven by two billion Christian people in the world today that not a single one of them that actually believes in Jesus ever read the entire old testament which is what we call the Torah and you know with actual real commentary why because anyone that actually reads the Torah with real commentary understands what it says by default will never believe that it ever had a continuation called the New Testament because it contradicts it it can never be but that's the problem so people rely on their Reverend on their popes on their pastors on to help them uh to to get to this false conclusion because the is very very powerful and fools the fools large quantity of people but if you're looking at objective evidence you're never going to find it you're never going to get to Christianity other way objective evidence is only going to let you arrive at the Torah but unfortunately the people that disagree with this know a lot about a lot of other things but zero about the Torah zero about Tor so I give you an example about maybe a month or two ago I had somebody that wanted me to sort of debate somebody else and somebody else claims to be a Yesa former Yeshiva Bak former Yeshiva Baku and he had a lot of questions and he's an atheist and he's this and he's that and uh within the first three questions everything that he mentioned in toah was wrong everything that he mentions in the toah was wrong so said this can't be so then the other guy told listen I gave him some ERS and he's like no but I don't agree I don't this he goes listen why don't you listen to the rabbi he knows he knows he knows what he's talking about what are you talking about I went the for 15 years I finished three in or half of the or something like that I finished half the sh and I know uh I finished the T this and I responded to him I said wait a minute you're like waving a flag that you completed half the sh and you completed reading the Kash as if that's a lot who told you it's a lot that like what everything that you said is wrong he got offended we stopped the argument why because people don't want answers they want somebody to agree with them and as soon as they see that what they know is really not what's reality or that somebody else is calling their Bluff because he could say this to a lot of other people a lot of other people are going to say wow you finished half the wow you read the whole tanak wow you know a few Wow you went to for 10 years wow you're like a half you're like a full but that's uh no that's the thing people think that what they do is a lot in reality it's not most of us have no concept of what a lot means and even the people that learn a lot the more they learn the more they'll tell you they learn nothing the more they learn the more I'll tell you I just want to learn a little bit that's all I want Lear a little bit ask was on his deathbed still learning why are you learning you're on your death bed I just want to learn a little to I just want to learn a little to one time they uh sent people to his house to get a at a time that wasn't the time or something like that something happened that was like taking away a few moments of his time he complained to the people that brought them in he goes what do you want me to become an an ignoramus no the is is worried of become becoming an ignoramus why because you're gonna spend an extra three minutes of his time so you give somebody a somebody knew 60,000 books by heart that we know of so the people that really know will tell you they don't know much because the more you know the more you understand the breath of the Torah and you realize that even if you studied a million books a million books and you know all of them by heart you still know nothing you still don't even know the essence of the Torah the essence the essence not even the Torah itself Torah itself is not even available to mankind only mosu knows the Torah itself the rest of us got the essence of Torah and if you take a million books there's a few websites that have you know tens of thousands of books for free on it like Hebrew books.com and a few other places that have 50 60 70 880,000 books for free even if you know all those books in every website 80,000 here 50,000 there 100,000 there all of them by heart and then all the ones that you have to pay for you know all the books in a million books two million books by heart you know them you still don't know anything in comparison to the essence of the Torah so the people that think they know a lot usually are the ones that are the most ignorant and usually the ones that have the most amount of mistakes and also are always the ones that have the most amount of ego and least amount of next okay what's the response to that so it's interesting that by the question I know who the qu who the who the questionnaire is so I'll answer this once and for all so people understand the Z says that it is important for a woman to cover every single hair on her head every single hair on our head that's the zor it's not it's the is not where we get from comes from comes from the rabbis the sages now the Z also comes from the sages but we don't from the Z because if we did we wouldn't survive a week because some of the other the things that the Z says are simply impossible impossible for the average person to even even the high level person to live by impossible in any generation not just our generation so we don't you can do certain things that the say but you don't meaning you don't say this is what you're supposed to do why because what you're supposed to do is decreed by the sages now what is the power of the sages the asks a question what's the first bed that ever existed answer is the bed of mhu of mosu in two places does a mention theed of M in T and it says M Aon nadav and a that's the and the Seven elders and the 70 elders in a different place it also mens two other names but it again mentions the 70 elders mentions the 70 elders so the question is how come it mentions this is the first bedin meaning this is it there was never bed more powerful than this bed any bed that wants to change a law has to be greater than the bed that judged it meaning if a bedine today in Florida made a rule we're not allowed to make any new rules just so you know let's from their understanding of something and K complained and they don't like this rule in order for anything to be overturned they have to go to a bigger bed to overturn it what's a bigger bed you go to is go says they'll look at they'll review it if they agree with what you're saying they can overrule the B here why they're the bigger bed if the makes a law no one can overrule them why there's no bigger bed than them there's no B bigger bed than them so the only one that can overrule it is someone from a previous generation but that doesn't exist you have to go back in time which means that by default the biggest bedine that ever existed is the first bed of mosu so the asks okay if this B is the greatest of great and the best of the best how come we don't have the names we have good we have good good two other people good but how come we don't have the other 70 they're great says something amazing the says this is to teach you you meaning you here year 2019 according to the or 5779 according to the Jews to teach you that the Torah already knew that you're going to come here with your questions and you're going to say wait a minute in a time of mosu they said don't drive on Shabbat because Moshe didn't have a car they said Don't wear a wig because no one had any wigs back then they say don't do this don't do that because of this but the reality is at the end of the day they had mhu as the bed that as theed they had that great so this Rabbi over here what is he M this RAB over here what is Theon this RAB over here no nobody if I hadu they not listen to them but I don't have M so I'm not gonna listen says Ah this is why AEM left the 70 unnamed because you can say yes no other generation is going to haveu no other generation is going to have but how can you say that no generation is going to have the 70 elders if you don't know who the 70 elders are maybe you do have maybe this Rabbi over here is like one of the 70 to teach you that any bed comprised in any generation must be treated as if it's the bed ofu himself which means once something is made as that's what you go by you don't go by something that's not Al so as much as everybody from kabad and other places of would like to pitch the Z as a place that that's the reason why they wear a wig it's a complete lion fabrication and desecration of the T and the sages why number one if they know that they should know that the sages did not make that which means they're not allowed to make it number two if they're going to go by the zor for the for for the hair how come they don't go by the zor for everything else are you gonna pick and choose you're gonna pick and choose then you have a serious problem why thear says if you're gonna pick the leniencies of bet Shai and bet and the stringencies of you are a fool and a blind person person you're not allowed to do such things like this you can't just pick and choose like this you have to go with the says this this is what we go by so the reality is you cannot wear a wig because the Z says to cover all your hair and even more so you have to look at what the is and what is the AL the is that you're allowed as a woman to show up to three finger fulls of hair you're allowed to show up to three finger fulls of hair meaning that even if you wear your like I wear my and you show three finger fulls of hair like this you are 100% kosher of course if you want to be more stringent in order to sanctify shem's name and reach even a higher level of Kusa and cover every hair like the zor kados says of course uh you know there's going to be merits in sham for you special uh special treatment for you in sham of course but that's not Al that is a stringency that you're taking on yourself fine but don't tell anybody else that that's that that's Al it's not it's why because that we have said that's not so don't go tell people no the weak is better because it covers all the it's not true it's not true why because the actual real Al is not to cover every hair and number two the real Al is not to cover the hair with a wig the real is to cover the hair with a the real is to cover the hair with a hat so you can't you know dip into the mik with a pig on your arms and say oh it's kosher it's kosher no no it's still a pig it's still a pig it was a pig before the mik it's a pig after the mik don't start creating things that you took the best of this and the worst of this and you made it kosher that doesn't work that way so for all of those people that want to make this excuse about oh it covers this it covers that that's a complete nonsense that goes against the sages goes against all of the goes against goes against it's not it's not the words of hm and that's the reality even the himself wrote in a letter I have it and I've provided to many people himself wrote in a letter he prefers MIT over wig but they're not going to publicize that letter why because that letter kills them so only few that want to know the truth know this the people that want to know the truth they found this they do it and that's why I have a whole Kila in a few places actually one place for sure in uh Seattle I think it is Another Place Another another location of kabik women that took off the wig and put on a because of what the laabi said not even because of me but I said it in his name why because that's the truth that's what Al is so as far as covering the hair yes you're supposed to cover your hair yes you're supposed to cover as much of it as possible ideally you'd cover every single hair but even if you don't cover every single hair you cover in essence 95% of it 97% of it you're still fine as long as it's with a if you're covering it with a wig you have multiple problems number one the wig is if it's a real wig it's impossible for you to know for sure that it's not coming from and with we go to we can't we cannot be lenient when when it comes to this something that's from the Tora you cannot be lenient you can't just say no no not all of them it's not 100% sure even if there's a SEF that it could come from already forbids all of them forbids all real hairwigs anyone that's a real P that really knows what they're talking about knows that you're not allowed to wear wigs the problem is how do you take tell this to every uh RAB raban how do you tell this how why who has to tell her her husband the rabbi and he doesn't want problems so it's a problem it's a very difficult thing but that's that's that's a reality the reality is everybody knows you not how to wear it for one reason or another second reason is aside from is the modesty issue today's wigs are not the same as the wigs that even the sages that said it's allowed like laichi or Ros Feinstein that said it's allowed they did not say that today's wigs are allowed the ones that they said that are allowed are clearly known as wigs seen as wigs the wigs of today look real more than real than real hair no one says those allowed nobody so anybody that says contrary is just simply not looking for the truth or doesn't know much of what they're talking about or mix of both but the point is is that if they're going to continue taking their life that uh leniently then most likely they have a lot of other problems also because if they're that lenient when it comes to that they're going to be a lot you know very lenient about other things that's just the reality you know so so it's a uh it's sad that it's a uh plague among the religious community today but it's not the only one there's many other things all of us have problems every household has a uh body in it everybody but you have to get rid of the at least the ones that are most obvious and everybody needs knows that they need to do cha if you do it you don't do it you you'll pay the Judgment what can I tell you what if the woman cuts off her own and but she doesn't but she doesn't it's asking it's asking you know it's asking a a a question that is a moot point it's like people that give the uh the uh the argument for example against a uh against um abortions you know when they give an abortion situation they tell people that you should have a uh you know the right to have an abortion right not to have an abortion and so on what is the argument that's usually given what's the right that you should right to be given says you you have to allow abortions because what if the woman is raped by her brother and uh and then the son looks exactly like him and this and that and they give like the most obnoxious example that's never going to happen and she's really homeless and she's missing a an arm and she's this and she's that and they give you an example that's not real example if you're going to give an example yeah you know give a real example women are not shaving their own head to put on their head for two reasons number one women love themselves way too much to shave their head so unless they're in specific very very unique and they're not shaving their head and the ones that are shaving their head in those kot are for sure not putting on the uh the their own hair why cuz they're putting on K they're shaving their head but they're putting a wig with k on it cuz that's their Min to shave their head so the ones that are shaving their head are not doing this and the other reason is they know it's fake they knows nonsense you're shaving your head to put your head on it so very few people are that vain to that extent there are some I even read an article uh of a woman that did it that shaved her own head to put put our own head on our head and it's completely ridiculous but uh listen everybody's got their own uh Judgment Day and everybody has to pay for it put it this way if you're putting on your own hair or anything on your head because you like the way it looks because that's what gets you attention by default it's not allowed why you putting your own hair why because you like the way your hair looks in the eyes of people not just yours because if you liked just the way it looks for you then you wouldn't care enough to to to shave it why you just cover it and then when you go home you look at the mirror you see your which in reality the wig is for other people to see not for you why because you don't look at yourself all day when do you look at yourself when you're home people don't walk around looking in a mirror all the time wow look great oh wow looking great they they don't walk with mirrors on both sides when you look at yourself you look at yourself usually when you're home when you're in the bathroom moments during a day if it's only for those moments that you need to look at yourself and see yourself in a certain way then wearing a hat should have no problem why because you only do that for the way other people look at you not for the way that you look at yourself way you look at yourself you want to look at yourself go to the bathroom look at yourself take off the okay put on which means that the wig is not for you regardless of what woman says it's for everybody else and what a you get as a result of how everybody else looks at you which by default makes it not Kosher by default forget forget everything else by default it's not koser why you're not supposed to do that you're supposed to attract the attention of other people men or women so again this is one of the cancers of the generation will continue helping women uh get rid of this cancer cure this cancer uh continue getting rid of these wigs continue getting rid of this a uh if it's not for one reason it's for another but quite frankly I care less I have Sometimes women that call me or send me messages about a completely different problem tell me listen I have a schom bite problem I have a kid problem I have a this problem one time I got a call for a woman I says listen I have a problem with my sister so okay what's the problem she starts telling me the problem with the sister with the shid and this and that said okay how did you get my number he goes oh uh I me and my family and all of us have been watching you for years so usually people watch me for years contact me once in a while one way or another they contact me I never heard from these people they've been watching me for two three years so I figured oh she said watching me for years me it's like superficially like once in a while they'll watch a clip or something like that like they know who I am but they don't actually do anything because I've been watching you for years and she shocks me she says my entire household my mom me and my other sister all of us took our wigs off and wearing because of so sometimes you affect people you have no idea you affected them you have no idea they even exist and I care less if they let it continue this way for all I care let them just continue being righteous and do the right thing but the point is is that the goal that we have is to continue bringing light where there's Darkness whether the darkness is in the UK or it's in America or it's in Israel or everywhere else that is we're going to bring light those that want the light will be attracted to the light and will absorb the light and take it those that don't don't we can do anything else K that's in the middle I mean it's a uh there's significance to everything but there is a there was a letter that was made extra big I think I believe it was a VAV a VAV somewhere in a par was bigger than what it was to symbolize that that VAV is in the middle of the entire toat 35,4 800 3485 letters so this is like literally the middle letter in the entire the entire Torah why this particular is in the middle of Tor versus other that I don't know the of any reason I do know that there is no beginning middle or end to the Torah meaning that the Torah is not necessarily in order like you're going to see many things in the Torah that happen now that actually are towards the end of the 40 years that we were in a desert and other things that towards the end of the tah that happened in the beginning of the 40 years to teach us that uh it's not an order it's not an order as far as history is concerned it's an order of where Hashem uh decided for it to be for different reasons but uh this uh usually there is more uh information that I know and I believe that's more discussed as far as when there's a a verse one next to the other or a paragraph one next to the other that is a li is a teachings that they're always connected in some way when they're right next to each other so for example we learned from one of the reasons why we know that their sin uh could have been the wine is because the very next thing that is discussed in this parasa after their death is the prohibition of drinking wine before going to pray right after it so from there we the the sages teach us that it's connected because that was what they failed at that was what they fail at next yeah like I said the the the prohibition of drinking wine is The Superficial uh way of explaining it meaning that that's what it's connected to it's not the first time that it's a uh that they knew every everybody knew the entire at Mount Si already day one but this is what the sages are using as connecting that's the Connecting Point that's the Connecting Point of this was what they did as far as the entire T entire T they learned in essence right away because we learned that for example Shabbat a week after we got T was the first Shabbat that was M was gathering the uh the trees and he got death penalty for it if we had to wait until they got until it's mentioned in the Tora the the Shabbat we we'd have a problem here why because when he was and we got Shabbat and by the time you learn Shabbat it may take him a few years to know all Shabbat so it's not in that type of order in essence what we have is a uh a to that Hashem wrote in a specific way uh knew in a specific way uh but as far as the um all of the laws they knew it the problem was not that they drank the wine the problem was what that they went against the the problems that they had they with all of their knowledge they still didn't get the point and the reason why is because their pride got in the way so that's why it says for example in the someone that has Pride you're not let to learn Torah from him why his Torah is not from Heaven he may know the entire by heart he may know the entire like you know the back of your hand but you're still not all to learn Torah from him why CU this Torah is not from Heaven it's from his own logic it's from his own uh his own thing his own that he doesn't actually believe the things that it says like I I saw an interview one time of a very famous actor uh in uh in is uh name is uh Z very very well-known actor in is made a lot of movies you're not allowed to watch and uh he is a he calls himself M traditional Jew his father was a big Rabbi in Morocco his family were very very religious people but he himself traditional what's traditional doesn't really keep uh all the things that you're obligated to keep he keeps the things that he wants to keep the holidays things like that Shabbat not not so sure he's keeping Shabbat as far as is a uh you know not so sure and so on and so forth his two daughters actually did CH became but the point is is that he grew up in a house where his father was a serious that was an expert in Morocco on dikduk dikduk is one of the most difficult subjects in the Torah why it's the language and not the language like just to read it it's the buildup of the language it's how words are built why this letter versus that letter why is this letter before this one it's a very very difficult very difficult and mind-numbing uh type of thing that for the most part most people don't know it like for example one of the one of his expertise is di like there's nobody in the world nobody in the world even the professors the experts the phds the Hebrew philosopher whatever you want no one in the world knows as much as he does it's unbelievable how his level of how he understands the language and why this word and why that word and and and all the different things now he so Z came from that kind of household where his father was an expert so him even at the age of like three four years old was already reading the tanak he's already reading the tanak as a little kid and he read the tanak I don't know how many times in his life and he still and he's still not keeping a lot of things why because he read it like a story book without real and understanding that this is all real this is all real like can get you not just the people in the story can get you to deep deep trouble to a point where you can have to eat your own child if you don't listen to him like it's real like it happened a bunch of times so when people read the Tor with G with ego they believe that the stories in the Torah are just stories that are relevant to other people to a different generation to a different people even to everybody else in that generation it's just everybody except me that's why such a person you're not let L off anything else we have the next you on Tuesday night uh thank you for learning with me next week we're going to continue this uh series next week we're going to continue with every person experiences times when his efforts are not only not don't help but actually cause him harm if this hasn't happened to you then you must be living in ganeden because sometimes it literally looks like what you're doing is hurting you not helping you and next week we're going to talk about that [Music] n n [Music] [Applause] [Music] n [Music]